How can I come during sex with my boyfriend? I find it impossible to reach orgasm unless I'm doing it myself, with extreme, violent fantasies. I've tried fantasizing about the same stuff during sex, but it's hard to reconcile with the reality of my gentle, loving boyfriend, even if we have rough sex or (to a degree) act out the fantasy. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 26, 2009 - 21 answers

NSFW: My boyfriend and I (a woman) have explored many sexual fantasies together - but how should I respond to his desire for a blumpy? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 2, 2009 - 33 answers

When my girlfriend asks me about my sexual fantasies, should I tell her that I think about having sex with her friends, or lie? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jun 8, 2008 - 61 answers

How can I cultivate new sexual fantasies? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 4, 2008 - 9 answers

How does one come to peace with unfulfillable sexual fantasies? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 26, 2007 - 14 answers

Do I have a (sexual) kink? Should I have a kink? If I do have a kink, how do I discover it? [more inside]
posted by Ethereal Bligh on May 31, 2007 - 27 answers

Is it normal for a woman to be unable to orgasm alone or with a (male) partner unless she fantasizes about women? [more inside]
posted by orangeshoe on Aug 30, 2006 - 37 answers

How would one go about joining the Mile High Club? [more inside]
posted by DragonBoy on Apr 19, 2006 - 13 answers

I'm looking for high quality erotic fantasy/sci-fi novels. Any recommendations?
posted by alms on Sep 14, 2005 - 22 answers