May 2012 Archives
May 31
Is it normal to feel this way before moving for an ldr?
I move across the country for my boyfriend tomorrow, and I am not feeling very relaxed about it. [more inside]
You can pry my pinky teddy bear sneakers from my cold dead feet.
I adore the bold, crazy men's shoes and fashion of Jeremy Scott. Who else designs such deliriously delightful men's stuff at vaguely affordable prices?
Netflix anime recommendations?
I have a netflix account, and I like anime (but know little to nothing about it). What are the best ones, on netflix, to watch? Among the one's I've seen and liked on Netflix: Samurai Champloo, Macross (all of them), Blue Drop, Spice and Wolf, and Gurren Lagann, and Initial D. There are others, but are there any hidden anime gems on Netflix that I'm missing?
Please help me find a painting!
Help me find a painting. [more inside]
How I've not missed you, 56k modems
Free FTP client that supports auto resume/retry? [more inside]
Save our savings!
Interest rates for US certificates of deposit: 1%, if you're lucky. Interest rates for Australian term deposits: 4-5%. What gives? [more inside]
posted by rdc at 7:44 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by rdc at 7:44 PM PST - 16 comments
I need help making money, making music, and deciding a career.
I'm a full-time student who wants to net some pocket money and try to eventually start a music career, but I feel so lost, and Google's advice is too vague, so I thought I might ask here... More details inside! [more inside]
posted by chongnosall at 7:36 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by chongnosall at 7:36 PM PST - 29 comments
Help me not embarrass myself at my first time going on a date at a fine dining establishment
Help me not embarrass myself at my first time going on a date at a fine dining establishment [more inside]
Baby, you can drive my car
How long does it take to get an NJ drivers license? [more inside]
posted by raccoon409 at 6:29 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by raccoon409 at 6:29 PM PST - 12 comments
Southern California in Winter - Carfree Travel
Where should I go/stay/see in Southern California from mid-December to mid-January? I will not have a car since I want to promote low-carbon travel. [more inside]
posted by bluelight at 6:13 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by bluelight at 6:13 PM PST - 13 comments
Am I ill-suited or just burned out at my job?
I have worked at the same company for the last 10 years. The longer I stay with this job, the more I wonder if my personality is not the best fit, or if I am simply burned out. Many details inside... [more inside]
sustainability after death
At present, what is the most environmentally friendly way to deal with a human body after they die? [more inside]
posted by raztaj at 5:16 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by raztaj at 5:16 PM PST - 30 comments
Should I apply for *this* particular job?
Should I apply for *this* particular job? [more inside]
Adaptable Reuse Glass top
What can I do with a approx 4 by 2.5 foot piece of glass (thats about .5 inch deep)? Part of a glass desk top. I have a patio, but virtually no room to use it inside as a desk. Thoughts?
posted by sandmanwv at 4:51 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by sandmanwv at 4:51 PM PST - 4 comments
Best quiet islands to visit for Greek holiday?
Your recommendations for Greek islands to visit, please. [more inside]
Goldilocks, hot town, summer in the city...
Are there air conditions that have an excellent fan setting as well? In my experience, ACs serve as poor substitutes to window fans. [more inside]
posted by benbenson at 4:09 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by benbenson at 4:09 PM PST - 11 comments
Champagne in a hotel room?
Who can I trust to build me a decent new PC?
Which UK companies have good reputations for doing custom builds of PCs? Are there any that have given you particularly good/bad service? [more inside]
Kindle/Nook and learning Spanish
Kindle (or Nook) and Spanish books+Dictionary [more inside]
I'm in love with Massachusetts
I am working on a Boston bands in the '80s mix for One Week One Mix and am having a hard time filling out the mix (due to Spotify availability). What am I missing? Bands that have or have not made the cut below the fold. [more inside]
posted by pxe2000 at 3:28 PM PST - 46 comments
posted by pxe2000 at 3:28 PM PST - 46 comments
How can I be preoccupied with nothing?
I'm nothing preoccupied with nothing. What could be the cause? [more inside]
How do I bring my own iPhone to a US carrier?
I have a legally unlocked GSM iPhone 4 from Europe and will be moving back to the states soon for the foreseeable future. Since I don't need to trade the next year or two of my life for a hardware subsidy and am not bound to any company already, what is my best carrier choice for a data plan with modest talk use? Does having my own phone free and clear give me any extra options I wouldn't have otherwise? [more inside]
posted by Schismatic at 2:42 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by Schismatic at 2:42 PM PST - 21 comments
Kindle, You're Creeping Me Out
How is it possible that the Kindle Touch is automatically turned on when you first open the box? [more inside]
posted by cropshy at 2:35 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by cropshy at 2:35 PM PST - 8 comments
How to get my laptop's keyboard to work after a beer spillage?
I spilled beer on my laptop. I got a missing or corrupt BIOS error on startup and a number of keys didn't do anything when pressed. I disassembled the laptop and cleaned the inside with alcohol wipes and replaced the keyboard. The BIOS error is gone and the keys register as input but in pairs. Is there a software solution to this problem? [more inside]
DIY Photobooth?
We'd like to set up a photo booth in a closet for our next party (Jurassic Park themed if you were asking) and we're trying to figure out the logistics. Any recommendations? [more inside]
How much should I charge per episode of an online animated show?
An entertainment company is interested in an online animated comedy series I'm creating. How much should I ask per episode? [more inside]
No cable but need to watch TNT
I do not have cable or satellite and I need to watch a program on TNT. I have a TiVo DVR; PS3; Netflix streaming; ethernet connection to iMac. I am willing to spend a little money for the show. What's my best hope? (If the answer includes the ethernet connection to the computer, please explain clearly -- I'm not very computer savvy).
Where to find the best sandwiches in Atlanta, GA?
Best place for delicious sandwiches in Atlanta, GA? [more inside]
posted by ohsnapdragon at 1:09 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by ohsnapdragon at 1:09 PM PST - 16 comments
Using formulae when I should be using VBA
Excel 2007 Filter: Is it possible to nest 3 OR statements in an Index and Match formula? [more inside]
First-time Online PC Order
Pleases help finalize my mid-range PC Desktop. [more inside]
posted by chrono_rabbit at 1:00 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by chrono_rabbit at 1:00 PM PST - 13 comments
I can't ADD
Am I fine? Is the doc a quack? Is this part of the process? Adult ADD content [more inside]
Best shopping and food in Burlington, VT?
Best shopping and food in Burlington, VT? [more inside]
The Perfect Photo
North Americana Filter: Find the 10 best pictures taken from each decade onwards from 1910 to 2010? [more inside]
posted by Funmonkey1 at 12:31 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Funmonkey1 at 12:31 PM PST - 8 comments
Fire the homophobe?
The live-in super of my building has confided in me that he does not like homosexuals. They're already complaints regarding his work but not his homophobia. If I report him, there's a chance he'll lose his job. [more inside]
How to reinvent oneself professionaly?
Twice a pioneer, with career disrupted by immigration and maternity, needs badly to reinvent herself. Ideas? [more inside]
Accepting help from friends will cost you
I moved from one state to another and my friends, whom I'm staying with for a month and a half, are charging me "rent" and the amount is absurd. How do I process this? [more inside]
How and when to change doctors when a medical malpractice action is pending?
Recently I sustained a permanent disability due to surgical negligence. Several malpractice firms are willing to take my case on contingency, and I am in the process of deciding which attorney to go with. In the meantime, I am continuing to receive care from the negligent surgeon. Obviously I need to end this relationship and find a new specialist. How do I make the transition? [more inside]
Help find Jazz cover of Dance song
Please help me find the Jazz/lounge version of this dance song! [more inside]
Alef Bet Song that isn't Debbie Friedman's Version?
Can you help me identify this folk-dance version of the Alef Bet Song? [more inside]
Set old Facebook posts to a specific list?
On Facebook, can you retroactively set the security for all of your posts from public to a specific list? [more inside]
needs a push
If you have made a dramatic change when it comes to employment/lifestyle- how did you push yourself to just go for it? [more inside]
posted by zara at 10:57 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by zara at 10:57 AM PST - 21 comments
Nowhere
Any tips for a burner newbie? I'm going to Nowhere in Spain, not Burning Man itself. I've selected a barrio already. Any pointers for a kilt that's suitable for 40°C days, as well as potentially cold nights, preferably with pockets?
Who made this short stop-motion movie, and what was its name?
Help me find this short Polish stop-motion film from a few years ago.. [more inside]
posted by Theiform at 10:30 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Theiform at 10:30 AM PST - 2 comments
How does remotely accessing somebody else's computer even work, anyway?
I just visited Facebook and it showed me the login screen with the email address of the guy I'm dating as the username. I was using FB earlier today, puttering around, sending messages and whatnot, and I haven't logged out of FB or restarted my Mac since. What's going on here? Am I paranoid to think that he (or someone else) could have remotely accessed my computer? [more inside]
Identify a computer game in a white environment revealed by shooting a paintball gun
What first-person perspective puzzle game was set in a completely white environment that you revealed by shooting blobs of paint? [more inside]
posted by metaBugs at 9:47 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by metaBugs at 9:47 AM PST - 6 comments
Need help finding a book of short stories from my childhood...
I read this book of creepy short stories when I was younger and I can't find the book. One story was about a kid who is turned into a plant and another was about a guy being buried in the Hoover Dam. [more inside]
posted by theuninvitedguest at 9:47 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by theuninvitedguest at 9:47 AM PST - 4 comments
You want to see my what?
I have contacted the designer of my WordPress theme for support and they are asking for log-in info. This seems like a "stop right there" kinda thing. Am I being to cautious? [more inside]
posted by humboldt32 at 9:41 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by humboldt32 at 9:41 AM PST - 14 comments
Shingles vaccine downside?
What are the dangers of being vaccinated against shingles? [more inside]
posted by Jenna Brown at 9:39 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Jenna Brown at 9:39 AM PST - 15 comments
Calendar syncing help for a couple using 2 Macs, an iPhone and a HTC One
Trying to make calendar syncing work across multiple devices and accounts is driving me up the wall. Please help! [more inside]
posted by epiphinite at 9:29 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by epiphinite at 9:29 AM PST - 5 comments
Seed help please!
What are some native seeds / plants to Pennsylvania and Delaware, that would be able to grow in San Francisco? [more inside]
Where can I find the Chicago youth culture in Brooklyn?
Can I get Chicago in Brooklyn? (In particular: Coffee, thrift stores, theater, bicycles, and free stuff.) Keywords: Free or <$5 [more inside]
posted by lhude sing cuccu at 9:04 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by lhude sing cuccu at 9:04 AM PST - 33 comments
OMG, You're Tony Randall!
SNL filter: Please list for me the Saturday Night Live skits where guests unexpectedly show up. [more inside]
Rest Pause Strength Training
Rest Pause Strength Training [more inside]
Overnight in Newburgh, NY - food suggestions?
Overnight in Newburgh, NY - late dinner / early breakfast recommendations? [more inside]
Illustrator / Photoshop Course Recommendations
Can anyone recommend good introductory Illustrator and Photoshop classes in NYC? [more inside]
Cleaning Schedule that Works?
I live with two roommates and need to provide a new cleaning schedule. The once a week, one person does everything, seemed ok until someone started missing weeks. [more inside]
posted by InterestedInKnowing at 8:14 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by InterestedInKnowing at 8:14 AM PST - 13 comments
Art that is both beautiful and strange.
Help me find more unconventional artwork that'll make me say, "Wow." [more inside]
posted by xenization at 8:04 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by xenization at 8:04 AM PST - 11 comments
You have fourteen new messages.
Dating filter: did I screw this up or did she come on way too strong? [more inside]
Books about heroic con artists?
What are the best books about heroic con artists? Nonfiction (Schindler's List) or fiction (Going Postal) are both fine.
Sci-fi movie memory
Help me find the title of a particular sci-fi movie. [more inside]
Can I set up an Evernote database on company server?
Is there any way to maintain a "local" Evernote database on a company server? It seems that I am only allowed to create a database file on a drive letter corresponding to local hard drives. (I can't use the cloud on account of security concerns.)
Fun Party Ideas for a Scott?
Help me throw a employee of the month party for a Scott. [more inside]
In house counsel, in house questions
Fellow lawyers: If all goes well, I hope to be extended an offer to go in house at a bank, after 7 years at big firms. Is there anything I should know, or any advice you can give? [more inside]
Nut keeps falling off of bolt
How can I make these nuts and bolts stay put? [more inside]
posted by morninj at 6:45 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by morninj at 6:45 AM PST - 13 comments
What do you do to calm yourself when in the heat of anger?
What methods have worked for you in terms of keeping a rational mind when you feel yourself becoming (rationally or irrationally) angry? [more inside]
posted by oink at 5:14 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by oink at 5:14 AM PST - 16 comments
What computer game writing software should I use?
I want to make a couple of small computer games for the PC. Where do I start? [more inside]
Houston cat adoption filter: Can you help us find a home for Joe?
How can we find a good home in Houston for an adult cat who needs to be an "only" cat? [more inside]
Where can we go (cheaply) from London for a last minute trip this long weekend?
Where can we go cheaply from London this (Jubilee) weekend? [more inside]
Is creating a compound line graph possible with this dataset?
Is creating a compound line graph possible with this dataset? If yes, how? If not, how should I set up the data? [more inside]
posted by chillmost at 2:59 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by chillmost at 2:59 AM PST - 3 comments
How do I get my confidence back?
I've lost all confidence in my (work) abilities. What can I do to get it back? [more inside]
An issue without issuu
I'd like to upload a .pdf to turn it into a virtual magazine (like on Issuu.com), but I don't want to use issuu. Is there a wordpress plugin I can get somewhere to do what issuu does? [more inside]
What does a low glomerular filtration rate mean
Medical professionals, please tell me the possible significance of my glomerular filtration rate [more inside]
May 30
Photos in the dark?
How do I photograph my sleeping children, in a dark room, without waking them up? [more inside]
posted by Joh at 11:53 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by Joh at 11:53 PM PST - 14 comments
How do I go about sending a letter requesting an out-of-court settlement to someone I can potentially sue?
At the advice of counsel, I need to send a letter to a party I thought about suing suggesting we settle a personal injury case out of court. The lawyer is out of the picture for now, otherwise it'll cost me money. So... how do I do that? [more inside]
posted by Opal at 10:59 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Opal at 10:59 PM PST - 5 comments
Get me out of here!
Where is the End of Nowhere? [more inside]
posted by The Light Fantastic at 10:44 PM PST - 37 comments
posted by The Light Fantastic at 10:44 PM PST - 37 comments
The Prodigal Cat
My cat came home again! Now what? [more inside]
Spoiled for Choice, Sour by Choice?
Sour Milk, Soured Milk, and Spoiled Milk. Is there an effective chemical difference? To what extents are any and all unsafe to cook and eat? [more inside]
Should we buy this warranty for our Mazda?
We are buying a 2002 Mazda Protege5! It is a cute little hatchback with 40,000 miles on it. The Carfax is clean. Should we buy the dealership's powertrain warranty? [more inside]
posted by treefort at 9:19 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by treefort at 9:19 PM PST - 18 comments
Uterine prolapse?
Experience moving retirement money into the TSP?
Anyone with experience moving retirement account contents into the Thrift Savings Plan (TSP)? [more inside]
posted by Napoleonic Terrier at 8:39 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Napoleonic Terrier at 8:39 PM PST - 2 comments
iPadeando
I'm going to buy an iPad! But I'm mainly going to be using it outside of the US and I'm very confused about international 3G/4G networks. Help? [more inside]
posted by ke rose ne at 8:34 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by ke rose ne at 8:34 PM PST - 7 comments
Help fix a corrupted .wma file
Can you help me repair this corrupted .wma file? [more inside]
posted by roaring beast at 8:14 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by roaring beast at 8:14 PM PST - 7 comments
Help my 16-year-old sell his skateboarding booklet.
What is the best way for my teenage son to distribute a self-published book on skateboarding tricks? [more inside]
Will buying a more expensive UPS fix my brownout problem?
Will buying a more expensive UPS fix my brownout problem? [more inside]
posted by nathancaswell at 7:35 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by nathancaswell at 7:35 PM PST - 17 comments
Suicide image came from?
Super light, super small mosquito tent, available in Australia?
What is the smallest, lightest mosquito tent available in Australia (or to be shipped to Australia within three weeks for a non-ridiculous price)? [more inside]
posted by lollusc at 6:18 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by lollusc at 6:18 PM PST - 8 comments
Serially posted historical journals?
Tomorrow, Pepys' Diary, which I've been following as it's been posted serially for the better part of a decade, will post its last entry. Are there any similar serially posted historical diaries that I can I follow in its absence? [more inside]
How do I copy and paste from Chrome to Word without formatting?
I just started using Chrome. I need to be able to copy text phrases from any random website into MS Word and have it be unformatted or better yet formatted as Times New Roman 12 pt. I'm on a mac. I've been trying to figure this out for so long that it's made me regress. Please talk to me like I'm five and help. HELP. [more inside]
posted by rabidsegue at 5:38 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by rabidsegue at 5:38 PM PST - 14 comments
But the mortgage worked the hardest of them all
What do you wish you had known about mortgage refinancing?
posted by LonnieK at 5:05 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by LonnieK at 5:05 PM PST - 20 comments
Where to host a reunion in Wisconsin?
Looking for a place in Wisconsin about halfway between New Lenox, IL and Minneapolis, MN to hold a reunion with my cousins. Only requirements: camping and hotel lodging with a conference room to rent (in case of bad weather), and cheaper than most Wisconsin Dells resorts. [more inside]
Better way to buy beauty products online?
How/Why to buy beauty products online? [more inside]
How can I spent my $500 technology grant?
What camera or lens can I get for $500 and enjoy the most? [more inside]
Help me figure out my next job!
Help me figure out my next job! [more inside]
Proof you really can't judge someone by their family.
How to deal with inappropriate brother-in-law? [more inside]
Hey !, we could do the show at localhost !
Consumer cooperatives for internet services ? Examples and 'how was it done' type information ? [more inside]
What's your favorite way to cultivate compassion?
I need more compassion. I'm semi-Buddhist. What's your favorite guided meditation or other focused technique? [more inside]
posted by ceiba at 3:50 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by ceiba at 3:50 PM PST - 13 comments
Etiquette of accepting a job when you may need to leave soon
Ethics and etiquette of accepting a job when you know you might need to resign soon? [more inside]
I don't want Amazon credit; I want the money
I got a $400 birthday gift in the form of an Amazon e-gift card. I don't want anything from Amazon, but I could really use the $400. [more inside]
posted by A neighbourhood park all covered with cheese at 3:07 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by A neighbourhood park all covered with cheese at 3:07 PM PST - 35 comments
Binoculars for outdoor music festivals?
