What's a good resource for the history of laws governing BDSM pornography? [discussion, of course, potentially nsfw] [more inside]
posted on May 13, 2008 - 6 answers

Where are the good, exciting online fetishwear sites? [more inside]
posted on Mar 6, 2008 - 10 answers

I'm a straight guy and I have several kinks which drive me wild in bed. I'd like to date a straight girl who has similar kinks which drive her wild in bed. But I don't want to get into fetish lifestyles or anything extreme (unfortunately kink owners tend to get polarized into one big group of "alternative people" who dress in rubber and go to subterranean bondage clubs every week) - I just want a regularish relationship with some special orders in the bedroom. How do I do this? [more inside]
posted on Mar 2, 2008 - 18 answers

I want to tie up my kinky girlfriend, so I need to install a strong hook of some kind in my ceiling. Help me make sure it doesn't fall down. [more inside]
posted on Nov 1, 2007 - 33 answers

What BDSM clubs can I find in New York City (and surrounding)? [more inside]
posted on May 29, 2007 - 12 answers

Help my partner and I find a place to do BDSM play where we'll fit in. [more inside]
posted on Jul 9, 2006 - 3 answers

MojoFilter: Help - I've lost my mojo! How do I get it back? [more inside]
posted on Jul 31, 2005 - 8 answers