Mid-to-late twenties male looking to buy a pair of shoes that's more attractive than a sports sneaker and less formal than a business/dress shoe.
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posted by threeants
on Jun 10, 2013 -
29 answers
After many years of monogamy followed by several years of celibacy
(continually enforced by the fact that, out of raw fiscal necessity, I will continue to share a house and mortgage with my ex for the indefinite future), a chance encounter has left me with the opportunity to enjoy one (or, fingers crossed, more than one!) casual hookup(s) with a breathtakingly attractive near-stranger.
Can you walk me through this process -- safety, guidelines, what to do/not do or say, etc. -- like a complete newbie?
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posted by electroshock blues
on Mar 25, 2013 -
15 answers
I am attending a two day long event at a graduate program in International Affairs in my local area. It is for students who have made it through the first round of admissions. Interviews and some other assessments will be conducted at this event, but there will be many opportunities for them to try to sell their graduate program to us. The event is this Friday and Saturday, and the dress code called for is simply business casual. For what it's worth, this program is in the South.
The problem is that since I am a local candidate, I will be biking to the event. I don't fancy biking in my dress shoes, and somehow carrying my leather portfolio along the way. I imagine I'll be bringing my backpack in order to switch out my shoes and carry my portfolio. How much of a faux pas do you imagine this might be?
posted by SollosQ
on Feb 28, 2013 -
23 answers
I asked out a cute person, and he said yes, but... where do I want to go tomorrow night?
Looking for someplace quietish (not too crowded, quiet enough so we don't have to yell at each other, and could maybe play a game of Scrabble), pretty casual (not overly-romantic), and pretty cheap. Could just be a drink or coffee, doesn't have to be a restaurant.
posted by emumimic
on Feb 26, 2013 -
10 answers
I'm looking for a good pair of sneakers that split the difference between "casual" and "work." Mostly this is for casual Fridays at my office, when I want something cool/relaxed on my feet to go with some jeans, but my ratty Converse sneakers might come off as too informal. I like the
Vans Ludlow and
Pritchard collections, but the shoes in those links are limited edition and appear to be gone. The
newest models in those collections don't fit my aesthetic tastes all that well. Is there anything along those lines - sort of a hybrid skate sneak / dress shoe, with a playful hint at formal classiness - you can recommend?
posted by naju
on Feb 6, 2013 -
17 answers
What is your absolute favorite
fast casual restaurant in your city? I'm working on a project where I'm trying to get exposed to more of these by region. I would love to hear the name of your favorite soup or sandwich or burger joint in your area.
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posted by timpanogos
on Jan 18, 2013 -
69 answers
Mixed signals from a guy I made out with. What do they mean? Any hopes for further fun? And also, on a philosophical level, what are your thoughts on women pursuing men and differences in the rules of the game for dating versus casual fun?
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posted by thesnowyslaps
on Dec 12, 2012 -
25 answers
I'm looking for my perfect, versatile slip-on walking shoe that is comfortable without socks and not too clunky to wear with a casual skirt/dress.
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posted by drlith
on Sep 5, 2012 -
16 answers
How to deal with "casually dating" someone I'm head-over-heels over? He's on the other side of the world, and I miss him ridiculously.
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 1, 2012 -
12 answers
"Someplace casual and on the water" in Seattle ... which restaurant should I take a party of 7 to this coming Friday night that fits these criteria?
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posted by kthxbi
on Aug 10, 2012 -
16 answers
looking for some NSA encounter while travelling, willing but clueless: help me do this casual hookup thing?
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posted by anonymous
on May 13, 2012 -
19 answers
I would probably get back together with my ex if he asked me to do so, atleast today. I think I need to date other people to get him out of my head. What are the ethics of that?
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posted by athena2255
on Apr 6, 2012 -
31 answers
There's nothing wrong with my job. There's something wrong with me. Please help me to choose what to do.
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posted by b33j
on Mar 28, 2012 -
15 answers
I need ideas for my business casual wardrobe. I don't need
theory. I would like pictures of guys in cool business casual attire like
this and
this that I can get ideas from. I would also like links to sites that sell nice business casual clothes online. Help me look snazzy on my first day of work!
posted by jasondigitized
on Mar 10, 2012 -
9 answers
I am currently studying a dance-based course at uni, which requires a day-to-day wardrobe of stretchy, comfortable clothes (leotards, singlets, leggings etc.). Easy enough. But I need warm things to chuck on over the top of my dance gear in between classes and I'm sick of trackies and hoodies. Help me find some inspiration.
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posted by lovedbymarylane
on Mar 4, 2012 -
16 answers
What is the best sparkling wine or champagne under 20 dollars? Also, I need help with a last-minute New Year's celebration.
