I want to be a healthy, fit person, and I want my partner to want that, too. What's the selling point? How can I convince my SO to make this change with me and notice how our generally very sedentary life is sucking the life out of our relationship? Help!
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 16, 2013 -
31 answers
Dear MetaFilter: I need advice on serodiscordant dating. (That is, when a HIV- guy starts seeing a HIV+ guy.)
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 5, 2012 -
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Embarrassing question about stuff going on with my lady parts. Probably NSFW. Apologies in advance for the following grossness within.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 1, 2011 -
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Where can I find a sexual enhancement gel containing visnadin? Lyriana no longer sells this product.
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posted by JJkiss
on Jan 13, 2011 -
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23 year old male. My libido is gone. I’m freaking out. Any guys been through this? (NSFW and REALLY LONG).
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 30, 2010 -
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My boyfriend, who is a healthy 33 year old with no STD's had blood during and after his ejaculation last night.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 18, 2010 -
16 answers
How can you (male) have great sex if you physically can't orgasm because of invasive surgery?
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 1, 2010 -
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I'm a mid-20s male, I'm having orgasm problems and I desperately need to do something about it. Any advice would be gratefully received!
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 27, 2009 -
20 answers
Can you hook a gal up? I'm looking for recommendations for a good latex-free, powder-free disposable exam glove for safe and very tactile sex.
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posted by nakedcodemonkey
on Aug 13, 2009 -
13 answers
How accurate are the media portrayals of young people engaging in risky sexual behaviors?
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posted by reenum
on Jul 8, 2009 -
54 answers
What is the best male enhancement medicine or natural herbs to stay hard longer and to carry more stamina.
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posted by minsid
on Mar 20, 2009 -
13 answers
can I be pregnant? I've been on DEPO until few weeks ago, and used a condom every time since then.
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posted by esolo
on Mar 3, 2009 -
13 answers
Sex is often touted as beneficial for one's health. Is this supposed to be true for both men and women, and how much evidence is there for the claim (apart from calorie expenditure, which is still negligible compared to actual aerobic exercise)? And is it primarily the orgasm that's supposedly healthful, or even sex sans orgasm?
posted by taramosalata
on Nov 10, 2008 -
20 answers
What precautions should my partner and I take if we want to share a silicone sex toy without spreading HPV between us?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 9, 2008 -
7 answers
I'm having a sexual relationship with someone who has MRSA and Hepatitis C and I'm concerned about getting either...
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posted by nickerbocker
on Feb 26, 2008 -
16 answers
I can't keep an erection while having sex with my girlfriend. What is my problem?
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posted by misled
on Nov 15, 2007 -
31 answers
Any specific reason why I would get really dry skin "down there," and is there a remedy?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 8, 2007 -
22 answers
Male ejaculation question: My boyfriend takes a long time to ejaculate (40 minutes to an hour and a half, and sometimes not at all). He says its normal for him, and he doesnt mind. But i find it really frustrating having to go that long, and still sometimes have to stop with him unsatisfied. Is this normal?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 2, 2007 -
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I'm gay, new at dating, and kind of overweight (though not morbidly so -- say ~ 20/22% body fat), though my face doesn't show it. I'm afraid dates will like me, in part based on that deceptive face, then discover my fatness during a moment of intimacy, and be repulsed. Am I being paranoid?
posted by anonymous
on Aug 24, 2007 -
21 answers
The school nurse called my best friend a slut! Well, not exactly, but darn close.
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posted by Wroksie
on May 13, 2007 -
68 answers
My basic question is how to do the “let’s get tested for STDs” talk/request without turning off the other person. General responses are great, and if you have the patience to read about my experience inside, specific advice and suggestions would be really nice.
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 22, 2007 -
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Is it socially acceptable for girls to engage in oral sex with different guys she has only met at parties? I just recently had unprotected oral sex with a girl on the belief that she had only one partner before me and that I would be able to get a long-term relationship out of it. You know that was the first time I had any kind of sex and according to her I'm still a virgin since oral sex doesn't count as "real sex".
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posted by anonymous
on Apr 11, 2007 -
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GirlFilter: I am crooked... inside. Travelers to my vagina would find themselves taking an abrupt right turn 2 or 3 inches in. Is this normal? Do I have to marry a crooked man?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 25, 2007 -
28 answers
So I think I went out and got myself a case of gonorrhea. (Just what I always wanted!) What are my treatment options for getting this taken care of ASAP? I understand that it can generally be handled with a course of antibiotics... but how can I best go about getting them? I don't have a regular doctor right now -- I've just made an appointment with a new doctor for the end of the month, but I'd prefer to get on top of this before then (since leaving it unattended for more than two weeks seems like a bad idea). I'm a gay guy in NYC, so advice specific to that milieu would be superb, but in the name of creating a valuable reference thread I'd be interested to see information aimed at less specific contexts as well.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 14, 2006 -
15 answers
When we have sex it is usually women who utter the most vocal noise. What are the possible evolutionary origins of this?
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posted by 0bvious
on Jan 10, 2006 -
54 answers
I'm about to start my first salaried job, and will therefore have health insurance. My girlfriend has none. We'd like a method of birth control that's safer and more effective than condoms, but neither of us can afford birth control pills out of pocket. As a man, is there any way I can use my health insurance to pay for birth control pills? If not, what are my other options?
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posted by tweebiscuit
on Nov 13, 2005 -
26 answers
Is there a service that will, either through the internet or snail mail or even via telephone, notify your previous sex partners that you may have given them a sexually transmitted disease?
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posted by Clay201
on May 9, 2005 -
11 answers
