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When is it okay to keep the baggage in the bag?

Should I tell my (potential) new boyfriend about my marriage and divorce? Or can I keep this secret like I want to? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 28, 2011 - 53 answers

How to give a hug from far away.

How can I help my long distance boyfriend get through his grandmother's serious illness? [more inside]
posted by Emms on Nov 25, 2011 - 6 answers

Should boyfriend do sexual arousal study without talking to girlfriend about it first?

Should my boyfriend have done sexual arousal study without consulting me first? [more inside]
posted by crawmama on Nov 18, 2011 - 68 answers

Help me keep my anxiety about sex from destroying my relationship, or: Want sex now help.

How can I have a more sexual relationship with my boyfriend, and stop freaking out all the time? Or, how can I accept that this is the relationship we have and it's not going to change? Warning: this is going to be both long and stupid. [more inside]
posted by krakenattack on Nov 14, 2011 - 47 answers

he really likes you, tubby!

Do I tell my partner his friend said something snarky? The brief: I have a fantastic bf who is everything I could ask for in a man. He's got a large circle which includes several female friends. One of them, he mentioned before I met her, is known for being funny, but generally inappropriate and uncouth (he gives pretty fair descriptions like this of everyone I've met, not singling her out). Met her a few times, and most recently she was very, very drunk. Can you guess where this is going? [more inside]
posted by OompaLoompa on Nov 2, 2011 - 47 answers

Could I have done something different?

Could I have done something different? (Boyfriend's marijuana problem) [more inside]
posted by Teradactyl on Oct 28, 2011 - 56 answers

My boyfriend can't be in my life how I would like?

My boyfriend can't express himself much at all, should I be concerned? [more inside]
posted by Chelsaroo650 on Oct 24, 2011 - 30 answers

About those "reformed" ex-boyfriends and girlfriends..

Reformed exes- "suck it and see", or leave it alone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 16, 2011 - 22 answers

I want a dog!

Help me come to terms with never getting a dog. [more inside]
posted by ellieBOA on Oct 9, 2011 - 21 answers

More past indiscretions have come to light - should I be bothered, or let it go because we've worked on moving past that?

Should I forgive infidelity because we were long distance?? [more inside]
posted by yummywaffles on Sep 27, 2011 - 26 answers

Help me come up with 12 completely awesome DIY dates!

It’s my boyfriend’s birthday next week. Yay! Along with presents and activities lined up, I really really want to make him a series of date envelopes. So, he’ll get 12 envelopes, each one to be opened on the first of the month, for the next year. And in each envelope will be a piece of paper with a super fun thing for us to do together. The sticking point is, um, the super fun things. Kind, funny, romantics AskMe, will you hope me plan 12 months of super fun? Yes? Let's go! [more inside]
posted by t0astie on Sep 1, 2011 - 18 answers

Help me find this comic!

I saw a comic online a few years ago; it featured a man surreptitiously putting nicotine patches on his girlfriend so that she went into withdrawal when she wasn't with him. Can you help me find it? [more inside]
posted by punchtothehead on Aug 26, 2011 - 8 answers

how do i solve this convoluted problem?

physical health & mental health, 'secret' boyfriend, and my family... what do i do? [more inside]
posted by zazie on Aug 25, 2011 - 41 answers

Is it really that bad?

My boyfriend hit me. How I should react to this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2011 - 100 answers

I want to support you, not enable you

Am I being too impatient and unsupportive with my depressed boyfriend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 5, 2011 - 33 answers

I hate my roommate's boyfriend. Help!

I really, really dislike my roommate/friend's boyfriend. How do I deal with him? [more inside]
posted by spectacularicity on Jul 29, 2011 - 55 answers

How can I ask my current boyfriend for an unusual technique an ex showed me?

An ex had a very specific sexual technique that drove me crazy. How can I request it from my current boyfriend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 22, 2011 - 38 answers

Help me help myself

My boyfriend is going through a divorce and he's taking his stress out on me. Help me take care of myself during this difficult time. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 20, 2011 - 47 answers

How can I make life better for my boyfriend?

