After many years of monogamy followed by several years of celibacy
(continually enforced by the fact that, out of raw fiscal necessity, I will continue to share a house and mortgage with my ex for the indefinite future), a chance encounter has left me with the opportunity to enjoy one (or, fingers crossed, more than one!) casual hookup(s) with a breathtakingly attractive near-stranger.
Can you walk me through this process -- safety, guidelines, what to do/not do or say, etc. -- like a complete newbie?
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posted by electroshock blues
on Mar 25, 2013 -
15 answers
looking for some NSA encounter while travelling, willing but clueless: help me do this casual hookup thing?
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posted by anonymous
on May 13, 2012 -
19 answers
I am really attracted to someone I know I shouldn't be, when I'm not single and I know he is not the kind of person I should be interested in. We see each other almost every day of the week, and I'm in a new city with not many other friends. How can I find my way out of this feeling?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 21, 2011 -
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How do you stop yourself from caring whether someone you've just started seeing is sleeping with/will sleep with other people?
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posted by Chrysalis
on Mar 25, 2011 -
31 answers
Insight, advice, perspective required for relationship dramas/attempt to become emotionally unstuck (longggggg)
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 16, 2010 -
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CasualSex-filter: I am a straight woman. I'm not into the bar/club scene whatsoever. I've never had casual sex, and want to change this. Tips for doing this as safely as possible?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 14, 2009 -
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Your tips on figuring out my feelings as I enter into casual play relationships? (risque elaboration within)
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 4, 2009 -
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I am 20 years old and male. There is a girl (19?) in my circle of friends who really, really, wants to have sex with me. She hangs on my every word, and I get the impression I can do no wrong in her eyes. She's a nice enough person (and pretty smart to boot), but I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with her (or at all, really). She asked me out, and I politely declined, and a few weeks later she straight up offered to have sex with me no strings attached (again, politely declined). That was a month or two ago, and now I'm thinking of taking her up on it. I've never had sex, despite situations like this having played themselves out two or three times before. I find her quite physically attractive. My fear is that no matter how bluntly I say "I just want to have sex with you", she'll pine for a relationship, and I'll be leading her on. Should I do this? How?
posted by anonymous
on Apr 3, 2009 -
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I've become involved in another unhealthy relationship. What do I do, and how do I avoid it next time?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 19, 2008 -
23 answers
How do normal people go about finding casual sex? For someone who thinks that taking advantage of drunk girls in clubs is immoral and adult match-making websites are scams or dangerous, is there any outlet to meet nice (albeit frisky!) gentlemen and ladies?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 20, 2008 -
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Is there a website (preferably free of charge and community-driven) where people go to safely arrange one-night and/or casual hookups?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 12, 2007 -
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Just found out that my long time love is a daily phone sex participant and while away on a business/pleasure trip (staying with friends whom I spoke with on the phone) is posting and responding to online "casual sex" posts for both men and women. I don't know if meetings occured.
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posted by anonymous
on May 8, 2007 -
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Where -- in South Central Wisconsin -- are the best places to hang out, if you are a divorced, middle age, overweight, woman who recently decided to proactively search for short term companionship?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 9, 2007 -
20 answers
