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How can I turn him down without crushing him?

How can I avoid leading a guy on when he won't come out and state his attraction? [more inside]
posted by chocolatemilkshakes on Dec 14, 2012 - 28 answers

Crush with eyeliner

Could this all-consuming crush be due to either thyroid or peri-menopause hormones or something else besides a bolt of lightning? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 5, 2012 - 8 answers

Men are simple creatures, right?

He's just not that into you, yadda yadda yadda... or is he? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 25, 2012 - 21 answers

I have a crush on another woman. What do I do?

I (female) am developing a crush on one of the pottery instructors at the drop-in I've started going to. We're both in our mid-late twenties (she's slightly younger), and have chatted a little with one another, but not much about personal stuff. I would like to get to know her better, but I have no experience dating women, and no idea how to find out whether she's gay/bi and possibly interested - or whether this might be ill-advised given that she's there in a professional capacity. I'm super shy, and scared of making her uncomfortable by being more friendly (we're in Canada, and I'm European, so not totally in sync with local customs either). Help?
posted by anonymous on Nov 19, 2012 - 8 answers

Mountain out of a molehill: is this great crush-guy gay?

This Question Makes Me Feel Silly: I like him, think he likes me. . .but I honestly can't tell whether or not he's gay. Need advice on how best to handle clearing this up. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 1, 2012 - 39 answers

I need music that says, "Make a move on me already!"

Songs that say--"hey, come and get it already!" [more inside]
posted by araisingirl on Oct 30, 2012 - 44 answers

Oh, what a mess.

Supposed to be getting married to my long-term girlfriend, developing feelings for someone else, unsure of how to proceed. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 7, 2012 - 36 answers

Welcome to Big Brother: Office Edition.

Office Crush Filter: We work in a tiny office. Is this still worth pursuing? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 17, 2012 - 32 answers

Your stereotypical gay gym crush.

Can I approach my crush? How? What to say if I do? (slightly long) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 16, 2012 - 11 answers

How do I deal with the crush-induced awkward?

Have I done something wrong, and if so, how will I know? I haven't had a crush in so long that I'm not sure whether I'm behaving normally or not, and I don't know how to deal. Long, involved, and socially awkward inside. [more inside]
posted by windykites on Sep 5, 2012 - 15 answers

Crush bringing out my inner high schooler.

I have a crush on a pub trivia friend, and its bringing out the worst in me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2012 - 11 answers

A perfect storm of complications: acting on a crush on a shy coworker

Despite all advice to the contrary, I'm trying to get to know my shy coworker crush better -- have I made a hash of it? Or does it sound like I'm doing okay? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 23, 2012 - 36 answers

How to make a move on someone I've been waiting to approach?

How do I approach a castmate I've developed feelings for? We've been working on a show together for about a month, and I've developed an attraction to him. I immediately determined I should wait until the show closed to make any obvious moves, but I'm not sure how to do it. [more inside]
posted by lemoncakeisalie on Jul 21, 2012 - 35 answers

Do I need to platonically dump my platonic crush?

I'm having unhealthy feelings towards one of my best friends. Can I salvage this relationship, or do I need a clean break? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 3, 2012 - 13 answers

I love you so I can't see you anymore.

I've gotta stop having a crush on my friend or stop seeing her entirely. [more inside]
posted by OrangeDrink on Jun 14, 2012 - 44 answers

How to get my coworker to back off?

How do I get my coworker to back off and remain in the friend zone that he so desperately tried to put me in? Now that I don't want him, he wants me! He never told me about his girlfriend, brought her up one day, lied and said he broke up with her, and now he's in my face. I don't see him in that way anymore though. How do I get him to see that? [more inside]
posted by lastcall17 on Jun 10, 2012 - 18 answers

How to un-have a crush on a coworker?

I have a crush on my coworker. And an awesome partner who I am crazy about. How do I get rid of the crush? A few special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 1, 2012 - 13 answers

I ought to be... flattered?

She (possibly) likes me. I don't. Now what? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 20, 2012 - 29 answers

Crush Hooked Up With Someone Else

First things first: I am a gay female. I have had a crush on my friend for several months (also a gay female), however, being inexperienced at making first moves and being shy, I have been moving very slowly. I thought perhaps she felt something for me, but never made any overt moves. Recently she drunkenly hooked up with another girl (whom she had just recently met within the last 2 weeks and this was only the second or third day they had really hung out together) at a party. I am wondering if I have completely missed my chance, and what I should do. [more inside]
posted by christiehawk on May 19, 2012 - 22 answers

"Just tell him how you feel" - really?!

You're supposed to bite the bullet and tell someone how you feel -- because life is about risk and vulnerability and Going For It, I get that. But I also can't shake the feeling that by the time it gets to that point, it's already too late. Disabuse me of this notion (or not)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 8, 2012 - 27 answers

If music be the food of love, play on

I need suggestions for my "A million girls have a crush on you but I have one the most-est" playlist. [more inside]
posted by chocolatemilkshakes on May 8, 2012 - 29 answers

How to stay friends when there's a one-way crush?

Made a new friend, developed feelings that went unreturned. Now what? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 9, 2012 - 8 answers

Does he like me too?

