Stop the limerance! Alternatively, how do I get over someone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 2, 2009 - 21 answers

I met the most beautiful geeky girl I have ever seen or imagined. Help me get her out of my head, please. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 16, 2009 - 66 answers

I am a relationship tease or a welcome ego boost? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 9, 2009 - 34 answers

Angsty-crush filter: Should I do something like make a move on this guy? If not, how can I get this out of my mind and get back to my own life? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 22, 2009 - 25 answers

Will my inappropriate crush know? How do I keep it hidden? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 8, 2009 - 42 answers

How to stop married man from flirting when it's reciprocal? I'm a notoriously bad crusher. Even though almost everyone would describe me as a competent, sensible, self-assured and promising young woman, I completely loose myself when someone breaks through to my inner core. It's not that it happens all the time either, but when it does it's with a vengeance. I would definitely describe it as a 'crushing' sensation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 14, 2009 - 39 answers

How can I tell a friend I am interested in pursuing more? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 14, 2009 - 14 answers

Are Office relationships still a bad idea if everyone else in the office endorses/encourages them? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 30, 2009 - 42 answers

I'm falling for a friend who is much more compatible with me than my SO of five years. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 17, 2009 - 38 answers

I'm a married woman and I developed a maddening crush on another woman. Now I can't figure out how to get on with my otherwise really happy life and wonderful husband. Help me sort this out! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 19, 2008 - 17 answers

Drama penguin of the day: I am infatuating a work colleague of mine badly and I am looking for resources to understand the nature of my infatuation to get over it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 24, 2008 - 13 answers

A question for the guys - how does it feel when you know someone has a crush on you? Creepy? Flattering? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 20, 2008 - 26 answers

Help me Don Juan Kenobi, you're my only hope; or How do you stay flirtatious, witty, and mysterious when you REALLY like someone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 4, 2008 - 12 answers

Is this guy is shy, not interested, passive, or any combination of thereof? (Long explanation provided, naturally.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 31, 2008 - 40 answers

I have a crush on her filter: Do I tell her now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 27, 2008 - 27 answers

My dad died recently, and the resulting grief and intense emotional state I'm in have ramped up feelings I have for an unattainable person... a crush. I'm happily married, and this is confusing and painful. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 21, 2008 - 14 answers

What to do now? I'm a single, mid-thirties female, and I have a crush. Oh, wait. It's a lot more complicated than that. I'm sorry this is so long... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 16, 2008 - 37 answers

I am infatuated with someone, and confused as to how to proceed. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 23, 2007 - 54 answers

Lingering, inappropriate crush on coworker driving me batty (long). [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 8, 2007 - 29 answers

Should I contact him, or leave it alone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 16, 2007 - 36 answers

My window to get over a crush of many years - how to stay on track? How to deal with mutual acquaintances? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 20, 2007 - 17 answers

So how do I find out what this guy is thinking about me and our series of quasi-dates without actually, you know, having to ASK him. Am I missing something here? (Much more inside.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 7, 2007 - 66 answers

How does a shy gal get laid? I had this whole post planned out about how I like this boy, and how wonderful he is, but really, when all is said and done...I just want to screw him. How do I go about this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 3, 2007 - 52 answers

A married friend hit on me. Why can't I stop thinking about him? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 25, 2006 - 12 answers

Help me. I have a crush. Already. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 7, 2006 - 68 answers

What do you do if you have a big crush on your doctor? Assuming there are no complications such as marriages and they're not treating you for any illnesses. Anything? Nothing? Just keep your crush to yourself and go on with life? Or cross that line?
posted by anonymous on Jan 13, 2006 - 17 answers

My husband has a crush on a woman friend of his. I heard it in the sound of his voice when he spoke to her on the phone. As I'm not a jealous person, this has really taken me aback. He doesn't deny it but says that it will never progress to anything else and that they are very good friends. I like her too, don't believe that either of them would ever be unfaithful. Just knowing that he has romantic feelings for another woman makes me feel terrible, and I can hardly look him in the eye. How do I deal with this and move along?
posted by anonymous on Aug 28, 2005 - 19 answers

There's this guy I like and have liked for a long time. I don't know if he has any idea how I feel, or if it would scare him away if I just asked him "Hey, I like you a lot, how do you feel about that?" I only know him online, we've never met, but it feels like we've known each other forever. Do I risk the cherished friendship we have by taking this step, or do I keep the status quo and hope that someday he'll realize that I'm always here for him, waiting?
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2004 - 33 answers