I'm not sure if I've been cheated on, and I don't know how to feel. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 8, 2009 - 29 answers

Why have I suddenly started to dream about other women? [more inside]
posted by kleenkat on Oct 21, 2009 - 23 answers

I slept with my ex. He has a new girlfriend. Now what? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 7, 2009 - 52 answers

I got a Misconduct/Irregularities Verbal Warning Notice during my LSATs. Please help! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 28, 2009 - 6 answers

Attracting married men is my superpower. What gives? [more inside]
posted by giggleknickers on Sep 27, 2009 - 60 answers

How do I re-start/maintain a relationship with my father while my mother is cheating on him and he doesn't know? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 23, 2009 - 14 answers

Would it be considered academic dishonesty to use WolframAlpha when doing a homework assignment in math? [more inside]
posted by Wordwoman on Sep 18, 2009 - 12 answers

Has a study ever attempted to identify characteristics or behaviors that go along with cheating in relationships? [more inside]
posted by Ashley801 on Sep 5, 2009 - 5 answers

How ethical is it to look at previous years' exams? [more inside]
posted by gensubuser on Sep 3, 2009 - 44 answers

My husband is cheating on me and has been for at least two years. He doesn't know I found out. Now what? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 3, 2009 - 67 answers

I'm looking for a good, downloadable, Bartenders/Mixed Drinks/Cocktail cheat sheet. Preferably free. [more inside]
posted by sexyrobot on Aug 21, 2009 - 9 answers

How do you extricate yourself from a family-oriented friendship? Very long and pathetic story to follow. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 4, 2009 - 28 answers

My question is about intent? If you hurt someone with what you perceive to be their and your best interests in mind, while simultaneously knowing that what you are doing will hurt that person, is it any different than actively trying to hurt the person. Does duration and occurrence play a role? If I don’t mean to hurt you, but know I am and will for 4 years is it less bad than a single act of active hurtfulness? Is it possible to want to hurt someone you love in an extreme moment but still love and care for that person? Is it possible to call that love? [more inside]
posted by sav on Aug 2, 2009 - 27 answers

Is infidelity in relationships in your twenties and thirties inevitable? I recently was cheated on by my ex-boyfriend days after we started living together and many of my friends who are in their late-30s are not surprised. [more inside]
posted by countingbackwards on Aug 2, 2009 - 33 answers

Am I overreacting to this creepy guy who keeps trying to meet my wife and her friends? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 17, 2009 - 75 answers

If you've felt the temptation to cheat, or have cheated, on a guy: what sorts of things was he neglecting to do around that time? Or what things was he doing? [more inside]
posted by surenoproblem on Jul 13, 2009 - 32 answers

How can I live with myself after lying and cheating? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2009 - 22 answers

How to deal with a cheating wife? very sad story.... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 19, 2009 - 80 answers

Asking for a friend… Should he tell his girlfriend about his cyber fling? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 11, 2009 - 29 answers

Would my ex really lie about something like this? [more inside]
posted by InterestedInKnowing on May 10, 2009 - 29 answers

Any tips for making a relationship out of an affair? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 9, 2009 - 14 answers

Lesbian monogamy filter: I am really just a hopeless romantic no matter how hard I try not to be? Should I not move right on to the one waiting in the wings? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 25, 2009 - 16 answers

Why do some people 'cheat' (i.e., use their arms to take weight off their legs) while using exercise machines at the gym? [more inside]
posted by cast4321 on Apr 22, 2009 - 38 answers

I got drunk at a party last night, and I ended up putting myself to bed early on in the night. A few hours after I went to bed (alone, in the host's bedroom), a male friend of mine (who has been with his girlfriend for at least the past 3-4 years) came in and laid down. He was sort of spooning/pressing up against me, and in my drunken haze I responded and we ended up having sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 5, 2009 - 48 answers

