August 2010 Archives
August 31
Why can't I get rid of the song in my head?
Someone just sang a stupid song, to himself; he sits next to me at work. Which raises a question: Why do songs get stuck in our brains for days? What is the scientific explanation for this phenomena? Is it an affect of modern life on the individual? Do we fear of loneliness?
When would a prospective employer contact my current employer?
When would a prospective employer contact my current employer? [more inside]
I needs me a camera!
Where's the best place to buy a digital camera in Berlin? [more inside]
where did i come from?
superly sockpuppet birds and the bees filter: i was date-raped and now i am negotiating some intense babydaddy issues in court. he has a new girlfriend and a new baby. my child is 6 and understandably pondering how this is all possible. babydaddy was not significantly present for about 5 years. i am a very much single mother and i and my parents are all that my child has known in a truly significant way...how to approach the question of origin truthfully but sensitively? [more inside]
Who knows how to write simply?
I'm looking for research on low-literacy writing, how people read and remember different kinds of materials, what kind of materials are most readable to the most people, etc. Names of academic journals or even academic specialties I should be looking at would be helpful. Info on this topic for general audiences (and written accessibly!) are also welcome, if they are based on research. (Much of what I've found so far is based on conjecture, which I already have a ton of).
Will my Facebook photos still be around in 600 years?
Can you point me to any good writing (research-based, speculative, or heck, even fictional) about the potential historical permanence or impermanence of digital media? I'm interested in both professional (theatrical movies, book publishing, maps...) and personal (digital snapshots, Livejournal, email...) forms of digital information storage. [more inside]
Where can a college student buy an inexpensive (and legit) Windows OS license?
Where can a college student buy an inexpensive (and legit) Windows OS license? [more inside]
Cat + banty chicken = broken heart
I have chickens. Roommate moving in just told me her cat kills birds in mid-air. Now what? [more inside]
Ok to ask?
If I'm invited to a cocktails only and dancing wedding reception, may I ask to bring a date? [more inside]
Looking for un-virusing help in Ventura, California
Computer repair from afar-filter: my sister's Dell desktop is infected with one (or more) viruses, and I'm not around to fix it for her. deezil's profile is too detailed to mail to her or trying to walk her through, so I'm looking to get her to a fix-it shop in Ventura, CA, or recommendations on one of the fix-it shops in chain stores. Oh, and we don't know her admin password. [more inside]
American Express Never Forgets
I recently applied for a corporate American Express card through work and they told me that they found an old written-off debt from 1990 under my name. How best should I handle this? [more inside]
Help a California girl spending 9 months in India feel connected to family and home?
Genius MeFi Brain Trust: my very sweet, very sharp fiancee will be conducting the bulk of her PhD research on a Fulbright in India this year (Delhi and points beyond TBD). She's been once before for a couple of months and she's asked me to get her a birthday present that helps remind her of home and her family. [more inside]
Help me with the basics of furnishing my new bedroom!
I now am the proud leaser of an apartment, and more pertinently, of an unfurnished bedroom. Before I go out and say "this looks nice, I'll buy it," what are some good resources, tips, threads, or hacks for furnishing and decorating a bedroom or living space or the like? [more inside]
Help me motivate and teach my team while having fun!
I need to do a 30 minute presentation at a meeting next week, and I need the info I'm giving to stick hard. In your experience, what hands on activities/contests/ etc. have been effective for you or your co-workers? Somewhat wacky (possibly very boring) work details inside... [more inside]
Is this what raclette should taste/smell like?
Should raw milk raclette smell like this? [more inside]
How can I persuade my friend to not enter a green card marriage?
How can I persuade my friend to not enter a green card marriage? [more inside]
Biking Bonobo Seeks Badass, Kong-Quality Caffeine Carrier
Remember those luggage commercials back in the last century that had a big gorilla tossing around the suitcase to show how much abuse it could stand? I'm looking for the commuter coffee-tumbler version of that. [more inside]
Best location for college students on a spring trip?
A group of us students are given the opportunity to go abroad over the Spring Break week in a (predominately) non-english speaking country. The location is up to us (war zones are of course off limits. I'm unsure of the distance limit, I believe South-East Asia is too far away, and St. Petersburg is the only option for Russia) and the cost is subsidized quite a bit. The purpose of the visit isn't for lounging around and seeing sites though, we will be conducting individual research in order to make a ~50 minute presentation back home.
Obviously this is something that will come from the desires of the group, but I was hoping to get some input from the educated masses here at MeFi so that I could relay it back to the rest of the group.
Broaden my horizons, one search at a time...
Spare 5 minutes. What do I type into Google to learn or laugh?
There's a Rugged Road Chords?
Can someone with a better ear than me pick out the chords in Judee Sill's "There's a Rugged Road"? [more inside]
What are the best movies about the U.S. Secret Service?
What are the best fictional movies focused around the U.S. Secret Service? I'm more interested in movies with fictional Presidents and situations.
Know some good lamps?
I am an artist. I broke an old lamp that I used as my main light when drawing and coloring. Can you please suggest some cool lamps you know? [more inside]
Getting a part-time programming job without a degree...
How do you go about when you look for a part-time entry-level software developer job? [more inside]
Drowning in politics and lies at work
How do I navigate this increasingly complicated and uncomfortable situation at work which involves lying on other people's part, future fibbing on my part, being angry at my bosses, and potentially following them out the door? [more inside]
What scifi/comic fan convention should I attend?
Never been to a scifi/comic convention: help me change this! Especially if I can only attend 1 in the next few years, what would you recommend as the most fun convention for me (1) in Eastern Canada? or (2) in North America? [more inside]
Soups and Stews, Preserved
What types of soups/stew should I make for pressure canning? No knowledge of pressure canning required (aside from some notes inside). Just tell me your recipes! [more inside]
let's (learn to) dance
I want to learn to dance well. At clubs and parties, for example. I am in good physical shape, but I have no rhythm/coordination or even basic knowledge of dancing. How do I start from zero? What steps should I take to reach my goal? [more inside]
driver's ed for someone who missed the change in HS?
Recommendation for a driver's ed instructor in Brooklyn, not far from the Sheepshead Bay / Brighton Beach area? [more inside]
Money Spats
How to handle fights about money with spouse? [more inside]
Music like The Draughtsman's Contract Soundtrack
Recommend some music similar to a couple Michael Nyman pieces. [more inside]
"Just say NO to NATO?"
Let's say Russia wanted to be rid of that pesky NATO alliance once and for all. For fiction purposes, how might they go about making this happen? All ideas welcome, no matter how implausible. [more inside]
What should I do with these vintage motion and still film cameras?
I have found myself in the possession of a few interesting vintage motion and still film cameras which look to be in great shape, including cases and manuals. While they look neat, I know nothing about them. I tried googling them, but couldn't find anything specific enough to help me decide what I should do with them. I'd like to know if they're worth anything and where I can look to find how much they're going for and where I might advertise them. Specifics and photos inside... [more inside]
Help me Learn How to Program Rock Drums
What's the easier way for me to learn the conventions of rock drumming from my bed? [more inside]
Get your copyright on!
Can I republish repurposed PowerPoint images as political cartoons? [more inside]
Please recommend dreamy, melodic bands like Galaxie 500
Lately, '80s/'90s dream pop a la Galaxie 500 has really been hitting the spot. Please recommend more music that will send me drifting away into a sea of fuzzy bliss. [more inside]
Where is the best place to purchase OEM wheels at a good discount?
Where is the best place to purchase OEM wheels at a good discount? [more inside]
Does my hat say "I heart Stalin"?
What does this badge mean? [more inside]
Changing banks in Louisville, KY
Fed up with current bank, would very much like to find a new one. [more inside]
is this as good as it gets?
Is this as good as it gets? [more inside]
Help me understand.
My ex-boyfriend is depressed; I'm not. He ended our relationship abruptly, leaving me with unanswered questions. I'd like some perspective on how depression can affect and end otherwise healthy relationships. [more inside]
Help me pick out a workhorse laser printer
I am having an embarrassingly difficult time replacing an HP 4600 Laserjet printer. What is your methodology for selecting a high-volume laser printer? [more inside]
Should I don the black ironic tshirt?
Career Change: Graphics to....IT? Please tell me about the wide range of IT work. [more inside]
Buried Alive in Ancient Egypt - Can you name the Movie
Moviefilter: My wife is trying to identify a movie she watched years ago about ancient Egypt where slaves try to escape from being buried alive with the pharaoh (or other persons of great stature). [more inside]
Yiddish radio suggestions
Yiddish radio resources for my sight-impaired grandmother.. [more inside]
How to learn Southern charm?
How to learn Southern charm? Is there a book? Should I go to finishing school? How to have the grace and wit of Southerners?
ISO: a social forum with entertaining personalities.
Help me find a decent online social community. Details inside. [more inside]
A good book explaining parental abuse and a child's view of one self?
I need help UNDERSTANDING something. How does one emotional and physical abuse as a child contribute to one's basic feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem? Any specific book recommendations on the subject? [more inside]
Thanks or Thank You
I work the front desk at my parent's hotel and we are having a dispute regarding the language and wording of a sign that we have recently put up. Is there a better way to word the following sign: "Busy Helping Another Guest, Back in a Minute. Thanks." ? [more inside]
How to Make It to Montauk
I finished my first century ride last weekend, and I want to do another one! So I'm planning a DIY century from either Queens or one of the stops on the LIRR to Montauk (I'll take the train back). I've never set foot or wheel on the south shore. Please help me plan the trip! [more inside]
Why is one of these things not like the others?
Why did the "Twisted girl throwing puppies in a river" video generate such global outrage and attention, when other videos of violence towards animals usually don't? What was different about this video? [more inside]
Baby you can have whatever you like
How much exercise do I need to get before I can eat whatever I want?! [more inside]
How do I talk sense into an ex of a friend?
My ladyfriend's ex is inviting himself to her birthday visit, how do I untangle this soap opera? [more inside]
Best of europe in early november
We have an opportunity to be in London for a couple of days in early November. We are hoping to extend our trip by a week and do some travel/sightseeing while we are there. In our young 30s, like a bit of adventure, charm and vibrant lifestyle during our vacations. Where should we go? [more inside]
DSLR lens advice wanted
I'm trying to come up with a package of DSLR lenses that will cover 99% of my picture-taking requirements at the least cost. 18-200mm all-in-one or 18-55mm and 55-200mm lenses? [more inside]
Coffee shop or bar jobs in SF?
How hard is it to get a job in San Francisco in a coffee shop or bar (bartender or otherwise), without any experience? [more inside]
He gave me his number, BUT.....
Isn't there some rule that a guy isn't really interested unless he asks for your number? [more inside]
Is her excessive temper a red flag for our wedding or can it be overcome?
I am months away from a wedding with deep reservations about my future wife's temperament, which often becomes physically violent. How do I persist? [more inside]
I made this
Can I make someone stop using an image I created when the image in question is a parody of another work? [more inside]
Why ask for 10 things about me?
In an online dating conversation, what is the intent of "tell me 10 random things about yourself"? [more inside]
These Boots Were Made for Lookin' Fly
Women's military inspired boots! Help me get as close to these without the ridiculous price tag! [more inside]
75 AskMes about cat pee and this hasn't been covered
What's the best way to clean a bunch of tools that are encrusted in old cat pee? [more inside]
Should I teach with a doc cam?
What are the downsides (if any) to using a document camera for university teaching in the humanities? [more inside]
Ip Man branch
I have decided to Wing Chun tonight. [more inside]
New boss, say hello to the employee that's been doing her job and yours for a year.
Have you ever had to "hold down the fort" at work for a long time without a supervisor, and then one day, you finally got a boss? I'm going to be that boss. Help! [more inside]
new old grad student seeks to avoid institutionalized boredom
Do I need to attend the UBC (University of British Columbia) grad student orientation this week? [more inside]
Any advice for a first fondue?
Help me do that fondue voodoo that you do so well! [more inside]
How do I navigate racial politics with my family before our transracial adoption?
When I was childless, my parents' right-wing politics were pretty easy to ignore. Whatever, we're different, they are entitled to their opinions. But now that I have a small child, and we are about to adopt transracially, things are beginning to get tense for me. [more inside]
Shared RSS Reader for Groups
I'm looking for something like Google Reader's sharing functionality, but for a group of project collaborators. [more inside]
MeFites, Countrymen, lend me your ear(phones) (suggestions)!
If money were no object, what are the best noise canceling headphones I could buy? [more inside]
Getting large PDFs onto the iPad
How can I get 100mb to 250mb PDFs onto my iPad? [more inside]
Help me make horizontal bar for me to practice balance on
I'm looking to create a bar like this one so that I can stand on it to practice my balance. I'm thinking some kind of plumbing pipe may be able to hold me, or possibly a metal broomstick (I'm 56kg). Any help on what to make it from or how to put it together? [more inside]
sharing writing studio space
I own two homes, and am developing a shared writer/quiet artist studio space in one of my empty apartments. I will be using it along with 3-4 others. Do users of creative studio spaces have advice on how we can smoothly operate? Any examples of ground rules, chore charts, etc. would be appreciated.
ProActiv - bad idea in the long term?
What are the long term effects of ProActiv on my skin? (And should I bother trying to kick the stuff?) I feel like all this daily abrasion can't be a good thing, but every time I try to change products, the acne rears up again. [more inside]
Where to find a small, sturdy, inexpensive camera bag?
I'm making an effort to take more photos with my Nikon D90, and I'd like to keep my camera on me 24/7. While my current camera bag is fantastic, it's too bulky for everyday use. [more inside]
How to get an xml file (online calendar feed) to auto update to iCal or any other calendar?
How can I sync an online calendar feed (xml) with either iCal or Google Calendar? I know I can sync iCal and gCalendar easily through several methods. But what I also need to include is my department's events calendar. I can import it as an iCal or Outlook file, but this is only a one-time option. Once the department's calendar is updated I don't receive the new or changed events. And I suspect if I import the (newer) file again, I will get many duplicates. The calendar has an xml feed I could subscribe to, but can't figure out how to translate this into a calendar that automatically syncs or updates. Willing to consider any options that would lead to the online calendar (.ics, .csv, or .xml file) being auto updated to any calendar application. This would make my life so much easier! Thanks!
Labor Day Fun in the Sun
Labor Day weekend will be my last day off before hunkering down through my heavy work load and waiting for Thanksgiving Day. I've had a glorious summer but sadly the days have become noticeably shorter. What would be appropriately awesome for this last summer huzzah? Help me Texan MeFites! [more inside]
How do I quanitify the number of people who did the work?
How do I accurately quantify the number of people who did the work? [more inside]
Help me manage the transition to daycare!
My 17-month-old is starting daycare for the first time. Should we send her for two, or three days per week? And what changes should I expect in her personality or our relationship as a result of this? [more inside]
In mid-sept I will go to court in San Francisco as a plaintiff in a small claims case that I filed.
In mid-sept I will go to court in San Francisco as a plaintiff in a small claims case that I filed. [more inside]
In Dune, why doesn't the Spacing Guild take over the universe?
Dune question: Why doesn't the Spacing Guild just take over the universe? [more inside]
Can I fix my cabinet hinge, or do I need to replace it?
The hinge on our kitchen cabinets has come apart, and I don't know if I can repair it. Replacement is only $6 or so, but I'll have to wait on delivery.
It's a salice hinge, and there are 2 pieces, one on the door and one on the cabinet. There's some linkage that hooks the two pieces together, but I didn't install them so I have no idea how they fit together.
Here is a picture of a similar hinge, with an annotation of where the separation has happened.
Anyone familiar with salice hinges? Anything I can do, or should I just replace and be done?
So, what are the kids uploading these days?
I'm interested in usage patterns of user-generated media. Are the large sites that collect a lot of photos and videos from users (Facebook, Flickr, YouTube, etc.) publishing any kind of data on what people are uploading? [more inside]
I know it's your policy, but please??
I was 2 hours late dropping off a rental car and they charged me an extra full day, which is their policy. What would be my best negotiation stance for calling up corporate and asking for something, a discount or whatever? [more inside]
Portrait of the Artist as a Young Woman
Parents kept my high school art. I'm 34 and they've now given it back to me. What the hell do I do with it? [more inside]
Desperately Seeking Quiet
Is there any residential facility you know, anywhere in the country, to be both committed to quiet enjoyment and surrounded by acres of trees? Extra points for subsidized over 55 as one of us is retired and we think we'd fare better with an older crowd. We must keep rent between seven and nine hundred. [more inside]
Tracking the top titles.
What sales figures for books are needed to constitute "bestseller" status in Mainland China? [more inside]
Pro brain, kindergarten skills
Guitarists: How do you wish you had started? [more inside]
How to get rid of dog's skin allergies and hot spots?
Best treatment for a dog with skin allergies and hot spots? [more inside]
Are there any presentation stages like Sidney Harmon Hall in Washington, D.C. in the western part of the US?
Are there any presentation stages like Sidney Harmon Hall in Washington, D.C. in the western part of the US? [more inside]
Help me quit smoking!
Help me quit smoking! [more inside]
Need ideas for a "techy" grand opening.
My university is about to open a brand new engineering and technology building. I need ideas for a cool "high tech" ribbon-cutting ceremony.
How do I build an iphone app for my podcast?
How do I build an iphone app for my podcast? I want to include the podcast feed, youtube video feed, twitter feed, feedback form and phone number link. (Criteria: must use free tools only, no ads, easy for non-programmer with some CSS/HTML experience, retain ownership and complete control. Bonus points for easy port to Android)
How do I say or write, "You have the wrong number, please stop calling" in Vietnamese?
How do I say or write, "You have the wrong number, please stop calling" in Vietnamese? [more inside]
How to search for a particular frame within a video?
I have 50 video files. Each is 25 minutes long and I need to top and tail them leaving only the 10 minute program.
The programs all start the same way and end the same way. I have grabbed the first and last frames from one of the files so I need a way of searching for these in the other files. Presumably they won't be an exact match due to compression artifacts etc. [more inside]
Trees, Bees and Butterflies.
Are borer bees killing my beech tree? [more inside]
What made you emerge?
Slightly older mefites: What is one thing about life that you get satisfaction out of now that you would not have appreciated in your early to mid 20s? [more inside]
Can you recommend movies featuring touching interactions between non-alpha types?
Can you recommend some good romantic movies that feature people who might be considered by some to be 'losers' or, if not that harsh, people who would be considered generally unattractive due to looks or lifestyle or any other reason that would make one not alpha? Other necessary qualities are an excellent soundtrack and definitely a script that rises above the cliche. Any genre is fine, so long as there is something touching about the romantic link between the protagonists. [more inside]
Allergic reation or parental overreacion?
Did my daughter have an allergic reaction to her snack? If so, what could have caused it? YANMD, obviously. [more inside]
Mamma mia!
I'm looking for cartoonish, over-the-top, good-humored portrayals of ethnic and other stereotypes. [more inside]
I need more than zero options to treat the cancer.
How can I (a Canadian) take part in or find out if I am eligible for clinical trials happening at American hospitals? [more inside]
Brush up German specialised vocab
German import/export vocab [more inside]
Generation Ship Novels?
Help me find a leather version of the cheap handbag that got me through law school!
Help me find a leather version of the cheap handbag that got me through law school! I'm convinced the lady lawyers at work are snickering at me behind their backs for carrying my tattered PVC bag. [more inside]
I am allergic to something in my apartment but i can't tell what!
I am allergic to my apartment, but I don't know from what! [more inside]
Finder Blues
Using Finder is murdering my mind.
What's the most efficient way to move/delete/rename files, view sort by metadata? On a Mac. Getting good with unix commands? Some sort of Vim file management system cobbled together with plugins?
Find me a route . . .
Planning / scheduling / dispatch software for a (small) airport taxi company? I'm struggling to find options for the above which aren't much too heavy / costly / over-featured for the size of business. [more inside]
Help me pick a phone.
Please help me pick a mobile phone/carrier in the US. [more inside]
Looking for old black and white cartoon featuring a battle between the happy people and the sad people.
Boomers! Does anyone remember an old black and white cartoon I saw in the early 1950s featuring a battle between the happy guys and the sad guys? [more inside]
Merino for the fatter cyclist?
I have read that merino wool is the ideal base layer for cyclists because it soaks up sweat without getting cold, clammy and smelly. This is just what I need for my daily cycle commute. But I tried on some merino long-sleeve t-shirts, and found that I am too fat to wear them decently.
Are there merino blends, cuts or alternatives that have the desirable sweat-eating properties but won't cling so faithfully to my bulges?
Looking for more food to set on fire.
What do you use your kitchen torch for, besides caramelizing sugar? [more inside]
August 30
What is this sad 80s song that I love?
A song. From the 80s. Almost no information. Go! [more inside]
London Tube buttons?
Does the London Underground have an equivalent souvenir product to the Toronto subway buttons? [more inside]
The very formidable (and presumably hungry) caterpillar
While tubing down the Green River in western NC, I came across this curious caterpillar floating in the water. This is the largest caterpillar I've ever seen, and I'm baffled by it. Mind helping to identify it?
Lady Gaga concert recordings?
Are there any professional-quality recordings of Lady Gaga live performances? [more inside]
I've been using Amazon to sell used books but USPS shipping costs cause my net earnings to be nearly nil. What am I doing wrong?
I've been using Amazon to sell used books but USPS shipping costs cause my net earnings to be nearly nil. What am I doing wrong? [more inside]
DFW-area LARP-ers?
Can anyone put me in contact with DFW-area LARP-ers? I have done the Googling, but can't find any groups that seem to be currently active or have good contact links. It would be great to get a contact from someone who actually knows a group/some individuals. This is for a video project. [more inside]
Casual every-day questions that reveal a persons true personality?
Casual every-day questions that reveal a persons true personality? [more inside]
Tea at Claridges?
Dear me, I'm from the colonies and have no idea. Elegant, interesting, London-based giftcard (or somesuch) for an online friend's wedding. Suggestions? [more inside]
Good sources for videos on psychology?
I'm looking for video sites like TED or Big Think that has researchers talking about their projects and areas of expertise. Any other similar sites out there you've liked? Preferably in the area of psychology/human nature [more inside]
And no, not a Snuggy...
What's the most useful item you own that would easily fit into a backpack? [more inside]
Non-repetitive electronic music?
Recommend me non-repetitive electronic music. [more inside]
Is an iPad the best candidate for my stepdad's work computer?
Is an iPad the best candidate for my stepdad's work computer? [more inside]
In search of intertwined short stories
ISO collections of intertwined short stories. [more inside]
Dimly remembered creepy movie
I'm trying to remember a movie in which a woman was chained to a wall or ceiling, and an unattractive bald or blond man approached her with a worm-looking growth emerging from his forehead toward her face. What is the movie? [more inside]
Nuance? I don't want no stinking nuance.
I want movies where someone is pushed too far and finally fights back. [more inside]
Help My Accounting Duh
In double-entry bookkeeping, are taxes a liability or an expense? [more inside]
what's the name of that poem with the dogs and the breakfast?
What's the name of (and where can i find) the Buddhist-y poem that has a line that goes something along the lines of 'send us dogs when we expect breakfast?' [more inside]
in need of a driver for a ide controller
i run win xp i need a3k46zam ide controller driver but i cannot find it my sound doesnt play on any speaker but for some reason headsets do ... and ive tried driver dling programs nada
Best baseball radio announcer in the east.
There's something special about listening to a baseball game on the radio, and even though I'm not a huge baseball fan, I'd like to start listening to more games. Since I don't have any particular geographic preference (having lived all over the US), I'm free to choose any team in the east; I live in the mid-Atlantic area but can regularly pull in stations from Chicago, St. Louis, New York, Atlanta, etc. So, which baseball announcer is the best? [more inside]
Old fashion gravestrone
Where can one find someone to make an out-of-the-ordinary gravestone? One involving actual stone carving? [more inside]
Behind an able man, there are always...what? THERE ARE ALWAYS WHAT??
What is my fortune cookie trying to tell me? [more inside]
Bodies? We don't need no stinkin' bodies.
What sci-fi or dystopian (or even utopian) stories of the future involve a form of humanity that has outgrown the need for any corporeal manifestation in favor a completely cerebral existence? [more inside]
What do I do with this piercing during surgery?
I'm having surgery but I have a septum piercing (14 gauge), what do I do? [more inside]
Coping (or not) with the job search
Where can I find a therapist / support group that specializes in job search coaching with experience in treating social anxiety and other irrational emotions? [more inside]
SAmsung CD Drive Won't Read Some CD's
Why does my external DVD/CD drive read some CD's and not others? Can I fix it? [more inside]
If I threw up Cipro an hour after taking it, did I absorb the dose?
I have food poisoning. I have been on Cipro since Sunday evening. I have not had vomiting from the disease, but bowel troubles. I took a dose of Cipro an hour ago, and I just threw up. Vomiting is a known side effect from the medicine, but should I be worried I didn't absorb the dose? How fast does your body process this stuff?
Help identify this fungus growing in & near our bathroom?
Bathroom Fungus/Mold Identification: Can you tell me what these little yellow tubes are? [more inside]
Create static link to blog page
I've recently changed my word press theme. I have four static pages on the site with links to them on the top of every page. But when I changed themes, I lost a navigational link to my blog.
Now the only way to navigate to my blog from a static page is to click on the name of the blog in the header. This isn't obvious to a user so my question is: how do I create a blog link adjacent to the static page links on the top of every page?
Seeking family-friendly beach resort near NYC
Do you know of a family-friendly beach hotel or resort within a few hours' driving distance from NYC? [more inside]
Salad Nirvana
Why are salads at restaurants so much better than at home? [more inside]
Can somone help me get a PS3 connected to the internet
Help me get my friends PS3 to properly connect to the internet. [more inside]
Putting my logo in photos
How do add my logo to photos i'm editing in photoshop? [more inside]
Youthful uneducation
My boyfriend has a 19 year old son who wants to quit college. [more inside]
What's a hobby I can do in very small spurts (5-10 mins.)?
What's a hobby I can do in very small spurts (5-10 mins.)? [more inside]
Tell me more about my gay genes!
So I'm gay. Turns out a lot of folks in my extended family are as well. What are the odds? Has anyone studied extended family charting specifically? [more inside]
schnell schnell kartoffelkopf
I might try Babel Fish but lest I burn my face off, translation bitte! Altbewahrtes Atzmittel... [more inside]
How best to go from Boston to Cape Cod?
I need to get from Logan Airport in Boston to Eastham, MA (outer Cape Cod) on Friday, September 3. What's the best way to do it? [more inside]
coffee hour, all the time
Creative ways to give away coffee? [more inside]
How do I extract movies from a homemade DVD?
My Dad burned me a DVD of home movies. Is there an easy, free way to extract clips in a common format? [more inside]
what's a good job for someone who isn't great at anything?
College senior here. What's a good job for someone that really isn't that good at anything? [more inside]
Any creative ways to use an old moleskine daily planner?
I'm looking for ideas on how to use an old Moleskine 2006 Daily planner. [more inside]
Death of attraction? Hopefully not...
Not really sure how to let this out to my college counselor. In February of this year, I came out to my mom and brother. Things were better than I thought they would turn out to be. A couple of month later, my Dad somehow got the impression that we were all hiding something from him and as such, coerced me to tell him what was going on. I told him. He was somewhat judgmental of me and I completely stopped talking to him about these topics. Ever since that, I've been worried about how my future decisions will affect my relationship with my parents. [more inside]
How can I help my academically failing brother before it's too late?
How can I offer options to a low-achieving California high school senior? [more inside]
Dating With Herpes
What do I do as a gay man who may have Herpes? [more inside]
I want to have my sister in my pocket!
Need help with the logistics of best communicating with my sister in Europe. [more inside]
What's the most effective way to generate press for my gym?
I run an unusual fitness facility, and am trying to get media coverage. I've never written a press release before, and I'm stalled. I've googled, but would love to hear from members of the press what kind of "hook" and/or format is most appealing and therefor likely to be turned into a story. [more inside]
How to get wrinkles out of shrink to fit jeans?
How to get wrinkles out of shrink to fit jeans? [more inside]
Neat spots to record in Portland, OR
Do you know of any sweet, kinda secluded spots in Portland, OR that might sound cool if one were to record music being played in them? [more inside]
Where can I go for a great view of the New York (Manhattan) skyline?
Where can I go for a great view of the New York (Manhattan) skyline? [more inside]
Nag's Head fine dining filter
I am consulting the excellent hive mind tour guide :) Can you recommend a fine dining restaurant in the Nag's Head N.C. area? [more inside]
Where can I find a high-quality video of Steve Jobs introducing the original iPhone online?
Where can I find a high-quality video of Steve Jobs introducing the original iPhone online? [more inside]
Borovicka recipe
Anybody got a recipe for a traditional Slovak juniper liqueur, "borovicka"?
What are the best study skills you can think of?
What are the best study skills you can share with me? For knowledge retention, passing tests, hearing skills and the like... [more inside]
Help me transfer!
I want to successfully transfer to a better college. How does the process work? What should I know? [more inside]
how long is too long to wait?
Unemployed significant other filter: how long is too long to wait? [more inside]
Help fixing a Farfisa?
Where in Austin (besides Switched On) can I get the spring reverb tank on a Farfisa combo organ repaired? [more inside]
oxyacetylene torch
Bought a garage sale oxyacetylene torch. Is it safe? Is it
repairable? [more inside]
Microcinemas in Berlin, Glasgow and London
I have the opportunity this October to travel to three cities in Europe (Glasgow, London and Berlin) and am searching for microcinemas or arts organizations in these three cities that might be interested in hosting a screening of shorts by NW experimental filmmakers and video artists.
Any suggestions would be most appreciated.
Thx [more inside]
What sites are highly skewed toward specific genders?
What sites are highly skewed toward specific genders? i.e. iVillage, Cosmopolitan.com for Females and SportsIllustrated.com, fantasysports.com, caranddriver.com for Males? [more inside]
Ugly office needs a makeover!
I desperately need an office makeover. DIY tips, recommendations (photos inside) and links to your favorite design blogs would be much appreciated! [more inside]
I'm learnding!
SAS Filter: Is there a good MetaFilter-esque bulletin board where I can ask questions? [more inside]
FontExplorer won't import most of my fonts
Mac OS X 10.5.8 - using Linotype FontExplorer version 1.2.3 -- can't get my fonts to import on the new computer. [more inside]
Calm. At Ease.
Do you have any quick phrases or slogans that you like to repeat yourself to get yourself to calm down (or at least NOT panic) when entering an anxiety-inducing situation? [more inside]
Staying connected during sex?
I dissociate during sex, but I haven't been sexually abused or assaulted. What is my problem? [more inside]
Smarty Pants?
Was there ever a study that suggested that children become more successful / independent / happy / etc. when they're allowed to choose their own outfits from an early age? [more inside]
Please Help My Dad's Business Stay Afloat!
Good and cheap laptop rental in Minneapolis/western suburbs? [more inside]
Help me plan my awesome Southeast Asia journey
What is the best time of year to travel in Southeast Asia? [more inside]
Where to next, Boston?
Romantic or inspiring experiences in or around Boston? [more inside]
I’ll never be lonely when I am alone and I keep myself to myself...
Introvert theme songs? [more inside]
sending money from USA to a non-cuban in Cuba
How do I send money to a non-relative African citizen in Cuba from USA? [more inside]
Why is my new Xbox 360's output all pixellated?
Xbox 360. HDMI. 1080p monitor. Why am I only getting a 720p picture? [more inside]
Am I being too ambitious?
I've enrolled in three classes at my local community college to obtain two post-BA certificates. I need to decide if I'm making a good decision or if my eyes are bigger than my brain.... [more inside]
Why do some movies looks worse in HD?
Why does avatar look so much WORSE on nice HD TVs? [more inside]
Needed: Post-Summertime Eligible Dependent Care Expense Ideas
YNMA, obviously...
wife and I overestimated our dependent care expenses this year...by a lot. I have to come up with valid expenses, for the remainder of 2010, that we can occur to cover 3K remaining in our account. Any ideas? We did the camp thing this summer, but ended up not signing up for a few of them from our original budget. Our son is in kindergarten at a private school, so we're past the time we can pay for tuition out of this account. PLEASE HELP!!!! Thanks mefite nation!!!
Fairfax City or County?
Fairfax County or City of Fairfax? How do I know where I live? [more inside]
Seattle Band Website Programmer Recommendation?
Need a decent band website. Who's good (and affordable!) in the greater
Seattle area? No, we don't want to make do with a MySpace page. And
we're a cover band, if that helps.
Using "the" with neighborhood names: a Bay Area thing?
Using "the" with neighborhood names: a Bay Area thing? [more inside]
Resuming unemployment benefits after work?
Can I resume unemployment benefits after temporary work ends in Washington state? What is the process? [more inside]
Negotiating custom car deals
How do I get the best deal when custom-ordering a new car? [more inside]
Found undies that aren't mine. Now what?
Found underwear in the laundry that wasn't mine. Now what? [more inside]
How to handle this delicate work situation?
An employee/friend came and confided that they are six weeks pregnant. Our boss has been hinting at reducing her hours and does not know she's pregnant. What to do, how to handle this in a professional manner? [more inside]
Help me help my feets!
My feet are sad. What are the tools and techniques I can use to make them happier? [more inside]
Should I go to college for journalism if I want to be a journalist?
Should I go to college for journalism if I want to be a journalist? I'm really interested in radio and photo documentaries. [more inside]
Sometimes it's just a prop.
Turning a cigarillo into a costume prop. [more inside]
DIY grouting help, please!
I need to regrout some bathroom tiles, and I need help with some specific questions. I'm very overwhelmed with the amount of information out there and having trouble narrowing. [more inside]
Search for lowest airfare on specific dates?
I need a travel search tool that will alert me when fares between 2 locations on my select dates drop below X. Surely there must be such a thing? [more inside]
Google docs has denied us access to a document, saying "it is in violation of our Terms of Service." We need that document! What can we do?
Google docs has denied us access to a document, saying "it is in violation of our Terms of Service." We need that document! What can we do? [more inside]
Who wrote/published/owns the "Piracy, It's a Crime" music?
Does anyone know the musician, composer, label, publishing company or licensing agency responsible for the music on the Piracy, It's a Crime advert? This is, ironically, so we can clear a sample for use in a fairly high profile UK music release. We've cleared all the other samples for this record, but we're drawing a blank on who to ask for this piece. Any pointers or clues, however slim or however many steps away from the people who can give us permission to use this music, are extremely welcome.
NYCFilter: Can anyone personally recommend a dentist in Midtown?
NYCFilter: Can anyone personally recommend a dentist in Midtown? [more inside]
New Road Warrior Needs Advice
Calling all you seasoned road warriors. I'm starting a new job where I'll be traveling at least 40% of the time. [more inside]
Webcam suggestions for Grandma?
What webcam/video chat setup would you recommend, if you had to set one up for a technophobe grandma, in order to let her see her grandchildren? [more inside]
How to read personality in 30 seconds
How to read somebody's personality in 30 seconds? [more inside]
Is visiting a sex worker an inherently bad idea?
I am seriously considering visiting a sex worker. Is this an inherently bad idea? [more inside]
How can one make "restaurant quality food" at home?
How can one make "restaurant quality food" at home? [more inside]
Pimp my Pandora mixtape.
If you have them, I would like your recommendations for most eclectic Pandora stations ever. [more inside]
21st century couch potato
I plan to hook up our new 13" MacBook Pro to our HDTV and am wondering if I should get either the magic mouse or the magic trackpad to control it from the couch. Any first hand experiences? I'm assuming that either option would be more useful than the apple remote (for watching youtubes and the like).
Hand washing in the kitchen sink
Is it okay to wash your hands in the kitchen sink? [more inside]
My life is in shambles. How do I reclaim it?
I nearly failed out of college a few years ago. I took a break, came back and finished my degree in 2009, but now I am unemployable because my GPA is a mess. Should I redo undergrad? [more inside]
What does it say in this Arabic banner?
Gaddafi Pays Italian Models To Attend A Party That Is Actually An Islam Recruit Fete. Can you tell me what the banner in Arabic they hang inside reads?
Looking for smart pregnancy/parenting memoirs
Looking for intelligent writing (especially memoirs) on pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting that aren't fluffy/mainstream "how-to" guides, as a gift to an expectant couple in their early/mid 20s. [more inside]
Ansel Adams and digital cameras
Looking for information about Ansel Adams (possibly?) using an early digital camera. [more inside]
How to set up a montly spending budget as self-employed?
Self-employed types with variable monthly incomes: how do you set up and stick to a monthly spending budget? [more inside]
August 29
GOMF for Win7/64?
I need a "get out of my face" app for Win7/64. [more inside]
Someone has been harassing & trying to get into a friends house for over a year. Police/cameras haven't stopped him, what can we do?
Someone has been harassing & trying to get into a friends house for over a year. Police/cameras haven't stopped him, what can we do? [more inside]
How can I make my own pourable chocolate topping?
I've tried unsuccessfully to find a recipe for a pourable chocolate sauce/icecream topping that I can put in bottles to give as gifts. [more inside]
Am I losing one of my senses?
When experiencing hearing loss, can you hear inside your head? What factors can contribute to hearing loss? At the ripe old age of 25 am I going deaf? [more inside]
Tell me what to wear.
OK SO...I'm sure this question has been asked to death, but where can I find clothes online for my specific/special tastes? I'm looking for thrift-type places that sell cheap clothes (under $50) still appropriate for the 18-24 age range. [more inside]
My goal is to complete a sprint triathlon this fall.
My goal is to complete a sprint triathlon this fall. Please help me be a better runner so I can run 5k without feeling like I want to keel over. [more inside]
Help two love birds find their nest.
My life partner and I are interested in buying a house together. We both have excellent credit but low incomes (we are small business owners). Where is the best place for us to start as far as understanding what our options are - bankers, brokers, real estate agents, or some intermediary profession / organization that could give us advice on how to proceed? I actually own a house but we would like to start fresh. We would like to rent out my house rather than sell it. Any information, advice would be truly appreciated. Thank you.
What in the hell is the name of this book?
Yet another I-can't-recall-what-book-this-is question. Vague details inside. [more inside]
Are my tomatoes doomed?
Do my tomato plants have late blight? And if so, is there anything I can do other than destroy them? [more inside]
Bugging out over bed bugs!
Can you get bedbugs from sitting on a recently infested(but treated) couch for 5 minutes? [more inside]
Is three a crowd?
Asking for a friend....NYCDogFilter: Can two early 20s newlyweds (students and/or with jobs) with their first tiny 1bdrm apartment deal with having a dog? Logistics issues? Potential for difficulties? Anecdotal evidence?
Help me find a laugh in this New Yorker cartoon
Telling someone new about my blow-job hang-up.
I have a hang-up about performing blow-jobs due to prior sexual assault. How do I relay this to new partners? [more inside]
Should I give this caregiver a bad review?
A little over three weeks ago, after a rather exhaustive search, I hired a nanny who, the day before she was to start, emailed that she will be taking daytime classes after all and hence cannot work for us. Leaving my family good and fucked. [more inside]
Remedial Cooking
How can I learn to cook, starting from nearly perfect ignorance? [more inside]
How to buy a food cart in New York?
Looking to buy some food carts. Anyone have advice for who I should talk to in New York City when I'm there next month? [more inside]
Questions about creating a modern web/graphic design portfolio
Some questions about creating a modern (online) web/graphic design portfolio... [more inside]
How to remedy a curled back-of-the-heel?
Another day, another shoe problem. [more inside]
Feeding for fun and profit
[Breakfast filter]: It's the first morning of your getaway weekend in a great cottage with a well equipped kitchen. Your breakfast basket with provisions for cooking your own breakfast has just arrived. What would you like to find inside it? [more inside]
What's the term for eating creatures in order to absorb their powers?
Is there a technical term for "eating an animal in order to gain its power?" [more inside]
Buy Sketchup Pro?
Is Sketchup Pro worth $495? [more inside]
How do I learn what I need to know about buying a home?
How do people know what is happening in the real estate market? I'm starting to think about buying my first home (house/condo/whatever) and, since I like to know how everything works before I do it, I'm looking for recommendations on where to start learning. [more inside]
Must 9-1-1 callers give their date of birth?
Calling 9-1-1; is it standard for dispatchers to require the caller's date of birth before responding? [more inside]
Great Resturant in Chicago?
Whats a great place to take my sister out to a surprise dinner in the city of Chicago close to Loyola university? [more inside]
How to fix a stupid text broken up closure?
How to fix a stupid text broken up closure? [more inside]
What are the rules on keeping sentimental stuff from previous relationships?
What are the rules on keeping sentimental stuff from previous relationships? [more inside]
First timer setting up wifi, help?
I have never set up wireless internet before. I'm going to college later this week. There's internet in my dorms, but no WiFi. What do I need to set up WiFi in my room? [more inside]
Early monring volunteer work
Help me volunteer in the morning. [more inside]
Why would you publish something like that?
Word filter: What do I call a book that is bound from the top with spiral binding? In the style of a steno pad, but a completed, published book.
What kind of hand-held device would entertain a child who is used to playing with an iPhone?
My three-year-old daughter loves to play with dad's iPhone, but he's starting to miss it. Is there some kind of hand-held device that has games and such that might entertain her? I hate to sound like such a noob/dork, but I don't know what's out there, so I don't know how to search. What would you get a three-year-old if you were trying to duplicate the experience of an iPhone without buying her an iPhone?
Need a flash of inspiration
Going nuts...why does my camera flash no longer work with my standalone strobes? [more inside]
Help me stop thinking like an American!
What should I know about German customs/behavior/social norms before going there for 10 weeks? [more inside]
What more can I do to try to get my deposit back?
Pennsylvania landlord is illegally withholding my deposit after I moved out of state. Have I exhausted all my options? [more inside]
Beauty is where again?!
My boyfriend makes callous remarks about my weight, and checks out other (hot) women. [more inside]
±99 Luftballons
I would like to float using balloons. Is this possible? How many will I need? [more inside]
Uhh... I'm at a loss.
I've been having bad luck finding a good book lately. Naturally, I turn to teh interwebz for help. Please to recommend me a good book? [more inside]
Where in Manhattan/Brooklyn can I buy Dogfish Head's Festina Peche in a bottle?
Where in Manhattan (or within 10 blocks of the F train in Brooklyn) can I buy Dogfish Head's Festina Peche in a bottle? Their site's store finder only shows where their products more generally are sold. Has anyone seen this particular beer at a store anywhere?
Make it stop.
My friend was killed in a car accident a couple days ago. I'm not coping so well, it seems. How can I rid my brain of involuntary (and horrific) visual images of his death? [more inside]
Keeping cool at work
I take my lunch to work. Lately most of my coworkers have latched onto this idea as well, so the community refrigerators are packed full. Is there anything I can do or buy to keep my lunches cold at my desk? [more inside]
Summer cold remedies?
My boyfriend has a cold and it's 85 degrees outside. It's too hot for chicken soup, so what can I do or make for him? [more inside]
Need some local advice...
Looking for work in Nashville [more inside]
Help me find a new non-Mac 15" Windows 7 laptop. What manufacturer should I go with? Details inside.
Help me find a new non-Mac 15" Windows 7 laptop. What manufacturer should I go with? Details inside. [more inside]
Fuzzy logic? What's the term for this method of argumentation.
Is there a term for back-arguing a conclusion? I can't even find the proper words to describe the method of argumentation I'm thinking of, but I'll do my best.
Someone comes to a conclusion. They then search for a justification to reach that end, working backwards and incorrectly. Here's a real life example: [more inside]
Dog injury, part deux.
My dog has a broken toe. I need help figuring out if her foot needs to be in a cast or not. [more inside]
Purring with rage
Addendum to this question... will my cat become bitter and angry from being crated for so long? [more inside]
Educated professionals for nutritional advice?
What kind of highly-educated specialist (MD or PhD-level expertise) would I want to go to for sophisticated and custom-tailored 1) nutritional and 2) exercise planning recommendations for body-building and weight-loss? I'm looking for experts who know the science and have experience and common sense. Any particular recommendations in NYC?
Help me become an organ donor.
Playing the translated Russian game 'Pathologic' on the PC. One immediate problem - I cannot for the life of me figure out how to trade items. [more inside]
Lowering interest rate w/o refinancing?
If I tell the bank who issued my mortgage that I am thinking about refinancing elsewhere, will they offer to lower my interest rate to stay? Does this ever happen? [more inside]
help me buy a bag
Is it worth it to get a more expensive, leather bag over a cheap faux-leather bag? [more inside]
Help me find or design a pigeon-proof chicken feeder.
Help me find or design a pigeon-proof chicken feeder. [more inside]
Communication Breakdown
Am I fundamentally missing something? "Let's get a drink," or something extensionally equivalent thereto, from presumably single/presumably not-gay male to presumably single/presumably not-gay female he isn't already friends with, means "I want to bone you," right?
Like, everyone, presumably including bay area women, do/can be reasonably expected to know that? [more inside]
Unprotected sex without STD testing first?
Girlfriend of more than a year recently went on the Pill. I said we should get STD tested before having unprotected sex; my tests came back negative but she's reluctant to get one. Should I compromise? [more inside]
Friend sexually abused his girlfriends.
Found out a good friend sexually abused his girlfriends. Paralyzed. [more inside]
High temperature adhesive for ceramics?
My brother sculpted me a beautiful ceramic incense burner for my birthday a few years ago after I finished taking Anthropology at school. The top part resembles the face of some distant human relative, and smoke flows out through the eyes, nose and mouth. Unfortunately, right after he gave it to me, a small piece got chipped off while it was in my backpack! Where can I find a small quantity of good high temperature ( ~ 500F - 2000F) adhesive suitable for ceramics?
What's the best inexpensive last-minute way to travel from Boston to DC?
If you were looking to travel from Boston to Washington D.C. next week, as cheaply as possible, how would you do it? [more inside]
Hi-rise apartment buildings?
I'm thinking of moving to a downtown hi-rise apartment building, from a low-rise complex in the suburbs. For those who have done this, what do you wish you had known before you did it?
Recommend an e-Reader
With failing eyesight I'm considering an e reader primarily to transfer articles (not necessarily PDFs) from online sources to a reader creating my own electronic magazine. I think I need a reader that will allow enlarging text, has sufficient contrast control to make text darker when necessary. Unfamiliar with any reader, and frustrated by the inability to get hands-on shopping experiences, I wonder what recommendations you might give. The Kindle, available at Amazon for $139, is affordable and currently is front runner.
Oh crap...need more EINs!
Yes, I made up fake information...I'm trying to make it right, and I know I can make it right with $300 for new LLCs. But is there any cheaper way? [more inside]
Scripting events on a jailbroken iPod
I have a jailbroken iPod with iOS 4. I would like to run a shell script when the device wakes from sleep, or when the wifi interface connects to a certain SSID. What can I use?
What is this unholy design scheme?
Is there a name for this style of interior design, or is it just general weirdness? [more inside]
A few MacBook issues
I've an aging MacBook Pro, well exactly 3 years old. I've found that ever since a recent update by Apple the wifi frequently refuse some networks until the machine has been rebooted. Any fixes?
Also, It appears the CD/DVD drive has now died. As I never used it, does anyone have good recommendations for repurposing the drive bay?
I'm not planning my graduation outfit just yet...
I'm going back to school after a 25 year break. I'm excited but increasingly nervous. What do you wish you knew when you returned to study but were out of practice? (Or when you embarked on distance education online?) [more inside]
Facebook friend request? Or not?
Facebook filter: What's the difference between Confirm and Add As Friend? [more inside]
Ink keeps washing off my hand, I need a new money management method.
Help me find an iPhone and Mac program or method that will help me keep my client payments managed. How do other tutors keep their payments managed? [more inside]
Ways to deliberately deteriorate canvas?
As part of an art project I'm trying to find out what substances and techniques can be used to deliberately deteriorate and decay raw unprimed canvas (no paint) or other materials (wood, plastic, wallpaper etc). Preferably I'm looking for something that can be put on to do its deteriorating work, then washed or somehow taken off again so that process of deterioration is stopped. [more inside]
SDEs
Where can I find a proof for the strong order of convergence of the Euler-Maruyama or Milstein schemes used to model stochastic differential equations?
Calling all scientists: I need some advice about graduate school.
Is it too late for me to gain admission to the top PhD programs in the life sciences? What can I do to improve my chances besides the obvious? [more inside]
Please help me understand Binx's journey in The Moviegoer
Please help me understand what exactly happened in The Moviegoer. [more inside]
Changing the name and address on an AT&T Premier account
I am signed up for an AT&T Premier account through a family member. They get the bill, I pay them, they pay AT&T - though there's a huge run-around of waiting for them to tell me the amount, getting the money to them, waiting for them to pay the bill. The family member tells me that the discount is only in effect if everything on the account stays the same. Really? I figure that I can change the name and/or billing address (so that the bill comes directly to me) and nothing happens, as long as the email stays authenticated. Or am I mistaken?
August 28
How's the commute from Beacon Hill or Greenlake to downtown Seattle and Bellevue?
Looking for opinions on commuting from Greenlake or Beacon Hill to downtown Seattle and downtown Bellevue. [more inside]
How would you do a team/individual foosball ladder?
Help me with a company foosball ladder. [more inside]
Fantasy Football and iPad
What is the best fantasy football app for the iPad if your league is on Yahoo!? [more inside]
How to clean unfinished plywood floor.
How to clean unfinished plywood floor. I want to mop and freshen the bare plywood floor in our unfinished attic. I've already swept and vacuumed it.
The floor is not filthy, but there was rodent activity. I'd like to use a solution that sanitizes, if possible. But my priority is not to damage the wood.
There is an oily patch left by the former owners. Smells like they spilled a bottle of lotion. I'm inclined to just mop over that patch and not try to remove the spot. We use the attic for our home gym -- it's not a place where we bring company.
My bottles of Murphy's Oil Soap and Simple Green say "do not use on unfinished wood". Any recommendations for a cleaning solution?
How to create a simple street map?
How can I print a simple line street map without the level of detail in Google Maps or Mapquest? [more inside]
click click, who's there?
Roof Rack Reviews
Tell me your experiences with car roof racks. [more inside]
Set up an aged XP laptop?
How best can I set up an ancient Gateway laptop? [more inside]
Mexican Rummy/21 Games, do you know these rules?
There's this card game my mom taught me called "21 Games" that's kind of like Rummy, it might also be called "Mexican Rummy"...do you know the rules? [more inside]
Cheap conference accommodation in Salt Lake City?
I'm going to a conference in Salt Lake City in late October and I need recommendations for places to stay for a week. [more inside]
How do I get to Macon, Missouri USA by public transport?
How do I get to Macon, Missouri USA by public transport? Greyhound is not an option apparently.
Wedding Venue Catering Restrictions?
Perfect wedding venue (inexpensive yacht club in perfect spot in RI) wants a licensed caterer to prepare the food- but my good friends want to cook and are not licensed.
-Is there a way to get around this?
- Is there a way to find a caterer to do part of the meal and have my friend's supplement the menu with their own dishes? (ones that dont need the kitchen)
- Any other advice on getting around this dilemma?
-Do most venues have this requirement?
Thanks so much!
Who dumped me?
Is there any way to have Facebook tell me who dropped off my friends list?
Down with Facebook Message Boards
How can I delete the scrolling Facebook Message board from sites that aren't facebook sites? [more inside]
Trying to avoid drama between protective mother and laid-back grandparents
Grandparents (my parents) want to take my precocious ~3 year old and his ~5 year old cousin out for the day, wife is nervous and wants me to go, but the grandparents are put off, how do I handle this diplomatically? [more inside]
I need a new kind of mouse.
Tell me about non-traditional (computer) mice. [more inside]
Guitar Hero Kick Pedal Dead
My Guitar Hero drum's kick pedal is dead. I looked online but there are a lot of options and mixed reviews for most of what I found.
What's the best mix of frugality and "not going to die on me"-ality that I can find? I'm not opposed to buying an entire new set if that makes more sense.
Where can I buy Choco Tacos near Downtown Crossing in Boston?
Where can I buy Choco Tacos near Downtown Crossing in Boston? [more inside]
Name that film, eastern edition.
Identify a Japanese film from the 60s or 70s taking place partially in NYC please. [more inside]
One passport or two?
The mister has dual Canadian/British citizenship, hasn't resided in UK since 1946, and no plans to. However, we are planning extended visit to UK and Europe in a few years (we are retired), would there be any advantages to him getting a UK passport? He travels with a Canadian Passport. [more inside]
Seeking a bridge languate between PHP and Objective-C
I, like millions of others, want to learn Objective-C so I can write an iPhone app that will instantly sell ten million units and allow me to retire by year's end. I bought three books to help my on my way (1, 2, 3). Being well versed in web programming, I figured this would be a challenging, but possible transition. Boy oh boy was I wrong. Please help me find a bridge between my procedural PHP ninja skillz and the fantasical (and ever-frustrating) world of OOP C languages. [more inside]
site ok?
Is this game safe to download? [more inside]
Scheduling Tweets
I want to be able to schedule tweets. What's the best utility to use? [more inside]
USB Unplug / Replug Automation
I'm looking for a way to have a windows computer do the equivalent of unpluging and re plugging a usb modem. This system is accessed remotely via Logmein and it is connected to the internet by an external usb evdo modem. The system is located in a third world country and the connection is not reliable. When it goes down, unplugging/replugging sometimes does the trick. How can I make the computer do this on its own? [more inside]
Where is this Buddhist Temple?
I found an exposed and undeveloped roll of 35mm film dated 1977, and had it developed. The pictures are here, most of them taken at this Buddhist temple, somewhere in Asia. Anyone know where the photos were taken? [more inside]
At what age does male body hair stop tend to stop spreading to new parts of the body?
At what age does male body hair stop tend to stop spreading to new parts of the body? [more inside]
How can I enable my USB - getting BSOD and want to backup files.
It appears a virus has disabled my USB ports. I get the BSOD but can get to the Windows Recovery Console. I can see the USB ports in BIOS so how can I enable them? Bigger question is how to backup files from my hard drive while my PC is in this condition since it is not recognizing the USB?
Looking for suggestions for a week-long solo trip.
Asking for a friend : Lots of airline/hotel points & a week's worth of time. He's looking for suggestions on what he might do. [more inside]
O, Apple, unbreak my heart...
I have lost my beloved ipod Shuffle! Will the newer model do the tricks I want it to do? [more inside]
What gauge/type of strings for 3/4 scale steel string acoustic?
Guitarfilter - my son has a 3/4 scale acoustic steel-string guitar, and he wants some new strings. I'm a bit of a guitarist myself, so I know how to change them no problem, but before bebopping down to the local guitar shop, I'm curious - what gauge strings are best? [more inside]
Rainy day games
What are some good board and card games for 3-4 year olds that a 6 year old might enjoy too? I'm think of Zingo and the like.
Will winnings be taken in banko?
YANML: If you are receiving a lump sum after filing bankruptcy, but BEFORE the bankruptcy is discharged, can that be seized as an asset? [more inside]
Broadband Card downloading
I have a laptop with a Verizon Broadband Card with a 5G plan allowance a month. I have no idea how far this will go, for example if I download a 2 hour movie off Netflix how much of my 5G would it use? Does it download the movie and then quit using the 5G while I am watching the movie?
How to wash gym shoes.
Can I wash my suede gym shoes? I ruined an old pair of the same model previously in the washing machine in a last effort to salvage them so this time around I am looking at hand washing. [more inside]
Open Source PHP Projects
Open Source PHP projects needing a bug fixer. [more inside]
Now, picture the love-child of John Hodgman and Justin Long...
Am I crazy for considering a Hackintosh? [more inside]
Thoroughly cleaning a pump espresso machine
I am borrowing a La Pavoni Europiccola (an Italian pump espresso machine) from someone who is not using it. In fact, it had been sitting in storage for about 5 years with water in the boiler. How can I really thoroughly clean it? [more inside]
A makers mark as it is made?
Art History-Filter: Looking for art or artifacts depicting the application of guild marks, makers marks, silversmiths stamps, etc. [more inside]
m4ridiculously nervous, socially awkward f
Should I respond to a Craigslist missed connections ad that is about me? If so, how? [more inside]
Walking on pavement
Walk a lot on pavement (city walking), cushioned shoes or something more minimalist? Better yet, on a very tight budget. [more inside]
Espresso machine pump got noisy
Espresso machine pump has become noisy...aargh. [more inside]
ch-ch-ch-changes (download them)
What single software application has been a life-changer for you? [more inside]
Auction script recommendations
Recommendations for auction scripts/sites? [more inside]
Memory lost. If found, return for reward.
I had surgery involving general anesthesia a week ago (relating to this post, for your reference) and I am now missing seemingly random chunks of my memory. [more inside]
Out of line?
I refused to let my friend drive herself home last night after she had been drinking. Did I overstep? [more inside]
is it true the credit union doesn't have to issue me another debit card?
is it true the credit union doesn't have to issue me another debit card? [more inside]
How to make a lightweight stone-looking wall plaque?
I'd like to spend a few months reproducing Assyrian wall plaques for decorating the house. What material/technique could I use to make them look like lime or sandstone without weighing 800kgs? [more inside]
High holidays in Montreal?
JewishMontrealFilter: Help a liberal but Jewish adopted Montrealer find a minyan, specifically for the high holidays but hopefully for after as well. [more inside]
Do I need a new couch? If so, advice for buying?
Do I need a new couch? If so, advice for buying? [more inside]
My accounts have been hacked
My Gmail and Facebook accounts have been hacked. I am aware of this thread. So, what I need to find is software that locates malware on macs, or any other suggestions on how to fix this mess. Please help!
UK male needs a new work wardrobe
UK male needs a new work wardrobe. I think I want suits that I'll wear mostly without a tie. So maybe two suits (two pairs of trousers for each), and 8 shirts? I would like them to fit well and be good quality, but I have no clue beyond that or confidence in measuring and choosing. Where can I go (London or just north of), that will measure, advise and sell to me? [more inside]
Car-less in Columbus
Columbus, OH question! We're getting dropped off in Columbus today for a wedding, so we'll be wandering around without a car. Can we safely walk from Short North to East Town Street Historic District? If not, what are some fun things to do in the Historic District for a couple hours? [more inside]
Last minute gifts for a squirrel lover in Philadelphia?
Last minute gifts for a squirrel lover in Philadelphia? Pretty much anything squirrel-inspired and under $25 will do. Toys, stuffed animals, kitschy figurines (including ashtrays, paperweights, nutcrackers, etc.) are all great. [more inside]
We'll Get It Before WE'RE Dead, Right?
YANML filter: my grandfather's estate should be settled; have we all been waiting too long for his funds to be paid out, or is this normal? [more inside]
Help me help this poor little kitty.
What was the best short story you read in the last 10 years?
What is the single best short story you've read in the last ten years?
Preferrably published in the last ten years, bonus points if the writer is doing something innovative or exciting. [more inside]
4 people, $150. What can we do in Sydney?
Me and 3 friends just won $150 at a trivia night. What fun could 4 people have together with $150 in Sydney?
How to survive retail hell?
I'm working a 17 hour shift today. What can I do to make this suck less? [more inside]
is it easier to bulk up or slim down?
Is it easier to loose weight in fat or gain weight in muscle? [more inside]
Red dan dan noodles
Offsite Storage for Amateurs
For a home user, what is the best storage medium for backup files to be left at an offsite location? Portable Harddrive, USB drive, SD Card, burnt DVDs? [more inside]
The Assistant's Magician
Are there any magic acts where the magician and assistant switch roles? [more inside]
Another Depressed College Student
I am a 21-year-old college student who is battling depression and social anxiety despite previous achievements. [more inside]
I do like to be beside the seaside - but ideally in a vintage swimsuit
Can you help me in my search for a Victorian-style men's striped bathing suit in a Victorian style? [more inside]
Mattress Musings?
We need a new mattress, as our old one is ancient and reduced to badly sagging springs and dust-mites. This is such a complicated and involved topic, and it's so under-served by reputable sites online, I'm having trouble figuring out the smart play. I am enormous, she is petite. I toss and turn vigorously, she sleeps like a log. I think anything above freezing is too hot, and she thinks anything below 85 is too cold. We really like the company of sleeping in the same bed. Help? [more inside]
August 27
Where to?
I'm 26 and have a gap year before starting grad school. Where should I move to? (Chicago / Seattle / Portland / SF / other) [more inside]
No, I will not tell the story.
I clogged the toilet with a 6" piece of carrot. (Yes, that was dumb.) Anything I should try before calling the plumber? [more inside]
I fail at crisatunity. Wall of text follows.
