Join 3,556 readers in helping fund MetaFilter (Hide)

17 posts tagged with borderline. (View popular tags)
Displaying 1 through 17 of 17. Subscribe:

Related tags:
+ (8)
+ (5)
+ (4)


Users that often use this tag:
Anonymous (9)

Daughter with mental illness moving out, practical advice?

19 year old is moving out to a rented room this week. We live in a city where young adults typically live with family until marriage or 30s, and her four siblings (one older, three younger) live with us. The decision to ask her to move out if she escalated in breaking household rules (no drugs, porn, sex-work, hold down a job or school, don't abuse other family members) has been run past her psychiatrist and long-planned. She's excited to live on her own with no restrictions, we are terrified due to her long history of risky behavior and struggles with borderline personality disorder and PTSD from abuse. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 21, 2014 - 17 answers

How can I create a healthy relationship with my soon-to-be stepmother?

My dad is getting married to a woman with whom he's had a very tumultuous, difficult relationship. They are moving across the country together, and I'm scared. Lots more details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 5, 2014 - 25 answers

My ex-girlfriend assaulted me. Now what?

My ex-girlfriend assaulted me, damaged my property, and kicked in a door to a public establishment where I was hiding from her. What's going to happen now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 27, 2013 - 20 answers

If I go there will be trouble, and if I stay it will be double

My wife of many years, and mother of my two children, is having (perfectly understandable, given the context) mental health issues that are making my life miserable. I want to handle this as lovingly as possible, in a way that will best protect my kids – please help me weigh my unpleasant options! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 4, 2012 - 39 answers

Help me get my little brother into Dialectical Behavioural Therapy.

Help me get my little brother into Dialectical Behavioural Therapy. Or into anything. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 2, 2012 - 5 answers

Borderline Personality Boundary Setting Resources?

I have a sister w/Borderline Personality. My father has completely cut her off to protect himself. My mother tries to keep the door open as she can, but has learned to set limits. I haven't talked to her on the phone in like a year, though I try to be supportive and let her know I love her via facebook now and then, just so she doesn't feel too alone/sad. She's been mostly decent about respecting my boundaries. However, my nephew (her son), just posted "Some people in the family need to step up -- getting calls and emails about suicide from my mom every 6 hours is draining. Grandparents cut off contact with her (which is only partly true, it's that mom doesn't give as much attention as my sister who demands demands demands attention wants), and I can't keep doing this. Tips for me to talk to him? (i.e. resources for him to learn to set boundaries, ways to think about the manipulations, etc...) [more inside]
posted by symbioid on Feb 13, 2012 - 44 answers

Does BPD "rub off" on others?

Dated a girl with borderline personality disorder, and now I'm feeling like her behaviors and symptoms of the disorder are present in me. Is this a common thing for those involved with people with BPD to experience? [more inside]
posted by marriedtotacos on Feb 9, 2012 - 48 answers

When long distance love crosses the borderline disorder.

The girl I love, who wants to be my wife, is 3,000 miles away from me. She is/was a cutter, may have Borderline (BPD) and lives in a country that I don't trust their mental health system. What should I do until I get her to America and a qualified therapist? OR how do I let her go gently? [more inside]
posted by DaftMythic on Nov 6, 2011 - 38 answers

How can I try to help a depressed, possibly borderline, friend who's trying to isolate herself?

My friend is deeply depressed and is trying to cut herself off from me and her other friends. How can I try to help her? Key questions: 1) Any suggestions on how to try to convince her that I genuinely want to stick around and be her friend and it's not just out of obligation, and/or other other ways to respond to her trying to push me away? 2) She's given up on hope of any treatment or improvement-- I think she might be borderline and that DBT could be a good fit for her regardless-- any suggestions of what I could send her about DBT and/or BPD (or anything else) that would have the best chance of getting through to her and giving her hope that things can get better? [more inside]
posted by EmilyClimbs on Apr 8, 2011 - 15 answers

Am I too narcissistic to be a lawyer?

Character & Fitness District Committee: How serious is this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 4, 2011 - 5 answers

The Fixodent to Her Wooden Teeth

Why am I always drawn towards people I can "fix," and how do I stop? [more inside]
posted by Mach3avelli on Sep 7, 2010 - 21 answers

Walking on eggshells

Walking on eggshells? How to deal as an adult with a parent who has borderline personality disorder. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2009 - 12 answers

Am I marked as defective forever with Borderline Personality Disorder?

How do you shake off the shame of being diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder? Will anyone ever want to be my friend again? [more inside]
posted by beautifulcheese on Nov 22, 2008 - 40 answers

how to break up without tragedy?

I'm having serious doubts about my 8-year relationship, but my SO is going through a really rough time right now--& may even be suicidal. I think I want out, but I'm afraid it could drive him over the edge. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 26, 2006 - 32 answers

I switched to linux to hide the porn!

I am engaged to a wonderful woman who has some mental problems. She's willing to get help, but needs my assistance to make it happen. [more inside]
posted by wzcx on Nov 12, 2005 - 61 answers

crazy relatives

How do you deal with extremely difficult (if not mentally unstable), chemically dependent relatives who you still want to maintain a relationship with? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 10, 2005 - 9 answers

BPD Treatment

Has anyone had any success with treatments for Borderline Personality Disorder?
posted by eggerspretty on Mar 17, 2005 - 6 answers

Page: 1