My boyfriend's hit a string of horrible luck. What can I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 19, 2011 - 11 answers

Unfamiliar with jealousy

I'm not normally jealous, but one of my bf's female friends is making me feel a twinge of jealousy and I don't know if I should say something to him or not. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 12, 2011 - 31 answers

Who likes short shorts? Not this guy.

Help my boyfriend overcome his fear of shorts. [more inside]
posted by lovedbymarylane on Jun 29, 2011 - 102 answers

How can we stay afloat when boyfriend is depressed?

How can we stay afloat when boyfriend is depressed? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 22, 2011 - 30 answers

Help me identify abusive relationship

Please help me learn how to identify an emotionally/mentally abusive relationship. I am not sure if myne has always been one, or is slowly turning into one, or is not one. [more inside]
posted by amacph10 on Jun 15, 2011 - 137 answers

Don't use that there!!!

My boyfriend and I have very different views on what constitutes "clean". I'm not talking about differences when it comes to keeping one's room neat and organized. We're on the same page about that. I'm talking about re-using towels, sponges, dirty dish rags, and keeping counter tops SANITARY. Help me parse this one out. [more inside]
posted by patronuscharms on Jun 13, 2011 - 50 answers

Conversational Tennis: 30-Love

How to get my boyfriend to engage in more conversations with me? [more inside]
posted by lizbunny on Jun 2, 2011 - 39 answers

Nudging boyfriend towards fashionableness?

How can I communicate to my boyfriend that I think he should make an effort to improve his appearance? [more inside]
posted by fugitivefromchaingang on Jun 1, 2011 - 43 answers

Responding to a friend's comment.

Was I too harsh in response to a friend's comment? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 14, 2011 - 43 answers

Is it ever normal to dislike your SO?

Is it normal to dislike your boyfriend at times? (Or girlfriend, or husband, any SO...) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 13, 2011 - 40 answers

RRRRAAAAWWWWRy Birthday to you, RRAAAAAAWWRY birthday to you

Help me find the perfect birthday gift for a fan of cryptozoology and spooky things! [more inside]
posted by troika on May 9, 2011 - 26 answers

Why Do I Tremble From Anticipatory Jealousy?

When I meet another woman, I sometimes find myself thinking "would (my boyfriend) like her? Is she his type? Oh god, will they meet each other? Would she like him?" To the point where I'm almost paralyzed with fear that he'll leave me for this person he hasn't even met. What can I do to calm down, learn to appreciate other women's qualities without comparing myself, and how can I prepare myself to deal with it if he DOES someday find himself attracted to someone else to the point where it impedes on our relationship? I want to be strong. [more inside]
posted by dorothyrose on May 6, 2011 - 8 answers

Two friends enter, one friend leaves. Roommate or boyfriend?

I need a roommate for my awesome apartment. I have a friend who’d make a good roommate, but she really dislikes my boyfriend—and doesn’t know I’m dating him. And my boyfriend likes her, potentially more than he likes me. How to resolve? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 5, 2011 - 33 answers

Am I a relationship freak?

I'm a 29 year old straight female, and I've never been in a grown up relationship. Is there something really wrong with me? [more inside]
posted by dithmer on Apr 30, 2011 - 26 answers

Reluctant Barbie Girl

How can I explain to my boyfriend that some of the fantasies he has about me are hurting my self esteem (and our relationship)? [more inside]
posted by patronuscharms on Apr 22, 2011 - 62 answers

How do I un-traumatize myself?

I tried to break up with my boyfriend over the weekend, and it didn't go well. I've agreed to give things another shot but I don't think I can get over what happened during the breakup. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 18, 2011 - 198 answers

How do I better deal with my partners medically induced loss of libido?

