So...my nineteen year old son just informed me that he is president of his college's abstinence club. I think that this is a huge mistake. How can I help my son get laid and see what he is missing? [more inside]
posted on Sep 4, 2008 - 60 answers

great guy, bad sex, what should i do? [more inside]
posted on Sep 3, 2008 - 29 answers

Shortly after we moved to a new town, my partner fell into a deep depression. She shot me down every time I suggested that we go out and do something fun, or made amorous advances. That precipitated my own, milder depression. We're both better now, and love each other very much, but we're still in a rut, and I'm gun-shy. How can we get over this hump? [more inside]
posted on Sep 3, 2008 - 11 answers

Kind of an odd sexual question (nothing too dirty but since it's sex-related, mark this NSFW)... [more inside]
posted on Sep 2, 2008 - 5 answers

What are the underlying processes occurring during an orgasm that are the biological causes of the pleasurable sensation we associate with it? Is the sensation of orgasm a function of the nervous system, or is it something neurochemical in the brain, or both, or neither? Is the reason that certain masturbatory and/or sexual acts feel good because of nerve concentration in the erogenous areas, or is it something different or more in nature? [more inside]
posted on Sep 2, 2008 - 9 answers

Some of the disciplinary acts I endured as a child and teenager have spilled over into my adult sex life. Is this a healthy thing to encourage, or should I avoid these acts altogether? [more inside]
posted on Aug 31, 2008 - 16 answers

Books and movies with BDSM overtones? [more inside]
posted on Aug 28, 2008 - 34 answers

Casual relationships in high school? [more inside]
posted on Aug 26, 2008 - 38 answers

Looking for practical input from those familiar with dating members of the Christian/Protestant clergy [more inside]
posted on Aug 26, 2008 - 16 answers

Is it a good idea to get back in touch with someone I dated briefly and ask for sex? If so, how should I do it? [more inside]
posted on Aug 25, 2008 - 32 answers

If you're a straight male college student how do you signal to women of the same age that you're interested in sleeping with them - while avoiding the extremes of coming across as objectifying or amorous? [more inside]
posted on Aug 25, 2008 - 41 answers

So. I'm looking for a video that was forwarded to me 4 or so years ago. It's about a guy working in a corporate office, who opens an email sent to him as a joke to find women having sex with ponies. Someone sees it on his screen, he gets fired, his gf leaves him, he moves in with his parents, etc. In the last scene he is dead and the mortician performs a dance on top of his body. Does anybody know the video I'm talking about? Is it anywhere online?
posted on Aug 22, 2008 - 9 answers

Just got a new Jacuzzi tub. Looking for recommendations for, um, waterproof toys and other items that will help my wife and I enjoy it. [more inside]
posted on Aug 20, 2008 - 7 answers

A potential romantic partner has a very specific phobia. As luck would have it, it happens to be pretty much the exact thing that is my very private fetish. I have never shared it with anyone and don't plan to share it with anyone. Are we doomed, or could we somehow make this work to our advantage? [more inside]
posted on Aug 16, 2008 - 31 answers

How do I fix this vicious, vicious cycle? [more inside]
posted on Aug 13, 2008 - 15 answers

Help me come (hehe!) up with a list of songs that are about or refer to orgasms. [more inside]
posted on Aug 11, 2008 - 66 answers

Is there anything I can do to counteract the negative effect Yasmin is having on my libido? [more inside]
posted on Aug 10, 2008 - 7 answers

Does anyone remember a site that had symbols for designing a comprehensive logo reflecting one's sexual practices and orientation? [more inside]
posted on Aug 10, 2008 - 7 answers

I'm dating a roommate, but we need an excuse to go into her bedroom after a date. What can I do? [more inside]
posted on Aug 9, 2008 - 14 answers

If Mirena IUD strings are "tucked back", what keeps them from poking ME? [more inside]
posted on Aug 8, 2008 - 9 answers

I'm having trouble understanding and dealing with a sudden wave of sadness which came over me while leaving a new romantic partner's house. (Overly long relationshipfilter details follow.) [more inside]
posted on Aug 7, 2008 - 16 answers

SexFilter: Boyfriend with bum knee wants to get back on top, figuratively and/or literally. What can we do to help him get his mojo back? [more inside]
posted on Aug 7, 2008 - 9 answers

SexEd-filter: Need some physical advice to help out a great relationship otherwise... [more inside]
posted on Aug 7, 2008 - 13 answers