There can be only one (full-time employee in this company). Help me get through this - and/or possibly get out? [more inside]
I feel lost and confused in life
How do I get it together? [more inside]
Which languages have critical reasoning as a characteristic?
What are some languages, or who are some writers, that are epistemologically self-aware? [more inside]
What should I do about this prof?
ProfessorFilter: I screwed something up with a professor from college (a few years ago) and I want to make it right. Lots of details and beanplating. [more inside]
I don't even know what language this is in.
Why did my favorite forum just transform into what appears to be some sort of foreign-language YouTube? [more inside]
My past is haunting the Internet, help!
A juicy, confessional article I wrote years ago, before the Internet, has been referenced, quoted, and even reprinted online without my permission. Will this hurt me with potential employers? A blizzard of special snowflakes after the cut. [more inside]
What can I do when I *DON'T* have canker sores to lower the odds of getting one?
A reverse canker sore question: People usually want to know how to get rid of them. I'd love to know that too, but what I really want to know is: what can I do when I *DON'T* have canker sores to lower the odds of getting one? [more inside]
iPhone 1G and 4G in Europe
Headed to London, Rome and Paris and would like to use our iPhone (1G) and iPhone 4 there. Help me figure out the pre-paid SIM side of things. [more inside]
Location: Prague. Schedule of events: chillin'.
Location: Prague. Schedule of events: chillin'. Looking for food experiences, quality hanging out and people watching. Got any suggestions for a few mellow but interesting days? Unusual places to check out? Flea markets? Vintage shopping? Music?
I know the Castillians lisp, but that's about it.
How different are Mexican, Cuban and Puerto Rican Spanish? [more inside]
Is Mucinex-D making me sicker?
Is it possible for Mucinex D to make sinus problems worse? [more inside]
What are some good Greasemonkey scripts?
What are some good Greasemonkey scripts? [more inside]
Piggyback...
Word origin = piggyback? [more inside]
How to make an epub from multiple PDFs?
I want to create an epub file from several existing PDFs. What software can I use for this? [more inside]
Must...Have...Internet...
Pre-Paid Wireless Internet options (3G, 4G, ??) in Reno, NV [more inside]
Help me figure out what 80's movie this is
Help me figure out what movie this is:
I'm pretty sure it's from the 80's and there's a scene where a bunch of young adults are sitting around a cabin drinking and singing "I Want to Hold Your Hand" when they're attacked by a lion.
Thats all I've got!
Firefox restoring the wrong tabs
I have firefox (3.6.8) running with 20-30 tabs open, and sometimes when I close it, I fail to realize there is one small pop-up window running as well. The result is whenever I restart firefox, only the pop-up window is restored, and not the window with 30 tabs. Searching through my history works ok to retrieve some tabs, but some tabs were opened weeks ago, and I don't remember all of the tabs I had open. Is there any way to restore all of those missing tabs?
Freelance me please!
freelance project management/product management in NYC area? [more inside]
What's this kind of video called?
Videos like the new Cee Lo video, where the text appears on the screen as the words are spoken - what's that style called? [more inside]
Latitude vs. pongitude
How does a design worker suss out how much creative latitude they've got while working? [more inside]
Take 4th Street to Electric Avenue to Funkytown
Street Names In Songs, where can I find a list? I'm looking for street names or places in Western pop music, ideally from the 50s-70s. I'm looking more for fictional or slang names rather than real place names, and street-square-neighborhood names over city names.
Why does my Tumblr-based website not load properly with Internet Explorer?
Why does my Tumblr-based website not load properly with Internet Explorer? [more inside]
He minds the gap
What's the best procedure for fixing gap teeth? And can anyone recommend a good, affordable place in Toronto to get this done? [more inside]
I thought getting clear had something to do with Xenu
I'm a virgin and my girlfriend has HPV. Need some advice about what I should do and what is or is not safe. (Probably NSFW) [more inside]
Non-technical intro to ecology?
Help me find a good, non-textbook introduction to the basics of ecology - preferably something that costs less than $30 and was published in the last 15 years.
A Friend with Parkinson's
A man I have known for many years and respect and like greatly just let me know in a funny, intelligent and informative email that he has Parkinson's Disease. [more inside]
Two days in Larnaca
What to do in or around Larnaca, Cyprus? [more inside]
Do these jeans make my ass look thin?
Was everyone super-thin and super-tall back then, or is it just me? [more inside]
social etiquette filter: how do you handle someone butting in line, in front of you?
social etiquette filter: how do you handle someone butting in line, in front of you? [more inside]
Not fluffy white clouds
Help my friend identify this white cloudy thing photographed in a forest in British Columbia! [more inside]
Help me look less lame ordering in french restaurants.
Explain to me the mysteries of ordering at french restaurants (more inside...) [more inside]
Out of fast, good and cheap, I only need the last two.
I want a men's cardigan like this one here. But I'd like to pay well south of the listed $168. More parameters follow. [more inside]
Who solves a murder in a national park?
If a murder occurs in one of the National Parks who investigates it: The National Park Service rangers, the Bureau of Interior Office of Law Enforcement, Security & Emergency Management, the F.B.I.?
Best environment-friendly house ever... maybe
Someone had a very well-planned, environment-friendly house - built 30 or 40 years ago. Where's the video? [more inside]
Where to buy and sell used clothing in Manhattan or Brooklyn?
Where to buy and sell used clothing in Manhattan or Brooklyn? [more inside]
How do you catch my eye in your language?
Calling non-English speakers: what are the equivalent phrases in other languages for "catching someone's eye" or "making eye contact"? [more inside]
How to text in Japanese?
Foreign-language texting on non-iPhones? [more inside]
Two weeks in Paris. Please tell me your off the beaten path favorite places
Two weeks in Paris. Please tell me your favorite off the beaten path places
How to make friendly with the IRS?
IRS woes! I've gotten myself into a little bit of a pickle, and I'm not sure how large it is. I made all of my state tax payments for 2009, but only half of my federal. I haven't gotten in contact with the IRS about paying the remainder. Basically I've been scared as hell, and would like some advice on how to proceed. [more inside]
Help me help her
Does anyone here know about getting health coverage in Texas? [more inside]
Contemporary Australian Cinema
What are some really great contemporary Australian films that have been criminally overlooked? [more inside]
Help identifying a horror novel
This is for a friend who is looking for a horror book:
Does anyone remember a horror novel from the late 70's or early 80's about a man who is excavating a tunnel into a secret chamber underneath his home? At the end of the book he enters the chamber and it contains a vengeful undead Native American creature. The title was something like The Chamber or The Tomb or The Ruins. Thanks for your help.
What is a good biography about Marie Curie?
What is a good biography about Marie Curie? [more inside]
I like the people, but I hate their work
Is it worth it to report coworkers that are making a mess out of things? [more inside]
I want to play MarioKart for N64 or Gamecube tonight in NYC - what can I do?
My college roommate is visiting me in NYC this weekend, and I want to play some Kart like the good 'ole days. Where in NYC (preferably Manhattan) can I go to rent a copy of MarioKart for N64 or Gamecube, along with three controllers and the base system?
For my consideration...
Inspired by this post, I'm looking for some recommendations on video artists to check out or resources that compile the work of video artists. [more inside]
Should I get a crappy TV or Crappy laptop?
Should I get a crappy TV or a crappy laptop? I have enough money to get one or the other, and I don't want both. Convoluted reasoning inside. I don't want to spend a bunch of money then think, "Ah crap, I never thought of X before I bought this!" [more inside]
NYC karaoke suggestions for a birthday
Looking for a place to go out for karaoke next month for my birthday. I've looked through the previous karaoke + nyc tags, but still trying to narrow it down. Suggestions in Manhattan, Brooklyn, or Queens, please! [more inside]
How can I change my boss's time-wasting ways?
How can I help my procrastinating, disorganized boss improve his workflow? [more inside]
Flag Football Tips?
What's the most effective, easy way to be a decent Flag Football team without minimal practice time? Flag Football season coming up. [more inside]
I want to learn more about jazz!
I'm looking for some good books about jazz. [more inside]
How to resign gracefully when you're going off to work for the opposition.
What is the most graceful way to resign, given that I'll be working for a direct competitor? [more inside]
Failing in mom duties, I need this book!
Help me find this book for my son! [more inside]
Temporary housing in DC
I have a friend who arrives in DC next weekend for a 9-month fellowship. Problem is, she just learned her housing isn't available until late September. Can you recommend any budget-friendly week-to-week or month-to-month housing arrangements in the DC metro area? [more inside]
Proust and the hypnotoad
Has there been any research done on whether reading Proust changes your cognitive processes? [more inside]
Automatic Forced Exhalation/Bronchial spasm?
I've noticed the past couple days a sort of automatic forced exhalation. I don't know how to describe it. It's kind of like a cough, but not really. There's not throat clearing or anything of that nature. [more inside]
Baby Gap has skinny jeans. For babies. Why.
My close friend is about to give birth to a baby girl. I'd love to do things for her (babysit, cook dinners, help with groceries) but since she lives across the country, a gift will have to suffice. She's already had a baby shower where she received swings, slings, pumps, bottles, blankets, tons and tons of pink baby clothing, etc, so I'd rather not get her any more of that stuff. Additionally, I'm her least traditional friend (read: happily unmarried, childless, liberal New Yorker) and I think she's looking forward to getting some sort of "alternative," gender neutral, really different baby gift from me. I'd like to deliver, but I have no ideas.
I'd love some website/store/product recommendations. Where do new moms who hate Baby Gap and gender specific clothes and frilly baby things shop? Thank you!
How to housesit in Toronto/LA/Vancouver?
How can I help a friend who is Canadian writer (and is unfamiliar with AskMe) find housesitting opportunities in house-sitting after October 1st in Toronto/L.A./Vancouver/Bhutan? He has a dog. [more inside]
To fling or not to fling?
How do I embrace the idea of a fling? Should I? [more inside]
A friend is looking for a fat-friendly general practitioner in Austin, TX.
A friend is looking for a fat-friendly general practitioner in Austin, TX. (Someone who subscribes to the idea of health at every size would be ideal — though really it doesn't matter how they label themself, as long as they're generally sensitive about body-image/weight/food issues. We've seen this fat friendly health professionals list, but the one GP listed in Austin is apparently no longer practicing here.) Suggestions? [more inside]
Where I can find pics/scans of a Lillian Vernon "personal massager" advertisement?
Where I can find pics/scans of a Lillian Vernon "personal massager" advertisement? [more inside]
I paid too much for my plane tickets
I bought two plane tickets for mid September this past Tuesday from Delta. Since then, the price has gone down 130 bucks. Is there anything I can do to get my money or the difference back? [more inside]
Twitter Archive
I want to find tweets going back over a month with a certain #tag (from different twitters), but "older tweets are not currently available" and it's only showing a couple of days worth at most. [more inside]
Thinking about imagery
I enjoy Ken Rockwell's photography website. Can you recommend similar ones? [more inside]
The Wires
What can I do, aside from the obvious, with fifteen gray, six-foot PC power cables? [more inside]
Tomato/Potato all in one plant.
Help me stay sane and employed during a difficult work situation
How can I stay sane and employed during a difficult work situation? [more inside]
To ReFi or not to ReFi?
Is it smart to refinance my house now? Very Special Snowflake details on the other side. [more inside]
Don't make me deal with them again!
I know you're not my lawyer, but how does unemployment insurance work? [more inside]
iPad?
Someone I know is getting separated. Should they get an iPad? [more inside]
You Help Me Find UFC
I'm going to be in Ellenville, NY tomorrow night, and I'd like to find a nearby bar that's showing UFC 118. The UFC website unsurprisingly has nothing closer than suburban NYC, and I can't figure out any way to craft a search that would get me this information. I can search for local bars and call them... but thought I'd ask here first. Anyone know of a bar near Ellenville showing the fights?
Moviefilter: I am Love
Moviefilter: I Am Love: I saw it for the second time yesterday, and the last several minutes are just as confusing to me now. [more inside]
Milosz's "Miguel Manara" in English?
Where can I get a copy of Milosz's "Miguel Manara" in English (UK) for a decent price? [more inside]
Color/Gradient Generator from hex codes
Looking for a color/gradient generator where you put in your hex code (#6699CC) and it generates shades of that color from white, to the color, to black. It's a very plain page with just the shades from light to dark and their hex codes.
No more pinching or zooming for me.
The iPhone Stylesheet for MetaFilter pb created is oh so nice. What are some other websites that have awesome dedicated iPhone versions?
Help me find an Bill Buckley ad for National Review where he is on a sailboat
I'm looking for a TV advertisement William F. Buckley, Jr. did in the late 80s or early 90s for his magazine, National Review, while sailing his boat. [more inside]
Driving from St. Augustine, FL to Atlanta
Driving from St. Augustine to Atlanta, what's the best route to take? [more inside]
Just The Same (But Brand New)
Help me find the camera used to shoot the most amazing footage I've ever seen. [more inside]
40 delicious things??????
Calling ALL FOODIES, FOODISTS, GOURMETS and GOURMANDS: I am looking to have a special 40th birthday party with the theme "40 Delicious Things". What do I serve??? [more inside]
What were the Yahoos missing out on?
In Gulliver's Travels, what are the "unnatural appetites in both sexes, so common among us" that the Yahoos lack? [more inside]
Where can I find two-column browser software?
Are there any web browsers that will display a single web page in a two-column layout, side by side? [more inside]
Mortgage Fun
The pitfalls of cosigning on someone else's mortgage [more inside]
What is going on with this sleep button?
Trying to repair a laptop, strangest behavior ever. Many more details after the fold. [more inside]
Visiting Toronto next weekend (labor day weekend), and looking for some things to do.
Visiting Toronto next weekend (labor day weekend), and looking for some things to do. [more inside]
Safe, sane, long term low carb diet?
Practical, science-based, safe, sane "low carb" book that doesn't pull any punches? (If simply "Atkins," which one?) I'm looking for a book that is gung-ho, but still spells out what can go wrong and why: I'm three days in to a self-created low carb diet. All sorts of good stuff has happened, but all sorts of disconcerting stuff has happened, too. [more inside]
Ice Cream + Friends + ??? = Awesome
Help us host the best ice cream social ever. [more inside]
DIYtherPad
I'd like to set up my own installation of EtherPad for a course I'm teaching, but... [more inside]
Mangers are not an option.
Is CouchSurfing during the holiday season asking for trouble? [more inside]
I don't know how to fix your relationship. Please don't ask.
How do I graciously ask people not to come to me for relationship advice? [more inside]
Metformin woes (diarrhea-free!)
I'd like to hear about your experience taking metformin for PCOS, especially if it didn't work quite as you expected... [more inside]
SF for 3 months - doable?
San Francisco for 3 months to be creative and check out awesomeness. Low budget, Bangladesh passport. Possible? [more inside]
Authorhouse - worth a try?
Anyone had experience of publishing a book with Authorhouse? [more inside]
"I'm just here for the cupcakes, dude. Chill!"
A friend of mine, in a bout of frustration, recently posted this challenge: " Name one Hollywood horror movie which does NOT contain the line, "WHAT DO YOU WANT (FROM ME)??!!!", usually screamed by the protagonist at the antagonist."
There must be several! I thought it would be funny to present him with a list, and I hope you can help me. (Would be funnier if the movies were not-very-arthousey.)
Thanks!
Re-installing OSX and copying files over from a backup without employing Migration Assistant
Question about re-installing OSX and copying files over from a backup—but without using Migration Assistant. [more inside]
August 26
Help make my office a Van Gogh shrine
I have access to a large poster printer and want to fill my office with beautiful prints of Van Gogh's paintings. Please lend me your aesthetic guidance on how to make this awesome, not tacky or crowded. [more inside]
Make 'em bleed. My ears that is.
I am looking for songs that I can play LOUD and also have an epic flavor. I'm not a fan of metal -- I am a fan of show-tunes.
Looking for songs that compel one to turn the volume UP. Examples after the jump. [more inside]
Better Safe than Sorry?
How can we protect our Macintosh network from an immature, if not unstable, ISP tech? [more inside]
Friend having difficulty finding work
My friend has been having some difficulty finding an art teacher job, and wants to branch out to other areas. Any suggestions? [more inside]
Help me decide whether to get cork floors in a rental property
So what's the deal with cork floors? [more inside]
"Close your eyes. Make a wish. Count to three."
Brainfilter: Why is my ability to visualize so unbounded when I am drifting off to sleep (but not yet dreaming)? Is this a state I can reproduce in waking life? [more inside]
Looking for the live recording of the song The Freshmen.
The first time I heard the song The Freshmen by the Verve Pipe, it was on the radio -- a live version in which the audience sang along.
Anyone know where I can find that? All I can locate are studio recordings.
What should these sliding doors be made of?
I need to replace glass sliding doors in a cabinet, and would like to do it with something other than glass, because glass is heavy and doesn't want to slide. Can you give me ideas for materials that are lightweight, opaque or semi-opaque, and slidey? [more inside]
After High School
How best to advise a 12th grade student on their college plans. [more inside]
It's just like riding a bike, which is like... it's hard to explain, son!
How do I teach my 5-year old how to ride a bike? [more inside]
What applications are best for mac screencasts?
What application(s) should I use to make a quality screencast on a mac? [more inside]
Down the memory hole...
Remember Russ Kick? Remember the Memory Hole? [more inside]
How can I best use Google Voice?
I can't get my head around Google Voice. Just what can it do for me? [more inside]
Help me indentify this crap behind my fridge and oven.
I pulled out my fridge in my apartment and found all this stuff behind it. It's also behind my oven. What is it? [more inside]
Please explain these layers that can be seen in a setting sun
Atmospheric science filter: This picture of the sun was taken while it was setting over the NE Pacific Ocean. Is there a scientific explanation of why there are distinct, horizontal darkening layers of color on the orb from top to bottom?
Learning curve?
Can someone help me with a maths problem please, how to find y for a given x on a curve? [more inside]
Oh, so I'M the creepy one. Thanks, FB.
Yet another FaceBook friends question: Is FaceBook now spoofing friend requests? A few times now, I feel like I've been "tricked" into friending someone I only casually know. [more inside]
How good can a mobile phone speaker be?
How much could the speakers built into iPhones be auditorily improved if price were no object? [more inside]
Upper body cardio?
Cardio exercise options for someone who can't strain their legs more than 10 to 15 mins, and doesn't have access to gym equipment? [more inside]
Avoiding the fail whale.
How do I take great pictures on a whale watch? [more inside]
My computer is (sort of) dead
Could defragging have killed my video card hardware? [more inside]
Where can I buy slim, European-style pants in stores or online?
I'm a guy looking for casual, slim pants that aren't jeans. Maybe something you would see in Europe. I need them in all sorts of colors. One of my female friends suggested that her pants might fit me, and upon trying them on they actually fit better than anything else I own. So, any suggestions as to where I can find pants that actually fit without looking in the ladies section? [more inside]
Starter Golf Clubs - New or Used?
I'm looking in to buying an inexpensive starter golf club set (for myself). Should I buy new or used clubs? [more inside]
You're Outta Here
Coping strategies for 16 yr. old daughter just cut from soccer squad. [more inside]
What should I expect from Vyvanse?
What should I expect from Vyvanse? [more inside]
How can I muffle loud pipes in a wall, preferably cheaply?
How can I soundproof or muffle loud pipes in a wall, preferably cheaply? [more inside]
Hivemind help me find a story about Katrina...
I'm trying to find a specific story about the aftermath of the Katrina storm in New Orleans... [more inside]
Got a new table, need some coasters
Help me find the most awesome and beautiful drink coasters in the world. [more inside]
My So-Called Life... Trapped!
I have a hard drive that I ripped from a 2000-1 ish year Compaq, and I need to find an enclosure. What kind of hard drive is it, and what's the cheapest enclosure? [more inside]
Being supportive
How can I talk honestly with my sister and still be supportive? [more inside]
Good time to buy my 1st flat in the UK?
I'm thinking of buying a one bed flat for around 130k in Brighton or Bristol, UK. I have a 50k deposit. I am not committed to any area (or country for that matter) and I have no emotional need to own a house. But if it makes financial sense, I am in a position to do it.
But does it make financial sense to buy? Everyone apparently says yes, but I don't understand the maths. If prices stay flat, for instance, would it not make more sense to rent and invest the money elsewhere?
I'm really thinking short term, would I be up in, say, 10 years, if everything stays fairly steady. I can't really make the mental leap to factor in the benefit of owning the house in 25 years....
What should I sing at karaoke for someone I have a crush on?
I lost a bet and now I owe the person I'm dating a karaoke song. My usual karaoke songs are useless here! What should I sing to impress and/or delight an awesome girl? [more inside]
Help with Starred Items in Google Reader
Is there a way to sort all of my starred items in Google Reader by the oldest date first? [more inside]
Alternatives to "RSS Graffiti?"
Does anyone know of a more dependable alternative to RSS Graffiti? It does all the right things, but also does some squirrelly things it shouldn't... [more inside]
Meow! Espresso?!
What's the difference between an espresso blend and regular whole bean coffee? [more inside]
Want to start school and get our life on track, but how?
Want to start school and get our life on track, but how? I've made some mistakes in college by not showing up an entire semester so my GPA is 1.05, even the lower university's here in TN like austin peay won't take me because my grades suck. I live a hour away from the two community colleges in my area. I also have to figure out how I'm going to give my family a place to live, I lost my job in missouri and moved down to TN with my mom. [more inside]
Do unique, generic gifts exist?
I need ideas for gifts to bring abroad from the U.S. I'm especially looking for things that simply don't exist or are difficult to find in other countries. [more inside]
Sew frustrated
Chicago Filter: I would like to take a hand sewing class - but NOT embroidery. [more inside]
Where can I get a balloon arch in Jamaica Estates, Queens, NYC
QueensNYCFilter: Where could I most-inexpensively get a balloon arch for use at an event in Queens, Jamaica Estates, NYC?
last night i heard the breeze / it was singing through the trees
Yet another "I am looking for some music" AskMefi. Looking for white noise-esque or vocalizations! (if that's the right word for it) [more inside]
The best presentation you ever saw.
I'm looking for examples of great presentations, including visuals (PowerPoint or otherwise). I've been browsing TED.com and keep finding inspiring speeches but not necessarily examples of great supplemental visuals. I'm sure there are examples there and elsewhere. YouTube links or otherwise would be great. [more inside]
Older updates of iOS
How do I update my iPhone to iOS 3.1.3--not iOS 4.0? [more inside]
Meditation in Brooklyn
Do you attend a meditation center or group in Brooklyn? If so, please tell me about it. [more inside]
European Soccer Bettiing
I want to bet on European soccer. Premiership, Champions League, etc..... can I legally do that from the US? I emailed a UK based betting site and they said "no" as it was a "grey area". Don't want to get busted but want to have a little fun.
Can I create value in real estate?
Can I create value in real estate? [more inside]
What's the best Russian novel to read while living in Moscow?
What's the best Russian novel to read while living in Moscow? [more inside]
How do I feel more secure about the amount of money I make?
How do I feel more secure about the amount of money I make? [more inside]
Where can I play Clue online or on iOS?
I'd like to play the board game Clue either through a web browser or an iPad/iPhone app. Ideally I could play against a friend or friends where we sign in/sign up and AI fills in as the other players as needed. If the playing-against-friends part isn't possible, then playing against random people online or AI would be fine. I've seen a Clue game on the App Store, but it's "Clue" in name only, not the actual board game. Maybe there's a Clue ripoff somewhere that follows the same room/weapon/character whodunit format? Any recommendations? Thanks in advance.
Getting things done while you're getting things done
I'm interested in hearing about "short burst" productivity enhancements I could make to my life. (Don't use the "L" word!) [more inside]
Now Offering Violin Lessons in NYC, Any Takers?
How much can I charge for violin lessons in NYC? [more inside]
Once my lover, now my friend. Possible, or just a cruel thing to pretend?
How to manage the transition from fiance to ex to friends? [more inside]
Online day journal?
Looking for a specific type of online blog/diary/journal.. [more inside]
I was looking for a predator; how was I supposed to know that she'd act all... predatory?
How the heck do I catproof a deck? (Second-story, somewhat sketchy DIY deck made out of wood with picket-fence railings. Kitten wants to commit suicide.) [more inside]
I my motorcycle's junction (fuse) box broken?
I spent 4 hours circuit-testing my motorcycle's starter system. Everything seems normal. I suspect the junction (fuse) box is faulty ... right? [more inside]
Which exterminator do I pick for taking care of bed bugs?
Which exterminator do I pick for taking care of bed bugs? [more inside]
Mac girl in a PC world
Help me decide which Windows desktop my company should buy (mostly for bookkeeping/financial) [more inside]
Customizable Wall Calendars
For my theater organization, I'm looking to order customizable wall calendars online. Ideally, they'd be 1) cheap, 2) available in bulk and also available for individual orders (so we can send out a link to those who won't be getting one free but might still want one), and 3) that we can customize with both photos and important dates. What websites do you know that hit all or most of these points?
Pittsburgh Prenatal Massage Therapist
Pittsburgh Prenatal Massage: Can you recommend a massage therapist for a pregnant lady? [more inside]
I want to fly abroad and don't care where. How to find the cheapest tickets?
I want to take the cheapest possible international flights, and I don't care where I'm going. Where best to find tickets for whatever routes happen to be the least expensive at the moment? [more inside]
Choosing an unlocked GSM phone
I'll be spending at least several months in Europe, and I'd like to buy an unlocked Android phone and use prepaid SIM cards in each country I visit. Data access (not just voice) is important. What are the best phones on the market for this purpose? [more inside]
I remember the poster - but which movie was it?
Help me settle a long-running debate by identifying which horror movie had the following poster: A night scene, outdoors, I think moonlit. Hand drawn. In the centre of the poster a girl is running away from the viewer, down a path between two stone walls. Emerging from the walls on both sides are hands which are grabbing out at her. I last saw it around 1986. Any ideas?
weird computers
Are there any really weird computers still being made for the home consumer? [more inside]
Snowboard group trip
Snowboarding trip plan help: Europe, catered, 10-20 people. Anonymous because it's a surprise for a lurker. [more inside]
At Home Photography Class for Two?
My boyfriend and I would like to improve our photography skills. I'd like to get a list going of daily/weekly assignments or friendly competitions we can give ourselves to have some fun with this. Any ideas? Does something self-directed like this already exist elsewhere on the internets? [more inside]
Starting points for sorting out my life please?
My life has been running out of control for almost unimaginably long time. I am 'technically' a university student but I have been so unengaged and worried about my degree course and university the past year that that affiliation or 'student' label does not really apply. So in any other sense I am unemployed. Although I recognize the need for purpose, disciple and structure in day-to-day life, I fail to impose this upon myself. [more inside]
Live NFL Games on the Internet
Instead of paying high fees to watch my favorite NFL football games on Direct TV, is there a decent software package or Internet subscription to follow my favorite football teams live on the internet? I am willing to pay a small fee for this service. Any assistance would be appreciated.
EDD Phone Interview Months Later? What can I expect?
I've been receiving unemployment compensation (in CA) consistently since being laid off last fall. All extensions have been approved and have gone through without a hitch. I was notified of a phone interview scheduled for next week. Why?? [more inside]
What's the modern procedure for finding a job?
How do people find jobs these days, anyway? My beloved husband was fired yesterday from the job he's held for ten years as a full-time employee and for four years prior to that as a contractor (after his first bad review, not that I'm bitter). [more inside]
I don't know how to break up.
There may be fifty ways to leave your lover, but I can't handle any of them. Deep down I know I need to end my relationship, but I don't know how to do it. [more inside]
I miss Fat Kiss. Help me!
Once upon a time, I used the perfect lip gloss (Too Faced's Fat Kiss in Fat Jelly). Now it's no longer made. Please help me find a replacement -- I'm desperate! [more inside]
Help me not be an anxious wreck. I can't stand myself.
Decision-making frenzy. Help me not to drive myself and others crazy. Specific situation and long-term problem inside. [more inside]
What are some professional piercing parlors in St Louis?
Possibly NSFW: What are some professional piercing parlors in St. Louis? Bonus if you had male genital piercing(s) done there. [more inside]
What do I need to know to survive at a jazz jam session?
I've played jazz for many years, but never done the jam session thing. What rules of etiquette should I follow? [more inside]
Relative reflectivity of glass and perspex
Short and sweet... Does anyone happen to have a ballpark figure for the percentage of light reflected by a 'standard' sheet of glass and a 'standard' sheet of perspex of similar thickness?
Are Power Adapter Plugs Standardized?
Are power adapters standardized? [more inside]
Yahoo Mail - Direct link to Inbox
Yahoo Mail - Direct link to Inbox [more inside]
Is Great Journalism Every Day Possible?
Blogs or sites devoted to great reporting/essays/journalism? [more inside]
How adults handle getting dumped?
Are there adult rules for getting dumped? It's never happened to me till now, my late 20s, and I'm pretty inconsolable. (anon because she knows my handle and lurks). [more inside]
American Setting Up UK Bank Account
I am an American who would like to set up a legitimate bank account in the UK and I have some questions [more inside]
Help me find IT work in Chicago area.
What steps should I take to find an IT job in the Chicago metro area? Can LinkedIn help? And am I insane for even looking in this economy? [more inside]
Reinstall single font
The very standard Courier font has disappeared from my Mac OSX 10.5.8 system. [more inside]
Empathy Outside the Species
Why do species feel empathy and aesthetic attraction (non-sexual) toward members of other species? [more inside]
Name that tune/video.
Do you know this crudely animated stop-motion music video (or the song it is a video for)...can't remember the song, but part of the refrain is like "shake the house, shake the house" with female vocalist. Two characters standing outside of the house, with a nice tree in the side yard. I think its a love song or some other similar "you're crazy" kind of number but upbeat and fun!
What's a good picture book for soon-to-be big siblings?
What's a good picture book to help a toddler understand pregnancy and/or get ready for a new baby sibling? [more inside]
Help me find a specific Drew Barrymore clip, from a talkshow.
Help me find a specific Drew Barrymore clip, from a talkshow. [more inside]
What to do in Buffalo for 7 hours?
I'm taking the Greyhound to Buffalo Airport from Toronto on Saturday. I get in at around 10:30 AM. My plane doesn't leave until 6:00 PM. I will not have access to a car, but I only have a small messenger and a carry-on (that I'm sure can be stored somewhere at the airport) in terms of luggage. Is there anything within easy public transportation of the Buffalo airport that I could spend the day checking out, or should I prepare lots of reading material?
Sleeve that fits over Apple iPad case?
What is the best sleeve for protecting the iPad that fits over the Apple case? [more inside]
Kindle not really for me?
I've been giddy with excitement and waiting anxiously for my kindle 3 ever since I ordered it a month ago--and then yesterday I read David Pougue's review and the comments to his article. Now I am sad and depressed. They are saying horrible things like when you buy the eBooks they don't really belong to you and you can't share them and worst of all I won't be able to read the eBooks from my public library on the kindle. Can this be true? Should I just pack up the kindle and send it back? Woe is me.
How can we stop this guy?
What can be done about a serial kitten-torturer?! Proven case with plenty of evidence. Is there any way to get this sick a-hole behind bars? [more inside]
How do rich people select a financial advisor?
How do wealthy people select a financial advisor? Besides word of mouth, which i think is number one no matter what your socioeconomic status is - Do they respond to traditional print and web ads like the rest of us or do they use some other approach?
-rich people baffle me.
How do I change my sleep cycle?
I need help feeling sleepy earlier in the evening and feeling awake earlier in the morning! [more inside]
Egypt for a Week
TravelFilter: A week in Egypt in November with the folks; organised tour or solo? Cairo + Cruise? Luxor? Any tips or recommendations appreciated. [more inside]
CLEAR mobile internet/home phone
Does anyone have experience with CLEAR mobile internet/home internet/home phone?
I am in Austin, TX, and am thinking about it. [more inside]
August 25
Identification of short story (and author) about an inside joke at a funeral
About two years back, I was traveling and picked up a huge book of short stories in a hostel. They were all by the same author, and for the most part, they were Roald Dahl-esque, intricately plotted, fast moving, usually violent or crimeish short stories with an elaborate twist at the end. However, one of the stories was a lovely departure from the others, and I'd like help identifying it. [more inside]
"A few good stretches.."
Im looking for a handful of stretches to ease lower back "tightness". [more inside]
I feel like a zombie in the morning
I've started a new, earlier work schedule now that I'm carpooling with my fianceé. I don't have issues waking up, but I do tend to feel "slower" when I'm trying to work at earlier hours in the morning. Any suggestions for how to feel clearer and more focused earlier in the day? [more inside]
Is/was there a term in Dungeons & Dragons besides "rolling a natural 20" for a hit that kills an opponent?
Is/was there a term in Dungeons & Dragons besides "rolling a natural 20" for a hit that kills an opponent? [more inside]
Economical cross-border shipping for a large/bulky item.
I need suggestions about economical cross-border shipping options for a poorly thought out ebay purchase. [more inside]
Pimp my speakeasy!
I found a secret room in my apartment. How do I decorate it? [more inside]
Research paper ellipses
Does a quote in a research paper (MLA format 2010) keep or drop a comma when an ellipse is used? [more inside]
Breaking up with a person who'll refuse to break up
Breaking up with a boyfriend who seems to be getting increasingly removed from reality, and is almost guaranteed not to accept the breakup? I'm preoccupied with thoughts of how this could get worse. [more inside]
Slow lazy Berlin
Help me enjoy lazy Berlin! [more inside]
Is there a RPG that I can use real life points with?
Is there a RPG / Level up system that allows me to apply my own points to? Like a normal RPG except the game is in real life and the character is on the computer? [more inside]
Tried-and-true free-and-easy online meetings
How do I set up an easy, free way for people to attend our meetings from a distance? Picture about five people sitting around a table with five more attending virtually; attendees' tech savvy will vary greatly. I know that there is a lot of pay software out there, but I'm wondering if anyone's found a reasonably robust system with free or low-cost software. Do you have a tested set-up process and combo of free software that you know works? [more inside]
Help me put this NAS together?
I currently have 6 SATA drives that I'm trying to put together in a nas box. Will this motherboard and this power supply be able to deal with it? Are there cheaper ways of going about this? [more inside]
Do they not make them like they used to?
Is it possible to replace the battery in a cell phone or do I have to buy a whole new phone? [more inside]
Help me understand finance!
What are the best resources for learning about financial markets, from a business perspective? [more inside]
Snowboarding helmet for those who wear glasses?
I need to buy a snowboarding helmet but I wear glasses. What recommendations do you have for helmets that won't press my glasses into the side of my head?
Why do I feel so woozy at night?
Every once in a while, I go through a few days of persistent wooziness in the evening. Is anyone familiar with these symptoms? [more inside]
I want a small but custom home
I wish to build a small, custom home in a rural setting. I've tried to research small, rustic homes but I end up seeing teeny, tiny places. No thanks. [more inside]
Houseflies of Horror
Is there anyway to trace the source of massive amounts of houseflies infiltrating my kitchen? It is a disgusting mystery. [more inside]
Can an iphone make me cool?
How can I control my a/c from my phone? [more inside]
Ubuntu compatible, Audible playing mp3 player.
I'm looking for an mp3 player that allows me to drag and drop music without the need of software that works with Ubuntu and can play back Audible DRM'ed files. Budget of £100.
film degrees
Where can I find statistics for numbers of graduates per type of degree in the US? I want to know the number of film students graduating each year, and whether its been increasing.
Should I ask this professor for a letter of recommendation?
Is asking a professor I don't know well for a recommendation a mistake? [more inside]
Classy but affordable surprise-party venue in Austin?
I'm throwing a surprise birthday party for a friend. Please recommend an Austin restaurant that'd be a good venue for the "Surprise!" moment. Criteria inside. [more inside]
What do I look for in a good carpet cleaner?
How do I evaluate different carpet cleaning options for my house? Everything seems to be skeevy door-to-door guys hawking chemical treatments and I used to recall steam cleaning being the way it was done when I was a kid (is that kind still around?). The yellow pages and general local review sites offer no help in picking one of a dozen options. Also, about how much is a normal price for a 3-4 bedroom average house, ballpark range? [more inside]
How can I make it easier to get enough sleep at a normal time each night?
How can I develop and maintain a normal, healthy sleep routine? [more inside]
Best net provider in Portland?
Who is the best high-speed Internet service provider in the Portland, OR and Vancouver, WA areas? [more inside]
Mysteriously missing MSI model
I'd like to know some things about my new laptop but it isn't listed on its manufacturer's website. It's an MSI brand, model S6000-017US, purchased from Office Depot last Tuesday. [more inside]
Graduate school grants for international students?
Anyone know of any graduate-level (PhD candidate) grants available to a Chinese girl studying Biology in the US? [more inside]
Help me deal with hysterical reactions in therapy
Help me deal with hysterical reactions in therapy [more inside]
La nom nom nom.
Where can we make out with Spanish boys and what foodie things can I not miss in Spain? [more inside]
Using a French Oven without an Oven?
Cooking Filter: Can I cook a roast beef/roast a chicken in my French Oven (Staub La Cocotte) without an actual oven (i.e. on the stovetop)? [more inside]
Can my Gentoo box act as a secure proxy and how?
How can I go about setting up a Gentoo server as a secure proxy? [more inside]
Sleeping is giving in
I can fall asleep, but it's not restful. [more inside]
Would rather not have to deal with this
Should I divulge to my boss my mentor/coworker’s complete lack of work ethic? (academic lab situation) [more inside]
Get my computer to not stop responding?
My 3 year-old hp laptop that runs 32bit windows 7 has lately chosen to stop responding to anything at random moments (including ctrl-alt-del) forcing me to shut down and lose everything I'm working on. How can I isolate the problem and hopefully fix it? [more inside]
Baggage fees on airlines to London
Which airline flying to Heathrow London has the best extra baggage and heavy baggage prices? [more inside]
I have the book smarts down... now onto the money.
How should I best manage my graduate school stipend? [more inside]
Roommate interviews with surprisingly few success-- Did I miss something?
Little success in roommate search-- did I miss something? [more inside]
Fockink OV-Chipkaarts, hoe werken ze?
How can I best use the OV-Chipkaart on my upcoming trip through the Netherlands? [more inside]
Why are some people socialist
Is there a reason why some people are socialist? [more inside]
How can I burn these .Mod files?
I have some.MOD video files (each one about 2 hrs long) that need to be burned on to a disc, stat. Windows Media players burner says it will not fit, even though the file is only 3.7 gigs and the disc can hold 4.7 gigs. When I put a DVD-R in the drive and try to drag the .MOD files into the file, it won't allow it. How can I get these videos on a DVD-R ASAP? [more inside]
CPU Speed Adjustment?
How do I tell if the CPUs on a Windows Server 2003 are having their clock rates changed by a power-saver scheme? [more inside]
Please help me find a place to live in Atlanta.
Is there a website to compare apartment complexes in Atlanta? [more inside]
Should I get my laptop repaired, sent back to manufacturer, or buy a new one?
I own a Lenovo Ideapad Y550. About six months ago, four keys on the keyboard popped off and the “A” and “1” key’s require multiple pressings to type. The audio out port on the laptop also broke. It still works, I just have to either hold or tape my earphones inside or it just come right back out.
Should I just go to best buy or some computer place to have it fixed? [more inside]
Last chance
Tell me about some things that aren't going to be around much longer. [more inside]
Turning a small closet into a productivity wonderland.
How do I make a small storage closet of an office livable for the next year? What kind of space saving measures/organizational things can I buy to make this work and keep myself sane? [more inside]
Flatware-filter
Looking for flatware similar to a discontinued Pottery Barn pattern (more inside). [more inside]
What do I need to know before buying online from Chinese/Asian B2B Websites?
I'm considering buying a spice mill/grinder from an Chinese/Asian B2B website. They have an "escrow" service, but what do I need to know to avoid being scammed, receiving totally crappy goods, etc...? [more inside]
Men's Style Filter: I need a recommendation for a fall and then winter coat.
What is the appropriate type of coat to wear over my normal attire? Details inside. [more inside]
I forget. a lot. I don't know why. please help me.
I forget. a lot. I don't know why. please help me. [more inside]
New car with 400+ miles?
New car with 400 miles on it. What should I know before purchasing? [more inside]
How to obtain authentic olive oil?
In light of the widespread adulteration of olive oil, how does one find authentic extra-virgin olive oil? Do protected designation of origin, organic, or fair trade certifications help? (Previously.)
Help this Santa Monica girl stop relying on Big Pharma.
I'm looking for recommendations for a primary care physician who is also a naturopath, acupuncturist, or osteopath, or who at least is receptiveto eastern and/or complementary medicine. Preferably in Santa Monica but will consider the greater west side of Los Angeles. Bonus points if they accept my lousy Blue Shield California HMO insurance. Thanks in advance!
This dog is a xenophobe. Good thing we're moving!
It's my dog's first move and I suspect it will be a rocky time. Help me figure out how to transition and help her not stress out! [more inside]
Searching for an exciting career.
Searching for an exciting career. Need some ideas. [more inside]
Have I accidently spoiled "Under the Dome" for myself?
Have I been spoiled? Question about "Under the Dome" by Stephen King - possible spoiler warning. [more inside]
Hot AND Warm. Hopefully.
Help me find some sexy socks. But not too sexy. [more inside]
Do jurists really not talk about cases with their loved ones?
I am a juror in a criminal case. I'm really considering: a.) talking to my wife about it; and b.) googling a couple things related to it. Just how bad of a citizen am I? Will I get caught? [more inside]
Job title suggestions required (IT services)
I need to find a job title. Something which sounds better than "IT guy". [more inside]
I just want to see a TV picture in non-saturated color. Help end this comedy of errors!
Reached the end of my tech savvy-osity. Cannot for the life of me figure out how to select any of the options on my new-to-me's TV. I can SEE the menu, but can't access any options. All I want to do is adjust the picture! [more inside]
My eyeball has a soft spot.
I noticed my eyes were bloodshot the other day, particularly the right side of my right eye. Last night, i touched the red area with my finger out of curiosity, and it sort of... wrinkled. It's squishy in a way that my other eye is not. Should I be worried? [more inside]
What's with the washing?
Bathroom Filter: Have I missed something my whole life or is this as weird as I think it is? [more inside]
Isekonia, you say 'wha?'
Attention glasses/contacts wearers! Do you have a major difference in the prescription between one eye and the other, aka anisometropia? Have you found any benefit from iseikonic lenses? [more inside]
Book Club meets TONIGHT and I haven't picked the next one!
I'm picking the next book for my reading group, and I need some recommendations. [more inside]
Statistics of retail book sales?
Where can I find statistics on book sales, print vs. electronic? [more inside]
Put the shoes in the box
I have several Scout collapsible storage boxes that I picked up from TK Maxx. I would now like some more of the Hang Ten type size, as they would fit the bottom of my wardrobe and make finding things easier. Does anyone know of any suppliers that will ship to the UK cheaply- or are preferably based here? [more inside]
Why does my landline go nuts when I pick up the phone?
Why does my landline go nuts when I pick up the phone? [more inside]
How to entice restaurant reviewers?
How do you entice newspaper/magazine/blog writers into reviewing a restaurant? [more inside]
How to make Firefox always load my homepage?
Is it possible to make Firefox load my homepage AND the previous session when using Tab Mix Plus? [more inside]
Please help me unravel some quirks in Word 2008 for Mac: grey documents, memories of paginations past, mixed text sizes that go all 12 point
Mac Word mysteries: 1. Certain Word docs will go all grey when I start typing and will stay that way until I scroll away from that visible portion and then scroll back. 2. Likewise, toward the bottom of the page, Word wants to remember what used to be there before text shifted and won't show me what's really there unless I scroll away and back. 3. A colleague gives me a Word doc with mixed size text, I paste into my doc, and it goes all 12 point. I give them a doc with mixed text size and they get all 12 point when they open it. Ideas? [more inside]
I'm tired of my computer protecting me from the horror of gaming
Windows 7 and StarForce have teamed up to keep me from playing games. Help! [more inside]
Recommend a Skype camera/speaker setup for a remote speech therapist
We live in South America and our son is in need of a native English speaker to work with him on pronunciation. There is no one here who can help, but as luck would have it, we have a relative in the states who is a licensed speech therapist who can help over Skype. We're looking for camera and speaker suggestions for both sides - assuming we have solved the bandwidth issue, is there a camera for a PC that would be ideal for this? Are there other speech professionals who have done this before?
Is there life after Dickens?
Is there life after Dickens? (What should I try next after listening to all of Dickens via audiobooks?) [more inside]
I need to Get Things Done on my iPhone
I need a GTD compatible task management app for iPhone that will sync both Outlook tasks AND flagged emails over the air with Exchange Server 2003. Bonus points for three way Outlook/Google/iPhone syncronization and location aware task reminders. [more inside]
bankruptcy lawyer
Looking for a good bankruptcy lawyer in NYC
My laptop won't turn on
My Dell XPS m1330 won't turn on anymore. How can I fix this? [more inside]
Pressure canning filter
It's my first harvest season with a pressure canner, and after a few successful runs with very basic low-acid things, I'd like to try canning basic (meatless) spaghetti sauce/tomato soup base. How freely can I improvise a recipe based on what's in my garden? How do I know how long to process it? [more inside]
Which premium channel should I choose?
HBO, Cinemax or Showtime? I'm getting one movie channel with my cable company. Which one is your favorite and why? I love all movies and want lots of variety.
What does this awesome 105-year-old Armenian-language Austro-Hungarian postcard say?
I just bought a postcard written in what looks like Armenian sent from what is now Lviv to what is now Chernivtsi (in what is now Ukraine), sometime between 1905 and (I'm guessing from the stamp) the end of the First World War/Austrian rule of Galicia. What does it say? [more inside]
I need a decent car for super cheap! Help!
What is the absolute best, most reliable car I can get for about $3000? [more inside]
Anthropology of Engineering
Anthropology and/or evolutionary psychology/neurology of engineering. Does that exist? [more inside]
WE ARE SEX BOB-OMB AND WE'RE HERE TO MAKE MONEY AND SELL OUT AND STUFF
I’m in love with The Clash at Demonhead from the Scott Pilgrim movie. Unfortunately, they are fictional and Metric, the band that arranged it doesn’t have that harder sound I’m liking in TCAD. What real band sounds like them? (Strong female lead on vocals, good rhythm, slightly distorted sound, anthem-y? and yes I have heard of the Yeah, Yeah, Yeahs).
Daytrip to Cambridge: What to see?
What should I do and see during a day trip to Cambridge, UK? [more inside]
How to fix my iTunes to iPod Touch calendar sync?
iTunes broke my calendar. I can no longer sync Outlook to my iPod Touch because "sync server failed to sync." I can't find an answer to this on iTunes help although I do see that others have had this problem. Any suggestions? I've always done this over a USB cable. Nothing has changed except the calendar won't sync anymore. My iTunes software is up to date. I think Notes and Contacts are syncing -- though I just realized I haven't really tested that. I don't sync music in this operation, I do that from a different machine with different settings.
Difference between National Adjectives ending in AN and those ending in ESE?
At my job we often need to ask the nationality of people we’re speaking to on the telephone. Help me solve a small disagreement around the grammar/ semantics of exactly how this is done. [more inside]
What kind of help do I need?
I need objective advice from a professional or professionals. But I don't know where to look or who to go to. [more inside]
Itchy Bed. How do I clean it?
Itchy Bed. How do I clean it? [more inside]
Help me bill via PayPal, across continents?
Europeans using PayPal to bill customers in the U.S. or U.K., can you help me? I want to bill for services using PayPal, and then transfer the money to my Greek bank account. Greece uses the Euro. I'd like to bill in dollars for my U.S. clients, but I'm a PayPal newbie as far as receiving funds is concerned. Is there something that I should know about fees or ... um ... anything, really. I don't even know what I don't know! Any tips/advice will be helpful; don't assume it's too minor. :)
F5²
Best Doom 3 single-player mods? [more inside]
What's it like to live on the Oregon coast?
I've been thinking about moving to the Oregon coast, close to the ocean, along the 101 corridor: Newport, Lincoln City, Tillamook, all that jazz. But right now these towns are just names to me. What's the skinny on that area? [more inside]
How do rich people safeguard money?
How do rich people safeguard their money from theft? [more inside]
How to replace the arial on a 2002 Ford Focus?
How to replace the aerial on a 2002 Ford Focus? [more inside]
青岛 - Qingdao Residents - help me with an address.
Calling Qingdao Residents - Where was the Dubai World "Palm Island" development going to be before it was cancelled? [more inside]
Throw An American a Bone
What would be the title of the U.S. Embassy personnel who would assist you if you had a close relative injured overseas in a major event? I'm looking for something more specific than Consular Agent. [more inside]
Where can I find a playstation -> usb adapter in Los Angeles?
Where could I find a playstation 1/2 controller to USB adapter in the Los Angeles area? [more inside]
The Badabucci Sisters? The Arivaderci Sisters?
I saw an ad for a pop group, 'The (Italian-sounding name) Sisters', saw them advertised as playing in UK maybe 2 years ago? Very cute singer, fifties-style dress...I know I'm not giving you much to go on, but it's one of those questions that bugs me when I can't sleep. Any help you could offer would be greatly appreciated.
Handwriting in the modern age, but not that modern
Is there a website or websites with lots of examples of handwriting? Mostly interested in handwriting before ubiquity of word processors, so up to 1960, say, and starting from the 18th century. Interested in penmanship of people who wrote daily, so journals, letters, as well as business forms, etc. Interested in mostly English (language) examples, but other languages using a Roman alphabet also a bonus.
August 24
H Pylori, Anti-Biotics and detoxing. How ?
I am recovering, hopefully, from H Pylori. I am trying to find out the best detox plan for being on such heavy meds. [more inside]
online psych dictionary
Can anyone recommend a good online psych dictionary? My googling has not yielded anything "good". [more inside]
Where Can I Buzz Fiberglass Off My Boat?
Where is a good place in the San Francisco Bay Area to work on a fiberglass boat? [more inside]
Help me eat better breakfasts.
What're your favorite breakfasts that are at least remotely healthy-ish? [more inside]
Moving with your own container
We are planning to move a 3 bedroom house from California to Anchorage Alaska. We are wondering if it would be possible to purchase our own container, and then hire a truck driver to move it for us?
We are also wondering if it might be possible to have the container delivered to a storage facility where we might leave if for around a year while we take some time to tour the country? [more inside]
Please teach me about childcare.
Please bring me up to speed on childcare. Quickly. [more inside]
J'ai besoin d'aide s.v.p.!
Help me find a unique lingerie boutique in Montreal [more inside]
Do cell phone signal repeaters actually work?
Do cell phone signal boosters like this one from Radio Shack actually work? Apparently an external antenna is mounted outside your home, and this is connected to a "desktop amplifier." In most rooms in my house, I'm riding with a single bar of signal (thank you, AT&T). If this can help, I'm all in.
Does anyone have any experience with one of these?
Military Baggage
What do military people do when they need to store their various items "somewhere" while they are stationed on a ship, sometimes for years at a time? [more inside]
How to fight the Baker Act?
My daughter has been detained under Florida's Baker Act. A statement she made to a social worker was mis-interpreted, and she is being held against her will at a mental health facility. [more inside]
Baggage Problem
Urgent-British-Airways-Filter: How do I check in and pay for extra luggage online (cheaper than at the airport)? [more inside]
Where can I find Michael ("Dispatches") Herr's writing on the web?
Where can I find Michael ("Dispatches") Herr's writing on the web? I have read Dispatches multiple times and a recent link led me to this neat profile of Kubrick.
What other articles or interview have people found?
In search of the "Golden Rod cake pan"
I'm searching for a cake pan that was apparently common in the early 20th century: the Golden Rod cake pan (also sometimes called a Waldorf Triangle cake pan). You can see an illustration one in the lower left corner of this picture, and here is a photograph. Here's another one (the pan on the right). Does anyone know of a current source for these pans? [more inside]
Help me be a great boss!
How do I learn to be a good manager? I just became a manager for the first time, and I have no idea what I'm doing. The position I supervise is an entry-level web position and needs a lot of direction. [more inside]
Bite The Big Apple, Don't Mind Deux Magots
Going to NYC for 1 week in early September with 2 kids, 10 and 13; what's fun for them to do? [more inside]
How do I organise a veggie swap?
There's a gardener coming to speak at the library I work on next month and I thought I would also organise a veggie swap afterwards. So the publicity has gone out, my neighbours are coming and there has been interest from the local council and environment groups who are interested in starting their own if it goes well. My problem is I'm not sure how to practically run it. Should I issue tickets roughly based on market value when people drop off their produce or should I let it go for a free for all working on a trust basis.
Anyone run one of these before? Any advise in general?
How can I learn to paint?
I want to learn to paint. My job doesn't leave me any time to attend art classes on any kind of schedule. What should I do? [more inside]
I'm going to Memphis, where the beat is tough.
First-time Memphis trip this fall - would love some MeFite recommendations. I have perused all the past threads, but there aren't many, and some of them are quite old so I'd like to check in with Memphians and regulars to see what's fresh. [more inside]
Yeah, I'm big in the art game.
Where do I resell a piece of art I once bought? [more inside]
Hurry before it gets cold.
Help me find "adventure races" near Chicago. [more inside]
Halp! Someone stole mah truck!
Our truck was stolen from our gated apartment complex. Is the complex at all liable? [more inside]
Tourist Trap?
I'm considering running off to Amsterdam this November, in no small part, due to the cannabis cup. Is it worth it? [more inside]
Help me make a trek to Everest Base Camp more enjoyable
I'm going to be trekking to Everest Base Camp in 8 weeks time. It's a 14 day trek, which is both longer and higher than I've been before. I'm looking for advice on training for the trek. [more inside]
Adopted cat, age quoted was 2, vet says 12, and he has cancer. What to do?
Adopted cat, age quoted was 2, vet says 12, and he has cancer. What to do? [more inside]
How to store/transport a warbonnet?
What is the best way to store and transport a Native American Double Trailer Warbonnet (like this one)? [more inside]
Laptop 1 or Laptop 2?
Buying a new laptop, I have worked down to 2 choices. One has Win7 (32-bit) and 4gb DDR2 ram, the other has Win7 (64-bit) with 3gb DDR3 ram. Same price. I don't really know enough about the difference between 32/64bit or DDR2/3 to make a decision. Can you explain the difference and offer advice as to which is best. [more inside]
What is the best / cheapest Netbook (or other device?) for this music server-ish application?
What is the best / cheapest Netbook (or other device?) for this music server application? [more inside]
Cool backpack for boyfriend?
I am trying to buy a really cool, really high quality backpack for my boyfriend. Must be available for purchase online or in Los Angeles. Any recommendations? [more inside]
Computing on the couch without a laptop
I'd like to be able to use my desktop computer while i'm sitting on the couch. I've got an idea on how to do it, but maybe you do too? [more inside]
Spinning wheel during OS X install
MacBook Pro freezes (spinning wheel) during system install (10.5) -- what to do? [more inside]
Help me stop thinking of my dog as a small person.
Help me stop thinking of my dog as a small person. [more inside]
Interesting pinback button crafts
What creative or interesting things can I do with a collection of buttons and pins? [more inside]
Is a stolen PC effectively protected by a password?
In the event of a loss or theft, how safe is the data on a password-protected PC laptop? [more inside]
cheap, high protein, vegetarian recipes
Help me with some cheap, high protein, vegetarian recipes that can be eaten cold while I'm cramming for exams and don't have time to go home for dinner... [more inside]
How do I find a pro bono graphic designer for my NYC-based literary arts nonprofit?
How do I find a pro bono graphic designer for my NYC-based literary arts nonprofit? (Or for that matter: Audio/visual/film help? IT help? Information Architecture help?) [more inside]
Are they really the Clear Choice?
Does anyone have any experience, either good or bad, with Clear Choice Dental Implant centers anywhere in the U.S.? Stories?
What software industry position is right for an ex-consultant?
What software company positions would best use my management consulting skillset? [more inside]
Somewhere between a loan shark and a bank lies the truth.
Is there anyone who loans money based on the situation, rather than on a credit score/computer without any explanation? [more inside]
Weeds vs. brick patio vs. barely competent yard owner
Weeds vs. brick patio - help! [more inside]
Next week: What was that site with photos of librarians on drugs?
I've been trying to re-discover two websites that I've found before but have now utterly lost. One was a photo gallery of people in drug-induced altered states, and the other was a repository of name pronunciations curated by librarians. [more inside]
And I ran, So far away
MusicTeleVision: What music videos closely express the song premise? 50's to now, I would love to know and SLYT is encouraged. [more inside]
Yes, I know you love me, kitteh
How do I teach my kitty not to be a smartass, and keep me up until all hours of the night? [more inside]
How do I enjoy music better?
How can I learn to listen to music better? I want to better understand what makes a well-crafted, beautiful song, beyond just knee-jerk reactions. [more inside]
AC/DC for a sub. No, wait...
My son wants to DJ using a conventional amplifier and speakers, but with his car amp (Pioneer GM-D7400M) powering an 800 watt sub-woofer. This requires a 110 volt wall outlet converted to 12 volts. Can he use a battery charger, or does he need a larger, non-pulsing DC source, like an actual battery or DC power supply? Any other options/wiring tips? TIA.
The Gravys go to SF!
2 Days in San Francisco for sightseeing, should we rent a car? [more inside]
Weather Stats
Where can I find past weather stats? Specifically, I need daily rain and snowfall totals for Stevenson, WA from 1967 up to today. All the sites I've found don't go back far enough, or don't do daily totals.
Paris apt rental?
Renting a vacation apartment in Paris: advice? [more inside]
She makes Eeyore seem optimistic
What are your best tips for dealing with The Underminer? [more inside]
What is a reasonable sponsorship fee?
What is the going rate for "beer league" sponsorship? [more inside]
How to stream specific radio stations from thousands of miles away, with my Android phone.
How can I listen to a little piece of Newfoundland while in Ohio, via my Android phone? [more inside]
Show me your miscellany!
Three of my all-time favorite books are The Oxford Dictionary of Literary Allusions, 1000 Sayings of History*, and Asimov's Biographical Encyclopedia of Science & Technology. Beyond the divergent content, what ties these three titles together are that they consist of rather a lot of very short (<500-word) histories. Now that I've memorized these three, I'm hungry for more. What other books are out there like these? What are the best published** encyclopedic miscellanies? [more inside]
Help me instill the sociological imagination
I need to find interesting things for incoming freshmen to read in a social sciences seminar. [more inside]
Our Creepy Condolences
Our customer's mom died. Is it appropriate to send a card? [more inside]
CASE COSTLY ACQUISITION (2d6 SAN)
I recently bought the Laundry series by Charles Stross and thanks to that and Artw's constant efforts to encourage the stars to come right I'm really jonesing for some Call of Cthulhu/Delta Green action. It's been a loooong time since I've had any chance or time for roleplaying and I'm so far out of the loop I'm in non-euclidean space... [more inside]
Carry me Home
Girlfriend has just been diagnosed bipolar. Now what? [more inside]
Figuring This Out Is Complicated
Viral Marketing Filter: I have seen several billboards locally with messages such as "My Life Is Complicated" and "Molecular Biology is Complicated". They are red with a white oval box in which the first two words are written. The "is complicated" part is written on the red background. Does anyone know what these are about? [more inside]
A Quezon City Life
I am gearing up for a probable move from NYC to Manila. I've been looking at the artist-run spaces there and looking for info on possible areas to live. We will be moving to Quezon City. Does anyone have any ideas or resources regarding where we should live within QC, and interesting things to seek out there/in Manila generally? I've already found Green Papaya, Big Sky Mind, Cubao X, and 18th Ave. Space. [more inside]
Original Xbox (modified?) with old version of Evolution-X (EvoX?). What to do with it?
Original Xbox (modified?) with old version of Evolution-X (EvoX?). What to do with it? [more inside]
How to lose sheen on wool jacket
I have a navy wool blazer (tropical wool, I think it's called) that I wear to work sometimes. The underside of the sleeves has become all shiny from being rubbed against my desk as I type at my computer. Is there anything I can do to lose the sheen? I just had it dry-cleaned and it's still just as bad as before. The dry-cleaner said there's nothing that can be done about it.
Worst Prom Theme Ever
Recommend a blacklight for a party -- a cat pee finding party! [more inside]
How to teach myself illustration?
