When it feels right, how long should I wait before asking the woman I love to marry me? What do you wish you knew about your significant other/ex-significant other before you took this step?
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posted by jeffe
on Nov 9, 2005 -
34 answers
Help me make a good impression on my partner's mother, even though she doesn't know I'm her daughter's partner.
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posted by aebaxter
on Nov 6, 2005 -
34 answers
This has been killing me.... my best friend (we call each other brother) is now seeing my ex girlfriend.
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posted by starscream
on Nov 2, 2005 -
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This girl keeps coming over, cuddles, sleeps with me, kisses me and won't let me have it. What does that mean?
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posted by audiologic
on Nov 2, 2005 -
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How can my girlfriend and I work past an aversion or barrier to intimacy that has come up in our relationship?
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posted by aussicht
on Oct 31, 2005 -
13 answers
Recently I found out that my 10th grade flame is not only doing well, but has ditched a potential husband and come out. She looks great.
I wouldn't think anything of it, except that my first true love and the first girl I ever kissed also decided they were gay after seeing me.
What're the odds? Am I recruiting for the other team?
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posted by anthill
on Oct 30, 2005 -
28 answers
If the woman of my affections has been dating some other guy for a year -- a relationship she has said is "not that serious," in frequent playful e-mails to me -- what strategy is smarter? Stay in a queue until she becomes available? Ask what's up? Steal her away? Can anyone share successful or unsuccessful ploys to turn the other guy into the Baxter, when the woman involved is a pretty neat friend you'd like to avoid losing?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 15, 2005 -
12 answers
I love my girlfriend but I'm starting to think I need to move on. I've never broken up with anyone before. Help.
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 11, 2005 -
8 answers
In an otherwise great relationship, is it normal to have moments where you feel completely fed up?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 8, 2005 -
19 answers
Help settle a debate between me (male) and a friend (female) about whether it is a good idea to buy your girlfriend a ball-gown.
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posted by ajp
on Oct 5, 2005 -
51 answers
Me and my boyfriend just had a long phone conversation in which I got upset and he got frustrated because he didn't understand what I wanted. It all ended in giggles and silly jokes, but the issue wasn't really resolved. Help us sort it out?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 4, 2005 -
24 answers
DatingFilter: She knows I have feelings for her which she doesn't reciprocate, but she won't leave me alone.
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 21, 2005 -
64 answers
I'm looking for stories that deal with human relationships between people seperated by time dilation due to space travel, where the person on Earth ages the same as you and I, but the space traveler, in comparison, ages significantly slower.
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posted by defenestration
on Sep 18, 2005 -
47 answers
a person who recently became "dis-engaged" has shown interest in me, and i'm interested in them, but with reservations. ooooh tough situation.
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posted by anonymous
on Sep 12, 2005 -
8 answers
I want to introduce my (semi-sheltered) wife to porn DVDs and erotica books without scaring her off.
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 31, 2005 -
29 answers
Please help me find a personal ad site mentioned on AskMe within the past year.
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posted by Miko
on Aug 28, 2005 -
3 answers
I'm an attractive 32 year old woman and have been single for over six years. Help me to, erm, get laid.
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posted by ask me please
on Aug 22, 2005 -
46 answers
I havent seen my girlfriend in months, cause ive been traveling abroad. Im in graduate school and happen to crashing at my parents home for two weeks, which is where she is. Shell be in town for a weekend, and we really can“t have sex at my parents house, but we want to still have somewhere to be intimate.
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 25, 2005 -
20 answers
I contantly suffer from the-grass-is-always-greener syndrome. When I'm single, I crave being in a relationship. When I'm in a relationship, I crave being single. I'm afraid that it's going to screw up my current, excellent relationship ...
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 18, 2005 -
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Have any of you experienced (or noticed in your male partner) an extremely low libido for long periods of time? How did you and your partner get through it? What did you do to combat it?
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posted by rhapsodie
on Jun 28, 2005 -
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For those of you in relationships, how often do you engage in sexual activity? Do you find yourselves doing it less as you and your partner age together (the honeymoon stage ending, etc.)? I'm looking for answers mainly from people who have been in relationships for a few years or longer. Honest answers about this are appreciated!
posted by anonymous
on Jun 28, 2005 -
33 answers
So have you been in a relationship that was just "ok" or somewhat unsatisfying, or even typefied by ongoing low-level bickering, and then improved it somehow so that it was actually really good?
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posted by anonymous
on Jun 12, 2005 -
5 answers
How are you about being contacted by old friends? Not in the singles scene kind of way, but in the "old friends" kind of way. A general question - not really seeking insight or advice.
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posted by ValveAnnex
on Jun 7, 2005 -
19 answers
what 'rules' do you have for relationships as well as personal rules for when youre in a relationship?
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posted by GleepGlop
on May 26, 2005 -
52 answers
Please tell me your experiences with passive agressiveness in your relationships.
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posted by eas98
on May 24, 2005 -
20 answers
My relationship is wonderful. It's been a couple of years and we have big plans, a definitely long term view, get along perfectly, still have passion, all that...
So why did I kiss a friend while really, really drunk the other night? And what should I do about it?
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posted by anonymous
on May 22, 2005 -
55 answers
I'm a recently divorced female in my early 30s and haven't dated since college. I've been pretty successful as far as meeting men with who I click; it's the part after that I don't understand...having The Talk without seeming needy or psycho...
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posted by anonymous
on May 17, 2005 -
33 answers
I've been in this relationship for a while now, it's good, she's my best friend and I love her dearly. However...
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posted by anonymous
on May 14, 2005 -
33 answers
Any time I'm not with or in contact with this person, I start to get antsy. I can't stop thinking about the person and find it hard to do anything but go into some kind of wait mode or worse yet, try to get in touch even if I know the person's busy. I already know that I need to learn to calm down and do other things. I just want to know
how.
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posted by anonymous
on May 12, 2005 -
16 answers