Your tips on figuring out my feelings as I enter into casual play relationships? (risque elaboration within)
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 4, 2009 -
10 answers
After a few years of hoodies and flip-flops, I'm re-entering a business-casual work environment - slightly clueless and
very reluctant about dressing up. Help me adhere to the dress code and look good while maximizing comfort and minimizing effort.
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posted by Metroid Baby
on Oct 1, 2009 -
31 answers
Cool-temperature work clothing? I want to wear business casual clothing, but it's all so goddamn
hot, especially with an undershirt. What's your secret for wearing business dress shirts and trousers and staying cool?
posted by Cool Papa Bell
on Sep 7, 2009 -
14 answers
I smoke a cigarette a day during the work week. I've been doing this for a few months now. Am I going to die of lung cancer?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 18, 2009 -
33 answers
I am 20 years old and male. There is a girl (19?) in my circle of friends who really, really, wants to have sex with me. She hangs on my every word, and I get the impression I can do no wrong in her eyes. She's a nice enough person (and pretty smart to boot), but I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with her (or at all, really). She asked me out, and I politely declined, and a few weeks later she straight up offered to have sex with me no strings attached (again, politely declined). That was a month or two ago, and now I'm thinking of taking her up on it. I've never had sex, despite situations like this having played themselves out two or three times before. I find her quite physically attractive. My fear is that no matter how bluntly I say "I just want to have sex with you", she'll pine for a relationship, and I'll be leading her on. Should I do this? How?
posted by anonymous
on Apr 3, 2009 -
61 answers
I always thought I'd wait for someone special to have sex for the first time. But I haven't met anyone special. Is pursuing a casual relationship a good idea, and how do I do it?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 2, 2009 -
24 answers
FashionFilter: I wish to shop online for women's clothing of decent quality, classic fit, available in a large range of colours, and reasonably priced... let's say a la Gap or Banana Republic. Can anyone suggest online shops of this type in Australia, where I can avoid getting stung by the exchange rate? Or perhaps a cheaper global alternative to the labels mentioned?
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posted by Weng
on Jan 3, 2009 -
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I want to stop being a relationship-machine and start having something more casual. Why do I get attached so quickly? And how do I prevent myself from getting attached so I can have more fun?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 23, 2008 -
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I've become involved in another unhealthy relationship. What do I do, and how do I avoid it next time?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 19, 2008 -
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RelationshipFilter: Help me find some good time activities to do at home with a
prospective girl friend.
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posted by the_dude
on Jun 20, 2008 -
39 answers
How do normal people go about finding casual sex? For someone who thinks that taking advantage of drunk girls in clubs is immoral and adult match-making websites are scams or dangerous, is there any outlet to meet nice (albeit frisky!) gentlemen and ladies?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 20, 2008 -
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I'm looking for a men's thumb ring in the NYC area. I've never had a ring before, so I'm looking for something inexpensive, simple and casual to see if I like it first. Inexpensive is definitely under $50, preferably around $20. There's a lot of simple stuff I like
here, but I'd really like to go somewhere I can get sized and try a bunch on in person.
posted by The Dutchman
on May 12, 2008 -
4 answers
Fashionfilter: Cute-casual-comfortable wardrobe for pear-shaped female in wintertime?
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posted by eileen
on Oct 18, 2007 -
17 answers
Is there a website (preferably free of charge and community-driven) where people go to safely arrange one-night and/or casual hookups?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 12, 2007 -
18 answers
Just found out that my long time love is a daily phone sex participant and while away on a business/pleasure trip (staying with friends whom I spoke with on the phone) is posting and responding to online "casual sex" posts for both men and women. I don't know if meetings occured.
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posted by anonymous
on May 8, 2007 -
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Where -- in South Central Wisconsin -- are the best places to hang out, if you are a divorced, middle age, overweight, woman who recently decided to proactively search for short term companionship?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 9, 2007 -
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About one month ago, I had a phone interview for a position at a company based in a Seattle (I live in CA). Though I did not get the job, a mutual fit was evident with the only exception being that I do not have the desired management experience. Next week I will be on vacation in Seattle and I initiated a "casual chat" meeting with my contact at his office. How should I handle the meeting given that his company aligns fairly closely with my "dream employer" scenario? A subtle yet important detail is that...
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posted by |n$eCur3
on Jul 28, 2006 -
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Where can I find or where do I look to find ideas, resources or stores that carry 'hip' business casual clothing?
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posted by Botunda
on Apr 26, 2006 -
13 answers
how do i say this: "i like you and that other night was great, although slightly weird because you're my friend's really close cousin, but he seems cool about it, so, anyway, do you want to do that again sometime, even though it's been a month since that night?"- without coming across as wanting to be too serious or too casual or too weird?
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posted by twirlypen
on Feb 14, 2006 -
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