http://ask.metafilter.com/tags/Fathersandsons Questions tagged with 'Fathersandsons' at Ask MetaFilter. Thu, 04 Sep 2008 12:07:22 -0800 Thu, 04 Sep 2008 12:07:22 -0800 en-us http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 60 http://ask.metafilter.com/100906/How%2Dcan%2DI%2Dhelp%2Dmy%2Dson%2Dget%2Dlaid So...my nineteen year old son just informed me that he is president of his college's abstinence club. I think that this is a huge mistake. How can I help my son get laid and see what he is missing? This is not a religious issue for him. Nor is he Gay (not that there's anything wrong with that). I suspect that there's more to it than what he's telling me (one of his friends thinks he might have a crush on a girl in the Abstinence club) which is that he thinks sex should be an intimate act between two people and not casual. And I don't disagree. I've been married and faithful for twenty years. And I've always tried to teach him safe sex.<br> <br> But he's 19 and in college. Isn't this the time for sexual experimentation? To get jiggy with it and all that?<br> So how can I help him have sex? tag:ask.metafilter.com,2008:site.100906 Thu, 04 Sep 2008 12:07:22 -0800 Fathersandsons Sex Virgin Anonymous