August 27

Should I refund contributions for my cat's pancreatitis fundraiser?

We started a fundraiser to help pay for my kitty's hospitalization, but he died less than a day into the campaign. What do I do? [more inside]
posted by Menomena to Pets & Animals at 5:18 AM - 23 answers

What social services are available for adults in New Hampshire?

An acquaintance of mine is suddenly homeless and jobless in New Hampshire. What social services are available to assist someone in this situation, or what temp work is available? [more inside]
posted by mostly vowels to Work & Money at 4:34 AM - 3 answers

ISO Alice in Louisville

My dear friend is battling a serious illness in Louisville, KY. She has two very young children. Hopefully she will be recovered in 3 months. I live far away. I would like to temporarily hire Alice from the Brady Bunch to help her and her husband manage their household chores and help them take care of their children. Barring that, looking for ways to support a young mom from a distance. [more inside]
posted by anonymous to Health & Fitness at 2:23 AM - 5 answers

Paris on 1700 eur/month - doable?

Help me figure out if my dream job is worth the low pay. Snow flurries inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous to Work & Money at 2:23 AM - 10 answers

Journeyman's Feast for Everyone!

I am borderline obsessed by the Journeyman's Feast in this D&D-inspired menu, which seems to be a slightly less fancy version of a charcuterie board , and would like some suggestions on other food items I can use to make up my own 1-person board. [more inside]
posted by divabat to Food & Drink at 1:29 AM - 12 answers

August 26

Looking for a particular Ghostbusters TV ad

I'm trying to find a TV ad for the latest Ghostbusters movie, that featured Melissa McCarthy's character referencing the YouTube controversy. My google is failing. [more inside]
posted by efalk to Computers & Internet at 9:37 PM - 3 answers

Time frame for reading New Yorker magazine?

About how long, on average, does it take to read a New Yorker magazine entirely? [more inside]
posted by ragtimepiano to Media & Arts at 8:20 PM - 23 answers

Terse news blurb about Komodo Dragon beheaded during burglary

I could always find it until now. Probably Associated Press, 1992-96. Richmond, Virginia.
posted by Mr. Yuck to Pets & Animals at 7:39 PM - 0 answers

ID this book: Napoleonic Wars, tame goat

Can you identify this 1800s (?) Eastern/Central European novel based on the half-remembered description of an unintentionally hilarious sex scene? [more inside]
posted by Ideal Impulse to Media & Arts at 7:29 PM - 3 answers

Can I install Windows 10 32 or 64bit on my wife's currently-XP system?

I've included some specs and such in the body of the message. Basically, the system specs seem comfortably above the minimum reqs for Win10, but I'm not clear on whether I should go 32 or 64 -- her XP is 32, but I don't know if 64bit OSs were a thing at the time. [more inside]
posted by Decimask to Computers & Internet at 7:24 PM - 12 answers

Is rock music even a thing anymore?

Are there recent rock albums or bands that are of some "universal" or broad interest to a large number of people between the ages of, say, 16 and 24? Or have r&b, rap, and other genres totally replaced rock music? [more inside]
posted by kensington314 to Media & Arts at 4:57 PM - 53 answers

How can I reliably get Airplay to work without skipping?

I bought an airport express with the sole purpose of letting me play music from my computer. Unfortunately, whenever I do so, within 0-50 minutes, the music starts skipping, and ultimately I get the warning: "An error occurred while connecting to the AirPlay device “[DEVICE NAME]”. The host cannot be reached." Any way to reliably fix this? [more inside]
posted by sirion to Computers & Internet at 4:50 PM - 6 answers

Looking for online magazine digest

I need to resurrect my old Firefox favorites list. I used an online magazine article digest whose name escapes me. The site also has links to online newspapers. All I can remember is the graphics were orange. I had to refresh my OS and forgot to back up my Firefox bookmarks.
posted by Raybun to Computers & Internet at 3:34 PM - 2 answers

Is a person really crying if there are no tears?

