It's been a few months after my
fiance proposed and he made plans to move in with me and my 15-year-old son this summer.
As predicted, my son began acting up, basically in the form of talking back and being a little rude to me in front of the fiance, who comes here every weekend. It's important to note my son does not act this way when it's the 2 of us and I completely understand what's going on and we're talking to someone.
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posted by kinetic
on Apr 27, 2013 -
26 answers
Have you had great success working with a career counselor? Someone wise, savvy, thoughtful, and creative? I'm looking to work with such a person. Would love your suggestions!
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posted by airguitar2
on Apr 2, 2013 -
9 answers
Short Question:
Should I a) Pursue a degree in IT with the goal of becoming a database administrator or b) Continue my studies and get my Masters in Social Work?
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posted by Shadax
on Mar 24, 2013 -
5 answers
A friend of a colleague had an accident a while back, and lately has been going off the rails in terms of behavior. It is a real departure. How can I talk to them about seeing a doc without being a threatening controlling jerk?
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posted by mr_felix_t_cat
on Mar 19, 2013 -
9 answers
(Australian) Melbournian mefites - can any of you recommend a trans-friendly therapist?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 13, 2013 -
4 answers
My husband is driving me up the wall. He has always shown a reluctance to make a plan for anything, but I love planning stuff (trips, etc) so it's never come to be a huge issue. Except for now.
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posted by checkitnice
on Mar 13, 2013 -
47 answers
My wife died. Everyone keeps telling me I should have someone to talk to - a counselor or someone from hospice or whoever. I don't really feel like I need or want that, though. Am I harming myself by handling this on my own?
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posted by tylerkaraszewski
on Feb 17, 2013 -
67 answers
Hello. The other Boston area marriage counseling posts are several years old. I hope metafilter can help me find a good marriage counselor.
My husband and have been together for 17 years, married for four years. He is at his wits end dealing with my depression (which I'm currently in treatment for).
We need to talk to someone soon. Please give me some recommendations of good couples counselors.
posted by anonymous
on Feb 1, 2013 -
5 answers
Have you gone to therapy or counseling after a rape? What outcome were you looking for? Did it help?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 18, 2013 -
9 answers
Living in Shinjuku, Japan. I have been rather stressed lately due to a variety of factors. Please help me find both exercise locations (cheap gyms, jogging routes) and inexpensive (but decent) counseling/therapy around the Shinjuku, Japan area.
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posted by Kamelot123
on Oct 23, 2012 -
8 answers
Does anyone have recommendations for a couples counselor or marriage/family therapist in Houston, TX -- or, at least, what resources I can use to find a good one? Thank you in advance!
posted by Pwoink
on Oct 9, 2012 -
1 answer
What are low-cost or online resources for a young Italian man with anxiety disorder and/or depression in Rome?
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posted by vincele
on Sep 27, 2012 -
4 answers
I'm looking for pratical information on the field of career counseling. Reasons why and more specifics inside.
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posted by st starseed
on Sep 4, 2012 -
3 answers
I may be starting adult attachment therapy in the next week, on the advice of a crisis counselor and after a few years of on-and-off treatment for anxiety and depression that's not getting me very far. Point me to some quality, hopefully easy to find resources that can spell out what the experience might be like.
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 18, 2012 -
4 answers
Attention therapists, social workers, and counselors of Metafilter: Suggestions of books and resources to equip a couple in their late fifties planning on adopting a 17 year old girl.
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posted by Poppa Bear
on May 16, 2012 -
6 answers
Help me make a decision I keep circling over again and again -- interdisciplinary masters that lets me do some cool research now, or continuing to work/exist in desired city and a more professional and/or appropriate MA/PHd in the next year or two?
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posted by elephantsvanish
on Apr 22, 2012 -
5 answers
My husband and I need recommendations for couples' counseling in NYC, Manhattan or Brooklyn, and would love something relatively affordable (under $120/session, if possible).
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 16, 2012 -
4 answers
Asking for a friend. Marriage counseling in the Arlington/DC area? Recommendations needed...