Looking for binoculars for mostly outdoor concerts and festivals. [more inside]
posted by immlass at 3:04 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by immlass at 3:04 PM PST - 1 comment
Accessible fantasy fiction for fans of MUDs & RPGs?
I used to enjoy playing fantasy MUDs, particularly this one, which involves a mostly solo adventurer, some gothic/supernatural elements, magic, dwarfs, ogres, and a dragon. I also like fantasy RPGs like Oblivion and Skyrim. However, I haven't read much fantasy fiction. Outside of Tolkien, what are some fantasy books I might enjoy on similar fantasy RPG themes?
Memorize 4500 words in eight days?
Is it possible to memorize 4500 words verbatim in 8 days? [more inside]
posted by SpacemanStix at 2:47 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by SpacemanStix at 2:47 PM PST - 13 comments
If the earth had a second moon, could the moons ever cross? How and when?
Imagine that the earth is hit by another Mars-ish sized object causing a second moon to be formed. If the second moon were orbiting the Earth inside or outside of the orbit of The Moon, and assuming it was not orbiting the Earth parallel to The Moon, the two moons would have to cross each other at some point, right? A sort of moon-over-moon eclipse thing. How would you calculate how often this would occur? What would it look like? Does this happen on planets with more than one natural satellite? Does the premise of this question make no sense because my knowledge of astrophysics is basically nil? Explain to me like I am in fifth grade, please. [more inside]
Wedding guest apparel advice needed!
We're attending some friends' commitment ceremony scheduled for 5pm on a summer Saturday. What to wear for these occasions is totally baffling to me, so I'm turning to the hivemind for etiquette advice. I'd love to be able to wear the dress from my own wedding 15 years ago (attended by one half of this couple), in part because it's a pretty dress and also as an homage to these lovely people that happen to reside in a state without marriage equality. The dress is not a typical wedding dress (it's a peach and pink floral, in silk chiffon) and style-wise is the sort of thing I think would be appropriate for the event and the venue. But would it be weird to wear it to another wedding? And should I have it shortened from floor-length to, say, tea-length?
What can I do to move into product development software?
I'd like to move to a company that makes software as it's primary product... what kind of skills will I need to add to my resume to get in the door? [more inside]
media playback on an airplane - the best strategy
Long flight ahead - what's the best way to play media during the flight? (details/needs inside...) [more inside]
Should I use slingbox for my primary cable connection?
Should I use slingbox as a permanent cable replacement for primarily sports games? [more inside]
posted by btkuhn at 1:28 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by btkuhn at 1:28 PM PST - 4 comments
You want I should get *another* credit card?
I have a good credit score according to creditkarma.com, have just a handful of credit cards that I pay off monthly, and am otherwise an upstanding citizen (j/k). According to their credit simulator, if I get a new credit card with a credit limit of at least $5-10k, that'll increase my score enough to boost me into the next level. I'm looking to refinance my mortgage, so I'm wondering if this will actually work. None of my research has given this as a fast/easy way to raise credit scores (for someone who already has a few credit cards, that is), so that's why I'm asking. (FWIW, I'm very frugal and disciplined, and I'm not at all concerned that I'm going to go on a wild shopping spree. The only reason to get the card would be to increase my score.) [more inside]
Help me find the common thread...
I want to read more nonfiction. About anything, really. I'm having trouble capturing the way to describe the kind of nonfiction I want to find. [more inside]
posted by atomicstone at 1:21 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by atomicstone at 1:21 PM PST - 30 comments
Technically speaking, the modern zipper wasn't actually invented until . . .
I would like to experiment with writing historical fiction. Are there any resources that describe best practices for this genre? Do you have any experience/recommendations/advice? [more inside]
Finding a place in Boston for a gathering
On a summer Monday evening in Boston, I need a venue where about 200 people could enjoy hors d'oeuvres and drinks. Price and location are an issue (we'll all be located near the Hynes convention center; transport time from there would need to be reasonable). I'm not in the area, and would appreciate any advice you might have on how I'd even go about trying to find such a place. Thanks!
help my wife with her project?
Should I do more work projects for my wife using my special skills, even though I despise the project? [more inside]
This boy likes to bounce! Help me find him a birthday gift.
Help me find a cool birthday gift for a boy who likes to bounce. [more inside]
posted by Sal and Richard at 12:47 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Sal and Richard at 12:47 PM PST - 18 comments
Printers. With frikkin' lasers.
Classical sources of omens,
What are the classical sources or compendiums of omens? Which books could I realistically find that list, for example, what a culture believes it means when a certain type of bird visits or what a rainbow means? [more inside]
posted by 2bucksplus at 12:12 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by 2bucksplus at 12:12 PM PST - 4 comments
Is she a slumlord landlady or am I just a delicate flower for needing a hotel room for a broken A/C in Phoenix?
Is my landlord liable to pay for the cost of a hotel and pet boarding when the air conditioner broke due to lack of maintenance in Phoenix, Arizona? The law seems incredibly unfair to tenants and I'm wondering if I'm misreading it. [more inside]
posted by thesocietyfor at 12:10 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by thesocietyfor at 12:10 PM PST - 15 comments
Is lead in reclaimed wood a concern?
Husband bought large paintings made with reclaimed barn wood. I swabbed them and they tested positive for lead. We have a new-ish baby. How big of a deal is this? [more inside]
posted by allisonrae at 12:05 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by allisonrae at 12:05 PM PST - 19 comments
Fretting the fretless
Getting frets added to a fretless bass? [more inside]
posted by dirtdirt at 11:50 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by dirtdirt at 11:50 AM PST - 4 comments
I have this vision of a specific surfing vacation in my mind.
I have this vision of a specific surfing vacation in my mind. Help me make it a reality? [more inside]
How to stop pushing emotion away
I don't go to movies all that often. It's not that I don't like them, it's just that I get really caught up in them emotionally. I've always been quite sensitive and I find emotions to have an uncomfortable physical quality to them. So, when I go to the movies, a lot of my effort goes into clamping down on what I feel. I was so excited during the Avengers fight scenes that I am shaking trying to control myself. My question: Anyone experience this? How do you let go?
posted by tcv at 11:31 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by tcv at 11:31 AM PST - 26 comments
How deadly is out of date beer?
Kind of academic - I've already drunk it - but what are the risks involved in drinking out of date beer? [more inside]
posted by ZipRibbons at 11:22 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by ZipRibbons at 11:22 AM PST - 26 comments
Remove WD-40 smell from laundry.
How do I get WD-40 smell out of clothes? [more inside]
Help me addict myself
How do you determine the ideal variable reinforcement rate? [more inside]
posted by Hactar at 11:00 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Hactar at 11:00 AM PST - 5 comments
Is it tacky to ask an ex-vendor for tickets?
Manners-filter: Is it bad form to ask an ex-vendor about previously promised tickets from a few months ago? [more inside]
How to find wallpaper matching existing wallpaper?
Help me find a specific wallpaper design to replace/repair missing sections. [more inside]
Beautiful women, what should the ugly, creepy guy do after saying I love you
I made a horrible mistake. I told Tracy I love her. [more inside]
Help me give my writers their due!
How do I ensure that the people who are contributing content to my site are getting enough credit? [more inside]
posted by thatbrunette at 9:58 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by thatbrunette at 9:58 AM PST - 1 comment
Good gifts for a college freshman in the big city?
I'm trying to find a cool high school graduation/birthday gift to give to a young woman who will be moving to NYC for college in the fall [more inside]
posted by stagewhisper at 9:45 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by stagewhisper at 9:45 AM PST - 22 comments
What separates the "never-recover-from-this-breakup/shell of my former self" people from the ones who bounce back and love again?
Why is it that some people never seem to recover after a bad break-up or divorce? You know those people...the sort of "empty shell" folks who walk around perpetually sad or simply damaged in some way that keeps them frozen in place. I ask this question on behalf of myself--as I not-so-recently went through a break-up with a man I considered to be THE ONE--but also because I knew someone who had yet to recover from their divorce after eight years. [more inside]
posted by exploringoptimism at 9:28 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by exploringoptimism at 9:28 AM PST - 34 comments
What's the latest on minor wound care?
Years ago, when I scraped my knee my mother put neosporin on it and covered it with a bandaid. Today we have many new wound care products. But are they any better than the old neosporin and bandaid? [more inside]
How to entrance toddlers over videochat?
What are some great ways to spellbind 2- or 3-year-olds over Skype/videochat? Really simple magic tricks? Other cool things?
Scientist with an imaginary friend
Who was this lonely woman scientist with an imaginary friend? [more inside]
posted by Dixon Ticonderoga at 9:05 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Dixon Ticonderoga at 9:05 AM PST - 6 comments
Does this registration security procedure for my website make any sense?
Does this registration security procedure for my website make any sense? [more inside]
Resources for first time home buyers - long distance investment property edition.
Please point me to honest, helpful resources for first time home buyers. I would like to purchase a property in the US with cash and then rent it out. Can you please point me to resources that can help me learn the best way to do this while managing some of the risk? [more inside]
The Cloisonne Bug
A saw a winged bug today, but don't know what it was. Can you help me identify this bug even though I have no foto, only a description? [more inside]
I'm a student, I swear! Why won't you believe me!?
Grad school filter: How do I get my loans back into deferment as a masters-->PhD student? [more inside]
Insect repellents for dogs?
How not to fall down after a slip up
The bf and I have been working on establishing healthier patterns (eating better/exercising/drinking less alcohol) and have a question about slip ups. We'll be going along fine for several weeks to a month, then go to a party or whatever, have a night of drinking and eating junk, then get off track for several weeks to a month. How can we minimize the damage from slip ups? [more inside]
I got blisters on my fingers
Any options for finger injury and guitar playing? [more inside]
posted by canoehead at 7:50 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by canoehead at 7:50 AM PST - 6 comments
I want iced coffee and I want it now.
How can I speed up making fresh brewed iced coffee? [more inside]
Somerset Maugham'a screenplay of "The Razor's Edge"?
I am looking for the screenplay based on his novel "The Razor's Edge" that W. Somerset Maugham wrote (for free!) but which was not used for the 1946 film version of "The Razor's Edge." Any idea if it has been published?
Looking for more long form websites
I'm looking for more long form websites [more inside]
Ugly girls are easy
Is he a player? Give me suggestions to work around my lack of confidence, please, so that I'm not a target. [more inside]
Questions about 12-step
I went to my first ever 12-step anonymous help group meeting. (For the moment, I won't say which, it's irrelevant.) I had a few questions I'm hoping those with experience can help me with. [more inside]
Worried about getting trapped in a fire.
Talk to me about fire escape ladders. [more inside]
Is Paratransit worth the time vs the expense of cabs?
Knee injury - NYC paratransit? Looking for people who have used it. Not sure if it is worth it? [more inside]
posted by manicure12 at 5:34 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by manicure12 at 5:34 AM PST - 6 comments
How does Irish inheritance work?
What can you tell me about Irish inheritance, wills and power of attorney and similar legal things? [more inside]
posted by plonkee at 5:18 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by plonkee at 5:18 AM PST - 1 comment
Pixie cut dilemma.
What face shape am I? And how do you really determine these things (face shape professionals come on out)? [more inside]
Fear of changing job
Fear of changing job, due to comfort level at present job. More details inside.. [more inside]
Customer base and average discount on Amazon.co.uk
Two questions based around Amazon.co.uk. I would like to know, probably rough, figures for Amazon.co.uk customer base and the average percent discount they have on books.
Kimono in London
Where in central London, not online, can I buy a nice ladies kimono (say a silk one about £150 or so) right now?
posted by Segundus at 2:40 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Segundus at 2:40 AM PST - 5 comments
Combine internship with an unrelated full-time position?
How can I combine an internship with a full-time offer from another place? What could go wrong? [more inside]
Windows 7 on MacBook Pro won't acknowledge HDMI out
13" MacBook pro running Windows 7 with an HDMI out adapter. Windows doesn't even acknowledge the adapter, though it works fine on Mac OS. Video hardware is the GeForce 9400M (which can't do audio output via HDMI, since it's basically from just before Apple built in that functionality). What to do? I want to hook it up to a TV that doesn't have a VGA or DVI connector at all, so HDMI was about the only option.
Ye Olde Pinata
I need to make a piñata in the shape of something instantly identifiable as British (a London taxicab? Big Ben?) by Saturday morning. What should I make, and how should I make it? Extra points for ease of crafting and decoration. [more inside]
May 29
shoe fit
I bought a pair of men's leather dress shoes with an elongated, narrow toe box last week, and now they're killing me. Something about the funky shape is causing the leather to "bite" down right beneath my big toes on both feet, leading to painful sores. I probably should've gone for one size smaller for a more natural fit, but I've already worn them for a week so I can't take them back. Any suggestions for how to fix this, or am I stuck just getting rid of them?
Can a person hack my Mac's webcam?
Can a tech-savvy person hack the webcam on a Macbook through the wireless network? How can I stop it if it is happening? [more inside]
posted by hungry hippo at 9:59 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by hungry hippo at 9:59 PM PST - 11 comments
Friendship issues
MY wife and I just ended up on the receiving end of an email blast from her former best friend. My wife hasn't seen it, but I know seeing it would upset her. Should I delete it from her email? Warn her? What's the best thing to do? [more inside]
Challenge all assumptions
Where's the profit in DDOS'ing IRC servers? [more inside]
Divest or encourage me with my fantasy!
Lickety-split, down and dirty house-buying advice needed. [more inside]
Fumigation & the foetus.
Pregnant in a termite infested house - do I have to move? [more inside]
posted by Wantok at 9:12 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Wantok at 9:12 PM PST - 6 comments
No tengo sed?
Trying to find-and-replace text within a file, using the Terminal on Mac OS X 10.7.4. Can't for the life of me get it to work. Please help. [more inside]
Pre-tenure life recommendations
Pre-tenure life: what are your recommendations? [more inside]
Japanese Ecstasy(?)
What is this Japanese ecstasy-like drug I'm hearing about? [more inside]
posted by princeoftheair at 8:32 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by princeoftheair at 8:32 PM PST - 17 comments
How to Nashville bachelor party?
Nashville bachelor party. 20 guys. I'm the best man. Help me plan? [more inside]
posted by denriguez at 8:24 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by denriguez at 8:24 PM PST - 6 comments
Old Gene Roddenberry Had a Farm!
Where can I find someone doing R and D for growing food off planet? [more inside]
posted by goalyeehah at 8:12 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by goalyeehah at 8:12 PM PST - 6 comments
holy crap this might've been the only thing you could actually DO with google wave
My manperson/GM wants to play Dawn of Worlds, a roleplaying game where people collaboratively make a map, online. In order to do this, we need some kind of platform that can allow people to collaboratively edit an image with state saving and rollbackable images. [more inside]
MBA admissions resume
I am applying to a MBA program and need to submit a resume, how do I change my professional resume into one that fits a graduate program application? [more inside]
Where can we stash our luggage while going around on day trips?
TravelLogisticFilter: We're planning a trip to Japan in October and need help with the logistics of where to leave our luggage as we get around. [more inside]
posted by gchucky at 7:42 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by gchucky at 7:42 PM PST - 14 comments
What currently existing music library-type service lets you easily share single songs on Facebook without having to upload said songs yourself OR forcing a user to approve an app/sign up?
Are there any handy, currently working, copyrighted-music-hosting-library services that will let you share a single streamable audio link to a single song on Facebook (like YouTube or Soundcloud do) - WITHOUT requiring listeners to sign up/give permissions to an app? [more inside]
Lion desktop scrolling is driving me nuts!
I've run into a Lion bug with switching desktops that is driving me crazy. Googling hasn't turned up anything useful. Has anyone encountered this problem? More details inside. [more inside]
Something my grandmother doesn't drink, this time.
Need a successor to rye and ginger for cocktail hour. [more inside]
posted by fatbird at 6:54 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by fatbird at 6:54 PM PST - 33 comments
Where can I practice driving in the Boston area?
Where can I practice driving in the Boston area? [more inside]
Neglected trees on vacant property are growing out of control. What to do?
There is a house across the street from me that has been vacant for a little over a year now. I have noticed the trees in the backyard growing out of control and they are starting to block my view. More importantly, I am worried about the potential for a fire from the accumulation of pine needles on the ground. [more inside]
posted by MattMangels at 6:38 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by MattMangels at 6:38 PM PST - 10 comments
Ideas of details to keep fun and romance in a marriage
Can you give me ideas of romantic/funny things a wife can do for her husband, besides making his favorite dishes or dressing up for bed, which I already do? If you have other cooking/dressing up ideas, they are also welcome, though! [more inside]
If I want a drink made in the "classic" way rather than with a mix, how do I ask for that?
At a restaurant I ordered a margarita, but when it came it had clearly been made with a mix. It occurred to me that surely there is a word or a way of ordering that indicates you want it mixed classic style - with lime juice, triple sec and tequila, no mix - without having to order in the negative, e.g. "not with a mix." How do I order the drink I want - or can I?
tell me your favorite baby care books
What are the best books on how to prepare for/take care of a new baby? [more inside]
posted by Ralston McTodd at 6:17 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by Ralston McTodd at 6:17 PM PST - 29 comments
How should I explain job searching after only eight months?
Eight months into a one-year contract, I'm aggressively searching for a new job because of a horrible boss. How should I explain my short stay at the company to recruiters and potential employers? [more inside]
Why are links from other apps (Twitter, etc) spawning new windows in Chrome?
Why are links from other apps (Twitter, etc) spawning new windows in Chrome? [more inside]
How do I get started drawing on the iPad?
I have a perfectly good new iPad that is sadly underutilized. I'd like to start sketching and drawing on it, but I have no idea where to start. Help! [more inside]
posted by restless_nomad at 5:30 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by restless_nomad at 5:30 PM PST - 11 comments
exercise without rattling the neighbors
Looking for some kind of mat or other DIY contraption to deaden vibration when exercising. [more inside]
posted by colin_l at 5:29 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by colin_l at 5:29 PM PST - 4 comments
What's more important for a future career: Personality match or potential for future growth?
What's more important for a future career: Personality match or potential for future growth? [more inside]
posted by qxrt at 5:19 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by qxrt at 5:19 PM PST - 10 comments
What??
Building a basement bathroom.
