I am really attracted to someone I know I shouldn't be, when I'm not single and I know he is not the kind of person I should be interested in. We see each other almost every day of the week, and I'm in a new city with not many other friends. How can I find my way out of this feeling? [more inside]
Am I coming out of the left field here? No strings attached with the commitment-phobe I met a few weeks ago = bad idea? [more inside]
I am a 22-year-old female who has just been informed that I have received a prestigious arts and culture internship in my Western U.S. city's government. This is my first real job, and I'm perplexed about what clothes to buy for a professional, yet comfortable summer wardrobe. [more inside]
I am 5'9", an hourglass shape with a long torso-- what should I wear? [more inside]
How do you stop yourself from caring whether someone you've just started seeing is sleeping with/will sleep with other people? [more inside]
What are the best recent console video games that can be enjoyed in an hour or less? I'll be at PAX East this weekend, and since I don't own a console newer than a Gamecube, I'd like to spend some time at the Console Freeplay. They have a library of dozens of modern consoles and thousands of games that you can borrow for an hour at a time. Lots of the big games require at least a few hours to get anywhere in the story. What doesn't? What are the best casual or semi-casual games from this generation that I can enjoy in an hour? [more inside]
What is "winter resort casual wear"? I have been awarded a trip (by my company) to Aspen CO in Februrary at the St. Regis. I'm told the attire is winter resort casual, but I don't know what this means. I'm not a skier, but I am a Googler, and all I find is resort casual, which seems to indicate warmer climate destinations, or mountain casual. Nothing for winter resort casual. Help me (and my wife) understand what not to wear.
I'm looking for Nintendo Wii games that scratch my epic storyline itch but won't frustrate my intermediate skill and very intermittent play opportunities... [more inside]
I want to initiate a causal hook up with a newly single friend. How? [more inside]
What's a good place to meet women around Phoenix, AZ? Aside from, of course, the obvious clubs and bars that everyone always thinks of first...
Help me brainstorm casual, neutral skirts that I can wear with a wide variety of colored T-style tops. Difficulty: slim-hipped, so skirt must be a full or flared cut. [more inside]
Help me dress like a grown up. I'm tired of looking boyish on days that I don't wear a suit and a tie. What can a wear out around town, doing errands, at restaurants that says "Yes, I am an adult. Yes, I care about the way I look. No, I didn't wear this to work." [more inside]
Pantyhose to work? [more inside]
how to let other guys know of each other's existence when you are going out with more than one guy at a time?
How would you handle going out with multiple guys at the same time? [more inside]
My new job is business casual. Where to shop? [more inside]
Last month, I finally landed my first "real" job. However, I have no idea how to dress myself -- I need to look "smart," but not overdressed. Give a geek some fashion advice! [more inside]
Insight, advice, perspective required for relationship dramas/attempt to become emotionally unstuck (longggggg) [more inside]
Where can I find a somewhat casual, good quality blue blazer made of cotton, linen, or a cotton/linen blend? [more inside]
Does he actually like me as a person or is he only interested in sex (29 yr old girl w/no experience)?
Does he actually like me as a person or is he only interested in sex (29 yr old woman w/no experience)? [more inside]
How can I change a relationship from fuck buddy to just friends? [more inside]
What is the situation for casual work like in Australian cities at the moment? Also any ideas. [more inside]
Copy my dress shirts - Is there a tailor who can make exact replica's of my best fitting button down dress shirt? [more inside]
CasualSex-filter: I am a straight woman. I'm not into the bar/club scene whatsoever. I've never had casual sex, and want to change this. Tips for doing this as safely as possible? [more inside]
I'm part of a short-term couple. We both know it will probably end in about six months from now, due to a long-distance move. I feel that there's a multitude of things I can experiment with here, due to the short-term nature of the (non?)relationship. But what are those things? Also: I know that each relationship is different, but what are the general rules of such relationships, anyway? How am I supposed to be in love, without falling in love? What can I do to make the most of the time we have left? [more inside]
Halloween costume: "Casual Batman". Help me come up with bat-gadget ideas! [more inside]
Yes, I'm aware of the existence of 'he's just not that into you,' but I'd like it confirmed by the source.
How do you phrase "are you into me?" in a non-terrifying way? [more inside]
Your tips on figuring out my feelings as I enter into casual play relationships? (risque elaboration within) [more inside]
After a few years of hoodies and flip-flops, I'm re-entering a business-casual work environment - slightly clueless and very reluctant about dressing up. Help me adhere to the dress code and look good while maximizing comfort and minimizing effort. [more inside]
You knock on my door early on a weekend morning. When I answer, what am I wearing? [more inside]
Should I wear a suit to an interview when the dress code is casual? [more inside]
Cool-temperature work clothing? I want to wear business casual clothing, but it's all so goddamn hot, especially with an undershirt. What's your secret for wearing business dress shirts and trousers and staying cool?
How to tactfully break things off with a woman I just started dating? [more inside]
I smoke a cigarette a day during the work week. I've been doing this for a few months now. Am I going to die of lung cancer? [more inside]
How long is too long of no contact while dating? [more inside]
I am 20 years old and male. There is a girl (19?) in my circle of friends who really, really, wants to have sex with me. She hangs on my every word, and I get the impression I can do no wrong in her eyes. She's a nice enough person (and pretty smart to boot), but I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with her (or at all, really). She asked me out, and I politely declined, and a few weeks later she straight up offered to have sex with me no strings attached (again, politely declined). That was a month or two ago, and now I'm thinking of taking her up on it. I've never had sex, despite situations like this having played themselves out two or three times before. I find her quite physically attractive. My fear is that no matter how bluntly I say "I just want to have sex with you", she'll pine for a relationship, and I'll be leading her on. Should I do this? How?
I always thought I'd wait for someone special to have sex for the first time. But I haven't met anyone special. Is pursuing a casual relationship a good idea, and how do I do it? [more inside]
XBox 360 casual(ish) game recommendations? [more inside]
FashionFilter: I wish to shop online for women's clothing of decent quality, classic fit, available in a large range of colours, and reasonably priced... let's say a la Gap or Banana Republic. Can anyone suggest online shops of this type in Australia, where I can avoid getting stung by the exchange rate? Or perhaps a cheaper global alternative to the labels mentioned? [more inside]
I want to stop being a relationship-machine and start having something more casual. Why do I get attached so quickly? And how do I prevent myself from getting attached so I can have more fun? [more inside]
I've become involved in another unhealthy relationship. What do I do, and how do I avoid it next time? [more inside]
Casual relationships in high school? [more inside]
Best general discussion forums? [more inside]
RelationshipFilter: Help me find some good time activities to do at home with a prospective girl friend. [more inside]
How do normal people go about finding casual sex? For someone who thinks that taking advantage of drunk girls in clubs is immoral and adult match-making websites are scams or dangerous, is there any outlet to meet nice (albeit frisky!) gentlemen and ladies? [more inside]
I'm looking for a men's thumb ring in the NYC area. I've never had a ring before, so I'm looking for something inexpensive, simple and casual to see if I like it first. Inexpensive is definitely under $50, preferably around $20. There's a lot of simple stuff I like here, but I'd really like to go somewhere I can get sized and try a bunch on in person.
Guy fashion question: I need a new summer look...what's in? [more inside]
Peripatetic, endearingly-awkward geek seeks amazing advice for casual sex shenanigans. [more inside]
Fashionfilter: Cute-casual-comfortable wardrobe for pear-shaped female in wintertime? [more inside]
Is there a website (preferably free of charge and community-driven) where people go to safely arrange one-night and/or casual hookups? [more inside]