The boyfriend will take things I say in totally the wrong way, how do I explain this to him without starting another argument? And he compares me to his ex when doing this stuff...long-winded details inside.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 16, 2013 -
36 answers
Should I work harder for my relationship or is it beyond saving at this point? I don't know if I'm sacrificing too much for something that will never work.
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posted by lleguana
on Apr 22, 2012 -
49 answers
I need ways to say "I like you" or "I love you" (to a girlfriend) from various periods in history.
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posted by cmchap
on Jan 17, 2011 -
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My first boyfriend/first love and I recently broke up after nearly four years together. I know this was the right decision, but I feel like I'll never feel this way about anyone else ever again. I realize that sounds dramatic, silly, and naive, but I'd really like to hear from the perspective of someone who's been through it that, yes, life does go on (and maybe get better, in a different way) after a first love.
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posted by gypsyhymns
on Jan 4, 2011 -
24 answers
Is it normal to never fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Should I get mad at him for certain things?
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posted by sunnychef88
on Nov 20, 2010 -
38 answers
RelationshipFilter: Is writing a letter to your SO ok, in addition to face-to-face? If so, help a kid out.
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posted by hubble
on Oct 6, 2010 -
19 answers
RelationshipFilter: being patient when your partner is trying to figure things out that we're discovering in couples' therapy.
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posted by inmyhead
on Sep 7, 2010 -
17 answers
Looking for a way to deal with the bad feelings, both within me and coming from the ex, after a relationship ended. Problem: I am a massive tool and it was all my fault for cheating on her. How do I say sorry?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 22, 2010 -
30 answers
What road to take during a devastating breakup? Be the supportive, hopeful, girl that will stay until the storm calms down OR move on with my life and leave the love of my life?
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posted by penguingrl
on Feb 10, 2010 -
27 answers
My S.O.'s life is falling apart and has decided to break up with me, however, S.O. has requested that nothing change. (LOOONG, so sorry)
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posted by penguingrl
on Feb 2, 2010 -
73 answers
I think I may have to leave the man I have made many sacrifices for, because he is an alcoholic. But I don't have the guts to do that, because it would kill all the faith I have in humanity, and because I love him, and care for him, so very much. He refuses to get help because he doesn't think he needs it. Am I being stupid if I decide to stay in this relationship?
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 7, 2009 -
60 answers
When it comes to love . . . where's the line between deserving to have certain expectations fulfilled, and having standards that are too high? In particular I'm curious to know if you ever ended a relationship with someone you were in love with, and then went on to fall in love with someone else in a deeper and more enriching way.
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posted by lblair
on Jan 11, 2009 -
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Depression has knocked my passion (for everything) out. Gwargh. What do I do while I get therapy sorted?
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posted by divabat
on Jul 21, 2008 -
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Very touchy situation with my ex almost but not quite boyfriend. Any and all insight appreciated.
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 29, 2007 -
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I love my boyfriend and enjoy his company. He loves me a lot. Why then do I feel on edge when I'm near him?
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posted by anonymous
on May 9, 2007 -
16 answers
How do I wish my programming-geek boyfriend "Happy Birthday" and tell him "I love you" using computing code?
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posted by divabat
on Jan 23, 2007 -
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RelationshipFilter (sorry!): I've become entangled in a complex 'relationship', and I'm not sure what to do...
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 29, 2006 -
57 answers