I have a first date with a girl coming up, which is awesome and I'm psyched. Only... I've never dated girls before! Help! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 3, 2009 - 9 answers

So, women-who-have-sex-with-women, what do you consider having had sex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 15, 2009 - 23 answers

I'm a 39 year old divorced man with a successful business. I've been in relationships with women all my life. A year ago, I met and started a relationship with an 18 year old man. I'm as in love with him as I was my wife in the early years, he's given me so much love and affection that I don't ever want to lose him. We both live straight lives and this is all in secret. I also love him enough that I know he has to live his life, the same chance I've had. How do I handle this?
posted by anonymous on May 3, 2009 - 14 answers

I'm about to be involuntarily outed as a bisexual at work. What should I expect? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 27, 2009 - 25 answers

Fiancee best friend is bisexual. I have issues dealing with it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 21, 2008 - 27 answers

bisexual/straight relationships.. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 8, 2008 - 13 answers

My husband and I had sex with another couple this past weekend. I was surprised by how strongly I enjoyed making out with and going down on the female. Does that make me bisexual? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 9, 2007 - 45 answers

I am a guy who has been dating a wonderful girl for four years. We have been living together for most of that time. We are both out of college and in our mid-20s. Though this is my first relationship I feel like we are perfect for each other. She's had other relationships (long and short-term) and feels the same way. I am thinking of asking her to marry me, except for one thing: I am bisexual and it is difficult to give up men. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 28, 2007 - 39 answers

Looking for some great interracial bisexual porn on DVD. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 30, 2007 - 9 answers

It is a good thing where I work that I identify as gay. Very good. Recently however, I have fallen (madly) for a hetero... This would be somewhat of an issue of at my gay workplace and I'd like some good ole MeFi advice (MI) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2007 - 32 answers

I identify as a lesbian. Friends have recently begun discussing the fact that they think that that I'm bisexual. I honestly don't know if they're right. Help me find good essays/books/etc, preferably online, that deal with some of these issues... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 23, 2007 - 22 answers

Should I tell my long-term girlfriend (I'm male) that I have had sex with men in the past? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 15, 2007 - 65 answers

What do i do about bad sex? And confusion about my sexuality? This is really scary for me. And, frankly, getting pretty boring. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 30, 2006 - 27 answers

Bisexualfilter: I am a bisexual, Asian girl who is not quite out of the closet yet. Having a boyfriend kind of pulls me off any possible gaydar at the moment. However, I would like to know what physical "identifiers" there are to know whether someone's not-quite-straight, or whether I can do anything to let people clue in a bit without being too obvious. (So rainbow anything isn't really what I'm looking for, nor those badges that say attempt to be clever but come out trashy.) Thank you very much!
posted by anonymous on Jan 29, 2005 - 38 answers