I discovered today that I have defaulted on a 401K loan in the amount of $3,896.31 ... help me figure out what the penalties will be & if the confused-sounding rep at Fidelity really knew what she was talking about. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 2, 2009 - 3 answers

What is one to do when the sex has gone out of the marriage? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 4, 2009 - 67 answers

Should I try to date him or is it already too messy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 21, 2009 - 25 answers

Over the past week I have had the worst nights with my wife I can remember in a long time. I can't remember a time in the past ten years I have felt so angry and misunderstood. I am hoping someone can give me some pointers. Long story inside and probably NSFW. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 13, 2009 - 36 answers

From "just friends" to "more than friends"; and tips for staying true in a monogamous relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 3, 2008 - 24 answers