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Dominant Female seeks NYC dungeon to work for

I'm a dominant female and interested in using my interest and skills to earn money in New York City. I don't know how to sort my options or what, specifically to watch out for. NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 8, 2014 - 5 answers

Bondage 101?

My SO and I are starting to explore our kink side and need help navigating the maze of bondage techniques. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 30, 2013 - 16 answers

Quickly Binding Someone's Wrists For Sexytime?

My wife wants to engage in a roleplay scene where she enters a dark room and is overpowered and restrained. I'm game, but I need a little logistical help. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 8, 2013 - 24 answers

If you wouldn't mind, suck my peepee, woman of ill-repute.

How do I act more controlling in bed? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 25, 2011 - 13 answers

Help me get tied up in SF!

I'd like to get tied up somewhere in or around SF either tomorow or Monday. This needn't be a sexual encounter, but it need be professional and discreet. [more inside]
posted by 17564 on Feb 12, 2011 - 4 answers

Yeah, I'm kinky... is that a problem?

Should I come out of the BDSM closet? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 2, 2010 - 13 answers

Bondage class in NYC? (NSFW)

My girlfriend and I would like to get into some light bondage -- particularly tying. I know there are plenty of videos and books, but does anyone know a good intro to tying class in the NYC area? Also, what kind of and how much rope should we buy to start? Thanks!
posted by The Dutchman on Sep 4, 2010 - 11 answers

How to stop sex from becoming a Stephen King plotline.

My wife has expressed a desire to spend the night tied up. How can I fulfil her wishes while minimising the risks of turning this into a scene out of Gerald's Game? [It's probably safe to assume that this AskMe is NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 12, 2010 - 15 answers

Short story about Tefillin as Bondage gear?

Short story about a man who brings Tefillin (phylacteries) on a date and ends up using them as bondage gear? [more inside]
posted by milestogo on Jun 17, 2010 - 6 answers

All tied up with art

Can anyone tell who the artist/writer of the 1950s or 1960s adult comic strip in the photos inside. Links might me NSFW. [more inside]
posted by sandra_s on Sep 19, 2009 - 3 answers

I'm not good at tying knots around a beautiful woman.

My girlfriend loves being tied up. Unfortunately, I never was a boy scout and suck at tying knots. (nsfw) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 28, 2008 - 18 answers

NSFW NYC BDSM OK?

NSFW – My efforts to find non-dungeon-y locations for bondage-related photography in NYC (Manhattan, specifically) have been less than fruitful. Help! Very long question inside. [more inside]
posted by sandra_s on Dec 27, 2008 - 8 answers

Deaf safe words?

How would a deaf person use a safe word? [Answers may be NSFW.] [more inside]
posted by sperose on Dec 16, 2008 - 12 answers

High End Bondage Gear

Where can I buy high quality bondage gear online? I'm looking for girls' wrist and ankle cuffs specifically, but I also like to browse. There are a million sites out there selling the same old stuff. I'm hoping to find something special.
posted by anonymous on Nov 6, 2008 - 12 answers

Flying the Freak Flag

BDSMFilter: Is a minimal amount of bondagewear acceptable in public? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 20, 2008 - 42 answers

sex in bondage porn? i'll be damned.

What's a good resource for the history of laws governing BDSM pornography? [discussion, of course, potentially nsfw] [more inside]
posted by nadawi on May 13, 2008 - 6 answers

Kinky Couture

Where are the good, exciting online fetishwear sites? [more inside]
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Mar 6, 2008 - 10 answers

How do I find my match?

I'm a straight guy and I have several kinks which drive me wild in bed. I'd like to date a straight girl who has similar kinks which drive her wild in bed. But I don't want to get into fetish lifestyles or anything extreme (unfortunately kink owners tend to get polarized into one big group of "alternative people" who dress in rubber and go to subterranean bondage clubs every week) - I just want a regularish relationship with some special orders in the bedroom. How do I do this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 2, 2008 - 18 answers

On your toes.

I want to tie up my kinky girlfriend, so I need to install a strong hook of some kind in my ceiling. Help me make sure it doesn't fall down. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 1, 2007 - 33 answers

Can you help me find a book that I read when I was young and impressionable which involved a man named Tristram tripping out completely and turning into a tree and after a little bit, become chained to the floor whilst having his penis threatened with nail scissors by his ex-girfriend?

I read a very strange book when I was young. The main character's name was Tristram, and it was very trippy. He turned into a tree, and there was weird, bondage type stuff going on with his girlfriend going at his penis with a pair of nail scissors. Do you have any idea what book this was? I'm guessing it would have been published in the late 60's/early 70's. [more inside]
posted by h00py on Oct 26, 2007 - 15 answers

What BDSM clubs can I find in New York City?

What BDSM clubs can I find in New York City (and surrounding)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 29, 2007 - 12 answers

Tie me up and call me Shirley

What is the origin of the phrase "tie me up and call me Shirley"? [more inside]
posted by MonkeySaltedNuts on Apr 4, 2007 - 15 answers

Help us get our freak on!

Help my partner and I find a place to do BDSM play where we'll fit in. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 9, 2006 - 3 answers

Music to tie for.

Music for bondage. [more inside]
posted by brautigan on May 11, 2006 - 49 answers

But baby - I've lost my mojo!

MojoFilter: Help - I've lost my mojo! How do I get it back? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 31, 2005 - 8 answers

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