Over the past week I have had the worst nights with my wife I can remember in a long time. I can't remember a time in the past ten years I have felt so angry and misunderstood. I am hoping someone can give me some pointers. Long story inside and probably NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 13, 2009 - 36 answers

As a bisexual woman I've been thinking lately about the strange status of bisexual men in my society (the USA). There are surely plenty of bi men around - I've met several and dated a couple, but I've read very little in depth writing from the point of view of men who date or sleep with both men and women. [more inside]
posted by crabintheocean on Dec 29, 2008 - 15 answers

I don't like labeling my sexuality, but other people seem to want me to do so. How do I deflect them? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2008 - 49 answers

I fell in love with my best friend, who is a guy. I’m a young bisexual guy. Apparently, he is not. Did the “wrong thing” and told him about how I felt, and was rejected, but things seemed okay afterward. However, I’m still hurting, I’m feeling delusional about it, and sometimes I think that he inadvertently isn’t helping… how do I live with my best friend now? Help me, Metafilter! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 7, 2008 - 25 answers

How do you turn your homoerotic relationship with your best friend into a full-fledged homosexual affair? [more inside]
posted by captain nemo the dream squire on Feb 27, 2008 - 32 answers

If blowjobs bug me, should I avoid dating men? I'm female. [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 20, 2007 - 58 answers

Help me, if you will, loosen the ferociously tangled knot of my sexual orientation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 12, 2007 - 51 answers

Married bisexuals filter. Those of you who identify as bisexual, yet are (or have been) married to the opposite sex: in what ways do you assert your identity among family members (esp. in-laws)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 22, 2005 - 33 answers

Bisexualfilter: I am a bisexual, Asian girl who is not quite out of the closet yet. Having a boyfriend kind of pulls me off any possible gaydar at the moment. However, I would like to know what physical "identifiers" there are to know whether someone's not-quite-straight, or whether I can do anything to let people clue in a bit without being too obvious. (So rainbow anything isn't really what I'm looking for, nor those badges that say attempt to be clever but come out trashy.) Thank you very much!
posted by anonymous on Jan 29, 2005 - 38 answers