I'm looking for books which talk frankly about bribery, cheating and evasion in order to accomplish something important in a hostile cultural and regulatory environment. [more inside]
posted by Coventry on Apr 2, 2009 - 14 answers

After the girl cheated, is it fair to ask her NOT to spend a week at a retreat with him, and others? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 31, 2009 - 37 answers

She cheated, I'm heartbroken, how much should I hold back? Should I deliver an angry letter? Can our marriage be saved? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 29, 2009 - 57 answers

I discovered my girlfriend recently went to the apartment of an ex lover to "hang out". Did she cheat on me? [more inside]
posted by aussie_in_NY on Feb 2, 2009 - 48 answers

[Relationshipfilter] Has "cheating" ever been a crucible for your relationship? [more inside]
posted by dentata on Jan 19, 2009 - 50 answers

I found out that my dad cheated on my mom, and that my parents are dealing with his infidelity. They don't know I know. I don't want to tell them. In fact, I'd love to forget it. But I can't stop thinking about it and am having trouble sleeping. I need some tools to deal. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 30, 2008 - 40 answers

I've become involved in another unhealthy relationship. What do I do, and how do I avoid it next time? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 - 23 answers

Is there any way he's not cheating on me? [more inside]
posted by GIRLesq on Sep 18, 2008 - 161 answers

I have a really messed-up break-up situation. Is what I am about to do fair? [more inside]
posted by cincinnatus c on Aug 24, 2008 - 35 answers

What to do when you find out that one of your friends cheated on his girlfriend (who is also a friend?) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 21, 2008 - 82 answers

I have been in a one and a half year relationship with a man who has cheated on me, lied to me, stole from me and abused me. I KNOW he is no good and while I have tried to leave many times, I always find myself back with him (after sweet-talking and the like). [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 12, 2008 - 46 answers

What do you tell your mutual friends about your acrimonious breakup? [more inside]
posted by MaddyRex on Jul 10, 2008 - 31 answers

I cheated. They each make up for the other's discrepancies. Time to make a decision. Yeah... it's one of those. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 21, 2008 - 34 answers

I'm scheduled to have a medical (pill) abortion in a situation involving my optimistic, scientifically brilliant, clueless ex-boyfriend. For some irrational reason, he's the only person I want with me while I go through with it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 7, 2008 - 35 answers

Should-we-break-up-filter. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 23, 2008 - 43 answers

Can this relationship/marriage be saved? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 22, 2008 - 89 answers

Badly in need of advice. Long, complicated story spanning 3 countries and 5 people. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 11, 2008 - 32 answers

Help identify memoirs or other writings which have dialogue in which one spouse informs another of their infidelity or in which the injured spouse reacts to the others infidelity. [more inside]
posted by Xurando on Mar 12, 2008 - 12 answers

Should I give up getting back together with her? [more inside]
posted by cincinnatus c on Jan 21, 2008 - 37 answers

Help me sort out my feelings about the relationship I’m in because I just can’t seem to figure it out. (long and complicated - sorry!) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 25, 2007 - 23 answers

Once a cheater always a cheater? [more inside]
posted by confused1965 on Dec 17, 2007 - 55 answers

2 months before the wedding. Fiance kissed another man while drunk. Told me about it. Now what? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 17, 2007 - 76 answers

Resources to help a young person understand plagiarism and why it's bad. [more inside]
posted by Eothele on Dec 14, 2007 - 21 answers

My roommate's long-distance boyfriend asked me to help him surprise her. But I'm afraid he might be the one who gets surprised, if she's sleeping with someone else (I'm not sure). What do I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 14, 2007 - 30 answers

I have a hunch the new boyfriend is going to drop the "I love you" bomb this weekend. I'm psyched. Trouble is: I don't know if I believe him, and therefore don't know how to best respond. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 7, 2007 - 49 answers

For the first time in the 3 years I've been with my fiancé, I'm irresistably attracted to someone else. Of course, I have to work with the object of my lust. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 21, 2007 - 39 answers