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Pro-tips for public displays of affection

How to give hugs and kisses that are always nice [more inside]
posted by dinosaurprincess on Jun 5, 2013 - 17 answers

 

Was this an abnormal thing to do?

I asked my piano teacher to get coffee. Slightly after the fact I'm second guessing myself a bit. [more inside]
posted by mermily on May 27, 2013 - 20 answers

I may have jumped the gun a bit

I may have jumped the gun a bit in promising a friend that they could attend a writing workshop group we are starting. How should I navigate the resulting trickiness without marring any relationships? [more inside]
posted by deathpanels on May 9, 2013 - 10 answers

New job prob

I just took a new job, which starts in two weeks. Upon accepting the job, I asked for a day off on June 7th, which is the day before my friend's wedding (in which I'm sort of a bridesmaid). I'd already gotten that day off with my current employer. This was fine with the new job. Now, I've realized that to make it to the bachelorette party, I will have to leave early on May 17th too... on my third day of work. How and when do I bring this up? Can I, even? [more inside]
posted by showbiz_liz on Apr 30, 2013 - 21 answers

Can I ignore this email without being an awful person?

Got an email from someone I dated very briefly, some time ago, which unsettled me. I have not replied, and don't want to, but I still feel somewhat guilty about ignoring/blocking this person. Please help me walk the line between "honoring my inner Gavin de Becker" and "being kind of an asshole to someone." [more inside]
posted by like_a_friend on Apr 16, 2013 - 48 answers

My friend is in love with another friend's sister?

tl;dr: Friend likes friend's sister. Friend is very socially awkward and sister is very scared of him for his "creepy" demeanor (according to her words) and the sister needs to know how to make him stop liking her. Ideas discussed include outright rejection, fake boyfriend, fake pictures, which I had mostly disagreed with, and need advice to sort this out. [more inside]
posted by JYuanZ on Apr 8, 2013 - 18 answers

I either want us to be friends or friends who sometimes kiss.

I can't tell if my friend's best friend has a thing for me. We made out on Saturday after going out. Does he, in fact, like me, and what can I do to work through the awkwardness? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 5, 2013 - 22 answers

What more can I do to help my teenage son?

My 15 year old son is in 9th grade. He is not doing well in math (he's always struggled). He has no real friends to speak of. He has no desire to try any sports or extracurricular activities. He just turned 15 and doesn't seem at all interested in getting his restricted drivers license. He doesn't seem at all depressed. He tends towards the quiet side, but on the right topic he talks alot. [more inside]
posted by getyourlife on Jan 13, 2013 - 46 answers

So, your child is in jail, eh? How's that working for you?

Guide me through calling the parents of a friend who is in jail. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 4, 2012 - 12 answers

Playdate conundrum

My Son (Oliver, 8) goes to school. He has regular playdates and the occasional sleepover with other kids from his class. One of the children from his class is the child of a local politician, his name is Thomas. Oliver and Thomas are friends, but Oliver is friends with many other kids and some of whom he would prefer. Sometimes Thomas can be a difficult kid, not exactly sure what his status is, but he has more needs than most kids. With that said, he is only 8 and not a bad kid, quite polite. We have had drinks with Thomas's parents before and it was nice, however I made sure to avoid any political conversations as the father is the elected local representative of a party I find ... unappealing. I know the mother more than the father and we get along fine. [more inside]
posted by njk on Dec 1, 2012 - 40 answers

I know not EVERYONE is a micromanager...help me act like I know it!

Past experiences with obnoxious, micromanaging-prone colleagues, etc., have left me with a tendency toward knee-jerk defensive reactions to even the mildest, friendliest comments about my hobby/crafting projects-in-progress. I don't like having these reactions, but I'm at a loss as to how to deal with them less awkwardly and am thinking some better "scripts" need to be added to my personal phrase bank. Suggestions? (Lengthy details abound...) [more inside]
posted by aecorwin on Nov 5, 2012 - 13 answers

How to help a friend find love when they're not equipped for it?

How can I help my extremely unattractive (physically and relationship-wise) friend either find someone to date/love, realize he needs self-improvement, or come to terms with not finding it? [more inside]
posted by corb on Oct 17, 2012 - 33 answers

Boy Meets Girl. Boy is Awkward.

