I cheated. They each make up for the other's discrepancies. Time to make a decision. Yeah... it's one of those. [more inside]
posted on Jun 21, 2008 - 34 answers

I'm scheduled to have a medical (pill) abortion in a situation involving my optimistic, scientifically brilliant, clueless ex-boyfriend. For some irrational reason, he's the only person I want with me while I go through with it. [more inside]
posted on Jun 7, 2008 - 35 answers

Should-we-break-up-filter. [more inside]
posted on May 23, 2008 - 43 answers

Can this relationship/marriage be saved? [more inside]
posted on Apr 22, 2008 - 89 answers

2 months before the wedding. Fiance kissed another man while drunk. Told me about it. Now what? [more inside]
posted on Dec 17, 2007 - 76 answers

My roommate's long-distance boyfriend asked me to help him surprise her. But I'm afraid he might be the one who gets surprised, if she's sleeping with someone else (I'm not sure). What do I do? [more inside]
posted on Dec 14, 2007 - 30 answers

I have a hunch the new boyfriend is going to drop the "I love you" bomb this weekend. I'm psyched. Trouble is: I don't know if I believe him, and therefore don't know how to best respond. [more inside]
posted on Dec 7, 2007 - 49 answers

For the first time in the 3 years I've been with my fiancé, I'm irresistably attracted to someone else. Of course, I have to work with the object of my lust. [more inside]
posted on Nov 21, 2007 - 39 answers

Should I be worried about my boyfriend and his smokin' hot new female roommate? Who has a tendency to sleep with her roommates regardless of their relationship status? [more inside]
posted on Nov 20, 2007 - 89 answers

My marriage of ~10yrs is on the ropes. My wife is suing for divorce, and (among other less important things) wants full custody of our beautiful youngsters (ages >4 and <10). There's more inside, but here are my specific questions: 1) I have reason to believe she is having an affair. Does her alleged adultery, if proven, give me any leverage with regards to custody? 2) What other ethical ways are there to ensure I at least get joint physical and legal custodianship? [more inside]
posted on Aug 6, 2007 - 29 answers

An old friend has recently started putting the moves on me.  Although I'm both attracted and available, I've been dodging because they're living with a SO of several years and enabling their cheating seems wrong. [more inside]
posted on Aug 5, 2007 - 44 answers

How can I explain to my boyfriend that his request to tell "the other woman" is insane? [more inside]
posted on Jun 19, 2007 - 74 answers

How do I cope with a parent who cheats? [more inside]
posted on Jun 14, 2007 - 27 answers

Is it possible for an otherwise happy relationship to survive an act of willful cheating? [more inside]
posted on May 17, 2007 - 86 answers

I was out at a club, and a girl invited me to come to her place - tomorrow. She probably wants to have sex. My girlfriend is visiting the day after. That's the uncomplicated part. [more inside]
posted on May 15, 2007 - 45 answers

What I do now that I know someone in our class is cheating? [more inside]
posted on May 9, 2007 - 47 answers

I have a girlfriend I'm in love with. But I'm also in love another girl. She's leaving town, and I want to sleep with her. Why shouldn't I? [more inside]
posted on May 7, 2007 - 108 answers

How do you move past loving someone who is no longer in love with you? (assuming time and space apart are difficult?) or deal with you love for them until they're ready for you? [more inside]
posted on Apr 12, 2007 - 19 answers

My partner has just been caught for plagiarism. I don't know many details because she won't talk about it, but I want to know what effect this will have on her future. [more inside]
posted on Mar 8, 2007 - 36 answers

A friend I've had for many years cheated on his wife while visiting my house 1000 miles from his home. She has always been very kind to me and I regard her as a dear friend. They have a less than one year old baby. She called me and wants to know what these odd cell phone calls on his phone were during his visit. What should I do? [more inside]
posted on Jan 8, 2007 - 75 answers

Do I tell my married coworker that I'm falling for her, and how? And am I opening up the possibility of sexual harassment issues if I do? [more inside]
posted on Jul 4, 2006 - 97 answers

My boyfriend cheated on me. What do I do now? [more inside]
posted on Jun 9, 2006 - 87 answers

I recently ended an affair I was having with a beautiful, intelligent, charming, older, married woman (I'm Ashton's age, she's Demi's). After 3 weeks I just couldn't deal with the guilt anymore. I knew the affair was wrong, but I did it anyway. As a Catholic, I'm working on the whole reconciliation thing. [more inside]
posted on Feb 17, 2006 - 34 answers

I just cheated on my girlfriend and have no idea what I should do. [more inside]
posted on Oct 16, 2005 - 64 answers

My girlfriend cheated on me this weekend. I am beside myself with grief. How do I cope, and where do I go from here? [more inside]
posted on Sep 12, 2005 - 58 answers

I agreed to "edit" a (25-page) thesis paper for a friend at another college. When the paper arrived, it was so raw that the whole thing needed to be massively reorganized, not just tweaked for grammar and clarity. It then became clear (through subsequent discussions with her about it) that what she wanted me to do was basically reword much of the language as well (she considers me to be a stronger writer) to make it "sound better." [more inside]
posted on Aug 28, 2005 - 43 answers