Anyone here build a basement bathroom with an up-flush toilet? [more inside]
This is the headline. God, I wish it weren't.
How can I rip a Region 2+4, 4:3 DVD into a format that'll play on my Apple TV? [more inside]
posted by andrewcilento at 4:52 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by andrewcilento at 4:52 PM PST - 8 comments
Paying for old age care long in advance?
Can I pay for assisted living/nursing home/whatever now so that I don't have to worry about being able to pay for it when I need it? And assorted related questions. [more inside]
posted by Flunkie at 4:41 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Flunkie at 4:41 PM PST - 20 comments
Please help me keep grandma in L.A.
My mother is 60, has 40k cash on hand, but she has no income. Can you help me brainstorm businesses that she could buy or launch for about 30K (so she can live on the remaining 10K)? [more inside]
posted by ohyouknow at 4:05 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by ohyouknow at 4:05 PM PST - 51 comments
Have you seen this watch?
Is there a digital watch out there that displays nothing but the time? [more inside]
How do I keep a job search organized?
How do I keep a job search organized? [more inside]
Virtual Directory Options
Are Commercial LDAP Virtual Directory Applications Worth The Money? [more inside]
posted by scharpy at 3:26 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by scharpy at 3:26 PM PST - 2 comments
Please help me understand the benefits and differences between a living trust (for a property) vs. having a name on the property deed.
What's the benefit of having a living trust for a property over having my name on the property deed? [more inside]
Innovative jiaozi (potsticker, dumpling) fillings
Jiaozi, dumplings, potstickers, Chinese ravioli, gyoza: as many possible fillings as there are names for these delicious, delicious mouthfuls. In a couple weeks I will host a dumpling party. What are your recommended filling recipes? Of course there will be the standard pork, which I learned from a Taiwanese mom; there will be an attempt to replicate the long-discontinued Trader Joe's Chicken Fajita dumplings; and what else...? Recipes for known standards like seafood and vegetable are welcome, but more innovative entries are truly the best answers.
posted by whatzit at 3:12 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by whatzit at 3:12 PM PST - 27 comments
“Hey baby, do you like fine cooking? Cause you know what? I got Swanson's Dinner in the freezer with your name on it."
A dumbphone with email access?
Not-so-smart-phone filter: I'm looking for a Sprint-compatible cellphone with a full keyboard and the ability to read/send email. The catch is, I don't need (and actively don't want) more internet access than this; I'm already too connected as it is! Does a phone like this exist? Or is there a way I can juryrig one, as someone who's only half tech-savvy? Am I doomed to a flip-phone and a separate pocket email-reader thingy? [more inside]
NYC hip-hop tiki lounge??
Recommend a Hip-Hop lounge in NYC. Is there such a thing as a hip-hop tiki lounge?? Snowflakes inside. [more inside]
On Becoming An Epic Uncle
My brother and his wife are having a baby! How do I become a good best epic uncle? What are some nice or useful things your siblings have done for your children? What are you own favorite memories involving your uncle? [more inside]
posted by Foci for Analysis at 2:38 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Foci for Analysis at 2:38 PM PST - 23 comments
prepaid SIM card for use in Germany, but shipped to USA?
I will be traveling in Germany for a week soon, and will need a cell phone while there. I won't be able to use my personal cell phone (incompatible with Europe) but I have an unlocked GSM phone that I've used in Europe before. Please help me find a SIM card (with German phone number) that I can order now and get delivered to the US before I leave for my trip. [more inside]
posted by intermod at 2:29 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by intermod at 2:29 PM PST - 11 comments
How to help a women in an abusive and controlling relationship?
I need advice about how to help a friend in a non-violent yet intensely abusive relationship, and about how worried I should be for her young daughter and what to do for her too. (We're all in a major Canadian city, we're not all Canadian.) [more inside]
I promise to share the Spotify playlist with you when I'm done with it
Help me find songs with the same pacing and general vibe as Third Uncle and Dancing Choose.
posted by Afroblanco at 1:53 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by Afroblanco at 1:53 PM PST - 7 comments
Willing to try anything to make this suck less
I just had sinus surgery (probably FESS) a couple of months ago, and it seems to have failed. What next? [more inside]
posted by terrierhead at 1:37 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by terrierhead at 1:37 PM PST - 4 comments
When to use the convection feature of my oven?
[BakingFilter] When should I use the "convection" feature of my convection oven? [more inside]
posted by Betelgeuse at 1:20 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Betelgeuse at 1:20 PM PST - 10 comments
[Hospitality filter] What has a family member done for you that made your visit the most comfortable and pleasant it could be?
My sister is visiting my tiny apartment on short notice and staying for a week. I'm touched she chose to visit me on her vacation and want to make her stay the best. How can I be the best hostess? [more inside]
Help me pick a spotting scope!
I would like to buy someone a spotting scope for wildlife viewing as a gift. What's the best bang for my buck? What's the best place to find online reviews and information to help me in my research? [more inside]
Craft cocktails in Providence, RI
Craft cocktails in Providence, RI? Looking for any craft cocktail bars in the city that you care to recommend, though especially in the downtown area, if any exist there. Thanks.
How do I raise money without going to a bank?
How do I raise money without going to a bank? If I wanted to raise say a million dollars to extend my business and the bank is not being helpful. What are my options? I hear a bunch about P2P lending but how does that work and how do I access it?
posted by monkeywithhat at 12:48 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by monkeywithhat at 12:48 PM PST - 15 comments
Sign here please.
What constitutes token versus semi-professional payment in the North American short fiction market? What's reasonable to expect?
What are reasonable contractual expectations when signing away a piece for first publishing? [more inside]
posted by Stagger Lee at 12:45 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Stagger Lee at 12:45 PM PST - 5 comments
Brevity is the soul of wit?
How did you learn to say more with less? [more inside]
posted by mkdirusername at 12:35 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by mkdirusername at 12:35 PM PST - 20 comments
How to email strangers who work in your academic area?
[Grad School Filter] “Hello more-established stranger who already did the academic research I wanted to do and my committee is making me email you…” Does anyone have any verbage that seems graceful and appropriate? [more inside]
How can I help my partner feel better after a random assault?
Some random jerk threatened my partner in public a few days ago and he's still pretty shaken, and can't stop thinking about it. What resources can I offer to help him cope? [more inside]
posted by rhiannonstone at 12:29 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by rhiannonstone at 12:29 PM PST - 18 comments
How do I get a customized North Korean propaganda poster made?
How do I get a customized North Korean propaganda poster made as a wedding present? [more inside]
posted by SeanOfTheHillPeople at 12:12 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by SeanOfTheHillPeople at 12:12 PM PST - 4 comments
What's time for myself like?
How do I know what I want? Everyone tells me to spend time on me, but I don't really know what that means? [more inside]
posted by skittlekicks at 12:08 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by skittlekicks at 12:08 PM PST - 16 comments
24 hours to decide where to live!
My husband has been accepted to med school in Buffalo and Syracuse. We have to pick one by tomorrow (!) and pros and cons are overwhelming. Which would be the best choice for our family? [more inside]
How to keep your loft bed cool when it's above your window A/C unit?
It's the classic New York summer conundrum. How do I keep my loft bed cool when it lies ABOVE my window unit air conditioner? [more inside]
We know how the pieces move. What's next?
We know how the pieces move. What's the next step for a dad and six-year old learning chess together? [more inside]
posted by alms at 11:31 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by alms at 11:31 AM PST - 14 comments
What to do with a EEE 900?
Help me to find some party piano songs.
Looking for suggestions of intermediate level piano pieces suitable for parties/get togethers with friends. [more inside]
Unrefrigerated salad dressing components
What can I bring to work once a week (or keep at work), to make a variety of salad dressings for my daily lunch salad, that doesn't need to be refrigerated? [more inside]
posted by sillymama at 10:39 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by sillymama at 10:39 AM PST - 26 comments
What to do during therapist's maternity leave?
My therapist is gone on maternity leave. Does anyone have any tips/stories about going through the same thing? [more inside]
posted by dithmer at 10:34 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by dithmer at 10:34 AM PST - 5 comments
Waterproofing glittery shoes?
Help me find a good, clear, waterproof sealant for some shoes I have made glittery. [more inside]
Please suggest some appropriate non-alcholic gift to HR team.
Please suggest some appropriate non-alcholic gift to HR team. [more inside]
posted by daveg02 at 10:25 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by daveg02 at 10:25 AM PST - 5 comments
Help me stop gaslighting myself.
Help me stop gaslighting myself. I need to take better care of myself physically and emotionally, because invalidating my own problems is going nowhere. [more inside]
Is it possible for a breakup to be the last good thing you do together?
Is it possible for a breakup to be the last good thing you do together? [more inside]
Camping and hiking with kid and dog: Sierra edition
Looking for camping and hiking spots in the Sierras and foothills where I can take our 4.5-year-old son and/or our dog. [more inside]
Where can we send him?
What after school options for my three year old son haven't I thought of? [more inside]
Nice meals to make for meat-eaters and veggies
RecipeFilter: Sometimes I'd like to prepare a nice meal for one or two friends (usually meat-eaters) and myself (pescetarian). I need a couple recipes to keep on hand that will satisfy everybody. [more inside]
posted by ista at 10:13 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by ista at 10:13 AM PST - 10 comments
Please input your output
Having acquired a couch on which to sit and an 8 bit Nintendo to play whilst sitting on said couch, my girlfriend and I are now getting audio and network stuff. Please help us fill in the gaps! [more inside]
posted by monocultured at 9:56 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by monocultured at 9:56 AM PST - 3 comments
docx, PDF, ePub, mobi... Help!
Looking for the best way to publish a frequently-updated document to multiple electronic formats (PDF, ePub, mobi, etc.). [more inside]
posted by GJSchaller at 9:54 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by GJSchaller at 9:54 AM PST - 8 comments
We're one dead dog short of a sad country song
How can I best support my siblings, who are managing my parents while I live almost 1,000 miles away? [more inside]
Does Sage ACT 2011 have SideACT or something similar?
I've been using ACT 2000 and just upgraded to Sage ACT 2011, however, I don't see the "SideACT" function which I used a lot to maintain to-do lists.
Does Sage ACT 2011 have SideACT or something similar?
What's the best way to deal with people who are playing dumb at work?
What's the best way to deal with people who are playing dumb at work? [more inside]
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 9:16 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Feel the beat of the rhythm of the night at 9:16 AM PST - 16 comments
How to delete windows.old in Win7?
How do I delete windows.old in Win7 when I am administrator and windows still won't let me? [more inside]
posted by gnossos at 9:13 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by gnossos at 9:13 AM PST - 6 comments
Help me build a little greenhouse in your soul
Please help me make the most out of my tiny new greenhouse. Tips on growing, stretching the seasons, maintenance, record-keeping and other garden matters are welcome. [more inside]
That's a spicy mocktail!
What beverages can I make with Bittermen's Hellfire Habanero Shrub? Complications: cannot use alcohol or tomato juice. [more inside]
posted by KathrynT at 8:52 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by KathrynT at 8:52 AM PST - 11 comments
A diet of Sudafed and Emergen-C?
I really, really can't get sick right now. [more inside]
posted by quadrilaterals at 8:52 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by quadrilaterals at 8:52 AM PST - 25 comments
1980's authenticity valuable?
We have a small 1982 tract home. It has all the original fixtures: brass doorknobs, little clear plastic knob faucets, brown ceiling fans with brass filigree. Is there any benefit to leaving it as is? [more inside]
Developing a 50 year old upper body.
Help a middle aged guy develop his upper body. [more inside]
Give me your assistants!
Help me make a list of assistants/valets/right-hand people in pop culture. [more inside]
Why is my home A/C suddenly weak?
I bought a new (to us) house; the 2-zoned A/C worked very well for a week of very hot weather. Starting this weekend, it was having trouble cooling. The evaporator is not iced; the thermostat seems okay. What to look for? [more inside]
posted by ftm at 8:22 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by ftm at 8:22 AM PST - 7 comments
accomodating or doormat?
I am trying to strike a balance in a romantic relationship between letting go and accepting a person for who he is, and not allowing myself to be taken advantage of. How can I find that balance? [more inside]
Can nomads find love too?
How do I know if someone I'm dating is worth sticking around for? [more inside]
Are those As-Seen-On-TV onion choppers worth getting?
Virtually every dish my Mum cooks calls for diced onions. Is there an easy-to-clean chopping device I could gift her that could speed up her work?
posted by Dragonness at 7:49 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by Dragonness at 7:49 AM PST - 31 comments
How can I prevent exercise headaches in hot weather?
Exercise headaches in hot weather: how to treat (or better yet, prevent) them? [more inside]
Help us gauge the importance of school district in housing choice
The McTootsalot family has outgrown our home, and we’re looking to move this summer. We love our area (Durham, NC) so if we could we’d love to just move into a larger house down the street that could accommodate our growing clan. However, there is a caveat: schools. How much importance we should place on schools? [more inside]
posted by Tooty McTootsalot at 7:35 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Tooty McTootsalot at 7:35 AM PST - 20 comments
I need to learn Swedish
I need to learn Swedish, and I'm not the greatest language student. Who can point me towards the best online resources and courses?
Maybe I just can't believe that bacon is health food.
Looking for some critical, reasonably independent discussion of some of the paleo diet claims--does such a thing actually exist? Specifically with regards to cardio exercise and saturated fats/cholesterol. [more inside]
posted by gracedissolved at 7:22 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by gracedissolved at 7:22 AM PST - 16 comments
The biggest FU ever
This was me. That problem was resolved by him killing himself in our flat. While i was there. Sleeping. Now I have different problems, mainly what the heck do I tell people? [more inside]
Promotion potential?
How do I figure out who is getting a promotion at work? [more inside]
A glitch in the matrix...
Where did I see this exact bit of business from The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel before? [more inside]
posted by Naberius at 6:35 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Naberius at 6:35 AM PST - 6 comments
Lock for an HP laptop
I'm looking for a hardware lock for an HP laptop. [more inside]
posted by gudrun at 6:31 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by gudrun at 6:31 AM PST - 3 comments
What do I ned to know about Shanghai?
I may be going to Shanghai for a couple of weeks later this year. I do not speak the language, my partner has food allergies. What preparations can I make? [more inside]
I just asked my husband for a divorce and he is in complete denial about it.
I just asked my husband for a divorce and he is in complete denial about it. It's like I never asked. How do you tell someone you want a divorce when they won't listen to you? [more inside]
What level of car isurance benefits?
Are these levels of car insurance benefits common these days? Our car insurance is up for renewal and out agent is suggesting "Enhanced benefits" (in the GTA area in Ontario). [more inside]
How to make a vintage rolling pin food safe
I bought a lovely heavy vintage rolling pin from an estate sale today. It's pitted and quite dusty and was living in a sketchy teardown house for decades. How do I clean it to make it safe for touching food? [more inside]
posted by Lieber Frau at 5:17 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Lieber Frau at 5:17 AM PST - 7 comments
DIY repair tips for scratched Wacom tablet
Wacom Bamboo fun tablet has a scratch on touch surface - is there any way to fix it myself? [more inside]
posted by Faintdreams at 4:46 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Faintdreams at 4:46 AM PST - 6 comments
How can I make sure that my teenage son hangs out with right friends?
How can I make sure that my teenage son hangs out with right friends? [more inside]
Is closure/ friendship still possible or a good idea?
(warning: long w/ summary inside, and drama) We flirted and worked together. We never kissed, but I fell for him. But he didn't tell me he had a girlfriend until later. I backed off and he got engaged. I miss his friendship and want to get in touch. But I recently googled him and found that he is getting married in a month to someone else than who he was engaged to at first. Please help me. [more inside]
posted by skylines at 4:38 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by skylines at 4:38 AM PST - 32 comments
Please help me clean my Camelbak!
Cleaning Camelbak's and other water reservoirs (bottles, tubing, mouth pieces, etc). [more inside]
Reporting death on the Underground?
Is there a policy of not reporting suicides (maybe accidents) on the London Underground? [more inside]
posted by Partario at 4:02 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Partario at 4:02 AM PST - 11 comments
Another question about books.
YA fiction books NOT written from a female's 1st person perspective (POV)? [more inside]
Rescheduling air travel to save $
I was pleasantly surprised today to find out that some flights I had booked a month ago for my family to travel later this year had come down dramatically in price, so even with the change fee of $150 a head, the savings was quite large and I got a better flight to boot.
How often does this happen, and should a person routinely screen for lowered fares even after purchasing a ticket?
posted by dougiedd at 12:48 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by dougiedd at 12:48 AM PST - 5 comments
May 28
Hope Me Enjoy Hong Kong
Four, maybe five days in Hong Kong in September. What should I do/see/go to/eat? What's the best neighborhood to stay in for someone who wants to see as much as possible and take lots of pictures? Off-the-beaten path is great, but touristy is also OK.
posted by bardic at 10:23 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by bardic at 10:23 PM PST - 10 comments
Big in 2012
What cultural fads and crazes have hit the big time in 2012? In other words, what are the ZUMBA, Atkins diet and Crocs shoes of today? [more inside]
posted by dontjumplarry at 10:11 PM PST - 55 comments
posted by dontjumplarry at 10:11 PM PST - 55 comments
Help me identify this song used in Drive.
Can someone please identify this atmospheric song from the movie Drive (but it wasn't on the soundtrack...)? [more inside]
Bad Neighbor!
Neighbor is using an ultra-high-frequency device against us at very high decibels. It causes constant low-grade nausea and a long-lasting ringing in the ears afterwards. Problem is, it can't really be heard because its such a high-frequency. Cops have come to our house, felt the nausea and ear-ringing themselves, but refuse to do anything about it because they can't "hear" it and we have no way of recording it. My question is: Can you point me towards a device that can record high decibel sound in very high frequencies so we can show objectively that this is happening? [more inside]
posted by captain cosine at 9:53 PM PST - 53 comments
posted by captain cosine at 9:53 PM PST - 53 comments
Should I, Can I change grad schools?
The school I wanted to go to seemed like they weren't going to accept me so I took them off the list a few months ago. I was accepted to another program which starts tomorrow. Whoops, on Saturday I got an acceptance letter from the first school. Now what?? [more inside]
posted by Danila at 9:21 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Danila at 9:21 PM PST - 18 comments
How to a influence and achieve organizational change?
How do you help guide others to recognize, accept, and work towards a unified vision resulting in orgazational change? [more inside]
posted by meta.mark at 9:06 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by meta.mark at 9:06 PM PST - 6 comments
Help me get a new Macbook as soon as possible?