I am midway through losing a heap of excess weight. Are there any tips/tricks/techniques for making me more comfortable with my new body during this transitional phase? I used to be fairly confident, but now (as a side effect of the diet) I just think of myself as "fat". [more inside]
posted on Aug 6, 2008 - 17 answers

Is vaseline okay for gay sex? (NSFW and probably gross for most people) [more inside]
posted on Aug 5, 2008 - 15 answers

Is there a Metafilter about sex? [more inside]
posted on Aug 5, 2008 - 3 answers

Two-parter question about birth control. We need to either figure out how to make my hormonal BC more comfortable OR improve our condom experience. More details within. [more inside]
posted on Aug 3, 2008 - 19 answers

My girlfriend wants me to stop using a condom. [more inside]
posted on Aug 1, 2008 - 61 answers

I love asian girls, and I feel guilty about it. How do I reconcile my sense of absolute non-discrimination with my preference for a certain type of people? [more inside]
posted on Aug 1, 2008 - 41 answers

Love, intimacy, sexual frustration, distance, inaction... help me deal with the complexities of it all. [more inside]
posted on Jul 31, 2008 - 19 answers

I'm in a loving but sexless relationship. What should I do? [more inside]
posted on Jul 30, 2008 - 27 answers

Should I ask my "friend" if she wants to have casual sex with me? [more inside]
posted on Jul 26, 2008 - 28 answers

Single and loving it. Except... I miss the in-between-the-sheets workout. So now what? [more inside]
posted on Jul 26, 2008 - 9 answers

How do you/did you plan, compromise, or agree on standards for your sex life? [more inside]
posted on Jul 24, 2008 - 25 answers

Is (or was, since it sounds quaint now) the phrase "the birds and the bees" mostly an American thing or is it also used in other english-speaking countries as a euphemism in reference to sex education. What other euphemisms or idioms are used around the world within the context of sex education (not formal sex education in a classroom setting, more along the lines of "The Talk" parents have with their kids). I'm interested in phrases used in other languages too.
posted on Jul 24, 2008 - 25 answers

Proabably NSFW: What are the most tactful/smooth ways to ask if a new casual sex partner has an STD? [more inside]
posted on Jul 21, 2008 - 20 answers

Good examples of heterosexual audio erotica or porn, please? [more inside]
posted on Jul 20, 2008 - 11 answers

How do I make actors comfortable during sex scenes? [more inside]
posted on Jul 19, 2008 - 15 answers

How has sex changed for you since the Internet made porn so easily accessible? [more inside]
posted on Jul 17, 2008 - 44 answers

Can somebody (especially women) point me to images in film, text, or other media of the kind of lover that women would think of as loving, appreciative, and understanding, as well as manly and attractive, or comment on my situation in ways that would help me understand how to be a better lover to my beloved wife? [more inside]
posted on Jul 17, 2008 - 50 answers

I would like to be more, er, assertive in bed, but I'm too shy. How can I get past this? Is there a good self-help book on the subject? Is there anything you've personally tried that worked for you? [more inside]
posted on Jul 16, 2008 - 19 answers

I'm a man and I can't orgasm. What can I do to remedy this? [more inside]
posted on Jul 16, 2008 - 18 answers

Am I fair in blaming a snail's-pace relationship on my weak ability to show affection? [more inside]
posted on Jul 15, 2008 - 24 answers

Sex positions for overweight people? NSFW details inside [more inside]
posted on Jul 12, 2008 - 10 answers

Conversation starters needed for married couple's date night. The wife is a bit introverted and needs some prodding to get a conversation started... if it doesn't include career, kids or family. [more inside]
posted on Jul 11, 2008 - 19 answers

Visiting Reno in October, looking for advice on visiting a brothel. [more inside]
posted on Jul 5, 2008 - 6 answers

The goal here is more sex and zero babies. [more inside]
posted on Jul 3, 2008 - 40 answers

What does being poked in the cervix during intercourse feel like? [more inside]
posted on Jul 2, 2008 - 20 answers

I live in Vermont. I work in a small town that has been directly affected by the recent Brooke Bennett tragedy (family involved 12 year old in sex ring and killed her, attempted to blame it on a MySpace predator) in an industry that is directly related to dealing with the aftermath. I am also reading Freakonomics, which amongst other things has persuaded me to look past media hype and compare numbers to actual relevant data. I have two questions [more inside]
posted on Jul 2, 2008 - 13 answers

[SexFilter] Mindblowing sex. I would like to have some. [more inside]
posted on Jun 27, 2008 - 20 answers