I'm asking as I just watched a live drama tv program where a young man's face was almost constantly contorted as if he was in the throes of crying but there were no tears. It reminded me of something I once heard a cop say regarding questioning a suspect who, also, sobbed very much over the death of a loved one but no tears were shed. The policeman said "No tears? Its fake." I know whenever I'm really emotionally over the edge I will cry with tears - I call that experience "crying" - is there another type?
posted by Tullyogallaghan to Human Relations at 2:50 PM - 14 answers

Portland adventure for 2 friends getting over respective mental crises?

My friend and I have recently been crawling out of some pretty thick mental mud from the past several months, and I was hoping for some suggestions in and around Portland to swing us back into greater health. [more inside]
posted by swoopstake to Human Relations at 1:58 PM - 5 answers

Pick a simple ring

We're getting married. We both dislike jewelry but have decided to wear simple rings. But the selection is overwhelming. Do you enjoy this sort of thing and want to help us? [more inside]
posted by anonymous to Shopping at 1:45 PM - 44 answers

Is it as simple as saying, "Please leave me alone"?

Just trying to live a peaceful and functional adult life beyond the reach of a controlling, emotionally abusive parent. But I was tracked down by a PI and I'm worried that it's only a matter of time before I have to face this awful person again. What do I say to make clear that I have no intention of reestablishing ties and that I wish to be left alone? [more inside]
posted by anonymous to Human Relations at 1:45 PM - 15 answers

How Would I Promote a Crowdfunding Campaign?

I am crowd funding a clothing line and am looking for outside sources to promote the campaign. What options outside of mine and indiegogo social media are available to me. I was thinking of contacting bloggers to do personal interviews, product trade. etc? Any and all suggestions appreciated.
posted by goalyeehah to Computers & Internet at 1:42 PM - 5 answers

Where can I find someone to design a Slow Sand Filter?

Hi guys, I am building a slow sand filter to purify captured rainwater. I have advertised here and on reddit for an experienced engineer to design a filter for me. Where can I go to get more visibility for my request or what should I do to motivate interest in my project?
posted by metasluggo to Technology at 1:33 PM - 20 answers

Music for Dancing Grammas

What music styles or specific songs do 85-year-old ladies like to dance to? I'm putting together a playlist for some dancing grammas. Certain criteria: Familiar songs (popular in the 1940s-60s); Upbeat (no slow dancing at this crazy ol' party); not loud (no rock please, not even Elvis); bonus for international songs or sung in non-English, especially German! [more inside]
posted by Jason and Laszlo to Media & Arts at 1:32 PM - 9 answers

#hashtag me

Help me find the right hashtags to connect with resources on twitter relevant to my particular interest in clothes. [more inside]
posted by Michele in California to Computers & Internet at 1:24 PM - 2 answers

Self-Cleaning Litter Box? Too good to be true?

We have two cats, one of whom is very fastidious. She won't use a box that is not to her standards of clean. She will go next to the litter box if she deems it unclean. I am considering getting two self cleaning litter boxes but am wary of the cash outlay. [more inside]
posted by readery to Pets & Animals at 12:09 PM - 22 answers

Possible malware email

I may be paranoid, but someone sent me an email with a very suspicious attachment. How can I find out what's in it? [more inside]
posted by Chicken Boolean to Computers & Internet at 11:46 AM - 12 answers

How many backup layers to secure my hard-drive music files?

I have a newish iMac and three external hard drives of varying age and corresponding capacity (500 GB, 2 TB, 4 TB). I have ca. 2 TB of music divided between the latter two. What is the best way of backing this up? [more inside]
posted by the sobsister to Computers & Internet at 11:17 AM - 7 answers

Improvisational music-making websites?