I want to buy a new Macbook Pro as soon as they come out. Today I saw some reference online to "advance booking." What is this and how do I do it? I feel like I'm missing some secret that everyone else is in on... [more inside]
posted by ootandaboot at 9:05 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by ootandaboot at 9:05 PM PST - 6 comments
Troubleshoot iMac Bootcamp Windows-side sporadic internet connection?
Troubleshooting an intermittent WiFi connection on Windows side of Bootcamped iMac? [more inside]
What to do in Louisville?
We're going to Louisville from 6/4-6/6. What to do? (Stuff we like after the fold.) [more inside]
posted by Blisterlips at 8:38 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Blisterlips at 8:38 PM PST - 12 comments
How to have fun and avoid getting taken hostage in TJ?
Heading down to Tijuana next week. What should we do that's fun, interesting, and (mostly) safe? Are there any day trips worth taking? [more inside]
How can I get past a disappointing marriage proposal?
How do I get over feeling disappointment in the way that my boyfriend proposed, and just enjoy being engaged? And also, how do I overcome the shame associated with being disappointed? [more inside]
This book made you love books, right?
I'm looking for a book that is so wonderful it will renew my joy for reading. Books that don't make you want to sit in a library and luxuriate in the ability to absorb impossibly lovely stories need not apply. [more inside]
How can I bolster my terrible immune system?
How can I bolster my terrible immune system? [more inside]
where to hike near vancouver
Please recommend backpacking trips around Vancouver, doable in around four or five days by two people who are in shape and one person who isn't (me). (I.e. we are unlikely to be able to do the entire west coast trail.)
Advice on hiking trails near Escalante, Utah?
My wife and I want to go backpacking near Escalante, Utah next month. Although we're both reasonably fit and experienced desert backpackers, we're not as young as we once were. Can anyone recommend a good trip of no more than 4 days that will be easy to modestly difficult with shade and water for most of the trip?
How to say - No, you must stay with me
How to respond when elementary aged son asks to stay with Dad when it's Mom's weekend [more inside]
What is the screeching?
Computer/Electronic/AudiophileFilter: I just finished my first build of a computer. When I plug in my computer's onboard sound into my receiver through the standard 3.5mm audio jack and output to two KRK monitors and a sub, I get screeching/scrambling from the speakers that drives me nuts. It basically sounds like I can hear my processor. This doesn't happen with headphones. Lots more inside. [more inside]
How has the culture of the US military changed, post DADT repeal?
How has the culture of the US military changed, post DADT repeal? [more inside]
posted by AMSBoethius at 6:54 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by AMSBoethius at 6:54 PM PST - 14 comments
"No roommate" policy? Since when?
2 weeks of positive contact with potential landlady regarding new apartment for myself + fiance. She invites me to look at the place then tells me there is a "no roommates" policy and they only provide leases to single tenants or married couples. WTF- is this a thing? [more inside]
posted by shes_ajar at 6:26 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by shes_ajar at 6:26 PM PST - 25 comments
Apparently the first one really was free
Where does one buy an air conditioner remote control in NYC? [more inside]
Building a Narrowing-Focus Questionnaire
How difficult would it be for someone with intermediate HTML/coding skills to build something similar to the Dog Breed Questionnaire on the Animal Planet website? [more inside]
posted by These Birds of a Feather at 6:15 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by These Birds of a Feather at 6:15 PM PST - 7 comments
Friend's wife confided in me about their marriage and I'm worried. How can I help?
Not too long ago, I was hanging out with a very good friend's wife. I have been friend's with him for almost ten years now and have known and been friends with his wife for half that time.
She confided in me something very disturbing about their marriage - that they hadn't had sex in a few years (about the same amount of time as their marriage) and it feels more like a room-mate situation. I am going to keep the details to a minimum but I'm sure you can extrapolate. [more inside]
Being overcharged in an illegal sublet in a rent-controlled apartment. No lease. What do?
I've been living in a month-to-month, no-lease sublet in Manhattan since January. I just found out that' it's a NYCHA rent-controlled apartment, and i'm paying way more than my 'share' of the monthly rent (also, i'm pretty sure subletting a rent-controlled apartment is illegal.) Clearly i'm going to be moving out ASAP. What else should I do? Do I have grounds for financial recoupment? [more inside]
Nanny is as nanny does
Suggestions for nanny background check websites? [more inside]
posted by lapidus at 6:02 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by lapidus at 6:02 PM PST - 1 comment
I need a big bagel. No, BIGGER.
I need a giant bagel. As in, six-foot sub: sandwich :: this bagel : regular bagels. I'm in New York City, the bagel capital of earth. [more inside]
posted by Charity Garfein at 5:08 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Charity Garfein at 5:08 PM PST - 3 comments
Chicken Chunks At Home?
How can I re-create chip shop style chicken chunks at home? Specifically I am trying to re-create the kind of fried chicken chunks made at NYC's A Salt And Battery, in general I am trying to get that moist, crunchy, batter-just-pulls-away taste and texture found in fry joints. [more inside]
Forgotten sculptural terminology with no relief in sight.
I had a Humanities teacher in High School many, many years ago who, in the course of a lesson, introduced a word that I cannot remember. This word described the act of leaving the lower parts of a highly placed relief carving unfinished, as no one would see the work. [more inside]
Computer is now a spacecase.
My MacBook is acting weeeeird. Please help. [more inside]
Can I use leveling screed on vinyl floor tiles?
Can I use leveling screed on vinyl floor tiles? [more inside]
Please help me find a new car to fit my specific need.
Please help me choose a new car. I'm struggling to find something that works for me! [more inside]
The Most Boring Battle: Battle of the Mid-Price Sedans
Car buying time: Civic EX-L Sedan or Mazda3 i Grand Touring Sedan? [more inside]
posted by heliostatic at 3:40 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by heliostatic at 3:40 PM PST - 19 comments
Where do I buy a Houseboat?
If building a house is cheaper than buying a house (if you exclude land costs) and buying a houseboat is cheaper than buying a house, could it be cost effective to have a "boat" designed and built outside London and then moor it in London to get a relatively cheap London house?
I'm aware moorings are rare and can be expensive, but do you think the costs would work out? [more inside]
posted by Just this guy, y'know at 3:16 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Just this guy, y'know at 3:16 PM PST - 11 comments
Perfectly Wide and Deep Pasta Bowls
Have you seen this pasta bowl or one like it? I'm seeking a replacement with the same dimensions. [more inside]
posted by girlhacker at 3:10 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by girlhacker at 3:10 PM PST - 10 comments
Specialized Art Appraisers in NYC
I'm looking for advice on selling locally in NYC an authentic, hand-sown wall hanging art. Here is a picture I uploaded. It depicts a village and some villagers, and I recall its origins being from India or Southeast Asia. The piece is about 20 years old and was received as a gift so I have no clue if it is a prized work or relatively worthless. Are there specific types of art dealers or specialists that will appraise and/or bid on these kinds of items?
posted by jameslavelle3 at 3:08 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by jameslavelle3 at 3:08 PM PST - 3 comments
Weight loss fail despite calorie reduction - WTF?
I have been carefully counting calories using the MyFitnessPal iPhone app since the beginning of May. I have tried to keep to a net 1200 and have rarely gone over net 1500. I am 5ft 6in tall, early 40s, I started the month weighing 133 pounds, still weigh 133 pounds and would like to get back to 126. I am not forgetting to log anything I eat or drink, including condiments. I am not doing regular exercise yet (this will start on Friday). Does anyone have an explanation for this? [more inside]
posted by tel3path at 2:42 PM PST - 58 comments
posted by tel3path at 2:42 PM PST - 58 comments
How to lose weight when you're already healthy?
How can I lose weight (10-15 lbs) when I'm already doing a lot of the "right" things? [more inside]
posted by so much modern time at 2:35 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by so much modern time at 2:35 PM PST - 16 comments
How can I quickly obtain a pre-1996 Netscape SEC filing?
How can I get a copy of Netscape's last prospectus prior to its Aug. 9, 1995, IPO, as quickly and cheaply as possible? [more inside]
posted by croutonsupafreak at 2:32 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by croutonsupafreak at 2:32 PM PST - 3 comments
Can you use a co-op to fight a monopoly
If a bookstore were a co-op, would the exemption provided to co-ops in the Robinson-Patman act allow publishers to offer different sale terms for them than they would to say, Amazon or Barnes and Noble? [more inside]
Network to get connected with online startups in Toronto
Startups in Toronto: Where can a jobseeker get plugged into the latest online startups in the city? Web sites? Other networks? [more inside]
Chatfilter, but only sort of
Need help finding a new chat solution for a far-flung group.
Our core group of friends is spread across the US and Canada. Part of what keeps us so close is the private chat room we've had for the last 10 years or so. Sadly, the current owner of this is shutting it down, and we need to find a new place to hang out. I've been tasked with finding the solution. To head off the inevitable question, no we can't take over the existing site, for multiple reasons that I don't want to go into. Currently we're using phpMyChat 0.14.5, hosted on a back alley page of the owner's primary site. Are newer versions of phpMyChat going to have similar features? And how do I get one? Needs/requirements inside... [more inside]
posted by spinturtle at 2:22 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by spinturtle at 2:22 PM PST - 12 comments
What are the options for a simple CDMA phone?
My wife wants a new cellphone but her needs are out-of-step with the market. She's looking for something very simple but the hard part is that we're on Verizon so it needs to be CDMA. Are there options? [more inside]
posted by camcgee at 2:12 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by camcgee at 2:12 PM PST - 9 comments
What sort of wild technology do you need to entangle particles?
I need to know what sort of equipment one uses to "entangle" particles. Where would I find this sort of information? [more inside]
posted by AdamCSnider at 1:49 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by AdamCSnider at 1:49 PM PST - 4 comments
How hard is it for an American to move to England/Scotland/Wales?
How hard is it for an American to move to England/Scotland/Wales? [more inside]
realistic surrender
What happens when you surrender on a drug trafficking warrant? (Canadian version) [more inside]
posted by philip-random at 12:46 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by philip-random at 12:46 PM PST - 5 comments
Help me make 545,565 more than just a big number!
Congratulating a bunch of fourth-graders on their awesome reading total tomorrow. How can I make them visualize the number "545,565 pages" in a fun way? [more inside]
posted by harujion at 12:45 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by harujion at 12:45 PM PST - 21 comments
Want to put a site up for a week or two.
I just want to put a draft website up for a client for a few days. I have created it locally in a few directories and I want to put it somewhere, preferably for free or a few quid and without signing some year-long contract. I just want to FTP my files in and have done with it. Just HTML and CSS for now. It can expire in a month and can have whatever weird URL it wants. What's the best suggestion? [more inside]
posted by By The Grace of God at 12:10 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by By The Grace of God at 12:10 PM PST - 8 comments
Is it messing up my results to spread a weight lifting session over the course of an evening?
Is it messing up my results to spread a weight lifting session over the course of an evening? [more inside]
where to get grad photos in Toronto?
Where can I get affordable college grad pictures, complete with cap (if applicable?) and gown, in Toronto? [more inside]
Please fill my head up with good things
I need to fill my head up with good things right now—any suggestions? [more inside]
How to reduce stress to lose weight?
If you have a tendency to gain weight due to stress I'd like to know how you recognized this was THE reason for weight gain and found a solution that worked for you. Please don't ask questions that tend to speculate or diagnose the cause of weight gain (no issues with food/exercise) . I want to hear from you if you (or someone you knew) struggled to keep your stress low, which you knew led to your weight gain and how you went about it (without using any drugs!).
posted by xm at 11:35 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by xm at 11:35 AM PST - 9 comments
Landsat Island
How did we manage to find every island on earth without satellites? [more inside]
posted by zinon at 10:53 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by zinon at 10:53 AM PST - 25 comments
My work's training is a bad joke and I'm frustrated. My bad?
New job isn't training me in a way I seem to learn in, and it's frustrating me to no end. Is it all my fault? [more inside]
Number of prosectors working in Oregon
How do I find out how many prosecutors are working in Oregon? [more inside]
Life is a bowl of cherry tomatoes
More Kitchen ID: Can you help me find a similar serving platter / bowl to the one shown in this picture? [more inside]
posted by sagwalla at 10:08 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by sagwalla at 10:08 AM PST - 12 comments
World War II Experience, Long After the Fact
I'd like some topnotch resources, whether books, websites, possibly videos, movies or other, to help me understand my father's experiences in World War II. I'm not looking for the tactical or strategic elements of the military campaigns that he was part of, but what his role and experience was like. [more inside]
posted by vers at 9:33 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by vers at 9:33 AM PST - 25 comments
Job Offer Waiting Game
I'm waiting impatiently for a job offer after nailing the interview and having my references checked the following day. It's now been almost two weeks. [more inside]
How do you train a dog NOT to do something?
How do you train a dog NOT to do something? I understand the basics of training a dog to perform a positive behavior: repetition, treats, encouraging words and body language, etc. I've even been somewhat successful in training my dogs to sit, stay, give paw, etc. But one of my dogs barks at my husband whenever he walks by, and he (the husband) is getting pretty darn tired of it. [more inside]
Partner's hobby takes a lot of time away from us
Partner's hobby takes a lot of time away from us [more inside]
How to transfer mail into a folder on my mac, with Apple mail?
My online mailbox is full. I want to move some of those messages to a folder on my computer, using Apple Mail in system 10.6.8. There's doesn't seem to be an obvious way to create a new folder in Apple Mail, under the section On My Mac. Can you tell me how to do this? The account is IMAP and private mail service.
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 8:36 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 8:36 AM PST - 2 comments
Will evergreen shrubs survive a Calgary winter in planters?
Will any coniferous shrubs survive the winter in planters on my deck? I am in Calgary Alberta, zone 3a. [more inside]
posted by photoexplorer at 8:23 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by photoexplorer at 8:23 AM PST - 8 comments
Where should I spend the night after arriving into Washington, but not necessarily IN Washington?
Looking for recommendations for a nice hotel, inn or B&B near Washington DC, southwards-ish down towards the I95. [more inside]
posted by generichuman at 7:59 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by generichuman at 7:59 AM PST - 19 comments
Julia Child's kitchen table
Can I buy a table just like - or similar to - Julia Child's kitchen table?
Empire state of mind
Third trip to New York is happening next week, I am ready for something a little more than Times Square. New Yorkers, what to do this time? Curate my visit, and help me maybe get out of the city. [more inside]
posted by Iteki at 7:14 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Iteki at 7:14 AM PST - 18 comments
Help Us Up Our Web Design Game
How to find & assess a Responsive Design consultant. [more inside]
What's your general outline of designing/building a website?
What's the general outline of designing/building a website? [more inside]
posted by coldblackice at 6:57 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by coldblackice at 6:57 AM PST - 3 comments
Vacation ideas within driving distance of Toronto?
Short affordable vacation ideas within driving distance of Toronto? [more inside]
posted by barnoley at 6:29 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by barnoley at 6:29 AM PST - 9 comments
Europe on $1 a day
My girlfriend and a friend of hers are taking a trip a Europe on a very tight budget and are wondering if it is possible for two people to stay in a single room dorm in London for example. We know this would be inappropriate for a hotel but were not sure it would be acceptable at a dorm. [more inside]
Why must taking a bike places be such a fuss?!
Trunk-mount bike racks: Are they really the enormous pile of awfulness that everyone keeps telling me they are? Are there ones that don't damage your car? [more inside]
Freddy? Jason? Damien? Is that you?
Is our town experiencing a live replay of a known video nasty? [more inside]
What neighborhood do we want to relocate to in Phoenix?
Where do two long-term, typical residents of inner SE Portland want to live in the Phoenix, AZ area? We're a straight couple with no kids relocating for my husband's job in a month, looking for neighborhoods to rent a house in. [more inside]
My spouse flipped out on me and I don't know what to do
My spouse flipped out on me and I don't know what to do. As a survivor of childhood abuse, I'm not appropriately calibrated and could use some advice. Thanks. [more inside]
posted by Punctual at 4:51 AM PST - 68 comments
posted by Punctual at 4:51 AM PST - 68 comments
What does this pictogram mean?
Does anyone know what this Chinese pictogram says? [more inside]
posted by KateViolet at 3:26 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by KateViolet at 3:26 AM PST - 5 comments
How can I improve my relationship with the family?
Dad and I don't really get along, and I don't feel happy or comfortable in the same house as him. What can I do to make things better, short of moving out? [more inside]
Graphics card for Medion PC
Need a replacement graphics card for a Medion PC - but which one? [more inside]
posted by humph at 1:10 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by humph at 1:10 AM PST - 6 comments
What should I study?
What should I look into researching regarding language acquisition (ESL) for my masters degree in Japan? [more inside]
posted by GoingToShopping at 1:07 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by GoingToShopping at 1:07 AM PST - 5 comments
Chasing the Green Fairy
Help me track down a blog (from maybe 10 years ago) where - if memory serves - the author posted feminist pieces and talked openly about her voluntary sterilisation in her 20s. I vaguely recall that the poster's handle was "Green"-something along the lines of GreenFairy (but not 100% sure on that either).
posted by kreestar at 1:07 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by kreestar at 1:07 AM PST - 3 comments
May 27
It keeps coming back, now to end this tile menace.
What is this weird stuff that appears to be growing in grouted areas of my outdoor patio tile? Photos inside. [more inside]
posted by cgk at 10:58 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by cgk at 10:58 PM PST - 8 comments
Lowcarb diets for diabetes control?
Orange tabbies probably evolved past desert survival.
Moving across the country with two cats and a car full of stuff. It's a three-day drive, including hot weather and desert. What are your best practices and pro tips? Buddy cat pictures inside. [more inside]
posted by honeybee413 at 9:24 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by honeybee413 at 9:24 PM PST - 29 comments
Stethoscopes: I want one.
I want a stethoscope, but I know nothing about them. Please teach me about the differences between stethoscopes and direct me toward some good ones. [more inside]
It's hard to Google infographics
I'm looking for an infographic (?) about how lucky it is to have been born in the developed world. I remember a format similar to "If you are also literate, then you are already in the top x% of the world," with various characteristics substituted in for "literate." [more inside]
posted by glass origami robot at 9:07 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by glass origami robot at 9:07 PM PST - 7 comments
Expensive Coconut Flour Going to Waste!
I got suckered into buying coconut flour; now I'm moving in four weeks and want to use it up. What can I make with this stuff? [more inside]
Help me find these Yello lyrics?
