I have a first date with a girl coming up, which is awesome and I'm psyched. Only... I've never dated girls before! Help! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 3, 2009 - 9 answers

There are gay icons and lesbian icons - are there people who are bisexual/pansexual icons? [more inside]
posted by divabat on Sep 15, 2009 - 47 answers

So, women-who-have-sex-with-women, what do you consider having had sex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 15, 2009 - 23 answers

How do I become more manly? Even though I think masculinity is bulls$#!%! [more inside]
posted by beingresourceful on Jul 29, 2009 - 56 answers

I'm a 39 year old divorced man with a successful business. I've been in relationships with women all my life. A year ago, I met and started a relationship with an 18 year old man. I'm as in love with him as I was my wife in the early years, he's given me so much love and affection that I don't ever want to lose him. We both live straight lives and this is all in secret. I also love him enough that I know he has to live his life, the same chance I've had. How do I handle this?
posted by anonymous on May 3, 2009 - 14 answers

I'm about to be involuntarily outed as a bisexual at work. What should I expect? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 27, 2009 - 25 answers

As a bisexual woman I've been thinking lately about the strange status of bisexual men in my society (the USA). There are surely plenty of bi men around - I've met several and dated a couple, but I've read very little in depth writing from the point of view of men who date or sleep with both men and women. [more inside]
posted by crabintheocean on Dec 29, 2008 - 15 answers

I went to a bar with a girl I'm seeing and hung out with her group of friends...and also met two of her ex-boyfriends. I played it off, but when we met, she told me she was 140% lesbian. Am I being too hung up on labels or is it a little shady that she didn't tell me that she's bisexual? [more inside]
posted by jnaps on Sep 22, 2008 - 33 answers

Fiancee best friend is bisexual. I have issues dealing with it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 21, 2008 - 27 answers

bisexual/straight relationships.. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 8, 2008 - 13 answers

You: Either gender, heterosexual or homosexual. Your potential date: identifies as your preferred gender, but bisexual. Would you be willing to pursue a romantic relationship, not just a sexual one, with that person? Why or why not? [more inside]
posted by plaingurl on Jan 29, 2008 - 58 answers

Calling all legal experts. Is it a potential lawsuit when a bisexual male does not disclose the fact he's active bisexual while he's actively involved with a heterosexual female?
posted by GoodJob! on Nov 11, 2007 - 77 answers

I've lived with my best friend and another good friend for 3 years. I've known them for 7--since we were freshmen in college. I've come to the conclusion that I'm bisexual, and that I have a bit of a crush on my best friend. I'm having trouble telling him that I'm not straight. I've read everyone's advice not to tell him I'm crushing on him, because there is a good chance that would be messy. What is a good way to tell him that I'm bi though? [more inside]
posted by rocket_johnny on Oct 16, 2007 - 32 answers

My husband and I had sex with another couple this past weekend. I was surprised by how strongly I enjoyed making out with and going down on the female. Does that make me bisexual? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 9, 2007 - 45 answers

I am a guy who has been dating a wonderful girl for four years. We have been living together for most of that time. We are both out of college and in our mid-20s. Though this is my first relationship I feel like we are perfect for each other. She's had other relationships (long and short-term) and feels the same way. I am thinking of asking her to marry me, except for one thing: I am bisexual and it is difficult to give up men. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 28, 2007 - 39 answers

Looking for some great interracial bisexual porn on DVD. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 30, 2007 - 9 answers

It is a good thing where I work that I identify as gay. Very good. Recently however, I have fallen (madly) for a hetero... This would be somewhat of an issue of at my gay workplace and I'd like some good ole MeFi advice (MI) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 13, 2007 - 32 answers

I identify as a lesbian. Friends have recently begun discussing the fact that they think that that I'm bisexual. I honestly don't know if they're right. Help me find good essays/books/etc, preferably online, that deal with some of these issues... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 23, 2007 - 22 answers

Should I tell my long-term girlfriend (I'm male) that I have had sex with men in the past? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 15, 2007 - 65 answers

What do i do about bad sex? And confusion about my sexuality? This is really scary for me. And, frankly, getting pretty boring. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 30, 2006 - 27 answers

Bisexualfilter: I am a bisexual, Asian girl who is not quite out of the closet yet. Having a boyfriend kind of pulls me off any possible gaydar at the moment. However, I would like to know what physical "identifiers" there are to know whether someone's not-quite-straight, or whether I can do anything to let people clue in a bit without being too obvious. (So rainbow anything isn't really what I'm looking for, nor those badges that say attempt to be clever but come out trashy.) Thank you very much!
posted by anonymous on Jan 29, 2005 - 38 answers

I'm toying with opening a site based upon the MeFi model for LGBT issues and community building. What software programs do MeFi and other online communities use to administer the system? I've really only installed MT and other simple programs before, so I'm looking for ease of install as well as ease of use... Thanks in advance!
posted by moonbird on Dec 19, 2003 - 9 answers