That's basically what I know right now. He kissed someone he's in a group with after the two of them went out to lunch. We've been together for 6 years, have been living in different states for the past year and a half; the distance was supposed to end this summer when we moved in together in a new city, but now I don't know what to think. He told me himself this morning; the kiss happened yesterday.
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 4, 2013 -
24 answers
Girlfriend of 3 years got blackout drunk slept with a random acquaintance while on a business trip. I need tips, methods and advice to find clarity so I can make a good decision, rather than one of impulse.
I'll do my best to keep this brief, but, well, these things have details:
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 31, 2012 -
107 answers
Can a 3 year relationship survive a break after trust is broken (not infidelity...but almost)?
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posted by fezzle
on Dec 8, 2011 -
38 answers
I love my boyfriend and we've been talking about getting married. I'm a little wary of some things about his past and some things he's said, even though he's been nothing but wonderful to me. I'm reluctant to address them with him directly because I don't want him to feel like I'm judging his character. Are my concerns valid, or do I let this one go?
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posted by Be cool, sodapop
on Jun 12, 2011 -
52 answers
I told myself I would never post a relationship question, but here goes: My boyfriend had, what amounts to in my mind, an emotional affair that's been going on for the past 6 months. I need help deciding if this is worth salvaging. There are, of course, lots of details inside.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 29, 2010 -
43 answers
Started seeing a new guy very recently. I know for a fact that he had a a boyfriend when we met; however, he claims that things haven't been working out and that they're "taking a break." How do you know whether to believe someone if you haven't known them very long?
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posted by Vinegaroon
on Dec 28, 2010 -
15 answers
Some friends found my husband's active profile on a swinging website. I did not know he was doing this. Needless to say, I'm angry.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 26, 2010 -
24 answers
Ran into my sister's boyfriend holding hands with another woman. She's trying to figure out what to do now. Advice on setting new limits and ground rules?
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posted by anonymous
on May 19, 2010 -
60 answers
I have a hunch the new boyfriend is going to drop the "I love you" bomb this weekend. I'm psyched. Trouble is: I don't know if I believe him, and therefore don't know how to best respond.
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 7, 2007 -
49 answers
Is my fiancée cheating on me, or is this simply a case of a wrong number at the wrong time?
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 29, 2007 -
131 answers
Is it possible for an otherwise happy relationship to survive an act of willful cheating?
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posted by anonymous
on May 17, 2007 -
86 answers
Are pretty and popular women more likely to cheat than unpopular women? I have always gone for the quiet, shy girl that was pretty, but pretty in the sort of way that most guys wouldn't notice. Are girls that can have any guy they want more likely to cheat? Or are they more faithful because they have trouble finding guys interested in more than their looks or popularity?
posted by anonymous
on Oct 12, 2004 -
19 answers