I'm re-learning how to draw, and particularly interested in illustration/cartooning. Looking for resources that will aid me in my quest. [more inside]
Cliffnotes 2.0
I was reading my Kindle last night and my entrepreneurial light went on. I am looking for feedback on the idea, but also techniques that I can use to gauge the feasibility, and legality, of this and future ideas. My idea was
Cliffnotes 2.0. Book and article summaries for busy people in a world of ever increasing information. [more inside]
Can I Make It Happen at 40?
I am a newly single 40 year-old woman who’d like to be in a stable relationship and to start a family. I’m afraid that the man I’m looking for does not exist. [more inside]
Money Order Scam?
My coworker received 2 money orders via USPS priority mail today. They were in 2 different amounts, both addressed to him. The address and name on the FROM section of the money order were from a different name and state than the return address on the mail. He did not recognize either name or address. What is going on? [more inside]
First TV show that included texting
What was the first instance of two characters on a TV show sending or receiving a text message on TV? [more inside]
North by Northwest
I want an iPhone app that will allow me to get back to where I've been using the GPS, Compass and (optionally) mapping software. Essentially, I would bookmark places I want to return to. Then, to get back to them, I can just open the app, hit the bookmark and it tells me which direction to travel and how far to go. [more inside]
Help me find organizations to help without volunteering or giving money! (However, body parts and signatures are fine)
What databases can I join to help people/the environment/whatever else needs saving at no cost to me? [more inside]
Going To Corpus Christi
Going to Corpus Christi, need ideas on where to go bird watch, wind surf, kayak, and sight see.
No sir, YOU say potato, now you've ruined the suspension of disbelief!
Is there a word similar to anachronism for when a writer uses a dialect or jargon in the wrong person, ethnic group or similar? [more inside]
Deodorizing a house
De-stinkifying a house of cat smell--while the cats (and their not-so-hygenic owners) still live there. I found a place I want to live (cheap!), but all of the common areas smell very strongly of cat and litterbox. If I move in, are there any affordable measures I can take to return the place to tolerable freshness? Or should I find somewhere else to live? [more inside]
Where do average website visitors live?
I'm community manager for a site that's kind of like metafilter (community blog) but for developmental biologists only. I need to present some site stats soon, and I think I have this really cool analysis of how the top 10 visiting countries are all countries with existing developmental biology societies (which is rare, with only 11 societies worldwide) but, being a properly trained scientist, I need controls... [more inside]
Security and performance on one Win 7 PC
Windows 7 security: I want to use the same boot for general use and audio production. Can you help me review my plan for decent performance and security? [more inside]
A mouse probably shit in my wok. How to clean?
A mouse may probably took a shit in my well-seasoned wok. How thoroughly must I clean it? [more inside]
I need to get up to speed on European finance.
I need to get up to speed on European finance. [more inside]
Should I continue with my UK visa application if I might be eligible for citizenship?
What should I do with my visa application if I may be eligible for UK citizenship? [more inside]
Atlanta to Outer Banks via Charlotte and Greensboro - where would you sleep, eat, play?
ATL to Outer Banks (by way of Charlotte and Greensboro) with 2 adults & 3 small kids. Help me find places to stay, eat and get the wiggles out! I'm a writer, so bonus points if these are places I could write about, but really I just want to survive the trip. [more inside]
Help me configure my wireless router please!!!
Help me configure a Netgear wireless router so it works with ALL the computers in my house. [more inside]
How do I publish phonecalls legally?
How can I go about legally posting phone calls made to businesses on the internet without getting into "invasion of privacy" issues? [more inside]
Am I on to something here, or is the still random data points?
AllergenIDFilter: Is there a common denominator between (1) public water parks (2) Dawn dish detergent (3) water/sewer utilities? [more inside]
I want in on this trick!
How do I make that nice smaller font that some posters here use? [more inside]
How to make bathtimes more splendid?
What are some awesome things to add to a hot bath? Cost is a factor, but feel free to post rare treats as well. Currently I favour magnesium sulfate and tea tree oil.
NYC for me and 50 of my students
Cultural activity in NYC on Oct. 8? [more inside]
history a mile high
Looking for books about, or set in, Denver, Colorado. Movies, too! [more inside]
My "No. 1" Question about Hygiene
Which is cleaner? Touch no surfaces and don't wash your hands during a public restroom visit or touch various surfaces and then wash your hands? [more inside]
Dreams and Nightmares Costume Ideas
I need costume ideas for the theme "dreams and nightmares"! [more inside]
HDMI CEC in the real world
HDMI CEC in the real world: I've got a new Samsung LED TV, which has got a number of DVD-like control buttons on the remote (play, pause, rewind etc). I'd like to use these to control a Blu-ray player when I buy one, but can I buy any (recent) player and be confident that the TV and player will work together (via HDMI Consumer Electronics Control) as advertised? Do they all play nice together in practice?
My Blogger guest posters are second class citizens!
When posting to a Blogger blog that I administer, I can see and use the "X-Large" option to size my photos, and they appear as they should (about 640 px in the long dimension). None of the seven other registered guest contributors even sees an option for the "X-Large" image size when they create their posts. What's wrong? [more inside]
I would like to obey my thirst, but...
I would like to obey my thirst, but...
I recently realised I don't seem to get thirsty when I should. I had to take a tablet and grabbed a glass of water to do so. As soon as I began drinking I felt desperately thirsty and drank a second glass. But I swear if you'd asked me a minute before, I'd have said I wasn't thirsty.
In this thread, people are saying it's healthy to drink before you start feel thirst. But I don't seem to feel it much at all. [more inside]
Can anyone recommend me some ear plugs for sleeping?
Can anyone recommend me some ear plugs for sleeping? [more inside]
Do you know of a cheaper Green printer and book-binder?
Green Printers and book-binders that are low cost? (preferably Europe) [more inside]
Wedding invite font?
Quick font question. Can anyone point me to a (free) font like the small caps one used in the (humourous) wedding invite here? Thanks.
New York at Short Notice
Last minute trip to New York, and need somewhere good-value and well-connect to stay. [more inside]
Cancer sux
It's my sister vs. leukemia, and leukemia, it seems, may win. Muddled questions from a muddled brain inside. [more inside]
August 23
Need a car, but can't get a loan
Application for auto loan was declined. Now what? [more inside]
Dealing with confused yet enthusiastic commenters
How do bloggers or community websites deal with comments from new users which are on-topic for the site but off-topic for the current conversation? It happens regularly on my blog. Deletion seems harsh: if the person is interested in the subject it seems like a missed opportunity to get a new member and teach them how to use the internet appropriately. What are some alternatives? [more inside]
Replacing the weeds in my lawn with grass this fall.
Replacing the weeds in my lawn with grass this fall. Best way to do it? [more inside]
How to attract potential writers
What can we offer to attract locals, part-time locals and/or tourists to our tiny literary arts space? [more inside]
It's a hard knock life for Bear
A friend is planning to rescue a dog from a native reserve and I will be looking after her for at least the next couple of months starting this weekend. What are the things I need to think about doing? [more inside]
Convince us El Paso is more than just hot!
Nearby drug violence, unbearable heat, and no grass in our yard... Does anyone have any reasons to look forward to moving to El Paso? [more inside]
Is he really flakey? Or am I crazy?
My boyfriend is flakey and I have zero tolerance for flakey behavior. Am I reaching the point of being unreasonable, and should I learn to be more lenient? [more inside]
USPS Postage Question
Why are my 42-cent USPS First Class stamped letters being delivered? [more inside]
Identify this dome tent.
So I bought a used Jansport dome tent. It is nice and cost me very little, but I was wondering if there is a complete list of Jansport tents online somewhere that I can use to identify it. [more inside]
What to call a speakeasy-door-slit-hatch-peephole-thing?
You know that vertical slit in the doors of speakeasies, mafia hideouts and other places where you need to be sized up before entering? With the little metal hatch that slides to one side? Is there a word for it other than "peephole?" [more inside]
Free online social media marketing course out there somewhere?
Free online social media marketing course out there somewhere? [more inside]
First fine phone
What kind of phone should we get our son for his 17th birthday? We'd like to get him something reasonably cool, while keeping it reasonably cheap. [more inside]
More "Pathologic" than "Doom"
A while back, I encountered the work of a painter whose work included striking vistas of Hell. Now I can't remember who it was. [more inside]
Real estate in New Orleans
RealEstateFilter: I'm young, single, nearly debt-free and tired of paying lots of money to live in an apartment. Should I buy a house when my long-term plans don't necessarily have me sticking around more than 3-5 years? It's in New Orleans! [more inside]
It's not a Nigerian money order, but......
I'm trying to sell my car: is this potential buyer trying to scam me by paying with a "credit card check?" [more inside]
Can I lend a collection of art books?
[LibraryFilter] Can I lend a collection of art books to a library? [more inside]
Post-coital cleanup help!
What's the best way to clean up after my boyfriend has ejaculated inside me? [more inside]
Do I have a moral obligation to help my ex get out of his affair?
Do I have a moral obligation to help my ex get out of his affair? [more inside]
How to deal with potentially l
My contractor hasn't completed my renovations in the required time. I've given him notice that he's in default of our contract, and he had 7 days to get it together. He's now AWOL. Do I need a lawyer? If so, how much will that cost? If not, what do I do? If so, what do I do until I get one? [more inside]
Urban scavenger hunt - can skill win over speed?
My boyfriend and I signed up to do an urban scavenger hunt next weekend - tips/advice for the middle aged and/or out of shape? [more inside]
Sex(less) Kitten
Help me prove that my cat is not a masturbation addict. [more inside]
Creative domain name needed!
I need a domain name idea for an online donation service. The shorter the better! [more inside]
Help me understand the mystical Wi-Fi Music Player of which you speak.
Book recommendations for interactive / multimedia project management
Book recommendations for interactive / multimedia project management? [more inside]
Gariz leather half-case for Olympus E-P2
I am looking for this Gariz half-case for my Olympus E-P2. Unfortunately, I do not speak Korean, and I don't trust myself to figure out how to order. Where can I find one online (from an English site) or in a Toronto-area brick and mortar store?
Any leads are much appreciated. I really, really love this case.
How do I find a decent Indy child support attorney?
YANAL, but that's what I need. How do I go about finding a decent child support attorney in Indianapolis? [more inside]
Visa company loses passport, what now?
My friend is in a tough situation. They are moving to China to teach English but have been beset by issues that crop up constantly. The latest major issue, with a flight only three days away is the loss of their passport by Same Day Passports. Advice desperately needed! More inside... [more inside]
Reiser 4
Are you allowed to use a computer in the US when you are in prison? [more inside]
Sliding glass door condensation
How to deal with condensation between panes of a sliding glass door? [more inside]
Montreal fruit picking - can I do this for free?
I want to pick fruit and vegetables - for free or very cheaply - in Montreal. Is there any organization that exists here that is similar to Toronto's Not Far From the Tree? [more inside]
What's the best way to learn about formatting documents?
What's the best way to learn about formatting documents? [more inside]
can someone send me over the counter drugs abroad?
I am in Peru long term. How possible is it for someone to send me Plan B/Emergency contraceptive and vitamin supplements from the United States via regular USPS mail? Or generally, does shipping "drugs" like these cause difficulties going through customs?
2 WiFi networks in the same house?
Two separate wireless networks - possible, I think. But how? [more inside]
BFFs?
Help me deal with my best friend while she deals with her grief. [more inside]
Fibromyalgia Help
I have recently been diagnosed with fibromyalgia by a pain doc and then a rheumatologist as a second opinion. The kicker is that I do not think that I have fibro. I have visited all sorts of message boards and my symptoms do not seem to match up with the experiences of others w/ fibro. My rheumatologist is open to other diagnoses and hasn't pigeon holed me yet but cannot suggest another possibility. [more inside]
Does the future scale?
Does the future scale? [more inside]
Ready! Set! Come!
Tell me your surefire way of bringing a man to orgasm quickly. [more inside]
Calculating Statistic Ratio for .02347% out of ~4.6m -- 1 for every..?
StatisticsFilter: Out of 4,686,100 doctors in the US, a survey claims that "1100 doctors in the US think.." and amounts to roughly .02347% of doctors in the US (1100 / 4,686,100 = .02347% / 100%). So that's one doctor that thinks this, for every how many doctors? [more inside]
Immediate Decision: Sarah Lawrence or CUNY Baruch College?
Undergrad student who wants to transfer from Baruch to Sarah Lawrence here. This morning, I learned that my application for a $10,000 loan from NYHelps (a loan program from the state) was turned down. I need that money to attend Sarah Lawrence. Should I suck it up and take a private loan from Chase (variable interest rate starting at 8.75%) or return to Baruch College, where I would pay nothing? [more inside]
Fully loaded clip.
How do I reconnect with my mom?
[Familial relations filter] How can I re-establish a meaningful relationship with my mother despite being abroad most of the year and that she is constantly burying herself in work? [more inside]
US cinema database
Where can I find a database of cinemas in the US, for use in a film website my brother is building? [more inside]
Looking for a program that will track deposits and expenses
Looking for software or an app that will allow me to track expenses via SMS, but that will also allow me to track how much money is left in my account. [more inside]
PDF maker
How can I create a high-quality but small file sized, multi-page PDF? I am assembling a design portfolio and have access to Adobe Photoshop, Illustrator, Bridge and Indesign. [more inside]
Looking for a non-office job where I can take pride in my work and not deal with too many people.
What are some jobs that are "out in the world" (i.e. not in an office) that don't involve lots of interaction with people? [more inside]
How Can I Help My Brother?
My brother is moving to New York soon. What would be a good, useful gift for him? More after the fold. [more inside]
yoga fly paper
What is the stickiest yoga mat in existence? [more inside]
How do I vet a rest home by remote?
I have to put my mother into a care facility (and wow, they're expensive!). How do I thoroughly check out whether or not one will be good for her before allowing my mother anywhere near the place? I live about 2 hours away and plan to check it out but want to do as much legwork as I can beforehand. Thanks for the help.
We can have noms now plz?
Ideas for supper for me, my sister, and her husband? [more inside]
What did I do to invite this?
Am I doing something to invite propositions I don't necessarily want? [more inside]
Pear Bondage (or: will no one rid me of these troublesome Anjous?)
I'm a volunteer with Toronto's Not Far From the Tree group and just came back from a very successful pick with 15 pounds of Anjou pears that should be fully ripe within a few days. I'm thinking maybe pear crisp, pie or cake, or little hand-held pasties with a pear filling, but mostly, I've dying to hear some great recipes in these areas or beyond. Criteria (beyond awesome taste): portability (I'm off to a meetup this Saturday via bike) and/or easy freezing (for whatever stuff I can make that I can't transport on Saturday).
Help me find this Barcelona nightclub again!
I would love to find this great Barcelona hidden bohemian opera cocktail bar again, can anyone help? [more inside]
What would be a good gift (from Los Angeles) to bring a Japanese friend in Tokyo?
What would be a good gift (from Los Angeles) to bring a Japanese friend in Tokyo? [more inside]
When Will Online Photo Display Equal Prints?
Are efforts afoot to improve the quality of photos displayed on computer monitors? What, for example, would it take to produce a photo display on a screen that would be essentially indistinguishable from a darkroom print of the same size?
Do we need screens with many more, smaller, pixels? Do we need better software? Both?
I want to recreate the swimming scenes in Gattaca
Where can I find long (1-2 miles?) open water swimming near Santa Barbara? Obviously, I know about the ocean. [more inside]
I Am the Mall Anachronism
I Am the Mall Anachronism: I want to know about businesses/locations that are, unlike Billy Pilgrim, firmly STUCK in time. Places which trundled along, arrived at 1976, or 1989, and then... stayed there. [more inside]
How quickly can I learn Unreal for sound design?
What are my best next actions to learning the Unreal Engine for sound design? [more inside]
Help me find an iPad alternative.
I'm in the market for an iPad-like tablet PC, but not an iPad. [more inside]
Music for little fingers
Good electric (musical) keyboard for a 3-year-old girl? [more inside]
c-x GRAR
Have you ever installed and used Emacs org-mode? Can you please help me try it? The instructions here are ambiguous, vague, and complicated. I am an Emacs neophyte, so it would be awesome if someone could explain this slowly to me! [more inside]
Majors versus minors
Is getting a minor in college worth anything? [more inside]
I already have a dartboard, so that's out.
What to do with pictures/mementos of an ex? [more inside]
Who is responsible for catching a lapsed gym membership?
My gym never notified me that my membership had lapsed, until today - 14 months after the fact. They want me to pay for the 14 months. Should I have to pay it? [more inside]
Logistical and philosophical issues when relocating to, well, nowhere. Sort of.
Recently, 1) I got (amicably) disengaged from a lovely person, 2) decided to sell my house in Columbia, SC, 3) had my work project in Columbia end, and 4) had my company put my on a new project in Raleigh, NC, with a free corporate apartment. So, for a while at least, I can live in Raleigh for free in a corporate apartment, but where should I have mail sent? Should I get a new driver's license and re-register my car, when I really have nothing tying me to Raleigh? I'm intentionally homeless for a bit, but the logistics are killing me! [more inside]
What is the best thing to do?
Help me decide the better option: sell this house and buy a smaller one, or do a low cost remodel with better energy efficiency. More details inside. [more inside]
What blog service plays nicely in a subdomain?
I have an existing website/domain and would like to *quickly* add a blog, probably at blog.myexistingdomain.com. What blogish services make this easy?
Peachtree Accounting from Quickbooks, learning fast?
Moving to Peachtree Accounting from Quickbooks, need to learn some basics fast and well: transactions, different account types (checking, credit, A/R), creating and tracking invoices. Print books cost $$$, are unreviewable, and aren't available quickly. I'd like to get this done today. Advice? Am I making a mistake? [more inside]
How to bleach a printed shirt
Can I bleach a t-shirt without disturbing the print? [more inside]
How does sports announcing work?
What are the mechanics of live sports commentary? [more inside]
How do you talk to a dying friend?
What do you say to a dying friend? [more inside]
Please recommend books about people trapped together
I was relieved to hear that they found the Chilean miners alive, and amazed that they will be trapped for four months until rescue.
It also reminded me that I like reading books about people who are isolated somewhere for a long time. (I hope this doesn't sound morbid.)
I'm not so much interested in tragedy and death; I'm more interested in the psychology and group dynamics of people who are forced to live closely together.
Space station? Submarine? Post-apocalyptic abandoned museum? [more inside]
Looking for photos for Bob Forrest doc.
Looking for photos of exterior of Raji's, Cathay de Grande and Top Taco for documentary about Bob Forrest. (details) [more inside]
Need help to find mental health resources
I need advice about resources to help a severely anxious and depressed family member. [more inside]
What website has the most/best used car listings?
Lots of sites have listings of locally available used cars. Aside from Craigslist (which is spotty where I live), what site do you feel is most widely used and provides the best variety of listings, especially of cars being sold by a dealer (of any size)?
Looking for a comfortable green bed in the US
My wife and I are looking for an environmentally friendly queen-sized bed, ideally from the US to cut down on shipping costs/impacts. Also, what's the best thing to do with an old bed? Details and thoughts inside. [more inside]
Are brain scans useful for treating depression?
My mother wants me to try a psychiatrist who uses "brain scans" to figure out what drug would be most effective. Has this technique been proven to be useful by the medical community? [more inside]
What is wrong with my husband?
Is my husband mentally ill, or just an asshole? [more inside]
Can we skip the flogging tonight, dear? I have to wash the drapes.
My hubby's kinky. I'm not. Please help us figure out a fair way to compromise in the bedroom. [more inside]
Do my circumstances make me an eligible pet owner?
I am thinking of getting a pet dog, is this a good idea or not? [more inside]
Help me make Nebraska and Iowa interesting
Stuffing a 7, 5 and 3-year-old into the backseat of a Corolla and driving from Colorado Springs through Nebraska and Iowa to Madison, Wis. Happy to take the trip over two days and stop frequently to maintain sanity; any recommended pit stops? [more inside]
Best Emergency Alert System?
The short version: My parents now need a LifeAlert-ish system for their home. Looking for the best one, with some added difficulties. [more inside]
The rodent eats cat food in the nighttime
What shadowy creature did I see eating my cat's food last night? What do I do about it? [more inside]
Scammers or "real" people?
I'm trying to sell an inexpensive item on Craigslist. I've received a couple of responses from interested people, but how can I tell if they're "real"? [more inside]
8 yrs old, going on 14. Tired of Nickelodeon.
Is there a kid-friendly portal to pop music videos? She is not satisfied by Kid Disney and she wants to listen to the "latest" hits. She begs us to let her watch music videos on YouTube, but she's not ready to be let loose on that yet. So where can we let her browse and watch "current" videos with not too much bad stuff? [more inside]
Medicine-related deep-house track ID, plz
TrackIdFilter: I've been trying in vain to ID this deep house track that features the following lyrics: "There ain't no pill that can fill this need" and "Somebody call the doctor" (there's more to it, but this is what I can remember). It was played at Panorama Bar, Berghain, by Kiki at around 11am or so last Sunday morning. [more inside]
Television set alternatives
What options do I have that allow me to watch cable and dvds without a television set? [more inside]
Goin' to Florabama with a banjo on my knee
Going to Gulf Shores, Alabama, the week after Labor Day weekend. We'll have a car. The beach is fun, but we are both fair-skinned sun wimps and will need interesting hikes/historical things to amuse us when it's time for shade. What should we see and do? What should we skip? We are in our 30's, amenable to visiting and enjoying a few signature Redneck Riviera highlights but mostly want to spend time together and get reacquainted.
Help me identify these mystery vessels!
I took the night ship from Oslo to Copenhagen last week. When we were about an hour out of Oslo, two of these boats came up on us out of nowhere, spent nearly an hour zooming up and down the length of the ship and back and forth across the wake, then abruptly vanished. Who were they and what, exactly, were they doing? [more inside]
What is the "Inner Life Intensive" workshop like at Kripalu Yoga Center?
Has anyone ever taken the "Inner Quest Intensive" 3-day course at Kripalu Yoga Center in Lenox, MA? I'm thinking about doing it and would like to hear what others' experiences were like. Specifically, what did you actually do during the time there -- how were the days structured, what kinds of practices did you experience? [more inside]
Modern Marines Versus Vikings?
Name That Movie Filter: I'm looking for the name of a movie I caught a brief snippet of on Russian TV, which was therefore dubbed. It involved a dark haired, modern looking (and US by uniform design) soldier being interrogated and beaten by a trio of Vikings or similar 'iron age' warriors. There were questions involving a dragon. It did look fairly recent (last 10 years perhaps).
Shopping in London
I will be visiting London for two weeks or so in mid September this year, and I will be doing a lot of shopping.
Since I have been recently working and living in Egypt, I intend to buy myself a new phone and some electronics, and maybe clothes. (electronics here are too expensive and not everything is available) [more inside]
Should I transfer (undergrad)?
Miserable but comfortable - should I transfer? [more inside]
You can get with this, or you can get with that, or this, or that, or this, or that, or this, or that..
I am considering a big, strange career move, and I’m wondering if it is a terrible idea masquerading as a wonderful idea. Please share tips and tricks for making large decisions without second-guessing yourself into a tizzy. [more inside]
How do you say FOIL in other languages?
How do people explain the FOIL rule of algebra in other languages? [more inside]
How do I move to England in a year?
I'm a US citizen, and I'd like to move to England in about a year. [more inside]
Living of savings for a couple of years
I am thinking about living off savings of about £15000 for a couple of years. How can I best manage my money? [more inside]
I'm not Steve Jobs (...yet). Help me find semi-dressy work shoes for an every day, active lifestyle with solid soles -- NO METAL SHANKS -- to replace my unprofessional New Balances
What brands or specific models of men's dress shoes offer a solid sole, quality materials and support that work well for active on-the-go folks? (I'm looking for kind of a running shoe in dressy disguise) [more inside]
How harmful are low doses of Vicodin?
How harmful are low doses of Vicodin? [more inside]
August 22
WE WANT THE FUNKY DISCO PLEASE
DISCO music challenge: Disco recording artist, solo guy, one (?) hit in US in 70's (I think) but big in Europe and many albums under his belt, and the recording artist name is like masterblaster or masterbox or blasterbox or something. Suggestions? [more inside]
I'm looking for acoustic covers of techno songs, can you help me?
I'm looking for acoustic covers of techno songs, can you help me? Not necessarily acoustic, but using analog instruments, whether amplified or not (e.g. Clara Engel covers Born Slippy, Stance's ukulele cover of Harder Better Faster Stronger, Acoustic Instruments cover Star Guitar). Other electronic dance music genres also welcome.
How do I get my clipboard back?
Is it possible to use GreaseMonkey to delete jQuery event bindings? [more inside]
Museum or not
Should I go for a museum studies masters or would a public history masters be a better choice instead? [more inside]
Airport works, web doesn't?
Non-Mac guy w/ Mac problem. GF's Mac connected perfectly at our old house via an Airport. At new house, it "sees" the wireless network, but... [more inside]
Are some prescription meds outlawed in Doha, too?
My mother can't fly through Dubai as a layover because she has perfectly valid prescription medications they will arrest her for if found (even just transiting). Is the same thing true of Doha? The difference in ticket prices between Doha/Dubai or somewhere else is significant.
Who is Dr. Lyle Evans?
Is Dr. Lyle Evans a real historical figure or just a made-up person in the Mad Men universe?
How do I stop being a regular truant out of extreme shyness?
I have this terrible habit of skipping school out of social anxiety or shyness, even for the smallest reasons like not bringing an important book, arriving late or not knowing where the class is. How do I stop this and be a regular? [more inside]
Why am I developing all kinds of food intolerances?
I'm developing food intolerances/allergies to a variety of foods. Is there a way to stop it? Should I see an allergist? [more inside]
Music World Tour
Take me on a music world tour - what are your favorite non-Western songs? [more inside]
Should I get a master's degree?
Should I get a master's degree in mechanical engineering? What jobs could I be "overqualified" for? [more inside]
When he turned 34 but who's counting, he couldn't find anyone who wanted to party...
It's my 34th birthday next Sunday, and my boyfriend and I will be in a city where I don't know anyone. What are some things we can do to make it an enjoyable, special, memorable day?
(the) road ends here
Suppose that I was giving someone directions to my house that involved telling someone to take an highway or freeway. Would I be correct in telling that person to "take the 10" or "drive four miles on the 60"? I've been mercilessly mocked for inserting the "the" into those directions, but I can't find anything conclusive about the proper way to refer to it. [more inside]
It isn't over, but it is.
I'm ending an awesome relationship because I'm moving to a different city for a much better job. How to make the best of our last few weeks together, and what's the "healthiest" level of contact to maintain? [more inside]
So what if there's no seat cushion, it goes like hell!
I want to buy a fun, impractical, and unusual sports/muscle/fun car for under $5000(USD). This will be my second car, and not my daily driver. Can you offer some suggestions? (It must be available as a stick shift.) [more inside]
Yes, I'll pay cash
Is there any way to get a gynecological
exam and all the accompanying tests in NYC anonymously?
I don't want to potentially screw up my soon to be acquired health insurance.
Recording from hard drive of Toshiba RD X-35 to another Toshiba recorder onto disc?
How to record from Toshiba dvd player/recorder hard drive to another Toshiba dvd recorder? [more inside]
Where else would I find something like the Noodle Incident?
I'm curious about the Noodle Incident as a device. [more inside]
Why are there 169 starting hands in Hold 'em?
Can someone explain to me why there are 169 starting hands in poker? [more inside]
Get my cats off my table!
Our three cats are brazenly unfazed when we squirt them with water guns. They jump up on the counter tops, we squirt them, they scamper away, and then five minutes later they're back up there. What are other ways to make them fear the humans' surfaces? [more inside]
What was this Japanese novel?
Looking for the title of a Japanese novel that involved a cat murder. [more inside]
Neighbpr's utility lines over my yard
We recently moved into an old house. It's on a small (0.2 acre) lot that is nicely wooded.
What is not so nice is that our backyard is bisected by our neighbor's utility lines which run from a pole in the back of our lots. Both our house and out neighbor's house feed off of the same utility pole. [more inside]
DBAN for non-system drives?
Looking for a way to wipe (for disposal) old hard drives without swapping them into my desktop. [more inside]
DIY tent upgrade - advice needed please
Our tent is OK but there's a gap between the sides and the groundsheet, which makes it rather chilly. How can I best make it more wind- and rain-proof? I think attaching a strip of some sort of waterproof material around the bottom of the sides, that could be tucked under the groundsheet, is the best option. But what sort of fabric? And how do I stop the water wicking up it from the ground and making the sides of the tent wet? [more inside]
Cheaper, comparable alternative to iPod classic?
I'm looking for suggestions for an iPod alternative. My current iPod classic is getting close to the end of its life, and I'm trying to determine what my options are for replacements. Relevant details below the fold: [more inside]
Programs to learn on?
I'd like some program ideas to implement. [more inside]
I Hate McAfee
I mistakenly installed some version of a McAfee update on my relatively new Dell. The McAfee subscription was included. I did not choose this thing. Any way, McAfee has taken over my Windows firewall settings and I can not edit them. At all. I tried to do it through McAfee to no avail. So I tried calling McAfee, but they wanted me to pay for support. So I deleted McAfee. Unfortunately that did not remove the hold over windows firewall. [more inside]
You're fired...?
Should we fire our newly-hired employee? [more inside]
Desperately need name of late 70's Early 80's TV show!
Ok! What was the name of the show. It involved two guys, one in his late 20's, incredibly handsome, looked like the blond guy from Dukes of Hazzard only with brown hair, and he wore like a Gulliver's Travel get up, (he may have been from another time in the past) with a wine colored velvet laced up vest, billowing white shirt, and his sidekick was this super dorky teenager 14-18? and they would go on time travels together, and narrowly avoid tricky situations. It was usually shown on weekend afternoons, but it could have had a regular time slot in prime time. Racking my brain! Thanks for your help!
How to make a 12 hour plane ride with a baby not the suckiest thing you have to go through.
Need ideas for a "flying-on-a-helluva-long-plane-ride-for-the-first-time-with-our-baby" survival kit. Ideas? [more inside]
How much can I get for my computer?
I've got a laptop that I purchased in September 2008 that I paid $1,629 for. How much can I ask for it on Craigslist? Realistically? Ideally? Is there anything free I can do to increase its value before I sell it? [more inside]
help identify the artist of this instrumental song
Who is the artist responsible for an instrumental song called "Ballerina", released in the mid-to-late 1980s? (mp3 of the main melody included) [more inside]
Need help organizing photos and text
I have been the sole writer/editor for a small, free, newspaper for a couple of years. I have kept all original .doc files and published and unpublished photos. What I am looking for is software that will organize both pictures and text. It is easy to find organizing software for images, but not for photos and text. Does software like this even exist? Any help is appreciated.
betrayed by the jumbotron
Do baseball stadiums hire performers to act like audience members to entertain the crowd on the jumbotron? [more inside]
Let's hear it for Donna Jean!
Today is Donna Jean Godchaux's birthday, and I'd like to watch a great YouTube video or three that prominently feature her singing. I'm more interested in her performances with the Grateful Dead or the Jerry Garcia Band than any other bands, though if there's a particularly standout video of another I'd be glad to watch that too. Thanks in advance! [more inside]
Where to buy a road bike in TO?
Where should I buy a road bike in Toronto? [more inside]
Any great books on urban anthropology? In addition, what could I do with a Deviant Behavior degree?
Any great books on urban anthropology? In addition, what could I do with a Deviant Behavior degree? [more inside]
Styleless, fine, wavy, frizzy, dull, graying hair. Help me banish the dowd without color or blow-drying.
Shortish, fine, vaguely wavy, frizzy, dull, graying hair. Unhappy with the cut, color, and texture. HATE coloring and blow-drying. Help me fix it. [more inside]
What to do in New Hampshire?
I am spending this upcoming weekend in New Hampshire, U.S.A.. Specifically Manchester and Concord. Is there anything specific that I should check out or do while in the area? Only in town for three days.
Dry cleaning for to-be-donated clothes?
I have some dry clean-only clothes that I want to donate. They could use a cleaning but I don't want to pay for it if I'm going to be donating them. There was a program in the DC area that let you donate clothes and a dry cleaners would clean them for free. Anyone heard of something similar in NYC?
Storing vintage wine
I was browsing a site the sells vintage wine last night as I was planning on purchasing a 2001 red at some point in the next year as a gift for my husband for our 10th anniversary and they just so happen to have his favourite wine at a reasonable(ish) price - I'd like to buy it now and hide it until our anniversary which is nearly a year from now. Its only 9 years old so will just keeping it in a cool dark place suffice? [more inside]
Help, my face is on fire.
This is so embarrassing- I used hair removal cream to get rid of my moustache (I'm a female) and I left it on too long. Now I've got a screaming red moustache-shaped rash over my upper lip. It's ugly and it burns like crazy. How can I make this go away?
Ski filter: Rocky Mountain Super pass vs the Colorado pass.
Ski filter: Rocky Mountain Super + vs the Colorado pass. [more inside]
Can You Name the Artist?
Can you identify the artist who made this sculpture, which I believe to be a fountain? [more inside]
How do I avoid sweating so much under my hats?
Doctors advise me to avoid much sunlight, but I'm bald. I need some protection, and sunscreen is such a bother. I have hats, but in my Florida humidity, I sweat bucketloads up there. Was there a trick before hats became unpopular? Cowboys didn't have to mop their brows every 5 minutes, right?
suggestions for girlfriend's birthday in brussels
I am going to be in Brussels in a couple weeks on vacation with my girlfriend when it is her birthday. Does anyone have any suggestions for fun, romantic, not too expensive things to do in Brussels for her birthday (restaurants, activities, etc.)?
The Carpet is Brown, but Not That Brown
Protecting new carpet from elderly dogs [more inside]
Anyone tried bacteriotherapy?
This article in the NYT about bacteriotherapy would seem like a wonderful option to consider for someone like me, lifetime IBS sufferer, even with the obvious gross-out factor.
Microbes Defend Us.
Does anyone have any experience this procedure, for good or ill?
Make 'em Laugh, Make 'em Laugh, Etc.
I'm getting crankier in my old age and I'd love to bust a gut and laugh so hard that I cry.
Recommendations for short video clips that have made you go "HA!" aloud. Laugh-aloud stuff for me looks like the David Brent dance from "The Office," and Harvard Sailing Team.
My kids and students thank you in advance.
Angry, hurt kitty and worried kittymom need help!
HurtKittyfilter: My cat has (as far as the vet can tell) injured a ligament in her knee. What can I do to help her? [more inside]
Film or digital for a novice?
Do you see any advantages for a photography novice in 2010 in starting out with a 35mm SLR that shoots film of the dipping-in-chemicals-in-a-darkroom variety? I'm toying with taking up photography purely for artistic/pleasure reasons, doubt I'll be taking classes, and would be spending no more than a couple hours a week on this. [more inside]
looking for a log of captain cooks voyages in the form of gps coordinates(log/lat)
i am looking for a log of captain cooks voyages in the form of GPS coordinates(log/lat) or similar.
like this google user generated map, but with higher resolution if possible.
Can AutoHotKey close processes in Task Manager
Multi-part question: Do the various 'services' that run automatically on my computer (such as ipodservice.exe, ituneshelper.exe, adobeupdater.exe) reduce my computer performance significantly enough that it is worth switching them off in Task Manager? How might I automate that process (given that I don't have admin rights -- work laptop)? Could an AutoHotKey script close a batch of these?
Walking to my car is miserable.
Help with these giant cobweb-like strands hanging from my tree! [more inside]
August 21
What statistical analysis can I use to test whether there is a significant difference in calendar date that an activity is undertaken by two groups?
What statistical analysis can I use to test whether there is a significant difference in calendar date that an activity is undertaken by two groups? [more inside]
How to treat a (suspected) spider bite?
So I think I got bitten by a spider two nights ago on my shin. What should I do about it, if anything? [more inside]
How can I make a budget we can BOTH stick to?
Our household income has been cut in half in the last six months and although we theoretically have enough money to get buy, we keep running out. We're really bad at this. Help? (details inside) [more inside]
Mysterious.
What does this recent Onion article refer to?
apple bluetooth keyboard on windows 7
How do I get my apple wireless (bluetooth) keyboard to pair with my windows 7 Pro 64 bit machine? [more inside]
My poor dog is limping terribly.
Seeing my website inside the company
Apple server gurus? I have a Mac OSX Snow Leopard server question. How to be able to view a company's externally hosted website from inside the company? [more inside]
Fair shake of the sauce bottle
Why are consumer products so expensive in Australia? [more inside]
Lettuce Be Honest
Do you always wash lettuce? Have you ever just torn a head of Iceberg open and used it? Or do you always wash it? [more inside]
The Horror of the Arkham Horror
The horror! I've been invited to play Arkham Horror (Dunwich i think it is) but I have never played anything like it before. The game happens tomorrow (Sunday) at Noon. It's Saturday evening right now. I'm going to read the rules from the online manual. But what else should I know? O you monster slaying mofos of MeFi, help me get some mojo before my ass gets grassed. [more inside]
take it apart
What are some blogs/posts/videos that deconstruct the production of specific songs? [more inside]
Resources for helping family deal with divorce
My brother's wife is leaving him, and it is hitting the whole extended family hard. None of us seem to know how to support him or how to deal with the depression that has resulted. Can anyone point us towards resources like books or websites to help this close extended family deal with this painful time and learn to support him and the young kids?
PhD at a Distance: Resources Please?
PhD at a distance: I want to earn a PhD, but because of family commitments and work, I'm unable to attend a school in person. Some resources please... [more inside]
To Hayling and beyond.
I really, really love "Hayling" by FC Kahuna. Please suggest some other specific songs I might also like. [more inside]
Sites for teenagers?
Online communities for a young person, canhascheezburger style? My son is twelve (and a half) and I'm looking to guide him towards slightly more adult sites without dropping him into a pit of voles. [more inside]
How do I stop the tears from flowing?
How do you handle crying when you're actually raging to kill someone inside? [more inside]
Please Help Me Find Good Computers for My Two 7th Grade Boys
My two boys, both starting 7th grade in a couple of weeks, need computers...laptop or smaller? Smaller relates to cost? [more inside]
What's the best way to edit video from my Kodak zi8?
I have a Kodak Zi8 mini camcorder, which shoots HD footage in Quicktime format. I'm having difficulty editing the video afterwards. Can you help? [more inside]
How do you handle the silent fade away from a person you spoke with for hours a day?
How do you handle the silent fade away from a person you spoke with for hours a day? [more inside]
What's with my oven?
Help. My electric oven just went crazy! [more inside]
Is it normal to have better vision in contact lens than glasses?
Is it normal to have better vision in contact lens than glasses? [more inside]
Pimp my suit
How to dress up a suit got a black-tie-optional event? [more inside]
Can you help me create the definitive Columbo drinking game?
Can you help me create the definitive Columbo drinking game? [more inside]
Yes, I just want to make everyone jealous.
I'm taking my Canon G11 on a sailing vacation in the Greek islands. I expect lots of blue sky, brilliant sun, and light reflecting off the water. I've never used any kind of filter before, but should I consider it this time? If so, what do I need to know to make a filter work with my camera? Is a circular polarizer the best way to go or are there other filters to consider? [more inside]
What's the catch in these email scams?
What's the scam in these responses to a craigslist ad I posted? [more inside]
Customized Money Orders
Is there an online source for bulk, customized money orders in small USD denominations? [more inside]
Book recommendation?
Can you recommend a self-help book for dealing with friendship breakup/betrayal issues? I have found some books for dealing with marital infidelity, which I am not concerned with.
Vintage find, so vintage there's no info.
I picked up a set of old headphones today at a yard sale for the princely sum of $1. They are Mura Sp-302. I can't seem to find any information about them via googling. [more inside]
Another depressed person...
How do you deal with intractable depression? [more inside]
Origin of Car Keys
What's the origin and history (first make/model, etc.) of auto ignition keys?
Eeeeeeeeeeek! What's this bug?
Help me identify this creepy crawly in my kitchen cabinets :( [more inside]
Are my close friends clouding my relationship judgement? Also, guilt of breakup.
Did my friends influence my choice to break up with my girlfriend too much? [more inside]
Rewiring a warehouse lamp
How to rewire a warehouse lamp? [more inside]
Blue forty-two, hutt hutt!
I want to be an NFL football fan again. What should I be reading? [more inside]
Options for cleaning with allergies?
I'm an ex-ish packrat trying to go through all my old boxes of junk to sort and destroy. The problem is that touching these boxes starts off what seem to be vicious allergies of the streaming nose, explosive sneezing, and itchy eyes variety. [more inside]
Painting kitchen chairs?
Should we sand down some wooden kitchen chairs that have a natural finish before repainting them? [more inside]
How do I find an obscure WWII technical manual?
I recently inherited a 1940s era communications receiver from the estate of my great-uncle. It is a Hallicrafters S-39 Sky Ranger, and I want to restore it so it can be used safely again. I was able to find the manual that originally came with it on BAMA (The Boat Anchor Manual Archive), but it was also used by the US Military during WWII, and there is a govt service manual for it. It was an R80 to the military, and the manual is PB48233, but that is as far as I have been able to get. How do I locate someplace that has a copy of this technical manual so I can get a copy made from it?
How can I get my stuff from Ontario to BC without flying back myself?
What are my options for shipping my stuff from Ontario to Vancouver? [more inside]
Cathy comic involving dishwasher
Where can I find a list of Cathy comic strips involving her, Irving and the dishwasher? [more inside]
Investment for this Dummy.
I have $1000 to invest and I'd like to do it wisely. One problem: I have never invested any amount of money in anything. Ever. Where should I start? [more inside]
She usually barfs on the tile.
How to remove vomit from a silk carpet? [more inside]
Who drew this logo?
Trying to figure out who designed logo for the RAF. I really dig the design. It mentions that Baader paid a designer to draw it, but I can't find a single mention of his name. Any help would be greatly appreciated. [more inside]
Tonerite for acoustic guitar substitute?
I have been thinking about getting a tonerite for guitar. I have no doubt that they work, but don't really wanna spend $150.00. I am trying to think of a less expensive, but suitable substitute that will vibrate the instrument in the same way. I am thinking an aquarium aerator with its tiny motor may fit the bill. Tell me how wrong I am and why. Any other ideas for a sub for the tonerite?
Accidentally made an imprint on to my pan
How would you clean off an imprint of a towel on a stainless steel pan? [more inside]
Good reasonably priced upholsterer near Philly?
Anyone know a good, reasonably priced upholsterer near Philadelphia? [more inside]
How do I deal with a difficult customer?
Help me work with a difficult customer. [more inside]
Fixing eye-glare in Photoshop
Anyone know of a really good tutorial for fixing the glare in animal eyes in Photoshop? [more inside]
Tape measure that reads from both sides?
I'm looking for a tape measure that has two sets of numbers such that the numbers can be read right side up from either side of the tape. Stanley used to make such a tape years ago, but I can't find one now.
This sketch is eluding me on about 9 levels
Comedy sketch filter. I'm trying to identify an American TV musical comedy sketch in which a man says something like "X is a whole lot easier to be around now that she's getting it regularly" and a woman responds, "Do you know that that offends me on about 9 different levels?" and then goes into a big musical number explaining the levels. [more inside]
Boston is the home of the four letter word that means rock, WBCN
WBCN Boston Montage. I'm having a hard time identifying a couple of the songs that mention Boston in the old WBCN bumper they used to run (back when WBCN was actually in Boston). I have a YouTube clip and a list of songs in the extended... [more inside]
Learning to type
Do you know of a free, online typing game that works for a kid who mostly knows the keyboard but is still very slow? [more inside]
Collecting on a Debt
Collecting money from a rogue client. Trying to be specific with information but vague with details. Desperately seeking advice. Let's get this out of the way: you are not my lawyer. [more inside]
Should I Worry About Mom's Medical Problem
My mother has had blood in her urine (without pain) for the past 5 days. She's doing all the right things (doctor, kidney function test, next doctor on Monday) but everyone seems to be minimizing the situation. Help me face whatever's coming. [more inside]
nutritionist in Boston?
Can anyone recommend a nutritionist in the Boston area, within walking distance of a T stop or rail stop? [more inside]
Stopping the inner crazy
How do I stop worrying that history will repeat itself in regards to my relationship? [more inside]
Recommend me a used (musical) keyboard.
What's a good, inexpensive (>$200) digital keyboard/synthesizer for a low-intermediate level player? Used preferred. [more inside]
Need help solving a zip archive timestamp & GNU make interaction problem on Linux, MacOSX, and other systems.
We ran into the following conundrum while distributing source code for some open-source software we produce. Our code is pretty straightforward C++ stuff with makefiles designed for GNU make. We distribute the package as a zip archive. Works on most systems (Linux, Windows, MacOS, FreeBSD and others). Now, zip stores and unzip restores the file timestamps. Problem is, if someone downloads the archive in an earlier time zone than the one in which it was produced, the unarchived files have a timestamp in the future. [more inside]
How do I find this music website that's stuck in my head?
What is the URL of the music site I am thinking of? [more inside]
Video game recommendation for a lover of Halo, please!
I like the video game Halo: Combat Evolved and have played it off and on for several years, both single player and multi player mode. I would like another video to game to play that is similar to the campaign Halo: CE, but in very specific ways, but is not Halo 2 or Halo 3. [more inside]
Help me find this illustration!
Tattoo time! I need help tracking down the artist or book that this illustration is from. Bonus question about what to tip my tattoo artist/bff. [more inside]
My friend's husband can't attend a wedding with her tonight. Is it crass for me to go in his place?
Weddingfilter: A friend has asked me to attend a wedding with her in her husband's stead. I don't really know the couple getting marrried. Yay or nay? [more inside]
Mac Alternatives to Phrase Express?
Didn't get an invite to my high school reunion
Why do I care about not being invited to a high school reunion I wouldn't have wanted to go in the first place? Do I have too much time on my hands this morning? [more inside]
Seattle Productions
What are some production companies in Seattle? [more inside]
nuke it from orbit
How to scrub a carpeted rental apartment of cat residue? [more inside]
Eggs, why do you taunt me so?
Why do eggs give me a stomachache...but only sometimes? [more inside]
What could be wrong with my elderly, non-cooling fridge?
I just discovered that my fairly elderly refrigerator and freezer have stopped cooling. What is most likely to be wrong, and is it worth it to attempt to fix it? [more inside]
What is Fry filming?
What is Stephen Fry filming in New Orleans this weekend? He tweeted twice about coming here, first saying he will be filming all day and again two hours ago that he is off to the airport.
August 20
Between points A and B
Subways, highways, airports, train stations. Is there a catchall name for places that people only go because they want to go somewhere else? The closest I've come is 'interstitial zone' but that doesn't seem quite right.
Help a fat girl have a relationship with in-laws who hate fat
How to improve relationship with disapproving future in-laws: My boyfriend and I have been together for a bit more than two years, and we’ve been living together for a year and a half. We are both in our mid- to late-twenties. Our relationship is strong, and really, it is not at issue. The problem comes in with his parents. [more inside]
Please Help Me Help My Dog.
Family dog has cancerous lump on leg, vet says surgery might be enough to cure it (20% chance of recurrence). So what can we do to 1) help minimize the stress of surgery and 2) strengthen his immune system and general health, to increase his odds? So far I've gotten "all raw foods" and "no corn or soy it's all GMO" but neither of these folks actually have dogs. I'd like to hear from the dog-owning hivemind about this.
Not dangerous, but not hokey either
I'm thinking about crashing the local Zombie Walk tomorrow as a survivor. What should I bring as a "weapon"? [more inside]
rankings, year in and year out
Is it possible to compare USNews college rankings over several years? [more inside]
Looking for help with a circa 1996 IBM Think Pad
I have acquired an old IBM Thinkpad Type 9547 and I am having a difficult time figuring out it's place in the IBM timeline as well as it's specifications. [more inside]
Are my bar end shifter and derailler fighting each other?
Are my bar end shifter and dura-ace rear derailler fighting? Bike question on indexed drivetrain parts lies herein. [more inside]
XC skiing lessons for the family
Do you know of any intensive week-long lessons in cross-country skiing available in North America? I'd be especially happy to find a resort that offers a kids' program in XC skiing too. [more inside]
Homemade skin-care for the itchy
What resources would you recommend for making lotions, cosmetics, etc., for super-sensitive skin? [more inside]
What to do about slanderous comments?
What can I do about someone from my past writing slanderous things about me online? [more inside]
Help a diabetic
My husband suffers from what appears to be diabetic neuropathy pain in both feet and one hand. Could this be caused by something else? What can we do to make it more bearable? [more inside]
da da DA da da dun dun: GO PACK GO
Wisconsinite cheesehead transplanted into central Texas. I need to watch every Packers game. Help me. [more inside]
42" TV as monitor: good idea?
I'm considering buying a 42" television to use as a computer monitor. I'm not sure whether I'd (a) put it across the room from me, (b) put it directly in front of my face, or (c) be better advised to give it a pass. Your advice? [more inside]
Portland Riverview?
Portland Filter: Why no good riverside restaurants or bars here in Stumptown? [more inside]
Mind the lady fingers
Erotic/tasteless humor cake design suggestions for an engagement cake? Let's hear 'em. [more inside]
How to list GPA on applications
I am filling out graduate school applications and I was wondering if anyone knew the proper etiquette on how to list a GPA for a student that has attended multiple institutions. [more inside]
They went to a bad place
So, we loaned our "spare" computer to our neighbor and it came back infected... [more inside]
Taking AdWords personally?
As an artist or small business owner, how would you feel if someone used your name to keyword their Google AdWords ad? [more inside]
How to get over not looking however it is I'm supposed to?
My boyfriend said he would prefer that I look different; then he said he didn't; how do I reconcile this and move on? [more inside]
Recumbent exercise bike saddle sore?
Recumbent exercise bike users: do you still get a sore butt? [more inside]
Help me find this "skeptic Marxist"
Help me find the name of this "Marxist Sceptic" thinker. I remember reading on aldaily.com within the last few months about a Marxist thinker who essentially came to the conclusion that though desirable, no socialist system of government would exist in the immediate future. I'm not sure if it was an obituary or something else.
I just want to make my own choices!
Atheist and (closet) atheist couple. Parents want a catholic wedding and lots more hassle from us. [more inside]
Engaged with wandering eyes
Engaged but infatuated with someone else. Does this actually mean anything? [more inside]
How to get immediate notification of Craiglist posts with a filter?
What is the best way to monitor/notify myself of new Craigslist listings for housing? [more inside]
Men's boots for suits?
Men's boots for suits? I am thinking of buying a pair of ankle or shin-high boots to wear and I want to know about pairing boots with suits. I would rather wear lace-ups than have a zip or a stretch band.
How Can I Make a VMWare VM from a Laptop Using SEE?
How might I be able to make a VMWare VM for Fusion Desktop using the VMWare converter with a WinXP laptop protected by Symantec Endpoint Encryption? The VM I made using default settings crashes at the point I'm entering my SEE credentials with a memory error.
What's this piece of contemporary piano music?
Can anyone identify the music in the Nokia ad? [more inside]
Ensemble films to watch together
Please suggest ensemble films in which several separate storylines each explore various angles of the same theme, and some characters from different plotlines connect in unexpected ways. Love Actually is a perfect example of what I'm looking for. [more inside]
It's my best friend. Always happy. No questions.
I'm looking for examples in movies and television where a character cares for a particular house plant as a symbolic plot element or to show another side to the character. [more inside]
iphones and web traffic
If I visit a website on my iPhone, and the site owner uses Google Analytics or similar, what if anything can they tell about me? [more inside]
A Roomba may not injure a human being or, through inaction, allow a human being to come to harm.
It's Roomba recommendation time again! [more inside]
Paralegals: how do they work?
Should I become a paralegal? [more inside]
massage therapist in dc or maryland?
i'm looking for a great massage therapist in dc/maryland. [more inside]
Hover/Mouseover CSS/html question.
Can I change the mouseover qualities (the way mouseover/hover text is displayed) with CSS? [more inside]
San Francisco Bridge shaped t-shirt from Runaways
I'm looking for a copy of the shirt dakota fanning wears in the runaways with the words San Francisco written in the shape of the bridge. Anyone know where I can get the shirt or a copy of the logo itself?
Here's my attempt at linking to the image http://imgur.com/mtYit.png
What's the best Google Reader app for the iPad?
I'm looking for the best Google Reader app for the iPad. I'm will to pay if it's worth it. Any suggestions?
Is it wrong to follow/friend a job applicant?
I'm hiring, and in addition to interviewing, checking references (official and un-), etc., I'd like to see how candidates are using Twitter, Facebook, and/or Tumblr. Facility with this stuff isn't a primary requirement of the job, but it's helpful; I also think it's a good way to gauge a candidate's judgement and to see how they manage their public face. On the other hand, it feels like following or friending is weird, or possibly an invasion of privacy. Is it?
stretch!
My ideal resource would be some sort of book or DVD akin to "Gentle Stretching for Old Fat People". Any recommendations? [more inside]
Kauai in a week!
Looking for non-lonelyplanet activities to do in early October in Kauai. [more inside]
How do I assess the page rank of an entire site?
I'd like to capture the PageRank of every page that's part of a single, large site (~5000 pages), preferably as a .csv covering page title, URL and PageRank. Is there a reliable service, free or pay, that does that?
Wheat as an allergen catalyst?
I don't seem to be allergic to wheat, but eating wheat makes me allergic to many other things, including uncooked fruits, nuts and vegetables (except citrus), general seasonal allergies, animals, etc. When I stop eating wheat, my allergies to ALL of these things go away. It's crazy. Why does this happen? [more inside]
iPod NYTimes app or Kindle NYTimes subscription?
Cost aside, should I swap an iPod Touch + NYTimes app with a Kindle + NYTimes subscription? My iPod Touch is too distracting; a Kindle would be less so. On the other hand, I love the free NYT app. [more inside]
Nutritional recipe calculator and meal planning software for Mac
Seeking recommendations for recipe calculator, nutrition analysis, and meal planning software for Mac. Snowflakeness inside. [more inside]
Pay off mortgage early in tough economy?
If we have 30K in savings, and owe 200000 on a new house with 5% interest, do we want to put 10K of that into our 30 year mortgage as an early payment? Complicated by my feelings about the economy... [more inside]
Minds, How Do They Work?
What's the best book to provide an up-to-date view on our current understanding of the human mind (and brain)? [more inside]
It's ALIVE! and it thinks (coding DNA and Neural Nets for fun)
Amateur coder looking to make a "toy" Neural Net and also genetic/phenotypic DNA evolution/breeding system for a "virtual pet" game. Any tools that can make this approachable for me, preferably in Python? [more inside]
How can I get the cable company to ease on down the road?
Is there anything I can do to attempt to persuade the cable company (Charter in my case) to run service to my house? [more inside]
How to throw fundraiser for cancer patient?
My mom has cancer. Her sisters are throwing a fundraiser to offset her medical bills and pay for a trip. Please help me understand their obligation to donors and the powers that be. [more inside]
Noisy wall
What are the possible causes of this noise in my wall? [more inside]
Does the brain compensate for the loss of a sense?
Is there any science behind the myth that if an individual loses one sense, the brain compensates by increasing the accuracy of the others?
Life stinks, I'd like to change it.
I should probably talk to a therapist, but what can I do ON MY OWN regarding general distaste for my life complicated by apathetic depression? Wall of text inside. [more inside]
How to be anonymous on the internet?
What's the best way to start an anonymous correspondence with someone? [more inside]
Portland, Chicago, or Austin?
Should I move to Portland, OR; Chicago, or Austin? Or somewhere I haven't thought of? [more inside]
Help me set up a really easy proxy server from an old desktop/laptop!
How can I build a laptop/desktop into a proxy server so I can access websites, Youtube, Facebook, download files no matter where I am? (Win XP box preferably) [more inside]
What Not To Wear, Jewelry Edition?
I think I'm good on the clothing part, but what I've never been able to do is figure out accessories. Help? [more inside]
Help me keep these new Diesel shoes awesome forever and ever
Help me keep these new Diesel shoes awesome forever and ever [more inside]
Apple flambe!
Asking for a friend: What is the best cooling station for a Macbook (13", not Pro)? [more inside]
Stop me if I'm making a viewing mistake!
Red Riding Trilogy Viewing Filter: Only parts 2 and 3 are available for instant viewing on Netflix, and I am tempted to watch them tonight before viewing part 1. Am I making a mistake, or is it okay to pick up a third of the way through and just watch part 1 when it's released?
This afternoon in midtown manhattan
What interesting thing can I do this afternoon in midtown Manhattan (with airlines cabin baggage)? [more inside]
A Southern Californian Painter of Trains
Please help me find information on Svenningsen, a Southern Californian painter who favored trains, active in the 70s. [more inside]
“Canada is the essence of not being. Not English, not American, it is the mathematic of not being. And a subtle flavour - we're more like celery as a flavour”
Canadian Immigration Question. How best to assure that I acquire permanent residency in Canada by the time I graduate? [more inside]
What happened to my water supply line?
Bizarro-world clog? The water tank on a guest room toilet no longer fills at all; all other water in the house is fully operational. Supply valve appears to be fully functional (and wide open). Thoughts? [more inside]
Repurposing a kitchen cart as a vanity
Can this kitchen cart be repurposed as a bathroom vanity by people who aren't very handy? We want to use it for a vessel sink and can't find any vanities in our price range in this finish/color of wood. [more inside]
Searching for anniversary Dr. Pepper in Chicago
Searching for Anniversary Dr. Pepper in Chicago. [more inside]
UPS runtime
UPS/Battery backup question - I need a battery backup power source that will last as long as possible. My load is only 30w, so I understand that even a small UPS will power it ok - but I need to maximize the time that the UPS will continue to keep it going. [more inside]
Suspension of Disbelief - How Can I do this?
Suspension of Disbelief - How come some can do it and others can't?
Why can't I? [more inside]
Oh baby!
Please suggest good locations for hosting a baby shower in the Ashburn, VA area. [more inside]
It's a series of tubes, right?
What is something useful that I can do through the internet that I'm probably not already doing? [more inside]
Necessitamos cantas en Espanol, por favor!
There's been some great questions on children's music before, but I'm looking for a twist... Kids music in Spanish. [more inside]
What wedding gift for the couple that has everything?
What wedding gift do I get for a very rich couple? [more inside]
But low cholesterol is good, right?
What should I do about a reported low HDL and high LDL/HDL ratio? [more inside]
What are good enrichment programs / opportunities for Canadian high school students?
What are good enrichment programs for Canadian high school students? [more inside]
Cycling music playlist
Music-playlist-filter. An attempt at the world 24 hour record for producing electricity by cycling needs a soundtrack. Can you suggest some appropriate music? I'm thinking cycling, electricity, endurance would all be good themes, but any other related themes would be welcomed too.
Playing music in the 21st Century
Playing music in the 21st Century - help me with mp3 players, HDD media players and internet radio. [more inside]
Windows on a Mac for gaming?
I'd like to know your opinions and recommendations on running Parallels or VMWare when I upgrade to my future MacBook Pro for relatively light Windows gaming. [more inside]
Nerds Ruminating Upon Nerds
Please recommend some TV shows and other forms of storytelling that are in a very specific and possibly just now emerging genre? [more inside]
AI or BS??
So what's the deal with Ray Kurzweil? [more inside]
multitasking: why can't I?
multitasking: am I the only one who can't? [more inside]
Brands getting desparate?
In London, Barclays Bank has sponsored the public cycle hire scheme. Any other recent examples of a big brand sponsoring something seemingly unrelated? [more inside]
Google is dangerous
My sister has a stalker and there is information about her online that she cannot remove. Help! [more inside]
Holey Marble!
How do you chemically carve a hole in a piece of marble or granite? [more inside]
Why does my laptop crash when watching streaming videos?
Why does my laptop crash after watching streaming videos (BBC iplayer / Youtube) for about 40 minutes? How would I go about investigating / fixing it? [more inside]
August 19
Hit it off with a complete stranger...should I ask him out?
How do you (a girl) ask a complete stranger out after one great conversation?
Guys out there...need advice mostly from you...how do you take being asked out by a cute, bubbly, intelligent, financially independent girl? [more inside]
Is peroxide an okay option for people with ear tubes?
ENT-filter: Question about following my doctor's too vague instructions about treating a clogged up ear tube (in an adult ear that had a myringotomy + ear tube inserted three weeks ago) with hydrogen peroxide. I would especially like to hear from doctors and/or people who have had myringotomies and/or tubes. [more inside]
Econ Filter - Housing prices vs. interest rates.
Econ Filter - Housing prices vs. interest rates. [more inside]
You know how some southern gentlemen kept wearing their Confederate uniforms? not like that.
