I'm part of a short-term couple. We both know it will probably end in about six months from now, due to a long-distance move. I feel that there's a multitude of things I can experiment with here, due to the short-term nature of the (non?)relationship. But what are those things? Also: I know that each relationship is different, but what are the general rules of such relationships, anyway? How am I supposed to be in love, without falling in love? What can I do to make the most of the time we have left? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 9, 2009 - 16 answers

Halloween costume: "Casual Batman". Help me come up with bat-gadget ideas! [more inside]
posted by Glendale on Oct 29, 2009 - 18 answers

How do you phrase "are you into me?" in a non-terrifying way? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 25, 2009 - 22 answers

Your tips on figuring out my feelings as I enter into casual play relationships? (risque elaboration within) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 4, 2009 - 10 answers

After a few years of hoodies and flip-flops, I'm re-entering a business-casual work environment - slightly clueless and very reluctant about dressing up. Help me adhere to the dress code and look good while maximizing comfort and minimizing effort. [more inside]
posted by Metroid Baby on Oct 1, 2009 - 31 answers

You knock on my door early on a weekend morning. When I answer, what am I wearing? [more inside]
posted by Lou Stuells on Sep 27, 2009 - 24 answers

Should I wear a suit to an interview when the dress code is casual? [more inside]
posted by zennoshinjou on Sep 12, 2009 - 34 answers

Cool-temperature work clothing? I want to wear business casual clothing, but it's all so goddamn hot, especially with an undershirt. What's your secret for wearing business dress shirts and trousers and staying cool?
posted by Cool Papa Bell on Sep 7, 2009 - 14 answers

How to tactfully break things off with a woman I just started dating? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 12, 2009 - 45 answers

I smoke a cigarette a day during the work week. I've been doing this for a few months now. Am I going to die of lung cancer? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 18, 2009 - 33 answers

How long is too long of no contact while dating? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 21, 2009 - 32 answers

I am 20 years old and male. There is a girl (19?) in my circle of friends who really, really, wants to have sex with me. She hangs on my every word, and I get the impression I can do no wrong in her eyes. She's a nice enough person (and pretty smart to boot), but I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with her (or at all, really). She asked me out, and I politely declined, and a few weeks later she straight up offered to have sex with me no strings attached (again, politely declined). That was a month or two ago, and now I'm thinking of taking her up on it. I've never had sex, despite situations like this having played themselves out two or three times before. I find her quite physically attractive. My fear is that no matter how bluntly I say "I just want to have sex with you", she'll pine for a relationship, and I'll be leading her on. Should I do this? How?
posted by anonymous on Apr 3, 2009 - 61 answers

I always thought I'd wait for someone special to have sex for the first time. But I haven't met anyone special. Is pursuing a casual relationship a good idea, and how do I do it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 2, 2009 - 24 answers

XBox 360 casual(ish) game recommendations? [more inside]
posted by kanuck on Jan 5, 2009 - 26 answers

FashionFilter: I wish to shop online for women's clothing of decent quality, classic fit, available in a large range of colours, and reasonably priced... let's say a la Gap or Banana Republic. Can anyone suggest online shops of this type in Australia, where I can avoid getting stung by the exchange rate? Or perhaps a cheaper global alternative to the labels mentioned? [more inside]
posted by Weng on Jan 3, 2009 - 6 answers

I want to stop being a relationship-machine and start having something more casual. Why do I get attached so quickly? And how do I prevent myself from getting attached so I can have more fun? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 23, 2008 - 24 answers

I've become involved in another unhealthy relationship. What do I do, and how do I avoid it next time? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 - 23 answers

Casual relationships in high school? [more inside]
posted by LSK on Aug 26, 2008 - 39 answers

Best general discussion forums? [more inside]
posted by isoman2kx on Aug 23, 2008 - 16 answers

RelationshipFilter: Help me find some good time activities to do at home with a prospective girl friend. [more inside]
posted by the_dude on Jun 20, 2008 - 39 answers

How do normal people go about finding casual sex? For someone who thinks that taking advantage of drunk girls in clubs is immoral and adult match-making websites are scams or dangerous, is there any outlet to meet nice (albeit frisky!) gentlemen and ladies? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 20, 2008 - 20 answers

I'm looking for a men's thumb ring in the NYC area. I've never had a ring before, so I'm looking for something inexpensive, simple and casual to see if I like it first. Inexpensive is definitely under $50, preferably around $20. There's a lot of simple stuff I like here, but I'd really like to go somewhere I can get sized and try a bunch on in person.
posted by The Dutchman on May 12, 2008 - 4 answers

Guy fashion question: I need a new summer look...what's in? [more inside]
posted by boots77 on Apr 21, 2008 - 15 answers

Peripatetic, endearingly-awkward geek seeks amazing advice for casual sex shenanigans. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 18, 2007 - 113 answers

Where can I find this shoe (or something similar)? [more inside]
posted by special-k on Nov 30, 2007 - 9 answers

Fashionfilter: Cute-casual-comfortable wardrobe for pear-shaped female in wintertime? [more inside]
posted by eileen on Oct 18, 2007 - 17 answers

Is there a website (preferably free of charge and community-driven) where people go to safely arrange one-night and/or casual hookups? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 12, 2007 - 18 answers

'Smart casual' trousers, what alternatives are there for men? [more inside]
posted by MrC on May 28, 2007 - 13 answers

Just found out that my long time love is a daily phone sex participant and while away on a business/pleasure trip (staying with friends whom I spoke with on the phone) is posting and responding to online "casual sex" posts for both men and women. I don't know if meetings occured. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 8, 2007 - 32 answers

Where -- in South Central Wisconsin -- are the best places to hang out, if you are a divorced, middle age, overweight, woman who recently decided to proactively search for short term companionship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 9, 2007 - 20 answers

Help me master the fine art of hooking up. (M4M, but all answers welcome.) [more inside]
posted by mykescipark on Dec 6, 2006 - 24 answers

About one month ago, I had a phone interview for a position at a company based in a Seattle (I live in CA). Though I did not get the job, a mutual fit was evident with the only exception being that I do not have the desired management experience. Next week I will be on vacation in Seattle and I initiated a "casual chat" meeting with my contact at his office. How should I handle the meeting given that his company aligns fairly closely with my "dream employer" scenario? A subtle yet important detail is that... [more inside]
posted by |n$eCur3 on Jul 28, 2006 - 5 answers

Where can I find or where do I look to find ideas, resources or stores that carry 'hip' business casual clothing? [more inside]
posted by Botunda on Apr 26, 2006 - 13 answers

how do i say this: "i like you and that other night was great, although slightly weird because you're my friend's really close cousin, but he seems cool about it, so, anyway, do you want to do that again sometime, even though it's been a month since that night?"- without coming across as wanting to be too serious or too casual or too weird? [more inside]
posted by twirlypen on Feb 14, 2006 - 11 answers