I'm looking for something like Patatap but with a bit more structure (like record, rewind, stop, that kind of thing), so I can just let a tune flow from my soul and then play it back or save it. Creating music without having to think about it too much, maybe just learning the instrument/website as I go along. I don't want to get sucked into learning a DAW; this is just for temporary fun. Is there anything like that? Thanks!
posted by circular to Media & Arts at 10:40 AM - 4 answers

Spotty WiFi at my new desk

I recently set up a docking station for my laptop on a desk in my room. The only problem is that this seems to have really spotty WiFi coverage. Sometimes it's fine, sometimes it lags to hell when trying to load even something mostly text-based like Metafilter. Streaming is often impossible. I'm considering buying a range extender for my network - what should I keep in mind? [more inside]
posted by codacorolla to Computers & Internet at 9:36 AM - 14 answers

Where to buy casual work clothes

i want an office wardrobe I don't have to think about. Please help! [more inside]
posted by Bella Donna to Clothing, Beauty, & Fashion at 8:51 AM - 27 answers

Backup / Collaboration for a creative team?

What online backup and collaboration solution should a small ad agency use? [more inside]
posted by signal to Computers & Internet at 8:37 AM - 4 answers

Where do I buy a car?

We're moving to Los Angeles, hooray! We live in Chicago and don't own a car. Do we buy a car here or in CA? Or somewhere else? [more inside]
posted by Uncle to Shopping at 8:34 AM - 17 answers

How to select high quality fabric for sewing projects

I enjoy sewing (at a hobby level), but I don't know a lot about selecting "good" fabrics. I'd like to level up from what's available at my big box craft store. Please help. This Ask is specifically about identifying and/or sourcing durable flannel and knits - fabrics that will hold up well to repeated washings, but I welcome information about other fabrics as well. [more inside]
posted by telepanda to Sports, Hobbies, & Recreation at 7:42 AM - 14 answers

Ever been on Pristiq? What's it like?

I'm about to start Pristiq, an SNRI antidepressant, as part of my treatment plan for depression/anxiety/ADHD. I've been on antidepressants before, but would like to hear what people's experiences have been with this one. [more inside]
posted by Anticipation Of A New Lover's Arrival, The to Health & Fitness at 7:39 AM - 7 answers

Husband agreed to attend marriage therapy with me. Now what?

After three years of a stress in our relationship, my husband has lately been open to marriage counseling. He isn't all for it, but is willing. The thing is that I feel like I've been walking on eggshells for so long around him, I'm not sure how to even begin talking about things in this situation. [more inside]
posted by anonymous to Human Relations at 7:28 AM - 9 answers

Impromtu (ahh) Hawaii Honeymoon

We found cheap tickets to Honolulu right after our wedding! But we have a month to plan it on top of our wedding. Please suggest hotels (with availability still, ahh), hikes, foods, and fun! [more inside]
posted by inevitability to Travel & Transportation at 7:06 AM - 10 answers

What to do with £5000 (again)

Through surprisingly painless saving I find that I have £5000. For those not in the UK, the Bank of England has dropped its interest rate yet again so leaving it where it currently lives in a savings account seems like a lost opportunity (I just made £0.99 last month on interest. Woopidy doo.) I googled around for some ideas and found this, which is hilarious because that's me 7 years ago and things have changed since then. So what should I do with £5k now? [more inside]
posted by like_neon to Work & Money at 6:59 AM - 10 answers

Seal the ends of Pine T&G Porch?

I just put in a new floor on my front porch. It's (nominal) 4x1 pine tongue and groove with the endgrain on the front edge. The floors on these kinds of porches rot at the edges pretty quickly, but it is the historical style. Can I seal the end grain with silicon caulk after painting? The other ends are against the house and would not be sealed. The porch will be heavily painted (primer x2, floor paint x2).
posted by OmieWise to Home & Garden at 6:52 AM - 6 answers

Rusty on Windows, don't want 10 - options?