Help me make my science-fiction story more realistic: what kind of mistakes might give away a bunch of born-and-bred military types trying to go undercover as civilians? Or, if you had military experience, what habits did you have to unlearn/relearn after discharge, that might be confusing or difficult if you hadn't had a civilian life previously and your off-duty time was much more regimented? [more inside]
Need to cut the cable! Mac Mini?
We want to replace our cable TV with a Mac Mini. We watch mostly documentaries, cooking shows and cartoons. She loves cheesy horror movies, and I love baseball and pro football. Apart from Netflix, what do we need to live cable-free?
Washington D.C. Trip
Planning a trip in mid/late december to Washington D.C. and am not sure what sort of clothing/essentials should be taken with me; as I've never been there before. Your help is appreciated.
Help; we can't breathe!
What are our legal options for relief from a neighbor's constant, extreme cologne when we have a severe, documented medical response? [more inside]
Traveling in Nagano Japan in November
We're looking for advice surrounding travel in the Nagano area in Japan during the second week of November. We have an itinerary planned, we just want to know if it's realistic and what we can expect in terms of weather and travel. We're also interested in accommodation and food suggestions. [more inside]
How do I get more motivation to code outside of class?
I'm lacking motivation to code outside of programming classes... I enjoy the classes a lot, but when it comes to coding outside of class, I get stuck on what I want to code or what kind of projects to contribute to. [more inside]
Who the fuck is Eminem, anyway?
What rap/hip hop music should a very un-hip fella start by listening to? [more inside]
I want to make an External HDD a NAS and a DAS. But How?
Is there any way I can connect my External USB hard drive to my PS3 non-wirelessly while still sharing it wirelessly with other devices (iPad, iPod and other PCs in my house) using an Airport Extreme and a 4 port USB hub? I have a gut feeling that there must be a way to do this but I can't actually work out a real world way to do this. I accept I may potentially need to buy a new cable or two but I can live with that. Any ideas? [more inside]
Mid-Atlantic lakeshore campsite recommendations?
Does anyone have any recommendations for fall car-camping spots on a lake in the mid-Atlantic/northeast region? Bonus points for dark sky areas. [more inside]
Waiting is the hardest part
Thanks to the suggestions in this post I have decided that I need to tell a fantastic guy that I really like him. Yay! Problem? He's leaving for a week and my anxiety is going to drive me nuts. [more inside]
You don't know me?
I have a fear that people will perceive my intentions as the exact opposite of what they really are. I'm scared the people who I feel friendly towards will perceive me as hostile, rude, or uncaring. I worry that those I love the most will think I don't care. What the heck is my problem? And what can I do to straighten myself out? [more inside]
Help me fix my faucet
Fixing my faucet: I'm trying to fix a leaky faucet, but I can't disassemble the handle. There's a picture inside. Any advice on what to do, or which forums to post to for advice, would be much appreciated! [more inside]
Help, I need a lift.
Medical filter: I have insurance but it will not cover a mobility device that I require. [more inside]
I like it. I want to put a ring on it. Halp.
I need help finding where to buy a sapphire engagement ring! [more inside]
Help me, help her, help me be the best husband I can be!
How do you work out reciprocation in your marriage/partnership/relationship? [more inside]
Hebrew music?
I'm looking for Israeli music and/or music in Hebrew. [more inside]
Help me communicate clearly!
Help me become more articulate...at work.... [more inside]
Dreams vs Responsibility: How can I balance my life?
How can I become a responsible adult without getting my dreams lost in the process? Can they be one and the same? [more inside]
My sister has Michael Scott syndrome! What can I do?
What do I do about an attention-hungry relative? I am worried about how she will act at an upcoming funeral! [more inside]
Not even creative enough to come up with a title
How do I become more creative? [more inside]
Name This Baby
What should we name this unborn person (gender unknown)? [more inside]
Three hundred fifty miles and a mule.
What is the least expensive way to move one's belongings and furniture one-way, 340 miles in-state? [more inside]
What's a semi-easy way to earn money online?
What's a semi-easy way to earn money online? [more inside]
Page not found
Intranet sunset advice? Looking for advice, plans, stories etc from anybody who has shut down an intranet. [more inside]
How to convert my AVCHD files to....anything playable
I have a Canon HFS100 camcorder that creates very clear, very sharp, very, very processor-intensive AVCHD video files (.mts extensions). Is there a simple way to convert these to a different codec, ideally upon import, so that my HTPC can play the files? [more inside]
Why are so many planes registered in Wilmington, DE?
Is there really one airplane for every eight people in Wilmington, DE? [more inside]
How did a paper towel get in my crank case?
My motorcycle died recently. Eight miles after picking it up the shop where I had the carburetors serviced. They had it for over a month and presumable had the carbs off for a while. I took off the engine cover today and found paper towel chunks everywhere. The brown public restroom kind. Any idea how it got in there? [more inside]
Random text --> Mdxrtt Eano
I'm looking for a program that will take a block of text, mix up the characters in the block, and then spit a mixed up block with the exact same character count. Where would I find such a thing?
How to Keep two PCs Synched
I have a netbook. I also have a home PC. I would like for the content of them to be largely identical. How can I easily (and cheaply) accomplish this? [more inside]
Jordan travel advice?
Jordan travel advice? [more inside]
How to send 5GB files??
How can I send HUGE files over the internet? (5GB, 20GB, etc)? [more inside]
How to get Windows Live Mail to send my email?
I am using Windows 7, my Windows Live Mail acts fine until I have been on it a few minutes and then I cannot get it to send my Outbox mail and when I try to sync it I get error message "internet not connected" - if I disconnect from internet and reconnect my Outbox sends it then. How can I get it to stay connected or wake up to send and receive emails?
Cheap minimalistic CDMA phone?
What is a cheap, minimalistic CDMA mobile phone (something along the lines of the Blue Chip VX1)? The interwebs haven't turned up anything for me, really. [more inside]
Health Insurance
What is the difference between a High Deductible Comprehensive health insurance plan and a Traditional Comprehensive insurance plan? [more inside]
Bees on a dead frog.
Dead frog covered in bees...why? [more inside]
Zzzzzzzzzz the chicken has a machette. No mummy I can't play the piano....
How can I dream more...? [more inside]
Rory wants to be better cleanshaven
Straight razor vs. safety? [more inside]
Help me be an amazing executive assistant!
Can you give me advice, tips, useful skills, and important details on becoming a fantastic executive assistant? Please feel free to be as general or specific as you would like. Lots of details and [more inside]
Pretend it's Johnny Cash's bucket list...
I'm making a tourism list of things involving smoking, drinking and shooting for someone who loves all three. Where would I find places that fit the bill? [more inside]
Asking ex-wife to change her name
Can I, should I, dare I ask my ex-wife to stop using my last name? [more inside]
How can I be professional and sharp without the boots and braces?
I'm a 28 year old woman. I know what aesthetic I want, where I can I buy clothing to make me into the butch-ish, 60s mod/skinhead of my dreams? [more inside]
Problems getting my little Assus online:
I need some advice about getting my little Assus online: [more inside]
What is a good tablet computer for presentations by a clumsy professor?
I am trying to move from plastic transparencies in my teaching to a tablet computer. The reason I would like a tablet computer is that (in some classes) I work through problems (including circling and scribbling) with student input. An added issue is that I have a slight tremor, so I would like forgiving software or a large screen. (The iPad has too small a screen and is designed for touch, not writing.) I can use any OS. Any advice?
How do you prevent bouts of PMS from getting in the way of your exercise?
Ladies of Metafilter: how do you prevent bouts of PMS from getting in the way of your exercise? [more inside]
Who do we contact at the Oregon DHS to report an abusive work situation?
Who do we contact at the Oregon DHS to report an abusive work situation? [more inside]
Forgive someone who stole from you?
Is it possible to forgive and go on loving someone who stole from you? (Long-winded story inside) [more inside]
Does salary requirement have to be in its own document?
A job ad says: "To apply for this opportunity, please submit a cover letter, salary requirements and resume online to [EMPLOYER].
[EMPLOYER] must receive all information requested in order to consider your candidacy.
Could they possibly be expecting the salary requirement to be in its own document? Or can it be included in the cover letter? I am concerned about getting immediately screened out if I don't have a separate salary document.
porrón. porrón.. porrón. pom pom
How can I buy a Spanish porrón around Lyon in France?
Looking for a Philly doctor
Out-of-towner in Philly for the foreseeable future needs a GP, for general checkup as well as to look at a possible STD symptom. [more inside]
Which bike is better for me?
Need help choosing between two bikes. [more inside]
Resort options around Lake of the Woods?
Looking for suggestions for destinations around Lake of the Woods in Ontario for a large-scale family vacation. Also, how do you make it pleasant for all involved? [more inside]
Be there AND be square.
I am looking for a small square rug to place under our breakfast table, and I need to find it fast in Austin, TX. Where in Austin should I look for such rugs? [more inside]
I love you, buddy.
I had to put my dear, grumpy, 16-year-old cat down yesterday. There were some things that I wish the vet's office had done differently, and I need some perspective on how to deal with it. TL;DR. [more inside]
i thought everything was on the internet?!
lyrics filter: Andrea Wittgens' "Comme Tu Veux" [more inside]
What do you wish you'd known when you moved into a shared house?
What do you wish you'd known when you moved into a shared house? [more inside]
Save a future thumb -- help me assemble a first aid kit for my husband's woodshop.
Save a future thumb -- help me assemble a first aid kit and emergency plan for my husband's woodshop. [more inside]
How to move/ship my stuff from Istanbul to HCMC Vietnam?
I'm moving from Istanbul to HCMC, Vietnam in 2 weeks. What is the easiest and cheapest way to get all my stuff there, too? [more inside]
Dis Otter Pop is Frozen but the otter Otter Pop Isn't
Food science, sort of: Why are the Otter Pops we purchased freezing unevenly and somewhat randomly? [more inside]
Did Modigliani really sign other painter's paintings to up-sell them?
Surely Heidegger didn't actually walk about the woods in van Gogh's boots, right? Anecdotes in Wittgenstein's Mistress: complete fictions or some basis in truths? [more inside]
I'm not Bruce Banner, why are my seams ripping?
Help me fit into a suit! [more inside]
How do I mount the unmountable?
It's so, soooo secret even I cannot read it....Truecrypt idiocy story inside. Help! [more inside]
Which Of My Friends Has The Most Friends?
Is there a way to see which of my Facebook friends has the most friends? [more inside]
Help me make 100 miles without casualties.
Cyclists! I just committed to do a century in two weekend's time. I'm a strong cyclist but haven't gone anywhere near that distance in a long time. I'd love your strategies and tips on quickie training, prep, and how to manage the ride. [more inside]
Is there a clearance section on Book Depository?
As any fan of the site would know, Book Depository often have massive discounts (30-40%) on their already super-cheap books. Does anyone know if they list these in a clearance section, or if one can sort books via their % discount?
"Civilian Contractors 2: World in Flames" just isn't as catchy
What is the difference between a civilian contractor and a mercenary? [more inside]
Why do I have nightmares every night?
Why do I have nightmares EVERY night? [more inside]
Flexibility and Range of Motion
I'm a (female, if it matters) beginning weightlifter trying to build lean muscle mass through exercise and a structured nutrition program. However, my progress has been stymied by my lack of flexibility and range of motion in my shoulders, hips, and legs, making proper form for squats and deadlifts very difficult. What are some exercises that I can do to correct this, and is there any hope that I'll ever be able to touch my toes? [more inside]
Renting cars cheaply and calmly
Need some help on car rental logistics plus dealing with potential !DRAMA! on a family trip to Disney World. [more inside]
Macbook Pro's are great, but at what cost?
I am considering the local purchase of a Macbook Pro on Craiglist. Some of the circumstances around the sale are making me skeptical. I would appreciate your thoughts and advice. [more inside]
How can I support the Ground Zero Mosque?
How can I help support the "Ground Zero" Mosque? [more inside]
I choose Sweden!
What logistical hurdles exist for implementing a differential taxation system where the level of government services you receive is determined by the taxation rate you choose to pay? [more inside]
Pre-op antibiotics, yay or nay?
I'm getting all four of my impacted wisdom teeth out tomorrow. In a study done in 2007, one dose of pre-op antibiotics has been shown to lower infection rates by 50%, and might do more good than several days of antibiotics post-op. My oral surgeon's office apparently does not follow that practice. Is there any danger in me taking one of the doses of amoxicillin that has already been prescribed for this procedure the night before? [more inside]
Stopping is a state of mind
Carfilter: I have a 2003 Ford Explorer (2WD, 2-wheel ABS) with 98k miles whose brake pedal requires more travel and pressure to get the vehicle to stop. I've checked the fluid--as has the repair shop every time it gets its oil change--as well as the pads and booster pump compression. My gut says to change the master cylinder. [more inside]
Moving to Spain! ...now about that whole "job" thing...
Planning a move to Spain - job advice needed. [more inside]
Should I quit therapy for financial reasons?
Should I quit therapy for financial reasons? [more inside]
look, backwards with no hands...
Where can I find California state laws regarding driving a vehicle in reverse? [more inside]
Afternoon + evening in San Jose, Costa Rica
We arrive in San Jose, Costa Rica, around 3 in the afternoon and fly out early the following morning. What are the best sights, sounds, and tastes that can be packed into this short time? [more inside]
Best writers about web design?
Who are the most articulate, perceptive, knowledgeable writers about web design?
Don't know much about biology
Trying to make sense of the readings on my weight scale ... [more inside]
Gifts for my 20-something world-traveling motorcycling brother?
My younger brother (late 20's, American ex-pat living in Sydney) is planning a solo motorcycle trip across Australia then up through South Asia to Russia (skipping China). What should I give him for his upcoming birthday? [more inside]
Is Sydney's future in the finance sector?
Is Sydney's future in finance? If so, will there be a significant demand for more skyscrapers/offices with large floorplates than are already available or being built, to meet the needs of this growing sector? [more inside]
Heat Rash City
I went to two different types of doctors for my heat rash, which has lasted a month so far. Both offered different diagnoses and different treatment plans. Who do I listen to? [more inside]
Houseguest overstaying her welcome
A friend who was there for me when I needed her is now completely taking advantage of my kindness. Is it fair of me to want her out? (Apologies for a long story inside). [more inside]
How to deal with unbridled and unwarranted hate towards me?
How can I grow a thicker skin and deal with internet hate? [more inside]
How do you deal with making mistakes?
When you make a real mistake, how do you deal with it? How do you deal with yourself and keep from feeling super guilty? [more inside]
What is an appropriate gift, if any, to someone I barely know who is leaving for college?
What is an appropriate gift, if any, to someone I barely know who is leaving for college? [more inside]
Hellenistic influences of the early Christian church?
I am interested in finding a layman's book about the Hellenistic influences of early Christianity. (Basically how Christianity either adopted or smuggled it in. Not sure which word to use.)
Batman story ID
Can you help me find this Batman story? [more inside]
Beyond Comment ca va
Different "how are yous" in different languages? [more inside]
I need a way for people to get my attention while I am wearing heaphones.
How to attract the attention of a be-headphoned person in a cube across an aisle facing away from the entrance without touching them? Ideally this would be inexpensive and not require any hardwiring. [more inside]
Must I wear the same earrings til Thanksgiving?
It's still painful to try to remove my starter earrings. Should it be? [more inside]
What are some good non-refrigerated food ideas for Burning Man?
What are some good non-refrigerated food ideas for Burning Man? [more inside]
Which car is quiet, fast, and reliable?
Which car is quiet, fast, and reliable? [more inside]
Good dehumidifier for crawl space?
What's a good dehumidifier for a crawl space? I've read the posts on dehumidifiers for basements, but does a crawl space require something more robust? I'm trying to decide whether I can get away with something I can pick up easily at a big box store for a few hundred dollars, or whether I need to spend double or triple that.
ipad/iphone is recognized by iphoto but not itunes
I am trying to sync my ipad and iphone to my new imac. I transferred all of my information to my new imac from my mac mini via ethernet yesterday. Now my ipad and iphone are recognized by iphoto but not itunes. I checked, and I have the latest version of itunes installed. (I also have 3 separate accounts on the computer if that makes any difference).
Please help!
How to make a Damascus Steel Style LARP sword?
LARPfilter - How to make a Damascus Steel style LARP sword [more inside]
Favorite groups/volunteering opportunities/events venues in London?
I'm an American moving to London soon. Because I don't know anyone there, I'm going to try to join some groups, take classes, and volunteer to meet people and generally just get out of my house.
Of course, finding available classes and volunteering opportunities is easy, but it's considerably harder to figure out which ones are actually likely to be worthwhile.
What groups, volunteer organizations, classes, and events venues have you had the best experiences with? [more inside]
Top of my to do list, bottom of my fun list
Help me not be an idiot while buying a used car! (Some Rav4 specific details.) [more inside]
August 18
Which scoot to buy, Aprilia or Lance?
What scooter to choose, a 2004 Aprilia Mojito Custom 150 for $2000, or a 2010 Lance Cali Classic 125 for $1500? [more inside]
Where to find a high quality version of the OLD Venezuelan flag to buy?
Where to find a high quality version of the OLD Venezuelan flag to buy? [more inside]
Should I say "more money please"?
Offered a job at a start-up. Salary decent but not amazing, no benefits. Should i start negotiating, if so how so? [more inside]
Tumblr architecture?
In what programming language and language framework is Tumblr written? [more inside]
Looking for a Better APY
I'm considering an online bank for the higher rates of return available on a large sum of cash that I've been saving, but I'm sort of a Luddite, and I would appreciate your input. [more inside]
Is there a palentologist in the house?
How much weight can a Pterodactyl/Pterosaur lift? Specifically something big like Quetzalcoatlus or Hatzegopteryx? [more inside]
Help! My internet connection sucks!
My internet connection has slowed to a crawl. Please help! [more inside]
Mathematical sequences challenge
Mathematical sequences challenge. Need your help. [more inside]
It's academic
I'm looking for academic/scholarly/somewhat-serious articles discussing anime and/or manga. [more inside]
Have you had any experience with 3M command strips?
Have you had any experience with 3M command strips? [more inside]
Which are the Best iTunes Radio Stations?
iTunes radio listeners: What do you like? [more inside]
Help me design and decorate a retro dining space!
Help me find a high table, solid high chairs, and assorted furnishings for my retro kitchen table / sidebar nook in San Francisco! [more inside]
Yellow Pages or Highway Robbery?
Is it important to be in the Yellow Pages anymore? [more inside]
free online directory of all businesses?
Is there an online directory that lists the address of all stores and businesses? [more inside]
Office Renovation
I've a lovely office at work and I want to redecorate. The result should be a cross between a Victorian scholar's study and Captain Nemo's cabin. Suggestions and sources appreciated!
Excel delimiters in one column
Excel filter: How to insert delimiters within one column?? [more inside]
Is the parenthetical "read" pronounced "reed" or "red"?
Is the parenthetical "read" pronounced "reed" or "red"? [more inside]
How to Hug on Facebook
How can I hug my friend on Facebook? [more inside]
Google Chrome stores complete text of pages. How do I access this cache?
Do you use the Google Chrome browser? Try this: Open the history page, and search for a term. The resulting list will include not just the pages that have the term in their page's title or URL; it will also include pages that have the term in the actual text.
This indicates that somewhere, Chrome is actually storing the text of all web pages you visit. (This is backed up by the fact that the search-results page shows you snippets from the results.) So here's the thing: I want to see the whole page of cached text, not just snippets. [more inside]
What's best for maintaining wood and leather furniture?
For the first time in my life, I have real furniture! Can you help me keep it nice? [more inside]
Help me find clothes that fit correctly
I'm a tall (6'3"), somewhat slim (200lbs) man, and I'm having a hard time finding clothes that fit appropriately. Any recommendations on where I should shop? [more inside]
Share your wisdom, oh cheese lovers!
Talk to me about cheese! What do you pair with cheese that I'm not considering? I don't eat grains, corn or rice so I'm having trouble coming up with something not cracker-and-cheese or cube-of-cheese for my fix of dairy goodness [more inside]
Getting the wife a new iPhone, and things related.
My wife wants to get an iPhone, and is currently on Verizon. I already have one. What's the best route for us to go? If she gets an iPhone4, can I take it and give her the 3GS just by swapping the SIM cards? What is your experience with AT&Ts family plans, or are we better off having separate accts? Does ordering the phone online make anything more difficult? [more inside]
How to make your own Bank Note?
What are those cool swirly whirly patterns called on the back of playing cards and on Bank Notes? I want to create some, how do I go about finding how these are made? Is there source materials/tutorials for vector programs to get started? [more inside]
Busted being unwittingly pervy at work
This morning at work, I was in a one-on-one meeting with a valued (and, yes, attractive) female colleague. While we were talking, she caught me looking up her skirt (yes, it was blatant). I looked up, and realized I was busted.
At that point, she tugged her skirt down, rolled her eyes slightly, and got up and left (muttering an excuse that she had to "make a call").
I'm still really mortified that this happened. What should I do now? Should I say something to her? Apologize? Ignore the fact that this encounter ever happened? What's the least awkward way of proceeding, knowing that we'll likely be working together for a lot longer?
Men: Have you ever gotten busted this way? What did you do?
Women: Have you ever been in this position? Did you lose your respect for the peeper, or do you generally assume that most dudes are trying to peek at you whether you notice or not?
Any advice would be valued. (If it matters, I'm male, she's female, we're both straight, and are about the same age.)
Why am I going crazy waiting for a proposal?
We know we want to get married. We have a general idea of when. But I'm going crazy waiting for the proposal. Help? [more inside]
How bad is this going to hurt?
Kidney stone filter: What am I really in for? Give it to me straight. [more inside]
Why did my adapter go out, and how do I prevent that?
On Sunday morning we had a power outage here. My Mac's power adapter seems to have gone bad as a result, but none of my other computer parts did. What's the deal? [more inside]
1-stop post-rock gig listings in the UK please!
What is the best and easiest way to find out about instrumental post-rock in the UK? [more inside]
Where can I find a pickup volleyball game in NYC?
I just moved to New York City (Ridgewood, Queens) and I'm looking for any place to find regular pick up volleyball games. I'd join a league but I don't have tons of money and my schedule is pretty erratic for the time being. [more inside]
FBML image maps will be the death of me!
Trying to create image map in Facebook and used image-maps.com now my image is HUGE and distorted. What's wrong? [more inside]
Enterprise Desktop Management Packages?
Looking for a good enterprise desktop management suite for Windows 7, that will allow us to push out updates for all apps, inventory software, etc. [more inside]
Fixing broken links in Excel (when it's not in a formula
How do I find and fix broken links in Excel.... when it's not in a cell formula? [more inside]
Home Library
I would like to establish a home library. What do I need to know? [more inside]
Are there any modern communes in the US or a way i can co-parent?
Are there any modern communes in the US where people live in groups, share responsibilities, maybe are conscious, green etc? Relatedly, is there a way to be the 3rd or 4th parent? Being a single parent or even in dyad parenting seems like too much responsiblity...but being the 3rd or 4th parent (to go to soccer games, PTA meeting, car pool, make lunchs) sounds like a responsibility i could handle. I don't live in a community with children around so i can't offer up my co-parent services and it also sounds a bit creepy being 37 and wanting to babysit. Is there a way i can create this kind of community? I feel that i would make a great back up mommy.
Help me find the perfect dining table
The perfect dining table exists in my head. Does it in real life? [more inside]
How Do I Find An Unpublished Post In WordPress?
According to my WordPress dashboard, I have a total of 1,992 posts, of which 1,991 are published. Without searching through all 1,992 individually, how do I find the one unpublished post?
Go on, take the money and run
Please help me find more songs about lovers on the run from the law. [more inside]
Where did the good travel insurance finder website go?
Travel Insurance Finder? [more inside]
How can I order this NASA photo?
How can I get a copy of this NASA photo? It's a picture of the cast of Star Trek with the Space Shuttle Enterprise, number 50 in this Air & Space article of the top 50 NASA photos. [more inside]
How do Peace Corps (or similar) volunteers communicate their experiences in the field?
What tools do Peace Corps (or similar) volunteers use to communicate their experiences in the field? I'm especially looking for creative uses of digital/web communication tools: Facebook, Twitter, Flickr, blogs, etc.. Bonus points for any good examples. Thanks!
Map to some maps
I need a map to some maps: What is the name of the collection/series of beautiful maps of New York City, over time, and where might I find it? [more inside]
Wife has cancer (terminal, eventually) -- is it right/okay to have children?
My wife has (inevitably terminal) cancer, but we are considering trying to have a baby -- need some help identifying and giving thought to moral, ethical, and medical concerns. My family and friends are too close to the situation to give unbiased advice. [more inside]
Does Sparty tackle a fake wolverine mascot?
Does Michigan State have a wolverine mascot that it brings out before MSU v. Michigan football games in East Lansing just so Sparty can tackle it? [more inside]
****ing batteries, how do they work?
Questions about priming a new battery to maximize its efficiency. [more inside]
Fucking Crossfit, how does it work?
What should I know about Crossfit, and what should I be cautious about? [more inside]
How do I/should I address my current position being moved while applying for new jobs?
How do I/should I address my current position being moved while applying for new jobs? [more inside]
I was fired from a place I love. Help me
I was just fired from a job I love, which also happened to be a place I spent a great deal of time socially. How do I cope? [more inside]
Where can I find great new crime or mystery short fiction?
I want to read new crime fiction and/or mystery short stories. Where should I look? [more inside]
How do I keep light from coming underneath my bedroom door and the Roomba from shutting it?
I have two problems with the bedroom door in my apartment. First, light gets through the 0.5-inch gap underneath it and wakes me up. Second, my Roomba bounces against it, causing the door to bounce against its spring doorstop and close, trapping the Roomba inside. [more inside]
Why are my cat(s) peeing in the basement?
Yet another cat pee question. Bonus level of difficulty: multiple cats, culprit unknown. [more inside]
Temporary move to Europe
Want to move to Europe. Understand many have done it before, but let me give more detail and then ask for advice.
We're both in our early 30's, single (no kids) and have high-paying jobs, but ready to leave the corporate world. Both are debt free and have a good nest egg with zero commitments here.
What we'd like to do is move to a mid-size town/city in Germany to start with and rent a furnished apartment for three months or so and just live. We would be very frugal, but like any single men, would like to meet European women and just have a good time dating around. Then, move to another country and repeat..and so on for about a year.
In thinking it through, I'm wondering if it's really feasible. I was hoping if we split expenses and live cheaply, we could do it for about $1k/month each...if we avoid the big, tourist filled cities. That way we could immerse ourselves in the local cultures and get to know people as well. My questions:
1) Is this absolutely ridiculous?
2) Is there any chance of picking up odds/ends kind of work here and there in Europe to fill the reserves up? While we have healthy bank accounts, we want to spend little as possible.
Any comments are much appreciated. Casting a wide net at this point to get any advice you are willing to give. Looked around the net, but love the meta-commenters the most...always useful answers.
How do I deal with careless ‘rape’ remarks?
How do I deal with careless ‘rape’ remarks? I am the original submitter of this anonymous AskMe post about disclosing my rape to an organization. [more inside]
Help me to help me
Several months ago I had a bad anxiety attack. Since then, I have had an extremely heightened sense of self-awareness and have even become a bit agoraphobic (I understand this to be common after an attack). Common situations/activities that once felt natural, effortless even enjoyable (driving, shopping, taking kids to the park) can now induce panic because I over analyze everything. How can I return to my "normal" level of self-awareness and learn to go with the flow? Meds? Mind hacks? Cognitive therapy?
Kirtans or Bhajans in India?
I'm a fan of kirtan (sanskrit call-and-response devotional music from India) and am planning a trip to India mid-September to early December. Surprisingly I'm unable to locate online or in my guidebooks any temples or festivals where I might find some great kirtans or bhajans. Do any of you know of any famous ones that might happen this fall? [more inside]
What can I do for my guys?
I'm the systems engineer of a team of about 25 developers and testers that have been working 12-16 hour days for about two and a half weeks straight in order to meet a deadline. What can I bring in to improve morale and keep them going? [more inside]
Illustrating a book - what do I do now?
So, I have to illustrate a book. I've never done this before. I've illustrated before, but not in this professional a capacity, and I'm a little nervous about it. I have nightmares (literally) about using the wrong sort of paper or of the final product looking like nothing I sent in. Those of you who have illustrated professionally before - what can you tell me? What medium do you prefer to use? How do you make the most efficient use of your time? Are there any books on the subject you can recommend? Etc. [more inside]
I see what you did there.
Is there any kind of OSS/otherwise affordable collaborative-editing software akin to Google Docs that one can host on their own system? [more inside]
CHI->CIN->CHI?
Would it be worth it to drive five hours from Chicago to Cincinnati to present a poster at a relatively influential conference for two hours and then drive back?
How do I best advertise office space for rental in Covent Garden?
I'm looking for the best way to rent out some office space in the UK — specifically, one floor of a building in Covent Garden. Help! [more inside]
Tell me where to hike in the northeast US!
My partner and I are planning a week's vacation, focused on hiking, in mid- to late October. We are trying to figure out where in the Adirondacks, Vermont, etc. we should go. [more inside]
Repainting a Concrete Floor?
How do I successfully paint and seal my concrete basement floor? [more inside]
Sorry dude, my kid's thirsty, I'm buying him a bottle of water
How does one remain friends with an uber-environmentalist/naturalist without having them drive you crazy? [more inside]
Help me help them
Is it appropriate to sponsor a fundraiser for an individual and their family and how would I go about organizing this? [more inside]
Taxes on living stipends paid by graduate schools...
TaxFilter: I'm a Canadian who began a Ph.D at an American university. Tuition was waved and I received a living stipend of about $17,000 (paid monthly). This is pretty typical for graduate programs across Canada and the US. [more inside]
a problem for many, it seems: think line appears on screen
Yes. My IMac has that thin blue line on monitor. Yes. lots of folks get this. Question, though. [more inside]
Painting aluminum siding.
Does anyone have any experience with painting aluminum siding? In our case, the siding is blistered and peeling very badly and the bare aluminum is showing. [more inside]
Where Should I Jet To This September
Where should I fly to on my unlimited Jet Blue "All You Can Jet" pass? [more inside]
Intro to Excel for Finance
Help me make a smooth transition into a new job in finance. I need to brush up on technical skills, most likely via excel. [more inside]
Morning sickness & the work place. Ugh.
How do expectant mothers make it through the work day while suffering from morning sickness? [more inside]
Pottery for Dummies
ISO basic ceramics/pottery textbook/handbook. [more inside]
Help me get to grad school without loosing my house!
How to manage my mortgate and insurance while I am away from my house for an extended period? [more inside]
The Job Change Shuffle
I've been working as a consultant to a company that I want to work for full-time, but I don't want to burn any bridges or sour the relationship between my current employer and my (hopefully) soon-to-be employer. [more inside]
Complaining about complainers.
How to handle complaining by people in conversations? I get annoyed by complaining; often it makes me not like the people who complain, and even if I do-- I get standoffish. [more inside]
I'm getting nuttin' for Christmas
The house I am preparing to move into has a "cosmetic" fireplace. It looks like a fireplace, it's built into the wall, but can't be used as one. What clever decorating ideas do you have for it? I'm game for anything--funny, functional, stylish, classic, clever, funky, hell--even some sort of tasteful heat retrofit--just anything that doesn't involve putting a fire in it (that would probably result in death).
Austin, Texas recommendations
Please suggest things to do and places to see in Austin, TX. [more inside]
Don't Want to Rub the Wrong Way
Is it normal for the skin above a fracture to remain sensitive three weeks after a cast is removed? [more inside]
Thanks for the money, I'm gonna spend it all on fancy hats!
Received a small scholarship--any etiquette tips? [more inside]
Being neither overweight, nor a girl, nor a parent, I'm totally out of my depth here.
ParentingFilter: best approach for dealing with childhood obesity? [more inside]
Looking for last-minute Oktoberfest accommodations. Where do we stay?
Looking for last-minute Oktoberfest accommodations. Where do we stay? [more inside]
Would-be colonists beaten by faster ship
Help me remember a science fiction story: colonists beaten to objective by faster earth ship. [more inside]
PDF forms with a twist
Is it possible to create a fillable PDF form that includes logic?
Assume there is a sum calculation with total of $1000.00
If check box = selected, tax=12%,
else if check box off, tax =0.
If check box is selected, the tax field will show $120.00 and the grand total below it (sum of total + tax) will be $1120.00
If check box is not selected, grand total will be $1000.00
What is needed to do the above? Javascript? Any example will be welcome!
BB
Is there a herpetologist in the house?
My son's pet California King snake is acting very odd. Does anybody have an experience with this behavior in snakes? The snake is about 6-7 years old, bred in captivity. We've had him since he was a little less than a year old. He is 4 feet long and eats 1 adult mouse (frozen) a week at this time of year. Google turns up a handful of snake forum posts describing this same behavior, but no real answers. [more inside]
MLA Style for Meeting Minutes?
Is there a standard, or are there a few standards, for keeping meeting minutes? [more inside]
The Happy Hooker - crochet yarn organization?
I'm taking a beginner's crochet course soon, with a view to going on to do amigurumi and maybe (much further down the line) trying a hand at knitting. What do you wish you knew when you started? [more inside]
Dried Venus Fly Trap?
Where can I procure dried venus fly trap? Not extract, not the live plant - just the dried organic herb.
Does it save energy?
My boss insists we turn off our dual 30 inch Apple monitors when we go to the bathroom. He says it wastes energy. But they're still plugged in to the wall and receiving power. How much energy is really being saved?
How safe are my passwords?
How safe are my passwords? [more inside]
Fill out my Map of Awesome
I'm updating my Map of Awesome - who else should be on there? Looking for performance artists, schools, companies, places, and other things that share characteristics of activism, creativity, and pure awesome. [more inside]
Inspirational photo-essays. Show me them.
Looking for inspirational photo-essays. [more inside]
How can I salvage a bad sell on eBay?
My first sale on eBay was a new and unused mobile phone. Turns out that (unknown to me) it wasn’t new and has been used before. This is starting to turn into a bit of a disaster for an eBay virgin and threatens to tar me with a poor sellers rating. Can seasoned eBay’ers please give me some advice! [more inside]
Short term apartment in Lyon?
Recommendations for a short-term Apartment Rental in Lyon, France? [more inside]
Do the SAS walk funny?
Do the SAS have an identifiable way of walking across country? [more inside]
Why does a fully charged battery last for a different length of time depending on how it's charged?
When I charge my phone using a portable charger, the battery runs out quicker than if it's charged from the mains. Why is this? [more inside]
Delayed Release Caffeine Pill
Is a delayed release caffeine pill, one with a coating to prevent it from being digested for 8+ hours, feasible? Would the pill be too far along in the digestive tract to have an effect at that point? How could I make one?
August 17
Bath and Body Works fuer die Maenner
Recommendations for great bath/body products for men? [more inside]
Can't afford smartphone. What will do instead?
A Rumor Touch looks like my best bet to stay with this carrier. I might like the LG Prime, though. Do I have any other good options? Can I find an affordable no-contract smartphone? [more inside]
how can I wall mount an iphone dock? clocks preferable.
I want a wall-mounted iphone dock. a clock would be nice, but I don't need high quality speakers. [more inside]
iTunes replacement?
Is there any nice software that works well with a MP3 library on OSX that is like iTunes was before iTunes became bloated and awful?
A self-imposed mystery
I have a list of seemingly unrelated words that I wrote some time ago. I can't remember writing it, nor what it was meant to signify. Please help shed some light on this for me. [more inside]
Channeling Larry Levan.
Seeking somewhat obscure '80s dance songs that are in the vein of Sheila-E and Exposé in terms of '80s sound, beat, female vocals and danceability. [more inside]
I don't wanna be too short to ride a bike.
Where can I find a cheap bike for a short woman in NYC? [more inside]
Zombiefilter: What is up with this Flemish painting?
Zombie Flemish Art filter: I saw this painting in the Groeninge Museum in Bruges, Belgium. What the hell is going on? [more inside]
Am I getting scammed via craigslist?
I'm not sure if I'm being ripped off on craigslist with this one....he says he'll pay me with paypal. [more inside]
Help me find something new to do with my time
I'm looking for a new inexpensive creative / artistic hobby. [more inside]
Help me survive having my mom here, part II.
How can I manage to stay sane living with a (sometimes) ungrateful mother in a one bedroom apartment, who has attitude problems occasionally? [more inside]
How far can a solar panel be positioned from the light it powers?
Can I position a solar panel a distance from the lights it powers and still have an effective power source? [more inside]
Booking a ferry from Athens to Crete?
How should I book an overnight ferry from Athens to Crete via the Internet? [more inside]
my five year old keeps throwing up!
Why is my five-year-old vomiting constantly? And what do I do? [more inside]
COBRA SNAFU
What to do regarding COBRA coverage being canceled due to negligence of former employer? [more inside]
"Do you have any questions for us?"
Meta-ask: How can I learn to ask better questions? Specifically: how I can learn to ask natural, un-contrived questions in job interviews? [more inside]
Hooking up RCA-out Record Player to headphones?
Hooking up RCA-out Record Player to headphones? [more inside]
I want to smell like food
Help me smell like food! I found this hair stuff that smells vaguely of nutmeg, and it occurred to me how much I like that sort of smell. Are there any personal hygiene products that smell like food or spices? Excluding the typical fruit and vegetable scents, of course.
Biological evidence for homosexuality?
hey... I was wondering where I can find the best evidence to prove that sexuality is biological or womb hormonally rather than child rearing caused? Just for my parents who are damn annoying.
Thanks!
which ibm laptop should i get?
Which new IBM laptop should I get? [more inside]
Filter Google culture for me
What are Google's People Programs people like? [more inside]
Getting treatment for non-emergency medical problem without insurance
I'm 28 and I recently found out I most likely have a serious condition I need treatment for. It will almost certainly involve a urologist and possible (minor) surgery (probably in-office). I have no health insurance, make about 40k a year, but have very little discretionary income. How do I go about this? [more inside]
Help me understand hair care chemistry
Help me understand hair care chemistry. When I look at the list of ingredients on bottles of conditioner, what ingredients should I avoid. I can't stand the 'waxy' feeling I get from some conditioners. My old favorite standby conditioner changed formulas recently and it now has the dreaded waxy ickiness. NOT looking for specific product recommendations, only for ingredients to avoid or possibly ingredients to look for. [more inside]
How to piggy back my media server onto my UVerse network
Can I somehow piggy back my media server on the network cables AT&T is going to use tomorrow for my U-Verse setup? [more inside]
I need to deal with a racist friend.
One of my friends used the N-word. I don't know what to do. [more inside]
Help me figure out if I cheated on an exam last night
Something strange happened during an exam last night when the teaching assistant/proctor and I were alone that has left me feeling weirdly guilty. [more inside]
What can I do to help my severely depressed and overworked boyfriend?
What can I do to help my severely depressed and overworked boyfriend? [more inside]
What type of wirelessly accessible storage solution should I go with in my new home network? Details inside...
What type of wirelessly accessible storage solution should I go with in my new home network? Details inside... [more inside]
What should I do with my Bread Machine?
What are your best bread and non-bread recipes for a bread machine? [more inside]
Drug Dealing Kids
I'm try to find a music video (most likely Rap or R&B) that portrayed two young kids as drug dealers. [more inside]
Creative promotion ideas for a conference.
How do I promote my web design freelance business at a conference I am attending (unrelated to web design)? [more inside]
Quiet, peaceful escape near Vancouver
Where to go for a quiet budget vacation near Vancouver at end of August? [more inside]
Goodbye Paper!
Collegefilter: Entering college in October. How do I stay organised? [more inside]
food + ? = our perfect TV show
Your suggestions for TV that peripherally incorporates yummy things, please. [more inside]
How to deal with an insensitive friend.
Suggestions on how to deal with a friend who is unwittingly insensitive to others despite being quite sensitive herself. I would like to figure out a tactful way to push back on specific insensitive comments. What is the best way to do this? [more inside]
Anyone remember that article on investing in a person?
i read an article a while back about venture capital style investing in an individual. they had some sort of contract where they were giving her a lump sum, and in return would get a cut off of her income for some number of years. anyone know where the original article is?
Cheap health care in the Minneapolis area?
I have catastrophic health insurance for the catastrophes. But until I reach that $3000 deductible, I'd really like to pay less than I currently am for checkups and other simple doctors visits.
For example, I recently went in for an ear infection. My doctor took a look and prescribed an antibiotic. It took 10m and I got a bill for $200. I'm not here to complain about how expensive health care is -- that's pretty well established and has been done plenty already -- but what are my more affordable alternatives? [more inside]
I know I can rock this job, now I just have to feel it.
How can I ease the mental/emotional/logistical transition to a new full time job when I've been an underemployed freelancer for the last few years? [more inside]
Need a restaurant gift certificate for sister's wedding
My sister is getting married, and I'd like to get her a gift certificate to a great, hip Chicago restaurant. My budget's about $200-250 and I'd love to be able to include enough for a bottle of wine. [more inside]
Do I have a legal leg to stand on?
I believe that I've been wrongly accused by my employer of professional misconduct, but I'm not sure. What are my legal rights? [more inside]
A magic laser genie!
I have about 10-15 pounds to lose and am already on a slow but steady diet/exercise regime. However I was just sent an online deal where I'd have the option of buying 12 sessions of RF laser body contouring (similar to Velashape) for only $200 (as opposed to over 2 grand.) Is it worth it to try? [more inside]
Shooting eyeball closeups isn't cutting it anymore
I've been tasked at school to photograph a negative emotion. I had a plan in place which broke to bits when I forgot my camera at school over the weekend. I need to shoot something tomorrow, but I'm having trouble being more creative than some crude and banal ideas for photographs of fear. I can't find inspiration online - all I come up with is crappy stock photography. Can you please point out for me good online and free resources on scene staging in films, resources on photographing emotions or good examples of emotional photos?
SKUH, RUDE, SCREWED
Disputing a bill with the electric company: how to estimate electric usage of heater/central air. [more inside]
Blocked breast duct - what can I expect?
Experiences with mastitis? [more inside]
What should I ask before buying this apartment?
About to buy my first apartment and I'm totally new to this. Does any seasoned house/apartment-buyer have any good questions for a real-estate agent? [more inside]
Referral Madness
Chicken-and-egg medical referral problem here. I'm hoping someone who understands the mysterious world of health insurance and referrals can help out. [more inside]
mrsmoonpie wants to marry you in Dupont Circle
Help me find a quiet place to marry folks in Dupont Circle area. [more inside]
Alternate to Don Alverzo's tweezers?
One Hen, Two ducks, radio test/memory trick VS. alternate version - Are you a Turtle? [more inside]
Where to start on a redesign
Redesigning website. Where to begin? [more inside]
It'll look great next to my Scarface poster and the Periodic Table of Beer.
Affordable reproduction of Wyeth's Northern Point? [more inside]
Lease Issues
I live with two other people in an apartment in Illinois. The lease holder of the apartment was just hospitalized for what be an extrended period and myself and the other apartment-mate are not on the lease. [more inside]
Will the boot fit?
I bought myself a pair of Real Cowboy Boots the other day, and I can't quite figure out if they fit me right. Should I return them and find another pair? [more inside]
Black mesh fabric with large holes?
Where can I find large-holed fishnet/mesh fabric like this? [more inside]
Buzz buzz, your blood is delicious!
We have a mosquito/fly problem, but we live in the city. Help! [more inside]
How to identify a piece of art?
Help identifying a Miró painting, seen in the Fundació Joan Miró. [more inside]
Let's Scare Jessica to Death
Recommendations for thought-provoking books or essay collections that analyze horror movies, please. [more inside]
Help me plan to fly a few places, with a service dog?
Do travel agencies exist any more? If so, will it be worth it to use one for this trip? Can they make it easier to travel with my owner-trained service animal? [more inside]
Help me kill the crackling
Can anyone recommend a guitar shop in central London that does simple set-ups and electrical overhauls? [more inside]
this controller, it vibrates?
What are some neat things I can do with a PlayStation 2? [more inside]
How to password protect a linked file?
I need to send an MP3 music file to a number of email addresses. I want to do this by directing people to a download on a web link, rather than emailing the (large) file direct.
I also want to be able to password-protect the file in that link (either the file or the link), so the music doesn't get passed around beyond the list of recipients.
Does anyone know of any good resources for this?
Thanks, oh wise ones.
If you wrap the Internet around every person on the planet and spin the planet, software flows in the network.
BitTorrent Client recommendation [more inside]
Help me make pulled pork for my wedding
I really want to make my own pulled pork for my wedding next summer - help me make the dream a reality! [more inside]
beer.fm?
Are there any websites like last.fm, but for beer? [more inside]
Why won't anyone house me?
How can I find a short-term sublet not using Craiglist? In Queens. [more inside]
How can I get YouTube to accelerate playback to 2x or 3x?
I love Khan Academy's educational videos on YouTube, but I'm impatient - How can I accelerate YouTube video playback to 2x or 3x speed? [more inside]
Could we survive a dive into water from out terminal velocity?
Say a very light, very healthy person took a dive from some stupidly high altitude, and spread themselves out into a skydiving position so that they just reached their minimum terminal velocity.
Would it be at all possible that this person could survive the drop if they landed in the sea, assuming they quickly rearranged themselves into a more streamlined diving position just before impact?
A restful vacation near Upstate NY?
I’m physically and mentally exhausted and I don’t know how to have a restful vacation anymore. For years I’ve come home from our typical vacations tired and stressed out by too much planning, too much decision making, too much driving and/or flying, and a wife who thinks we have to fill each day with sightseeing from dawn to dusk. This year we only have a week in mid-September and I’m looking for some ideas and suggestions for a more relaxing vacation that’s within about a six-hour drive of western NY. [more inside]
Troubleshooting distortion within turntable.
TurntableFilter: Distortion within 'table itself requires diagnosis and repair. Troubleshooting ideas and/or audio technician recommendations near Boston, MA much appreciated! [more inside]
Figuring out logistics of camping & hiking in Alaska
Camping in Alaska: I'm looking to camp at the Eklutna Lake campgrounds 3 weeks from now on way to a 4 day sojourn into Denali State Park. However, I can't reserve a spot in advance. How likely is it that there will be no free campgrounds available, being slightly after the end of the summer season? What are some similar quality campgrounds in the "between Anchorage & Denali" zone if Eklutna is fully booked? [more inside]
What can do for a few days?
What can two thirty year old dudes do for a few days? We are in Dorset in the UK and have access to cash and a car. Camping will probably be involved, but where shall we go? And what shall we do? Outdoor pursuits and drinking of real ale and cider sound good, any suggestions?
50th anniversary gift ideas for a boyfriend's parents?
What to get a new-ish boyfriend's parents for their 50th anniversary? [more inside]
Help me understand how the Internal Medicine medical boards are scored.
My little brother is re-taking the internal medicine medical boards and I'm trying to get a better understanding of how much he needs to increase his score. [more inside]
Non-mgmt hospitality jobs that pay well
How does one make money in retail/hospitality without becoming a manager? Are there “hidden” lower-level hospitality jobs that pay well? [more inside]
how to bypass google chrome's "Warning: Visiting this site may harm your computer!" page?
how do i bypass google chrome's "Warning: Visiting this site may harm your computer!" page? (ie. put certain sites i frequently visit on a safe white-list of sorts) [more inside]
Help me play videos on my TV
Downloaded TV shows on my TV, so what's the best device to do this? [more inside]
Help me find a job that doesn't break me.
How to find a tech job that doesn't make me crazy? [more inside]
Should I let my girlfriend go to London?
I moved across the country to live with my girlfriend. Now she wants to go abroad for a year, and I don’t want her to go. Are either or both of us being selfish/unreasonable? [more inside]
How does social pressure affect sticktoitiveness?
I want to learn as much as possible about the psychology of purposely forming new habits (like exercising each day) or sticking to something which requires daily work (like learning a language). I am especially interested in the role that social pressure of peers can play in a person's success (Alcoholics Anonymous, study partners, even the recent findings that a person's weight is related to the weight of those close to them may be examples). Books, articles, jumping off points -- academic or otherwise -- would be very much appreciated!
Brr, it's cold in here... oh wait no it isn't.
Our thermostat really wants to heat our apartment. We really want it to cool our apartment. What could be causing this? [more inside]
What are some ubiquitous indie grocery items?
I just saw the Dr. Bronner's Magic Soapbox documentary (great stuff!) and was amazed that they haven't been bought out by a conglomeratated foodstuffs megacorp. [more inside]
Bank a favor vs cold hard cash
Is it better to accept money for a favor or to bank the favor? [more inside]
Reservations about reserves
Navy Reservists filter: How often and how long do you deploy? Have the reserves "interfered" in your formerly civilian lives? [more inside]
Emerging Markets
How can I passively invest in China, Brazil, and India for the long-term? 10-30 years. Help me understand the risks associated with these emerging markets. Should I simply dump my cash into iShares like EWZ or FXI and let it sit? Should I invest in individual companies? Index funds like the Vanguard Emerging Markets? Any thoughts on these investments for the long term? I am a passive investor that usually dumps money into Vanguard index funds. Isn't investing in China and India over the long term kind of a no-brainer? Help me understand what is involved in emerging markets and how I can get better returns than my Electric Orange account.
Something Old, Borrowed, or New
What's a cool gift my wife -- the Maid of Honor -- can give the Bride on her Wedding Day? [more inside]
Twain-esque Road Trip
Road trip filter: what should we see on our trip up the Mississippi between St Louis and Iowa City? (more inside) [more inside]
Texas Contract Lawyer Needed
Looking for a trade secrets/non-compete contract lawyer in Austin, TX for a consultation. How can I find one, and what should I expect to pay? [more inside]
Fluid vs. Resolution Dependent
I've got some questions about resolution dependent vs. fluid layouts in web design... [more inside]
Name these shoes?
Which brand / model of shoes are these?
Colorado Road Trip
5 day road trip through Colorado, where should we go? [more inside]
Where can I find out about browser-related issues when writing CSS/HTML/JavaScript?
Where can I learn about how to deal with browser-related problems when writing CSS, HTML and JavaScript for a web site? [more inside]
Ungrateful entitled prick with his head in the clouds? Or exploited lab rat with legitimate concerns? You make the call!
I'm having trouble dealing with dissatisfaction with my first post-college job, which makes me feel more than a little over-entitled. My frank impression is that the workplace is in shambles and that I'd been lied to in the interview process; more charitably, I'm wondering if perhaps this particular posting just isn't for me. Given the details, what's the best way for me to go about readjusting my mind for the position, readjusting the position for my mind (i.e. closer to what I was told it would be), or giving up the ghost and going for something different? [more inside]
And this is how I met Tyler Durden.
"And this is how I met Tyler Durden." Are there any legitimate lines of psychological therapy that encourage people to create alternate or split identities for themselves? As in, "Today is the first day of the rest of your life as another person that happens to share your name, face and past history." [more inside]
All day long he tucks and fits, and fits and tucks, and tucks and fits....
Please help me find similar pronunciations of profanity and non-profanity for my Korean class e.g., "beach" and "NSFW" [more inside]
What makes me a doctor in UK?
What degree in the UK will allow me to call myself a medical doctor? Can I add a Dr. to my name if I do an MBBS or equivalent, or do I need to complete a specialization? [more inside]
I want THIS over THERE
Why won't my 17" Macbook Pro remember where I put windows when I connect my external monitor? [more inside]
The McDonald's Counter Rush Job. Why?
Why is it that at McDonald's they rush you into ordering as soon as possible? Specifically, if I'm the only person in the store who hasn't ordered and I'm away from the counter deciding what to order, they'll shout at me say, "Can I help you sir?"
This only happens at McDonald's. [more inside]
Best data/ network security cert for a retiree
What technical education or certifications, especially in data or network security, would allow my tech-savvy dad to earn some extra money in retirement? [more inside]
Help me find the best Android resources on the net!
What are the best resources on the net for Android, in terms of apps, and the latest news? [more inside]
Looking for Wired Photos of Salt Flat Racers
Could anyone help me find photos from an article in Wired about racing on
salt flats? [more inside]
Codeshares + baggage fees = confusing!
How are excess-baggage fees handled on this itinerary? [more inside]
Third time's the....nevermind.
Which cardinal rule of dating am I breaking? If I don't know what I'm doing wrong, how can I stop doing it? (Perhaps mildly NSFW). [more inside]
How can I prove I can drive a stick in Ontario?
How can I prove to the UK I can drive a manual transmission in Ontario? [more inside]
Is my homemade 'kraut supposed to smell/taste like this?
I made homemade garlic beet sauerkraut (using green cabbage) and it smells a bit old gym sock (but does not taste like it). Is this how sauerkraut is supposed to smell? It also tastes mostly salty and not very sour even though I let it ferment for well over a month. Is homemade 'kraut just milder than store bought?
Patio Heaters for Cooler Climates
Residential patio heaters, fall and spring in New England or similar climate: your experiences please. [more inside]
Please keep me from slowly destroying all my good stuff.
I have a bunch of pieces of art that I'm not displaying, but I'm not sure how I should be storing them. What's the best way to protect and preserve them (preferably without spending a zillion dollars)? [more inside]
How can I argue down an aberrantly high electrical bill?
Is it possible to get an electrical company to reduce an aberrantly high bill? Bonus complication: it was my final bill, so I no longer live in their service area and I no longer have access to the apartment in question. [more inside]
I want a Wedonknowwhodunnit.
[Bookfilter] Please suggest books where the killer was never caught, or the missing person was never found. Bonus: Non-fiction.
Unclump my histogram
How to smooth a histogram or unclump a dataset. [more inside]
Chance and the Humanities
I'm looking for historic or documented examples of significant research discoveries that occurred as a product of serendipity–specifically in the humanities. Wikipedia's listing on serendipity primarily lists scientific examples. Surely serendipitous discovery occurs in the humanities. What are the best examples?
Looking for a small NAS with SFTP capability
Useful tips for self-learning/becoming an autodidact?
Useful tips for self-learning/becoming an autodidact? [more inside]
The Anti-Kettle
Why can't I buy the opposite of a kettle? Why aren't they commonplace? [more inside]
What's up with my son?
My three-year old son has suddenly started behaving very unusually. Any advice? [more inside]
Function for finding latitude given the Y position on a Mercator world map?
Function for finding latitude given the Y position on a Mercator world map? [more inside]
I want to start a cult, but for music
I want to play music with other people. I want to focus mostly on live performances that skew toward improvisational. Seems easy enough... right? [more inside]
August 16
Whoopie! Pie!
What is your favorite, actually tried and tasted, whoopie pie recipe? Any tips for a first time whoopie pie baker?
Mosaic tile art project advice needed. Are you a mosaicist?
Is anyone here a mosaic tile artist ? I'm looking for a source for mosaic tiles that have a significant range of shading, to construct a monotone tile mosaic from a b&w photo. [more inside]
Mapping for dummies
I want to map the walking tracks and landmarks on a 2000ac property in Australia and produce a printable map image as well as a gps file others can download. I have a Garmin eTrex Vista H but I don't really understand how to use it for my purposes. [more inside]
Help me get to Europe and back
I'm planning a trip to Europe and could use some suggestions about plane/rail logistics. [more inside]
What is the melody sample on track 2 on Sab the Artist EP?
What old RPG is the melody sampled from on track 2 on Sab the Artist EP? [more inside]
Where's Waldo? - The Music Version
Where can I find this type of music-inspired art? [more inside]
How can you support yourself when you can't work full-time?
How do you make money and support yourself with a debilitating illness? [more inside]
Biking to The Cloisters
Can/Should I visit The Cloisters by bicycle? [more inside]
NYC weird stuff to do for visitors.
NYC is large and overwhelming. Romantic partner and I are going for vacation for 4 days (sept 16-20ish). Only things on the agenda so far are: Doughnut Plant and Pickle Guys. What else should we do? (Also,where should we stay?) [snowflake details inside] [more inside]
Help me find a nice location in Melbourne, Australia, for a wedding reception.
I'm getting married in January, and I'm looking for a low key place to hold the reception, in Melbourne.au [more inside]
Buying my first stock in a company. What should I know?
I am about to buy 2-4 shares in a company that I would like to support. This company may not last this long, but they plan to pay dividends in two years.
What do I need to know, having never invested before?
Are there any good tutorials on what I can expect from my stock?
What about paying taxes/getting deductions if I lose money?
Basically, I would be happy breaking even, but am not sure that will happen. However, I strongly support the company and wish to see it succeed. How can I minimize the losses I might face if the company goes belly up?
Hotel recommendations near Berryville, VA?
Hotel recommendations near Berryville, VA? [more inside]
Can anyone help me find a good apartment near Aberdeen, MD?
Can anyone help me find a good apartment near Aberdeen, MD? [more inside]
Bowling & Pool in Chicago
Tell me about all the bowling alleys and places to shoot pool in Chicago, both good and bad. If they have a pool table or a bowling lane, I want to know about it. [more inside]
"If a student hasn't learned..."
What are some programs that help mid-career teachers to improve the way they teach, especially teaching lower-performing students? [more inside]
Dream job for an aspiring actor who does not enjoy starving to death
"Does my dream job exist?" Or, "What are some good fallback jobs for an aspiring actor who does not enjoy starving to death?" [more inside]
Why won't iTunes recognize that my iphone has already been set up?
On Friday, I used Sn0wbreeze to update my (jailbroken) iphone 3gs from 3.1.3 to 4.0. Everything went smoothly, and I restored all my previous apps and files. I synced the phone a few times that night to get all my settings the way I wanted. Today, I plugged in my phone to sync it, but now iTunes is showing the "Set Up Your Phone" screen, with the options of either setting it up as a new phone or restoring from a backup. What gives, and how do I make it quit? [more inside]
Where should I dance in LA?
Help me have happy feet. I'd like to dance. Not clubbing; I wnat to do partner dancing, or group jazz type dancing or something. Where can I do it in Los Angeles (pref West LA area)? Bonus points if the average age is between 35 and 55. More info inside. [more inside]
Moving to Belgium from Los Angeles, CA
Moving soon to Belgium, to married to a Belgian native. Anything I should know about, moving from Los Angeles, CA, to Belgium? [more inside]
How do I eliminate audio interference on a 5.8GHz network?
I'm getting tons of audio interference from my 5.8GHz audio transmitters and I've tried everything I can think of - does anyone have experience with this? [more inside]
Aren't Blue Laws Unconstitutional?
Aren't blue laws essentially religious laws and therefore unconstitutional? [more inside]
A date with the Supreme Court
How can we see a specific oral argument at the Supreme Court? [more inside]
How do I get medical tape off a toddler?
Tape off a toddler? [more inside]
How are cookies used to collect demographic information?
Metafilter (and other sites') traffic demographics: How are cookies or other means used to collection this kind of information? [more inside]
I know when my coffee table was born, but I can't find its mother.
Can someone help me identify the manufacturer of this coffee table? [more inside]
Books about coming back to the world?
Book Recommendation Filter: Please recommend books about recovering from trauma and reintegrating back into normal life and society. Experiences like cults, prison, war, abusive relationships, etc. where the person feels isolated from "normal" people. I'm looking for fiction especially but any genre is helpful.
Help me make sure that my camera battery is still alive when I reach Everest Base Camp!
Looking for recommendations for solar powered chargers that will charge my camera battery and will work while hiking... [more inside]
Normal wedding jitters, or a sign of bad things to come?
I’m engaged. Wedding date is set, I have my dress and all our vendors are booked. But, thinking about life with my fiancé is scaring me. Is this normal pre-wedding jitters, my own anxiety, or a sign that we aren’t right for each other? [more inside]
Help me figure out where I'm going (or could go, at least)
I'm more than halfway through a law degree that I started for all the wrong reasons, and I'm confused as to where I should go from here - I need some help figuring out what my options are [more inside]
Advanced After Effects classes in NYC?
Advanced After Effects classes in NYC? [more inside]
Recommend me some old classic "New Yorker style" nonfiction that is still relevant and readable now.
Recommend me some classic "New Yorker style" nonfiction that's aged well and stayed readable. Special snowbookflakeworm within. [more inside]
Buenos Aires vacation with a 20-month-old?
Buenos Aires vacation with a 20-month-old: where to stay, what to do? [more inside]
Is my husband's abusive behavior bad enough to leave over?
Is my husband's abusive behavior bad enough to leave over? [more inside]
Self care, without ibuprofen, for menstrual cramps?