What are the lyrics to these three Yello songs?: "Le Secret Farida", "Santiago", "Crash Dance" [more inside]
True friendship sometimes means letting go
Tell me about situations where you've reluctantly cut off contact with a close friend, family member, or confidant -- especially those in which the relationship was good to you but you felt that letting go was the best move for *their* sake. [more inside]
Narrow, tall or shallow washing machine to fit in a bathroom?
I am looking for a clothes washing machine to fit into a relatively small apartment's bathroom. The bathroom was not originally intended for the installation of a washing machine, though there is just barely sufficient space, so I'm looking for something that is sort of tall and narrow, or shallower than normal in dimensions, not cube shaped like the typical front loading machine. [more inside]
Do you ever wish you had been circumcised?
Adult uncircumcised males - do you ever wish you had been circumcised? [more inside]
What is the right home theater system for me, that will work with my pre-wired apartment?
[Home theater filter] Our newly-purchased apartment's living room is pre-wired for speakers but after doing plenty of research I'm totally overwhelmed with options, and not sure what exactly these wires are. Help me figure out what we should buy to take advantage of the hookups? Pictures and details inside. [more inside]
posted by unionsquarepark at 6:11 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by unionsquarepark at 6:11 PM PST - 3 comments
But he smells like an Orange Julius
Is my cousin's alternative bug repellent safe? [more inside]
posted by yellowcandy at 6:08 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by yellowcandy at 6:08 PM PST - 7 comments
Don't leave sperm-looking marks on my future stepdaughter, world1
My girlfriend's daughter woke up with a strange mark or bug bite of some type on her arm.... [more inside]
Making sheet music 'lower contrast', ideally purple tinted?
A friend of mine is dyslexic and enjoys performing as part of an orchestra, but she finds sheet music very hard to read as it's very high contrast. She would ideally like it to be purple tinted. Any ideas how to practically achieve this? [more inside]
posted by ElliotH at 4:17 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by ElliotH at 4:17 PM PST - 16 comments
Monobrow-ow-ow-ow: eyebrow wax tears my skin
Eyebrow waxing (professional) usually tears off a layer of my skin, ow - alternatives? [more inside]
Just got dumped. What should I do tonight?
Got dumped last night. What should I do tonight in Brooklyn? [more inside]
XML to text
Is there an XML-in, text-out utility? [more inside]
What is wrong with us?
Help me understand what goes through a persons mind when they decide it is okay to lie or lie by omission. What is wrong with us? [more inside]
posted by i_wear_boots at 3:08 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by i_wear_boots at 3:08 PM PST - 31 comments
How did you handle new expectations for checking and responding to your work e-mail outside of normal business hours?
How did you handle new expectations for checking and responding to your work e-mail outside of normal business hours? [more inside]
can I glue my mom's Lalique bowl back together?
one of the feet broke off of my mom's Lalique bowl. it's a pretty clean break, it looks like I could just put it back on. can I? what would be the best way to do this? or am I better off taking it to a specialist to repair?
thanks in advance.
posted by sabh at 2:00 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by sabh at 2:00 PM PST - 9 comments
How to sell art to a first time buyer.
Selling art to first time buyer. [more inside]
Grassroots tactics for online communities?
So much of our online social lives are trapped within proprietary constructs. What happens when the developer of an online community starts ignoring its members with a monetary as well as emotional investments? How does one foster grass-roots community organizing within such restrictions? [more inside]
posted by ...possums at 12:35 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by ...possums at 12:35 PM PST - 7 comments
Don't make me go back to Livejournal.
Does this website exist? I would like to be able to blog about my life in my target language and have native speakers make corrections, ask questions, etc. and do the same for people learning ESL. Livemocha seems like it should allow this but I can't figure out a way to do it. Does a site like this exist or do I need to utilize existing sites?
Help Me Plan A Vacation In Pennsylvania
Looking at taking vacation in Southeastern Pennsylvania third week of June: Lancaster County (Amish), Gettysburg, Hershey, that area. We think we'll stay at a Four Points Sheraton in York using accumulated points, which puts us close enough to all of those things so we can hit any combination of stuff over the space of a week. Two adults, one 11-yr-old girl. Please share your first-hand impressions, suggestions, things to do or avoid. Thanks. [more inside]
posted by briank at 12:13 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by briank at 12:13 PM PST - 30 comments
Is there a porn category for that?
Hot male musicians/artists making lots of sexy eye contact with the camera while they do their thing. This is my porn, but I don't have luck finding much of it. Point me to more? [more inside]
posted by thrasher at 11:58 AM PST - 39 comments
posted by thrasher at 11:58 AM PST - 39 comments
Natural purple self-sharpening eyeliner.
Seeking natural/mineral-ish smooth self-sharpening eyeliner pencil recommendations. [more inside]
posted by fructose at 11:57 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by fructose at 11:57 AM PST - 3 comments
Climate change in your favor?
Does climate change ever work in farmers favor? If one region becomes inhospitable for growing a crop due to climate change (like coffee in Peru), does it mean another part of the world may become perfect for growing that crop that was previously not? [more inside]
part time jobs in Houston that pay $8.50 + / hr?
part time jobs in Houston that pay $8.50 + / hr? [more inside]
posted by isoman2kx at 10:10 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by isoman2kx at 10:10 AM PST - 10 comments
Good nonfiction books/reads for early 20s male?
Good nonfiction books/reads for early 20s male?
Philip K. Dick adaptations: what gives?
Why do Philip K. Dick stories seem to get turned into movies at a high rate? [more inside]
posted by the man of twists and turns at 10:01 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by the man of twists and turns at 10:01 AM PST - 17 comments
Primer on the workings of cognition-affecting chemicals
Neuropharmacologyfilter. Brief me on the practical basics (and the theoretical rudiments) of what it means to have a chemical in one's "system." [more inside]
How to remove logos from clothing?
I'm essentially rehashing this question: what's the best way to remove logos from clothing, including embroidered logos? Looking to see if anyone has fresh advice before I decide what to do. [more inside]
What's in a name that which we call a rose?
Would an adopted child take on both parents surnames in the case of same-sex parents? [more inside]
Tell me your stories about dating in your 30s?
Can you help me show a friend that plenty of people find love after 35? She is afraid that no one will want a relationship with a woman who is single at 35. [more inside]
posted by persephone's rant at 8:40 AM PST - 50 comments
posted by persephone's rant at 8:40 AM PST - 50 comments
You lied and now Twitter has found out!
I recently became enthralled with the unfolding Twitter saga of the larcenous wedding photographer. So now I'm wondering how many similar stories have happened without me realizing; not just the big stories like Anthony Weiner, the Li Gong incident and Cook Source, but more low-key incidents that I might not have heard about where people were lying, cheating, or were just plain wrong and were discovered through social media. The human flesh search engine and Internet vigilantism articles on Wikipedia have some famous examples, but does anyone know about more obscure stuff? Thanks!
Netflix filters
Is there a process for submitting feature requests/ideas to netflix? [more inside]
posted by CarlRossi at 7:44 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by CarlRossi at 7:44 AM PST - 9 comments
Car brakes "slip" while idling?
My car's brake pedal slowly depresses almost all the way to the floor while my foot is resting on it at a stoplight. It never used to do this. What's going on? [more inside]
posted by killdevil at 5:15 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by killdevil at 5:15 AM PST - 30 comments
Holy Results, Batman!
What are your favorite beauty products? [more inside]
European marrying a US citizen - US visa process?
European marrying a US citizen - US visa process? [more inside]
What the waltz?
Privacy violations in an ER?
Recently I had to spend a few hours in a psychiatric emergency waiting room where none of the staff seemed to have any consideration for the privacy of the patients being triaged there. Are any of the things I experienced violations of HIPAA or the like, and if so, what, if anything, would you do about them? (Details inside.) [more inside]
posted by xyzzy at 1:49 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by xyzzy at 1:49 AM PST - 11 comments
Replacement wheel for luggage
I have a Mandarina Duck trolley case - carry-on luggage for flying - and one of the wheels has broken. I am trying to find a replacement to buy and fit myself, but have had no luck to date. Can anyone please advise or help? Many thanks, Kevin
Showing work in a UX design portfolio without violating NDA's/intellectual property laws
I'm updating my UX design portfolio. I've signed a NDA with my current employer so I can't show work that isn't already live. However, I have a lot of great mockups & wireframes I made either for prospective clients (that we didn't sign) or clients whose sites we haven't made live yet. I designed some amazing mockups for a huge client, but their site won't be live until 2013, and I really want to show my work now. How do I show my work in a way that doesn't violate my NDA? [more inside]
May 26
I'm in the worst non-relationship ever and I don't get myself out.
I'm addicted. To a person. And much like addictions to other things, I know I need rehab, but I'm not ready to go there. What can I do to manage until I bottom out/finally wake up/he drops me? [more inside]
Best way to fix hole on painted wall?
Oh crapsticks! What is the best way to fix a slightly gouged hole on a painted wall? [more inside]
turning a page of links into a playlist
Is there an addon for Firefox or Chrome that will scrape a page (like this one) for Youtube links and then put them all in a playlist?
Help me help my husband put on weight or deal with the way his body is.
My husband has always been skinny. I love his body and everything about him but once in a while, he starts talking about how he wants to work out and gain weight. [more inside]
posted by kat518 at 9:06 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by kat518 at 9:06 PM PST - 36 comments
Honey, get a shoe...again.
Solve for X, where X = number of spider appearances necessary to justify calling an exterminator. [more inside]
posted by daisystomper at 8:21 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by daisystomper at 8:21 PM PST - 21 comments
Where can I find these frames?
I am trying to find these glasses:
Steve Zahn in Treme.
Looked on zenni and a few other sites, but had no success.
Thanks for any leads or advice!
posted by thineownself at 8:18 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by thineownself at 8:18 PM PST - 6 comments
Please help me find a psychology winter research scholarship overseas :)
I'm an Australian psychology student looking for an undergraduate research program/scholarship overseas (anywhere, but especially UK or USA), any time from October 2012-early 2013.
The problem is, my summer is your winter, and I can't seem to find any "winter research programs" via Google. [more inside]
What did you do with your molecular biology PhD?
I'm doing a PhD in molecular biology, and I want to get a broader feel for my options when I graduate. [more inside]
posted by jlibera at 8:02 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by jlibera at 8:02 PM PST - 2 comments
Indie pop female vocalists
I'm really liking female indie-pop vocalists right now (Kimba, Florence Welch, Adele, Marina + the Diamonds). Who else should I listen to? Sorry, I hate Kate Bush.
posted by flibbertigibbet at 7:46 PM PST - 69 comments
posted by flibbertigibbet at 7:46 PM PST - 69 comments
Multilingual Talents
Multilingual Performers: Name actors/actresses that have acted in at least three different languages, the roles they were in, and (if known to you) if the language-use was fake, broken, fluent, or flawless (without identifiable accent). The most obvious example is Christoph Waltz in Inglorious Basterds: German/flawless; French/(dunno if fluent or flawless); English/flawless; Italian/fake. [more inside]
posted by dgaicun at 6:48 PM PST - 56 comments
posted by dgaicun at 6:48 PM PST - 56 comments
Hey, I just met you and this is crazy. No, this is literally crazy.
I'm hopelessly, desperately clueless at dating. Extensive tl;dr content contained herein. Be gentle, but above all: HALP. Now, watch as I over think my plate of beans. [more inside]
Some questions about lighting, indoors and out
Dim bulb regarding electricity seeks illumination. [more inside]
posted by DMelanogaster at 6:19 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by DMelanogaster at 6:19 PM PST - 5 comments
Looking for life-organizing software
I am looking for software to help organize my life : notes, calendar, to-do lists, links, passwords [more inside]
Therapist answers texts during our session
How much does this therapist suck? Or am I being overly sensitive? [more inside]
What's the best situation for my sensitive kid?
My 8 year old daughter is a highly sensitive introvert who needs social skills. What kind of atmosphere or school or activities would benefit her? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:33 PM PST - 44 comments
posted by anonymous at 4:33 PM PST - 44 comments
What is this Chief of Staff?
Joni Mitchell's Harry's House/Centerpiece. A lyrics question. [more inside]
Find a flash game!
Help find this shooting flash game! [more inside]
Finding a full-time gig in Japan while over there, work visa expiring soon?
Looking for work in Japan - Have a work visa that will expire in early August. Details inside. [more inside]
posted by Kamelot123 at 4:03 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Kamelot123 at 4:03 PM PST - 9 comments
Filling time between speakers while hosting an event
I'm the host/presenter at an event where there will be multiple contestants presenting speeches onstage to a high school-aged audience. What types of things could I say between speakers to fill the time as they set up and judges deliberate? Something interesting/funny to keep the audience interested... [more inside]
posted by nzydarkxj at 3:59 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by nzydarkxj at 3:59 PM PST - 4 comments
Games for 75th birthday party
Help me with games/activities for my mom's 75th birthday party. My sisters and I are planning a birthday party for my mom. There will 60 people there, ages 5 - 80. She doesnt want people just standing around bored and would like some games. We are already spending more than we budgeted on food and drink. Please suggest some no cost or extremely low cost entertainment ideas. Two of us will be flying into town a couple days before the party and the other sister who lives in town is also planning a high school graduation party for her son and just added a year old foster child to her brood of six kids so most planning will need to be done remotely. We're having a Fiesta theme so bonus points for taking that into account.
posted by ms_rasclark at 3:50 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ms_rasclark at 3:50 PM PST - 8 comments
I've wondered where home is. It's when I was in Indianapolis when I was nine years old. Had a dog, a cat, a brother, a sister.
Inspired by this thread, from which I got Dan Mangan's Basket, and Chocolate Genius' My Mom. I'm composing a playlist as a mediation on my parents, and I wondered what other songs others thought of when they thought of Mom and Dad.
How do I direct my customers' phone calls to the correct location?
My store has three locations. People often call the wrong location. Is there a low-cost way to transfer or forward a call to the correct location without forcing the customer to hang up and dial a new number? [more inside]
posted by Night_owl at 3:11 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Night_owl at 3:11 PM PST - 10 comments
Floatings and boatings!
Where in the US (ideally east coast) can I go sailing on a full-rigged ship? [more inside]
posted by elizardbits at 2:47 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by elizardbits at 2:47 PM PST - 14 comments
Midsomer Murders DVD collection
Is there any place to buy the Midsomer Murders DVD collection from the start of the series up until the present time? [more inside]
posted by boby at 2:36 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by boby at 2:36 PM PST - 6 comments
Van Nuys New Wave Manifesto?
What's the Van Nuys New Wave Manifesto referred to in this "Government Center" Jonathan Richman video at 2:41? The Google does nothing.
posted by ar0n at 2:35 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by ar0n at 2:35 PM PST - 4 comments
STAMPED
Somewhat inspired by this thread, I want to order a bunch of funny stamps for friends. Questions. What is a good company to use, what is a "standard size" stamp, anything I should know about fonts, etc.? Also, should I buy an ink pad for everyone, as well, or is just getting the stamps enough?
Where to start with Supernatural?
Should I carry on with season 1 of Supernatural or skip to a later season? [more inside]
posted by ellieBOA at 1:04 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ellieBOA at 1:04 PM PST - 8 comments
Down-Tempo Acoustica
Seeking recommendations for the s-l-o-w-e-s-t tunes you can think of from the “roots” repertoire of South, Central and North America. [more inside]
posted by Jode at 1:02 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Jode at 1:02 PM PST - 12 comments
Help me ship a years' worth of personal effects from Netherlands to Southern California
I'm looking for the cheapest options for shipping <20kg of personal effects from Amsterdam, Netherlands to Southern California. [more inside]
posted by luciphercolors at 12:52 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by luciphercolors at 12:52 PM PST - 10 comments
What conveys the importance of marriage and/or love in approximately 1-3 minutes?
Wedding readings filter... I realize this has been asked before, but new members are constantly being added and new material is constantly being generated, plus there's always a bit of individual nuance. In short, I'm looking for an entirely non-religious wedding reading for a humanist ceremony. A few more details inside. [more inside]
posted by slide at 12:34 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by slide at 12:34 PM PST - 14 comments
I want to read novels like they're visual novels! Without making them visual or anything.
The Internet having destroyed my abilities of concentration, I'm looking for anything, preferably a web app, that can help me read large texts, like novels on a sentence-by-sentence basis. [more inside]
Please recommend an air conditioner!
I need a recommendation for a window air conditioner unit. Preference: as quiet and energy efficient as possible. [more inside]
posted by aparrish at 10:15 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by aparrish at 10:15 AM PST - 8 comments
There is ice on my AC unit.
So my air conditioning is not blowing cold air. I go to the basement to check the unit, and there is about a half-inch of ice on the main pipe leading out of the unit. Help. [more inside]
posted by 4ster at 10:05 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by 4ster at 10:05 AM PST - 16 comments
Leaving the city?
For the past few months I've been strongly considering moving from NYC back to the flyover state I came from, that my parents and extended family live in. I made the initial move to NYC in a matter of weeks (from decision to actual Greyhound bus ticket to temp job). Now I'm older and more cautious. [more inside]
posted by bunderful at 9:46 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by bunderful at 9:46 AM PST - 18 comments
Abusive consultant pushes my buttons
How do I remove or minimize the menace of an abusive person who makes me see red? [more inside]
Mastering ramen.
Find me a month-long cooking class in Japan. [more inside]
Where should we have our family reunion?
Where should we hold our family reunion? [more inside]
How do I take this from my browser into real life?
I'm having a ridiculously fun time playing with Audiotool and am learning a ton about desktop production. Where do I go from here? [more inside]
Can this deny me unemployment insurances? Is the company being sneaky?
May be let go for sales performance, company wrote "general misconduct for not achieving monthly target"...is this a play on words to deny me unemployment insurance? [more inside]
Hot, Summer Beef....Stew?
Recipes using stewing beef for hot summer days? [more inside]
posted by LN at 8:05 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by LN at 8:05 AM PST - 9 comments
Broken Temporary Crown?
Temporary crown on back molar fell off in two pieces, won't stay on with dental cement. I have the appointment to get the permanent put on on Tuesday--what do I do between now and then to minimize the chance of having to go through the whole process again? [more inside]
Finding a tall blonde hunk in Dublin
Handcuffing the groom to a midget on his stag do is an immoral and degrading tradition. So, we want to find a gorgeous, very tall, blonde Atlas of a hunk to handcuff him to, in Dublin. Where should I look? Modelling agencies? Dating website?
posted by omnigut at 5:13 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by omnigut at 5:13 AM PST - 14 comments
Aquatic subterranean polar bear
I read an odd (and very stupid) novel around 1997. Please verify that this book exists and wasn't a product of my young addled mind. [more inside]
posted by arha at 3:56 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by arha at 3:56 AM PST - 7 comments
hot coffee
Your work is so basic the NY Times published it
How are popular opinions and well-known academics perceived in academia (social sciences)? Examples inside [more inside]
May 25
Credit Union Law...
