In serious, long-term relationships, how have you dealt with nagging doubts? How have you sorted through those doubts and then either set them aside and committed yourself, or decided to end things? [more inside]
posted on Oct 12, 2008 - 2 answers

How would you choose between leaving a girl after 5 years that you could be happy with in marriage, but who doesn’t want to wait for you, in order to follow your dream of checking out day to day life in the country you were born. Fear of regret and resentment later in life a big factor here.(long explanation follows) [more inside]
posted on Aug 20, 2008 - 19 answers

What jobs are (relatively) okay to leave after a short time? [more inside]
posted on Jul 22, 2008 - 13 answers

I'm hoping to find a pdf or image of the old Shearson Lehman/American Express ad featuring the following quotation: "Commitment is what transforms a promise into reality. It is the words that speak boldly of your intentions. And the actions that speak louder than the words. It is making the time when there is none. Coming through time after time, year after year. Commitment is the stuff character is made of, the power to change the face of things. It is the daily triumph of integrity over skepticism." So far google has failed me, anyone happen to have it lying around? Or know any more information? (e.g. what magazine(s) it appeared in? What year?)
posted on Jul 8, 2008 - 3 answers

Is my relationship going nowhere? And how might I go about asking him what his intentions are without freaking him out? [more inside]
posted on Jun 23, 2008 - 30 answers

In an average relationship, how often and how intensely do people express their love for each other (in private)? [more inside]
posted on Mar 27, 2008 - 28 answers

Should I give up getting back together with her? [more inside]
posted on Jan 21, 2008 - 36 answers

I can't commit to anything. Please help. [more inside]
posted on Jan 16, 2008 - 23 answers

My wife had a months-long affair and I've given her another chance. Any suggestions for getting rid of these awful feelings? [more inside]
posted on Aug 2, 2007 - 51 answers

How can I get over my fear of commitment? And what are some ways of dealing with the fear that I am somehow "settling" in this relationship? [more inside]
posted on Jul 8, 2007 - 34 answers

Is it possible to recalibrate my thinking/expectations to accept the circumstances of casual dating? [more inside]
posted on Feb 28, 2007 - 18 answers

Relationshipfilter: My 5month girlfriend suddenly realized she needs space to grow on her own, outside of a serious relationship. How the hell do I do it? [more inside]
posted on Dec 21, 2006 - 30 answers

I'm in a polyamorous relationship. It isn't enough. [more inside]
posted on Aug 31, 2006 - 41 answers

Can I talk my boyfriend out of cold feet? Should I even try? [more inside]
posted on Mar 6, 2006 - 24 answers

I'm about to end what is a very good relationship overall... [more inside]
posted on Nov 11, 2005 - 37 answers

How do you help somoene terrified of committment get through their fears and into the relationship you think you both were meant for?

This might just be a general "what's the best way to approach someone with emotional baggage" question; be sympathetic, caring and understanding or trying to help them get over it? I know what it is that causes this for him/her but I don't know how to best make them understand I'm not trying to "fix" them when I approach it.
posted on Dec 11, 2004 - 10 answers