Terrible menstrual cramps, and I can't take any pain reliever other than Tylenol (acetaminophen). What can I do right now at home (i.e., without a prescription/doctor) to ease the pain? [more inside]
Grad school advice?
My graduate school orientation is Wednesday and I'm getting nervous. Overeducated Mefites, I'd love any advice you have to offer! [more inside]
Philosophy of Law reading list?
I'm interested in Philosophy of Law / Jurisprudence. What primary materials should be on a reading list fit for a semester-long 400-level university course? [more inside]
Help me make an awesome flash demo of our software
I need to create a promo video for our software and I'm looking for examples for inspiration. This demo will live on our website. What are some of the best done 3-4 minute software demos / promos that you've seen online? Or what advice do you have? I have Adobe Captivate to work with. In the past I have done this with screenshots and Microsoft Movie Maker. Captivate seems to give me a whole lot more options, maybe too many as I'm having a hard time deciding how to do this. I've looked at our competitors websites and the offerings there are amateurish and somewhat embarrassing. I can do much better, and I'm not even particularly good at this stuff. I don't want this to be an in depth demo. I'm trying to do more of a commercial, for lack of a better term.
I'm not eligible for re-hire. How do I get a job?!?
I am about to do a second-round interview tomorrow at a place I'd like to work and seems like a good match for me. However, I'm not eligible for rehire at my previous employer, and I'm worried how to nip this inevitable discovery in the bud. [more inside]
Prioritizing self-improvement
OK, so I have a bunch of stuff I need to work on. I’m about to turn 40 and I’m flush with motivation. Tackle everything at once or pick my battles? [more inside]
What midi controller do you use with Logic?
What's the best midi keyboard controller to use with Logic 9? [more inside]
Why does my joint suddenly forget it's supposed to bend that direction?
You know that pain when you go to shift your body position and it suddenly feels like your leg, knee, arm, shoulder (or whatever) moved slightly out of joint and if you straighten it out, it will snap? [more inside]
How can I find doggy day care in CA (don't say search the internet!)
Can someone help me find doggy day care in Santa Clarita, CA (yes i already looked on the internet and the chamber of commerce)
First time renting questions in Tampa, FL
I'm looking to rent a house in Tampa, FL (to live in, not a vacation), but I'm not sure where to start looking. I see all kinds of listings online, but I have no way of judging the worth of these - they look like cross linking listing spam and they make me hesitant to trust them.
This is the first place I'm renting - everywhere else I've lived has been with friends and family.
Where do I start? Suggestions on people to talk to or places to look for decent homes for rent?
Also: What questions should I be asking prospective landlords?
Currying favor in Seattle
What is the best source of kaffir lime leaves and holy basil in Seattle? [more inside]
Help me clean my floors!
My roommate and her dogs are finally moving out. Now how do I rehabilitate the floors in my house? [more inside]
cell phone insurance under home owner insurance?
Cell phone insurance under home owner insurance? Has anyone tried this? Is it worth it?
I signed up for cell phone insurance with Verizon and naively thought it would be worth it (even for a smartphone). Like anything, I know you need to pay something to get something, but $8/mo + $90 for a claim every time could get pretty expensive.
If it helps, I have State Farm. We've been with them for 15 years or so.
Please recommend some television shows to me
Please recommend some good television with brilliant characters and no cliffhangers. [more inside]
Banks in the USA 3 part question: locations and ratings
Banks in the USA 3 part question: locations and ratings [more inside]
Please recommend a real estate or tax attorney in Phoenix, Arizona.
Please recommend a real estate or tax attorney in Phoenix, Arizona. [more inside]
Getting an outside perspective: career boards.
What are some good and very active career-focused message boards? [more inside]
Beyond Barron's
Please recommend the best online sources for ongoing investment advice, free or paid? [more inside]
General and Specific Questions about Improving a Blog Design and Layout
I have some questions about the layout and features of my blog (hosted on blogspot). [more inside]
How often in the steam room?
How often should you use the steam room? I just recently discovered the steam room at my gym and I love it. I'm just wondering how many times a week is healthy to use it? I've been going to the gym 5 or 6 days a week and hitting the steam room every time. Is this okay?
City Mouse needs to chill
Help me relax and enjoy a long weekend in the country. The lonely, no cell signal, no internet country... [more inside]
Need to raise some cash fast
I need to make US$1000 before the end of the month. [more inside]
Can you recommend a therapist in New York for anxiety?
Can anyone recommend a good therapist for anxiety issues in New York City? [more inside]
Marijuana Piece Suggestions
I recently started medicating with medicinal marijuana. What piece would you recommend the most within the $75-125 range? [more inside]
Ticks Everywhere
Brown Dog Ticks: Disgusting and everywhere. [more inside]
Broadband shmroadband -- how do I track how slow my laptop runs?
How do I track how slow my laptop really is going? [more inside]
Floor tile: How much higher can one tile be than another? How to document the difference?
I'm looking for (tiling) industry standards for acceptable amounts of lippage (one tile higher than the one next to it) for 12"x12" granite tile. Also, what's the best way to a) Measure and b) photograph the amount of lippage? [more inside]
Argh blargh economy
Soon-to-be college graduate strategy: move and then look for jobs, or look for jobs and then move? [more inside]
I wanna stop washing that gray right outta my hair!
Should I let my hair go gray? And if so, what's the best way to go about it? [more inside]
The Coolest Bed
Help me have the coolest (as in temperature), breathable bed. [more inside]
Best before on dry goods?
What's the best-before date on dry goods? Specifically: oats, bulgur, nutritional yeast, cocoa, whole wheat flour, rice and bread crumbs? [more inside]
The Search For an Artsy/Bloggy New Home
[Movingfilter] Which city would be best for an early-sixties blogger/artist couple to move to: Santa Fe, Albuquerque, Boulder, or Austin (or perhaps an alternative we haven't thought of)? My parents are moving back to the US after being out of the country for ten years. My mother is a successful blogger and researcher, and my father is an artist. They are interesting folks. [more inside]
Where to buy fireworks off-season in Texas?
Buying fireworks off-season in Texas (specifically Dallas-Ft.Worth area)? [more inside]
Cats are weird. Can the weirdness be tamed?
Another crazy cat question - yay! How can I convince my crazy cat to actually let me near her? Skittish is one thing... this is odd. Special kitty snowflake details included, of course. [more inside]
Move in or break up?
Am I chasing the impossible dream by giving up on this relationship? [more inside]
Breaking up: yes, hard to do.
How can I do this break-up right? [more inside]
Really just want to take some cute pictures of my kid.
I want to buy an entry-level dSLR for everyday toddler/family pictures. Should I go with a Nikon D80 or a Canon Rebel Xsi? And which lens(es)? [more inside]
Help us deal with our black sheep Meetup member
What to do about Meetup member that ruins everything? [more inside]
ISO Blogs About Books About Mental Health/Psychology
Anyone know of any good blogs that focus on books about mental health, addictions, neuroscience, psychology? NOT looking for blogs about those subjects in general, but seek only blogs about new and interesting books that cover these topics. Blogs about health books in general are also of interest. Thank you, Hive Mind!!!
Remote control rescue?
Can the infrared light of a tv remote control be seen by airborne rescue personnel? [more inside]
Why does my cat hate my chest?
Odd cat behavior question. Can anyone explain to me exactly why one of our cats will simply NOT climb up on me in the bed? Even though she's all over my girlfriend.. it has both of us perplexed. There will be all sorts of background information inside. [more inside]
Apartment issues (continued...)
I think my new apartment has a moisture and possibly a mold problem...what steps should I take? [more inside]
Will I paralyze myself and everyone I know with these pickled beans?
How can I fix this beginner's canning SNAFU? [more inside]
Good doctor in Dupont Circle?
Can you recommend a good general practitioner in DC? [more inside]
Bootable Ubuntu Flash drive
Booting Ubuntu from a USB flash drive [more inside]
I want to drown in the dialogue of our time
Where do the über-smart people collaborate and hold dialogue online? [more inside]
How do you create a successful web series?
A friend is going to be in a web series starting this fall. What things should they do to make the series successful? What even counts as successful for a web series? Any tips or red flags? Any suggestions about where to post (Vimeo/YouTube/other), marketing tips, or other suggestions from the Hive Mind greatly appreciated.
How to not write a DJ-profile
What are some common clichés, patterns, or unwritten rules that you find in profiles/bios for DJs? I'm putting together a bit of writing on how DJs are marketed through the strategic presentation of their biographical information. Some examples inside. [more inside]
How to exit a disagreeable contract?
My future supervisor just walked out on me during an employee meeting. Can I break my contract and leave? [more inside]
This is why I should learn how to bake.
Can people help me find a central London bakery that sells cakes which are (1) delicious, (2) medium-sized and (3) not overly expensive? [more inside]
Best method for typsetting music
What is the best text-based typesetting software for music? [more inside]
moving
Savannahfilter - can anyone advise on good areas to move into ? [more inside]
Are Rollei's digital cameras rebadged?
Are modern Rollei digital point 'n shoots manufactured by someone else, and if so who? [more inside]
Keep the evil motherfuckers away from me.
I just found my apartment building listed on the Bedbug Registry. How freaked out do I need to be? What can I do? [more inside]
How do I get over this?
How do I get over this? A never-defined relationship and an abrupt end. [more inside]
Too much agony over simple essays.
Because of the death of my mother just before finals I have an extension on three essays from one class-- that I've put off the entire summer. Should I brace myself and write them, or do I tell the professor that I just want the last semester to disappear even if I receive an F grade? [more inside]
Good old US Snacks!
What are good things to include in a care package from the US to Korea? [more inside]
Outlook fails to render HTML email at all, reckons it's plain text, displays source.
TechFilter: Outlook on one laptop is displaying the source of some incoming HTML emails as the email instead of rendering it. Anyone met this before? [more inside]
What kind of bug is this??
What kind of bug is this? [more inside]
How effective is scar removal these days?
Is there a procedure to get rid of my scars? [more inside]
Alternatives to Le Creuset?
Alternatives to Le Creuset? [more inside]
Looking for job experiences involving human factors or education that will help me decide which field of study to pursue.
Pre-Graduate School Question: I am interested in both human factors and education/education administration. Do you have a job related to either of these fields in some way? Can you provide a small window into this current or past job and help me decide which (if either) field to pursue? [more inside]
August 15
Help! Bedbugs in my brand-new place!
I've got bedbugs in my 6 month old brand-new condo. What now? [more inside]
Help me host my first ever proper, grown-up party!
I want to host a tasteful grown-up party. I have never done this before... [more inside]
Ingredients that were just meant for each other.
At some stage I remember seeing a web page (*maybe* on AskMefi) going through amazing classic food pairings of ingredients that were just meant for each other, for example: tomato and parmesan; coffee and chocolate; wine and cheese; shrimp/ prawns and chili. I think that the framing of the idea behind this list was that tomato and parmesan were proof that god existed and loved us (a bit of a riff on the Ben Franklin beer quote). Does this ring a bell for anyone and can you find the source?
Cake Decorating Help Needed!
I want to make something special for my mother's upcoming birthday. I've been looking around and I got inspired to make a cake with rad decorations on it. I've got a few questions tough, namely regarding icing, and I'd love some pointers. [more inside]
Death on "Fantasy Island"?
The Wikipedia entry for the 1970s show "Fantasy Island" says that "in some cases, people got themselves killed," meaning, presumably, guests of Mr. Roarke. It's not backed up with a citation. I think I vaguely remember some "Fantasy Island" episodes that turned pretty dark, but did Roarke ever let his clients DIE while on a fantasy? I'm looking for exact episode names and brief plot descriptions. (Note: I think some guests were terminally ill, and may have died from their illness, but that seems like a different matter to me.)
What can you tell me about these three men?
Will a liquid diet change my life?
I’m considering enrolling in a medically supervised liquid diet program. What do I need to know? [more inside]
Ryokan in Nagano region
We are going to Japan in October, and feeling lost on figuring out a ryokan in the mountains. Please help, or point us to a travel agent that can. [more inside]
Am I ruining my drip machine?
I make my morning coffee in a French press, but then I keep it hot by pouring it into the carafe of my drip machine while it's switched on. Is this somehow going to damage my coffee maker if I don't have any water in the reservoir? I just want the hot plate to keep it warm. Relevant info: I have the Michael Graves coffee maker from Target.
How can I get my brother out of my mom's apartment?
How can I get my violent brother out of my mom's senior apartment? Social workers, especially those who work with the elderly, your help is greatly needed. [more inside]
Should I be tipping Dr. Sofa?
Should I be tipping Dr. Sofa? [more inside]
Do you know the measurements for Ikea Billy shelf support pins?
We recently moved and I've misplaced the metal shelf support pins for our Ikea Billy bookcases, so I'm trying to order replacements. Does anyone know the diameter and length of the pins (they look like this image.) Thanks!
phD in Canada/ permanent residency
I have two seemingly separate questions that are connected:
1. Are Canadian phD programs in music as good as the ones in the US, especially in terms of job placement?
2. Can you defer phD acceptance and/or take a leave of absence during phD years?
3. Do universities sponsor US work visas? [more inside]
Action steps every day or insanity. Pick one.
I have decided to significantly alter my career path. There's no urgency except for that which I self-impose: That is, I want to be taking real steps towards change each and every day to maintain my sanity (and therefore my paycheck) in my current career. And then I'll jump ship a little bit before it feels safe to do so. [more inside]
Does this make a nerd and a geek?
I want to have my DS and my laptop talk to each other. Is this even possible? [more inside]
gravel invaded by weeds!
any advice on the best way to reclaim a gravel parking area from the weeds? [more inside]
Japanese History for the Uninformed
I have just finished The 1000 Autumns of Jacob De Zoet by David Mitchell and realize that I do not know as much Japanese history as I would like.
What should I read? [more inside]
What is the specific name for this haircut?
Is this a Mississippi Mudflap? Do the lines in the side affect the category of mullet it fits into?
Lowbrow art image galleries?
Where can I find image galleries of the kind of art featured in Juxtapoz magazine (I guess lowbrow art would be the catch-all term), preferably in high resolution and without obvious watermarks?
What flower is this?
Flowers and chocolates send the wrong impression -- what are some cool thank you / thinking of you / humorous friend gifts?
What are some quirky, interesting, funny or sweet gifts to give people thanking them for being awesome? [more inside]
What does "integrated" mean in a psychological sense?
What does it mean when my therapist calls me "integrated"? [more inside]
An ass recommends donkey-voting
What would happen if every Australian 'donkey-voted' this Saturday? [more inside]
Linux OCR
Linux script to parse all files in file tree and submit to a program? [more inside]
Please recommend a reliable midsize motorcycle.
Will some of Ask's motorcycle gang please being me up to speed on the availability of a particular kind of bike? I'm looking for an around-town middleweight like the Triumph 650 I rode in college but I'm looking first of all for capital-R Reliability. I do want adequate performance, for situations like matching the speed of oncoming traffic in a short merging lane, but I'm not looking for performance of the wheelie pulling, eyeball flattening kind. What I don't want is any more experience sitting in an ever-spreading Triumph/BSA/Norton pool of oil setting valve train tolerances, after having just set them two days ago. Had enough of that to last a lifetime, thanks. [more inside]
I wanna make a photogram!
So I want to make a photogram. I remember having small (perhaps 8" x 8") blue photo sensitive papers in a kit as a kid -- it involved nothing more than unsealing the package, putting objects on the paper and setting it outside for an hour or so in the sunlite, resulting in white silhouettes of whatever objects were placed on it.
I have found sites selling kits like that which seem geared toward kids, but I'm wondering where I might be able to find larger sheets of this type of paper.
I also don't really know much about the process, but I am looking for something easy (no development equipment needed).
I think it would be great to do a large-scale image in this way -- I mean, can I get a large roll of this type of paper, or something poster-sized?
Art Deco Switchplate
Where can I find more switchplates like this? It's metal, something heavy, so not aluminum. Kinda art-deco style.
Peach pie
I've just been given an enormous box of peaches, far more than I can eat. Please to share your best recipes for peach pie, peach cobbler, and other peachy desserts.
Damaged Discs from Netflix?
I've been getting DVDs from Netflix recently that are cracked, scratched and otherwise unplayable. They always offer to send a repacement but what a pain it is to plan to watch in the evening only to find it won't play. Has anyone else experienced a rise in the number of damaged discs being received? When I called, admittedly a bit hot under the collar, to complain the Netflix CSR listened, briefly, but when I asked if Netflix had deliberately decided to stop inspecting discs for damage before mailing out to customers my call got seamlessly switched to National Car Rental. So much for customer service at Netflix!
BEST Eats in Vegas?
Help me plan a dream weekend in Vegas for a Foodie's 40th birthday!! [more inside]
healthinsurance student
How to go about getting inexpensive health insurance as a student? [more inside]
Give me all sorts of violin music.
Tracks/artists that help showcase the full range of violin music? [more inside]
Providence, Rhode Island? Couldn't you have gotten any farther away from me?
How do I reconcile my decision to get far, far away from home with my mother's belief that I'm doing it out of spite? [more inside]
Advice on the best oven / microwave combo? Thoughts on the Neff H5972N0GB?
In our kitchen remodelling plans, there is no space for a microwave so we're thinking of a built-in combo. That is, an oven that also works as a microwave. Which? gives the Neff H5972N0GB a good rating but I wanted a second opinion by the Metafilter Braintrust :)
Help me find this great science fiction novel, please
Bookfilter: In 2007 I read the first part of a science fiction novel that I would really love to find again. I'm pretty sure the basic premise was that the book was a historical/academic biography about a famous general or other important figure in a future (possibly post-apocalyptic) America. More half remembered details below! [more inside]
Help me not resent SO's success
How do I avoid becoming resentful of SO's brilliant career when mine is failing to launch? [more inside]
Batch-scanning a truck load of scene photographs- any advice?
(batchscanningfilter) So I have recently agreed to scan in a friend's photo archive of our local music scene (He pretty much 'ran' the scene for the past 25 years)... we're talking thousands of photos here.... I have a few questions...... [more inside]
Help me learn how to read in moving vehicles without feeling sick.
I envy people who can read in cars, buses and subway trains without getting nauseous. Why is it that some people can do this, while others can't? How can I be more like them? [more inside]
Ultra local consumerism.
Where are the best thrift stores, farmers' markets and flea/street markets in Chicago? [more inside]
Why doesn't the restored window come to the front?
My wife has a Macbook with OS 10.5.7 that she got from her school (she's a teacher). Sometimes she'll have a number of word documents open and some of them will be minimized. She'll be looking at a word document and decide she wants to restore one of the minimized word documents, but when she does, the window she restores goes behind the window that's open instead of coming to the front. [more inside]
Innocent or sinister?
What did I see happening at 2am in Cuernavaca last night? [more inside]
Big disk problems
Help me make a great big disk [more inside]
Did I make a mistake, are my standards too high?
I made the right decision here right? Or my standards too high and I'll die lonely, missed by no one? [more inside]
What's this old machine?
What is this big vise like machine I found? It's about 5 feet tall. The lever at the top turns the screw which makes the top jaw close. The jaws toothed and diamond shape. There's another bar on the right that rotates. What else can I do with it besides it's original purpose?
Aleksandar Hemon and other former Yugoslavia authors
I'm a big fan of the author Aleksandar Hemon, especially The Question of Bruno, and wondering what former Yugoslav authors he would have read growing up. [more inside]
How can I make a living doing what I love?
How can I make a living doing what I love?
My almost-50 birthday is this week. Several years ago I quit my job to start a new career. I still have little idea how to make money from what I want to do. I'd hate to go back to my former career, and I can't imagine who would hire a man nearing 50, who hasn't had a job in years... [more inside]
Help me make the most of this old stove
Old stove with two mystery components [more inside]
Help me stay awake!
Narcolepsy, excessive daytime sleepiness, etc.: Aside from medication, how do you deal? [more inside]
iCal event templates
How can I create event templates in iCal? [more inside]
Making a Profit With a Fast Food Franchise
How long would it take to become profitable with a fast food franchise? [more inside]
M*A*S*H
I'm feeling nostalgic, so am making my way through the M*A*S*H series on dvd. It's funny and heartwarming, but was anyone on the show faithful to his/her partner back home? [more inside]
portable wifi?
Work will be buying me a portable hotspot device. I don't know much about them except that I'd rather not install any client software. So...hivemind...what is my best portable wifi option?
Baby's learning Final Cut
The second small bedroom was an editing suite/video room, but soon the baby will arrive. Are there good examples of dual use rooms that're half baby/half studio in small spaces? [more inside]
Program to vote on wedding music?
Need a program to help me let people vote on wedding music. [more inside]
How do I learn to make short movies?
I'm an engineer wanting to explore my creative side a bit via making short films aimed at online viewing via YouTube or whatever. I've got the high-end Macintosh but I need (1) a camera (hopefully better than my old MiniDV camcorder), (2) software (Final Cut Express or similar, I suppose), and (3) skill in the mechanics of filming and editing and in the technique of story telling. In other words, I need to learn how to operate the camera and editing software but I also need to learn what I want to do with it. I'd appreciate suggestions for any of this stuff but pointers on good books or whatever for learning the skills would be really nice.
How to find all roots of a function in two variables?
I've got a long function with two variables, encoding - I suspect - a hidden message. Most likely, the message is somehow encoded in the function's roots. Is there any good software to plot a function in two dimensions and only show the points where it evaluates to zero? [more inside]
Help me trick out my indie video studio, please.
I'm planning on making an indie documentary. Help me figure out what I need in terms of equipment. [more inside]
Checking a second bag from Europe to the U.S. on a two leg flight
How much am I going to be charged for checking a second bag in Economy class? [more inside]
How do I deal with my Lawyer in this situation?
My lawyer is holding a garnishment her office managed to get from ex h's bank. She is requiring me to sign the garnishment completely over to her for her to go toward her fees...but the ex is supposed to be responsible for her fees. [more inside]
Like ironing to flatten out the wrinkles in my life
I'm a bit disorganised and sometimes a bit depressed, and I think I want to advertise for someone to come over once a week and spend maybe two hours helping me to do all of the practical things I need to do - paying bills, applying for courses I want to do, and the like. Is this the worst idea ever? [more inside]
"The Domesday Book"? Or "Domesday Book"?
"The Domesday Book"? Or "Domesday Book"? Does it matter? And why? [more inside]
Best way to get football tickets in Madrid?
What's the best way (i.e., least expensive and safest) to get tickets for the Atletico Madrid vs. Barcelona football/soccer game? [more inside]
Aggregated local news without Football and syndicated content
I'd like some way to find aggregated local news rather than having to go to each local newspaper site individually. I am generally pretty happy with Google news at the big story level but it fails at the Birmingham, UK level where pretty much the only news it ever picks up is the national paper's coverage of the football teams. [more inside]
Taking a gander.
What do you look for on a preliminary walk-through of a potential income-producing real estate investment? Which features are definite positives? Which features are red flags? [more inside]
iTunes plug-in to auto-detect BPM
Does anyone know of an iTunes plug-in that will auto-detect the BPM of all songs BMP and add it to the file's ID tags in iTunes? [more inside]
Girl Power With Bite
I'm looking for TV shows where the heroine has a wry/dry/snarky sense of humor and is competent in her own right. Basically, I'm nostalgic for girl power with bite a la Veronica Mars. [more inside]
August 14
can i sell a map based on a usgs map?
I've created a map based on two usgs 7.5minute topographical maps and years of MY data plotted on them. I think outdoors people would buy this map... Can i Sell it? Do i need permission from the USGS? What is the copyright on a usgs map? [more inside]
A "Facebook-like" secure site that a non-programmer could build?
Is there an easy file-sharing/discussion tool or Dreamweaver template that I can use instead of allowing my company to use Facebook for the more simple purposes of Facebook? [more inside]
Raccoons during the daytime
Raccoons during the daytime -- dangerous? [more inside]
breakfast cereal upsets my stomach
Why does this breakfast cereal upset my stomach, despite all of its ingredients appearing to be safe for me? [more inside]
I didn't know they made melon ballers that small
Eye injury? ER now, urgent care tomorrow, regular doc Monday, or relax-it'll-be-fine? [more inside]
What should my friend name his dog?
What should my friend name his VERY SMALL, MALE, Chihuahua? [more inside]
Where should we go on a relaxing, interesting, honeymoon without getting sunburned?
Where should we go on a relaxing, interesting, honeymoon without getting sunburned? [more inside]
How does the Chinese political system work?
I'd like to know how the Chinese political system works. [more inside]
When are the Blue Angels flying?
When are the Blue Angels flying tomorrow at the Chicago Air and Water Show? [more inside]
Here we go gathering...
What is this mystery nut? [more inside]
Help me keep it light and fun and make people smile
How do I become one of those people who makes everyone they talk to feel great? With bonus: how to manage the situation gracefully if this is taken as a come-on... [more inside]
Raw Milk NOT Weston Price
Is there a organization that advocates for the legality of selling raw dairy OTHER than the Weston Price Foundation?
Federal Job Resume Builders
Has anyone used a professional resume service for US Federal jobs?
I've seen previous mefi postings, but they seem to focus on the more creative aspects of resume writing. The Feds don't care about style; they will have a bureaucrat go through and tick off the boxes and give you a score. And having worked for Civil Services before, I know that what I think is relevant doesn't always fit the 'box' unless it's phrased just right.
I'm looking at Federal Jobs Digest, and they charge $200 to $300. And I should say there's an assignment I really, really want (an overseas posting in Naples), so I can spend the money if these guys are legit.
No Signal
What is wrong with my new mobile phone? When my phone goes idle after 15 sec of no use (typical battery saving function) or loses the signal when I am in an elevator (typical situation but normally survivable), it won't automatically reconnect so it's like I don't even have a phone. How can I over come this? Is it normal for "newer" phones to constantly be searching for a signal yet not getting it or turning off like this? [more inside]
How do I organize my research project?
What's the best way to organize my research for a big proposal and presentation? [more inside]
staying in a quirky place with all of my friends?
What cool places (that can occupy 15-30+ people) can I rent in the United States or Canada (similar to Shady Dell)? [more inside]
So who's been to The Refuge?
I'm looking for information about a music venue called The Refuge in Cupertino, CA. Has anyone heard of it? [more inside]
How to deal with social grace-less boss?
Do you have any advice for me in this strained but simple social situation with coworkers & boss? [more inside]
When Internet businesses don't work out as planned...
At what point did you decide to give up on your Internet business? [more inside]
Help me safely increse my non-meat protein intake
I'm considering going to a mostly meat-free diet, but I want to make sure that I still keep my protein intake up by supplementing with whey protein (up to about 80% of my total protein). Are there any health concerns here? [more inside]
Retailers going beyond barcodes
I want to make a list of all retailers (worldwide) that currently use or have played around with using RFID technology. I'm especially curious about fashion and apparel retailers, but any other ones will do. I have the basics: walmart, jcpenney, walgreens, etc.
I've been up and down google, backwards and forwards, and it's pretty much impossible to get any sort of complete list.
So, help me hive. [more inside]
Driving from MA to MT, suggestions for stops along the way
Recently divorced, 39, and moving from MA to MT in early Sept. I was planning on driving along the I-90. I'm trying to figure out what is worth visiting, and also where to stop/camp along the way. This is about a 3000 mile drive. And I'm hoping to drive around 600 miles a day, but this is adjustable to some extent. I wouldn't mind spending extra days in some locations if its worthwhile.
One stop I plan to make will be Niagra Falls. (I also have both USA and Canadian Passports, so I can cross the border ok.)
I hope to camp most of the way. I also have a large 80lb doberman-mix, which complicates things slightly.
I'd be willing to get off the I-90 to see some things if its worth it. I'm not in a rush..
I'm more interested in things found in nature rather than city-life type stuff. But stopping in some big cities for some notable food or sites wouldn't be rejected outright.
Child Support Guideline Help!
Child support filter: Ex-husband voluntarily agreed 8 years ago to pay more than state minimum child support. Just got letter from his lawyer saying he wants to now pay state amount. [more inside]
Should I use a Hohner Special 20 or a Lee Oskar harmonica?
Should I use a Hohner Special 20 or a Lee Oskar harmonica? [more inside]
cash bar, wedding?
Should we have a cash bar at our wedding? [more inside]
Mac and Cheeeeeeeeeeeeeese
I could use some help altering/combining some baked mac and cheese recipes! [more inside]
Help me with my lactose intolerance.
[DairyFilter] Which processed/pre-made foods have lactose in them? Which do not? [more inside]
Where should I travel in Asia and the wider world between February and August 2011?
Where should I travel in Asia and the wider world between February and August 2011? Should I travel there and then at all? I'm trying to plan a round-the-world trip and am finding it very difficult. Apologies for my rambling question - I could really do with your help. [more inside]
Where to stay in Inverness, CA for a weekend?
Where to stay in Inverness, CA for a weekend? [more inside]
How to move to a cool area when you're young and broke and nervous
Doing my first house/apartment room hunting experience out of college and sort of unclear on the craigslist etiquette AND if I should even be looking. Would really appreciate input and advice. This is really long because I ramble...but I SWEAR it's good! [more inside]
What's a good DC metro station to test-ride a bike at?
DCFilter: I'm in DC, trying to buy a bike from someone on Craigslist. He's in VA. What's a good Metro station to meet at so I can test-ride the bike?
While we're at it -- what are some things to be wary of when buying a used bike?
Looking for reading on early modern Europe
Having just read Robert K. Massie's excellent biography of Peter the Great, I'm not looking for more reading on 17th and 18th century Europe. Suggestions? [more inside]
Picture phone for elderly/senior products in Los Angeles
Picture phones for the elderly and places to buy them in Los Angles? [more inside]
The Dish on Disney... cruises
Some specific questions about a Disney cruise... crowds? noise? motion? 11 year old fun? [more inside]
Moving AT&T internet service
I'm moving to a new apartment at the end of the month, and need to move my AT&T U-Verse High Speed Internet Pro service. Their website is very confusing. [more inside]
How does stage lighting color work?
How does color-changing work in modern stage lighting? [more inside]
Help me choose some knee and akle braces.
Help me choose some knee and ankle braces. [more inside]
Why did the front loading washing machine destroy my pants?
I just moved to Europe from the US and used a front loading washing machine. Both pairs of pants in the last load now have tears along the sides of the back pockets. Argh! What am I doing wrong, so I can fix it for my next load? What else is essential information for front loading washing machines? Anything I can do to salvage the pants? [more inside]
Am I a runner?
Would you consider me a "runner?" [more inside]
Good games for an underpowered laptop?
Best PC-only games of the last few for an underpowered laptop? [more inside]
Should I buy a condo overseas?
Should I buy a condo overseas or live in the one my company provides? Special snowflake details within! [more inside]
Jesus Christ, who knew vacuum shopping could be so darn complicated?
Owners of bagged vacuum cleaners, how often do you find yourself changing the bag? [more inside]
Investing on (Great) Wall Street
Are there any online fantasy stock market simulations that let you invest in international stocks? Or, if not, Asian stocks? I currently use Vritual Stock Exchange, which is limited to NYSE stocks.
I Thought Only Kids Got Cavities
Do I have terrible teeth? [more inside]
Metra trip
Fun places to go on the Chicago-area commuter rail system? [more inside]
I call him HURF DURF shark.
I baked a cake yesterday. I put a shark on top. The shark looks familiar, like he's a character from something, but since any resemblance was accidental I can't place him. Please look at it and tell me what he's from. [more inside]
How do I monitor my internet connection?
I'm looking for a simple way to monitor internet connectivity. [more inside]
How to negotiate settlement for pain & suffering from auto accident
Seeking advice on negotiating settlement for pain & suffering for an auto accident. [more inside]
Please recommend restaurants and coffee shops in Louisville, KY
I'm looking for good but not expensive restaurants in Louisville; also coffeehouses that offer wifi. [more inside]
MIDI to Casio lighted keys in real time?
If I send MIDI notes in real time to the MIDI in jack on a Casio LK series keyboard (with the lighted keys), will the keys light up? [more inside]
I did remember the cocktail umbrellas. Close one, I know.
Where can I find crazy straws around Herald Square/Madison Sq Garden? [more inside]
HuffPo for Canuck?
I'm a big fan of The Huffington Post. However, I'm Canadian, and am looking for something that features Canadian politics. Is there a site similar to Huffington Post that focusses on Canadian content?
Should I stay or should I go?
I have been working for a design agency for five years. This was my first job out of college. It's the only job I've ever had. I'm stuck in a rut: should I stay or should I go? [more inside]
What's it like to live in northeastern MA?
What's it like to live on the North Shore of Massachusetts? (And, if you have any experience with them, to work at a certain largeish information services company in Ipswich?) [more inside]
Can I get a MFT degree online
Can I get an online Master Degree as a MFT in the state of Nevada and will it be accepted for intership here in LV? [more inside]
Affordable, tactile, quirky electronic noisemaking gadgets?
Please recommend me some affordable, tactile, quirky electronic instruments / noise making toys / effects. I already have a Korg Kaoss Pad 3, Alesis Air FX, and a Stylophone, and am going to buy a Korg Monotron - I'm looking for suggestions along similar lines. [more inside]
Best iPhone apps and games for kids?
Got a transcontinental flight in a couple of hours with two adults, two kids and two iPhone 4s. What games or apps will delight, entertain, educate and otherwise keep a 5 and a 7 boy year old occupied? [more inside]
Sad Irish song
Irish song filter. Looking for a sad song heard in Boston, 94-95. Two boys growing up together, their fathers missing (prison?), build a snowman.
progression of sexual activity
What is a common pace for the progression of sexual activity in a new relationship? [more inside]
How Can I Miss You When You Won't Go Away?
Looking for outside perspective - why does this one particular ex insist on trying to initiate contact with me? [more inside]
Does my power amp work?
I inherited a NAD 214 stereo power amplifier. I plugged it into power and the lights came on. In order to get it out of the house (spring cleaning) I listed it on ebay for $5 and said it powers up fine. But now it's getting lots of attention and I have people asking me if it works properly. [more inside]
Will carpet beetle eggs survive the move?
Exactly how fragile are black carpet beetle eggs? [more inside]
Getting over rejection.
Met what I thought was the perfect guy for me, and then he disappeared. I feel heartbroken now, how do I get over this? Special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
What's appropriate in the world of online dating?
OnlineDatingEtiquetteFilter: I'm somewhat new to the online dating scene, opting for free sites such as OKCupid. As a guy interested in women, there's a few points of etiquette that I'm just not exactly sure how to handle. A series of questions after the cut. [more inside]
Website design for presenting an artist's work
Your favorite visual artist's website & why? [more inside]
Article search - again
I'm looking for an article I read online within the past two years about a group of friends in their late 20s/early 30s who spend the weekend smoking/snorting some drug at a friend's house. I mostly remember the bizarre activities they got involved in and an impromptu trip to Las Vegas in the middle of the weekend. [more inside]
Open my eyes to proper broadband
After years of broadband with low download caps (currently 14gb/month), I finally will have 120gb/month from next month. How to take advantage of this new freedom? [more inside]
Please help me remember a book.
Please help me remember a book I read as a child/teenager. [more inside]
Post-Grad Filter: Now that I'm out of college and determined not to fuck up any more, how do I plan for the rest of my life?
I graduated from Big Name U in May with 0 honors or distinctions, little work experience, a squishy liberal arts degree, and a barely acceptable G.P.A. I feel like I wasted a pretty big chunk of my life. Where do I go from here? [more inside]
seven hours: some nudity
Matthew Barney's Cremaster Cycle looks intriguing.
But seven hours is very big serve of repetitive, treacle slow performance art. [more inside]
Medical Volunteerism in Sud America
Dear Metafilter: help me find medical volunteer work in South America... [more inside]
Must have awesome boots...
Where to buy Frye boots in Canada/websites that will ship to Canada? [more inside]
What are the best and most comfortable pillows that aren't overly expensive?
What are the best and most comfortable pillows that aren't overly expensive? [more inside]
August 13
Video of high-def photo-overlay technology
Looking for a video of a technology demo, which uses high-def photos to add details to video by intelligently overlaying the photo on the video and deforming the photos as the video moves. I vaguely recall it as being TED-talk-like, with shots of a (young, possibly Asian?) guy at a podium and shots of the video in action. My google-fu is failing me.
Playlist help!
Playlist help: 40-something mom's relaxed birthday brunch. [more inside]
What is the best way to describe my future ambitions in my personal statement on my MLIS application?
I am applying to a competitive MLIS program in a couple months, and I would like some advice on how to talk about my somewhat unusual plans for the future. [more inside]
How many ways can I hold my girlfriends hand?
How many different ways can you hold hands with someone? [more inside]
Hauntingly beautiful piano/string music?
Similar to these questions, I'm looking for simple, beautiful songs with a single voice and either a piano or strings. [more inside]
All the world's a site, And all the men and women merely vloggers.
If one were to collect scenes from Shakespeare films to compare how different productions approached them differently, what scenes should be selected? [more inside]
I'm looking for great deals on groceries...
Is there any way for me to be automatically notified when certain foods go on sale at any stores in my area? [more inside]
Stay in one city, leave for another?
Should I stay with romantic partner and decent job opportunities in a very nice location, or should I go for great job opportunity that's not in my field (and a thousand miles away)? Special snowflake & more inside. [more inside]
Whales!
Where should we stay/what should we do/how should we get around in the San Juan Islands? Complications: we won't have a car, don't want to rent bikes for more than a couple of hours, and want to do things on at least two of the islands. [more inside]
I'm good at art, but I'm not creative. How do I make a portfolio?
I like to think that I'm pretty good at web/graphic design, programming, motion graphics, and a lot of other new media type things..but I'm a left-brained guy. How do I put together a portfolio (or otherwise market my skills) to show what I'm good at, even though I'm not the type of person to sit around and make art? [more inside]
How do I stop being a pushover with my sister? (a bit long but any help would be appreciated)
How do I stop being a pushover with my sister? [more inside]
When I've had enough SportsCenter for one day...
What to watch while getting dressed for work. [more inside]
Who prints on the weekends?
New York print shop filter: Where can i get 30 double-sided pages of high-quality inkjet printed on letter-size matte presentation paper by monday? [more inside]
USA foreign gay partner immigration?
How can a gay couple, one British, one American, both live in the USA? [more inside]
How can I use Automator to automatically open some programs, load certain files, and minimize/maximize some windows?
How can I use Automator to automatically open some programs, load certain files, and minimize/maximize some windows? [more inside]
Can you get fired for accessing Wikileaks from your home computer?
Can an employer fire you, or threaten to fire you or any other employee, for accessing the Wikileaks site from a personal (non-employer) computer? You are not directly employed by the government or a member of the military, but your employer does contract you and other employees with security clearances to the government. [more inside]
Some folks are born to wave the flag
How can I determine when and where my father served in Vietnam? [more inside]
97' blazer oil issue?
My girlfriend's 97' chevy blazer sputters and looses power when under load (like going up a big hill), but once the oil is changed it runs fine. What is going on here??? [more inside]
Where can I find this light fixture?
Where can I find this light fixture? [more inside]
65-25-45-75-CHUNK-45......
I am far from home and my truck is acting up. The speedometer has started flailing around wildly and every so often we'll feel the kick of the transmission (automatic) shifting or falling out of and into gear. I think the problem is electronic as every so often the speedometer starts behaving normally and the transmission settles down and behaves normally. [more inside]
I'd like some company.
Socialise me! [more inside]
Let's eat and travel without leaving home
Please recommend books, movies and TV shows about food and travel. [more inside]
Film festivals: how to do it?
Film festivals: how to do it? [more inside]
What are some good dance moves I can learn from home?
DanceFilter: Help me learn how to dance from the comfort of home. What are some of your favorite dance tutorials / dances to imitate ?
Best time for a senior photoshoot?
Photographers, what's the best time of day for a senior photoshoot? [more inside]
Computer Recommendations for Ableton and No Money?
Minimum specs for a computer running Ableton Live? [more inside]
Recommend some engaging ethnography
This recent link on the blue reminded me how fascinating ethnography can be. Now I have a hankering for some well-written works of anthropology or sociology that offer insight on different people and different ways of life. Please recommend some good books for me! This is for "pleasure reading," so really dense jargon is a turn-off, but they don't need to be written for a popular audience.
Really hoping that the name 'permanent marker' isn't literally accurate
Permanent marker on painted walls. So far have tried: Goof Off, TSP Heavy Duty Cleaner, Magic Erasers, SOS pads, and alcohol based hand sanitizer. Help? What's next-- paint remover? Any suggestions gratefully received.
Be my friend and deal with my abandonment issues, please?
Why do I need a best friend? and... do I really? [more inside]
Box.net or DropBox open source alternatives?
Is there an open source / free version of something like Box.net or DropBox? My needs are simple: the ability to password protect folders, and a web interface to download it. Is this something that "comes with" OpenFiler or similar product? [more inside]
Scifi suicide story id help
Story ID: An aging, eminent composer decides it's time to end his life in an orderly manner. Probably from the 70's or 80's, and quite possibly in a collection of science fiction, although the only scifi element is that the story takes places in a time when the act isn't stigmatized.
All clues appreciated.
Help a perennial dork get some fashion up top!
I'm trying (again) to grow my hair out. Every time I've tried this before, my wavy, somewhat poofy hair looks terrible after a couple months - like the geeky kid in period 70s movies. Help me maintain a fashionable hair style until it gets where I want it! [more inside]
Saving Text Messages on iPhone 3G
How can I save/archive a very long string of text messages from my iPhone (3G)? [more inside]
Dinosaurs (literally) for a dinosaur (metaphorically)
Best books about dinosaurs for an adult who knows surprisingly little about them but who also has an appreciation for learning? [more inside]
What has been your experience with low-VOC paint?
What has been your experience with low-VOC paint? [more inside]
I Want to Donate Leftover Antibiotics
Is there a charity that accepts unexpired antibiotics that are still sealed in their little blister-packs? I have 16 Keflex pills left over from a misdiagnosis and would love to find an organization that donates meds to the needy.
Use statistics to prove that one kitten is cuter than another
I don't know enough statistics to prove that a certain kitten at kittenwar.com is cuter than another, but I know in my heart that it is true. Any statisticians out there wanna help me out? [more inside]
Getting Things Filed
Professors, researchers, teachers: How do you organize your files on hard disks and with physical folders? [more inside]
Ideas for being the best husband ever after the birth of our first child?
Help me be the best post-birth husband ever! We are expecting a new daughter (our first child) the first week in September - which means she could arrive very soon. What can I do to be the best husband ever after our daughter is born? [more inside]
Computer game with pumpkins and witches, ~15year old, probably Atari or Amiga?
Computer game with pumpkins and witches, ~15year old, probably Atari or Amiga? [more inside]
blogging photographs
Can anyone suggest a great company to use for a blogging photos?
Is it time to let her go?
Is it time to let her go: diabetic cat edition. [more inside]
Narrative histories of war
I enjoyed Rick Atkinson's Liberation Trilogy on WWII (so far) and Shelby Foote's Civil War: A Narrative. What are similar narrative retellings for other wars? I'm particularly interested in something like this for the Napoleonic wars.
What are the potential problems, if any, of venting a portable A/C unit into a closet or attic?
What are the potential problems, if any, of venting a portable A/C unit into a closet or attic? [more inside]
Looking for an Optometrist in Salt Lake City or South Jordan, Utah.
Help me find an Optometrist in Salt Lake City or South Jordan, Utah. [more inside]
Help I'm being attacked - except I'm not.
Whenever a situation gets slightly confrontational/argumentative/critical (not necessarily dangerous), I experience a flight or fight response: my hands and legs shake, my heart races and my thinking slows down (along with all the other classic fight or flight reactions). It doesn't feel like an appropriate reaction to what's actually happening (hey, someone was rude to me in a meeting. I should stop shaking). I'd like to calmly deal with these situations, and try to tell myself that the person isn't actually hurting me, but my physical reaction is so strong and immediate. Any suggestions on how to not activate this reaction or at least reduce it?
How do I stand up a utility pole with no heavy machinery?
I have a 30' utility pole that I need to stand upright in a 6' deep hole. Complicating factor: the location is set back in the woods, so using heavy machinery or vehicles of any kind is not an option. [more inside]
Giving my eyes a rest
Soooo I need glasses. I have wore contacts for the last 5 years and would like to buy some designer frames. I usually get spectacular deals by buying my contacts online rather than on my local shop. How can I recreate the process with eye-glasses? [more inside]
RadioLab Greatest Hits, Vol. 1?
Radiolab's 'Words' episode (discovered here) masterfully massaged my mind. What are some of the best/your favorite Radiolab episodes? [more inside]
How to determine type of payment source (credit or debit) online
Is there a way to distinguish between online payments made from a debt card and a credit card? [more inside]
World's finest navy requires world's most versatile brownies
Recommendations for baked goods in care packages that might be in transit for several weeks at a time? [more inside]
How do I safely remove my netbook's chiclet keys?
I own an Asus netbook with a chiclet keyboard. I've had it for about a year and a half now and I would really like to properly clean the keyboard. But I can't seem to find instructions for how to take the keys off and clearly I don't want to break them! Has anyone out there done this before? Is it possible? [more inside]
I need a new provider of virtual credit cards
Since Paypal is shutting down their virtual credit card number feature I would like to find a different provider, but I dont want to apply for a new credit card. [more inside]
Seeking decent psychiatrist in Denver
Psych[o]Filter. Can anyone recommend a good psychiatrist in Denver? Surrounding suburbs ok, but not too far out. I've searched the green alredy for answers but some are too old and none seem quite right. Mainly I need meds management. [more inside]
God is my copilot
I am thinking about a title of the book (film), "God is my copilot". What does it mean, actually? I think God is your guide. Then he might be the main pilot, not the copilot? Or does the copilot mainly work? Or does it have a sort of ironic meaning? Please tell me!
A short list of short lists?
I'd like to focus my next year or two of reading on award-nominated literary fiction. I'm aware of the Man Booker Prize and the National Book Awards. These two lists together could easily more than fill up that year or two, but what other prestigious national or international literary awards/prizes have a short list of nominated works? [more inside]
"There is no terror in a bang, only in the anticipation of it."
What are the very best/most essential books about Alfred Hitchcock? [more inside]
How to find a place in NYC for a short term period?
I will be moving to the greater NYC area in 6 weeks and need to find a furnished short term lease that puts me in reasonable distance from the two hospitals where i'll be working. How possible is this on a students budget? [more inside]
Parking for flying out of the msp/st paul airport but not parking at the airport
Where to park when flying out of Minneapolis/St Paul and I don't want to pay to park at the airport. [more inside]
Who deals with complaints about landlords in La.?
I want to make a complaint about my slum..er, landlord.
How do I go about doing that in the state of Louisiana? [more inside]
You're never truly dressed without a smile?
What are the little details that really make one look "put-together"? [more inside]
Where to place glasses in bathroom?
Where do you place your glasses when taking a shower? [more inside]
How much for the death ray?
Custom build PC in Twin Cities or Online [more inside]
Get the mouse out of my house!
Are there any ways to reliably pick a good mouser without knowing much about a cat's history? [more inside]
Who made this picture?
Cool image. Whose is it? [more inside]
Has anyone tried immunotherapy for chronic rhinitis?
Has anyone tried immunotherapy for chronic rhinitis (year-round allergies/nasal congestion)? [more inside]
My sinuses are broken.
Sinus congestion is making me very unhappy. What works for you? [more inside]
Incurring charges on lost or stolen phones
Stolen/Lost Phone and charges incurred upon it (£700) - what are the options? Anyone had any experience of this? (Vodafone, UK) [more inside]
Antique Carpentry Charts Online?
Looking for online resources for old carpentry formulas/charts from way back in history that look like astrological illustrations. [more inside]
A rose by any other name...
Changing my surname back to my maiden name years after a divorce - please give me your advice. [more inside]
Yogurt sauces. I want to make some.
Your favorite yogurt/yoghurt sauce/dip recipes. I want them. Sour cream sauces are good too, if you have them. [more inside]
Non-U.S. MSW?
What are some good MSW programs outside the US? [more inside]
Tasty, but not so pretty
How do I make cake balls look neat and pretty? [more inside]
You know what they say about loose lips, right?
I have a tendency towards gossiping and spilling secrets. How can I get better control of what I divulge in conversations? [more inside]
Help me be more rational?
How can I stop forming mini-crushes on every cute guy I stumble across? [more inside]
Do THING for TIME
What are some other examples of "X things in Y time"? e.g. The Show with Ze Frank - a video a day for a year; Julie and Julia blog - all of Julia Child's recipes in a year.
"Radio edit" from CD version of song?
How to transform song from CD version to "radio edit" version? [more inside]
Bay Area Twitter feeds of note
I just moved to Oakland from LA. I find Twitter to be really useful. Please recommend Bay Area-ish Twitter feeds (for Oakland, San Francisco and Marin, since I'll be spending lots of time time in all three regions) I should be following. [more inside]
August 12
Where to stay in Liverpool for 7-10 days
Where should I stay in Liverpool? [more inside]
Moving to SF, seeking advice on neighborhoods and apartments
Moving into San Francisco. Advice on neighborhoods, and finding a place to rent? [more inside]
Creative or English Literature masters?
I'm currently finishing my last English Literature Honors paper and aim to continue academic study. My dilemma is that I am unsure of whether to apply for an English Literature MA or a Creative Writing MA. [more inside]
I just need my hard drive to mount one last time
I just need my hard drive to mount one last time... [more inside]
What are the side effects of general anesthetic?
Are the common side effects of general anesthetics REALLY that common? What if I eat toast beforehand? [more inside]
WAKE ME UP!
Everyone has it harder than me. So I should be taking advantage of that, right? [more inside]
What was this ceremony?
What kind of (possibly religous) celebration did I see today? [more inside]
Help teach my computer to follow a chart
Are there any machine readable music "fake books" available, free or for sale? [more inside]
Where to get snus when in LA and Vegas?
I was wondering if I can buy either the (purportedly not very good) Camel snus or even real Swedish snus in those cities? [more inside]
Men's Linen Jacket?
Where can I find a men's linen jacket like this? [more inside]
What was the music in 'Cyrus'?
Can you help me find the full soundtrack listing for the movie 'Cyrus'?
I'd like to give it a swift Boot to the Asus
What's the simplest way to start up my computer and format it correctly?
I have an Asus EEE PC 901 notebook with EEEbuntu loaded up on it. Just after it initiates the GRUB it jumps to a blue screen with an error notice telling me I have no space left on the device. Should I or do I need some kind of bootloader program to get in there and format this puppy or what? [more inside]
I need some major help with body image issues (self confidence)
I need some major help with body image issues (self confidence) I'm reaching out to the hive for some extremely personal advice (thank God for anonymous-ness). I apologize beforehand for my casual typing - I tend to type the way I talk, and it can go all over the place... [more inside]
Cyclophosphamide Side Effect Advice
I am starting low dose pulsed cyclophosphamide, and would like tips for coping with the side effects of nausea, vomiting and fatigue. [more inside]
Who said goodbye best?
What's a not-too-sappy quotation for a going away card? [more inside]
How do you get home with an expired driver's license?
Travel question: what do you do when your ID is expired? [more inside]
Medium distance, where's the in-between sparks?
New medium-distance relationship - sparks fly when together,radio silence in between - where do I go from here if at all? [more inside]
I lost my virginity and got herpes (maybe)
Yet another herpes post. There's been so many of these lately it's like an ominous sign. My boyfriend has genital herpes. I might have contracted it from him. I have already gone to a doctor and am awaiting test results. Help me/us prepare mentally and emotionally. [more inside]
What are your favorite science blogs?
What are some of the best Science (or more specifically Bioscience/natural resources) Blogs? [more inside]
How to break up with someone you are not dating?
Breakupfilter: Help me end a quasi-relationship! [more inside]
Photos of women from least to most attractive?
I'm looking for a specific chart showing women's faces from least to most attractive. [more inside]
HOPE ME METAFILTER!
Toronto housing HELP! Need a Toronto sublet 1 bedroom apartment or 1 bedroom in an apartment for a person doing a housing search in Toronto. We're having crap luck and need help from Metafilter. [more inside]
How can I get certified to officiate a wedding in South Carolina or North Carolina?
How can I get certified to officiate a wedding in South Carolina or North Carolina? [more inside]
ConspicuousConsumptionFilter
Best DLC for PS3? Short and sweet. What's a good ~$10 download for the PS3? (I've got Braid and Noby Noby Boy). I'm thinking of maybe Pixel Junk Monsters, or Flower. Is there anything else I should look at? Basically the only genres I'm not into are Racing and Fighting, but I'll make exceptions for excellence.
How do I write a program to analyze my data?
I need help writing a simple program that will compare numbers in a specific way. [more inside]
What are good places for buying first edition hardcover books?
What are good places for buying first edition hardcover books? [more inside]
Memory in books and media
Looking for fiction books, tv shows, movies, etc, that have something interesting to say about memory-- e.g., why we remember some things but forget others, the quality of memories, anything like that. [more inside]
What are some of the best jobs to have while I wait for my real job to start?
What are some of the best jobs to have while I wait for my real job to start? [more inside]
Help me find preserved fish with clear tissue and stained skeletons
I'm looking for a site or gallery of preserved fish/vertebrate specimens where the tissue was stained transparent but the skeletons were stained all sorts of exciting colors. I want to say the source was a Japanese website, and it was passed around the internet relatively recently. I can't recall if I found it on MeFi or on Google Reader, but it was somewhat popular. Help me out hive mind.
Robot Identification Filter
Robot identification help? [more inside]
Where can I get Red Sealing Wax FAST in Philadelphia and not spend a ton?
Where can I get Red Sealing Wax FAST in Philadelphia and not spend a ton? [more inside]
Tumbling all over the place.
What are your favorite design / image / art tumblrs? I'd like to start building a collection of feeds to get cool images for inspiration. [more inside]
How to merge old iTunes data?
iTunes: In the transition to a NAS device, I lost the xml file that held all my playlists, ratings and playback counts, so I had to start over with a new library. I have found a backup, but it's incomplete as I have since added quite a lot of new media. How can I best get my newly-found ratings and playback counts back in?
Used iPhone Craigslist Purchase
Anything I should be aware of when buying a used iPhone 3GS via Craigslist (to be activated afterwards on my existing AT&T account)? [more inside]
Can I go to med school?
I've been to two colleges. The first one, I received all W's and an F. The second one, I received all F's. Do I have a shot at medical school? [more inside]
AARP membership benefits?
Which benefits of AARP membership have you found useful, or heard of being so?
Making the most of my iPhone while I'm offline
What are your favourite iPhone apps that can be used offline? [more inside]
help me keep my cheap wine from becoming expensive vinegar
How should I store my wine? Considering that I almost never buy wine that costs more than 10 or 20 dollars, I don't think it's worth it for me to buy some fancy wine refrigerator that costs hundreds of dollars, but the temperature in my living room ranges from 68F to 90F (20C to 32C) and the insides of the closets are even hotter. [more inside]
How easy do I or do I not have it as a woman in the dating world?
All right. How difficult is it for women to flirt with men *really*? I often hear that just smiling at a dude is good enough, but how true is that? What tactics have been successful for you, ladies? What is it you gentlemen out there wish a woman would (reasonably) do in a social situation? I've read the SIRC guide to flirting, but I'm looking for some real world anecdotes to supplement that. [more inside]
What if I don't pay these traffic tickets?
We got three traffic tickets while visiting DC recently. All three were for things that are NOT illegal in our home state. What would happen if I just didn't pay them? [more inside]
WTF do I do? And why does the American Healthcare system suck so much?
YANMD-YANML Filter: After years of not having health insurance, I recently took my shiny new insurance card to the doctor to get a checkup. They found I had a horrible disease. So, wtf do I do now? [more inside]
Iconic yacht rock movies and tv
What movies and TV shows do you associate with the genre of yacht rock? [more inside]
What are the best (most interesting/useful) email newsletters?
What are the best (most interesting/useful) email newsletters? [more inside]
My food is corrosive?
What's corroding my Tupperware? [more inside]
Linux distro for giveaway computers
What would be the best Linux distribution for computers given to clients by a social services agency? [more inside]
How can I help in a specific GIMP effort.
How can I contribute to the efforts of GIMP being able to open a 16 bit image? [more inside]
how to be less impulsive
Personal development filter: I’d like to be less impulsive, any tips? [more inside]
Dye my red (really red) hair brown
What's the best way to dye fire-engine red hair brown? [more inside]
Help me rock the casual look.
Would like gobs of pictures of women well put-together, focusing mainly on casual looks, and perhaps a little advice on dressing casually. [more inside]
All work and no play make hubby something something
Help me put together a care package for my overworked husband. [more inside]
Herpes and swinging
Is disclosing herpes in a personal ad for swinging partners a breach of etiquette? (probably nsfw) [more inside]
How to date with no sex before marriage?
How to date with no sex before marriage? [more inside]
The image was Creative Commons, now licensed through Getty, wah?
What happens when a Flickr image is changed from a Creative Commons license to being licensed through Getty? [more inside]
Hang on every word I say!
How do I project an air of expertise to my dog training clients? These are people who have already chosen to come to me for help, know my qualifications and clearly want to see me as an expert. Being more authoritative will not only make them more compliant to my suggestions but also make them feel like they're getting their money's worth. [more inside]
Does CrashPlan take system resources throughout the day?
Does CrashPlan use substantial processor cycles or system resources throughout the day? [more inside]
What would you suggest to a novice manager?
What have you learned about managing a staff that took you years to realize and wish you had known on day 1? [more inside]
I can't believe it's not bacon
So I'm looking to entertain a new female acquaintance in NYC who is a vegetarian. My ten years of building up my foodie cred are worthless! Where can we have a nice dinner that is not Zen Palate or Angelica's? [more inside]
That Awful Fingernail Thing
You know that awful shivery feeling you get when your fingernails brush against certain paper or metal surfaces? That's happening to me frequently now, even when I'm not touching anything. What could it be, what should I do? [more inside]
Original Cat meeting New Kitten
Cat adjusting to new kitten: what's the next step for us to ensure they learn to get along? We've taken some basic steps already. [more inside]
Looking for a change..Toronto to Australia..Best place to continue my career and surf
Hi all,
My girlfriend and I are interested in taking advantage of the working holidaymaker visa offer by Australia to Canadians 18-30 inclusive as this is the last year it is available to me. [more inside]
Roadtrip through the American West
Hey folks – I’m pondering a two week roadtrip through the American West this fall and would like your input. [more inside]
How do I deal with multiple out-of-state family illnesses?
I can't stop feeling guilty about not being able to visit sick family members or help them more. I'm scared of others dying or being sick. [more inside]
The Case of the Unknown Font
What the heck font is this?
These are screencaps I've taken from the tv series Sherlock. If you haven't seen the show yet (and want to), I'd suggest not clicking; I think that all of them taken together would give away some of the fun of the series, if not exactly the plot.
If you have seen it (or don't care), and you're good at font recognition, please help!
Legal issues for special needs children
As a parent of a special needs child, what are some legal issues you wish someone had told you about before you had to deal with them? [more inside]
What's minerals are likely to be deficient with somebody who has arthritis?
A friend of mine has premature arthritis (she's 40 years old). She can't get enough iron, despite taking supplements, and we recently worked out that she's short of magnesium too. Loss of minerals is a common problem with arthritis but what other minerals is she likely to be missing, and what's the best way of replacing them?
I tried to avoid making a batman joke, but I couldn't help myself
California-girl in New England shenanigans filter: A bat flew into my house (and then MY FACE!) in the middle of the night last night. It didn't touch me, but it flew around my bedroom for about 30 minutes (while I stood in the hallway with a broom and a very bewildered look on my face) and then basically disappeared as quickly as it materialized. My question is this: WTF do I do now? [more inside]
Ashamed of my thoughts during sex
I keep thinking about porn when I have sex with my wife. NSFW. [more inside]
feels like burning
BurningFilter: best (and worst) advice for a handful of twentysomething female newbies camping for a week in the desert? [more inside]
Help me get paid to hold this guy's hand
My boss has ADD filter: Is there a way to manage task-scheduling capabilities and see what's been scheduled for you that day? Project management help needed! [more inside]
Recent wonderful children's book?
I need a beautiful, amazing children's book! [more inside]
Give me what I want, or I shall rub you a second time!