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posted by raztaj
on Feb 12, 2012 -
1 answer
Is there such a thing as a long distance or online therapist (or whatever it is I need)?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 27, 2012 -
9 answers
Anglican Christian filter: I am interested in working for an Anglican non-profit organization as an intern-therapist. I am a non-practicing Christian, but have a strong spiritual belief (think: Eckhart Tolle/Eastern philosophy) and was formally trained in transpersonal psychotherapy, which by definition is rooted in spirituality and encourages one to "transcend beyond oneself." I am not inherently opposed to religion, but do not follow strict Catholic practices. Should I reconsider being interested in this position? I need more subjective info on Anglican beliefs, and Wikipedia isn't really helping in this area.
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posted by luciddream928
on Jan 20, 2012 -
6 answers
I went to a counseling session at the employee assistance program at the midwestern U.S. state college that I work at, and the handout that I received is religious. I'm not, and it made me uncomfortable. How do I approach this?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 17, 2012 -
33 answers
Hello, hive mind. I have a dear friend who recently left an abusive marriage. Although she's working two jobs, she barely makes ends meet and may need EFT/SNAP and housing assistance. I've pulled together resources from the official website of the CT Dept. of Social Services, but cannot seem to find local, low-cost counseling services. Southern CT State University used to offer clinical counseling as part of their graduate program for the public, but I cannot find it. Any resources for low-cost counseling would be great. As stated, this is a dear friend of mine and I'll do anything to help - even though I'm across the country in CA.
posted by luciddream928
on Dec 28, 2011 -
5 answers
Is there a reliable service that will help me figure out what to do with my life, when it comes to my career?
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posted by Tarumba
on Dec 18, 2011 -
6 answers
[College/Career Filter] How do I guide my HS daughter in her ambitions towards Theater production?
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posted by jamesalbert
on Dec 15, 2011 -
14 answers
Northern Virginia Filter: I need a therapist. Who has evening hours. Who accepts Aetna or will not cause me to go broke.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 12, 2011 -
2 answers
Do you have a recommendation for a book about relationship ground rules and agreements in marriage? I'm interested in a book that might help someone to consider how they want to be treated, how to set reasonable expectations for interaction, and how to define what would constitute a good relationship for them.
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posted by OmieWise
on Nov 30, 2011 -
7 answers
My long term (almost 6 years, living together for 3) boyfriend hates hates hates couples therapy. i think it has helped immensely. ugh.
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 14, 2011 -
37 answers
I am looking for "triage" for our relationship, including recommendations for counselors in the Seattle area.
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posted by parrot_person
on Oct 27, 2011 -
28 answers
I'm looking for Seattle-area technology-focused career counseling. Any recommendations?
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posted by inkyz
on Sep 13, 2011 -
1 answer
Which degree would be my best bet--an M.S. in Rehabilitation Counseling, an M.S. in Gerontology, or an M.A. in Education? I'm especially wondering how good the job prospects will be in California, and how much stress and interpersonal conflict I would be likely to experience.
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posted by aphorist
on Aug 23, 2011 -
7 answers
Where can I find resources on complicated grief, especially with regard to grieving something that never was?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 8, 2011 -
6 answers
Contemporary psychotherapists who have popularized their empirically-tested theoretical contributions? Examples: David Burns, Eugene Gendlin, Joseph Weiss.
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posted by zeek321
on Jul 18, 2011 -
5 answers
Need a recommendation of a good, preferably non-marriage-centric, relationship counselor in the Northern Virginia / DC Metro area.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 22, 2011 -
3 answers
Are there any emergency crisis intervention/mental health services for a citizen of Japan with mental health issues whose family has been missing since the earthquake?
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posted by stagewhisper
on Mar 30, 2011 -
7 answers
Recommendations for marriage counseling in the greater Chapel Hill area. Particularly, therapists that offer a sliding scale.
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posted by sickinthehead
on Mar 13, 2011 -
7 answers
Does anyone know where I can find free, online videos of therapy sessions? I'm considering a career as a therapist and would like to study the therapeutic process. I'm in a community college at the moment and the video library isn't very extensive.
posted by oceanview
on Jan 24, 2011 -
4 answers