Met a girl who could be perfect for me. I'm not generally 'good' with women or relationships. How can I best attempt to make something work with this one? (Special snowflake details inside) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 9, 2012 - 21 answers

Call me once you've forgotten why you didn't like me

Is reconnecting with casual dates/flings ever a good idea? [more inside]
posted by modernserf on Oct 8, 2012 - 6 answers

How do I word my reason for leaving this ministry job

I'm applying for new jobs and struggling to figure out how to word my "reason for leaving" in an unusual situation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 4, 2012 - 11 answers

How do I make friends without creeping them out?

How to make new friends: socially awkward version. Or, have I slipped up here? [more inside]
posted by thrasher on Oct 2, 2012 - 22 answers

My new roommate just declared: no dates can ever spend the night here.

My new roommate just declared to me that there is a rule in our apartment: No dates are allowed to ever sleep over. Can you help me figure out how to have a productive discussion about this with her? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 14, 2012 - 63 answers

Dating, for a messed up obese guy

I was (am?) socially broken, and had (have?) crippled my self-confidence, as well as my body. Help me fix me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 3, 2012 - 31 answers

Help me not mentally flagellate myself

As a shy, awkward introvert who is frankly not good with people, how can I shut down my own negative self-talk when I'm in the midst of social situations--namely, a big two-day-long event happening this weekend? Are there any easily remembered mantras or things I can tell myself so that I'm not focusing the whole time on my own shortcomings? [more inside]
posted by indognito on Jul 28, 2012 - 36 answers

Another ambiguous friendship problem, involving 2 shy snowflakes

Two shy snowflakes romance question. Need ideas for pushing the boundaries of our ambiguous friendship. [more inside]
posted by JeanDupont on Jul 15, 2012 - 7 answers

Like Being a Teenager

Still feel comfortable, happy and awkward around him. How can I stop the awkward part? [more inside]
posted by InterestedInKnowing on Jun 25, 2012 - 5 answers

Should I invite friends to our wedding I'm not that close to?

Should I invite friends to our wedding that I'm not that close to and/or haven't really stayed in touch with? Do people think of wedding invitations as obligations to give gifts? Would it be really awkward? Or am I over-thinking this and I should just invite whoever I want to invite? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 22, 2012 - 33 answers

Please dress me!

"Informal" dress code. "But you still should... you know, dress up." What do I wear?! [more inside]
posted by AmandaA on Jun 4, 2012 - 30 answers

One sided friendship, or poor social skills?

I'm having a hard time trying to figure out if a new friendship is one sided and should be tossed, or if I'm just not presenting myself well. [more inside]
posted by Zapak on Mar 10, 2012 - 20 answers

How to play it cool boy, real cool (and dry).

Ok, I have less than 24 hours, and I am already sweating: what are some drastic short-term steps I can take to stop myself from sweating in an interview? [more inside]
posted by This_Will_Be_Good on Mar 8, 2012 - 16 answers

How to cope with feeling "outside" company

How to cope with feeling "outside" company [more inside]
posted by Lotsofcoffee on Mar 7, 2012 - 33 answers

How to bail on plans made with a new acquaintance who has my real number?

So I got picked up while visiting a friend in a different city, and I made myself seem available but I have a boyfriend and have a lot of other things on my plate. How do I get out of following up? [more inside]
posted by maykasahara on Mar 2, 2012 - 15 answers

How to accept or help a SO with adult ADD?

The guy I am dating has unusual tendencies, is this a part of his ADD? Or his quirkiness? How should I approach the subject? [more inside]
posted by Chelsaroo650 on Feb 13, 2012 - 75 answers

How to deter an unspoken crush without cruelty?

Awkward situation with male friend and obvious crush on me, though he will deny it up and down. What to do? [more inside]
posted by Hey nonny nonny mouse on Feb 13, 2012 - 58 answers

I feel like a boy crazy middle schooler all over again

I recently reconnected with a guy that I hadn't seen in ten years. (We were fourteen then, and we're twenty-four now). After getting some friendly drinks, I'm interested in pursuing things further. [more inside]
posted by ablazingsaddle on Feb 8, 2012 - 26 answers

What is the inverse of schadenfreude?

What is the word (not necessarily in English) for feeling acute embarrassment for another person? And in a particular kind of situation... [more inside]
posted by zardoz on Jan 18, 2012 - 14 answers

How to handle comments like "You look down..." or "Is everything ok?