How did cats learn to be so manipulative? [more inside]
office politics strikes again
A colleague didn't do her work in a way that affects the entire office, and in particular makes my current project more difficult. Now she's gone away on holiday. Should I just do the work myself? [more inside]
Help taking screenshots on Android Droid X
I have a new Droid X, and need to take screen shots. I have the SDK, JDK and USB drivers installed, and my phone has USB debugging enabled. However, the DDMS will not display my device. [more inside]
Sue me baby
I am working with a lawyer to declare bankruptcy. I was served papers last week that show I am being sued by big huge credit card company for unpaid debt - around $30,000. I contacted my lawyer when I got served and she said if we could file before the date we had to appear in court there would be no problem. Hilariously, though, she is on vacation out of the country until just before the date I must appear in court, and I just got email from her assistant saying that we would probably not be able to file bankruptcy before the deadline and that I may have to 'file a response' to the suit. [more inside]
Now or later?
Break up today or next week? [more inside]
Please recommend a toddler MP3 player.
My almost-2-year-old loves carrying around toys that make music. We are bored with the same 3 songs. Can MeFi parents recommend MP3 players that are toddler-tough (can be dropped, thrown and is big enough to not get lost) with big buttons (but no volume control) that have an external speaker (but maybe a headphone jack for later)? We want to load our music on it rather than buying a pre-loaded one. (Working with iTunes would be a nice plus too.) [more inside]
Looking for options of places to stay during Mardi Gras (8+ people)
Coming down the New Orleans for Mardi Gras and was looking for recommendations on the best option for a group of 6-8+ on where to stay. I've been to Mardi Gras in the past, but always stayed local with friends - while this is clearly an optimal/cheaper option, it's not available to me for the coming Carnival season. [more inside]
Should I get a cat?
Should I get a cat? I'm planning on moving across the country in the next couple years. [more inside]
Kid Book Help
Another "help me remember this kid book" question. [more inside]
How do I make an animation involving text, still photos, and music?
How do I make an animation involving text, still photos, and music? [more inside]
Help me have a blast in Eastern PA!
Day Trip in Eastern PA filter: Halfway between Harrisburg PA and Newark NJ. What’s a fun Day? [more inside]
Looking for Unix sysadmin training alternatives to USENIX/LISA in the U.S.
Where can my colleague go in the U.S. for up to a week of sysadmin training and mingling? [more inside]
Plus size lingerie that doesn't suck?
Plus size lingerie that can be bought online from a website that doesn't make me fear for my credit card's safety or a fatal accidents from overly cheap elastics/snaps? [more inside]
Becoming a criminal defense lawyer in L.A.
I am a bankruptcy lawyer in Texas interested in moving to Los Angeles to practice criminal defense. I have significant criminal defense experience from earlier in my career. Could any of you familiar with the Los Angeles criminal courts system answer a few questions about how easy it is to "break in" as a newly arrived criminal defense attorney in L.A.? [more inside]
Which four drive NAS storage solution to choose for home use?
Which four drive NAS storage solution to choose for home use? (Summer 2010 edition) [more inside]
'we had the same dream'
Happy Ambient Music? I'm looking for ambient soundscapes that won't make me feel like demons are slowly approaching (Aphex Twin, etc)
I'm looking for study music that'll help me get in a happy zone.
Carryon Backpack Wheels?
Backpack for Europe Filter: We'd appreciate your suggestions on a backpack for a trip to Europe. Relevant details inside. [more inside]
Non-Sketch Estate Sale Resources
What is the best resource for finding out when and where estate sales are happening? [more inside]
Valtrex as a prophylactic?
Is it reasonable to keep a supply of Valtrex around to take after protected casual sex to prevent herpes? [more inside]
Period but still pregnant?
What are the chances that she is pregnant? Can you have a period and still be pregnant? [more inside]
How to stop sex from becoming a Stephen King plotline.
My wife has expressed a desire to spend the night tied up. How can I fulfil her wishes while minimising the risks of turning this into a scene out of Gerald's Game? [It's probably safe to assume that this AskMe is NSFW] [more inside]
Can I de-etch this sketch?
How can I remove faux / false etching on glass doors? [more inside]
Looking for UNESCO Bopshpere video
I am looking for an online group of videos featuring photgraphs from various UNESCO Biosphere areas. I watched it about four years ago.
I think there was a sountrack....
Latin translation of "worse things happen at sea".
Please provide me with a Latin translation of "Worse things happen at sea". [more inside]
Short term Central London leases sought, the shorter the better!
Sources of short term leasehold properties, Central London? [more inside]
Environmental history.
Environmental ancient history. I'm after examples in history (the further back the better) where efforts were made to protect, restore or otherwise preserve the environment. [more inside]
fairy tales with swimming in rivers?
I'm looking for fairy tales that have swimming in them, or river symbolism: Puss in Boots is one. [more inside]
Another Sauna Showdown
How should I handle a faucet that hurts me?
How should I handle faucets that are too far away for me to reach easily? Are there any DIY remedies or should I just replace them? [more inside]
Yet Another iPhone/iPad Printing Question
This is a followup question about printing from an iPhone/iPad app: the original question can be found here.
Blazecock Pileon and GuyZero (and anyone else), please respond! [more inside]
No Grandchild, Sorry!
How do I handle the demand, "Give me a grandchild?" [more inside]
Getting in shape without a gym.
I want to loose the fat tire around my belly but I'm having a few problems with: motivation, timing, diet, exercise plan, and a lack of a gym. I need a some serious self-motivation advice, and some tips on how to workout without a gym. Help a guy in his 20s get where he needs to be! [more inside]
What party games with guitars are there?
I like to take my acoustic guitar to parties. As well as songs and karoke, what else can I do? Examples inside. [more inside]
A garden of things that are cheaper to plant than to buy
Lazy and cheap gardening in Los Angeles: what plants, fruits, etc. are cheaper to grow (and maintain) than to buy? [more inside]
August 11
Maine cheaply, chiefly.
36 hours in Maine this weekend with a rental car. I am thinking of not getting a hotel room and instead car-camping. I'll be in Camden Maine for a wedding Friday and Saturday and plan to return to Boston late on Saturday to take a bus to DC. I want to spend as much of Friday wandering around Portland before driving to Camden and kind of want to spend the morning in Portland on Saturday, too. Is this a good idea? Any tips on quiet places to park and snooze?
J'espère que cela ne coûtera pas les yeux de la tête
What's the best value prepaid SIM card for a week long visit to France, averaging...say...15-30 minutes of talk + 100 MB of data per day? [more inside]
How to enjoy being alone for 3 days?
How should I make the most of home time on my own please?
I am at home and sick on my own. My husband is at a conference for 3 days. What fun stuff should I be doing to maximise the unusual experience of being home alone, without really wanting to go anywhere? [more inside]
What is the safest route to walk from downtown Chicago to Lincoln Park?
A Chicago-specific question: I would like to walk from the Sears Tower to the intersection of Sheffield and Armitage on a weekday evening, around 7pm. I'm a petite, young woman. What is the safest, not terribly out-of-the-way route to travel?
Freezer with icicles.
Why is there an ice age in my freezer? [more inside]
Superhuman ability, or trickery?
In this YouTube video linked over at kottke today, we see some astonishing gymnastic 'dancing' by the Ross Sisters in 'Solid Potato Salad'. But some of it just seems beyond belief -the scene in the wagon ... and the apple in the hayloft (!). Was this for real, or was there camera trickery involved?
[How] Can I safely repair the nick in this electric cord?
[How] Can I safely repair the nick in this electric cord? Is there anything I can use besides electrical tape? [more inside]
How much Ativan to take
I took .5 mg of Ativan. What will happen if I take another .5? [more inside]
NYC/NJ travel advice
Where should we stay during our Labor Day visit to NYC/NJ? [more inside]
Bike legs.
BikeCommuteFilter: Shifting up to riding five days a week. But my legs already hurt from my twice-a-week routine! [more inside]
Damn the... something besides torpedoes.
"Damn the torpedoes!"... without all the torpedoes? Help me find the right metaphor. [more inside]
Help me regrow my hair.
I think my hair is too thin and it's not related to genetics, what could it be? I'm a 30 year old female. [more inside]
How do I tell my manager to wake up?
How do I (or we) speak to my manager about his increasing lack of involvement in what we feel are the core components of a product's (re)launch, especially when the stakes in the launch include: our careers, the fate of the company, and the jobs of fellow colleagues in the office? [more inside]
Setting up a trust for a sister
Dealing with a will gone bad- Need advice about setting up a trust for my sister, and dealing with her difficult personality. [more inside]
How can I broach the topic of my own sexual satisfaction without upsetting my boyfriend who has erectile dysfunction?
How can I broach the topic of my own sexual satisfaction without upsetting my boyfriend who has erectile dysfunction? [more inside]
Too good to be true?
Can anyone vouch for eyelash growth serums? RapidLash? [more inside]
Pain relief for a cancer and arthritis patient in New York City?
My father, in his late 60s, is a prostate cancer and arthritis patient and is currently in a lot of pain to the point where he doubles over groaning. His oncologist and general practitioner have prescribed Oxycodone, which he takes one-two at a time, but sometimes even that doesn't help and other times it makes him sick. The MDs aren't sure whether the cancer or arthritis are to blame at the moment. He'll go back on chemo on Monday and get a full set of scans in September. Meanwhile, does anyone have recommendations for pain relief of the mainstream or alternative variety? He has already tried acupuncture without great success. His lives in NYC. Thank you.
How do I give constructive feedback about something about which I know little?
A friend of mine wants me to review his business' web site. I have, and it looks awful. Problem is, I'm not a web designer/graphic designer/etc. I wouldn't know where to start giving him feedback. [more inside]
Need a dentist.
Looking for a dentist in the general vicinity of St. Louis. [more inside]
Shantel, Boban Markovic, ahhhh
I'll be in Serbia for a week... what should I definitely see? (also - any Mefites going to the Guca brass festival?) [more inside]
Best desktop interactive video conferencing software?
What is the best desktop interactive video conferencing software that can accommodate a group of 20 participants all capable of interacting during the session? [more inside]
Sequence board game online ?
Does the board game Sequence from jax games .. exist online for multiple players to compete ? I'd love to play this online with friends from other states/countries :) Buuuuuut .. can't seem to find an online version anywhere! Can you find it ? [more inside]
Maybe vodka will improve things?
I made Ina Garten's roasted tomato soup and accidentally put in way too much dried thyme. It's tasty, but difficult to enjoy as soup. How do I rescue my soup? If I can't rescue it, what else can I do with it?
How Do I Make This Kid Go Away?
Completely awkward and odd dating conundrum.. My fiancé's teenage son has a crush on me. [more inside]
Can I hang out at the bar if I'm dating the bartender?
Dating a bartender - is it ok to hang out at the bar? (But me and the bar began our relationship first!) [more inside]
Casual dinner in London RIGHT NOW - where?
It's 23:00 / 11:00PM. I'm in London, near St. Pauls. Where can I eat right now? Nothing fancy, just something to get a decent late casual dinner. Takeaway or delivery is fine (or even preferred), and totally flexible on cuisine. A good curry or Kebab shop would be idea. I don't mind taking a taxi or the tube, but I don't want to be out all night. Any ideas?
Nontraditional wedding party for the wedding party
What kind of activities can I arrange for a non-traditional, joint bachelor-bachelorette party? [more inside]
Care package for a new mother in Japan?
What can I put in a care package for a new mother in Japan? (I'm in the U.S.) [more inside]
Quranic Recitation
When a qari recites qur'an is the melody an improvisation? [more inside]
Where can i see list of non-fb pages i've 'liked'?
I've been clicking the 'like' button all over the interwebs -on pages and articles and slideshows and whatnot. Now i want to view a list of all things i've "liked", so that i can revisit them. (To a certain extent, i've been liking things as a way of bookmarking them.) Problem: on facebook, i can see a list of the pages within facebook that i've liked, and i can see recent non-fb-pages that i've liked in my profile's recent activity. So: where can a see a list of all the non-fb pages i've liked? [more inside]
Nature reference book tips!
Please recommend a reference book for trees and plants (flowers, etc) in the high Rocky Mountain region (specifically Utah). I would like to purchase this book online if possible. [more inside]
All the umbrellas in London couldn't stop this rain, and all the dope in New York couldn't kill this pain
Every breakup is its own special snowflake. Should I try to put the pieces back together or is it time to cut losses and go our seperate ways? (Sorry, this is going to get long) [more inside]
Router too old for iPad?
My friend bought an iPad. It works great everywhere but at home - apps take a long time to load or don't load at all. Apple says her existing router (Netgear) is too old and sold her an Airport Express. Can she plug in the existing router to the Airport Express (instead of connecting it to the modem) to create a stronger wireless signal or will that just create conflict? What else can we do? [more inside]
WM -> JPM? When?
Will my shares of Washinton Mutual (WM) stock ever be converted to Chase (JPM)?
What's the source of this quote about genius?
"A genius is someone who has the same opinions as you, but expresses them better." Who said it? [more inside]
Four-legged carnivorous dinosaurs?
My six-year-old son wants to know how many carnivorous dinosaurs walked on four legs. [more inside]
What is the energy efficiency of mini fridges/drinks coolers like?
What is the energy efficiency of mini fridges/drinks coolers like? I have one but it runs a fan all the time, so I think it's gonna eat a lot of power. [more inside]
Help find a story about a kid who gets called "The Machine" by the Russian Mafia
Help me find a story about a kid who goes on a tour with his school to Russia, gets involved with some guys from the mafia, and ends up with the nickname "The Machine" [more inside]
A New York Homestead
I've been idly dreaming about building a small house someday, something along the lines of the small houses (not the tiny ones) designed by Tumbleweed Tiny House Company. I'd like to know more about what this would entail in the area where I currently live. [more inside]
The shit that got Shakespeare back his groove
I want the best goddamned period music you've ever heard. Colonial, Renaissance, pre-classical... You name it I want it. No choral works. [more inside]
How to handle a past DUI and security clearance in a small company.
Security clearance with a past DUI, how to handle it with bosses. [more inside]
Can we curse on AskMe? I want to.
I'm bitter and angry at my ex-husband. Also, shallow. Please help me change. [more inside]
Help me find a doctor!
I need to see an internist who accepts Medicare in NYC, as soon as possible. But I don't know who to see or even where to start looking. [more inside]
My boyfriend may have fathered a child...
Just found out the boyfriend probably has an 8 year old son. Why am I so jealous? How do I let it go instead of ruminating on it? [more inside]
Let's play "Please the Pescetarian!"
Mrs Supercres just switched from vegetarian to pescetarian (which she already asked about). And I'm a fish-cooking neophyte. Now that the initial shock / honeymoon is over, help us integrate fish and shellfish into our weekday dinners cheaply and conveniently. [more inside]
GoDaddy Reseller Alternative or any other ideas?
Anyone Know of an Alternative to GoDaddy's (domain/hosting) Reseller Program? [more inside]
I want information to just fly across the room willy-nilly.
Will you help me figure out what my printer-side port is so that I can convert my printer to Bluetooth-ready? [more inside]
I blue myself
A Link to the Reference Table Past
MS Access question. I have a table of references and a query that returns case numbers. Another table lists the references and case numbers that are linked to each other. I need to find a way to list the references for each case that are NOT linked to that case. Difficulty level inside. [more inside]
What bird is this?
Which watch?
Can someone please tell me the pros/ cons/ differences between the Citizen 8700 and 2100 series men's watches? Do you have one or know someone who does? I have 3 specific models I am looking at. [more inside]
There has to be a good doctor here somewhere, right?
New health insurance, need a new primary care doctor. I live in Woburn, MA, so I'd prefer one as close to there as possible, and preferably female (though for awesome one, I'd accept a male doctor.) [more inside]
What do I need to watch out when chaperoning a friend's daughter at a concert?
What do I need to watch out when chaperoning a friend's daughter at a concert? [more inside]
My roommate really wants to have sex, maybe more. Is this such a bad thing?
Is sleeping with your roommate as bad of an idea that I am thinking that it is or am I making too big of a deal about it? [more inside]
Relative has screwed me over financially, help me minimize the impact and get repaid
A relative has just proceeded to screw me over financially. What is my best course of action? Should I sue? How can I handle the situation? Long explanation inside. [more inside]
Audio OK, Video Wonky
Why won't my cellphone videos play on my computer? [more inside]
It's NOT thrush
A question about IUD/the Coil - persistent infection and removal. [more inside]
germanyfilter: visit after visa?
US citizen, living in Germany on a visa that is about to expire. I'll be leaving soon, but I want to return for a visit! How long do I have to wait before I can come back for one of those 90-day visa-less stays? [more inside]
From Woof, Woof to Wiouf, Wiouf
Can I buy a seat on a plane for my dog? [more inside]
Where to watch Perseids near NYC
Where's the best place to watch meteors within driving distance of Brooklyn? [more inside]
MF seeks FPC for yearly health romp.
Please hope me. Can anyone personally recommend a good primary care doctor in Manhattan? Must be female, sorry this is non-negotiable. [more inside]
I'm a Aeroputz and need magical solution for mildew smell on rubber
You guys are my last hope: is there anything I can do to remove the mildew smell from my Aeropress plunger? It turns out I accidentally put the Aeropress away without removing the used coffee "puck" first — and it stayed that way for weeks. Of course, the rubber end of the plunger has a mildew smell, which seems invincible. We removed the rubber bit and I've tried covering it with baking soda, soaking it in vinegar, soaking it in vinegar and soda, soaking in dilute bleach, and then dilute peroxide. THEN... my husband sanded down the rubber end a bit, and I tried it all over again, to no avail. [more inside]
Ideas for visiting Louisville, Kentucky.
I live in Atlanta and take a couple of road trips a year by myself to clear my mind and write. I’m married and not looking for ‘a good time’ in that sense. Mostly I want to enjoy a good drive and a lively public space. A good local bookstore is a plus, but I’ll need a good coffee shop and some entertaining watering holes where I can sit in the corner and write. Parks and green spaces are also a plus.
Also, as an Atlantan I really drive too much and would rather not do a lot of driving when I get to my destination. I’ve tried and enjoyed Asheville, NC for the past year or two, but I’m looking to change it up and give Louisville a try. Is Louisville what I’m looking for, and if so, where should I stay?
I Have a Dream, A Two-Wheeled Dream
Dream bike: I know what I want but how can I get it? Am I going to have to go to a custom shop and it is going to cost tons? Is there an easier way? What are the right terms to use when explaining it to a bike dude? [more inside]
Looking for a particular bag
I'm looking for the leather bag found in the LXD episode "The Lettermakers" found on Hulu. [more inside]
This is not the disaster it appears to be, trust us.
What do crisis management PR campaigns such as BP and Toyota's actually accomplish and how? [more inside]
Mac Mail hangs after accidentally attached huge file
After accidentally attaching a huge file to an e-mail, Mac Mail hangs. How can we fix this? [more inside]
Craig's List advice
Craig's list help, please. [more inside]
don't fear the taxman
Anyone know what interest rate that the IRS charges on back taxes? Can't find this info anywhere. Thanks.
Recommendations for free iPhone Cases?
Can anyone recommend any of the free cases in the iPhone 4 case program? I have a little while left to order, but I haven't seen any of the cases in person (even the bumpers), and I don't know which to get. [more inside]
Experiences with California Low Cost Auto Insurance?
Does anyone have experiences with the California Low Cost Auto Insurance (CLCA) program, and/or any advice for applying?
(Anonymous because the program is only for individuals dancing with the poverty line, and I'd rather not make my financial circumstances known) [more inside]
Is this just wrong?
I have a crush on a girl that appears to be way too young for me. Appears. [more inside]
School for the anti-student
How did you make school "work" for you? [more inside]
Unexpected tri-state area leisure time...
Last-minute day off filter: Can anyone recommend a neat-o spot to spend the afternoon/evening within a couple hours of NYC? I'm looking for shopping, good places to eat, nifty scenery...and will award huge bonus points if there's a great record store involved. [more inside]
Why don't they just go to Pizza Express?
In London there's a chain of restaurants called Aberdeen/Angus Steakhouse - dated decor, expensive, scorned by locals but seemingly extremely popular with tourists. Are there equivalents in other cities?
A question about questions.
What do you wish you had asked / talked with your significant other about before you got hitched? [more inside]
Breakfast ideas, please!
I need to find breakfast ideas that keep me full. I won't eat eggs, I'm allergic to soy and I don't care for oatmeal. What should I eat? [more inside]
Microsoft Excel or Substitute?
Microsoft Excel substitute (Open Office seems not to work) needed to open a spreadsheet (directory of businesses) based on macros. [more inside]
How can I digitize my entire library?
I have many books - several thousand. I may soon be moving to a house with more limited space. I'm considering scanning all the books, and then destroying them or putting them into storage. Is this feasible? What hardware and software would I need? Has anyone done this already, and are there any internet resources to help with this? [more inside]
Crippled iMac. Busted iBook. Tight budget. Do I repair the iBook or buy a netbook?
I'm returning to school and would like to have some sort of portable computer. I have a few options, but an not sure which is best in terms of budget and longer-term investment. [more inside]
Given short shrift at visit to the doctor
My husband recently had an appointment with a new doctor, primarily to discuss issues of mild depression and a mystery nodule in his inguinal region. Depression is not chronic or severe, and husband has never sought treatment for it before, but doctor (a) prescribed Effexor + Xanax right off the bat; (b) did not discuss "discontinuation syndrome" or other potential side effects; (c) did not look at the nodule at all. What would you do? [more inside]
Too much stuff for my car, too little for everything else.
Can you suggest a mover for a (very) small amount of stuff? I have to move to a new apartment in the next 2 weeks, but I have very little stuff : one bedroom's worth of furniture, a sofa, and a folding table with some chairs. I only have 2 boxes of books. I called some moving companies, but the smallest load they will take is still way more than I have. I live in the Maryland suburbs of DC. Thanks. [more inside]
How can I get rid of the smell of disinfectant?
Our basement flooded with sewage last week and was cleaned and then disinfected with Jeyes Fluid (a very strong dinsinfectant). Whilst this is a great improvement on the previous smell, it is pretty overpowering, and a week later there's no signs of it fading... Any tips for neutralising smell/replacing it with something better? Have tried leaving doors/windows open/incense/candles/air freshener to no effect.
One bad Apple....
Fed up with Apple and want to try something else. [more inside]
Moving cross-country. No new address. No money... Yikes!
My girlfriend and I are shipping all non fixtures from our 1 bedroom apartment across the country. We will not have a new address until after we move. What is the best way to ship everything? [more inside]
Replacing schools/golf courses/churches with vertical farms.
What are the not-so-obvious problems that may occur if a major city replaced dying schools/golf courses/churches with multi-leveled solar/geothermal powered hydroponic vertical farms? [more inside]
Name That Font
August 10
Self-publish a friend's novel using MS Word?
My friend wrote a novel and is having trouble getting it published. I'd like to make a print copy of it for her on Lulu but I'm having trouble figuring out how to layout the type correctly. Also, I have never done this before. Help a type n00b do something nice for a friend. [more inside]
What website will you compare the map of two cities side by side?
Website that will compare the size of two cities by show the map side by side. [more inside]
The only chemist who does a triple integral without complaining
I studied mathematics and some computer science as an undergrad, and I loved it. I feel that my real passion, however, is in experimental sciences or engineering. What are some graduate school options for me? [more inside]
Yee Haw, Road Trip
I am driving from Coolangatta Gold Coast to Sydney next week - taking five days - and am interested in hearing your sightseeing/accommodation recommendations. [more inside]
Name these 1980s SF movies
Please guess what these creepy 1980s SF type films might be. They aired on HBO or Showtime in the mid-1980s. [more inside]
Does anyone know what happened to Percy Paul, the mathematician?
Random documentary filter: I just watched this film about Percy Paul, a brilliant mathematician with bipolar disorder and I was wondering how he's doing today in 2010. By chance does anyone on the green know?
I'm good for it... I swear!
CreditFilter: What is the best way to improve credit, when facing bad credit that does not involve credit card debt? [more inside]
To the bat-tube!
Can someone please help me locate a video, wav or mp3 of the announcer saying "same bat time, same bat channel" from the end of the old Batman TV series?
The logistics of placebos
Are there U.S. laws or professional guidelines regarding physicians prescribing placebos to patients, or is there really nothing stopping a doctor from misleading a patient about the efficacy of a drug? Furthermore, is it technically possible that popular medications many of us know by name could themselves be nothing more than placebo pills? [more inside]
Sorting through the junkyard of movie memories
Can anyone identify for me the name of this bizarro comedy from the 80s/early 90s? [more inside]
Seeming simple question about HTML lists.
I want to use a different image for each bullet in a list, but I'm stuck. [more inside]
Are there any wines from 1970 worth shipping/drinking for $200 or less?
Is there a point to buying and shipping a 1970 vintage wine to Texas for less than $200? Or will it just taste terrible? [more inside]
coworker invades personal privacy
My coworker read my personal files. Should confront him, avoid the confrontation, or bring the issue to Human Resources? [more inside]
Too Much Cornmeal
I've recently found myself in possession of 7.5 pounds (five full cartons) of corn meal. What can I do with this great corny bounty? Bonus points for being able to use as much as possible in a single batch of *something.* Projects, crafts, household tips, or recipe suggestions needed. Difficulty: Please NO corn bread or polenta recipes. [more inside]
How can I get a contact lens prescription without buying lenses from the same place?
How can I get a contact lens prescription without buying lenses from the same place? [more inside]
Citronella Collar: Can I refill it with water?
I have a Coon Hound and she barks a LOT. Pretty much on a constant basis. She has gotten much better about barking, but my husband and I are fixing to move and when we are gone we have been told that she howls/barks/cries the ENTIRE time we are gone. I have been looking at Citronella Collars, but before I opt into buying one I need to know if I can refill it with water. [more inside]
[novice photog filter] Where can my wife learn photography?
Mrs. Draccy would like to take an intro to photography class near Worcester, MA, but I am unable to find something relevant to a novice (read: near no experience) photog. She doesn't enjoy using the internet to learn and would prefer classroom or workshop environments. Any suggestions?
I want to be a brain in a jar
I’m feeling really devastated right now, and could use some solid, grounded advice. The big picture: last night I finally talked to my husband about why we weren’t having sex. Like, at all. Turns out it’s because I’m fat. How do I get over the pain of this revelation and what should I do about this mess I find myself in, emotionally? [more inside]
If only they made a Fitrester
Looking for advice on a new-to-me car. Anyone with experience of late-model Subaru Foresters, Honda Fits, and the AWD vs. FWD question? I'll be in central NJ. Loooong-winded "more inside" with a summary. [more inside]
Where on the Web might I find the thoughts and/or creations of amateur album art creato
Where on the Web might I find the thoughts and/or creations of amateur album art creators?
Skin care in my thirties
My skin's celebrating its birthday this week! [more inside]
Give Me a Portal, Please!
I'm looking for an online solution and don't know if it exists. A customizable and private web portal that is widget-based (or similar) that I don't have to code myself, which a small group of people can have access to. [more inside]
How much do I need to explain about my crime?
I need to know if I've explained my "crime" sufficiently for a volunteer position that requires a "police background check." [more inside]
Help me pare down my shape!
What can I do to become less pear-shaped? Pear shape = Tiny breasts, huge thighs. Resources for work-outs, success stories or even ways to help me accept myself the way I am are greatly appreciated! [more inside]
What are your favorite LGBTQ YouTube accounts and blogs?
What are your favorite YouTube accounts and blogs by members of the LGBTQ and kink community? [more inside]
What movie is this?
What's this American movie? I only remember one scene - two guys, holding a third guy in between them (by his legs and arms); they bust in a door, run down a hallway yelling then dump the third guy into a bathtub full of shit. Aired on Australian TV as the Sunday night movie, c1985. [more inside]
I promise not to unlesh demons and or virii
Going' To A Cabin In Maine For A Week -Filter: So it looks like I'm spending a week in Palermo, ME at a friend's cabin by the lake. What did you wish you did during your rustic cabin adventure? What did you wish you brought? Tips for surviving or enjoying? Fun stuff to see in the area or places or food that can't be missed? Fun things to do with your SO along? We'll have a bike, a car, running water and some limited internet access. [more inside]
Please help me identify all the films excerpted on threeframes.net
Help me put bottles of Benedictine liqueur, amaretto, and sambuca to good use
Help me put bottles of Benedictine liqueur, amaretto, and sambuca to good use. [more inside]
Upgrade current iPad?
What is the best way to get a second generation iPad when it comes out in exchange for my current one?
The most cost effective way would be the best.
Help me instill a recycling program at my work! I have no idea how though.
I want to start a recycling program at my work. How feasible is this, how do I get support and prove that it's worth the cost to whoever I need to prove it to, etc, as an employee very far down the food chain? [more inside]
No, it's not Se7en!
Vague childhood memory of watching an old B&W creepy movie, very likely a Vincent Price movie, but I cannot pick it out from his imdb listings. [more inside]
Help me track down an old hilarious comment thread about embarrassing children
Trying to track down a comment thread that made the rounds three years ago where a bunch of parents posted stories where their young children embarrassed the daylights out of them. [more inside]
Where can I purchase Chemex coffee filters in Minneapolis-St Paul?
Where can I find Chemex filters to purchase in Minneapolis-St Paul area? I rummaged up an old Chemex coffee maker and I know I'm able to order filters online, but is there anywhere locally that I can purchase the fliters. Thanks in advance!
Childhood Book Set in Medieval Times
I read this book in the 1970s or possibly the early 1980s. The story is set in medieval times, the main character is a girl and it has to do with damask roses (breeding or raising them?). There's more too it of course, but that's all I remember.
The book was a paperback and the cover had a full colour drawing of the girl on the front standing by some roses. I believe she's wearing a rose coloured cotehardie or something similar. A rock wall or well may have also been in the background of the cover.
My schedule is totally not interested in you
Mind-reading Filter: What does this mean - "Well, I'm totally booked up this week... I don't know what my schedule is next week." [more inside]
Combatting Transphobia 101?
Dear enlightened AskMe, can you help me talk well, make clear points and provide quality links to nerdy teenagers on the internet about transgender issues? [more inside]
How can I patch the exposed cinder block at my back door?
RenoFilter: So I've had a external door cut and installed in a cinder-block wall. How the heck should I finish / patch up the exposed cinder-blocks? Concrete? Siding? Pictures inside. [more inside]
Beloved Beach Hut
We’re trying to find a destination for a non-hotel beach vacation in the Caribbean or Central America. [more inside]
When can a third party make a case for copyright infringement?
Where are my DMCA and IP and web publishing experts? Need some generic legal-ish advice. [more inside]
How can I keep my cat off the back of the couch?
How can I keep my cat off the back of the couch? [more inside]
What's the best place for a Fantasy Football League?
What's the best site to manage a custom NFL fantasy football league? There are a ton of options, but teh google failed me in finding a comprehensive site that evaluates all the systems out there. Most reviews I did find were old. Anyone have any suggestions?
Cat is in the Bag
Flying with a cat soon and I have a basic question about the luggage side of the procedure- is the extra fee for the animal equal to the "fare" for the little guy? if so do I as the seat holder [who also paid a fare] still get one carry on bag AND one "personal" bag, laptop or purse? Seems like it should be so since without the animal I would have that limit and I pay extra for the space the cat uses as well.
help me find a beloved book from my youth
(book filter) A young boy befriends a tallking dog who is actually an alien from outer space. [more inside]
Always wanted a pair of these, now I'm ready to buy!
Ring Boots: Need advice on the right pair to buy [more inside]
My sister's in a bind
My youngest sister has been married less than a year, is ten weeks pregnant, and just left her husband. How do I help her? [more inside]
Short term flat rental in London?
Looking for a short-term flat rental in London. One month, probably. Has anyone had a good experience with a particular vacation rental company or have any other advice? [more inside]
Infant 101
We are having our first baby soon. Yay... Any info and advice appreciated.
What is your trusted brand, tip and trick on selecting baby formula, diaper to crib. What about car seat? Would a cheap one from wal-mart would work? I mean all the car seats in the market has to meet the current safety standards, right?
I went through most of the old AskMeFi thread, but if there's one you particularly like, please do link.
How do I get a fresh coffee stain out of a chair?
I just spilled coffee on an upholstered office chair. How do I get it out? [more inside]
NBA players with big hands?
Sports filter: I have some questions about hand size among basketball players. [more inside]
Anthemic Contemporary Songs
What songs from the last five or so years of pop/rock music would you describe as "anthemic"? [more inside]
Pittsburgh: The man who fell into an upholstery machine is fully recovered
What Pittsburgh-area stores have the widest selection of upholstery fabric? [more inside]
It's a game of tug-of-war, and I'm the rope
I got a new job that wants me to start right away. Needless to say my boss at my current job is miffed that I'm not giving the classic two week's notice. How can I handle this? [more inside]
Good books about Prague?
I'm heading to Prague for a few weeks and would like to know more about the history and culture there. Can anyone suggest good books (including historical fiction/novels)? [more inside]
Best tweaks for jailbroken iphone?
Thanks to the easy new web-based jailbreaking tool, even an idiot like me was able to jailbreak my iPhone4. I've been enjoying it for a few days, but there are a few functionalities that I'd love to add to my phone, that I can't seem to find on Cydia, etc. I'm pretty new at this, so can anyone help me find an easy way to tweak my phone in the following ways [more inside]
How do I encourage my wife to lose weight...?
How do I encourage my wife to lose weight...? [more inside]
Kevin Nealon SNL sketch where guest cries + he smiles?
What was the name of the character in the SNL sketch where Kevin Nealon was a TV interviewer, he'd keep questioning guests until they cry, and then he'd make a strange satisfied face at the camera? [more inside]
Help Me Start Paying My Dues!
ResumeFilter: What do social justice/community organizing groups look for? How do I find the good ones? [more inside]
Is Davidlynch.com dead (or in a coma)?
Does anyone know whats going on with David Lynch.com? [more inside]
Gantt Charts for Basecamp
What's the best Basecamp add-on for making Gantt charts? [more inside]
A good glue can stave of entropy and fill you with a warm glow.
I want to take Casio watches (or the equivalent) and/or old cell phones and glue stuff to them--beads, bits of circuit board, Lego minifig heads, etc.
What would be the best glue for this purpose? [more inside]
Learning to carve?
How long does it take to learn how to carve wooden objects, and how expensive is it to get set up? [more inside]
Single grub/larva on kitchen table
Found this grub/maggot/larva on kitchen table. (Apartment's kitchen, "dining area," living area are all connected.) Just a single bug, not a whole clutch of them. Should I be concerned? I kind of expected there would be more of them. Did it come out of the nearby fruit dish with apples and bananas? Do I have to do any radical cleaning? Is my kitchen that dirty?
Help me learn Adobe Production Premium Suite... please!
Best way to learn to use Adobe Production Premium Suite? [more inside]
History
I am a student with a embarrassingly poor knowledge of social and political history. As such I can't engage with current affairs and understand political problems on a deeper level. What would you recommend as good books/films/novels which give an outline of a certain important period in history? How can I improve my general knowledge of the past? [more inside]
Help me identify this SciFi novel.
Help me identify this SciFi novel. I can't remember the title or who wrote it.
I read it back in the late 1970s or early 80s, so it is at least that old. [more inside]
How hard is the PTCB exam?
How hard is the PTCB test, really? [more inside]
Anti-MaryJane
Arguments Against Marijuana. Why not smoke pot? [more inside]
Reporting Merchants who Charge Fees for Cedit Cards
How/where do you report merchants (and even city/county/government agencies) that are charging a “fee” for using credit cards as a form of payment? [more inside]
What to do about burnout when you can't be replaced immediately?
I run a small charity that works with several hundred children with about 40 staff doing operations and two people working with me on fundraising and management. I'm unpaid and fulltime, and completely burnt out but it's not a job I can quit or handover immediately - I'm doing a transition to half-time, but it will take another six months, due to the specialised work. How do I stop myself from just setting fire to my desk one day? [more inside]
Gravely grappling with gravel grandeur
What size gravel do I need to (a) top up my driveway and (b) fill in a trench? [more inside]
Dictionary Add-in for Word 2003?
The default dictionary in Word 2003 is burdened by slow response time from the query server @ Microsoft. We're fed up with it in our corporate environment. Does anyone know a third-party app that integrates well with Word 2003?
Dying hard drive or something else?
iMac starts up very slowly, freezes during use, and I am unable to successfully run Time Machine or manually copy files to external drive. [more inside]
The Great Livejournal Migration of 2010
A friend is thinking of doing away with her Livejournal and writing Facebook notes instead so she asked for comments and thoughts to help with her decision. What sorts of comments and thoughts should she be most aware of?
I like my fruit mushy.
Is fruit juice really not as good as regular fruit? [more inside]
Slayer one press Ptart
I have been trying to get a job in the game industry, I'm close but I need to take the next step. Thing is, I'm not sure what that is. [more inside]
Sleeping in my car...
I am driving out to Newport, RI next week. I plan on sleeping in my car and would like to know if there are any safe, quiet places (with a nearby public bathroom or 24hour diner) to park at night in Newport or around there?
Bonus if you can tell me where to find giant sock puppts in Vegas dancing to 'How Do You Like Me Now?'
I'm doing Denver-Utah-Vegas later this week. Suggestions on food/sights/activities? [more inside]
Mac unzip/unrar software with preview?
Is there unZIPping/unRARing software for the Mac that allows you to see what's inside of an archive file without extraction? Seems like double-clicking on archives with any software I've used immediately extracts the files within. I'd like to be able to preview those files first, and perhaps selectively extract, or not extract at all.
Bike Racks - Double Fare?
Washington State Ferries. . .We are going to the San Juans and taking our bikes. Height rules indicate a 100% surcharge for over-height vehicles (which having our bikes upright will cause). Can we lay our bikes flat on the racks, once we get to the ferry line? [more inside]
Teen with toxic mama
Handling a teen-relative-with-alcoholic-mom... [more inside]
All About Gauge
[Knitting Filter] I got the knit. Got the purl. Got the reading of patterns. Now let's talk about gauge. [more inside]
I'm hungry. RSS feed me.
What's the best application for syncing RSS feeds between a Mac and an iPod Touch? [more inside]
What's My Motivation
How do you stay motivated in cubicle hell? I go through bouts of being motivated, sometimes for weeks. I am on top of my emails. I am making the phone calls. I am knocking down deliverables. I am having productive team meetings. And then something happens. I can't be bothered. I don't actively manage my inbox. My commitment to following GTD falls apart. I let certain things slip through the cracks. I just don't feel like doing any work. And then two weeks later I get motivated again. This has plagued me forever. Same thing in university. It's like I have ADD but instead of losing focus in the span of seconds, I lose focus in the span of weeks. How can I keep my foot on the gas pedal and feel like I am not a corporate bum half the time. Anyone else like this? Anyone have any tricks for keeping at a steady productive state?
How can I give this wine to someone who can appreciate it properly?
I have a bottle of wine that's too valuable to drink. How can I sell it? [more inside]
Old electrical outlet for pool
We got rid of our swimming pool and we're left with an electrical outlet mounted on a wooden post in the middle of our yard. It's rarely used but I don't want to get rid of it. I also don't want to have to look at it or mow around it. What are my options? [more inside]
Star Trek on Blu-Ray
I'm looking to buy blu-ray versions of all of the Star Trek movies. Problem is, I just want high-quality versions of the VHS tapes I had as a kid in the 80s and 90s (because really, most of the allure is nostalgia here). I don't want director's cuts, special versions, or anything like that- just the original VHS releases. Amazon is confusing the hell out of me, because there are about 40 versions of each movie and I'm not sure what is what. Does anyone have a link to the original movies, for sale, on blu-ray?
Hebrew language support for the iPad
When will the iPad fully support Hebrew? [more inside]
IMAP backup
I would like to have a local mbox or Maildir backup of an IMAP account. I've investigated offlineimap, getmail and imapsync, but none seem quite right. Am I missing something? Or is there a better solution? [more inside]
Does my computer have a simple illness?
PC has gone down. Does this sound like a common problem? [more inside]
Should I give him another chance?
Just found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me, multiple times. I decided to give him another chance. What is wrong with me??? [more inside]
I am a man who drives the local bus
How do I apply for a job that I already have, knowing that I will most likely not get it job? Details inside. [more inside]
FWB Filter: Does it Work?
Friends with Benefits filter (NSFW). Single straight woman, mid 40's. Despite putting in a reasonable effort, I haven't met anybody that I would like to pursue a relationship with. But I do have an attractive buddy who I'm certain would be up for a FWB thing. We dated 20 years ago, no interest in going that route. [more inside]
Send them back to school. Can't think anymore.
Please help me come up with a reasonable comprehensive list for back-to-school wardrobe requirements for 16 year old boy, and 13 and 12 year old girls, living in New England and doing their laundry once a week. [more inside]
How did Roman Polanski direct scenes shot in America in Ghost Writer
In what sense was Roman Polanski the director of "Ghost Writer"?
I see in his wikipedia article that he has been unable to visit many countries because he would be deported to America to face rape charges. I just watched the movie and was clear to me that a lot of stuff was shot in America; the IMDB indeed lists Germany and the UK as locations, but also Massachusetts. How did he direct those scenes from across the ocean? And..when was this all shot? Apparently Polanski had been under house arrest in Switzerland in 2009.
Maybe I just don't totally grok the job of a director, but I don't see how he could have directed the scenes in America. Nobody else is listed on the credits as a director. Was there a Ghost director involved?
You kicked me out and now want to hang out with me?
A couple of years ago, an acquaintance invited me to join a book club that met on Wednesday nights. I joined and came to meetings for several months. Then, one night, I walked in on Thursday night book club by accident... [more inside]
Win for losing?
Slightly NSFW.I am currently on the road to losing a good deal of weight. How much might my perception of my penis size change? [more inside]
We! Are! Similar To! Sex Bob-omb!!
Can you recommend some bands that sound like Sex Bo-Bomb from Scott Pilgrim vs. The World? [more inside]
What bit me up while I slept?
I have a pretty specific set of questions about what might've bitten the hell out of me while I slept the other night. [more inside]
Recommend me some great South American fiction
Less magical, more realism.
Recommend me some great South American fiction. [more inside]
Driving something with a boot the size of my thumb.
Creating a bootable copy of Windows 7 64 bit on a USB drive. [more inside]
European postcode map
Where can I source a high-res map of Europe with postcode areas marked? [more inside]
Sing-along songs for post-wedding party?
MusicFites: Can you suggest some good acoustic guitar sing-along songs for a post-wedding party? [more inside]
Amazon moneys to real moneys
I gained some money through the Amazon associates program. I have apprx. 200$ hanging around (but growing). There's many things i would have liked to buy - but I am in Europe and Amazon won't ship anything that has a warranty abroad... apparently i can only get books and audio cds and dvds (but wrong region).
So, short of having a friend going there and bringing stuff back, what can i order or how can i order ? anybody knows if i can convert my Amazon moneys into real moneys, maybe even after a fee?
How to stop a cat invading my house?
How do I prevent repeated cat home invasions? [more inside]
The basics of graphic design for a landscape architect
What basic graphic design books/resources/links can you recommend to a landscape architect? [more inside]
August 9
bloggez-vous français?
Where online would French-language bloggers hang out? [more inside]
Help me develop a curriculum for an HTML course
You are learning HTML on the internet via a set of instructional videos. What do you expect to be taught? How do you expect to be taught it? What useless things do you hope will be left out? What great things do you hope are included? [more inside]
Where to go for creative body-hire in Hong Kong
Does anyone know of a creative (eg. graphic designers, writers, editors, web-designers, document publishers, publications coordinators) body-hire firm in Hong Kong?
Get Me to a Dermatologist!
NYC dermatologist recommendation? [more inside]
Outdoor activities in Kalamazoo
What are the primo outdoor fun opportunities in Kalamazoo, MI? [more inside]
Looking for a point-and-shoot that can handle action and macro. Want quality photos, not high MegaPixels!
Looking for a point-and-shoot that can handle action and macro. Want quality photos, not high MegaPixels! [more inside]
Am I overdoing my RAM for a 32 bit version of Windows 7 Pro
I have a HP Pavilion dv6700 (dv6780se) laptop which i recently upgraded to Windows 7 pro via a free copy from the msdn alliance. I am currently running 3 gigs of physical RAM in 2 slots. I recently read an article suggesting a change to the virtual memory paging file size. From what i gathered you should or can increase the size by multiplying the current amount times 1.5.
This would change my total virtual memory to 4605, is this wise?
Should i leave it on the save hard drive has my OS or move it to a partition or separate external hard drive?
I've also read that readyboost can increase performance... is this still quite debatable for Windows 7 and am I already pushing the limits of my RAM and virtual memory?
Rules of engagement after termination
Is there a rule stating that during a period after an individual's employment has terminated, he/she can not contact a former client or prospect of the former company? [more inside]
Replacing a car horn switch
Help me replace, rewire, or otherwise rig the horn switch in a Dodge steering wheel. [more inside]
Do I owe the government?
My employer is paying my tuition, and told me that I could claim the amount as a deduction, because it's a taxable benefit. I did, and now I've received a letter from Revenue Canada asking me to submit a T2202 form and to tell them who had given me money for my tuition. (I filed online, which is why I hadn't submitted the T2202 before.) Was I wrong to claim this deduction? (You aren't my tax lawyer, but you know about these things.)
Can a hare become a tortoise?
How can I train myself to do [anything] every day? Help me to re-calibrate my routine-resistant brain. [more inside]
Flytte til Århus
Tell me about renting in Aarhus and the logistics of moving to Denmark from the United States. [more inside]
Should I put drop handlebars on my bike or get a second bike?
Should I put drop handlebars on my bike or get a second bike? [more inside]
rogue.scanner.1514
How to remove "rogue scanner 1514" Windows malware? [more inside]
Heard a "saying." Is it real?
Does this "African saying" actually exist? [more inside]
First names in Japanese honorifics?
In Japanese society, it is really that awkward when someone asks you to call them by their first name (given name)? [more inside]
Are we there yet?
I've been asked to help someone drive cross-country from Florida to Washington. Should I accept? [more inside]
Two for the Road?
How to approach a trip abroad with my wonderful, new, long-distance boyfriend? [more inside]
WTF is wrong with my RTF?
I am having trouble editing an RTF file by using a Windows Batch file. Any batch or RTF guru's out there? [more inside]
To make a man happy...
Someone I care for deeply is splitting up with his wife and moving into his own apartment. They have been together for 8 years, and he was married before as well, so he hasn't lived on his own very much in his adult life. I'd like to send him something incredible. [more inside]
How should we open a local music venue where bands will be recorded professionally?
What's the best way to go about opening a local venue, where artists can record their music, and play music live and have it documented (photographed, and recorded [among a lot of other ideas])? [more inside]
How old is 30?
I'm a woman who turned 30 this year. Some parts of my life are great; others aren't quite where I'd like them to be, and I'm starting to worry that 30 is Too Old to change that, especially in terms of relationships and future families (I'm currently single, would like in the future to be married with kids). I'm having some trouble telling the difference between 'reasonable concern' and 'worrying about nothing' here, and could do with some assistance. [more inside]
OCD books
Have you had success with an OCD book? Which one(s)? [more inside]
You want to do what to Ghost?
Cat Vet Filter: My vet wants to cauterize some ulcers on my cat's gums tomorrow. Does anyone know anything about this? [more inside]
Cropped thumbnails: I thought it was a common, simple procedure but I was wrong
How do you make a gallery of thumbnail images which are cropped out of a section of the image? [more inside]
Law/Rule/Phrase/Principle
What's the name of the internet rule/law/principle that goes something like 'Whenever you pedantically correct someone on the internet that correction will have an error itself'?
Sudden Urge for Environmental Informatics Reading
Good sources of interesting articles in the area of environmental informatics? [more inside]
Am I A Fugutive?
I was issued two citations for speeding from New York State Police in the mid 90's. I never paid them. When I got the second one, I assumed that the officer would arrest me or at least mention the first but he did not. I have never had a New York State driver's license and I have had licenses renewed by the state of which I was a resident at the time and the one in which I have resided for ten years. Nor any problems with insurance. Should I do anything about this? [more inside]
Favorite trails in Utah's National Parks?
What are your favorite trails in Canyonlands National Park and Arches National Park? [more inside]
I need your Amsterdam secrets!
I will be moving to Amsterdam in ten days for academic reasons. I would love to hear any tricks, tips, secrets and anecdotes about Amsterdam to help make the next stage in my life more amazing and exciting than it would be without them. [more inside]
Need ECCO Yucatan sandal replacement
I need a less expensive alternative to Ecco's Women's Yucatan sandals. Recommendations please. Specifics inside. [more inside]
Cheap Pint Chicago?
Where can I get a PBR in the loop? [more inside]
What should my résumé say when it comes to freelance?
How do I list my (more and more extensive) freelance design work on my résumé in a good way. [more inside]
Where is the spectacle in earth-friendly technology?
The sophisticated engineering, delicate structure and graceful flight of solar-powered aircraft is a beautiful vision in efficiency. A formation of fighter jets makes the very skies thunder and the ground shake, exciting in its power. This dichotomy is everywhere, especially machine racing sports.
So where can environmentalists and energy efficiency enthusiasts get the excitement of power without the indulgence of excessive wastefulness? And where can people who love seeing jaw-dropping power get fired up by green technology without having to develop an appreciation for boring economy? [more inside]
What in blue hell am I supposed to say?
My friend is seeing a married man. I am NOT excited at all for her. How do I stay out of it when all she ever does is talk about how great he is? Help me mind my own business. [more inside]
Don't want to give up my telephone number
What is the simplest and cheapest way to hold onto a telephone number? [more inside]
I didn't sign on to be single mom
My husband's schedule is making me miserable and resentful. He can't change his schedule right now, so what I can do to deal with it better? [more inside]
Looking for a place to buy some unique glasses frames in downtown San Francisco
Basically the title says it all. I'm in SFO for a bit and would like to buy some new glasses. Recommend me a place to find something special. Thanks a mil!
Through rose-colored glasses
A couple of years ago, I tried on a pair of women's eyeglasses with very light pink thickish rectangular frames at Lenscrafters. The arms were also fairly thick. I believe they were DKNY or Donna Karan. They also came in black. Can you help me find them? [more inside]
Commuting from Orange County to San Diego
Commuting to San Diego from Orange Country: Any insights? [more inside]
How do I sell myself?
How do I get better at being a people person and a sales person (self promotion)? [more inside]
Where can I find a swing arm lamp for a thick table?
Where can I find a swing arm lamp for a thick table? [more inside]
Ow my brain
What information should be included in my headache journal? [more inside]
U.S. State data maps.
Panties That Stay Put On Big Bottomed Girls
Co-worker claims no style of panties she has tried will stay put on her big bottom--have you found a particular brand and style that works? [more inside]
I want to assemble a setlist for piano + voice for an old-timey venue.
I want to assemble a setlist for piano + voice for an old-timey venue. [more inside]
Our business needs an agent.
Is there such thing as a business contract "headhunter" or someone who would find us contracts for our business and take a cut of the contract, then go on their merry way -- sort of like an agent the way actors have agents? [more inside]
If your camera can't take the heat, get a new camera?
My job needs a point-and-shoot camera that is more heat-resistant than the Kodak EasyShare we have been using. [more inside]
How can I help my wife want sex?
How can I help my wife want sex? [more inside]
I need to get rid of Diseases of the Skin and Medical Gynecology...
Where to sell about 10 medical books (1909-1940) that are in good/very good condition? [more inside]
Looking for a specific NYC street artist
I'm looking for a specific street artist / vendor I saw in Union Square Park in NYC 2 or 3 months ago. [more inside]
Looking for men's fashion videos / podcasts
Looking for men's fashion videos / podcasts similar to Put This On and In the Closet. [more inside]
what does 60k salary look like?
What does like on 60k salary look like? mortgage, car, bike, job title, investment portfolio, social activities, married, kids? [more inside]
I don't need to overthink it, the plate as-is is quite gross.
I want to like beans, but the texture is generally too mushy or mealy. What are some recipes that get around this? [more inside]
Getting the necessary rights to turn a movie into a musical?
What's the best way to find out if a pre-existing work has already been optioned for an adaptation to a different medium? Specifically, if a film has been optioned for a musical. [more inside]
Won't Travel for Beer
What beer available in Chicago most resembles New Glarus Brewing's Totally Naked? [more inside]
He who controls The Spice, controls The Universe.
Halp! We have too many spices and not enough time. [more inside]
How do we figure out a fair outcome for everyone when one co-worker has childcare issues and cannot attend 'mandatory' events at 5pm?
How do we figure out a fair outcome for everyone when one co-worker has childcare issues and cannot attend 'mandatory' events at 5pm? [more inside]
How to recycle or dispose of a steel bike frame?
Does anyone know what the best way to dispose of a broken steel bike frame is? [more inside]
How do I possibly restore a water damaged iPhone stuck in "I need a SIM card" hell?
How can I defeat the evil "There is no Sim card installed in the iPhone you are attempting to activate" message after water damage" message? [more inside]
Paying Old NYC Fines
How to find out about and pay for old tickets in NYC (subway and open container) from outside of the country? [more inside]
Scheduled C-section: should I push back? How hard?
After ~37wks of baking, our Little Spark is soon to emerge. Sonogram last week shows breech, size estimates via same sonogram say ~8# so far. Doc is now advising/arranging scheduled C-section. I'm not sure it's the right thing. Can you help me determine if I should push back & how hard? [more inside]
Are litter mates a good idea?
Are litter mates a good idea? [more inside]
Goin' mobile
What makes a mobile site, well, mobile? [more inside]
Understanding the world by reading books
Suggest books that illuminate world-views and the way perception is flavored by ideas and sentiments! [more inside]
Help me learn to figure out dice probability for games
Help me teach myself enough about probability to properly balance the board game I want to design. [more inside]
Help my hairs.
Haircolor conundrum: can I go back to brunette life after a (very short) fling as a blonde? [more inside]
Lost article about New York's tolerance for cultural diversity
I'm looking for a specific article about New York City's amazing tolerance for diversity. [more inside]
Why don't I blog?
Everybody's doing it (perhaps by many people who shouldn't?). It would be good for my reputation in a number of my fields to maintain a subject-specific blog (photography, coding, food, etc), but nothing ever occurs to me to be especially "bloggable". This might be due to the fact that I'm acutely aware of how many true experts there are on these topics, and I feel I have nothing original to contribute. [more inside]
Honestly, how did I get all of this booze? I don't know.
I'm drinking my way through my (overstuffed) liquor cabinet, and I turn to you, drunks on the internet, for advice on what how to restock it--with an emphasis on top shelf liquors for classic cocktails. [more inside]
Q: What is that? A: They call it [MOVIE TITLE]
I'm looking for movie (and other media) quotes that follow a similar model:
Character 1 asks a question.
Character 2 answers with the name of the movie. [more inside]
Help me get awesome penmanship!
What are some good resources to help me get awesome penmanship? [more inside]
Bat house help, please.
We would like to build a bat house to control rampant and inexplicable mosquitoes. We would like your help, internet. [more inside]
Help me avoid the suburbs!
D.C.CommutingFilter: Moving to the city soon but stuck working in the 'burbs; is it possible for me to maintain my love for the urban lifestyle? [more inside]
what in the hell do I actually want?
Fizzled romance filter: Am I the shallowest person in America? [more inside]
A happy and stable alcoholic?
I'm an alcoholic. Help me feel comfortable with my alcohol intake. [more inside]
Give me examples of books where characters use teh googles.
Character googles her paranormal boyfriend. Fake wikipedia article reading ensues. Is there a TVtropes article for this cliché, or, alternatively, what are some examples? [more inside]
Was Wernher von Braun asked "How does it feel to be aiming rockets at the moon rather than London?"?
I was told a possible apocryphal story by my father, that at a press conference about the Apollo missions a British reporter stood up and asked Wernher von Braun something like "How does it feel to be aiming rockets at the moon rather than London?", at which von Braun stormed out. Googling has failed me. Did this happen? If not, is there a likely source for it?
How do I move one chair from Ottawa to Montreal?
I have a large living room chair that I need to transport from Ottawa to my apartment in Montreal in the next week or so. "Moving" or "Furniture moving" is a mess in Google, and most of the Craigslist and Kijiji entries are focused on a full house/apartment moving service.
Does anyone know what is the best and most economical way to do this? One option would be to rent a van here in Montreal and use it to bring the chair here. I would prefer an approach that wasn't so time-consuming on my part. Thoughts?
If you were 22 and moving to El Paso, where would you want to live?
I'm looking for suggestions for good neighborhoods and/or apartment rentals near UTEP in El Paso, Texas. [more inside]
when do you put on the condom?
condom question... when do you put it on? [more inside]
Where are the good flea markets in Boston?
Boston Filter: I went to Brooklyn Flea this weekend. It was awesome. Is there anything like that in the Boston area? [more inside]
Establishing a task list/planner with a lot of redundancy
I'm returning to school and need help developing a system for remembering tasks and deadlines that involves a lot of redundancy. I am having trouble not just remembering said tasks and deadlines, but remembering to check any To-Do lists or planners I fill out. [more inside]
You Can't Do That!
I'm looking for a vaguely-remembered quote to the effect of "I only believe in restrictions that are forbidden to all." The meaning was that man-made injunctions don't carry as much weight as universal ones. Sorry, I can't even recall the author! Maybe Spinoza?
Sightseeing in Hanover, NH
What to do in and around Hanover, NH? [more inside]
What are some non-alcoholic martini ritual substitutes?
What are some good non-alcoholic substitutes for my evening martini? [more inside]
Best convertible car seat?
Best convertible car seat? [more inside]
Who should I ask to be my referee when I apply to university this year?
Who can I ask to be my referee when I apply to university this year? I have no appropriate professional relationships, I cannot ask a friend or family member, and I have been out of school for three years. [more inside]
When "don't worry about it" means "I'll demand payment four months later."
My landlord said not to worry about paying for a sculpture I damaged, four months later wants to take payment out of my deposit - and wants me to determine how much I should pay even though she knows I don't know anything about antiques and have no money after she made me move out. How do I deal with this in a mature fashion? [more inside]
Is this across a line?
Boyfriend hit me in anger after I hurt him while roughhousing. Am I reading too much into this? I hurt him first, so is it hypocritical of me to be frightened? [more inside]
Help me teach my baby to turn over!
Any suggestions on how to teach my baby to turn over from front to back? I am hoping that a kinesthesiologist or baby specialist may have some input, because my 5 month old is flipping herself over onto her stomach but can't get back, and is becoming very frustrated. [more inside]
Can I make new close friendships as I get older?
As I get older, will it be harder to make close friends? [more inside]
It's a gas, gas, gas
Help me build the custom camping stove of my dreams (SWF regulalor - stove mating question inside) [more inside]
Feasibility of a transparent, illegal trade?
Is it possible to set up a completely open, transparent system wherein a trusted seller could make illegal trades with a multitude of buyers, leaving the police completely aware but unable to do anything.
(Completely hypothetical of course, but I am very interested) [more inside]
Dirty magnifier -- help please!
How do I clean a full page magnifier? [more inside]
So I've learned how to make chainmaille.... uh, now what?
So I've learned how to make chainmaille.... uh, now what? [more inside]
This post took a week to write. Seriously.
How to be less flaky when it comes to communicating with friends? [more inside]
Movie quote haunts me
A quote from a movie is haunting me - help [more inside]
Clicking and cracking shoulders during dumbbells: could this be a problem?
My body (specifically shoulders, collarbone, and breastbone) is making weird noises when I do certain exercises. Why, and should I be worried? [more inside]
Best eBay auction timing?
What are the best days/times to have ebay auctions end? Which are the days/times to absolutely avoid?
Help a clueless couple compile a mega list of kitchen essentials!
What do we absolutely need? [more inside]
What should I see at London Open House
I'm overwhelmed by the possibilities of Open House London, which sees hundreds of usually inaccessible buildings thrown open to the public. What are the can't-miss places that are worth queuing for? What are the little-known gems I might overlook? (Worth mentioning: I have a particular fondness for the exuberant, the quirky, and the eccentric.)
23 y/o female's problems with relationships
is there something wrong with me? never had a real relationship, drinking to socialize, infatuations with people on the internet... [more inside]
Large Printer for the Home
Let's say I'm willing to spend $500 for a printer...but my only incentive to do so (I have a normal printer now) would be that it allows me to print my own larger-format prints, on 11 x 17 paper (or even larger if that was possible). Does such a creature exist? If so, what would you recommend? [more inside]
AAAaaaaaaaaaaaay ay aya y ay
Im looking for an mp3 of a good "grito mexicano" [more inside]
August 8
How to find an inexpensive "Butler Lamp"?