I haven't used a Windows machine in quite a while, but now need one for a project. 10 is baffling to me, I have no interest in putting in the time to become proficient, and I don't want to deal w/what appears to be its total privacy dumpster fire. What are my best options for getting a new machine w/an older but still reasonably useful Windows OS? [more inside]
posted by ryanshepard to Computers & Internet at 6:36 AM - 6 answers

Switching from Android to iPhone

My 3+ year-old HTC One has developed a bug where the camera turns everything purple, battery life is so bad I have to plug it in before lunch, and it's developing some weird keyboard entry errors. Thinking of switching to the iPhone 6SE, but have questions! [more inside]
posted by skycrashesdown to Shopping at 6:13 AM - 12 answers

Is there a home security camera that doesn't require an internet conn.?

This might be a tough one. I've looked and haven't been able to find what I'm looking for anywhere. All of the residential security camera systems I have found (whose video is viewable on cell phones and pc's) require an internet connection. But I don't need to view my camera while I'm offsite so, for privacy reasons, I'm looking for one that does not require an internet connection (and therefore it doesn't need to send our camera video to some company's server). [more inside]
posted by atm to Technology at 5:30 AM - 17 answers

How do you replace the keys for a late-model BMW?

It's a BMW that was purchased new in the past two years or so. [more inside]
posted by the_blizz to Travel & Transportation at 5:28 AM - 4 answers

iPhone 4 Vulnerability?

In light of the recently revealed iPhone exploit, how vulnerable is an old iPhone 4? Because it can't be updated past iOS 7, I assume Apple isn't releasing a patch (indeed, I checked the software update and there was nothing available). Does this mean I absolutely have to upgrade my hardware? [more inside]
posted by Yiggs to Computers & Internet at 2:57 AM - 6 answers

London with the boy (nearly six!)

So I'm about to take my son to London on a father and son trip. We've been once before and loved it. We went on the river bus, to the Natural History Museum (scary animatronic T-rex!), Science Museum and to Grenwich to see the Cutty Sark. We saw the changing of the guard. We had a WHALE of a time. [more inside]
posted by dance to Travel & Transportation at 2:52 AM - 35 answers

What comic did this routine about Mr. T?

I heard a routine on the radio by a comic (Canadian, perhaps?) in which he talked a length about his hero worship of Mr. T as a child. It had me in stitches. Please tell me this guy's name. [more inside]
posted by quadog to Media & Arts at 12:06 AM - 4 answers

August 25

Migraine prevention

The past two major events at my job have triggered serious (what-I-believe-to-be) migraines for me. These are events where I am required to work for long periods of time in extremely loud/stressful conditions. Both times I woke up the next morning with blinding pain, nausea, vertigo, etc. YANMD but 1. could some medical thing prevent this from happening (i.e., should I see my doctor and get a prescription of some kind) and/or 2. is there something else I can do to prevent it from happening? [more inside]
posted by pupstocks to Health & Fitness at 10:10 PM - 28 answers

Questions for experts on domestic violence.

I'm moderating a panel next month featuring researchers on areas related to domestic violence and working with survivors in a health care context. I've been asked to come up with questions for the panelists to prepare to answer. What should I ask them? What would you like to know, or what do you think is the most important problem in this area? [more inside]
posted by msrrn to Health & Fitness at 8:50 PM - 13 answers

Out with the mold, in with

My closets develop mold this time of year. How can I stop it? [more inside]
posted by Toddles to Home & Garden at 8:36 PM - 4 answers

*crickets* ... no really, CRICKETS

I live in a studio apartment that's a converted garage. The past few days, I've noticed a few crickets inside the apartment. Is this something that can be dealt with easily (say, by buying a few dollars worth of glue traps), or should I go ahead and get my landlord involved and arrange for a visit from an exterminator?
posted by ocherdraco to Home & Garden at 7:23 PM - 13 answers

How to watch the NFL without cable?