Dear mefites, please share your wisdom. I have developed a crush on a guy I work with and I can't tell whether he likes me or not. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 28, 2012 - 36 answers

Setting Limits

I need help setting limits and protecting my feelings in friendships with men. [more inside]
posted by bearette on Mar 18, 2012 - 18 answers

how to tell if a shy guy likes you?

how can you tell if a sort of shy guy is into you? [more inside]
posted by happyjuice on Mar 18, 2012 - 30 answers

How to deter an unspoken crush without cruelty?

Awkward situation with male friend and obvious crush on me, though he will deny it up and down. What to do? [more inside]
posted by Hey nonny nonny mouse on Feb 13, 2012 - 58 answers

I feel like a boy crazy middle schooler all over again

I recently reconnected with a guy that I hadn't seen in ten years. (We were fourteen then, and we're twenty-four now). After getting some friendly drinks, I'm interested in pursuing things further. [more inside]
posted by ablazingsaddle on Feb 8, 2012 - 26 answers

I'm in love with a musician. How on earth can I let him know?

I'm in love with a musician. How on earth can I let him know? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 15, 2012 - 22 answers

I really really like him. But should I tell him?

I have a crush on my brother's roommate. I was going to tell him this, but... [more inside]
posted by dean_deen on Jan 11, 2012 - 17 answers

How to Really Get Over Someone

How do you really get over someone after you may have had something? Special, long details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 22, 2011 - 26 answers

I've made a huge tiny mistake

Should I run away from the job I just got because a to-be-coworker's wife is sending up danger signs? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 12, 2011 - 36 answers

How do you "out-reason" the lizard brain?

How do you "out-reason" the lizard brain? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 12, 2011 - 21 answers

How do I deal with limerence for a total stranger?

How do I deal with limerence for a total stranger? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2011 - 17 answers

Is it creepy to donate to charity with ulterior motives?

Is it creepy to donate to charity with ulterior motives? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 10, 2011 - 27 answers

How to stop a relationship going any further?

I don't want to date a girl who's really, really in to me, but I want to hurt her as little as possible. Plus, I'll see her at work! [more inside]
posted by Silentgoldfish on Oct 31, 2011 - 43 answers

How to avoid someone you're attracted to you know isn't good for you?

I am really attracted to someone I know I shouldn't be, when I'm not single and I know he is not the kind of person I should be interested in. We see each other almost every day of the week, and I'm in a new city with not many other friends. How can I find my way out of this feeling? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 21, 2011 - 22 answers

Tale of two Dudes.

Help me sort out this ridiculous dating situation. Please. [more inside]
posted by floweredfish on Oct 17, 2011 - 30 answers

Geometry of the Relationship Sense.

Love Triangle-type situation Filter: Halp! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 11, 2011 - 17 answers

Gossip or not Gossip?

Torn by conscience, did I talk too much? [more inside]
posted by easilyconfused on Sep 25, 2011 - 8 answers

"Hi! Next time you call your family, can you do me a favor?..."

I think I may have found a way of definitively finding a long-lost crush. Tell me if that's a bad idea. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 21, 2011 - 32 answers

How to let down someone who has a crush on me?

She has a crush on me. I don't feel the same way about her. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 19, 2011 - 19 answers

One more does he/doesn't he for the books...

[Dating Filter] Sh*t or get off the pot? (Metaphorically speaking!) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2011 - 18 answers

Crushing...just as painful as it sounds.

I have an embarrassing, painful crush on someone in my tiny grad school program. How to stop thinking about them in this way? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 11, 2011 - 25 answers

Turn up the A/C, baby.

I've got a huge crush on a friend. I'm pretty sure said friend likes me back. YES!! Caveat: We won't see each other until school starts in a month, and I want to make my move in person. How do I keep my twitterpated daze from eating up the last beautiful bit of summer while setting the groundwork for possible dating in the fall? [more inside]
posted by flawsekno on Aug 14, 2011 - 10 answers

How to handle a workplace connection in the midst of divorce and downsizing (in other words, when I am crazed with loss?)

Divorce, downsizing and dealing with a workplace crush/connection: how do I behave like a grown-up when all I want to do is curl up under his desk and cry? [more inside]
posted by Fierce clam on Aug 10, 2011 - 14 answers

Saw a guy at work on OkCupid, he seems cool--should I ask him out?

This is kind of a follow-up to this question about seeing people on OkCupid that one knows offline in some capacity. I have a similar situation but an added wrinkle: I work with my potential match. Is this a good idea to pursue him or not? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 29, 2011 - 16 answers

Songs like Melanie Safka's Brand New Key?

"I'm really enjoying Melanie Safka's Brand New Key right now for a particular mood I'm in. What other songs convey that angsty 'I really want to keep having hot sex with you, but you could care less' while being relatively upbeat?" asking for a friend. I never thought I'd say that, and I always thought it was baloney. [more inside]
posted by bilabial on Jul 29, 2011 - 16 answers

My optometrist is easy on the eyes. Crap.

My eye doctor brings in a new second doctor every once in a while, I guess to handle most of the menial check-ups. To my frustration, I have a crush on this current one. I'm due to visit the office one last time in a week or two. What then? YANMD, at least, I hope not. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 25, 2011 - 8 answers

Insight as to why this guy who is interested in me is acting nervous?

Why is the guy who appears to have a crush on me suddenly acting so nervous? Why isn't he contacting me more now that I have expressed interest? [more inside]
posted by sunnychef88 on Apr 28, 2011 - 70 answers

I'm 26 going on 14.

How can I act on this silly schoolgirl crush? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 4, 2011 - 16 answers

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