I've been virtually stalking a particular lamp sold online at csn stores; I planned to decorate around this particular lamp because it had a shelf attached, didn't need hardwiring and they were ~$40 each.... but they're sold out now. Where to look next? [more inside]
Long before the clapper, push-buttons ruled the hallway.
Why did push-button light switches go out of fashion? [more inside]
I just can't wait to start throwing rice
What web sites and/or twitter feeds and/or something else (??) should I be watching to get the earliest announcement of when Judge Walker will issue his ruling on whether or not to extend the stay on his ruling? [more inside]
Help us get to Shanghai for cheap!
Boyfriend and I are flying out to Shanghai from New York City sometime late September or October. Kayak's cheapest flights are on: China Eastern Airlines, Air China, Delta, and on occasion, Continental. Reviews for all seem pretty bleak. :( It's a good 14-20 hour flight; please help: Which airline is the best of the worst? [more inside]
Why is food gross to me?
Sometimes food makes me feel sick. Sometimes I don't want to eat and so it feels like I'm just doing a chore. Is this normal? Or common? [more inside]
I have a bento box! Now what?
I have a bento box! Now what? [more inside]
You know geneaology, but for houses.
I'm suddenly fascinated with the history of the house I bought. Except I have no idea how to go about looking up the history of a house this old (1925, San Francisco, not one of the big, fancy neighborhoods, nothing notable ever happened on the street). Where do I start? [more inside]
I know nothing about turtles except they make me go awwwww!
You win, roaches
I just moved into an apartment which I now think had an existing roach problem. Should/can I break my lease now and recover my money, or should I try to fight the roaches? I'm in PA. [more inside]
Am I autistic?
Seriously... am I autistic? [more inside]
Frustration leads to anger, anger leads to shame, lather, rinse, repeat
I've lived in Japan for some time now, but I'm not very good at the language. When I encounter anything beyond the simple, and I don't understand what's going on, I feel frustrated, then angry, then ashamed, which undermines any confidence I have to speak the language, which makes it less likely that I'll do better the next time. What can I do to break this cycle? [more inside]
Maybe I *do* need some "street sense"
[Jaded_Filter] Am I overreacting to street solicitors? Is this the sign of an anger issue? Or do I just need to learn how to ignore everyone who bothers me? [more inside]
Problem with the audio driver on a Lenovo T60P.
Problem with the audio driver on a Lenovo T60p. [more inside]
Please distill 10 seasons into the best lols possible.
What are the best episodes of Mystery Science Theater 3000? [more inside]
Dealing With A Computer Crime Felony In A Corporate Environment?
I recently got a job as an IT support analyst through a third party IT consulting firm. The three months went well, and the client decided to hire me fulltime. There was no background check when I had the contractor position, and for the first two weeks when I was an actual employee there was no talk of an actual background check... [more inside]
Ou mangeon nous en Montreal?
Does anyone have suggestions for special, kid-friendly dining experiences in Montreal? (More inside) [more inside]
How do I contest a medical bill?
I went to the emergency room a few months ago for a back injury, and, to be honest, I don't feel like the medical services provided to me were adequate. I saw a doctor for about 45 seconds the entire time I was there. When I was leaving, they gave me information for "if my chest started hurting later," despite my protests that my back was the injured part, and the next day, I discovered the X-rays they had taken were of my chest, not my back. Now that I have the bill, can I contest it? [more inside]
Treatment in NYC for sagging skin and puffy eyes
Where in NYC can I get cosmetic help with sagging skin and bags under the eyes? [more inside]
Deviating from wedding registries--how gauche is it?
I'm attending a wedding next weekend, of a couple that has irritated me throughout the course of their tumultuous engagement. I've looked over their many registries, and have found nothing that I consider worthwhile or practical to give in my price range. What are my other alternatives? [more inside]
I turn the tap on and there's water there..... Yep.
I am woefully (and willfully I guess) ignorant. What's the best way to remedy this? [more inside]
Is my old itrip destined for the scrapheap (or freecycle)?
I've just got a shiny new iphone 4, but I'm having trouble making it work with my old itrip. [more inside]
Enneagrams?
So: enneagrams. If you've spent any time studying them, how did you put the knowledge to use? [more inside]
Sick of iPod Touch deleting my notes
Why is my iPod Touch deleting text from my Notes? [more inside]
Activities for an exceptional child?
How to entertain/socialize a 5 year old with Down Syndrome? [more inside]
Chinese tattoo - will it be a problem in Tokyo & Hong Kong?
I have 2 chinese characters tattooed onto my left arm. I'm travelling to Tokyo and Hong Kong next year. It will be winter so probably a non-issue, but what would the reaction be if I were to show it?
What about public onsen in Japan? Would it cause any problems?
Tampering with the logos of evil
What are the legal ramifications for my small business (US) if I redesign logos of huge war profiteering multinationals and put them on my own commercial products for comical effect? [more inside]
Should I go to Milan
I have a chance to go to Milan in mid-October. My husband's ticket will be paid for, so we'll just be out-of-pocket for my ticket and lodging for a week. It's been an expensive year for us so far, and I'm reluctant to lay out money for this trip unless it's likely to be spectacular and relatively inexpensive.
I cringe at the thought of paying for a rental car and staying at an expensive hotel. On the other hand, the thought of a hostel is not very enticing - unless there's a private room and bathroom.
So Mefites - can you recommend spectacular things to do in Milan and places to stay for a frugal traveller? Would this trip be worth it?
Yahoo push email on iphone4
I newly purchased an iPhone4 on Vodafone in the UK. Gmail email seems to work beautifully, in a "push" fashion. Yahoo email ( a non paid account on yahoo.com) just does not seem to do it in "push" fashion. Email is erratic. This is despite resetting "all settings" and re installing account.
Any solutions guys?
Does anyone know the yahoo IMAP settings, as I am told that solves the problem?
Thanks
She's mine
Advice needed regarding a "don't ask out my ex-girlfriend" communication from an ex-boyfriend. [more inside]
Help me get over my affair, please?
So I cheated on my husband, but before things went too far (i.e., beyond kissing), I confessed and ended the affair. My husband has forgiven me. My friends are sympathetic. All in all, I got off easy.
The problem: I can't stop thinking about the other guy. How do I get over him? [more inside]
Do background checks corroborate other background checks?
[Military Filter]: Do military background checks check information given for prior background checks? Specifically drug related. [more inside]
Should I build a new desktop machine or should I build nothing more than Network-Attached Storage? Details inside...
Should I build a new desktop machine or should I build nothing more than Network-Attached Storage? Details inside... [more inside]
Page-turners to smear with sunscreen and red wine
Bookfilter: Mrs. Inkoate and I are going on vacation and need appropriate reading material for the trip. We are looking for the literary equivalents of the Thomas Crowne Affair to read while we're away. [more inside]
How to put a tree in my driveway?
Yardfilter: I want to plant a tree in my driveway. Help me give it a fighting chance. (Details inside.) [more inside]
What fun emails can we send my 85-year-old grandfather who is lonely, housebound and has never been on-line before?
My 85-year-old grandfather was just given a 3g ipad. What fun emails can we send him? [more inside]
Autobahn appetite!
Calling all frequent Portland-Seattle drivers: where are your favorite places to pull off I-5 and eat? [more inside]
Biology = Destiny
Can you recommend a book chapter or article that summarizes the biological and/or psychological perspectives on gender without devolving into straw-man attacks or interdepartmental backbiting? [more inside]
Why won't my laptop connect to the internet?
Why won't my laptop connect to the internet? [more inside]
Temporary housing in Dublin
Looking for a place to live in Dublin for 3 months! [more inside]
Why is UAC so slow to launch?
Why does it take so long for Windows UAC to come up? [more inside]
Singing just for you. Somewhere.
My mom would like to see Charles Aznavour in concert, and I'm having trouble tracking down tickets and events. I found only one, festival.caproig.cat, are there other? [more inside]
Reality is Reality...d'oh.
The reality of humanity and mortality. People write blogs about everything. Are there great introspective blogs from psychologists / psychiatrists and first-responder EMTs? This may end up a little depressing, so skip it if you're sensitive. [more inside]
seeking lighting components
Designing some various lighting (wall-attached, hanging and stand-alone)
At this early stage, we need to look at off-the-shelf components and assemblage, such as swivel/flex joints, switches, sockets...but especially SHADES; metal, resin, even paper.
Where can one find, view and order parts? [more inside]
What if the DOW crashes and there's inflation at the same time?
If you were to follow Robert Prechter's advice that the DOW is headed for a precipitous drop to triple digits, how could you protect your capital from a possible hyperinflation? [more inside]
Write on MacHD from XP?
Is it possible to write to Macintosh HD from within a Windows XP boot camp partition? [more inside]
How do I best deal with this without affecting my credit?
I just received a statement from a medical facility stating I owe them a couple hundred bucks plus $100+ in interest. Date of service is supposedly 10/06. I am in California. This is the first bill I have received, and I have lived at this address for over 4 years. [more inside]
When is green green?
Where can I find out which alternative energy sources are efficient, after taking into account the energy cost of manufacture and disposal? [more inside]
Meltdown?
Is there any danger in leaving my laptop in the trunk of my car all day during a summer heat wave?
Please tell me I'm wrong...
I hope I'm wrong, but I'm worried that the mattress and boxspring in our garage have become a home for spiders. [more inside]
My macbook pro connects to the network, but says there's no internet. My roommate's PC has no problems. What's the deal?
My macbook pro connects to the network, but says there's no internet. My roommate's PC has no problems. What's the deal? [more inside]
It's another cat health question
It's another "What's going on with my cat?" question.. and it seems like a complicated one. Before I go into it, we have taken him to the vet a few times and are not against taking him more, but I'm looking for input from you guys. [more inside]
Spaingeterianism
Vegetarian eating in Spain -- help me, Askme-Wan Kenobi [more inside]
Watering Can For My Mother
My mother's birthday is coming up and I'd like to buy her a 'fancy', but usable watering can. Any suggestions?
Two people. An iPod Touch and iPhone. One Macbook Pro. Sync issues.
Two people. An iPod Touch and an iPhone. One Macbook Pro. How can I sync the Notes (as in...notes written in the Notes application) from the Touch to the Macbook Pro without confusing iTunes into syncing everything else to the wrong device? [more inside]
Low Cost Vision Care in Austin?
I'm looking for low-cost vision care options in Austin, Tx. [more inside]
Help me calm down about a possible breast lump.
I might have a lump in my breast. I am freaking out. Help. [more inside]
Colon cancer/surgery in elderly
Two weeks ago my 83 year old mother was diagnosed with colon cancer--surgery to remove the right side of her colon is scheduled for this Friday. If anyone here has gone through this type of surgery, what were your experiences during post op and recovery? What can our family do to make Mom's recovery easier? [more inside]
Global Warming Naysayers Who Made Predictions That Came True (or did not)
Need examples of notable global warming skeptics whose predictions came true, or did not.
How to stamp a pattern when pattern stamp wont do
Need to 'stamp' an image onto another image multiple times in Photoshop (or another free image editing tool). [more inside]
How can I accentuate B-cup breasts without showing skin?
How can I accentuate B-cup breasts without showing skin? [more inside]
Where was I born, officially?
Where was I born, officially? [more inside]
Why does my Hard drive spin for ages at startup?
XP Hard-Drive Filter: When I turn my computer on, after it being off overnight, it starts up fine but the hard disk light is on for several minutes. Start-up time is normal, and desktop loads and computer is usable, can click on icons and open folders/start programs but they take ages to load/open - hard drive stays on at this point. When I use FF it slows it waaaay down. What could be causing this and how can I stop it please? [more inside]
Bills, bills, bills.
My roommate is overcharging me on utilities, and I feel a bit misled. How can I address this with her? [more inside]
Help Me Stitch!
I suck at sewing. I'd like to be able to mend my own clothes, but this isn't enough of an issue for me to buy / support a sewing machine. How can I get better? [more inside]
Buying my first motorcycle
I am looking to possibly buy my first motorcycle for street riding and could use some mefite input. I have multiple years of experience on dirtbikes so was thinking of starting with a dual sport 650. Details inside. [more inside]
can you name this stats theorem?
There is an urban legend in the baseball statistics community I would like to find broader perspective on. Ideally a statistics journal cite would be great if you know of one. It has to do with sample size and point estimation. [more inside]
looking for Lionel Richie "Hello" gay(?) spin off
looking for Lionel Richie "Hello" gay(?) spin off? last known working link via this mefi comment
dont know it, never seen it, gota have it
An SSD falls from the Apple tree.
The new iMacs: What are the risks of purchasing an iMac with a solid state drive? [more inside]
... And then we'd blow their minds!
What kinds of pranks and/or practical jokes could a time traveller pull on people from the past without changing history? [more inside]
Adult chickenpox
Tell me your experiences with adult chickenpox. I'm 26 years old and was diagnosed yesterday. Today the spots have spread from my scalp, chest and back to my face in a real bad way, and this thread has me freaking out a bit. [more inside]
August 7
Ex-gf of last month is getting married. Why has this upset me?
I just found out the exgf - of 3-4 weeks - is engaged. Help me sort out of my feelings and make me realize this has nothing to do with me? [more inside]
Where to go hiking in Middle Tennessee?
Hiking and camping near Nashville, or middle Tennessee area. [more inside]
Help me avoid turning into a coffee-dependent zombie!
How much coffee/caffeine can you drink and not develop a tolerance? [more inside]
What should I do about the man who doesn't love my religious beliefs?
Everything seems to be fine. Except the religion bit, even though we're the same religion (Jewish of course). He went to Orthodox religious schools his entire life and promptly rejected it as soon as he could. We were just friends before he left and was out of town for a couple of years. While he was gone, I of course, became religious. We've been hanging out since he returned, and now we're rather in love with each other. But he doesn't want to be religious or have a religious home.
He doesn't seem interested in compromising at all. I have things that I would compromise on, and have told him so, but again he doesn't seem interested. My read of the situation is that he's actually not interested and using this as an excuse. Any thoughts?
Why so much anxiety about dream job abroad?
Dream job abroad- should be an easy decision; why is it inducing such anxiety? [more inside]
Shadowrun Story Ideas
Once saw a specific bank of sample shadowrun adventures online, trying to find it again... [more inside]
Go To Hell, Moths!
What would YOU want to say to a clothes moth? (to keep those dang clothes moths away from my wool and my fur.) [more inside]
What's the name of this type of antiquarian book?
What's the name for this type of old book? [more inside]
THEY KILLED WAVE!
Examples of vindicated "crazy" scientists?
Famous scientists and doctors who were once ridiculed for their ideas but, later vindicated? [more inside]
What baby mammals are in my lawn?
What baby mammals did my rat terrier find? [more inside]
Is there an iOS app that will let me choose a colour and tell me the artsy-fartsy names for it?
Is there an iOS app that will let me choose a shade/hue/colour and then tell me the artsy-fartsy names for it, or those that are near fits? There are plenty of tools for finding hex values, but I want the pretty names like apple green, persimmon, feldgrau etc.
just please don't tell me to calm down
Do I have to choose between thin+unhappy and fat+unhappy? [more inside]
Michigan to Cumberland Falls, KY
Any tips for driving from Michigan to Somerset Kentucky and then taking in Cumberland Falls? [more inside]
Should you talk to police after a car accident?
Should you talk to police after a car accident? [more inside]
Music to Live For
Mixtape filter: I have a friend and her brother is in the hospital with a gunshot wound to the gut. He's trying hard not to survive although he's very young. My friend wants to make a mixtape for him... [more inside]
help buying a hearing aid for my mother
how to get a good deal hearing aids for my mother [more inside]
How to do woodworking when you live in an apartment?
Is there anywhere you can rent space to do woodworking in Los Angeles? [more inside]
# # I tried every diet in the book. I tried some that weren’t in the book. I tried eating the book. It tasted better than most of the diets.
What books do you recommend for really learning about diet, nutrition and weight loss? [more inside]
Two homes and some distance?
My partner and I are ontemplating separation and I am thinking of moving several towns over. I have read stories of parents separating and the benefits of the two homes being close as in a few blocks. But what should I know about making it work for myself and my kid when the homes are further apart?
I would like to hear positive advice from parents and kids who have negotiated two homes with a little distance between them . Were their plusses to this distance to balance out the minuses? How did you make it work? [more inside]
I think I can walk faster than this thing can go. WTF anxiety?
I am afraid to ride my scooter. How can I get over this? [more inside]
Looking for a mic to use when making iMovie videos
I am looking for a good quality, but not too expensive, external mic to use when recording videos using iMovie. [more inside]
Going to Chicago next Sunday - car some days; what to do?
Headed to Chicago the 15th.
Been to Chicago before (love it!)
First time for the fiance. Details inside! [more inside]
Help me find this mystery bar!
ASAP Filter: Help me find this bar in Queens, New York: beautiful backyard area with a willow tree, photo booth inside, sort of out of the way. Maybe near Long Island City? [more inside]
Plant identification: eat it, nurture it, or kill it with fire?
Please help me identify the plants - flowers, weeds, veggies, herbs - in the garden of the house we just bought. There are several plants that I don't recognize, so I'd really appreciate any clues you might have! [more inside]
Resources for learning Hebrew, French, Lithuanian, Russian?
I'm at different levels in three different languages I'm learning (French, Hebrew, Russian/Lithuanian). How to proceed in each? [more inside]
Yo soy el gringo nuevo in ciudad de Chicago.
Online Spanish courses? [more inside]
Required course on ethics for politicians?
I would like all new elected and appointed officials -- from Congress all the way on down to appointed officials at the municipal level -- to be required to take a minimum 20 hour course on ethics and civic responsibility. How would I go about getting Congress to pass this as a new law? [more inside]
What do people spend money on, in the real world?
I'm living and working in the "real world" for the first time, namely Manhattan. Help me figure out my budget, and thus how much I should spend on rent. [more inside]
How do I keep things clean?
I am looking for Cleaning Tips for the Lazy Man. [more inside]
Rise and shine, feh.
How do I get hungry for breakfast? [more inside]
Will a nearly-expired passport give me trouble traveling in Japan and Singapore?
I'm traveling to Japan and Singapore soon, returning to the US on October 1, 2010. My passport expires April 11, 2011. Singapore's entry requirements state that the passport must be valid for at least six more months. Do I need to renew before I go? [more inside]
To buy or to rent? Why settle for less?
Yet another rent-versus-buy housing question, but I'd appreciate the hive mind taking the time to read the tl;dr details inside, as I'm faced with this imminent choice and am seriously confused and conflicted. [more inside]
christmas in europe
europe, winter, december -- two students looking for recs for somewhere to spend christmas eve (and several days before that). [more inside]
Why am I so stinky and why am I losing so much hair?
BO in crotch area, plus hair falling out – what’s going on? TMI after the fold. [more inside]
Bop til ya drop?
Calling all natural scientists/nature experts. Is life like an arc? Or an arrow? Or something else? Looking for examples from nature to help me ponder the shape of life-and-death. [more inside]
Should I sell out of a private company I own shares in?
Should I sell out of a private company I own shares in? [more inside]
Anybody know who is "Icam" of "Venice"?
Last week, Open Culture posted a link to a breathtaking little video of Venice posted on Vimeo. The only thing Vimeo reveals about its video artist is the name Icam from France and that they have 38 other videos posted. I would really like to know more about this elusive figure who captured the colorful, yet melancholy, beauty of Venice so perfectly! Anybody know anything further about the video artist Icam?
Don't Buy Me Love,Pay My Rent
How can I politely but effectively ask my significant other for financial help? [more inside]
Is borrowing money in a relationship this way a no-no?
Is borrowing money early in a relationship out of line? How do I set boundaries and determine if I am definitely being taken advantage of? [more inside]
Help Me Get Naked (Fast)
I'm a burlesque performer with an upcoming act where I hope to introduce a bit of quick change magic. Basically I want to come out in mens clothing, go under a hoop with some covering fabric, and when the hoop is removed I'm naked. Is this feasible? [more inside]
Short fiction magazines
What are the best sources of new short stories? [more inside]
Distinguishing Contrived Numbers
A few years ago, I read that there is a mathematical method for discovering whether numerical data is contrived or random. There are interesting real-world uses for this, e.g. the IRS was considering it to flag returns where the amounts (e.g. listed deductions such as auto mileage) seemed contrived.
I'm not explaining it very well (if I could explain it better, I'd have been able to Google it!), but I'm wondering if anyone can pin this down for me.
Seattle bar recommendation
Can anyone recommend a bar in Seattle that has the game Big Buck Hunter? [more inside]
How can I give myself a do-over on my cruddy childhood?
Can anyone recommend a self-help method for starting one's (emotional) life over again after coming to terms with childhood trauma? [more inside]
Where to meet ladies who like other ladies in the Windy City
GetMeTheHellOutOfTheHouseFilter: I need to get out badly, I need a temporary escape from the insanity I'm in right now. My fantasy? To go somewhere and be straight up hit on by a lady (who likes other ladies (who are butch-ish (as in I will not be seen in pink ever, but can't fix my own car))). And this needs to happen in Chicago. Please help!!! [more inside]
Tajiks say, "Are you Iranian?". Iranians say, "Are you Tajik?"
How can I change my accent in a second language? [more inside]
What do I do with all this salsa?
My friend (who's known as the Magic Salsa Fairy) converted a bunch of my homegrown tomatoes into a prodigious quantity of excellent hot salsa. There's more than a quart of it. I've got the whole tortilla chips/nachos/quesadillas axis covered, but what else can I do with it? You can assume that I'm a skillful indoor cook and my husband has a good gas grill and knows how to use it. Bonus points for healthy meal ideas. We are omnivores, but try to limit the carbs (b/c my husband is Type II diabetic).
For the Hardcore SpagBolologist
FoodScienceFilter? Can anyone tell me a bit more about what's going on with the proteins in traditional Bolognese sauce? [more inside]
Help me build a website
MrsMoonPie wants to gay marry you, too! But, she needs a website, first. [more inside]
Why am I looker thinner but getting heavier?
Why am I looking thinner but getting heavier? [more inside]
How do I learn French - all over again?
How does a once confident French speaker re-learn the language after six years of not using it? [more inside]
Is it possible to move to Sweden without working/going to school?
Is it possible to move to Sweden without working/going to school? [more inside]
Is there a kind of couples therapy you can do just the two of you?
I suspect I may not love my wife any more. But I also suspect that I (we?) may just be bored after four years. I'm relatively sure that my recent near unemployment and her recent malaise are contributing factors. What do I (we) do? [more inside]
Help me with a move to Galway, Ireland!
I've just been shortlisted for an academic position at the National University of Ireland, Galway campus, but I'm currently living in Australia! Help me with the logistics of starting to consider this move, how we might do it and what Ireland (and NUI Galway, Galway the town) is actually like! [more inside]
Am I going blind?
Am I going blind? [more inside]
How to get baby not to poop in bath
Baby pooping in the bath [more inside]
For a smile, they can share the night. It goes on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on.
I like listening to different versions of the same song back to back to back to back to back. What songs have been covered many many times? [more inside]
What do you know about the simulator ride at CN Tower during the early 1990s?
During a weekend trip to Toronto in the early 1990s, I went with a group to the CN Tower. Most of the group went up to the observation deck, while a few of us felt nervous and did the Space Race simulator ride. [more inside]
August 6
Help produce our soundtrack!
Looking for pop/rock suggestions for our destination wedding video [more inside]
Need a scooter, have some questions.
Looking for a scooter to save on gas, maintenance, and insurance - don't know anything about them. What do I need to know? [more inside]
Calling all guitar pedal geeks!
I play the recorder, using a basic recorder -- mic -- pedals -- amp setup. Pedal 1 provides delay; pedal 2 is the tricky part. There's a specific processing effect I'm looking for, which is this: 1) Clip the input signal above a defined decibel limit (not frequency limit); 2) Feed to output ONLY the signal above this limit. [more inside]
When it's Rosh Hashana Time in Dixieland
Help me identify (and find a recording of?) an old Jewish comedy song: "When it's Rosh Hashana time in Dixieland..." thereby blowing my dad's mind in time for High Holidays. [more inside]
Fantasizing about other men - help!
How can I stop being hypersexual, get my therapist to see that it's threatening my marriage, and start focusing on my husband again? [more inside]
How can I tell my husband I don't love him without totally crushing him?
How can I tell my husband I don't love him without totally crushing him? [more inside]
Dropped calls be damned. I want an iPhone.
Can I walk into an Apple Store and get an iPhone yet? [more inside]
What TV show or movie is this quote from?
I am racking my brain over this one. Both Google and IMDB are failing me. In what movie or TV show does a character say the following quote (might not be the exact words):
"Can you speak a little louder, only this time into my LAPEL?"
See, the character is wearing a wire, and he's not very bright.
Help me figure this one out!
Potty Training Filter
Parentfilter: How do you handle very specific potty training regression issue with a 2.5 year old girl? [more inside]
Private student loan hell.
Is there any way out of this hole? Private student loan hell. [more inside]
Advice about promotional postcards?
Any advice on designing/ordering promotional postcards? [more inside]
I'm developing repetitive strain issues from clicking my mouse. I'm looking for recommendations on ergonomic mice that might help.
I'm developing repetitive strain issues from clicking my mouse. I'm looking for recommendations on ergonomic mice that might help. [more inside]
Help Me Automatically Publish a Nicely Formatted List of My Media
I have a large collection of digital music, movies, and TV shows that I am adding to on a regular basis. I would like to come up with a way to create a nicely formatted list of all of this media on a scheduled basis and publish this for others to view. Please Help! [more inside]
Creating Heirlooms for Common People
I want to record stories of people who might not otherwise get to tell their stories, or who don't have anyone who will preserve their heritage. I need any advice you can give me, including equipment, logistics and legal issues. [more inside]
3-2-1 Contact Incidental Music (Antarctica)
During the 3-2-1 Contact episodes about Antarctica, there was some incidental music used. What is that incidental music? [more inside]
Can I set up different domains that inter-link without being penalized?
Will setting up multiple sites and pages that inter-link be penalized by Google? [more inside]
Strawberry emergency!
Emergency cooking help! I am cooking a vegan strawberry cake for a birthday party Sunday and my recipe calls for strawberry extract. I ordered some pure natural strawberry extract online and had it expedited but unfortunately the store messed up and it wont get here in time for the party. [more inside]
Are there bugs on the ISS?
Are there insects on the space station? (Not counting any being used in experiments) [more inside]
Fast, asian rap?
Fast, asian rap? [more inside]
30th birthday. Married couple, no close friends. Want to hit the town.
Mr. DeludingMyself is turning 30 in September, and isn't entirely pleased with the idea. I know I can't stop him from being upset about the big 3-0, but I want to come up with something to make the day itself awesome. [more inside]
Books for adults with learning difficulties.
Interesting, intelligent, but easy-to-read and understand books for an adult with stroke-related brain damage? [more inside]
Looking for books about Insects/Spiders
Can you please recommend good books (fiction or nonfiction) or websites about insects and/or spiders..? Not so much identification books, but ones about how they live, interact, etc.
Can the unemployed take a vacation and not lose their benefits?
Asking for a recently laid-off friend - If you're receiving unemployment insurance checks, can you take a vacation? [more inside]
DIY Mason Jar Mugs
So, I've been saving all the nice mason jars that Classico pasta sauce comes in for sometime and decided I could do with a nice set of mugs. But I'm unsure of how to best attach handles. [more inside]
No clever pun as costume, I need freakin' scary!
Halloween filter: Someone else started it! But yeah, please help me, too. I need a scary costume. [more inside]
Brown discharge
Female health filter: have had brown, stringy discharge for 3 days mid-cycle. [more inside]
Will bladder pain make my labour more difficult?
I'm 33 weeks pregnant and my interstitial cystitis (painful bladder) flared up about 3 weeks ago. I don't expect it to subside until the pregnancy's over. I can feel the pain intensify during my Braxton Hicks contractions. Does this mean that my bladder will likely hurt a lot more when I'm in labour? Can any ladies who have gone through labour and have an IC diagnosis comment on this? [more inside]
F*ck Yeah?
F*ck Yeah! or Hell Yeah? or I don't know if Yeah belongs there. Who is this band? [more inside]
i scream in my mind all day
i feel like there are two of me and i am constantly fighting myself
it is exhausting (big ol' long crazy post inside) [more inside]
This is what Ask Mefi is for, right?
Looking for a very simple flash game. [more inside]
OTC for nausea
Sitting here at work and feeling really nauseated for some reason. Already tried Tums, didn't work. I'm going to run to the store and get something to take care of it so I can finally eat a late lunch. What's the best OTC for nausea? [more inside]
Password protect a Wordpress site
I'm creating a wedding website using Wordpress. I'd like to have the whole thing behind a password. [more inside]
Producers just get paid A LOT right?
How does music production/songwriting work? For pop? For rap? [more inside]
Safe to use 3rd party power block with laptop?
Is a Kensington power adapter safe to use on a Vaio laptop? [more inside]
Help, I'm alone and I have nothing to do this weekend in Seattle
Help, I'm alone and I have nothing to do this weekend in Seattle. Low- or zero-cost ideas, suitable to do alone. Prefer low or no crowds. Bonus points for geeky and nerdy. Assume I have already done the typically touristy things in the city. [more inside]
MayDay! Historical floundering!
Mad Men historical accuracy filter: Would public schools really have had a maypole dance in 1963? [more inside]
Text message without a phone?
How do I send a text message from a computer? This is maybe easy, maybe tricky. [more inside]
I'm already excited about soup dumplings
I'm studying abroad in Beijing in a month! What do I need to bring, and what do I need to know? (I've never even left the US before!) [more inside]
Advice on DLP projectors
What is the best type of DLP projector to get for home movie watching? [more inside]
San Francisco physical therapist?
Good physical therapist in San Francisco - especially for frozen shoulder? [more inside]
GSA Contract...Help!
My boss has asked me to work on getting our company a contract with the U.S. government's General Services Administration (GSA). I have been doing some research and reading everything I can about it, but I think this may be too big of a job for just me. Does anyone have any experience with working on a contract like this or know of any good resources for help? Anything that any of you can offer would be great. Thanks!
Why can't I ride the train to exit 18?
Why are highway exits numbered but rail / subway stops aren't?
Embed same image many times in Illustrator?
Is there a way to embed the same jpg image many times in a single PDF in Illustrator CS5? [more inside]
Not broke, just disorganized with a disorganized income.
I have trouble remembering to pay bills/bring stamps/find envelopes in a timely manner. But I don't like having my account auto-drafted. Is there anything do-it-yourself style that will send me an e-mail and I can click a button to approve a transaction to pay an amount specified by me to the company that needs paying (or something like that)? [more inside]
Class up my home bar please
I'm interested in making my home bar look more uniform by using the same bottles. I fell in love with the 375 mL bottles used by House Spirits for their Limited Release line (images here and here). Where can I buy similar glass bottles (and accompanying corks)? Online or b&m sources are both ok; for the record I live in the Twin Cities.
My $170 video card is a fake, and the company won't take responsibility.
I've discovered a fraudulent computer part that I've been using in my system for nearly two years. Company refuses to service it, citing expired warranty. What recourse do I have? [more inside]
Ideas for attaching a wrist-strap to my HTC EVO?
Ideas for attaching a wrist-strap to my HTC EVO? [more inside]
So, I'm paranoid about starving, shoot me. Ok don't.
I'd like to buy enough seeds to grow enough food to survive for 2 years, for 6 people. And then store it. [more inside]
If you sue and win a reluctant payer, will you ever see any money?
LawFilter: Recently in my city, a teacher was awarded thousands in a defamation lawsuit. I am wondering, in cases like this, where someone is justifiably awarded damages - What are their chances of getting the money? [more inside]
No lingerie + animal ears a la Mean Girls
Help me wow my friends with an out there Halloween costume! [more inside]
Ideas for getting rid of my old lease?
I moved to a new city - now I need ideas for getting out of my old lease. [more inside]
Working at the same firm with your spouse!
Ms. Fuzzy Dog and I are happily married, now Ms. Fuzzy Dog is on the short list for a position at the firm I work for. If she is hired, what are some best practices for not letting work dominate our life? More details after the break. [more inside]
60's women's fashion help needed
Stylin' in the swinging 60's [more inside]
Where can we live to commute to DC and Baltimore?
Where could we live in the DC area with 1 commuting to Baltimore and the other (with toddler in tow to daycare) to Foggy Bottom? [more inside]
How can I keep myself from being taken advantage of during a job transition?
How can I keep myself from being taken advantage of during a job transition? [more inside]
Writer wiki link
I recently saw a reference to a wiki dedicated solely to obscure writers and published authors. I'm unable to relocate the reference or find the URL, despite having searched for hours. Is anyone familiar with this wiki?
Guess who's coming to dharma?
What's a dignified way to portray Buddha in my house? [more inside]
How to automate tracking changes to legislation and U.S. Code?
Jobhack/automation filter: Please help me track legislation and its proposed changes to the U.S. Code. [more inside]
Cute, office-y/date/go out shoes for narrow, high-arched feet?
Where can I find cute, office-y/date/go out shoes for narrow, high-arched feet? [more inside]
Need a college laptop!
Computer Buying: It's time to get my laptop for college! [more inside]
What's that bug?
What's that bug?
Can you help us identify this spider? Found in a hallway in southern California. [more inside]
What are the pitfalls of moving in with your significant other?
My girlfriend and I are planning on moving in together later this year. I am 30-years old and have never lived with a significant other. I have lived with roommates in the past and for the past three years have lived alone. My question is: what sort of problems should I be aware of when moving in with a signfiicant other? [more inside]
Letting the bard babysit?
Have you used child care at the Utah Shakespearean Festival? Would you feel comfortable dropping your 2.5 year old there for an 8 o'clock show? [more inside]
iPhone+Android household: how well do these phones interact?
What can two iPhones do together that an iPhone and an Android cannot do? [more inside]
Upgrading to Pro Flickr account
Problems upgrading to Pro in Flickr because of Yahoo [more inside]
How do I help a Dad find his Daughter?
I came across an ad on Craigslist that really grabbed my attention. It was from a dad with very little computer knowledge, hoping to set up a website so his daughter would one day Google herself and know about her real dad. He hasn't been with her since she was 2 (2001). Something about it, probably my own personal experiences, really made me want to help. I set up a Blogger account for him so he can post pictures and letters to her easily (he updates the site from the local library). Are there any other things I should try? [more inside]
Am I brewing trouble?
Can I start a private club to function like a CSA, but for homebrewed beer? [more inside]
Fort Greene walking tour
A day in Fort Greene, Brooklyn: where to go, what to see? [more inside]
Maybe I can fashion something out of coconuts?
What are the best wi-fi equipped places in Myrtle Beach for sitting down with a laptop and working for 8 hours? [more inside]
Confusing playing cards
Can you explain a deck of cards that have H, V, and B instead of King, Queen, and Jack? [more inside]
Sending a vehicle across Australia!
Transporting-Cars-Filter: My brother is working on the mines in Western Australia and would like to get his jeep or scooter transported from Gold Coast to Perth / Karratha. Any idea how to do this as cheaply as possible? Brother has heard that rail freight is a less expensive option. [more inside]
Is there a tool to trawl a website and generate a frequency count for specific words I'm interested in?
Is there a tool to trawl a website and generate a frequency count for specific words I'm interested in? [more inside]
If all my other plans fail, I'm opening a Tako Truck
Where can I get some awesome takoyaki in the DC area? [more inside]
City hall wedding gift?
Gift for city hall wedding? [more inside]
Why affectionate, then evasive?
Why is my friend warm and affectionate in person, but very evasive when it comes to keeping in touch? How do I get over this? [more inside]
How do I fix iPhone backup/sync problem?
How can I get my iPhone to backup or update or sync? iTunes gets stuck on "Backing up" for a very long time (hours...). [more inside]
raised like a girl
I am a hetrosexual man who was rasied an only child by a strong independant mother. I can't help but love her for the effort, but I was rasied in many ways like a girl. I feel deeply betrayed. I can't seem to shake a sense of self-loathing.
Half hour at the airport
I am picking the girlfriend up from the airport, we haven't seen eachother in about a month. We are going to hang out for a little while, because a good friend is flying in a half hour later - and we're her ride. What is something nice to do with her at Seatac before our friend lands? [more inside]
August 5
Checking availability of titles on eBooks
I'm starting to consider getting an e-reader, mainly because the books I'm really keen on are unavailable in my local library system and are hardly available in Australian bookstores (and are too expensive otherwise). However, I'm not sure if the books I'm after are actually available in any eBook format. Is there a way to find this out? [more inside]
Hourly Rate to Charge for Contracting as a PM/Scheduler
What's the going rate for contracting in Northern California as a Project Manager and Scheduler? [more inside]
Help me reunite best friends.
My mom recently told me that she had a best friend when she was in grade school, many many many years ago. When her friend moved across the world, they lost track of each other. Now I want to find that person. [more inside]
I (read about people who) see dead people
[PeopleWhoSeeDeadPeopleFilter] Help me find some books... [more inside]
Tip Reporting
You Are Not My Accountant/Lawyer/Whatever. But, do you have any answers or could you point me in the right direction of a resource that could answer the following question regarding tipped service staff in the state of Florida? [more inside]
What do you wish you had known before you adopted a child?
What do you wish you had known before you adopted a child? [more inside]
It's a series of (really poorly labeled) tubes. . .
Biomed folks! Please give me your tips, tricks and tools for writing legibly on Eppendorf tubes! [more inside]
What is it like to live with law students?
What is it like living with law students as roommates? [more inside]
Best tech grants for K-12 schools?
What are the best technology grants for K-12 schools? [more inside]
They sold out the blonde one, this is you with a tan.
[GiftFilter] A good friend of mine is from Hawaii and I'd like to buy something for her birthday. It should have
1) A blonde girl
2) surfing related (preferable). or beach-related.
Eyeglass fit for Asian faces in NYC
Which eyeglass shop in NYC could most ably adjust eyeglasses to fit an Asian face? [more inside]
Quilted Smoking Jacket!
A friend has offered me a prize to find this jacket for sale. A similar jacket also made an appearance in Dinner for Schmucks, worn by Bruce Greenwood. The key search terms seem to be "quilted smoking jacket", but my googling has not turned anything up.
I hate to use AskMeFi for this, but there is CASH at stake!
Can anyone recommend a holster & case combo for the IPhone 4?
Can anyone recommend a holster & case combo for the IPhone 4? [more inside]
How to ask a guy for casual sex?
How should a female bring up the idea of having casual sex to a man? [more inside]
Non-theist's guides to grief, please?
Memoirs on grief, please? Looking for books, articles or blogs that are about the personal experience of surviving and processing the death of a loved one. Humanists and non-theists of various stripes welcome; inspirational tomes, not so much. [more inside]
Help me fix the A/C in my VW Golf TDI
My air conditioning suddenly conked out on my 2002 Volkswagen Golf TDI (diesel). The mechanics at the dealership are having trouble finding the cause and I'm spending a lot of money on diagnostics, with no definitive end in sight. It's hot here in Toronto - help. [more inside]
pick a color login
I recently saw a captcha-like device that used a color picker to log in. The viewer was asked to 'Pick the color orange' from a palette of 9 colors (or so), thus separating humans from bots. Seen it? [more inside]
Please help me evoke my childhood?
Please help me find the perfect water glass. Fortunately, I know exactly what it is. Unfortunately, I can't find it anywhere in the world. Maybe because the last time I saw one was in the late 1940s? [more inside]
Cable and Internet me in the Pioneer Valley
What's the best cable/internet deal in the Pioneer Valley? [more inside]
How to access WaPo archives online?
I'm trying to access a series of WaPo articles from 1968-1971, but I'm not having any luck with LexisNexis, Proquest, or the newspaper's website. I know the names/dates of the articles, but they aren't showing up in my LexisNexis searches. (My library's microfilm WaPo collection only goes back to 1974.) Does anyone have another idea of where to look for archived newspaper articles online?
Fixing Processing Java applet issues in Chrome?
Do you how to solve these weird problems with Processing/Java applet rendering in Chrome? [more inside]
Steampunk me an ipod dock
Is there any service out there that will turn a classic radio into an iphone dock for a fee? [more inside]
No, I'm not OK (with my remote control)
I have a Suddenlink branded Motorola PVR. I need to remap one of the keys on the Suddenlink provided remote control [more inside]
Which kosher brand of Vitamin has no more than 3,000 or 3,500 IU of Vitamin A?
Which kosher brand of Vitamin has no more than 3,000 or 3,500 IU of Vitamin A?
Cheaper Internet?
Can one play Xbox Live over the sprint 4g network? [more inside]
Art of the Cocktail in Ottawa, Canada?
Mixology in Ottawa, Canada: where to go for classic cocktails prepared by a skilled bartender? [more inside]
My fingers hurt! Did I just pull lawn duty, too?
My fingers hurt and I'm too young for arthritis! I've been working in the tech/construction field for 3-4 months now and my hands are killing me. I like this job and want to keep doing it. I also want to be able to play guitar in 20 years. What can I do? [more inside]
DFT for inorganic chemists
Do you know of resources for understanding Density Functional Theory for Inorganic Chemists? [more inside]
How do you keep in touch?
What are your favourite ways of keeping in touch for networking? [more inside]
My Chemical Romance
I'm trying to find coffee mugs that have individual elements on their sides for a birthday gift, but have not been able to find them. Can you help? [more inside]
Can I charge other devices with the iPad power adapter?
Can I plug any old USB cable into the 10W USB Power Adapter that came with my iPad and use it to charge other devices? Or will I fry something in the process?
Searching for a disability-friendly apartment in Chicago.
Two female college students with disabilities in Chicago needing to either pay off their lease tomorrow or find suitable new housing before the end of the month. [more inside]
Please guide me through the magical world of potty training
Please tell me alllllllll about potty training. [more inside]
NH Hiking: Mt. Major or Mt. Cardigan?
NH hike this weekend: Mt. Major or Mt. Cardigan? [more inside]
How to set up a custom profile on the Blackberry World Edition?
How can I set up a custom profile for the Blackberry World Edition 8830: Silent for email, Vibrate for Text messages and Ring for phone? [more inside]
Fiction about the Gulf War/Iraq/Afghanistan?
I'm looking for novels (or short stories) written about the Gulf War, the Iraq War, or Afghanistan. There are good memoirs and nonfiction books, but are there any good works of fiction centering on these conflicts?
Do SSRIs cause weight gain?
How do SSRIs cause weight gain? [more inside]
NYC's week-to-week room rentals-- what's the deal? are they real?
Renting week-to-week rooms in NYC...are they for real? Are they safe to rent? what should I be aware of? [more inside]
No Longer Seeing Stars
What happened to all the sea stars on the Jersey Shore? [more inside]
Monologues give me the catharsis I need to get going.
I'm looking for podcasts or other spoken word recordings, with the feel of the early Henry Rollins or recent Marc Maron: strongly cathartic, really aggro, with quasi-intellectual ambitions, seemingly able to talk on any issue, vaguely politically progressive, sometimes hyperpersonal. [more inside]
Envelope help
Quick question about the USPS: Can I ship a flat-rate Priority Mail envelope by printing postage for it online and then dropping it in a blue USPS mailbox? Or do I need to take it to a post office?
I have to rethink everything, now.
I just read Sex at Dawn. It's a book that, as I understand it, questions an assumption that has held sway for most of recorded history. What other books or ideas question assumptions that span millennia? I'm looking for more well-argued cases that rock my reality and cause me to question and recontextualize, well, everything.
Do my numerous constraints rule out meaningful work with kids?
I'd like to learn about jobs that involve working intensively, one-on-one, with preschool or elementary-aged kids, to help them learn or develop. But, I have so many constraints that I'm not sure any role fits. Could you point me to any possibilities? [more inside]
Must Compete for Best Flamingo Outfit or Hang Head in Shame
Seattle area filter: So, we have these dear friends who throw a flamingo themed party every year. I don't have much bright pink and green in my wardrobe, and no flamingo accessories like earrings and shoes either. (I DO own a pink feather boa.) Any ideas on where to shop this weekend in Seattle area for flamingo stuff?
borderline
Is Mexico a failed state? [more inside]
New to Fairfax, Pt. One
I recently moved to Fairfax, VA, and I have tons of questions about the area. For the sake of organization, I'll ask these questions first and shoot out a second post in the future. Also, know that I've already researched some of these questions on Yelp, Chowhound and the like, but I trust MF much more. [more inside]
Great Wedding gifts for travelers?
Help me put together the perfect wedding gift for 2 amazingly cool world travelers. [more inside]
The Murder of Gonzago
What songs include bits and pieces of other songs? [more inside]
What cute lions are these?
Does anyone recognize these lion illustrations as part of a larger series, or were they a one-off? I'm looking for a reference image I can use to decorate my daughter's birthday cake. These are so cute, and almost perfect, but I'd love to see more, if they exist. Other recommendations for cute female lion cub references are welcome, too. Thanks for your help!
Keeping hyperlinks when saving Word docs as PDF
Losing my hyperlinks when I save Word 2007 documents as PDF. [more inside]
Kindle for everyone?
It's hard to ignore the Kindle and e-book readers in general and while I am not against the technology, as a huge believer in, user and supporter of The Public Library I am a little concerned about what this kind of technology will do to access for all. How does the Kindle etc fit into the equation? [more inside]
Where should I travel for a "bonus day" in Israel and/or Palestine?
I will be travelling for work as part of a delegation to Israel and Palestine in early October. I'm hoping to stay for an extra day or two at the end, but I can't decide what I should do with my time. Help? [more inside]
Nobody's business but the Turks.
Suggestions for a young (American) woman going to live in Turkey. [more inside]
Suggesting "Cherry Pie" Isn't Helpful
For reasons I won't get into, I have four cans of cherry pie filling. What, other than cherry pie, can I make with them? [more inside]
Rejected!
What is the best and worst time of the month for women to donate blood? [more inside]
Automatically connecting to a specific website on a port other than 80
Is it possible to get a browser to connect automatically to a port other than 80 for a specific website? [more inside]
Does Las Vegas have any reputable camera dealers?
Does Las Vegas have good, legit deals on cameras? [more inside]
Objecting to Objectivism
Please help me respectfully engage with a young relative who has declared a passion for Ayn Rand (we're getting together tomorrow for a friendly conversation on the issue). [more inside]
Testing leads to failure, and failure leads to understanding.
ApplicationDevelopment Filter: The IT Director at my company balked at my suggestion that we conduct User Acceptance Testing on every requirement to be included in an upcoming release. Moreover, she told me that testing every requirement has not been a best practice for over 10 years. Is this true? [more inside]
Where to discuss sci-fi & fantasy?
What is the best online forum to discuss sci-fi and fantasy literature? I am not looking for places devoted to specific book(s) or some author.
With a smile I face the future
OK, I've done that, now teach me to smile. [more inside]
Help Me Help Her
What can I give or do for my supervisor to show my support and help her with the stress of caring for a family member after a lung transplant? [more inside]
Help me find a cool watch for a shrimp.
Hip watches for tiny wrists. [more inside]
Fallen by prickly heat
I've had a heat rash for two weeks now. The doctor told me to see an allergist. I have an appointment. But after looking all this up online, I'm afraid. [more inside]
Where should we live near Irvine CA?
My boyfriend will be attending grad school at UC Irvine in Irvine, CA. We'll be moving there soon and need to find a two-bedroom apartment (or tiny house) thats between Irvine and LA: 30-45 from his school, and not too far from the train station (I'll most likely be commuting to LA by train). Neither of us know much about the area, and we'd prefer not to live in an apartment that's mostly UCI undergrads.
Please recommend towns in the area we should focus on as we begin our search. (Any other southern CA rental tips would be appreciated too. We're from the east coast and have never rented an apartment in CA.)
Why is my English boyfriend so reserved?
Are British people kind of socially retarded or is it normal for them to not be chatty and friendly with people they don't know well? [more inside]
Strengthsfinder - worth it?
Is the StrengthsFinder worth it? [more inside]
Slide scanning in Toronto
I am looking for a photo slide scanning service in Toronto (preferably North York or close). I just have a couple of slides. In addition to recommendations, what price range should I expect?
What styles of engagement ring would match with this unusual bezel set diamond wedding band?
What styles of engagement ring would match with this unusual bezel set diamond wedding band? [more inside]
step on it !
I'm learning English.On my dictionary, there 's a phrase, " step on the accelerator (brake)." Will it be true? Then, how can I distinguish between hitting the brake and stepping on the Gas , when you say, " Step on it!" ??
Help, I've debted and I can't get up.
I owe my ex-school lots of money, and don't know what to do. Help! [more inside]
Don't sugarcoat this one!
Low-carb rhubarb recipes: have any? [more inside]
How to stop subtle bullying behavior.
How to stop bullying in a friend/business relationship? [more inside]
I'm not Jewish - Can I use JDate?
After some recent success stories from friends, I'm thinking of trying out JDate. The rub? I'm not, nor do I aspire to become, Jewish. Can I do this without looking like a tourist? [more inside]
House rental in Ptown?
I want to rent a house in Provincetown next summer. [more inside]
MMORPG Noob
My boyfriend wants me to start playing a MMORPG with him. I'm feeling more than a little overwhelmed. Help me? [more inside]
It's Not "Ergonomic" I Need; I Need "Comfortable"
It's not an ergonomic keyboard I need, just one that doesn't hurt my tendons -- any suggestions? [more inside]
Got smoke?
How can I intentionally make charcoal smoke? I need to carry a smoking container for a costume. I ordered hookah coals to put in the container. They burn great, but have minimal smoke. I'd like it to smolder and smoke for as long as possible. Any suggestions?
Two days of biking from Portland, OR
Two day bike adventure leaving from Portland, OR? [more inside]
Who's the flood controliest?
Can any Chicago folks recommend a contractor to install a sewer backup preventer or flood control system? [more inside]
Finding private landlords in the UK
Is there a decent website for searching for properties to let from private landlords in the UK, or am I stuck dealing with parasitic letting agencies? [more inside]
Where should I park overnight, coming from South Jersey, to take a train to NYC?
Where should I park overnight, coming from South Jersey, to take a train to NYC? [more inside]
Hands in the Air Celebrations!
When did (american) sports fans start celebrating by jumping and putting their hands straight in the air (see A-Rod). I recall watching highlights from the early 80s and beyond and while crowds were loud, they're reactions were different. Bonus: Does this differ in other countries?
Anybody know of therapy/counseling options in Tokyo area?
Can anybody recommend a therapist/counselor in the Tokyo area, preferably for cheap/free, and on the west side of town? [more inside]
Smelly carpet smells like mildew - eww
How do I get the smell out of this recently flooded carpet? [more inside]
Like the tree said to the lumberjack.
I write a brief column that answers a fun bit of trivia or reference type question. I've had a column come up at the last minute, and I'm stuck for ideas! [more inside]
But I want it, because it is shiny and good.
A question about what to do about a cell phone. Way too much beanplating inside. [more inside]
Kitty Wants Products
Are there television advertisements designed for pets? [more inside]
Which direction should we travel? Into Rome, out of London or vice-versa?
In general, for a family vacation, would it be easier to fly into Rome Fiumicino and out of London Heathrow, or fly into England and out of Italy? [more inside]
help me work up some attraction!
Help me develop physical attraction to someone who did not strike me at first as a hot. [more inside]
Where can I find online rush footage?
What are the best places to look for unedited media rushes? [more inside]
Damn these flies
How do I deal with a bitey insect tenant? [more inside]
I want to freestyle and I'm really keen, but I need a plan so hit me with it green
I want to become proficient at freestyle rapping and rapping in general inc writing raps. Help me develop a training routine! I want to treat this as if it was a sport I was going to compete in, with structured daily blocks of practice to work on different skills etc. I have lots of ideas of things to work on at the gym for my sport, but not for this. I need some ideas and some structure - thanks :) [more inside]
Global Keratin Hair Taming treatment: personal experiences?
I'm considering a Global Keratin Hair Taming treatment. Looking for personal experiences, do the results justify the cost, does it really last up to 5 months, are there specific skills I should look for in the stylist applying the treatment? [more inside]
Even third wheels get tired sometimes
My sister and I just moved into a small studio apartment. (480sq ft) My sister's boyfriend wants to move in too, for at least three weeks. He's already here and has been here for a few days already. Weird relationship drama, family issues, dependence issues and no clue where I stand in all of this. Help? [more inside]
August 4
What's the difference between depressed and dissatisfied?
What's the difference between depressed and dissatisfied? [more inside]
How do I go backpacking in the backcountry?
What are the logistics involved in back-country camping / backpacking (CA specific)? [more inside]
When does unsure become a deal breaker?
RelationshipAndPetFilter: 1 very busy college student (me), 1 full time worker (him), moving in together. I have two cats. I want a dog. He also, mostly, wants a dog. Help us compromise and decide. [more inside]
Colleges and Facebook
What are things i can do to prevent colleges from getting into my personal life? [more inside]
Can I order a long espresso at an American Starbucks?
If it's yellow, let it mellow into a hard sandy crust at the bottom of the toilet.
My roommate and I long ago decided that we would not flush pee. Save water and all. The only problem is this: apparently if you let urine sit in the toilet, it turns into a really attractive layer of brown sediment, in a spot that is very difficult to clean with a toilet brush . . . right up to the front of the little recess on the bottom, and right in the back of it as well. Is there anything we can add to the reservoir to keep this from happening? [more inside]
Not a disco ball, but a disco...disc?
What is the name of the light that comes in as the background around 1:05 of this video? Bonus points for other wacky disco lights you can tell me about.
Best combo for desired workflow?
WebDevFilter: What software combo will give me the workflow I need? Difficulty: Wordpress and invoicing. [more inside]
Can I use screensharing with an external VPN?
osx -> osx screen sharing works fine until I connect to work VPN at which point the screen sharing session dies and the machine is unpingable etc. Workaround? [more inside]
What coach said this?
I am looking for the name of the coach and team of a video I saw at a seminar about 10 years ago.?
In the video the coach said something along the lines of "before you come to me with a problem think of three possible solutions."
Not sure, but I think it was a football coach.
Anyone know this coach or know the video? Ideally I could find a link to the video.
How to use linking tables and bound objects in MS Access forms.
Microsoft Access 2007 form creation question. Hopefully not-too-wrongheaded and clearly described inside. [more inside]
Nerves Jangling. Rest needed.
I need a rest! Help pleez. [more inside]
Who do I hire to organize my music collection in a format that is not going to be obsolete in two years?
I need to hire someone to go through all of my CDs and render them into a format I can currently make use of. [more inside]
Help me figure out what this summer sound is - frog, insect??
I'm trying to figure out what this sound is: specifically heard in the summer, in the woods - either a frog or some sort of insect I think (not crickets though). Could be described as "cheet-cheet-cheet-cheet" repeated.
An exact example can be found in the very beginning of the R.E.M. song "You Are Everything" from the album Green.
Super bonus question: would love to find a recording of this to purchase/download.
Thanks!
Good Book about Zoroastrianism
If I wanted to buy a good book about zoroastrianism, what should I place my faith in?
Vacation rental from an owner--is this a scam?
I decided to try vacation rentals from an owner for an upcoming trip, but am now getting cold feet about being scammed. [more inside]
How Do You Deal With The Difficult Different?
Say you run a website that has a relatively self-maintaining and friendly (if tough and playful) community of commenters. How do you best manage a new commenter who shows up and clearly enjoys stinking up the room? [more inside]
Sydney business accommodation
I am looking for advice on accommodation for my regular business travel to Sydney. [more inside]
Principle domain of a polar equation?
I need help understanding the "principle domain" (a term only my professor seems to use) of a polar function. That is, how do I find the smallest value delta such that [0,delta] plots all of the unique points on the curve; any values greater than delta re-trace points. I suspect that if MeFi could identify the more common name for this, uh, procedure, I'd be set.
Interested in Interest
Please help me think through a financial decision involving a mortgage refinance and an auto loan. [more inside]
Help me label my jars
I've got the canning bug this year - we'll have loads of produce, and I want to start pickling (in addition to jam and sauce). Yay! My problem? I need labels! [more inside]
So simple, there should be a million of 'em
Recommend a Calendar Application for OS X - special snowflake requirement. [more inside]
Scary Neighbor Or My Bad?
What should I do about my angry new neighbor? [more inside]
Where should I eat in Palm Springs, California?
Feed me, Seymour! I'm a hard-core foodie who's going to be spending a long weekend in Palm Springs, California, and I don't want to waste a single eating opportunity. Additionally, I need a place to eat after my plane lands at 10:30 p.m. on a Friday. [more inside]
Export my Mysql PDF binary_blob into a file
Exporting PDF binary blog data into an outfile with mysql. Yeah, remind me how to do that without getting corrupt files again? [more inside]
Help me remember a movie where a woman falls through a table
Movie ID: Help me remember a movie I saw on a plane in the 1980's. [more inside]
Moving in too soon?
I've been in a relationship with an awesome guy for about five months, and we're thinking of moving in together. From an outsider's standpoint, is it too soon? [more inside]
Olive Drab hair?
I want to dye my hair olive drab. [more inside]
Make these pixels represent life in the z-axis
YANA Image Consultant: What's the best way for a Jack of all Trades to present himself online? [more inside]
Some homuncululi may have been injured in the production of this banana peel based construction material
Help me identify a dimly remembered short story... A scientist has created or evolved a race of tiny super intelligent creatures. By setting cruel puzzles for them (such as a descending weight that threatens to crush them) he gets them to invent things for him, one of which was a super strong material made out of banana peel. It most likely ends badly for the scientist.
Can I still be a friend? Maybe a different kind of friend?
Help me deal with transitioning from peer to authority figure. [more inside]
Cheap Wedding in New England?
Cheap weddings in New England? [more inside]
Must-See Scenic Drives and Attractions Driving West from Cincinnati to Seattle
What are some must-see scenic drives and attractions to be found on a one-way roadtrip West from Cincinnati, OH to Seattle, WA. Mid-40s opposite-sex couple who love photography, don't like hiking very much but appreciate a good hot spring, and are what you would call "foodies". We're thinking about the Badlands and Black Hills, but what else? Also, what stretches of road can we avoid to stave off boredom, and where should we drive instead of them? We can go a bit out of our way, but would like to be back at our jobs within a week.
Awkward!
Help me not be a socially-awkward weirdo around men I find attractive. [more inside]
An Injury Sooner Forgotten
What could be the physiology involved in mild headaches weeks after head injury? [more inside]
Going to Bolivia, what should I know?
My sister is planning a trip to Bolivia to do voluntary work with a feline restoration project for some weeks (perhaps even longer). I really want to help but South America is a blind spot on my map with regards to knowledge. Could I ask you to fill me in; what does she need to know about travel and living in Bolivia?
Disposable Me.
When is it reasonable to expect exclusivity in the online dating community? [more inside]
How do I go about interviewing for and working at a fast food restaurant?
I am a 30 year old man about to go for a job interview... flipping burgers for a certain clown. I'd appreciate any hints or tips on how to approach the interview. And when I get the job, how do I handle that? [more inside]
Blackberry Bold Keyboard Quirky Problem - Any Advice?
I just bought a Blackberry Bold 9700, and unlocked it (so there's no warranty). I have used it for about a month or 6 weeks, and following a trip to the beach where it did not get wet, the buttons are not responding properly. Example: the keyguard button on the top left of the phone locks keys but won't unlock keys. The End Call / Power button ends calls and turns off the phone, but won't turn it on. All the keys work but pushing two buttons at once cancels both requests. I've re-installed the software (I think) and left it in rice overnight and both did not help, except for an hour or so when it randomly started working and then stopped again.
Do you have any ideas what's wrong with it, and if I am able to fix it myself? (I have a T5 screwdriver if I need to crack it open). Thanks in advance! :)
Clean start
What are your favorite not-so-expensive facial soaps, shampoos, conditioners and/or body washes? (If you can order them from Amazon that is a big, big plus!) [more inside]
Largest city on the second day: Macon, GA
Traffic & routing advice needed in Nashville & Atlanta. (No, really, these are related.) [more inside]
Best examples of B2B websites capable of converting visitors to customers?
What are the best examples of B2B websites capable of converting visitors to customers? [more inside]
Critical Paris?
Critical Mass in Paris? [more inside]
With a knife, a battery and some mud we can build a town!
What novels would you recommend regarding a small group of people rebuilding 'society' or 'civilization'? [more inside]
Best option for STD for pregnancy?
Can you please help me understand short term disability (and options) and pregnancy/maternity leave? [more inside]
An appeal to authority - Social Sciences boffins please read
Are the results of Bob Altemeyer's research, as presented most recently in his book The Authoritarians, solid? [more inside]
Gerçek dünyada Yenidil.