What is the legal, legit way to watch NFL games at my home? Difficulty factor: not tech savy. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by BlahLaLa to Technology at 7:07 PM - 12 answers

Terminal velocity of an Etruscan shrew

Smaller, lighter animals can fall from further up without being harmed (I believe). Is there a mammal that is so small it could fall from any height and not be hurt? Is my basic premise wrong? Does terminal velocity figure into the explanation?
posted by Naib to Science & Nature at 6:12 PM - 7 answers

Who writes the CNN and MSNBC, etc chyrons?

Pretty great chyrons this election. Who specifically and generally (viz., job title and the folks holding the job titles at CNN and MSNBC) writes them?
posted by hleehowon to Media & Arts at 6:09 PM - 1 answer

Where or How to Print Fan Cards for our Artists

I am a production artist at Passion Works Fine Art Studio in Athens, Ohio. We feature the collaborative work of our adult artists with and without disabilities. I've been wanting to include information about the artist who produced the piece with each sale in a Fan/ Baseball Card format. [more inside]
posted by mickeefynn to Media & Arts at 5:50 PM - 6 answers

Harry Potter language question

The spells in the Harry Potter books are in a kind of Latin. There is a Latin translation of the first Harry Potter book. What language are the spells in that? (PLEASE SAY GREEK!) What language are the spells in the Greek translation? (PLEASE SAY EGYPTIAN!)
posted by thatwhichfalls to Society & Culture at 5:35 PM - 9 answers

Giant Neon Santa Claus Build

I have a dream: to build a recreation of this giant neon Santa Claus sign, but cheaply, using neon rope light. My building skills are limited to Legos and Ikea. Can someone steer me towards some basics that will help me achieve my dream? [more inside]
posted by Unsomnambulist to Technology at 5:31 PM - 4 answers

Matagalpa to Granada (Nicaragua)

Bus, taxi or private shuttle? [more inside]
posted by metajim to Travel & Transportation at 4:46 PM - 1 answer

The Boozy Educational Series

I want to learn, from the beginning, with no pressure and a drink in hand. Help me come up with a boozy math/science online course curriculum. [more inside]
posted by naju to Education at 3:47 PM - 7 answers

Can you recommend some complex, story-driven Android games?

My husband is on a perpetual hunt for Android games that are complex or challenging enough to keep his interest for more than a day or two. He enjoys RPG and puzzle games, mostly, with the occasional building or strategy game thrown in. By this point we've tried most games on various best-of lists, and he was hoping there might be some hidden gems he's not aware of. [more inside]
posted by cabingirl to Computers & Internet at 3:28 PM - 22 answers

Disappointed by friends - am I overreacting?

Facebook kindly made me aware that people are congratulating one of my closest friends on her engagement with my ex-bf. [more inside]
posted by anonymous to Human Relations at 2:41 PM - 87 answers

Crockpot meals prepared the night before

I am after your proven, delicious crock pot meals where all the prep can be done the night before and stuck in the fridge overnight. In the morning, everything is just dumped in the pot. [more inside]
posted by Eyebrows McGee to Food & Drink at 2:24 PM - 17 answers

A song of... a lifetime?

My baby is turning one next month. To mark her first year of life, I'm mashing together 365 one-second video clips (one for each day of her life). Can you help me find the perfect background song? Some criteria beneath the fold... [more inside]
posted by Cat Face to Media & Arts at 1:10 PM - 13 answers

What is this plant and is it toxic to cats?

Can anyone identify this plant? [more inside]
posted by Reverend John to Pets & Animals at 12:35 PM - 5 answers

Non-bank site that can billpay and ACH?

Looking for a site (ideally non-bank) that 1. offers billpay (physical checks), where they'll also mail along a physical piece of paper (invoice, etc) that the user uploads in PDF, and 2. can also send ACH payments out -- ideally would work similar to Venmo in that pulls from one bank acct and puts in another, but would *not* require the recipient also has the same app/site access. Yes, I'll have the recipients routing/acct #s. I'm ok with paying fees.
posted by grammalvsu to Work & Money at 12:33 PM - 5 answers