I feel like my life is over and I'm only 35. I feel completely stagnant and stuck, relationshipwise and jobwise. Do I need to change things or do I need to learn how to deal? Help me figure out how to be a happier person. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 28, 2009 - 34 answers

I've been hanging out with a girl for a while, just as friends because she's had a boyfriend for as long as I've known her. I am, of course, into her. She's intelligent and beautiful and laughs at my jokes--all that good stuff. So, I was honestly quite pleased when she started having problems with her boyfriend. Every couple of days, we'd see each other and she'd tell me about some other dick thing he'd said. She'd also started sitting closer to me, touching me on the arm when we talked, and holding on a little too long when we hugged. My experience with women is somewhat limited (I've had two serious girlfriends), but I could see that she liked me. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 16, 2009 - 28 answers

I'm not even thirty and the sex is terrible. Am I the only person with this problem and what should I do about it? Apologies, there is... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 28, 2007 - 11 answers

How do I help relieve my boyfriend's sexual performance anxieties? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 8, 2007 - 20 answers

Why does male performance anxiety continue to severely hamper my sex life? [more inside]
posted by kyle on Mar 12, 2006 - 11 answers

I have problems dealing with rejection. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 12, 2006 - 14 answers

ErectionFilter: Anyone had performance-anxiety erection issues that they have successfully solved? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 23, 2005 - 19 answers