Why can't I get aroused on my own and how do I start? Why doesn't masturbation feel good and how can I make it start? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 8, 2009 - 6 answers

Autoeroticafilter: Are certain self-pleasuring activities not OK? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 8, 2009 - 66 answers

I am masturbating so many times every day (6 or more times to orgasm mainly with my left hand reading erotica - yeah, I can read and work at the same time yo) that I have established a mound of scar over the top of my foreskin. How long should I abstain for it to fall off and what are some ways I should abstain while I am waiting. It's not an STD, I have been to a doc in the meantime. Frodo!
posted by anonymous on Nov 26, 2009 - 8 answers

How can I make my new partner come?? NSFW details follow. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 20, 2009 - 23 answers

Are my orgasms always going to be this weak? Teach me to do it better! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 11, 2009 - 24 answers

I Can't Believe I'm Going To Ask This Non-Anonymously Filter: Why do I fall asleep after a clitoral orgasm, but not after an orgasm of the vaginal variety? [more inside]
posted by grapefruitmoon on Nov 3, 2009 - 24 answers

Is there a correlation between how long it takes me to achieve orgasm via masturbation and how long I can last in bed with a woman? [more inside]
posted by ascetic on Sep 7, 2009 - 15 answers

So, I think I might have two clitorises. Is this even possible? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 27, 2009 - 7 answers

How can I resensitize my penis after excessive masturbating? (NSFW) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2009 - 15 answers

I'm a girl who hasn't been able to orgasm with a partner. It's been a major issue in my relationships. Is there really any point to having sexual relationships? (explicit but unsexy text) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 25, 2009 - 39 answers

Possibly NSFW question about male masturbation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 16, 2009 - 14 answers

I'd like to know what other people think about while masturbating and how that differs from what they think about while having sexual intercourse. [more inside]
posted by krautland on Jun 29, 2009 - 29 answers

Find me stories (books, movies, links, anecdotes) of how two ordinary, quiet, straight middle-aged people met, and learned to care for each other. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 27, 2009 - 14 answers

When masturbating, upon what do you ejaculate? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 6, 2009 - 47 answers

I'm constantly dreaming about masturbating in public. Is this normal? If not, how can I stop? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 13, 2009 - 10 answers

I get headaches when I masturbate. Give me advice and hope, please? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 6, 2009 - 14 answers

My girlfriend can't get me to orgasm. Plenty of NSFWness inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 22, 2009 - 31 answers

Guys, a question about 'practice' masturbation... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 2, 2009 - 11 answers

It seems like the only thing that can get me off is extremely unpleasant written erotica (details inside, to keep the front page clean). Do I have a problem? Should I see a therapist? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 30, 2009 - 47 answers

NSFW Sex Question Inside: I can't orgasm without holding my breath. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 1, 2009 - 8 answers

Has all my masturbating messed with my sex life? Want too much information? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 16, 2008 - 13 answers

Very NSFW question about female self-pleasure. You've been warned! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 10, 2008 - 18 answers

What are the underlying processes occurring during an orgasm that are the biological causes of the pleasurable sensation we associate with it? Is the sensation of orgasm a function of the nervous system, or is it something neurochemical in the brain, or both, or neither? Is the reason that certain masturbatory and/or sexual acts feel good because of nerve concentration in the erogenous areas, or is it something different or more in nature? [more inside]
posted by WCityMike on Sep 2, 2008 - 9 answers

Can you help me pick a toy and "porn" for my female friend? [more inside]
posted by simplethings on Aug 28, 2008 - 30 answers

A problem with female masturbation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 26, 2008 - 23 answers

So! As a guy, taking a while to get off during sex is fine. But when I wank, I'd prefer to just get it over with. I have no problem watching porn, I'm just sick of it taking at least half an hour to come. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 20, 2008 - 10 answers

I'm a man and I can't orgasm. What can I do to remedy this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 16, 2008 - 18 answers

Could the way in which my boyfriend masturbates render him impotent? Super-sexy questions inside, most definitely nsfw. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 19, 2008 - 10 answers

In an episode of This American Life, a guy was interviewed who talked about the guilt he felt when he masturbated or thought of masturbating when he was an adolescent. Eventually, he spoke with a minister who told him just to do it because the guilt was making it impossible for him to have a relationship with God. I think it aired in 2007. Got a link?
posted by DarwinianDan on Mar 15, 2008 - 1 answer

Possibly not safe for work question about masturbation/sex and becoming flushed in the face after. [more inside]
posted by davidstandaford on Mar 11, 2008 - 6 answers

I feel my libido is too high. How can I normalize it healthily and deal with it? [more inside]
posted by StrikeTheViol on Feb 19, 2008 - 32 answers

Do women have different phrases to describe the act of masturbation? [more inside]
posted by hadjiboy on Jan 29, 2008 - 35 answers

Please help a usually sex-positive girl come to terms with the realities of male masturbation. TMI inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 3, 2008 - 41 answers

I think I might have ejaculated the first time I ever orgasmed. I'm a young, reasonably sexually inexperienced (though not a virgin) female. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 25, 2007 - 13 answers

I have some questions about female masturbation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 11, 2007 - 15 answers

[FemaleMasturbationFilter] Is it possible for a healthy twentysomething to hurt herself while masturbating, but not actually hurt-hurt? Boys don't read, you'll get heebed. Somewhat gross [more inside]
posted by damnjezebel on Jan 11, 2007 - 35 answers

How long should I go without masturbating before sex? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 6, 2006 - 24 answers

Help me attain the big O without…mechanical assistance. [NSFW] [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 16, 2006 - 14 answers

I'm male, in my early twenties. Ever since I popped my cherry, I've had issues orgasming from sex. Condoms make this only a small fraction below impossible; without, it's still very likely I won't be able to come from sex. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 24, 2006 - 22 answers

Lube (Astroglide) allergy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 14, 2006 - 16 answers

What do you do when masturbation has lost its fun? [more inside]
posted by sjvilla79 on May 25, 2006 - 20 answers

Do straight guys ever eat their own come after masturbating? [more inside]
posted by fugitivefromchaingang on May 17, 2006 - 74 answers

Do Christians (specifically Baptists) believe that masturbation is a sin? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 12, 2006 - 17 answers

SEX! And music! And sexy music! Now that I have your attention.... [more inside]
posted by sourwookie on Jan 25, 2006 - 70 answers

There was a rumor going around back when I was a kid back in the 1950s than masturbation was a venial sin in Indiana and a mortal sin in Illinois (or visa versa.) Is/Was this true?
posted by Raybun on Dec 12, 2005 - 8 answers

I am a man with a sexual problem. It's probably the opposite of what you think. Details inside, NSFW or kids. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 11, 2005 - 26 answers

Why is a specific part of my eye bloodshot? There is no pain at all, but across a part of my eye (from nose to iris left side) there is a streak of "bloodshot". I now I should just wait it out, but why does this happen? [more inside]
posted by Dean Keaton on Feb 26, 2005 - 15 answers

Do truck drivers masturbate while driving?
posted by Kwantsar on Sep 1, 2004 - 13 answers