[US banking law filter] So my credit union 'forces' me to deposit checks, payable to me, into a savings deposit account (share deposit account), rather than my checking account. I'm not sure they should be doing this. Lots of gory details inside.... [more inside]
Organizing travel photos
Is there a good (free) service for uploading photographs from a travel trip? More details inside. [more inside]
posted by eliluong at 10:13 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by eliluong at 10:13 PM PST - 8 comments
Career Options-Caseworker
I'm realizing more and more how much I want to become a case worker. The only problem is that I pursued a degree in communications and not social work. What are the next steps in terms of reaching my goal and obtaining a job as a case worker? [more inside]
How to be an awesome tour guide?
How can I be an awesome adventure tour leader for international tourists visiting the US? [more inside]
Estranged friends sending dead cat memorial cards...
A few months ago, I severed ties with a few people I know through the internet. Today, I received a card from the SPCA saying that these people have made a donation memorializing my recently deceased cat. What is the appropriate way to respond? [more inside]
British woman in love with cross dresser
I saw a British movie in the late nineties that had a woman falling in love with a cross-dressing man. Any ideas?
posted by Tell Me No Lies at 9:32 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Tell Me No Lies at 9:32 PM PST - 4 comments
My SO's cousin wants to be Facebook friends with me. How can I kindly say no?
One of my awesome boyfriend's distant relatives noticed that I'd liked a kind message she left for my SO on his wall, checked my page, saw that he and I were together and sent me a private message asking if we could be Facebook friends. As a general rule, I do not friend people I've not met in person. I've never been great at sugarcoating things; how can I politely and respectfully decline?
posted by oogenesis at 9:23 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by oogenesis at 9:23 PM PST - 30 comments
What would Christina Hendricks do?
What hourglass-friendly styles am I missing? [more inside]
posted by Addlepated at 8:38 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Addlepated at 8:38 PM PST - 9 comments
What is an old series of children's books about dinosaurs?
When I was very young, I read a series of books about dinosaurs, where each book was a fiction story (with educational information) about each species of dinosaur.. what books were those? [more inside]
posted by ceberon at 8:31 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by ceberon at 8:31 PM PST - 4 comments
Name That Novel!
I read a mystery around 1980 that I'd like to find again. Our hero, a professor on sabbatical, goes to Spain and meets an old college friend for dinner. The friend asks a favor along the lines of, "If anything happens to me, please bring this item to the American Embassy," or something like that. He hands something to our hero, and, of course, the friend is murdered before the meal is finished. Our hero is on the run. So, Mefites, any ideas?
Is this famous investment scam real or fiction?
A crooked stockbroker sends newsletters to 1000 people; half the newsletters say stock A will go up, half say it goes down. Stock A goes down. He sends 500 new newsletters to the people who got a correct prediction about stock A; half of the new newsletters say stock B is going up, half say it's going down. He then sends 250 more newsletters... etc. Eventually there's a handful of people who've gotten eight straight correct picks from him, and those suckers invest their life savings. Has this scam ever been carried out in real life, or is it just a story? [more inside]
Network audio player?
One of my Soundbridges died. What's a decent network audio player to replace it with? [more inside]
posted by scruss at 6:48 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by scruss at 6:48 PM PST - 4 comments
Identity theft attempt?
The woman sitting next to me at the DMV wrote down (most of) my social security number. Now what? [more inside]
posted by guybrush_threepwood at 6:35 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by guybrush_threepwood at 6:35 PM PST - 15 comments
Should I replace my Droid Charge
I got lemoned once, Should I upgrade my phone again? Is the grass as green as it looks? Android phone questions ensue. [more inside]
How can I better circulate air in my apartment?
How can I better circulate air in my apartment? [more inside]
Dramatic (non-campy) science fiction musicals?
Are there any scifi musicals that aren't comedies? [more inside]
Need help finding a movie title.
Need help finding the title to this movie. Here is what I do know.. It is French, it is in color possibly from the 60s-80s with a better guess it being made in the 70s and I believe it was a comedy. This man girlfriend is unhappy cause they are unable to have a child. They takes kids at a summer camp then the women falls in love with a boy at the camp. A intimate relations ensue between the women and the boy. The family finds out and send boy away to boarding where he is willing abducted to couple. Please Help with identify this title.
My MKV stops conversion halfway through
I'm trying to convert an MKV file to mp4 using Handbrake, but for some reason it tells me it's finished converting 40 minutes through. The completed 40 minutes are excellent quality, but I'm at a complete loss as to why it's stopping so early. The file isn't DRMed to the best of my knowledge. What might be going wrong? How can I get Handbrake to finish converting my video? And if Handbrake can't, what other app for Mac handles MKV conversion without horrible quality loss (like VisualHub or QuickTime do)?
Apple's eBook Agency Agreement in Plain English
Trouble understanding Apple's eBook Agency Agreement for the iBookstore [more inside]
Help with noisy neighbor's loud music.
Noisy Neighbors: Am I just a cranky old lady or are my neighbors inconsiderate assholes? [more inside]
posted by [insert clever name here] at 3:59 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by [insert clever name here] at 3:59 PM PST - 36 comments
Help make summer more delicious.
Can you make corn and bean salad without tomatoes? Even more difficult, without any citrus (i.e. lime juice) at all? What substitutions would be possible? [more inside]
Children's albums with a theme.
Help me find children's music albums that tells a story or has a theme. [more inside]
posted by surfgator at 3:52 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by surfgator at 3:52 PM PST - 15 comments
How do I know whether I should take FMLA or short-term disability?
I broke my tailbone, and have questions about FMLA, short-term disability, choosing the right doctor to help me file for either, and how they affect my chances at future employment. I have Carefirst Blue Cross Blue Shield insurance through my employer. You are not my lawyer or doctor, and any response to the questions and statements posed herein will constitute neither legal nor medical advice. [more inside]
How do I do not worry so much about getting back into online dating?
Advice needed to transition back into casual and not-so casual online dating after a long time. [more inside]
What's the best way to migrate from local to IMAP in Thunderbird?
I need to migrate about 5gb+ of email from the local folders in Thunderbird to IMAP in Thunderbird. There are a lot of folders and a lot of subfolders, and migrating them "manually" has really been a pain in the ass. I've got about a third of the folders over, but I'd love to hear a better solution that will actually keep the folder structure in place correctly, not randomly. Perhaps there's an add-on for this? Cheers.
Baseball scavenger hunt
Baseball puzzlers: I'm tasked with creating some sort of trivia/scavenger hunt to get people to walk through a baseball themed art exhibit. I'm looking for interesting alternatives to a typical scavenger hunt, the more baseball themed the better. [more inside]
posted by Unsomnambulist at 3:15 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Unsomnambulist at 3:15 PM PST - 6 comments
Wear your retainer
Freelancer filter: I'm a graphic designer / creative consultant. I've been at it for 15 years. I like the freedom, but have never been particularly good at invoicing etc. I have a client wanting to work out some sort of "retainer" situation but, frankly, I'm not even sure what this could be like, how it would be structured, and why it would be better for me than my current status. I'm all for regular paychecks... So there's one. Anyone have experience with similar arrangements?
posted by ecorrocio at 2:57 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by ecorrocio at 2:57 PM PST - 5 comments
Please help with possessed AC unit!
I have a Haier window AC unit. It is possessed. Looking for some technical help. [more inside]
posted by derivation at 2:54 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by derivation at 2:54 PM PST - 4 comments
Helvetica for Everyone! PDFS 4-EVA!
Let's say I'm an in-house graphic designer working on a sale sign template for a company with several locations. I've got Helvetica. The various locations don't. I'd like to make a fancy template in InDesign, and then create a PDF form where employees can alter small portions of the text and then print the completed sale sign at their location, still using the Helvetica. Is this possible? [more inside]
posted by redsparkler at 2:01 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by redsparkler at 2:01 PM PST - 15 comments
My, what a lovely bike tire you're wearing.
Ways to repurpose bike parts? [more inside]
Wearable landscapes and scenery
I really like clothing (specifically shirts, dresses, skirts and tights/leggings) with all-over scenery or landscape prints. Where can I find more of it, and what search terms would help me zero in on it? [more inside]
posted by aecorwin at 1:23 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by aecorwin at 1:23 PM PST - 20 comments
I need help with used car shopping
Suggestions or help on how to buy a used car when you know nothing about cars [more inside]
posted by smeater44 at 1:18 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by smeater44 at 1:18 PM PST - 15 comments
I want to be alone! (but I want to want to NOT be alone...)
My job (which I love) is sapping my small reserve of social energy and killing my (already near non-existent) social life. I don't want to be a hermit! How can I get more interested in doing things with people after work instead of always cocooning? [more inside]
Why aren't I getting mobile wikipedia?
Why are Google searches now taking me to the non-mobile Wikipedia page on my iPhone, and how do I fix it? [more inside]
posted by smackfu at 1:02 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by smackfu at 1:02 PM PST - 4 comments
Help, I'm Stuck Between a Goddess and a Leprechaun...
Obscure Celtic folklore filter: I'm doing a small undergraduate folklore project (around 7 pages) with themes of the Otherworld and fairy lore, centering on the ballads of Tam Lin and Thomas the Rhymer and the tale of Oisín and Niamh so far. Looking for ideas for one or two other primary source, reliable (and translated) selections within Celtic folklore, which ideally are focused on the fairy myths and not just characters from Tuatha Dé Danann. [more inside]
A content filter that warns and reports instead of blocking?
The Windows Live Family Safety content filter has a neat optional feature: instead of completely blocking a web page that might be inappropriate, it can display a warning that the user can then click through to visit the site if they really need to, and then a notification is sent to the parent or admin that they clicked through the warning to get to the site. Is there a similar system available for Mac OS? [more inside]
Google maps API explanation
Can someone explain google maps API to me? [more inside]
Please give me a crate idea!
What type of crate should we use for my sister's very large dog? [more inside]
posted by Pomo at 12:48 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Pomo at 12:48 PM PST - 11 comments
Nineteenth-Century Periodicals?
I am interested in exploring the circulation and distribution information for a variety of nineteenth-century periodicals. I would like to know how many people subscribed to various literary magazines and newspapers, where these publications were sent, who printed the texts, etc... Any ideas?
Who ruined their family's christmas?
Morbid question about Louis CK's statistical analysis of the crowd at last year's Beacon Theater show. [more inside]
Hey, That's me on that CD - Pay me!
What are my rights when someone uses a performance in which I was a significant participant on a commercial CD? I don't recall signing anything that assigned my rights as a performer, nor was I asked permission for its use nor even notified of its release. I have yet to ascertain whether I'm credited on the CD at all. I know YANAL, but surely this sort of thing has come up for someone before. How did you handle it?
Which is the cheapest postage meter?
I want a cheaper postage meter. I am tired of paying $30+ bucks a month to Pitney Bowes to rent their postage meter. What is the best/cheapest other postage solution? [more inside]
Looking for some cooperative video games my husband and I can play together.
Looking for some cooperative video games my husband and I can play together. [more inside]
Looking for some ideas of cool things to do at home with a partner.
Looking for some ideas of cool things to do at home with a partner. [more inside]
Wordpress network, or sub-categories?
Wordpress gurus, please help me think through this site architecture question: multisite network, or sub-categories? [more inside]
Help me find awesome courses on iTunes U.
My husband and I have gotten absolutely addicted to Yale history prof David Blight's course on the American civil war on iTunes U.
Help us find more courses like this, preferably in the humanities. What are your favorites?
Some practical questions about quitting smoking.
Need some advice and strategies for quitting smoking, with a couple of other specific practical questions (including how to manage it as a couple). [more inside]
posted by mireille at 11:08 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by mireille at 11:08 AM PST - 17 comments
Must-sees and advice for short Ireland-Isle of Man - England visit?
Help my boyfriend have an awesome solo Ireland - Isle of Man - England trip! He's leaving today, and while the major transportation and lodging is figured out, he's looking for suggestions of things for the day-to-day, as well as driving route suggestions. [more inside]
posted by foodmapper at 10:46 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by foodmapper at 10:46 AM PST - 12 comments
Trending topics
Best way to display a "twitter wall" at a conference? [more inside]
Help me determine how high to mount a bunch of touch screen computers!
Help me determine how high to mount a bunch of touch screen computers! [more inside]
posted by aydeejones at 10:07 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by aydeejones at 10:07 AM PST - 13 comments
How much will a 300 MBPS wireless router improve our home 1.5M DSL?
How much will a 300 MBPS wireless router improve our home 1.5M DSL? [more inside]
posted by ragtimepiano at 9:45 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by ragtimepiano at 9:45 AM PST - 13 comments
Transfer questions
Transfer, the 2010 German movie: questions! (big spoilers inside; avoid if you haven't seen this awesome movie) [more inside]
Neat stuff to see in the Twin Cities
So, my spouse & I are taking a spur of the moment trip to the Minneapolis/St. Paul area for the 3-day weekend. What are some quirky, interesting, delicious, unusual, or must-see things to check out in the Twin Cities and on the route between WI and MN? [more inside]
Is t-mobile coverage adequate in the northeast
What is t-mobile coverage like in the northeast? [more inside]
Help me watch Eurovision in public in Edinburgh
ScotlandFilter: Help me watch Eurovision tomorrow. I'm in Edinburgh for the weekend for a friend's wedding. I have Saturday night free, and I'd love to be able to find a pub where I can watch Eurovision in all its bizarre glory. I know almost nothing about the town, though--can anyone suggest a place to me?
Join us next month for more Adventures
Has there ever been a Monthly television program? Why not if not? [more inside]
posted by Potomac Avenue at 8:55 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Potomac Avenue at 8:55 AM PST - 20 comments
hi dad! oh yeah, you're a dad btw.
meeting dad... who doesn't know he's a dad. [more inside]
DIY Filter: The nuts on my kitchen faucet won't budge. Help me figure out what to do next. Details inside.
DIY Filter: The nuts on my kitchen faucet won't budge. Help me figure out what to do next. Details inside. [more inside]
Favorite Places as a London Local?
How can I go off the beaten path in London as a tourist? What are your favorite local spots? [more inside]
posted by gregoryg at 8:19 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by gregoryg at 8:19 AM PST - 26 comments
Awesome Birthday Celebration in DC!
What is something unique and awesome we can do for my friend's 30th birthday party? DC specific suggestions welcome. [more inside]
posted by cessair at 8:13 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by cessair at 8:13 AM PST - 12 comments
How to become more open minded
How to have more ideas, find the opportunities in times of crisis, and be more creative overall? [more inside]
Old computer for a new employee?
Help me set up my old computer for a new employee, and make this easier the next time. [more inside]
Remove gel ant poison from wood...?
How to clean-up spilled gel ant poison from a wood drawer? [more inside]
All this computer hacking is making me thirsty, I think I'll "like" a Tab.
Is it really possible to be a freelance Facebook "like"-er? [more inside]
Can we build it? Yes We Can! And then eat it.
The best veggie burger I've ever had was The Nut Burger at Beaver's Ice House in Houston, Texas. And, while it tasted great, fell apart easily and didn't stand up to the usual burger mode of eating. I thought, hey, I can do this at home. Help me create the best veggie burger recipe ever (constraints and specs inside) [more inside]
What to charge as a communications consultant
What to charge as a communications consultant working with scientists?... [more inside]
how do you break the cycle of poor relationship decision-making?
How have you stopped the cycle of poor decision-making in relationships? [more inside]
Superhero comic fans, please help my son become one of you.
Recommendations of Superhero comics for a 13 year old boy, please? [more inside]
posted by qldaddy at 6:33 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by qldaddy at 6:33 AM PST - 20 comments
My salad days have only begun!
Your very best salad dressings and salad recipes needed! [more inside]
Make interesting conversations and making them flow
i need help to make interesting conversations and making them flow [more inside]
Half of me breathes in you
I'm looking for songs about siblings that don't have words like sister, brother, or family in the title. Help me out. [more inside]
Five fingers in fourteen days?
How long do you need to "convert" to Vibram Five Finger or other "barefoot" shoes for distance running? [more inside]
posted by Shepherd at 4:21 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by Shepherd at 4:21 AM PST - 19 comments
Which 1960s Album Cover featured the Coit Tower in San Francisco?
Which 1960s Album Cover featured the Coit Tower in San Francisco? [more inside]
Podcast or audiobook app for iphone
Is there a good iPhone app for listening to my own downloaded podcasts/audiobooks that I have as mp3's? I would love an app that I can upload the mp3's to over wifi, and that has tempo control so that I can speed it up a bit. The app should remember the position I am in on each file I listen to, not just the last file.
posted by davar at 2:02 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by davar at 2:02 AM PST - 6 comments
Language learning website using bilingual stories?
I came across a very neat online language learning tool a few weeks ago, but I didn't bookmark it and now I can't find it again. Basically it worked like this: you choose a preset text or story (I think they were mostly fables and fairy tales), your native language, and the foreign language you're trying to practice. Then it shows the text of the story with a few of your native words replaced with their foreign equivalents, letting you learn them in context. [more inside]
Is my iPhone Misplaced or stolen
I have lost my iPhone. When I look at my AT&T account there has been no activity since the last call I made. When I call my phone I get my voicemail message.
My question. If someone found the phone and removed my sim card would my voicemail still work?
Worried about going back to work after being signed off
Hi everyone. I've got a problem and wondered if anyone could give me some help and advice. I've been signed off work for a week because my old recurring problem of depression has reared its crappy head. It was very sudden. I went to the doctor on Tuesday basically in tears, exhausted and pretty much unable to function. You know; the usual. [more inside]
Resale value for laptops
Where can I view and compare the expected resale value of different laptops? [more inside]
posted by devnull at 12:50 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by devnull at 12:50 AM PST - 6 comments
Cheese in every fondue pot! Two motorcycles in every garage for a mouse named Ralph!
What to call a presidential mouse and her twin sister? My library's Summer Reading Program mascots need names! [more inside]
posted by beekept at 12:34 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by beekept at 12:34 AM PST - 23 comments
Seattle bar crawl
You work in Seattle. Your boss cuts you loose at noon on Friday. You decide it is a nice afternoon for a bar crawl. What places do you hit?
May 24
Why won't my MacBook warn me when my battery is about to run out anymore?
