Help me understand Anger and its relation to self-esteem, loving relationships, circmstances, and daily life. Are you or have you been and angry person ? to what extend have you been able to spot the causes and / or gotten better ? How did it feel ?
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posted by Jireel
on Jul 13, 2012 -
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What methods have worked for you in terms of keeping a rational mind when you feel yourself becoming (rationally or irrationally) angry?
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posted by oink
on May 31, 2012 -
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Help me figure out if this is a relationship dealbreaker-- my husband recently dragged me out of my chair, against my will.
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posted by DianaV
on Nov 26, 2011 -
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I'm looking for advice on how to help my five year old with some behavioral issues.
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posted by Cuke
on Nov 22, 2011 -
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A question about adult autism anger management issues in a housemate context.
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posted by lover
on Aug 14, 2011 -
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I need advice on building a healthy relationship with my father despite his temper.
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posted by raintree
on Jul 25, 2011 -
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My relationship has ended and through this process I've realized certain things. I want to share my clarity with my ex.
I'm sure there are selfish reasons I have this impulse, but I also am a bit concerned that he may truly not be conscious of, what I consider to be, serious anger issues- which I hesitate to call verbal abuse, although that is most likely accurate.
I never named things this way while in our relationship- we would argue around in a maze of clever denials and emotional outbursts- which I never found my way out of. . .
So, am I tricking myself by thinking that this is something he needs to be confronted with for his emotional health? Or is there potentially some positive way to convey this harsh reality to someone who, so far, has not been able to acknowledge the severity of their behavior?
posted by abirdinthehand
on Mar 30, 2011 -
31 answers
I've lived in Japan for some time now, but I'm not very good at the language. When I encounter anything beyond the simple, and I don't understand what's going on, I feel frustrated, then angry, then ashamed, which undermines any confidence I have to speak the language, which makes it less likely that I'll do better the next time. What can I do to break this cycle?
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posted by MShades
on Aug 8, 2010 -
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Me: unable to get past feeling majorly disappointed in my parents. You: someone who can tell me how to get over it.
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posted by Leezie
on Jul 12, 2010 -
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I am a whiner. I get easily irritated by things and complain a lot. It doesn't bother some people, but it bothers others who are close to me. I don't want to stress them out, so I'm asking for ways I can tone down that aspect of my personality so it doesn't alienate others.
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posted by Ziggy500
on May 4, 2010 -
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My fiance has male answer syndrome. Lately, I have found myself getting irritated almost after every sentence. How do I change my perception/attitude so I can handle this with grace and humor instead of anger and stabbing?
posted by spec80
on Feb 7, 2010 -
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How do I cope with my angry teenage daughter? After an somewhat nonsensical rant about how hard her life is (I wanted to chat with her about applying to colleges and how the process was going), she dropped the bomb that she doesn't trust me and therefore doesn't have to talk to me.
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posted by dzaz
on Oct 18, 2009 -
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Things have been super-stressful at work. My therapist keeps asking if I have a way to get all this anger and aggression and stress out of my system... and I don't! I usually just rant and get more angry. What are some better ways to get the frustration out?
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posted by heatherann
on Jul 21, 2009 -
55 answers