Imminent break of self imposed celibacy after a few years. Going away on romantic trip next week. Gentleman in question unaware of my choice or relationship history. How to prepare? Do I tell him this? What can I do to prepare myself? [more inside]
posted by a2 on Jul 14, 2012 - 45 answers

Asking for a friend: How can a person get over a crippling anxiety of getting dumped? [more inside]
posted by stedman15 on Feb 20, 2012 - 11 answers

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We are happy and are sexually active, but we just don't have sex. I know that everybody does it at any age now, and that everywhere you turn, you are somehow reminded of it, but is that so bad? Basically, when we first got together, everything was (of course) perfect. He was a virgin but I wasn't, and he knew that. I liked the fact that we had a lot of sexual tension but that he didn't ever pressure me to do anything I didn't want to. Basically, he wanted me to make the shots. And I feel almost like it's still that way now. [more inside]
posted by xopaigexo on Nov 29, 2011 - 29 answers

Any advice or tips for a woman who orgasms prematurely? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 12, 2011 - 17 answers

I have just been seduced by a relatively older, more experienced, kinky woman who's keen to show me the darker side of pleasure. I'm a relatively inexperienced younger woman. What could I do so that *she* gets some fun out of it too? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 21, 2010 - 18 answers

Women: Do you enjoy cum on the face? (NSFW, natch) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 8, 2010 - 78 answers

How do I identify and meet women interested in a one night stand? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 12, 2009 - 19 answers

How accurate are the media portrayals of young people engaging in risky sexual behaviors? [more inside]
posted by reenum on Jul 8, 2009 - 54 answers

Why do some people's hair on their head and pubic hair not match in color? [more inside]
posted by reenum on May 14, 2009 - 30 answers

I'm having pervasive sexual thoughts. How do I make them stop? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 12, 2009 - 36 answers

I'm a man and I can't orgasm. What can I do to remedy this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 16, 2008 - 18 answers

Sex positions for overweight people? NSFW details inside [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 12, 2008 - 10 answers

My friend is willing to become a friend with benefits. Should I do it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 25, 2008 - 22 answers

I'm obsessed with sex. I think about it constantly. How can I make it stop? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 18, 2008 - 35 answers

I'm 29 and haven't had sex. How can I reconcile with the fact that it might not ever happen for me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 17, 2008 - 42 answers

Why is it easier for me to achieve sexual arousal now rather than 10 years ago? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 27, 2007 - 12 answers

I’d like to read some fiction books where the heroine is intelligent, 40+ years old, not incredibly gorgeous or incredibly wealthy or incredibly famous, but with responsibilities (like teenage kids or a career), who has explicit & hot sex. Chick lit all grown up, you might say. [more inside]
posted by b33j on Jun 14, 2007 - 24 answers

Where has my sex drive gone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 13, 2007 - 23 answers

Tips for woman on top position? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 22, 2006 - 21 answers

Is it normal for a woman to be unable to orgasm alone or with a (male) partner unless she fantasizes about women? [more inside]
posted by orangeshoe on Aug 30, 2006 - 37 answers