Which of the thousands of neologisms coined in the Turkish language reforms of the 1920s and 30s stuck, which ones didn't--and why? [more inside]
Should I choose between my boyfriend or my career....2 years in advance?
Should I choose between my boyfriend or my career....2 years in advance? [more inside]
Is my deep sleep percentage sufficient?
How should I interpret the fact that I get 10% deep sleep a night? [more inside]
Help me start a web development/programming business.
What do I need to do over the next two years so that I can start my own home business doing programming? I already work in Web Development for my job. [more inside]
Psych Me Up
Can you recommend a few strong lady stories? [more inside]
Is there a movies release date reminder?
Is there a website or application where I can mark a movie to remember I want to watch it when it's released?
I've found many that let you add to your wishlist, but I need one that notify me when a movie is released, so I am aware to go to the cinema or download it. [more inside]
Dots wobble, but they don't fall down.
How would you quantify wobble? [more inside]
Professors make excuses, too.
Help me find this blog post or online article in which a professor humorously reverses classic student excuses for lateness/underperformance! [more inside]
But I can't throw these away!
Where can I donate used toys? [more inside]
Trying to find a certain TS Eliot quote
Help me find this T.S. Eliot quote! [more inside]
Beauty School Books from the 40s/50s/60s?
Please help me find these beauty school textbooks from the 1940s, 50s, or 60s. [more inside]
Identify this b-movie from the 80s
Identify this b-movie from the 80s [more inside]
What are you getting for your $1 billion?
How anyone (or anyone you know) benefited in one respect or another from the provisions in the new U.S. health care bill? I'm not asking this in Fox News-ish way, I am actually curious. [more inside]
I have no self control, I need software to help
Is there a windows equivalent of the OS X program Self Control?> [more inside]
Scentfilter
What would be a good Eau de Toilette to replace Armani Mania? [more inside]
See spots run?
What could be causing these tiny, red pinprick dots on my skin? [more inside]
What's life like in St.Petersburg/Tampa, Florida?
What's life like in St.Petersburg/Tampa, Florida? [more inside]
Help me overcome my emetophobia
Have you "cured" an extreme phobia that you once had?
How did you do it? [more inside]
Fruits, vegetables, and nutrition
In nutritional terms, what is the difference between fruits and vegetables? Are there substances in one that are severely lacking in the other? [more inside]
Cabin rental nearish NYC?
My birthday's coming up, and I'm looking to rent a cabin in the woods with some friends for a weekend. I'm looking for a good balance of price, proximity to NYC (ideally within 2 hours, any direction, the less the better) and woodsy-ness. Recommendations for either a specific place/rental company/rental website would be super appreciated. [more inside]
How to export secondary citations from Google Scholar or similar database??
How can I extract a list of "second-generation" citations from Google Scholar search results, preferably in such a way that this information is easily parsable into lists of authors, titles, journals, and year published? [more inside]
Underhanded business practices, negligent customer, or ...?
When I moved to Montreal about 5 years ago I signed up with Videotron as my internet provider. They had an "Extreme" plan that was fast and had unlimited data for a flat rate. I haven't really made much use of this package since I got it, but last month I ended up downloading a fair amount of data. Soon after I ended up getting a bill for over $800! [more inside]
Supply the product for this commercial
I am trying to locate/remember a commercial that is currently airing nationally for a tech product or service. I have seen it around 5 times but I don't want to wait for it to serendipitously pop up again. Help me remember the product that goes a long with the commercial I describe below. (I'm not interested in purchasing the product or anything, I only want to examine the ad.) [more inside]
A path to Starcraft 2 mastery
Now that Starcraft 2 is out, how do I go from beginner to skilled amateur or semi-pro? [more inside]
Cosmetology School with dorms
Are there any Cosmetology schools with housing in Massachusetts?
Nokia 5800 will surf, but none of the other apps will connect.
My Nokia 5800 will surf the internet, but none of the other apps will connect. [more inside]
How to give better massages
Help my partner and I give each other awesome massages! [more inside]
Relinquishing Co-Ownership of a Home
What complications are likely to ensue if one co-owner voluntarily relinquishes her share to a family home without receiving any payment or other compensation? Would there, for example, be any kind of tax obligation that could result. This concerns my second wife, who was added as co-owner after we were married. After I die and after she either she leaves the house or dies, we want the property to revert to my children by my first marriage. I fear her co-ownership of the property could complicate this.
FWIW, I don’t plan to make any decisions based on input I receive from your responses. But before talking to a lawyer, I want to become familiar with the ins and outs of the situation.
What's a good color temperature in vague terms for DTP work?
What's a good colour temperature for DTP work, in terms of warmness/coolness? That's to say, what will avoid me getting too much of a shock when I see the printed materials (that include photos)? My 2009-era Macbook Pro's display edges towards warm (yellowish) while my Samsung SyncMaster 2333 edges towards coolness (blueish).
Find the missing sexbot!
Oh great and powerful hive mind, please help me concoct (another) near-future science fiction story. [more inside]
How to get hollywood in the backwoods?
I'm looking for a low cost timecode slate. Which is this But instead of costing $1200 or so and being a dedicated piece of equipment. Maybe something more like this.
Though I don't have an iPhone so that program is out. Does anyone know of one that runs on Windows, like a tablet PC? or maybe one that was self built from a microcontroller (arduino, stamp, etc) SMPTE can be read by the Arduino so it might be possible. Thanks.
I need help, but I'm worried about it.
I need to get help with my mental illness, but I don't know who to see or where to start. [more inside]
Sparky's? Music? Mixup?
I'm trying to remember a series of 78rpm records I had as a kid. I think the name is Sparky's Music Mixup. [more inside]
Can anybody recommend a clipboard app for Mac 10.6?
Can anybody recommend a clipboard app for Mac 10.6? [more inside]
It's not me, it's all of you.
How do you friend-dump your entire social circle? [more inside]
Should I work as a freelance programmer?
Very general question: Freelance programming - how/what/when/where? [more inside]
Uncle with cape, sans gift
My lively niece in Boulder is turning 3 fingers old on Saturday and I want to weigh in with something that doesn't get the shelf within 5 minutes. Ideas? [more inside]
What to say the last day of a break up when returning stuff?
How to behave and what to say when returning stuff to an ex after a break up? [more inside]
help me parse this range of data using excel, by number of events per time span...
help me parse this range of data using excel, by number of events per time span... [more inside]
How to be a great first time TA?
How to be a great first time TA? [more inside]
She's perfect for the job--how to convince them of that?
How to land a job as an English professor at a community college? [more inside]
"You Never Have to Clean Bio-Pergo! It Just Grows a New Epithelial Layer!"
Proactively Addressing Juicy Juice Spills: which home building/home improvement items (paint, flooring, furniture, etc.) are especially good at concealing dirt/wear-'n-tear? I'm looking for specific products as well as product classes. [more inside]
Is there a trick for calming baby kicks during a diaper change?
Is there a secret baby whisperer technique for quelling baby kicks during a diaper change? [more inside]
Video and subtitles, all in one file?
I have a video file (.avi) and a subtitle file (.srt). What is the simplest way to merge these two files into one single video file with built-in subtitles? [more inside]
Mix me, make me saucy
Give me your recipes for home-made pasta and stir-fry sauces. Quick, cheap and healthy preferred. If they can be made from store-cupboard ingredients, so much the better. I'm in the UK and I'm bored with cook-in sauces. [more inside]
Non-psychiatric therapists in Santa Fe?
Therapists in Santa Fe, NM [more inside]
married and not deported
We're getting married! How do I make sure my fiance doesn't get deported? [more inside]
Face Blew Up
What the heck happened to my face last week? (possibly gross) [more inside]
Recommend me a (bare) fileserver for great good
I'd like some recommendations on file server hardware. Ideally I'd like something with space for 6 3.5" SATA drives, the more the better.
The server must be able to run FreeNAS and Linux with only modest hacking. I'm not averse to modifying something to get it to do what I want, but since this is going to be a production machine (albeit for home use) I shouldn't have to break out the soldering iron and JTAG cables just to get the OS setup.
CPU and RAM don't matter, provided the machine can support a CPU made within the last six years and can accommodate 1GB+ of RAM. Bonus points for the following: space for multiple NICs, IBM, easy access to internals, relatively quiet.
Budget max. is $400 *excluding* drives, and used equipment is (obviously) totally fine!
Help me maintain a big house, please?!
My parents live alone in a pretty big house (3 storeys, around 100 m^2 each floor). I'm interested of getting some novel and high-tech appliances for them to help in routine and boring domestic chores such as doing the dishes, cleaning, etc. What they've got so far are a washing machine, a microwave oven and a rice cooker so I thought a dishwasher might be useful. Apart from that, could you suggest some other indispensable modern home appliances which make your life around the house so much better?
Gimme Shelter!
Help me plan my move to Vancouver. [more inside]
iTunes DJ + iPhone Remote weirdness
Can anyone explain a seeming inconsistency in the iPhone remote app for controlling iTunes? And ideally provide a work-around. Under certain conditions, iTunes DJ is stopping mid-track and other music starts when it really shouldn't. [more inside]
Mental Health Care in NSW for cheap?
Advice needed for my 20yo sister regarding psychiatrists / psychologists, or some combination of the two, for as-close-to-zero-dollars as possible, in Sydney. Preferably after-hours or weekends. [more inside]
Mainstream Media + Men = ???
Any great reads about Hollywood's effect on men? [more inside]
August 3
Beware the Undertrow!
Undertrow? [more inside]
How to assess an old bicycle
Slim fit online
Where online can I buy slim fit dress(ish) shirts? [more inside]
How to drum up local clients?
I am looking for basic design/development clients in Rochester, NY. I have picked up a few over the past couple months, but would be love to get any any pointers from some more experienced mefites. [more inside]
Help me find stories and songs for Tiny Humanists
I'm going to teach a Humanist Sunday School class. Help me figure out a good song to sing and stories to read! [more inside]
Artbook rental
Is there an online rental service for artbooks and coffee table books? [more inside]
My hotmail doesn't like my iPad - help them get along!
Using hotmail on my iPad, it only sends messages intermittently. Sometimes they send just fine, other times I can push send all I want, nothing happens. Any ideas to fix this? [more inside]
Urban Barn furniture - good quality/bad quality/meh?
Anyone have any experience with Urban Barn furniture, good/bad/otherwise? I'm considering buying a used sofa and chair, but wondering if I should take the money and buy a lesser name new set elsewhere, instead. [more inside]
Will he still find me desirable?
Last week I was diagnosed with herpes. Will my boyfriend be attracted to me again? [more inside]
I know, I should've listened to my wife
I was nasty and petty to an unpleasant neighbor, and now I feel terrible about it. How do I improve my confrontation skills, apologize to my neighbor and stop beating myself up? Painfully self-conscious guilt fest below the fold. [more inside]
Natural healing of herniated disc
How long did it take you to heal naturally from a herniated disc? [more inside]
I need an awesome map.
I'd like to buy a cool, large map to hang on my wall. [more inside]
What heart rate monitor works with Precor, Nike and Suunto systems?
Are there differences between heart rate monitors (is there a "universal" protocol they all use?)? I want to buy a heart-rate monitor but I see three difference places that I want it to be compatible: with the Nike+ system, with the treadmills and other ("Polar-compatible") cardio equipment at the gym, and with the Suunto technology that Crunch gym uses for its "Red-line" rides. [more inside]
Help me remember this site!
Recently visited a website, social advocacy, that had twitter icons as the page background of people joining the movement. New people joining would come in at the upper left. Anyone remember the site?
Should I go for a Masters in Geography / GIS?
Should I go for a Masters in Geography / GIS? What will the future hold career-wise? [more inside]
What are your top five favorite hidden gem books?
What are your top five favorite hidden gem books? [more inside]
Privacy is Dead - Laws that have helped make it that way?
I'm looking for legislation (from any country) that has led to large disclosures of personal information because of a lack of care in its construction or implementation.
Help me out for work, hive mind!
Cheapest way to rent a car in Kansas City?
Long shot, but... what's the dirt-cheapest way to rent a car in Kansas City? [more inside]
Will Jailbreaking My iPhone Work?
If I jailbreak my iPhone 3G can I use it with another carrier besides AT&T and if so, who. Will it work the same, will all the apps work? Background: I bought the phone from Apple after AT&T told me service at home was available. But it wasn't, they finally admitted it, and said they'd authorize a return to Apple for a refund. But I never got around to sending it back. I needed a phone ASAP so bought a Blackberry on
Sprint. But I miss the bells and whistles of the iPhone apps. Is it worth jailbraking and trying to use it? I'm not very clever with gadgets and lose patience. Now that jailbreak is legal I wonder if I should try to make it work. If so, what carrier?
How do I report fraud/embezzlement/sketchiness in a nonprofit foundation?
I'm a contracted employee at a non-profit foundation. They seemed decent at first but now there are a lot of ethical/moral issues that are not okay. What organization/entity can I tell? [more inside]
Mole on labia?
Is it normal to have a mole on your labia, or should I get it checked out for melanoma? [more inside]
Where's Fats?
How do I source a photograph? As in who took it and where I can get it? [more inside]
i need to wrap my head around somethng to wrap around my head.
I need to buy a silver or gray-haired wig that is shoulder-length or longer, somewhere between Orlando, FL, Zephyrhills, FL or Tampa, FL. [more inside]
Pew pew pew!!
Looking for a good gaming laptop that's not Alienware. Also, about wireless gaming... [more inside]
High Quality California Flag
Where can I buy a high quality California state flag? [more inside]
How can I use my MLIS and my language skills?
What are potential career options for an MLIS graduate interested in using language and translation skills on the job as well? I am a 21-year-old undergraduate student who will be graduating one quarter early in March 2011. This summer I'm applying to the UW's iSchool MLIS program and hope to start Autumn Quarter 2011. I am very interested in traditional library work, but in the last couple years I have worked hard to learn Spanish. I'm currently training to be a Spanish-English translator and interpreter as well, as this will help pay for my MLIS degree. I would really love a career that could incorporate my growing interests in linguistics and translation, as well as my interests in the research and service-oriented aspects of librarianship. Any suggestions? I know the State Department has some positions that would incorporate all these skills, and I'm looking for other options, too.
Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes
Are there any websites, web applications, widgets, or really anything at all that change on a regular basis (like some of the Gmail themes)? [more inside]
f@*g surface tension... how does that work?
Which substance is more efficient at destroying water surface tension: detergent or oil? This would be for a hypothetical trap for pest insects.
Earache my eye
I have a constant, low-grade headache. Help. [more inside]
What Happened To the Descendants of Famous Historical Figures?
Are there any published works that attempt to trace the descendants of famous historical figures, especially those we read about in ancient history?
For example, Cleopatra had children by Julius Ceasar and Marc Antony. One of her daughters was married off to Jubal, king of Numidia and Mauretania. What became of their children?
Looked at another way, who among those alive today can trace their lineage to the most distant dates? Royal families would seem to have the advantage here, but not necessarily.
Is this the one that got away?
I think I screwed up a phone interview. How can I make a rebound (if possible?) [more inside]
Origin of "Make Me A Chicken Pot Pie"
What is the earliest occurrence of the phrase "make me a chicken pot pie"? [more inside]
Jazzy love songs
I am looking for an upbeat jazz song for a couple’s first dance at their wedding. Themes of true love, love at first sight, etc are preferable. [more inside]
Should I stay or should I go?
Last month, I started a new job at a local college. Today, I was offered a higher-paying position at a different college. Logically, I know I should take the new position, but it's not that easy.
How can I reconcile my ethical and financial needs? If I decide to stay, how can I supplement my current income? If I decide to take the new job, what's the best way to let my employer know? [more inside]
IT hardware advice for non-profit
Medium sized non-profit looking to purchase new Hardware to run Sage MIP accounting software for 5 users. Any recommendations on type of hardware to buy for value: does one need a "server" these days for this type of situation or will a desktop work?
How about reliable easy back-up options?
Where can I buy some gag gift items in San Francisco?
Where can I buy some gag gifts in San Francisco? I need an hourglass, a gavel, and a superhero cape! I realize I may not be able to get these all in one place. I'm sure I can find a costume shop for the superhero cape, but I have no idea where to look for the other two. I need a prop store or something!
How can I fix a Toyota Sienna's rear liftgate which will not close?
My dad has a 2004 Toyota Sienna which he takes very good care of. He was picking something up very recently and a meaning-to-be-helpful person went to shut the rear door for him (the rear liftgate). This person didn't realize that it would close itself and he tried to force it. Since this happened when my dad pulls the door to engage the power door function, the door beeps like normal, comes down part way and then reverses and opens back up (as if it has hit something, engaging the safety switch). The only way you can get it to close is to turn off the power to the door and close it manually. Does anyone know of something he can do to fix it? [more inside]
I want to be less consumed by bitterness
How do I learn to let things wash over me and become a less bitter person generally in life? [more inside]
Am I free yet?
Subpoena me now / subpoena me later. If I have not yet gotten dragged into a civil suit that was filed more than a month ago, am I safe? [more inside]
How to properly tell a story with pictures
Tips for creating a comic book? [more inside]
How to add wiki to facebook
How do I add a Wikipedia tab to Facebook? [more inside]
Want to buy Medicine Cabinet in Store not online!
All i want to do is be able to go to a store and buy a medicine cabinet... where can i do this in the Los Angeles area? I am in Culver City and all I can find is Home Depot and they have crap!
iPhone app to track where I've been
I'm looking for an iPhone app that lets me 'check in' wherever I go. I don't want something like FourSquare, or Gowalla that makes all that information public, but instead something that allows me to see on a map all the places I've been over time. Does such a thing exist?
I guess I'm looking for something a bit like Momento, but with maps.
To clarify, not a GPS tracking app for runs, biking, etc, but something more long term, where I can run the app and log the fact that I've been to certain locations.
Desiring Digital C!
Looking for a good, reasonably priced digital cameras for filming 10 minute segments. [more inside]
Iphone4 browser taking me back in time. Please help.
When I hit the "back" arrow/button on my Iphone4's browser I am more often than not taken back to an older, previously viewed version of the site and not the last/latest page that I was viewing. Like it's going back in time to a cached page. How do I stop this? It is very annoying.
If It's Tuesday, This Must Be The Road to Misery and Divorce
My job is slowly demanding more and more travel. This puts a lot of stress on my family. Any suggestions for making it easier on them and me? [more inside]
What are options for a 12k credit card debt my gf has?
My girlfriend recently found out her parents will be getting a divorce. She just graduated undergrad but still lives at home. She also has college debt that she's trying to pay off so she could move out. However the mother is looking to move out of state and she doesn't want to go with her. [more inside]
Recommend a bike for around town and a little bit beyond.
Does this bike seem like a good choice for me? I need to buy a new bike and want to be sure it's a match. [more inside]
I can build it, I just need to know what kind of bricks.
[web programming filter] I need to build a web page that displays spreadsheet data. The data in the spreadsheet changes depending on which user is logged in to the site. Some of the data is preset and some is entered by the user (and saved between sessions).
What might be the most efficient programming solution and the easiest to maintain? [more inside]
The realism of The Wire Season 2
I'm currently in the process of rewatching The Wire for the third time, and there is something that has been bugging me about season two for a long time (there are no real spoilers in this question, btw). The second season is thematically all about "the death of the American blue-collar worker", in this case the stevedores working at Baltimore harbor. But this doesn't ring true to me. I mean, yes, American industrial production is plummeting in favor of countries with cheaper labor (like China), but doesn't that mean that the US has to import more stuff? And clearly it is. And most of those imports comes in by boat. So why isn't the harbor be prospering? [more inside]
Endocrinologist advice
Total noob here. I'd like to find a friendly/thorough endocrinologist in the Twin Cities, Minnesota, and I'd also like to hear general advice about getting thyroid/hormones tested. [more inside]
A coronal mass ejection question.
What are the odds that I'll see the northern lights? [more inside]
Hiring a web designer for my small business
The small business I work for wants a new website. I'm in charge of finding the people to overhaul it. I've never done this before. I don't want to be the Client from Hell, but I also don't want my inexperience to accidentally screw over the company. Help! Details inside. [more inside]
How to connect two wireless routers to a single cable modem?
How can I connect two wireless routers (Fonera first generation and Apple Airport Express) to a single cable modem through an ethernet hub to establish two separate networks? I am able to connect one or the other to the cable modem through the ethernet hub, but I cannot connect both. Both wireless routers have only a single ethernet port. I currently have Comcast as my ISP, if that helps.
aggghhh
Internet Problem where I can't access most websites. Please help because I am pulling my hair out. (Do I have a virus?) [more inside]
My cats breath smells like...burning?
Kitty filter: My vet has diagnosed my cat with stomatitis, and has strongly recommended that she get her back teeth pulled. Has anyone had a cat that has experienced this? [more inside]
Resources about Cuban Missile Crisis for the high school classroom?
I'm looking for high-school-appropriate resources about the Cuban Missile Crisis--particularly ones that highlight Cuban and Soviet perspectives or more of an IR approach. Any thoughts?
Wooden piano chord striker video?
Help me find this video. A pianist performing a piece containing several chords which require large hands. As he does not have large hands, for each such occasion an assistant throws him a piece of wood with cleverly spaced dowelling attached, that he can press against the keys to play the right notes all at once. [more inside]
How can I monitor and manage my data usage on the HTC Aria?
How can I monitor and manage my data usage on my HTC Aria with Android 2.1? [more inside]
Why Can't Johnny Read?
I don't read much anymore, and I don't like it. I used to read a lot (roughly a book a week), but my reading for pleasure has dropped at least 75% in the last dozen years. What have I replaced it with? Video games (large and small) and the internet; both of which give me fizzy short-term satisfaction, but with far less long term. Help me get my respectable hobby back.
How do I attach the social network to the personal contact?
AndroidFilter: How do I link certain contacts in my contactbook to their Facebook profiles or Twitter pages... when the names don't match? [more inside]
Please help me decide where to spend 4 nights in Tuscany.
Please help me decide where to spend 4 nights in Tuscany. [more inside]
Lemon Curry?
Cupboards Are Bare: So I have a plan to make a Korma curry from some leftover chicken. Fine, but I also have half a box of lemons that are going to off if I don't use them soon. How can I use them in a Korma sauce without turning it into Lemon-scented Pledge? Or use them in a side-dish? Or even What Do I Do With All These Lemons? [more inside]
How to manually increment an integer value in a SQL Server 2005 database table?
How would you handle "manually" incrementing the value of this integer field in SQL Server 2005? [more inside]
Oh, the places I'll go...
Travel-filter: I'm leaving for Europe in less than a month, and I feel wildly unprepared. [more inside]
Help me find a bag for a 20" laptop.
I need a chic bag for a really really big laptop. Google has failed me. [more inside]
How can a non-computer-savvy person safely navigate malware-ridden sites?
How can a non-computer-savvy person safely navigate malware-ridden sites? [more inside]
Completely changing course and doing something different. Is it practical and will it lead to happiness, or is it just escapist naivety?
Completely changing course and doing something different. Is it practical and will it lead to happiness, or is it just escapist naivety? [more inside]
Software patents are evil
The license system used by my company supposedly infringes a patent. Help me find some examples of similar license systems which existed before the patent was granted. [more inside]
Something Fishy About This
Should pescatarians eat frogs? What about turtles or alligator? [more inside]
How to find PacBell switching stations around LA
I am looking for a list of Pacific Telephone/Pacific Bell switching stations that were built before the 1980s around Los Angeles County. I want to do a series of photographic portraits of them. It seems like this information may be "suppressed for reasons of homeland security" but if anyone had any suggestions of where I may be able to dig it up archivally, it would be much appreciated!
Something something natural? What song is this?
What this song I'm thinking of? 70s-sounding easy listening/R&B/soul, sung by a woman, something about being natural - but it's not Aretha Franklin's (You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman. It's well-known, but I just can't bring a thing about it to mind!
Help me see my dad one more (l/ast?) time?
Trying to book one-way international flights on a week's notice... [more inside]
Looking for a New Board Game
Every year on our family vacation my wife, step-son and mother in law all play board games into the night. Last year they really enjoyed Coda, but feel like they are all too predictable now. We're leaving for vacation soon and now my wife is scrambling to find a new game, similar in style to Coda. [more inside]
Does this car have enough oomph?
Any European mefites driving the 1.4L petrol Ford Focus? I am thinking at 80PS it might be underpowered. [more inside]
Because New York City needs another therapist
I'm interested in becoming a certified therapist. What's the easiest way to do this? What books should I pick up to get an idea of various practices? What are the most reliable ways to get training? [more inside]
If your life had a face, I would punch it in the balls
Other graphic novels like Scott Pilgrim. Can you recommend them to me? [more inside]
A few bugs with the jailbreak
Would someone please help me with my cydia/jailbreakme problems? iPhone 3GS, mc version, 4.0 [more inside]
Help me have orgasms pain-free!
NSFW: Help me have orgasms pain-free! [more inside]
I'm only guessing it was a DIY store because it looked like a house...
Which French company (probably a DIY store) used to use this logo - difficulty: it was probably in the 1980s and I haven't got a picture of it... [more inside]
What benefits do gay New Yorkers married out of state receive?
What additional rights do out of state gay marriages give for New Yorkers? [more inside]
What are best practices for coding and testing a website prior to launch.
I've made websites for myself - Now I'm going to be making them for others, and need to know the best way to code and test their sites prior to launching them on my client's domains. [more inside]
Would you use a brand name in a URL?
If you were selling a product at (fictional example) socialnetworkmarketing.com, would you buy facebookmarketing.com and twittermarketing.com to just redirect to socialnetworkmarketing.com? [more inside]
2010 Census - what have we learned so far?
2010 Census - what have we learned so far? [more inside]
No more hospital bed
How to get a sex life back after illness? [more inside]
A game about herding an animal; done? how should it be done?
I have an idea for a real-life game involving herding animals. Has this been done? and how should it be done? [more inside]
What was the life of a British girl really like?
How can I learn about life as a normal British girl from the mid 1800s on through to the 1960s? [more inside]
Knowledgebase creation for small companies
How can a small company create a knowledgebase for use internally as well as externally by clients. [more inside]
Finding a good outsourcer for website changes/design/marketing?
How to outsource to a good integrative website marketing/design firm or individual? Or please provide your personal recommendations. [more inside]
Ok to use damaged bottle?
I am emotionally attached to an old Sigg aluminum drinking water bottle (ie, I've had it for many years). But now it's badly dented. Is it still safe to use? The metal is unbroken, but I'm concerned that any kind of coating on the inside may be cracked/compromised. Any advice please from water bottle gurus.
Die die die
How do I remove/kill forsythia roots to prepare for new planting? [more inside]
Sci-fi movie tech in the real world
I want one of those monitors you see in movies that are a piece of glass that you can see through. They invariably have maps on them, and are touch screen. Awesome. Is this even possible?
No-Go Video?
Help me preserve memories and save money... I have several old VHS home movies I'm trying to digitize so I can preserve them and edit together the good parts. I used a GoVideo machine to create DVDs that are playable. But I can't copy the DVD files to my PC or otherwise rip them. I sent one of my tapes to a company and their DVD copies to my PC and into my movie editor without a hitch. What gives? Do I have to suck up the cost and send the rest in to the service? Anything I might be doing wrong?
How do I reply to 'How are you?' in a medical context?
When I go to see my specialists at the hospital when I walk in they always ask: 'How are you?' How should I respond? [more inside]
Free, Creative Commons music that is danceable
Free, Creative Commons music that is danceable, esp. techno, electronica! [more inside]
Can we be happy without an entertainment line item in our budget?
Can we be happy without an entertainment line item in our budget? [more inside]
Van Gogh Museum or Kröller-Müller Museum?
So, we will be in Holland for a couple of weeks and I need a Van Gogh fix, but I don't want to overdose. If I was only to go to one Van Gogh museum, which would you recommend: the Van Gogh Museum in Amsterdam or the Kröller-Müller Museum in Hoge Veluwe National Park? [more inside]
What is love (love)? Baby don't hurt me...(Hideo) Nomo.
Is my girlfriend's behavior incongruent? [more inside]
Herpes -- When to Tell?
New relationship and herpes: When to tell? [more inside]
Veggies are weird.
FoodFilter: Help me learn if I like kale, swiss chard, and maybe even turnips. [more inside]
Tips for getting an appraisal
I'm looking to refinance my home and with the rough housing market over the last couple years, the appraisal is going to be close. Is there anything a homeowner can do to positively influence the appraiser?
I googled it and came up with clean up the yard and house. What else?
What shouldn't I miss in Tokyo and Kyoto?
Next week, I'm going to be in Tokyo for a few days and then Kyoto for another day or two. What shouldn't I miss? [more inside]
Chill out song?
Trying to find a hip hop/acid jazz song that I heard on Qatar radio recently. It had rap and some Robbie Williams vocals. It may have the lyrics "chill out". That's all I have to go by.
Yup, another book-recommendation post.
Now that I finally have some free time on my hands (research proposal is in, huzzah!) I'm looking for something to read that is not affiliated with my degree. The academic in me adores footnotes in fiction. Also, books that blend genres, and particularly ones that feature strange/big cities. I usually read urban fantasy/weird/new weird/steampunk. The following elements make me take notice: magic, science, esotericism, religion, myth, historical influence. Not a big fan of comedy. [more inside]
Please reccomend me some solar PV monitoring equipment..
Please reccomend me some solar PV monitoring equipment.. [more inside]
Training a dog
Help me house and leash train this lost/stray dog. [more inside]
Bus route from Kent Washington to Des Moines Washington
Which bus would take me from East Valley Highway and 180th in Kent Washington to S 234th Street in Des Moines Washington at ten p.m. on weekdays and weekends (if possible)? The metro website hasn't been very helpful so any other sources will be very much appreciated. Thanks
August 2
3 weeks in South America, for noobs. What to do?
Planning a trip to South America. Only have 3 to 4 weeks max for the entire holiday. We will be flying in from Australia so will be coming in and out of Buenos Aires, and are keen to see as much of Argentina and Brazil as possible. I feel like I know next to nothing else other than the continent is huge and I have nowhere near enough time. Hive mind, help me plan the best possible itinerary! Tips and stories highly encouraged. [more inside]
Picture and sound from laptop into TV?
How can I get picture and sound to go through my laptop into my TV? [more inside]
Help me pick a great tv.
Where can I find authoritative reviews of flat screen tvs? [more inside]
Women's suits in Los Angeles or San Francisco?
Best place to buy women's suits in Los Angeles or San Francisco? [more inside]
Downloading Only Some Messages from Gmail. Possible?
Is there a way to download one folder of mail from gmail to an outside client, say apple mall, without downloading all the messages I have in gmail? [more inside]
Less money, more fun
I've recently come to realize that my job isn't fulfilling or challenging, and is making me depressed and helping ruin my personal relationships.
Should I stay at this job and be unhappy but well-compensated, or leave and make half as much but possibly be happy? [more inside]
It is so connected. It's *always* connected.
Can Windows be persuaded to ignore lies the BIOS tells it about what video monitors are connected? [more inside]
Health insurance reform
Aetna recently contacted my parents saying that because they provide less than 50% of my financial support, I am no longer eligible to be a dependent on the family health insurance plan. However, the new legislation passed by Congress seems to say that I can stay on the plan until I am 26. Can anyone clear up this confusion? [more inside]
Poetic compounds
What are some clever, figurative, poetic English or German compounds? [more inside]
Wedding Song Search
We're putting together a playlist of older, romantic, fun songs (that's amore, fly me to the moon, baby its cold outside, etc) for our wedding. There's a song I've heard once on pandora, but can't seem to find now. 40s or 50s era sound, sort of swingy, female singer, all I remember was the lyrics were a list of places, followed by "but I love to be with you" - or something very similar. ie "I love the beach, I love the sand... but I love to be with you." Does anyone know what it was? (And any other suggestions for songs happily received!)
If it's too good to be true...
Why would Wells Fargo call me to refinance to a lower interest rate? What's in it for them? [more inside]
Short Sell- Quick Sell
What should I know as a potential first time home buyer looking at buying a short sell property direct from a bank? My parents have happily lived in the same condo/apartment in Honolulu for over 15 years. Recently, a real estate "friend" of theirs said there is a unit in the same apartment which is going for very cheap because it is a short sell... key word is " real estate friend". My parents said it would be a great investment, but they have never been too good with research and finances and drawn in by storytelling of so called friends and sensational people. Are there any tips on what I should watch out for or anything I should know beforehand before plunging into this? [more inside]
Laserdisc player repair place recommendations? (in USA)
Laserdisc player repair place recommendations? (in USA) [more inside]
Verizon: "God can't hear you, Mr. Plarfegan."
Droid Eris stopped sending/receiving picture messages, now sends/receives infuriating one-photo slideshows. How might one change it back? [more inside]
Blower motor resistor or worse? Did you mean 'power motormite rotor'?
If my 2001 Honda Accord's blower motor resistor goes out, should I expect the air conditioner not to come on at all, or is there something more seriously wrong with the car than just the resistor? [more inside]
Where to find African eggplant (bitterball, kittely)?
Looking for fresh African eggplant (bitterball, kittely) in the Boston area. I've tried Russo's in Waltham, but I haven't found it there. Would actually prefer the dried form, which I expect could be ordered online if I could just find someone who carries it. Any West African cooks or lovers of African food out there who can help me out?
CROSSFIRE!
What are the best places on the web to discuss politics that are well moderated to maintain courtesy, encourage debate to be logical and well supported, and have good rates of participation from both sides of the political spectrum?
Help me wrangle Wordpress categories
How can I make Wordpress.com posts show up as full text instead of summary in category links? [more inside]
Collecting Rare Books
I'm interested in rare books. What can you tell me about collecting them? [more inside]
Digging yourself out of a mental hole.
I'm in a hole, and I keep digging. I'm behind on numerous things, and I just bury my head until problems become unbearable. Help me pull some dirt into this hole (without me in it) and lay down some concrete so this doesn't happen again. [more inside]
How does an "exclusive buyer's agent" get paid?
How does an "exclusive buyer's agent" (for real estate) get paid? [more inside]
Can you help me navigate Loudon Wainwright III's discography?
Which of Loudon Wainwright III's albums tend more to the lo-fi folk-y and less to the plugged in country sound? I'm not a huge fan of synth drums and choral backing, but I think he's an amazing songwriter and would love some help figuring out which of his many, many albums are to my taste. Any similar sounding recommendations would be awesome as well! [more inside]
Making "ambient" music on my MacBook? (Or, what's new in computer music toys since 1993?)
I'm curious about making "ambient" music (in the Brian Eno sense of the word, not the slow, druggy IDM sense) on a recent-ish Macintosh, without dropping a lot of money on software or hardware. The catch: I haven't payed the slightest bit of attention to computer music technology since the early 90s. Musicians of MeFi, bring me up to date! What do I need to know / use / hear / read / try? [more inside]
We're just not going to the bathroom together. Ever.
What can I look forward to as my relationship continues? [more inside]
She's great. Everything between us is great. This froofy church is not.
I'm an atheist and a skeptic. She's been dabbling with a kooky New Age church. This bothers me. How do I approach this situation? [more inside]
unemployment claim: what happens if I didn't apply for any jobs?
I browsed for but didn't apply to any jobs during the first two weeks of my unemployment claim because I was in a bit of a funk. I'm applying to jobs now. Need advice on filling out the biweekly claim form to send to the unemployment office (or other general advice) so I don't jeopardize the whole claim. This is in California. [more inside]
Kundalini, what are you doing to me?
How do I focus on yoga in stead of the hot guy next to me? [more inside]
Help me find "meta" capabilities for my primitive wiki?
Help a non-programmer with some meta-wiki capabilities. How can I easily create a map/list of all pages on a wiki? How can I generate stats analysis on stuff like backlinking, etc? And how can I export the entire wiki to one offline file in a way that does a reasonable job of preserving the format? (specifics follow...) [more inside]
How can I make my photos larger on blogger.com?
How can I make my photos larger on blogger.com?
What can I use to cover the faces of oil paintings that are being stored flat?
I'm looking for thin sheets of a material that I can use to cover a series of oil paintings stacked flat, which won't react to the paint itself and will prevent them from sticking or bonding to anything else. [more inside]
I'm Leaving For China With No Plans: I Need Some Plans!
My son wants me to ride trains and hike with him, starting this weekend, all over China. He says he wants to leave Beijing (I arrive exhausted on Thursday night) on Sunday and go, over the next 17 days, to visit Xuchang, Xi'an, Chengdu, Jiuzhaigou, Kunming, Tiger Leaping Gorge, Guilin, Yangshou, Suzhou, and FengHuang; then back to Beijing so I can go home. Can we do it? We have no itinerary. Shouldn't this be pared down? Where should we go? What travel websites can I use on my iPhone or at internet cafes? How can I find cheap airfare within China, with no advance reservations, and do it on the fly? This post is as "quick and dirty" as is my planning. Now, I have to get back to packing ultralight for monsoon territory. I'm too old for this, but am excited! [more inside]
Refrigerator help
Refrigerator question. [more inside]
Fecking 3D glasses: Why don't they work they way I expected?
I thought I knew how the current crop of 3D glasses worked, but an experiment with my glasses and my laptop screen proved that something weird is going on. Why does the direction I'm looking through the glasses change what I see, and why do the polarising filters appear to be oriented the same way? [more inside]
Can't talk -huge rubber thingy balanced in my ear.
What bluetooth headset are comfortable for someone with small ears? Previous questions are old, or Mac/iPhone. [more inside]
I forgot to study abroad.
I'm about to graduate and I never studied abroad. I'd like to change that. [more inside]
Detail painting on muslin?
I want to do a painting or drawing of a fantasy map on muslin, but I don't know which materials I should use or how I should prime or seal the cloth. What materials can I use to ensure the best durability/prevent possible damage from getting wet while retaining the ability to do detail work? [more inside]
Interior design school gift options?
What gift should I get an individual that graduated from an interior design school? [more inside]
Advice for moving to Boston
I am seriously looking into moving to Boston. I would like to be in the city as much as possible while paying less than $1400/mo rent for at least one bedroom. I would like to be able to have a dog and park my car. (I might not drive it around Boston much, but would like to be able to use it to leave the city) I work at home. I was looking in the Brookline area or on Commonwealth between Boston College and Fenway. Any advice would be great!
But he hasn't seen my college campus!
What's the easiest way for my husband and I to visit my family in the US? [more inside]
How do you know if it's worth pursuing?
I am now in a living situation where I live with a bunch of friends. I was always close friends with one of the girls (for about a year) and one night we cuddled. It led to some more cuddling for a few nights but it bothered me. Not because I didn't like it but because I'm the type that wants things to be clear. I've always been in the mindset that if I like a girl, I will pursue her and make it clear to her. Leaving things unclear can lead to messy relationships/breakups/fights and hurt feelings in the end. [more inside]
Does my employer owe me 401(k) contributions that they forgot to take?
Does my employer have to make elective 401(k) contributions for me if they messed up and didn't take any deductions from my paycheck this year? If so, how much? (You are not my HR professional or ERISA lawyer.) [more inside]
To infinity and... where, exactly?
I'm an innovative thinker who got stuck in an engineering box. I'm about to get kicked out of the box. Can you help me find a new box? [more inside]
Which to adopt from: No-kill or "kill" shelters?
No-kill vs. kill shelter: is one more "right" to adopt from? [more inside]
iPhone app to open and edit Excel documents
iPhoneAppFilter: I have an Excel document on my home computer that I would like to be able to open and edit on my iPhone while I'm out and about, on an ongoing basis. The catch: app needs to be able to handle "index" and "match" functions. Without this functionality, the app would be useless to me. List of previous disappointments: DropBox (can't edit), QuickOffice (interfaces with DropBox but can't do index/match functions), Calc Lite (can't open document). I have zero programming skills and not that much more cash. Is my dream app (or combination of apps) out there?
Should I buy a factory unlocked iPhone?
Should I buy an unlocked iPhone or remain indentured? [more inside]
Fun, laid-back things to do on Kaua'i?
What are some fun, laid-back things to do on Kaua'i? [more inside]
safe for work photo blogs
what are good work safe photo blogs that work well on ancient browsers (so light on the ajax/flash/2.0 sort of stuff)? [more inside]
Looking for an original "Justification for Higher Education" poster
JUSTIFICATION FOR HIGHER EDUCATION... the original poster. If you grew up in the 80s and 90s, you probably saw this poster at the local book fair. Does anyone know where I can find the original version of this poster? [more inside]
Life in 19th c. rural Scotland?
Life in 19th century rural Scotland - tell me more about the "home farm". [more inside]
Herniated L5/S1, sciatic pain, what should I do?
I was rear-ended 9 months ago and now have a herniated L5/S1 with associated issues (sciatica, back pain). My doctor wants me to get an epidural injection of corticosteroids. Is this really my best option? [more inside]
Out Stealing Horses
I don't understand a seemingly important part of "Out Stealing Horses" by Per Petterson. On p. 198, Trond says, "In real life I have not had the courage to ask Lars the obvious question: 'Did you take the place that was rightfully mine? Did you have years out of my life that I should have lived?'" If someone has read the book and can explain what Trond means here, I'd be grateful!
How can I keep myself busy in SF on a very tight budget?
What should I do with a month of free time in the San Francisco Bay area? [more inside]
SQEAK CLUNK
AutomotiveFilter: Please help me diagnose this squeak in my 99 Ford F150. [more inside]
Can you suggest a good base for some hiking in Switzerland?
Can you suggest a good base for some hiking in Switzerland? [more inside]
Has anyone built TradeBook.com?
Has anyone built a social networking website to facilitate region-to-region and international trade? [more inside]
How to attend Burning Man while avoiding the sun?
I really don't like the sun. I would like to go to Burning Man. How do I make this happen? [more inside]
Hi, I'm your boss. Don't like it? Too bad!
I was hired for a newly created management position at a company. The position that was eliminated to create this position used to indirectly report to one of my employees, weirdness and hurt feelings ensue. [more inside]
Educational Media
Can you recommend some great educational media for my nearly two year old daughter? I am looking for good DVD's, computer / iPhone software, or websites that I can load up for 30-60 minutes a day. I would like something she can learn from, but if she is having fun, that is cool as well. Right now she is a Dora and Diego addict. I just got her a few LeapFrog preschool DVD's that she loves. She can sing her ABC's and can count to 10 in English and Spanish. She is just starting to be able to answer "How does the letter A, B, C, etc. go?' She knows how to flip pages and push buttons on the iPhone. Are there any computer learning games that a two year old could handle. Flash games? iPhone games? Answers to this question do not involve telling me to take my daughter outside. I am familiar with the debunking of Baby Einstein. I would just like to find some good stuff for her to watch, play or interact with. General toy recommendations are good as well.
Please help me find a short film about a lunch
I'm looking for the name of a short film about an older European couple having an afternoon meal - think "afternoon tea". It could have been from a short film compilation from the 80's.
The whole thing takes place in a large, old-fashioned kitchen. A man with a big mustache comes in and sits at the table. The woman organizes a meal and sets it in front of him over the first five minutes or so. He starts to eat, while she finishes up a few things. She pours a cup of tea (hmm - I might be adding this part) and sits down and watches him eat. There's no dialog.
I always had the impression that the people were English or Scandinavian, but I don't know why. I'm also pretty sure they are/were real people that somebody filmed - the whole thing is so natural and detailed...
For whatever reason, this whole scene has stuck with me for many years, and the wry humour of it is something I'd like my kids to see.
Any ideas? [more inside]
Activities for a one year old tourist in San Francisco
San Francisco with a toddler? [more inside]
Help two lifelong dreamers plan their honeymoon in the future, AKA Tokyo!
[TokyoFilter]: Planning a November honeymoon in Tokyo. Help two non-Japanese speaking USians who have dreamed of visiting Tokyo their entire lives figure out what's worth planning/reserving/paying for and what's not -- arigato in advance! [more inside]
Carpet drying question.
What is the best way to dry recently "steam cleaned" carpets on a humid day? Should I leave the windows open or close them and put the a/c on? [more inside]
Posterous or Tumblr?
Which one should I use -- Tumblr or Posterous? [more inside]
Basic audio interface for Intel iMac
I do occasional audio recording with GarageBand. I just recently upgraded from a G4 tower to an Intel iMac w/Snow Leopard. I settled for analog audio in through the mic input on the G4 but I think I want to step up to digital input. I have an analog mixer, tube preamps, effects pedals, etc. so I don't need to have them in the audio interface. Midi I/O would also be nice but not necessary. What are my choices in a basic 2-channel Firewire(800)/USB(2.0) audio interface?
Excel filter: Nearest neighbor identification.
Excel filter: Nearest neighbor identification. Do I need a UDF? [more inside]
Bulk branded webcams?
Where can I purchase webcams in bulk with my logo on them? [more inside]
Being paranoid about antibiotics.
Antibiotic advice: Doxycycline/Tetracyclines (teeth?) and how many to take? Also, any experiences with identifying a sore/tender bump? [more inside]
I just want our kid to wake up in the morning and walk out on the back porch and find me cobbling.
Do cobblers still exist? I'm looking for someone who will make me a pair of sandals based on a falling-apart pair I already own. [more inside]
Car insurance costs half the car? (UK)
Why am I quoted £1k + to insure a £2k car? (UK only) [more inside]
I'm sorry, I screwed up. Please let me live with my boyfriend?
Landlord damage control: my boyfriend moved in with me temporarily two months ago, which gradually became permanent. My landlord found out through other people in the building, and she's furious. How do I repair this? Should I write her a letter or email of apology? [more inside]
Dining with canines in Vancouver
Help us dine with doggies in Vancouver! [more inside]
The Man and His Mistress
Please help me understand Wittgenstein so I can understand "Wittgenstein's Mistress." [more inside]
getting rid of mosquitos
I have mosquitos in my backyard, and I'm trying to figure out how to get rid of them. [more inside]
Twitter "who to follow" make it stop
How do I make Twitter stop telling me who to follow? [more inside]
Does today's Che Twitter?
Are there insurgents you can follow on Twitter? In the digital age, many guerrilla groups (revolutionary, separatist or otherwise) have their own websites to publicize their causes. Do they use social media like twitter? And, how would I go about looking for them? (It's an academic question, I'm not making any plans...)
Help me learn how to orgasm/masturbate!
I need to learn how to masturbate. If you're a female who learned how to orgasm/whatever after becoming aware of the fact your body can do that, come tell me how you figured it out. [more inside]
Online support for depression
Looking for a decent online support group for chronic depression. [more inside]
Advanced and Applied Deep Breathing Taking
What are some quick techniques to mitigate my own (mainly physical) stress response? [more inside]
Jolicloud 1.0 Vs. Ubuntu UNR 10.04 FIGHT!
Jolicloud 1.0 or Ubuntu UNR 10.04 FIGHT!
Which is suggested for an Aspire One AOA-100? [more inside]
The poem of the act of the mind
I'm looking for a collection of modernist poetics by poets -- Pound, Crane, Stevens and such. [more inside]
Heading to Chicago
Going to Chicago this week with my wife, our 1 year old and our 2 nieces (12 and 15) starting at the Sears tower and walking to Navy Pier, what are a couple cool places we can take a rest along the way or is there something longer that we have to go see?
Can this kitchen be saved?
Does anyone make 27-inch electric kitchen ranges anymore? I know about this one, but it's the only one I can find. Extra points for one that's stainless steel and under a thousand dollars.
Provence by train?
TravelFilter: French Public Transport advice. I'm flying into Marseille MP2 airport and need to find my way to Carpentras near Avignon to meet some friends. I'd prefer not to hire a car as I won't need it while there.
My firends might be able to pick me up in Avignon but would be good to get all the way to Carpentras if easy enough (and cheap). [more inside]
Need to release the hounds!
I have the dire need to release gas... and it ain't happenin' [more inside]
I could really do with some endorphins.
How do I stop myself from thinking the same sad thoughts while I am exercising? Special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
How do I go about getting my master's?
I've been interested in getting my master's in Computer Science from a local school. I've been out of college for 4 years and don't have any academic contacts. How do I go about doing this? [more inside]
Relationship ambivalence
Is this a normal stage in long-term relationships or is it time to part? [more inside]
First, don't breathe the water.
Help me become a better swim instructor for a fellow adult that can not swim? [more inside]
Making a polyglot mixtape for a sweetheart
Mixtape filter: I'm making a mixtape with songs in as many languages as possible. I think I've got English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, Yiddish, French, and Hebrew covered, so now I'm looking for some less-easy stuff. The mixtape is for a sweetheart. [more inside]
Well, how did I get here? Dad needs support!
Once I was a guy with a few good friends. Now I'm a husband and a dad in a relatively new place with no friends. I need support but have very little no time or energy to make it happen. What can I do? [more inside]
Where is this year's In Bb?
August 1
soccer? football? memorable?
[Domain Name Filter] I want to register a soccer/football domain name (strictly .com).
Website will mainly talk about football shoes/technology in football. [more inside]
Helping acquaintance's sister with her anorexia
An acquaintance asked me if I could help his sister who has anorexia because he knows I have been through similar struggles. I'm not sure how or if it is appropriate for me to interfere. Any suggestions on how to deal with this sensitive topic is appreciated. [more inside]
Online TV for a Deaf Person from Spain (or me)
Where can I find TV and Movies from Spain with Spanish subtitles?
I'd like to be aware of current pop-culture in Spain as well improve my Spanish-language skills. I've found quite a few interesting programs on the various Spanish TV channel websites; however, none of them have subtitles.
Ideally, I'd like to find some interesting and relatively current TV shows from Spain with subtitles in Spanish. [more inside]
DOUGHNUTS!
PowerpointN00Bfilter: How do I use the graphing functions in PP and Excel to simply display 2 columns showing two different values of x% of something? [more inside]
New to the DIY and bike commuting scene, but...
Hope me make an awesome DIY bike pannier! [more inside]
10 miles on Highway 101: The worst way to spend an hour?
Commuting on the 101 between Petaluma and Novato or San Rafael and Novato. Which is worse? [more inside]
Should I expect to be a priority after this long?
What to do when you're more commited than you're partner? [more inside]
"Oh no, " she breathed, "I couldn't and neither could you."
Plot issue - ethically taking up with the spouse's best friend. [more inside]
Vacation dilemma
Apparently, I just won a vacation. Should I consider this? [more inside]
Was I fired with cause or not?
I was "let go" from work the other day - I had already been on probation due to a bad review. The review was full of incorrect statements, which I had proof of but I didn't put up a fuss. I was given requirements to fulfill to show improvement. I met those times 3. They let me go anyway. I said that I had gone way farther even than I was asked to in the requirements, so why are you letting me go? The reason was "The decision has been made." I want to know, is this considered with cause, and can I get unemployment? BTW this is in Mass. [more inside]
Modern day Sassy cover girls?
What "cool" girl role models (like Zoey Deschanel) would grace the cover of Sassy magazine, if it still existed? [more inside]
leftover chicken
why does refrigerated cooked chicken taste different than freshly-cooked chicken? i dislike the strong gamey taste that it acquires. is there anything I can do about it, except covering it up with spices or condiments?
Who cares about the coffee, the view is GREAT!
Which cafe in Sydney has the best view? [more inside]
I want to read David Hume
Greeting hive, I want to start in on reading David Hume. Where should I start?
Which Hume books or collections should I begin with to ease into his works?
And, perhaps more importantly, which editions (I like footnotes:)
Thanks! :)
Plumbing Problems: storm drain and basement bathroom drains stopped
Plumbing: The exterior storm drain, the basement toilet, and the basement shower are all clogged. What's gone wrong, and what should I do? [more inside]
Looking for adhesives for wood and acrylic.
What epoxy/adhesives are recommended for adhering acrylic to wood with a permanent, strong bond? [more inside]
How could I have been so clueless about this?
Two of my boyfriend's friends are apparently disgusted by me, particularly my looks. I'm shocked, confused, and ashamed. What should I do? [more inside]
Can I use an airbrush to paint a motorcycle?
Can I use my airbrush to paint my motorcycle's gas tank? [more inside]
Everyday styles for long, thick hair
Long-haired MeFites, please tell me what I can do with my hair besides put it up in a ponytail or tear it out. [more inside]
Wedding venue in PA?
Halp! frazzled by looking for reasonable wedding locations in southeast PA...need some suggestions! [more inside]
What to do with the honeycomb in my honey jar?
What do you do with your honeycomb (from jars)? [more inside]
Where can I stream old Simpsons episodes?
Is there a good place to stream episodes of The Simpsons? [more inside]
Prominent Australian Moustaches?
I'm trying to identify prominent Australians, preferably from the 1980s who had a moustache. Think Magnum PI, but Australian. For what its worth, I've already identified just about every bloke that played cricket for Australia in that period. Bonus points if you can tell me some songs about moustaches too.
What's your favorite kind of sauerkraut?
I love sauerkraut, and have my own favorites, but I'd like to try some new varieties. What is your favorite kind of sauerkraut (or other fermented cabbage/leaf/something) and where do you buy it? [more inside]
Should I pay a parking ticket I got in Italy?
Received parking ticket while in Italy, and didn't pay it. Received a notice from the Florence Police department several months after returning to the US, and still didn't pay it. Now I'm going back to Italy in 6 weeks. Any risk of problems? [more inside]
I’m starting to think I don’t know how to do casual dating.
After a few long term relationships (4 yrs, 3 yrs, 10 yrs) I met a nice guy a few weeks ago. I’ve seen him 2-4 x per week every week.
The first few weeks, we had dinner, or saw a movie, and went back to his place for sex. The sex is really, really great.
The last couple of weeks, I’ve just gone over to his house for sex. [more inside]
Hire me! I'm trustworthy, I promise!
How can I convince my employer to promote me when there is a potential conflict of interest? Should I even try? [more inside]
Eric Hoffer Audio? Video?
I have always been a fan of Eric Hoffer. I just read a new post about him on a blog I read and it rekindled my interest in finding audio or video of Hoffer. I've never heard a single comment or interview. He was the subject of some big CBS interviews in the 60's but I've never found those anywhere either. Anyone here know of any audio and/or video?
As always, thanks in advance!
I need a big lipped plate.
Please help me find the perfect dinner plate. [more inside]
Where to turn for help in Central Texas for a family member in trouble.
My adopted sister is in need of help, and we don't know where to turn. She is 21, recently divorced with a young son. She's on medicaid and food stamps. She doesn't have a job or a driver's license. [more inside]
Caffinated and sweet with no sugar? Can it be?!
Tea lovers! Help me find the perfect hot tea to drink please! [more inside]
How/Where can I buy a netbook online (for delivery to the US) that has a Spanish operating system and a Spanish keyboard layout?
How/Where can I buy a netbook online (for delivery to the US) that has a Spanish operating system and a Spanish keyboard layout?
What to give the once in a lifetime student?
I need an amazing graduation gift idea for an amazing person! Super, artsy, creative input needed... [more inside]
Trying to find the line between Good Samaritan and Creepy McCreeperson
I saw a woman weeping on the subway and I did nothing. Was that the appropriate response? [more inside]
Fsh! Fsh! (natural gas smell) on GE XL44
A single burner on our GE XL44 natural gas range has been acting up. The flame was orange and would flare up, and then I dusted the burner. Now it's blue. It smells like gas, and still flares up. [more inside]
I'm out of checks, rent is due, bank is closed. What do I do to solve this by Thursday?
I'm out of checks. As you can see by the date, rent is due. It's a Sunday and I can't go to the bank for help. I have four days after today to get it in by. What do I do? [more inside]
Double Hummingbird, Oh My God, It's So Intense! (But what kind were they?)
I want to learn more about wildlife/natural science in my local area. Can you recommend books? More on what I'm looking for inside. [more inside]
All your data are belong to CURL
Where can I lookup the future earnings reports date of a given company by ticker. [more inside]
Grass, the natural prey of the miniature poodle.
We had a new grass lawn put in at the start of the year. Before long, it had developed yellow spots: pic 1, pic 2.
A suspect has been brought in for questioning. She did not confess, only licking the detective on advise of counsel.
Two questions:
1) Is she likely the real culprit?
2) What remedies are available? If it is her, I'd like to note that the whole point of the lawn was so that she could do her business out there. We'll get her a potty pad and encourage her not to go on the grass, but I'm doubtful that she'll always go where we want. [more inside]
Can a Apple Aiport Express be used as a wired connection on a Mac?
mac airport express - how does one get it one to work as a wired connection to a mac?! [more inside]
Will helping him raise his credit score lower my credit score?
Posting for a friend: I added my then-fiance's name as an authorized user of one of my credit cards a few years ago. We've broken up but still own a house together, and we need to refinance it. He has been told that it will help if he can raise his credit score, in part by having me take his name off that credit card. Would that lower my (good) credit score and affect our refinancing if that credit/debt is all mine?
Objective-C pointers are making me bonkers!
I am trying to learn Objective-C. I'm a total n00b and am having a hard time with pointer syntax. Please help me decipher this code. [more inside]
How do I teach myself to brush my teeth?
How do I teach myself to consistently brush my teeth? [more inside]
Not a bodybuilder. Simply trying to understand how my body's built.
I'm neither an athlete nor obese, but am trying to lose 20 lbs while also building muscle, on a very low carb diet. My question is about depleted muscle glycogen stores while doing strength training. [more inside]
Is this strength training program worth the money?
Am I expecting too much from our (fairly expensive) exercise program? Details within. [more inside]
Can you identify this flower?
I'd like my fake meat bloody, please.
Almost all meat substitutes that I've encountered simulate well-done meat or fish. Are there any vegan/vegetarian recipes to simulate raw/extremely rare meats and fish? [more inside]
Could somebody please help me with my new headset and speakers?
Could somebody please help me with my new headset and speakers? [more inside]
Finding a phone is hard!
Can you recommend a low-cost phone and a low-cost phone plan that will let me import my existing contacts? The contacts are in GroupWise (which can export to a VCF file), and I'm looking at some of the pay-as-you-go prepaid plans. [more inside]
City living and staying safe
I'm new to city living and have some probably unfounded worries about security and safety. [more inside]
Here comes the sun.
I'm doing some preliminary research into what it would take to run a garage on solar power. This, of course, means using a solar array to power the heavy duty shop equipment that runs on 220. [more inside]
Native plants for a DC backyard?
Suggestions needed for mid-to-low maintenance, ornamental, native plants that I can grow in D.C. [more inside]
BOINC!
I have an absurdly powerful laptop (at least as far as my computing needs are concerned) and I'd like to donate some of its spare processing power to a grid computing initiative, like BOINC. [more inside]
What's this? A hole?
Who made this hole and what's to be done? [more inside]
There was an artful ski movie shot at 100FPS. What is it called?
Ski Movie Aficionados: Approximately five years ago I read about a very artful ski movie in the middle of multi-year production. The aspect I remember most clearly was a very high original frame rate to allow super- smooth slow motion. I want to say 100fps, but I really don't remember for sure. Can anyone lead me to this film? [more inside]
Where to find a cheap bike?
How should I go about getting a sub-$100 city bike? [in Chicago.] [more inside]
Help me go on a drug-fuelled vision quest... legally
Help me go on a drug-fuelled vision quest... legally. [more inside]
A potluck where money is exchanged?
I'd like to start an underground farmers' market, but I'm worried about regs and liability [more inside]
How to lose weight gained as SSRI side effect?
Has anyone here lost weight successfully while on an SSRI? How did you do it? [more inside]
Love Songs for Dead People
Mixtapefilter: I'm working on a mix with the theme of love songs for dead people. [more inside]
Help a Pasty Sister Out
What kind of clothing should I wear for hiking in the Southwest to maximize sun protection but also not die of heat stroke? [more inside]
Leave me alone, I'm here to run.
Help me run without being harassed. [more inside]
Name This Baby
We're having (another) boy. We have no boy names we like. Help. [more inside]
Should I contact a band for permission to use their music?
Would it be a good idea to write to a band via myspace to ask for permission to use their music in my student audio project? The project (if it's good) could end up on the school's audio website. If it's really good (and I can't say yet that it will be), it's possible I'd want to pitch it to radio programs. [more inside]
Permanent throwaway email?
What's the best site to get a new email address without submitting a current email address?
Transitive property
Sharing a fork on a coffee date. What's up with that? [more inside]
Name this job in the Arts
Name this job! My friend works a variety of skilled odd jobs in the arts, for wont of a better term. She needs help naming what it is that she does. [more inside]
Magic business suite for artists: share your spells
Asking-for-my-girlfriend: What are some good tools (project management, CRM, accounting) for an artist starting a business selling printed textiles on Etsy? [more inside]