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I can't stop not doing my final project. I don't want to fail. Help.

This is my last semester of college, and there's a major project I haven't worked on for weeks. Parts of it are past due. Other people are counting on me. I feel paralyzed. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 2, 2014 - 23 answers

How to Talk to a Guy, Awkward Home Edition

I'm awkward, and I want to approach this guy that I know, but I'm not entirely sure how to do it. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 29, 2013 - 18 answers

I'm dating-challenged and dropped the ball. How I do pick it back up?

Over last weekend I spent a whole bunch of time with a lovely woman--dinners, picnics, walks, wine under the stars etc. These weren't explicitly dates, but it all seemed pretty romantic. At the end of the evening on Saturday and Sunday we had these awkward pauses when my insecurities and my desire to--give a goodnight kiss? Express my attraction? Or something--were warring. I don't know what she was thinking but it was awkward on both sides. Now I won't see her for a month. Do I email her and explicitly say that I'm interested? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 26, 2013 - 25 answers

Being professional while socially awkward

My role at work is changing such that I'll need to interact with people face-to-face and over the phone much more than I currently do. The problem: I'm kind of awkward. I don't want to make things go poorly for my employer, so what is my next step? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 7, 2013 - 21 answers

Nudging the S.O. toward the Pro-Social

My sweet, slightly socially awkward boyfriend is about to meet my parents. When he's nervous or excited, he tends to talk a mile a minute and fill all silences with chatter, sometimes talking over others, or monologuing, or butting in before someone is really done speaking. Is there any way I can gently, er, make this stop? [more inside]
posted by enzymatic on Jul 20, 2013 - 20 answers

Friend who makes other uncomfortable: to mention it or no?

I have a friend who often says embarrassing things she's not aware are embarrassing. I've said nothing. Should I? [more inside]
posted by FlyByDay on May 12, 2013 - 45 answers

You're doing it wrong.

I make websites. I have an old client whose new vendor is, to be blunt, not a competent web designer and not a developer at all. She has been coming to me for help, and it's putting me in quite an awkward situation. How can I remove myself at all gracefully? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 21, 2013 - 16 answers

Talking: How does it work?

I've been seeing my boyfriend for about three months, and just about everything is great. We see each other almost every day and sleep at each other's houses so often we practically live together. We have everything in common, and I've never met anyone I click with that much. One thing we have in common that's not so great, though: we're both shy, and sometimes we don't know what to say to each other! How can we overcome this? And, while we're on the subject, what are some good conversation starters? More info below. [more inside]
posted by Gee, June! on Feb 27, 2013 - 39 answers

How can I encourage more open communication with people?

Help with encouraging communication early in a relationship? [more inside]
posted by randomnity on Jan 2, 2013 - 6 answers

help me make a party a little fun at least

I'm throwing a (potentially awkward) party for about 20 people in my apartment. Mostly couples. Need advice. [more inside]
posted by buck:fuller on Dec 26, 2012 - 18 answers

Normally the awkwardness is part of my charm

How do I minimize awkwardness when I see a couple I stopped being friends with because, in part, I found myself falling very hard for one of them? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 30, 2012 - 21 answers

Help me network a little less awkwardly (what to do with my ham hands?)

I am in between jobs, just moved to a new market and have been advised my alma mater's career counselor to set up coffee dates with alums who are working at places that I am targeting. How can I go about doing this in a way that balances networking etiquette and making the most out of these meetings? [more inside]
posted by SpicyMustard on Aug 11, 2012 - 9 answers

why can't I keep a job?

I keep getting fired from jobs, and I think my poor social skills play a major role. I don't know how to change this pattern. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 10, 2012 - 29 answers

What's a good mindset/approach for developing a workout routine?

I'm in okay shape, but fitness and athleticism don't come naturally to me at all. Gyms are weird and stressful. Any advice on the best way to think about and develop a good workout routine? [more inside]
posted by whymog on May 21, 2012 - 19 answers

Why am I such a poor conversationalist, and how to improve?

