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	<title>Breaking up is hard to do.</title>
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	<description>My therapist has decided to return to grad school for a PhD. I&apos;m happy for her, but this also means she won&apos;t be seeing patients anymore. Our final appointment is on Tuesday. How do you achieve closure in this kind of relationship? I&apos;ve only been seeing her for about 6 weeks for CBT, but I have been benefitting from the work, and I felt comfortable with her. This is no small thing since I have seen other therapists and never before found someone I had a rapport with. I&apos;m disappointed and a bit scared that she&apos;s checking out, and I&apos;m nervous, never before having ended such an intimate-yet-professional relationship. &lt;br&gt;
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She has given me names of colleagues, and I&apos;m sure I will find someone else who is good. But this feels like a scary change and I&apos;m not looking forward to it.&lt;br&gt;
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I&apos;m not sure how to approach our last session. I want it to be as enlightening as possible while providing a sense of peace. Are there any specific questions I should ask to gain insight on how the therapy went? How should things wind up so that I don&apos;t feel left hanging from being interrupted in a course of potentially successful therapy? Why do I get choked up and teary thinking about it? How do I handle this with grace?</description>
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