MentalHealthFilter: Anyone personally dealing with bipolar partners sexual issues? Mildly NWS, and long as heck. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 23, 2011 - 8 answers

Tokens of my affection, sent with love to you

Gifts for a manly boyfriend's 30th birthday - to be mailed to him. Ideas? [more inside]
posted by lizbunny on Mar 16, 2011 - 17 answers

Help: Mom's health and relationship tangles

My mother had a stroke (it seems like a transient ischemic attack) but she won't be in the States until Friday morning. And there are many relationship issues mixed into this. What should I do? Previously this question. (I had decided to spend one week, this week of 3/6, at home and one week, next week, with SO.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 10, 2011 - 14 answers

I have a friend who has a boyfriend who despises me. What should I do?

I have an online friend who has a boyfriend who despises me. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 7, 2011 - 33 answers

This is worse than finding a needle in a haystack.

Did you ever meet two potential Significant Others with whom you felt an equal level of physical attraction, shared interests & common values over the course of several dates? How did you end up deciding which one was the Right One? How many dates did it take? What questions did you ask yourself? Did your thought process center mostly on emotions or practical concerns, and how did either approach (or both) help you choose your partner? [more inside]
posted by invisible ink on Feb 20, 2011 - 44 answers

How to balance family and boyfriend?

I don't know what to do about my relationship with my parents anymore. Or whom to spend spring break with - this is a weightier issue than it seems. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 19, 2011 - 50 answers

Is my boyfriend looking at porn every day ok when we haven't had sex in almost three weeks?

My boyfriend and I have been fighting/bickering quite a bit the last couple months, but he says he has never loved anyone like he loves me. That being said, we haven't had sex for almost three weeks, and have only messed around twice in the shower. I initiated both of the shower incidents, and I've made my concern about the lack of sex known. He blames it on stress at work and being tired after work and then the gym. But, I can see that he's looked a porn almost every day for the last 10 days. Am I being sensitive by being upset by this? I feel like if he's horny enough to look at porn, why shouldn't he be saving that energy for me? [more inside]
posted by yummywaffles on Feb 15, 2011 - 23 answers

thicker than a snickers

I suspect that my boyfriend likes women who are 'thicker' than me. What do I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 8, 2011 - 27 answers

I Love You Historically

I need ways to say "I like you" or "I love you" (to a girlfriend) from various periods in history. [more inside]
posted by cmchap on Jan 17, 2011 - 14 answers

Feeling Guilty Post-Breakup

How do I stop feeling guilty about the break-up? Sorry, for asking so many questions as of late...this was my first relationship. [more inside]
posted by nikayla_luv on Jan 14, 2011 - 20 answers

Relationships are hard.

Help me to voice my desire to break up with my boyfriend. (mostly-SFW details) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 12, 2011 - 30 answers

Bitter, Confused Ex-girlfriend

How do you get over a major breakup with your first love?...long story! [more inside]
posted by nikayla_luv on Jan 5, 2011 - 10 answers

Do you believe in life after (first) love?

My first boyfriend/first love and I recently broke up after nearly four years together. I know this was the right decision, but I feel like I'll never feel this way about anyone else ever again. I realize that sounds dramatic, silly, and naive, but I'd really like to hear from the perspective of someone who's been through it that, yes, life does go on (and maybe get better, in a different way) after a first love. [more inside]
posted by gypsyhymns on Jan 4, 2011 - 24 answers

Should I break up with him?

Am I making the right decision about breaking up with my boyfriend? [more inside]
posted by dt2010 on Dec 30, 2010 - 18 answers

I found pictures of

I was looking through the pictures on my BF's iPhone this morning, and I found a few pictures of his ex girlfriend that he had saved recently. He claims that he has no feelings for her. Should I be worried? [more inside]
posted by maggymay on Dec 15, 2010 - 56 answers

My sister is in a controlling relationship, and I'm worried.

My sister's boyfriend is controlling, may have BPD, and seems to be isolating her and destroying her career. I'm worried for her, and have to see the two of them tomorrow at Thanksgiving. I need advice on how to approach this situation in the short and long term. [more inside]
posted by Logic Sheep on Nov 24, 2010 - 19 answers

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