How can I teach my ex what I've learned while we were apart? [more inside]
posted by blackcatcuriouser on Dec 15, 2009 - 16 answers

How do I state my sexual preferences without sounding like a broken record? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 29, 2008 - 10 answers

How do I deal with someone so verbal about his needs? [more inside]
posted by InterestedInKnowing on Oct 3, 2008 - 22 answers

I was a late bloomer. I was painfully shy and didn't date until I was 24. I'm at a turning point of the longest relationship I've had (almost a year). I don't know if I'm in love or not. Or if that's even the right question. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 30, 2008 - 12 answers

Should I say or should I come? or, should a girl say that she didn't have an orgasm. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 14, 2008 - 34 answers

Ex files: how much sexual history should you disclose? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 18, 2007 - 24 answers

My boyfriend and I met when I was very young and inexperienced, and we've been together for almost 10 years now. I've always enjoyed our sex life, especially my ability to have multiple orgasms. But wait. Now that I'm older and a bit more in touch with myself, so to speak, I've realized I hadn't really been having orgasms at all. Because I'm just starting to now. My boyfriend thinks he's losing his skills because I'm having one orgasm with him, if at all, and I've skirted around talking about it by saying that it's just different now. We're really open with each other and we talk about everything honestly, but I'm having a hard time figuring out how to gently broach this topic since I didn't when I first became aware of it. How can I share the truth and preserve his ego?
posted by anonymous on Oct 13, 2004 - 18 answers