My Macbook used to give me a low-battery warning before it went to sleep: now, before the battery indicator even turns red, it just powers down without warning, and I'll lose anything I had open and was working on. What happened?
Help me find more movies like Martha Marcy May Marlene.
I haven't seen anything like Martha Marcy May Marlene in a long time, if ever. Please recommend more movies I'll like as much. [more inside]
French food blog for the bewildered.
I'm trying to find a French food website that I used to use a lot but seem to have lost. What details I remember are inside... [more inside]
posted by ninazer0 at 10:36 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by ninazer0 at 10:36 PM PST - 3 comments
Save my vagina from the horrible maw of my bike seat.
Love my women's-specific road bike, hate the numbness and pain its saddle causes in my women's-specific parts. Help me fix this? [more inside]
Where's the best place to buy home electronics in the Twin Cities?
Where should I go in the Twin Cities to buy an audio-video setup to fit a somewhat specific situation? [more inside]
How best to interview a musician about his career?
Looking for tips on interviewing a celebrity musician about his career to write liner notes for upcoming re-releases of his catalog. [more inside]
Exit Music (For a Film)
Just broke up and want some movies to distract and calm down. Any suggestions? [more inside]
Department store novel?
Another "what's the novel?" question. A fictional department store at the center of a city, and an employee's last day? [more inside]
posted by Ridge at 8:37 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Ridge at 8:37 PM PST - 8 comments
Arizona: What's the best place to catch a view of the city at night?
In Phoenix/Scottsdale Arizona. What's the best place to catch a view of the city at night? [more inside]
Simple Hacks to Showcase My Copywriting & Usability Webwork
Online Portfolio/Samples filter: Hallelujah! I'm finally making some progress with skills acquisition. I've begun the content strategy/copywriting and usability redesign of a medium-sized brand-name non-profit Website. Now how do I extract samples from it, to show off my hard-won know-how? [more inside]
Ideas for daughter's 16th birthday camping trip?
My daughter is planning her 16th birthday party, which will happen in late July. She wants an overnight trip, preferably near the Oregon coast or someplace else with a beach. Since many beach houses expressly forbid teen parties, we're probably looking at camping or... I don't know, a remote cabin maybe. There will be three or four parents in attendance. I've already said that we'll have to have a budget (though I don't know what to plan for realistically), that only parents will drive there, and that the guests have to be people I know. 1) What are other suggestions for a party that is memorable, yet avoids things that are dangerous, illegal, or grounds for a lawsuit? And 2), Oregon folks, can you recommend a place that will be okay with late night music/dancing and about 15 teenagers?
Peaches windfall forreal
What to do with all of these not quite ripe small peaches? A branch fell. I now have 25% of the fruit from it, but they're pretty small and not quite sweet enough to eat straight. They seem too lovely to waste. Will they ripen much? Recipes for using them as is?
I think my friend should probably break up with her boyfriend. Can I/Should I/How do I tell her?
I'm worried about my friend - I am afraid she going to marry a guy she doesn't like or respect. Any recommendations for things I can say or do to encourage her to take a critical look at the relationship? [more inside]
I need some help to spend money on art!
Making the impossible possible
Help with a simultaneously math & non-math question: Finding the square root of a negative number was impossible until imaginary numbers came along. What are examples of other things that were impossible until we altered systems that have been created? [more inside]
Identify science fiction novel
A science fiction book set in a post-apocalyptic world that has been snowed in. [more inside]
posted by lewedswiver at 5:55 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by lewedswiver at 5:55 PM PST - 3 comments
How can I support my adult son whose father has turned on him?
How can I support my adult son whose father has turned on him? [more inside]
Please help us brainstorm for a dog friendly weekend getaway!
Please help us brainstorm for a dog friendly weekend getaway! [more inside]
I want to listen to songs that make me cry.
Tell me about songs with lyrics that make you cry. [more inside]
Polly want a quokka?
I am trying to find a source for a stuffed quokka. Google-fu has failed. Please help! [more inside]
Help me grow a beard
I want a beard. If I take testosterone, will it turn my straggly tufts into a lush manly chin carpet? [more inside]
Where is the list of cheaters...
Olympic Drug-Testing Statistics Filter - How can I track "total number of drug tests failed" as a statistic during the 2012 Olympic Games in London? [more inside]
I am not the boss of you
I'm tired of being the bad guy at home. How to better communicate this? [more inside]
posted by Gilbert at 4:24 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by Gilbert at 4:24 PM PST - 32 comments
I want this to be the best.
My first conference — help me make it the awesomest ever! My boss & I are going to Eyeo, in Minneapolis, a week from Monday. I've never been to a professional conference before. I am super excited about the subject matter (data visualization, creative code, etc.) I am a somewhat experienced designer and a pretty new coder (though I do have a relevant project up on the web). I know nothing though about how do get the most out of this. Please advise!
Dreams Never End
I really like the music on the first New Order album (Movement, including the tracks on the 2008 collector's edition), but I don't always care for the singing. Are there instrumental bands that I might like that would be similar to early New Order?
If a tree falls in the woods, and no one is around to report it...
How do studies measure unreported phenomena? For example, this says 95% of campus rapes are unreported. This says that nearly half of all HIV-positive men don't know they are infected. So.. how do the researchers know?
Do we lawyer up?
Do we need a lawyer to deal with a small probate estate case in Illinois? [more inside]
It turns out Atlanta's nowhere near Naples
I'm going to be spending three weeks in Atlanta this summer. How can I see a friend who lives in Naples, FL without spending $300? [more inside]
Help the two most important magic screens in my life become friends.
What is the easiest way to remotely access bookmarks and word docs on my desktop from my laptop? [more inside]
'89 7.3L IDI diesel won't crank
1989 7.3L IDI diesel won't turn over in my E350 [more inside]
Help with garage refrigerator
Economical garage/basement refrigerator options? [more inside]
What is business casual for plus size and where do I find it?
What are your best sources for women's business casual clothing? [more inside]
Make this Word document smaller please
[Probably a dumb question filter] How can I shrink this Word file? It has no graphics. [more inside]
Classes for programming Access forms - Toronto
Where in Toronto can I take a class on programming Access 2003 forms? [more inside]
Southern Maine in 2 Days
Boston to Maine for two days. How can I do the following? [more inside]
posted by bamassippi at 2:18 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by bamassippi at 2:18 PM PST - 9 comments
furring strips
Where can I purchase furring strips in manhattan, nyc (preferably near union square)?
Help me plan my next steps after graduating with a degree in biology!
Help me plan my next steps after graduating with a degree in biology! [more inside]
How do I stop WinAmp from displaying the song title in the Visualizations window?
How do I stop WinAmp from displaying the song title in the Visualizations window?
Please post the nth example.
Terms from math that have become idiomatic in English? [more inside]
posted by Listener at 1:37 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by Listener at 1:37 PM PST - 51 comments
What kids' craft can I do using a bunch of foil circles from San Pellegrino cans?
What kids' craft can I do using a bunch of foil circles from San Pellegrino cans? [more inside]
posted by freecellwizard at 1:30 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by freecellwizard at 1:30 PM PST - 7 comments
Will blog for free
Approaching a local small business with an offer to write their blog for free: is this a good idea? If so, how to do it? I'm looking to gain some freelance writing experience and thought this might be the way. [more inside]
Planning mobile versions of websites
Been asked to come up with a sketch of a proposed mobile version of a Wordpress website. Any good resources for this? [more inside]
Nightlife in Quito
Nightlife recommendations in Quito outside of Mariscal Sucre. Travelling with my sister and our significant others in Ecuador and Galapagos for a few weeks in June. We will have a few nights here and there in Quito. I am looking for Nightlife and restaurant recommendations outside of Mariscal Sucre where we are staying. Music, galleries, etc. Thanks Me-fites.
posted by Roger_Mexico at 1:10 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Roger_Mexico at 1:10 PM PST - 2 comments
Help me learn about my IT needs
I am looking for some resources for a non-IT person who needs to solve the IT needs of a small but growing consultancy business. Heavy snowfall inside. [more inside]
I love me some Top Gear UK. Probably at an unhealthy level. Help me continue.
How do I "reset" a previously-watched TV series on Netflix Instant? [more inside]
I have foolish dreams of pedaling to used bookstores and coffeeshops on June afternoons
Is there anywhere in the SF Bay Area where I could rent a bicycle long term? [more inside]
txt 4 free plz
My wife and I text each other a lot throughout the day - enough that I go over my one zillion text per month limit. An upgrade to the next level (unlimited) would be $30/month. What's the best, most seamless way to get free (or very low cost) texting? I only need it to work between the two of us; I can use regular texting for others. [more inside]
posted by SampleSize at 12:55 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by SampleSize at 12:55 PM PST - 39 comments
How can I kick this procrastination habit once and for all?
I am at wits end with myself. How can I kick this procrastination habit once and for all (despite many failures)? [more inside]
How do I make a water filter for my crock?
How to make my own water filter? [more inside]
What to do on a honeymoon in Vancouver?
Vancouver honeymoon: what to do? [more inside]
Reading multiple blogs as a single stream and sharing the results via RSS
I am reading about 30 student blogs this semester and want to combine them into a single stream that can be read with an RSS client. [more inside]
posted by craniac at 12:18 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by craniac at 12:18 PM PST - 9 comments
Disney Princesses Gone Wild
[posting for a friend, but extremely interested as well!] I need games/recipes/ideas for a bachelorette party I am throwing. The theme: Disney Princesses Gone Wild [more inside]
posted by halseyaa at 12:17 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by halseyaa at 12:17 PM PST - 15 comments
BCBS PPO therapists in Buffalo/WNY
I am looking for a general purpose LCSW/psychologist/therapist in the Buffalo, NY area (northtowns preferred). I'm looking for someone young, and they need to accept a BCBS PPO insurance plan. Seeking recommendations, or suggestions on how to search better. [more inside]
Shes finally leaving! Now what?
This question is part law, part human relations. I need to know how to handle a situation when only one person wants to break out of a lease. Are they allowed to break out without the consent of the other lessees? And if not, should we let her? Details inside. [more inside]
Im here to volunteer, not get in your pants.
Stuck in Nepal and need a volunteering job that doesn't suck! [more inside]
Scented Bearded Irises!
Which purple or purple-ish bearded irises smell good? [more inside]
posted by small_ruminant at 12:04 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by small_ruminant at 12:04 PM PST - 6 comments
Bookmark Migration
Looking for a way to migrate my bookmarks/Favorites list from one PC to other [more inside]
Are we wrongly telling our participants that they don't get taxed?
I'm trying to find information about taxes and volunteer paid experimental (non-clinical) studies. I work in a lab, and one of our participants told us a week ago that if a study pays (the volunteer) over a certain amount, it gets taxed. Can anyone tell me if this is true and give me an official link? We're in Philadelphia, PA, USA. I can provide any other relevant information you need. Thanks!
posted by two lights above the sea at 11:50 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by two lights above the sea at 11:50 AM PST - 6 comments
Git for delicious cookies.
I work for a business that uses recipes for baked goods. We are having a problem managing recipes. We need a system to control who has access to recipes, tracks and logs changes and archives recipes which have been superseded. [more inside]
Which dvd editions of Silence of the Lambs and Manhunter are the best quality?
I am looking for the best DVD (not Blu-Ray) prints of Silence of the Lambs and Manhunter. I know Lambs had a Criterion issue and regular issue, a 2-disc issue and perhaps more. Manhunter had a 2-disc issue (orange cover), a single issue, and perhaps others. I currently have the Hannibal Lector trilogy, which is all three movies in slimline cases with no extras. I am not sure if they are the same prints that come in single issue cases or if my prints are the high quality. When I say "best", I am referring to best picture quality first and then extras. I am not sure if newer issues lime my slimline set necessarily have the best picture or not simply because they are newer. My slimline set is just the bare bones movies, btw. So best print and if any extras that would be great. I know Criterion has commentary on Silence.
posted by snap_dragon at 11:47 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by snap_dragon at 11:47 AM PST - 6 comments
Are Windows Any Cheaper At Home Depot?
Have you had windows installed by a big-box home improvement store (Lowe's or Home Depot)? What was the experience like? Is there a good reason to go elsewhere? [more inside]
How do I block everything on facebook EXCEPT events and private messages?
What's the simplest way to get rid of everything on Facebook except for events and private messages? [more inside]
posted by yaymukund at 10:42 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by yaymukund at 10:42 AM PST - 3 comments
How do we keep a house from falling apart?
Can you recommend a good book (or website or other resource) about home maintenance? We are buying our first home this summer and need guidance on all sorts of things. [more inside]
posted by sutel at 10:40 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by sutel at 10:40 AM PST - 13 comments
Clones of drives, living together, mass hysteria
Cloning a boot drive and then deleting the original drive? But if I boot with both plugged in, it boots from the original drive.
Possibly need to make a boot disk in Windows 7? Is this different now that we don't have floppies? [more inside]
posted by RobotHero at 10:30 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by RobotHero at 10:30 AM PST - 9 comments
Can I use an AmEx Gift Card for an American Express Presale at Ticketmaster.com?
Can I use an AmEx Gift Card for an American Express Presale at Ticketmaster.com? Specifically, this event? I don't have a regular AmEx credit card.
Your experiences with the Flashpoint battery grip?
Fellow photographer Mefites, what are/were your experiences with this Flashpoint battery grip on a Canon EOS T1i? [more inside]
posted by jgwong at 9:56 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by jgwong at 9:56 AM PST - 7 comments
Fitbit API
I just bought a Fitbit and I want to play around with their API. [more inside]
posted by JPowers at 9:22 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by JPowers at 9:22 AM PST - 9 comments
Take me far away from home! Well actually, not too far.
Where should my boyfriend and I go that's 2-3 days away from Boston, is a good ways away from civilization, and has stuff we can see/do on the drive there and back? [more inside]
Assess this: how can I better judge whether or not to go?
I need to find a source for travel and security advisories for locations around the world. Our organisation is too small to employ a security advisor and I don't always trust the locals. What publicly available resources do you use to prepare for travel? [more inside]
posted by wingless_angel at 9:10 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by wingless_angel at 9:10 AM PST - 9 comments
Drowning in books!
Detroit Filter: Where can I sell my old novels, textbooks, children's books, and test prep books for cash? [more inside]
posted by lotusmish at 9:10 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by lotusmish at 9:10 AM PST - 8 comments
Help me pick a uniform!
I'm thinking about simplifying my wardrobe by adopting some kind of "uniform" for the work days. Have you done something similar? Please help me choose a sartorial theme for my work uniform. [more inside]
Should I pay these Verizon collectors?
I got a collections letter for a Verizon bill that is nearly 10 years old. To pay or not to pay? [more inside]
How do old, poor people go to college on the cheap?
Are there any programs that send Welfare moms to college? What sort of loans should I look for if I want to do it on my own? [more inside]
Are there any good molded salad recipes?
I want to make a molded salad for a Eurovision event, as it seems like the perfect '70s thing to do. However, every one I find in cookery books makes me feel unwell and looks rather complicated for such an unappealing food. Suggestions? (Snowflake food issues inside!) [more inside]
posted by lesbiassparrow at 8:33 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by lesbiassparrow at 8:33 AM PST - 9 comments
Making my (WordPress) blog more efficient
Making my (WordPress) blog more efficient [more inside]
Changed my major and now I'm struggling, can I do this?
I'm a junior in college and I want to change my major which means I'd have to stay an extra 1 - 2 years. I just finished a bad semester and now I feel more discouraged than ever. Please help. [more inside]
posted by nakedandalone at 8:28 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by nakedandalone at 8:28 AM PST - 28 comments
My ladyparts are the wrong shape and size, help please.
NSFW question about my (female) sexual anatomy. [more inside]
Mortgage with no credit
According to the loan officers and mortgage brokers I've talked to, I have no credit score at all. (When I try to use the free credit report sites, I get similar results.) Is there any way for me to get a mortgage right now, or am I wasting time looking? [more inside]
Can you recommend a non-sweet lozenge/hard candy?
Can you recommend a non-sweet lozenge/hard candy? [more inside]
internet productivity for dummies
I'm trying to install some web-blocking functions on both Internet Explorer and Mozilla, but can't seem to get what I want. I'm blocking IE through restricting the content directly on the Options tabs, and using Leechblock for Mozilla. So talk to me like I'm stupid ... what I want to do, simply, is block all .com domains, except for 2 or 3 specific sites. Why can't I figure out how to do this?
Mention why you want the job in the cover letter or not?
I've seen conflicting websites on whether cover letters should include why you want the job. It seems to be that US letters do not want you to, while British?/Australian? do? I'm from Australia, so any advice specific to this region would be great, however I am thinking of working overseas in the next 2 years or so, so all international responses also welcome. Thanks.
Flying solo in Austin for the weekend
What to do in Austin over Memorial Day weekend while my husband is out of town? [more inside]
We seem to be made to suffer. It's our lot in life. -- friend based tech support
Repairing friend's laptop(s). Will be nuking from space. Which Windows OS version to install? Also, failing wifi on second laptop. *sigh* [more inside]
posted by jadepearl at 7:58 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by jadepearl at 7:58 AM PST - 14 comments
The taste of yesteryear
What foodstuffs taste the same today as they did millenia ago? [more inside]
How to tell work contacts I don't want them at my wedding?
[WeddingFilter] Getting married, and I'm in the guest-list home stretch, with a hard limit of 150 guests. I work at a job where I am highly encouraged to do networking from my personal Facebook account. I made the mistake of announcing my engagement there by changing my relationship status. Now everyone expects to come! What do I do? And how do I avoid offending them? [more inside]
posted by corb at 7:25 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by corb at 7:25 AM PST - 31 comments
Tips on moving to Germany
I will be moving from Canada to Germany later this year, and would like to gain from your collective experience. Do you have any tips on making a long-distance, semi-permanent move, or things that you wished you'd known ahead of time? [more inside]
posted by frimble at 7:12 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by frimble at 7:12 AM PST - 14 comments
I may be a $5 n00b, but at least my user number is below 20K
I'm curious about the hidden hierarchies and pecking orders that exist in the world around us. Can you give the inside scoop about who outranks whom? Examples within. [more inside]
Are these things related?
