Can anyone tell who the artist/writer of the 1950s or 1960s adult comic strip in the photos inside. Links might me NSFW. [more inside]
posted by sandra_s on Sep 19, 2009 - 3 answers

My girlfriend loves being tied up. Unfortunately, I never was a boy scout and suck at tying knots. (nsfw) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 28, 2008 - 18 answers

NSFW – My efforts to find non-dungeon-y locations for bondage-related photography in NYC (Manhattan, specifically) have been less than fruitful. Help! Very long question inside. [more inside]
posted by sandra_s on Dec 27, 2008 - 8 answers

How would a deaf person use a safe word? [Answers may be NSFW.] [more inside]
posted by sperose on Dec 16, 2008 - 12 answers

Where can I buy high quality bondage gear online? I'm looking for girls' wrist and ankle cuffs specifically, but I also like to browse. There are a million sites out there selling the same old stuff. I'm hoping to find something special.
posted by anonymous on Nov 6, 2008 - 12 answers

BDSMFilter: Is a minimal amount of bondagewear acceptable in public? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 20, 2008 - 42 answers

What's a good resource for the history of laws governing BDSM pornography? [discussion, of course, potentially nsfw] [more inside]
posted by nadawi on May 13, 2008 - 6 answers

Where are the good, exciting online fetishwear sites? [more inside]
posted by Ambrosia Voyeur on Mar 6, 2008 - 10 answers

I'm a straight guy and I have several kinks which drive me wild in bed. I'd like to date a straight girl who has similar kinks which drive her wild in bed. But I don't want to get into fetish lifestyles or anything extreme (unfortunately kink owners tend to get polarized into one big group of "alternative people" who dress in rubber and go to subterranean bondage clubs every week) - I just want a regularish relationship with some special orders in the bedroom. How do I do this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 2, 2008 - 18 answers

I want to tie up my kinky girlfriend, so I need to install a strong hook of some kind in my ceiling. Help me make sure it doesn't fall down. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 1, 2007 - 33 answers

I read a very strange book when I was young. The main character's name was Tristram, and it was very trippy. He turned into a tree, and there was weird, bondage type stuff going on with his girlfriend going at his penis with a pair of nail scissors. Do you have any idea what book this was? I'm guessing it would have been published in the late 60's/early 70's. [more inside]
posted by h00py on Oct 26, 2007 - 15 answers

What BDSM clubs can I find in New York City (and surrounding)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 29, 2007 - 12 answers

What is the origin of the phrase "tie me up and call me Shirley"? [more inside]
posted by MonkeySaltedNuts on Apr 4, 2007 - 15 answers

Help my partner and I find a place to do BDSM play where we'll fit in. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 9, 2006 - 3 answers

Music for bondage. [more inside]
posted by brautigan on May 11, 2006 - 49 answers

MojoFilter: Help - I've lost my mojo! How do I get it back? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 31, 2005 - 8 answers