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posted by Fairchild
on Dec 30, 2011 -
42 answers
Met this incredible girl who i fell head over heels in love with. However, she's reluctant to move our relationship forward because of her past. I'm left confused and wanting more..
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posted by kampken
on Dec 13, 2011 -
20 answers
I love the
Tsubo Millay shoes I just got, and would like to get more of this type of sporty shoes that still look smart. What are some other brands I should consider?
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posted by needled
on Nov 18, 2011 -
4 answers
I am really attracted to someone I know I shouldn't be, when I'm not single and I know he is not the kind of person I should be interested in. We see each other almost every day of the week, and I'm in a new city with not many other friends. How can I find my way out of this feeling?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 21, 2011 -
22 answers
Am I coming out of the left field here? No strings attached with the commitment-phobe I met a few weeks ago = bad idea?
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posted by Rinoia
on Jun 24, 2011 -
27 answers
I am a 22-year-old female who has just been informed that I have received a prestigious arts and culture internship in my Western U.S. city's government. This is my first real job, and I'm perplexed about what clothes to buy for a professional, yet comfortable summer wardrobe.
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posted by gothchick33
on May 19, 2011 -
12 answers
How do you stop yourself from caring whether someone you've just started seeing is sleeping with/will sleep with other people?
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posted by Chrysalis
on Mar 25, 2011 -
31 answers
What are the best recent console video games that can be enjoyed in an hour or less? I'll be at PAX East this weekend, and since I don't own a console newer than a Gamecube, I'd like to spend some time at the Console Freeplay. They have a library of dozens of modern consoles and thousands of games that you can borrow for an hour at a time. Lots of the big games require at least a few hours to get anywhere in the story. What doesn't? What are the best casual or semi-casual games from this generation that I can enjoy in an hour?
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posted by Plutor
on Mar 10, 2011 -
22 answers
What is "winter resort casual wear"? I have been awarded a trip (by my company) to Aspen CO in Februrary at the St. Regis. I'm told the attire is winter resort casual, but I don't know what this means. I'm not a skier, but I am a Googler, and all I find is resort casual, which seems to indicate warmer climate destinations, or mountain casual. Nothing for winter resort casual. Help me (and my wife) understand what not to wear.
posted by tdischino
on Jan 28, 2011 -
14 answers
I'm looking for Nintendo Wii games that scratch my epic storyline itch but won't frustrate my intermediate skill and very intermittent play opportunities...
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posted by nanojath
on Nov 29, 2010 -
24 answers
What's a good place to meet women around Phoenix, AZ? Aside from, of course, the obvious clubs and bars that everyone always thinks of first...
posted by ssnickerer
on Oct 3, 2010 -
7 answers
Help me brainstorm casual, neutral skirts that I can wear with a wide variety of colored T-style tops. Difficulty: slim-hipped, so skirt must be a full or flared cut.
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posted by Bardolph
on Sep 8, 2010 -
5 answers
Help me dress like a grown up. I'm tired of looking boyish on days that I don't wear a suit and a tie. What can a wear out around town, doing errands, at restaurants that says "Yes, I am an adult. Yes, I care about the way I look. No, I didn't wear this to work."
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posted by Drama Penguin
on Jul 4, 2010 -
35 answers
Last month, I finally landed my first "real" job. However, I have no idea how to dress myself -- I need to look "smart," but not overdressed. Give a geek some fashion advice!
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posted by schmod
on Mar 23, 2010 -
34 answers
Insight, advice, perspective required for relationship dramas/attempt to become emotionally unstuck (longggggg)
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 16, 2010 -
12 answers
Where can I find a somewhat casual, good quality blue blazer made of cotton, linen, or a cotton/linen blend?
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posted by jayder
on Mar 15, 2010 -
7 answers
Does he actually like me as a person or is he only interested in sex (29 yr old woman w/no experience)?
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posted by wcmf
on Mar 4, 2010 -
56 answers
Copy my dress shirts - Is there a tailor who can make exact replica's of my best fitting button down dress shirt?
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posted by thankyoumuchly
on Feb 4, 2010 -
9 answers
CasualSex-filter: I am a straight woman. I'm not into the bar/club scene whatsoever. I've never had casual sex, and want to change this. Tips for doing this as safely as possible?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 14, 2009 -
14 answers
I'm part of a short-term couple. We both know it will probably end in about six months from now, due to a long-distance move. I feel that there's a multitude of things I can experiment with here, due to the short-term nature of the (non?)relationship. But what are those things? Also: I know that each relationship is different, but what are the general rules of such relationships, anyway? How am I supposed to be in love, without falling in love? What can I do to make the most of the time we have left?
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posted by anonymous
on Nov 9, 2009 -
16 answers
