Drama penguin of the day: I am infatuating a work colleague of mine badly and I am looking for resources to understand the nature of my infatuation to get over it. [more inside]
posted on Jun 24, 2008 - 13 answers

A question for the guys - how does it feel when you know someone has a crush on you? Creepy? Flattering? [more inside]
posted on Jun 20, 2008 - 26 answers

Help me Don Juan Kenobi, you're my only hope; or How do you stay flirtatious, witty, and mysterious when you REALLY like someone? [more inside]
posted on Jun 4, 2008 - 11 answers

Is this guy is shy, not interested, passive, or any combination of thereof? (Long explanation provided, naturally.) [more inside]
posted on May 31, 2008 - 40 answers

I have a crush on her filter: Do I tell her now? [more inside]
posted on May 27, 2008 - 27 answers

What healing process and timeline can I expect following crush injury to fingers? [more inside]
posted on Mar 17, 2008 - 9 answers

My dad died recently, and the resulting grief and intense emotional state I'm in have ramped up feelings I have for an unattainable person... a crush. I'm happily married, and this is confusing and painful. [more inside]
posted on Feb 21, 2008 - 14 answers

What to do now? I'm a single, mid-thirties female, and I have a crush. Oh, wait. It's a lot more complicated than that. I'm sorry this is so long... [more inside]
posted on Jan 16, 2008 - 37 answers

I see you there. You're smart. You've got great ideas. You want to help me make the world a better place. So, help me brainstorm this contraption. [more inside]
posted on Jan 2, 2008 - 35 answers

Help! A girl likes me! [more inside]
posted on Dec 27, 2007 - 38 answers

What sweet, silly gift can I give to a sweet, silly boy? This question isn’t as cliché as one might think. [more inside]
posted on Dec 25, 2007 - 45 answers

I am infatuated with someone, and confused as to how to proceed. [more inside]
posted on Dec 23, 2007 - 54 answers

Is it reasonable to not pursue 2nd dates unless you're infatuated? I've gone on several dates recently. While I've encountered several intelligent, nice, and not particularly ugly prospects, I haven't been thrilled, excited, infatuated, enamoured (and I'm certainly capable of that feeling). As a result, I haven't followed up. Is mine an immature or unrealistic expectation?
posted on Dec 4, 2007 - 31 answers

I've lived with my best friend and another good friend for 3 years. I've known them for 7--since we were freshmen in college. I've come to the conclusion that I'm bisexual, and that I have a bit of a crush on my best friend. I'm having trouble telling him that I'm not straight. I've read everyone's advice not to tell him I'm crushing on him, because there is a good chance that would be messy. What is a good way to tell him that I'm bi though? [more inside]
posted on Oct 16, 2007 - 32 answers

Lingering, inappropriate crush on coworker driving me batty (long). [more inside]
posted on Oct 8, 2007 - 29 answers

I heart my barista. I live in extremes and don't know how to subtly tell a cute boy that I like that I...um, like him, without sounding like I'm in 8th grade (which is how I feel, although I'm very much in my 20s.) [more inside]
posted on Aug 15, 2007 - 25 answers

How to uncrush with grace? What would you do now? [more inside]
posted on Aug 1, 2007 - 26 answers

Is it a horrible idea to date outside the personality type you're most attracted to? [more inside]
posted on Jul 17, 2007 - 31 answers

Should I contact him, or leave it alone? [more inside]
posted on Jul 16, 2007 - 36 answers

My window to get over a crush of many years - how to stay on track? How to deal with mutual acquaintances? [more inside]
posted on May 20, 2007 - 17 answers

So how do I find out what this guy is thinking about me and our series of quasi-dates without actually, you know, having to ASK him. Am I missing something here? (Much more inside.) [more inside]
posted on May 7, 2007 - 66 answers

I poured my heart out and all he did was throw me a mop to clean it up. How to turn this awkward situation into a friendship? [more inside]
posted on Feb 11, 2007 - 24 answers

i have a crush on really shy boy and i am not sure how i should approach [more inside]
posted on Feb 9, 2007 - 26 answers

I wish to woo. I want to woo. Will you waft to me wooing words of wisdom? [more inside]
posted on Jan 16, 2007 - 37 answers

How does a shy gal get laid? I had this whole post planned out about how I like this boy, and how wonderful he is, but really, when all is said and done...I just want to screw him. How do I go about this? [more inside]
posted on Jan 3, 2007 - 52 answers

About a year ago I met a dealer at a casino in another city. After a couple of subsequent visits, I mustered up the nerve to talk to her during while she was off-duty my last night there, and we got along well enough. It didn't take long until she mentioned her boyfriend, though, so how should I approach things when I visit again in a couple of weeks? [more inside]
posted on Nov 13, 2006 - 53 answers

Why is it embarrassing not to have romantic interest reciprocated? [more inside]
posted on Sep 4, 2006 - 20 answers

[Gayfilter] I have a huge crush on a guy I've dated once, and he's moving abroad in three weeks' time. How can I let him know I desperately want to keep seeing him without coming across as a psycho? [more inside]
posted on Aug 30, 2006 - 10 answers

A married friend hit on me. Why can't I stop thinking about him? [more inside]
posted on Aug 25, 2006 - 12 answers

I am seeking advice/opinions on the situation with my crush. So many questions - is it a hopeless situation? [more inside]
posted on Aug 4, 2006 - 23 answers

How can I define my feelings, having a small field of reference? [more inside]
posted on Jul 21, 2006 - 10 answers

Has anyone had neverending dreams well into adulthood about a childhood crush? [more inside]
posted on Jul 17, 2006 - 35 answers

So there's this guy at work that I'm getting a crush on... [more inside]
posted on Jun 11, 2006 - 24 answers

I have an unrequited crush and need to get over it and stop obsessing. But how? [more inside]
posted on Apr 22, 2006 - 18 answers

How do I get over a really wicked crush? [more inside]
posted on Mar 23, 2006 - 27 answers

Help me. I have a crush. Already. [more inside]
posted on Mar 7, 2006 - 68 answers

What do you do if you have a big crush on your doctor? Assuming there are no complications such as marriages and they're not treating you for any illnesses. Anything? Nothing? Just keep your crush to yourself and go on with life? Or cross that line?
posted on Jan 13, 2006 - 17 answers

My husband has a crush on a woman friend of his. I heard it in the sound of his voice when he spoke to her on the phone. As I'm not a jealous person, this has really taken me aback. He doesn't deny it but says that it will never progress to anything else and that they are very good friends. I like her too, don't believe that either of them would ever be unfaithful. Just knowing that he has romantic feelings for another woman makes me feel terrible, and I can hardly look him in the eye. How do I deal with this and move along?
posted on Aug 28, 2005 - 19 answers

There's this guy I like and have liked for a long time. I don't know if he has any idea how I feel, or if it would scare him away if I just asked him "Hey, I like you a lot, how do you feel about that?" I only know him online, we've never met, but it feels like we've known each other forever. Do I risk the cherished friendship we have by taking this step, or do I keep the status quo and hope that someday he'll realize that I'm always here for him, waiting?
posted on Oct 16, 2004 - 33 answers