Why do I repeat myself instead of explaining or describing what I mean in real-life conversation? When people have acknowledged my statement, why do I keep going with it at all, much less repeat almost the exact same phrasing? Why do I have so much trouble maintaining continuity in a topic? I am a dreadful conversationalist- this must be really irritating to others, but half the time I don't even realize that I'm doing it. How can I stop? [more inside]
posted by windykites on Apr 19, 2012 - 7 answers

Meeting new people: I feel like some (women) see me as a child

Meeting a new person; why do I get so frustrated [more inside]
posted by Lotsofcoffee on Feb 28, 2012 - 27 answers

How To Handle A Stressful Snowflake Situation With Class

How does one deal with constantly being told that they've done something wrong to another person? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 18, 2011 - 19 answers

Oh, so THIS is why they say not to mix money and friendship....

How should I deal with a friend who owes me money and is (apparently) avoiding contact? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 26, 2011 - 8 answers

What should a weird person like me talk about with stylists?

How can I stop being weird while getting my hair cut so that I don't have to be so embarrassed by my awkward conversations and not want to ever, ever go back? [more inside]
posted by smirkyfodder on Sep 18, 2010 - 33 answers

How should I handle this somewhat awkward dating situation?

How should I handle this somewhat awkward dating situation? [more inside]
posted by freem on May 23, 2010 - 31 answers

How do you handle dealing with customers who make you uncomfortable -- when you were hired to be friendly and available/approachable?

How do you handle dealing with customers who make you uncomfortable -- when you were hired to be friendly and available/approachable . . . and maybe for your looks, too? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 3, 2009 - 45 answers

So I guess we're not friends huh?

I met a new 'friend' (acquaintance) on a course I took recently. He sort-of invited himself to come and stay with me for a week in Paris. I figured that he was mostly coming to see Paris but also to hang out with me, but he's made himself completely scarce since arriving and I'm not sure how to deal. [more inside]
posted by ask me please on Jul 1, 2009 - 39 answers

Problems with sex

I'm worried about my new-ish sex life with my boyfriend. Please help me figure out if everything is alright, and if it isn't what I can do. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 19, 2009 - 24 answers

Help: My life is a rut but I feel too sad to get out

Lost my current life and all of my friends: how can I let go and move forward? [more inside]
posted by Hina on Mar 7, 2009 - 31 answers

How do I turn a one-night stand into more?

How do you turn a particularly enjoyable one-night stand into something more? Lots of overanalysis and fairly NSFW details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 2, 2009 - 7 answers

explain to me this... mojo.

Please explain the basic principles of flirting to me as if I were an alien who had recently landed on Earth trying to describe the phenomenon for my anthropological records or something. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 23, 2009 - 27 answers

Touchy, touchy!

I feel like I might be a closeted touchy-feely person. When I don't get frequent hugs/cuddles/human contact, I definitely feel the loss. Yet I find myself almost completely unable to initiate friendly contact with people unless we're intimately accquainted. How do I go about avoiding feeling physically isolated? Longer explanation, examples, etc. inside. [more inside]
posted by coppermoss on Nov 20, 2008 - 21 answers

I don't have any real life friends. What should I do?

I don't have any real life friends. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 23, 2008 - 34 answers

Am I prejudiced about friends working in service jobs?

How do I get over the feeling of awkwardness/guilt/prejudice when I encounter my friends working in service positions? [more inside]
posted by divabat on May 6, 2008 - 41 answers

Distill my bleeding parts

I've been putting off this post for fear of not getting everything across, I almost completely lack confidence and a sense of identity. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 30, 2008 - 20 answers

We don't let fuckups be bridesmaids in this wedding.

How to deal with not asking a close friend to be in your wedding because you don't think she's responsible enough? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 24, 2008 - 39 answers

How do I make him stop?

My housemate is in love with me and I am going bonkers. [more inside]
posted by skjønn on Sep 10, 2007 - 46 answers

I like you, but not, like, LIKE like you.

Meeting and making friends from online dating sites? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 26, 2007 - 14 answers

UGH!! I'm no Demi Moore

Paging Mrs. Robinson: How should a lady gracefully discourage a Bright Young Thing who seems to have formed an inappropriate crush? [more inside]
posted by lonefrontranger on Jul 4, 2006 - 56 answers

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