I am moving in with my boyfriend next month, who has partial custody of his ten-year-old daughter. She and I get along wonderfully, but I still want to make this the easiest transition possible for her (and all of us). What possible issues or problems should I be prepared for?
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posted by Neely O'Hara
on Feb 10, 2012 -
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Looking for a printed explanation to give to my son and ex-daughter in-law why using their kids as cudgels against the other is bad for the kids.
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posted by Pecantree
on Nov 13, 2011 -
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A friend is getting divorced. He has been married about 8 years and has 3 kids under 6, one who is just months old. He and his wife are amicably dealing with this so far, though this was just determined yesterday. What advice do you have for him?
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posted by anonymous
on Oct 26, 2011 -
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YANML and I'm not looking for legal advice but I'd like to know what rights/entitlements a stay-at-home mom of two in California has when her husband of 13 years walks out on her.
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posted by spare sock
on Aug 15, 2011 -
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I am no longer with the father of my child and he treats me like crap. In person, over email, on the phone. We've got a long way to go here - our kid isn't even three yet. I'm trying to not take it personally and to let it go, but I am struggling...
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posted by voneil
on Nov 18, 2010 -
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My partner and I are ontemplating separation and I am thinking of moving several towns over. I have read stories of parents separating and the benefits of the two homes being close as in a few blocks. But what should I know about making it work for myself and my kid when the homes are further apart?
I would like to hear positive advice from parents and kids who have negotiated two homes with a little distance between them . Were their plusses to this distance to balance out the minuses? How did you make it work?
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posted by anonymous
on Aug 7, 2010 -
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How can I help my three kids adjust to my plans to move in with my girlfriend? Specifically, how important is alone time with dad?
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posted by anonymous
on Jul 9, 2010 -
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Is it a good idea for two divorced women and our (total of three) little kids to move in together for safety, companionship and financial savings?
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posted by anonymous
on May 16, 2010 -
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Our kids are 2 and 5. Their mom and I have a marriage that is clearly only lasting because we both love our kids so much and they need us. That said, we do NOT fight, either in front of the kids or alone. We just have a big ol' blank where the love used to be. On a daily basis we just basically ignore each other as much as possible and focus our energies on the kids. I do not foresee this lasting forever. However: When to break up?
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posted by anonymous
on Feb 21, 2010 -
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I just met someone I am really interested in dating, but who has kids. In general, I am OK with the idea, but I want to know the sorts of issues and questions I should bring up with this person to talk about it and understand the situation.
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 2, 2010 -
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Stay vs. Go Showdown 2009
Also starring: 2 kids!!!!!!!
Is it better to stay in a bad marriage so that the kids can be with both parents, or to divorce and hope for the best?
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posted by rahnefan
on Jul 18, 2009 -
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So, I'm getting divorced. I have 2 daughters, who I'm kinda terrified to tell. I'm hoping Ask.Me might be able to provide some tips.
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posted by Richat
on Apr 2, 2009 -
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divorce-filter: protect friend from his wife financially, her secret bank accounts, hostility, etc
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posted by evanrodge
on Aug 26, 2008 -
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Imminently divorcing parents, naive and idealistic father, playing therapist to adults - the works. Help me not hate my family!
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posted by anonymous
on Dec 27, 2007 -
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Did your parents divorce when you were a small child? Do you wish they hadn't? Do you wish they had handled it differently? What did they do right? How do you feel about the custody arrangement they worked out?
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posted by anonymous
on Mar 9, 2007 -
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How do I best get acquainted, and develop a good relationship, with my boyfriends' kids?
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posted by anonymous
on Jan 14, 2007 -
13 answers
