I know I have a problem drinking. I am a binge drinker that drinks once a month just before my period. Alcoholic Anonymous is the only answer I am getting. It has been helpful in the past, as I had 7 months of sobriety. As a binge drinker one or two nights a month, what do you think I should do, as I have found AA not the exact solution to my problems right now? Let me explain when, how, and why I drink. Please help!
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posted by Jewel98
on Apr 27, 2013 -
19 answers
She's important to me. She used to be so smart and so much fun to be around. I feel like I can't just walk away, and in any event, I don't want to. Help me figure out what to do. Avalanche of details to follow.
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posted by sevensnowflakes
on Jan 22, 2013 -
22 answers
Is there anything I can do to help my alcoholic father? He is retired, getting older, and the issue is getting progressively worse.
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 29, 2012 -
14 answers
My fiance went on a massive alcohol binge this week, two weeks before our wedding, and has left me. Any suggestions for coping with the devastation and loss I am feeling? Portland, OR-specific suggestions are especially welcome.
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 13, 2012 -
22 answers
I'm thinking of attending an Adult Children of Alcoholics meeting, but I don't really know if it's worthwhile. I'd love opinions from those with experience.
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posted by windykites
on Oct 7, 2012 -
11 answers
Found my sister yesterday in a poo covered apartment. I had her sent to the hospital (which she was released from 2 weeks ago). She was drinking again but now her apt, carpet, floors, mattress and sofa is covered with poo. I just opened the windows and locked the door when they carted her out. It needs to be cleaned up but should SHE do it or hire someone to do it or should I get it cleaned up and/or present her with the bill? Will a regular cleaning service do this or do I need some sort of specialized service?
I've talked to some people and arguments for having me clean it up is:
someone out of the hospital really doesn't have the strength to deal with this.
arguments against is:
she needs to see/be responsible for her life and the results.
I don't know what to do. Any thoughts?
posted by CodeMonkey
on Aug 15, 2012 -
45 answers
We're getting a divorce. We live in a rent controlled San Francisco apartment. We both refuse to leave and it's hell. Hivemind, please help me.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 30, 2012 -
34 answers
I'm an adult child of alcoholics, and I've just recently come to realize I actually do exhibit many of the classic behaviors of one. Now that I have that figured out, how do I retrain myself to NOT do those things?
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posted by thrasher
on Mar 2, 2012 -
43 answers
I know you're not my lawyer or a lawyer at all.. but I need some help. Recently lost my job due to an alcohol-related relapse that happened off work hours. How do I move on from this?
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posted by somersault
on Jul 18, 2011 -
34 answers
Is there anything in the Bible that can help one justify the estrangement of an abusive parent? I know that not speaking to my mother is the right thing to do, but what does the good book say?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 2, 2011 -
22 answers
Which alcoholic drinks would you recommend to someone who has GERDs? I would like to have a few drinks to get a little buzz going this weekend with friends without damaging my stomach. Also, what food and/or OTC would be good to take before and after drinking?
posted by anonymous
on Sep 23, 2010 -
11 answers
I'm planning on moving in with my parents at the end of August, but I think my mom might be an alcoholic. I don't know what to do.
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posted by anonymous
on May 27, 2010 -
30 answers
My mother and step-father are going to Europe for a month, leaving my bi-polar alcoholic 25 year old sister alone in their house. As I am the only family member without a job that will be in town when they are gone, my mother has told me that I am responsible for keeping an eye on her. The problem is that I am a stay-at-home mom to a 2 year old daughter, that at the moment my husband does not want anywhere near my sister. What to do?
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posted by Lapin
on Apr 12, 2010 -
41 answers
Tomorrow I will be 'supervising' my best friend and roommate as he goes through what will be the first full day of detoxing from his alcohol addiction. General pointers would be appreciated.
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posted by tumbleweedjack
on Mar 17, 2010 -
18 answers
I have an alcoholic friend whose behavior is getting increasingly disturbing and abusive. He sent me a frightening e-mail today and I'm scared and not sure what to do.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 4, 2010 -
32 answers
I've read all the AskMeFi posts tagged with alcoholism, with a careful eye towards the "what should I do, my boyfriend is an alcoholic" ones, but that wasn't my problem. I knew I had to break up with my very-high-functioning drunk of a boyfriend, and I did. I just need advice on dealing with the fall out.
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 11, 2010 -
26 answers
I fear my sister is falling off the wagon in her ongoing struggle with alcoholism. Is there anything I can do to stop this slide? Challenge: 500 miles away.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 2, 2009 -
20 answers
I am a recently recovering alcoholic. I am casually dating someone who does not know I am a recovering alcoholic. Should I tell him? How should I tell him? Should I end things all together?
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posted by somersault
on Aug 24, 2009 -
23 answers
Looking for info regarding employer disability laws relating to alcohol rehab in state of Conneticut.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 6, 2009 -
4 answers
My boyfriend's best friend from childhood is an exact clone of Barney Gumble (from the Simpsons) in regards to drinking, but fortunately lives out of state. My boyfriend stopped drinking heavily last year, and says he's happier for it. Now "Barney" is coming to spend a week with us, and plans to move to our town/neighborhood in the fall. How do I deal with this situation, and my anxieties that my lovely boyfriend will revert to his old ways?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 30, 2009 -
46 answers
My employer showed up half cut yesterday morning and proceeded to botch up 2 phone calls with clients. This isn't the first time and he doesn't hide his drinking and has been sober and "tried" AA. His performance and attendance are compromised when he drinks, one client called back and asked if he had been drinking.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 25, 2008 -
19 answers
My father just left rehab for the 2nd time. What is an appropriate response that will get him to realize that he needs to deal with his alcoholism?
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posted by otherwordlyglow
on Feb 26, 2007 -
15 answers
I'm an alcoholic. I've been shitfaced every day for the last 9 months. I consider the booze a nepenthe; it's something that allows me to forget all the sins I've comitted in my short life on this planet.
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posted by kfx
on Oct 13, 2006 -
86 answers
Is there such a thing as non-alcoholic brandy or whiskey? (or other types of 'hard liquor')? How do they taste? They taste okay?
posted by jak68
on Aug 30, 2006 -
14 answers
What is the best way for a long-time alcoholic to quit? Primarily concerned with medical aspects/health risks of detox.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 25, 2006 -
15 answers
Maybe I have a
couple problems. The first one probably stems from the second. Insurance won't cover therapy or medication. Is there any place in Baltimore, MD that offers free or
very low-cost assistance? Thank you.
posted by anonymous
on Mar 30, 2006 -
9 answers