How to handle comments like "You look down..." or "Is everything ok? [more inside]
posted by LeanGreen on Jan 9, 2012 - 20 answers

Can someone act rude out of awkwardness?

Went out to see a movie with a friend, and his behavior confused me tremendously. [more inside]
posted by 01080591 on Dec 20, 2011 - 32 answers

Help me kill my inner George Lucas

I have to record myself interviewing others for work, and to my horror noticed I pose in such a way that gives me a double chin all the time. This is gross and makes me look weird/incompetent. How can I not do this anymore, ASAP? [more inside]
posted by slow graffiti on Dec 15, 2011 - 13 answers

Over-thinking a plate of human beings.

You’re throwing a party. How do you invite some, but not all, members of one of your social circles with the minimal amount of hurt feelings and drama? [more inside]
posted by bondcliff on Nov 29, 2011 - 34 answers

What to do about a friend living in an unhealthy situation? A friend lives in a house that is unclean to the point of being hazardous, and I don't know how I can help.

What to do about a friend living in an unhealthy situation? A friend lives in a house that is unclean to the point of being hazardous, and I don't know how I can help. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 28, 2011 - 26 answers

This must be, like, seventeenth-wave feminism.

Women of AskMe, what does pinching a man's ass mean and/or how should one react to such an event? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 12, 2011 - 43 answers

What's the best way to survive a stressful social event?

What's the best way to survive a stressful social event? [more inside]
posted by midmarch snowman on Oct 6, 2011 - 29 answers

haha, I need a massage ... NOT

How would you handle this inappropriate work scenario? [more inside]
posted by seesom on Aug 31, 2011 - 15 answers

"Ladies and gentlemen, let's get this over with!"

Seeking the hive mind's advice on best practices for running a comedy open mic. Or, maybe I should call it a Mostly Open Mic. [more inside]
posted by EatTheWeak on Aug 25, 2011 - 9 answers

Head on bed makes me red

How do I stop my boyfriend's head from rolling into awkward positions while we sleep? It causes him to snore and it's also driving me batty. [more inside]
posted by mlo on Aug 22, 2011 - 5 answers

Mexico city Monday

A quick question regarding tipping in Mexico City. [more inside]
posted by repoman on Jul 18, 2011 - 3 answers

What is the best way to collect on a debt owed by a friend?

What is the best way to collect on a loan made to a friend? [more inside]
posted by lovableiago on Jul 6, 2011 - 19 answers

Do awkward silences necessarily = incompatibility?

Do awkward silences always mean incompatibility? Or can awkwardness come from within and have little to do with the other person? [more inside]
posted by mhm407 on Jul 4, 2011 - 18 answers

Racially loaded foot-in-mouth extraction, prevention

Please help me salvage this situation, if possible. I accidentally said something racist to someone I want to be my friend. [more inside]
posted by ferngully on Jun 25, 2011 - 56 answers

(in theory) I'm a manager, how do I get my staff to start treating me like it?

(in theory) I'm a manager, how do I get my staff to start treating me like it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 17, 2011 - 22 answers

co worker constantly texting me

Last week a coworker said,"hey, we should catch up for a coffee outside of work sometime", and so we swapped numbers. Since then she's constantly texting--from first thing in the morning ("Good morning") to last thing at night ("Good nite and sweet dreams, going 2 sleep now"). Anyone else had such strong friend-making attempts from coworkers? How did you deal? [more inside]
posted by owlrigh on Jun 10, 2011 - 41 answers

Two hours in a car with my new boss

Help me survive two hours in a car with my new boss. [more inside]
posted by Flying Saucer on May 31, 2011 - 16 answers

Help me avoid my awkward coworker

I started a small beer club at work with some of my coworkers. One of them invited a coworker who makes me incredibly uncomfortable. How do I get out of this? [more inside]
posted by punchtothehead on May 10, 2011 - 35 answers

How Do You "Break Up" with Another Dude?

How Do You "Break Up" with Another Dude? I think I remember my present problem turning up on Seinfeld or Friends or something, which makes sense because it's kind of absurd. When a romantic relationship no longer functions, there are some established processes and social mores. When a regular friendship maybe needs to end or be heavily renegotiated, the way to proceed is much less clear. Help? [more inside]
posted by EatTheWeak on Apr 30, 2011 - 36 answers

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