Help me get my focus back on my own life and happiness and stop comparing/competing with my ex in my own mind... and stop having how I compare with others as a condition to my happiness/self esteem in general... [more inside]
posted by Chrysalis on Jun 16, 2009 - 13 answers

What's the key to getting involved with as many interesting projects and meeting as many interesting people as possible? [more inside]
posted by coffeecold on Apr 12, 2009 - 17 answers

Is it possible to re-build a relationship with my ex? [more inside]
posted by InterestedInKnowing on Apr 8, 2009 - 12 answers

He is possibly ‘the one’, but as it stands he would be the “rebound” if we ended up together now. How can I slow things down and keep him interested? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 10, 2009 - 22 answers

Need help in coping with the issues of being with someone who can't get over a relationship that ended five years ago. More inside... [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 22, 2008 - 14 answers

I seem to annoy a lot of people. I don't mean to, it just happens. What can I do to become less annoying? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 8, 2008 - 34 answers

Existential crisis: was I born to be alone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 8, 2008 - 21 answers

What are the best questions you've ever been asked / asked someone to get to know them better, build closer friendships/bonds, find out secrets and interesting tidbits about their lives and worldviews? I'm rather introverted (but working on being more sociable). I really relish meeting and interacting different people with different views but too often conversations aren't very interesting so I'm really not engaged or connecting with them. I'm trying to get a lot better at chatting, learning about people and building bonds with people, but I need more ammo for interesting questions to unlock that higher level of discourse with the people that surround me. [more inside]
posted by jkl345 on Aug 5, 2007 - 47 answers

How do I deal with a bad mouthing ex-girlfriend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 11, 2006 - 22 answers

How long do people date before doing the deed these days?
posted by wordswinker on May 20, 2006 - 32 answers

How do you keep your friends? [more inside] [more inside]
posted by Big Fat Tycoon on Feb 8, 2005 - 30 answers