Wow. My sexuality is really messed up. [more inside]
What are the various theoretical frameworks for understanding why victims of abuse often 'deal' with their trauma by becoming perpetrators themselves? What explanations have been suggested, for example, as to why sexually molested children often grow up into sexually-molesting adults? The one that comes to mind is that the victim somehow feels he can master the trauma by becoming its perpetrator. What, or who, is the origin of this theory? Is it Freud? Does it (still) have any currency in professional circles? What, if any, other theories have been suggested?
Need help in choosing a psychologist. [more inside]
What leads to a child/young adult picking up a parent's behavior (good or bad), rather than rebelling against it? [more inside]
How do you best support a survivor of childhood abuse? [more inside]