I have a lot of trouble with spatial relations, am clumsy, find fine motor skills difficult, and have some bodily asymmetries. Are these related and is there anything I can do about it? [more inside]
Trying to recover from a bad RAID rebuild
I have a NAS appliance that crashed last weekend. The IT guys apparently / maybe didn't recover it in the right way? There's about 50,000 directories in a "lost+found" directory each with a numeric name like "#4289756". It looks as if all the missing files are within these directories, each with the original date and owner information (Linux). I need to organize them so they are findable to the staff. [more inside]
posted by nedpwolf at 6:42 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by nedpwolf at 6:42 AM PST - 6 comments
Detroit vs. Cleveland
Detroit vs. Cleveland -- without a car [more inside]
posted by bluelight at 6:33 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by bluelight at 6:33 AM PST - 10 comments
How can I fight isolation and help a Sighted spouse understand what I go through as a Blind person?
Summer was a wonderful time of year filled with swimming, playing outdoors. Lately, though, summer has become just a big reminder of my visual impairment. Feelings of inadequacy and not being understood by my spouse-- what do I do? (Asking for a friend.) [more inside]
How can we avoid not getting our car repo'd?
I have managed to bungle my bil's car loan, and I fear it will be repossessed. Can someone give me some advice? YANAL, YANML, this is not legal advice, etc, etc. [more inside]
one stone, one or two birds?
I have two very different and unique opportunities during the summer, and I don't know how to choose between the two. Help! [more inside]
Pretty fed up with these sore heels
Has anybody had any experiences, good or bad, with autologous blood injection to treat insertional Achilles tendinopathy? It was raised as a possible option by a locum standing in for my usual GP and I'm interested in finding out more about it.
How do I understand and cope with my love leaving me?
How do I understand and cope with my love leaving me? [more inside]
Optimum intervals for spaced repetitions. I remember, I remember, I forget.
The science of learning: my Google Scholar-fu is failing me. Do we know the optimum intervals for super-effective spaced repetition learning? [more inside]
posted by fakelvis at 2:53 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by fakelvis at 2:53 AM PST - 9 comments
Seeing a guy who is moving at the end of summer. Had sex on first date. Should I continue things or terminate entirely?
The quick and dirty: I'm seeing a guy. We slept on the first date, he brought up dating exclusively and we were both in earnest, mutual agreement that neither of us were looking for a FWB type of deal. Caveat: He's moving at the end of the summer. How best to proceed? Details behind the cut to fill in the blanks... [more inside]
posted by chloe.gelsomino at 2:50 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by chloe.gelsomino at 2:50 AM PST - 22 comments
What kind of coat should I buy for bike commuting in spring weather?
What kind of coat should I buy for bike commuting in spring weather? (male fashion) [more inside]
Square Meal: Blandest Foods?
What can I eat that's bland as hell and healthy as hell? [more inside]
Help me keep my focus for at least the next 8 days
So much is going wrong, I'm having a hell of a time coping. Huge deadline looming and I need help coping/repressing all this stress for at least a week. [more inside]
posted by Beacon Inbound at 12:53 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Beacon Inbound at 12:53 AM PST - 12 comments
May 23
How do I handle the salary question when you're on the other side of the table?
There's been a lot of talk on the green about handling the salary question when you are the interviewee/candidate, which I have personally found helpful on many occasions, but now I'm on the other side of the equation, and would love to hear best practices on how to handle the situation and try to gauge a potential employee's salary expectations. [more inside]
posted by LongDrive at 11:05 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by LongDrive at 11:05 PM PST - 8 comments
Confused about concepts in new design terminology
Help me make sense of the conflicting or incomplete information on the web regarding User Experience, UX, User Experience Design and its relationship to physical products not connected to the internet or having electronic parts. [more inside]
posted by infini at 10:57 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by infini at 10:57 PM PST - 10 comments
I can't walk straight or hear over the ringing.
I've been experiencing some troubling symptoms with increasing frequency and severity, namely vertigo and tinnitus. They're affecting daily life to such an extent that I know something needs to be done. What kind of doctor should I visit, and can these symptoms be alleviated in the meantime? [more inside]
1 month before work starts: what to do?
I'm starting work soon, any ideas on how I could best spend my time before it starts in one month? This is my second fulltime job since I finished my degree last year, and I'd be far away from home this time.
Just wondered if there are worthwhile things to do in this not so short, but not so long period of time. [more inside]
How should a single, mid-twenties guy new to the Bay Area spend his long weekend?
How should a single, mid-twenties guy new to the Bay Area spend his long weekend? [more inside]
My dogs aren't catching on to pottytraining.
What am I doing wrong in potty training my three dogs? [more inside]
Who scratches words into vinyl records?
Who the heck is it who scratches words into the centers of vinyl LP's? [more inside]
posted by facetious at 9:17 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by facetious at 9:17 PM PST - 12 comments
Help me get my fat cat slim (again).
I got my cat back! Yay! But he's fat again... boo! I'm concerned that putting him on a diet again will do him damage. [more inside]
Sign up to bring cookies on Wordpress?
I'd like to create a sign-up form on my Wordpress site where when someone signs up for a task then that task disappears from the list of options. Possible? [more inside]
rent
How much notice does an NYC landlord have to give before raising rent? [more inside]
"That's one small step for a baby ..."
I'm throwing yet another party (baby shower). The theme is outer space. GO! [more inside]
posted by Eyebrows McGee at 8:29 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Eyebrows McGee at 8:29 PM PST - 11 comments
Help save my thumbs! I need a texting alternative
How can I text without typing on an iPhone? Is there a way to get voice translations right into a text without cutting and pasting on a 3Gs? [more inside]
Anyone know a good men's blog or community?
Can you recommend a good men's blog or community? [more inside]
Getting Cable -- You'd think Free=Good? No.
I'd like to sign up for cable and internet at my new house that I just bought. One problem: the previous owner is out of the country and he has yet to disconnect his service. How can I get (in this case Comcast) to allow me to start a new account at my house?
posted by sandmanwv at 7:14 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by sandmanwv at 7:14 PM PST - 12 comments
Five steps forward, Twenty Steps Back?
My roommate has an eating disorder. I USED to have an eating disorder until I moved in, and I cannot move out. Help me survive three more weeks without relapsing? [more inside]
posted by Ashen at 7:05 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Ashen at 7:05 PM PST - 20 comments
Advice and suggestions wanted for a single mother: working, in college, not sleeping, and the hours (and stress) of this are about to blow up in my face. I may implode unless there is some kind of change.
Advice and suggestions wanted for a single mother: working, in college, not sleeping, and the hours (and stress) of this are about to blow up in my face. I may implode unless there is some kind of change. [more inside]
What are the best ways for a cinephile like me to find communities of those similarly interested in film?
What are the best ways for a cinephile like me to find communities of those similarly interested in film? [more inside]
posted by dr handsome at 6:25 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by dr handsome at 6:25 PM PST - 3 comments
want to be more tolerate of different opinions, want to be calmer and more realitstic
how to you embrace different or opposite opinions from yours, instead of being offended or upset or pressured by it? [more inside]
Help my toddler's constipation
Our daughter frequently suffers from constipation. It's her two year doctor visit in a couple of days. Looking for anecdotes and experiences from anyone with a toddler with a similar history that we can raise with the doctor. [more inside]
posted by NailsTheCat at 6:10 PM PST - 37 comments
posted by NailsTheCat at 6:10 PM PST - 37 comments
Flu-like symptoms after thyroidectomy -- is this normal?
Flu-like symptoms after thyroidectomy, and my brain is too fogged to sort them out... [more inside]
improving employee culture
how to improve employee culture [more inside]
Can we get out of attending this expensive wedding?
Can we bail from this wedding? It's happening in 17 days. [more inside]
gynecology advice (oh yeah this is staying anonymous)
Going to the gynecologist tomorrow: What to ask/test for and should I use my insurance? [more inside]
Why is Blogger messing up my formatting?
Why is Blogger messing up my formatting? [more inside]
Internet top news stories aggregator.
Is there a news site that collects the "top news stories" from various news sites into a single site? [more inside]
posted by zardoz at 4:54 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by zardoz at 4:54 PM PST - 15 comments
Podcast Listening 101
In need of PODCAST 101 - How and where to get them, best podcasts for entertainment value, cheap and/or free and something I'm able to upload onto my NON-IPOD player. [more inside]
How can I, a dropout, get academic counseling at CSULB?
CSULB insiders - help this dropout get academic counseling at CSU Long Beach... [more inside]
posted by snoe at 4:43 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by snoe at 4:43 PM PST - 7 comments
Cough drops with non-stick wrappers for warm climates
Looking for wrapped cough drops that don't turn into sticky messes in the summer. [more inside]
posted by exogenous at 4:40 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by exogenous at 4:40 PM PST - 9 comments
chocolate sauce uses
My neighbors gave me a jar of homemade chocolate / fudge sauce for my birthday. (Good neighbors aren't they?) I need ideas on how to use it. [more inside]
posted by mightshould at 3:55 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by mightshould at 3:55 PM PST - 21 comments
Cellphone options for senior travelers in London
The recently-retired senior generation of my family is traveling from US to London in October. They are arriving separately and splitting up for a couple of different side trips, and want to be able to stay in touch by cell phone. What are the easiest, cheapest options for cell phones that they can purchase ahead of time? [more inside]
posted by kimdog at 3:08 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by kimdog at 3:08 PM PST - 6 comments
What should I know about Vermont living?
What should I know about living in Vermont? [more inside]
posted by firei at 3:06 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by firei at 3:06 PM PST - 20 comments
Is there a printer that can make complete lenticular prints?
Is there a consumer printer which can make 3d lenticular prints from 3d photos? [more inside]
Smart TV: which is the best/ most hackable as of today?
What Smart TV set (Samsung,Philips,YouNameIt) to buy? Bonus firmware and software hack (legal) link inside. [more inside]
Spider print, spider print, someone hook me up with this spider print
This is a painting by Michael Sowa. I desperately want a print of it for the guest bedroom. Is it available for purchase anywhere? [more inside]
We bought a home! Now what?
I have finally decided on a career path, but am scared of the prospects described online in forums.
I have finally decided on a career path, but am scared of the prospects described online in forums. [more inside]
Dealing with Liver Soreness
Possible Liver problems (abdominal soreness/pain). Trying to figure out what it is and how best to deal with it. [more inside]
posted by wanderingchord at 2:18 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by wanderingchord at 2:18 PM PST - 11 comments
How low is this airplane?
Can someone explain this picture to me? It's a Google Earth shot of Russell Square in London. It aslo features an apparently low-flying airplane. It can't be as low as it looks, can it?
Atypical Vegas wedding Elvii?
Looking for recommendation for an atypical Elvis for Vegas wedding? [more inside]
Save my armpit from becoming swiss cheese!
I know I'm asking the impossible, and can't believe I'm actually asking this, but I'm at my wits end. How can I train my cat not to knead me to death? [more inside]
What can I do with my blood test data?
How can I make the most of the blood test results I have just received? [more inside]
posted by jefficator at 1:42 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by jefficator at 1:42 PM PST - 9 comments
help queer my summer reading list please!
What are some great (somewhat) recently released novels/books/memoirs with queer/LGBTQ themes or characters? [more inside]
posted by kylej at 1:39 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by kylej at 1:39 PM PST - 31 comments
How do I get the most out of my co-op job?
Programmers and other IT folks: what advice can you give a programmer co-op student to help her get the most out of this summer job experience? [more inside]
Need formula for APR with long/short odd days.
Need formula for APR with long/short odd days. [more inside]
10 ccs of life goals, STAT
What type of doctor should my friend become? Emergency Medicine or Endocrinology? (Snowflake details inside) [more inside]
posted by Wretch729 at 1:12 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Wretch729 at 1:12 PM PST - 8 comments
This fancy new stuff just confuses me
It's finally time to build a new PC. Help me decide on some specifics. [more inside]
posted by wierdo at 12:56 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by wierdo at 12:56 PM PST - 7 comments
Where to find full recordings of FDR fireside chats?
Where can I download FDR's 'fireside' weekly radio addresses? [more inside]
What is the ultimate mashup of science and belief/religion?
I'm looking for a book that is essentially a mashup of behavioral economics, social psychology, neuroscience, wisdom/bible literature, and mythology. [more inside]
Controlling the MacBook heat in LA
MacBook heatsink repair tech needed in Los Angeles - Recommendations? [more inside]
posted by chambers at 12:03 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by chambers at 12:03 PM PST - 6 comments
In Responding to Someone Being Difficult, Where is Line Between "Assertive" and "Jerk"
In Responding to Someone Being Difficult, Where is Line Between "Assertive" and "Jerk"? [more inside]
posted by Jon44 at 12:03 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Jon44 at 12:03 PM PST - 24 comments
Find this prose monument to metaphorical excess.
Can you help me re-locate a passage full of purple prose? [more inside]
posted by xenization at 12:03 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by xenization at 12:03 PM PST - 7 comments
There's a freeway running through the yard
I could use a reality check, before we get any deeper into planning. Can we buy a house/condo in a livable neighborhood in Los Angeles for $400K or under? Is this doable or do I need to remove my rose-colored glasses? And if it is doable, which neighborhoods should we be looking at? [more inside]
I just want to be myself again. I need to clean up the mess of the last few months.
Birth control filter : BC linked to risky/daring behavior? [more inside]
posted by xicana63 at 11:31 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by xicana63 at 11:31 AM PST - 9 comments
Please help translate this line (Spanish to English)
I'm in the process of translating a play, and am having a killer time with the second half of one line. I'm assuming it's because the language is artistic. Apologies for not including accent marks (can't figure out how to do them on my keyboard). [more inside]
How can I develop a more stable, internally based sense of self-worth? Or how to stop feeling insecure?
How can I develop a more stable, internally based sense of self-worth? Or how to stop feeling insecure? [more inside]
posted by jumelle at 11:18 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by jumelle at 11:18 AM PST - 11 comments
Advice for teaching English in Germany?
I'm getting my CELTA in July in Germany, and I'd like to teach English there afterwards. Help me be a good applicant for teaching jobs and an attractive tutor for freelance work! [more inside]
posted by edguardo at 11:04 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by edguardo at 11:04 AM PST - 4 comments
I have a tricky situation involving a past acquaintance that I'd like to get some opinions on
I have a tricky situation involving a past acquaintance that I'd like to get some opinions on. [more inside]
Arab Spring for beginners
Help me understand the Arab Spring. [more inside]
How to clean wood before restoration
What is the best way to clean wood furniture BEFORE applying the Tung Oil? [more inside]
There's no place like localhost... please help me get back there...
Just installed Apache on a new machine, and now any calls to localhost goes to one of my VirtualServers instead of the docroot. Help! [more inside]
posted by sodium lights the horizon at 10:12 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by sodium lights the horizon at 10:12 AM PST - 3 comments
Where in the world is Carmen SanDiego?
What should we do in the Catskills?
What is there to do in the Catskills, particularly near Boiceville/Phoenicia/Haines Falls/anywhere else in Ulster County? [more inside]
Aoutomated check systems endorsement query
When check deposits are processing internally, instead of being physically deposited at the bank, what are the endorsement requirements? Do they always need to have an endorsement stamp? Is there a requirement for the OCR processing to print coding info on each check? [more inside]
weird indescribable medical condition
You are not my doctor, but I have an intermittent neurological(?) condition that is very hard to describe, and I’d like to get some responses so that I can better describe what I’m feeling to a doctor. [more inside]
posted by anonymous_account at 9:13 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by anonymous_account at 9:13 AM PST - 18 comments
There's more TV options than channels...
All I want is a TV... why are there so many choices? I'm moving to a studio in a week (YAY!) and don't own a TV. I've gone browsing a couple times recently, and am so overwhelmed by the options and price differences that I just don't know where to start, or even the price range I should be looking at (cheaper the better, but how cheap is too cheap?). How can I sort through all the info and find the right TV for me? [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 9:12 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 9:12 AM PST - 22 comments
Know any trailers that spoil the film?
Speculation abound that the new Dark Knight Rises trailer actually contains plot spoilers. Can anyone think of other movie trailers that actually give away the movie ending? Clearly this doesn't apply to movies that were books first.
posted by msali at 9:07 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by msali at 9:07 AM PST - 25 comments
How do I start an ebook publisher?
I'd like to start an ebook publisher. Do I need to incorporate? Is there some other official...designation...I should be seeking? [more inside]
posted by mekanic at 8:36 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by mekanic at 8:36 AM PST - 6 comments
How do you make design decisions in a team with a flat hierarchy?
How do you make design decisions in a team with a flat hierarchy? [more inside]
Entertaining your folks in Portland, Oregon!
How should I entertain my midwestern mother as she visits me in Portland for the first time? [more inside]
Need source for "When not to cut" quote?
I need a reputable source for the surgical maxim that suggests that a good surgeon knows when not to cut. [more inside]
Unlovable and unworthy
How do you cope with feeling unlovable? What do you do (or undo) to feel lovable? [more inside]
posted by 3491again at 8:07 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by 3491again at 8:07 AM PST - 15 comments
Biochemistry major to aerospace engineer: is this possible?
Recent biochemistry graduate wants to change direction and pursue engineering, specifically aerospace (but I'd settle for mechanical) engineering. Is this possible? And if so, how the heck do I plan to get from here to there, hopefully without bankrupting myself? I'll take any advice I can get. [more inside]
posted by escapist53211 at 7:52 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by escapist53211 at 7:52 AM PST - 4 comments
A Painful Triangle
How to handle my husband's "friendship" with a woman half his age? I am upset about it, and he refuses to give it up. Snowflake details inside: [more inside]
posted by chaoscutie at 7:42 AM PST - 53 comments
posted by chaoscutie at 7:42 AM PST - 53 comments
Summer Vacation Filter: Pagosa Springs Edition!
Summer Vacation Filter: Pagosa Springs Edition! BF and I will be staying in Pagosa Springs during the first full week of June and have never been to the area before. Any tips or recommendations for activities to make our trip great? [more inside]
posted by PaulaSchultz at 7:34 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by PaulaSchultz at 7:34 AM PST - 9 comments
Do Family Members Have ANY Moral or Other Obligation to Help Send Family Members to College?
What's a realistic expectation for family financial support for my kid going to college as it specifically applies to cosigning loans along with me? [more inside]
posted by kinetic at 7:33 AM PST - 49 comments
posted by kinetic at 7:33 AM PST - 49 comments
alternative to or experiences with canine thoracotomy?
My dog (obligatory pictures) has a mass in his lung. The vet specialist explains that it could be an abscess, tumor, or lung lobe torsion, but regardless of which it is, it'll have to come out. His usual vet agrees. I trust the veterinarians, and I'll schedule surgery soon. Two questions: any alternatives I should consider? And have you had experience with small dog thoracotomy? [more inside]
How does the Buddhist understanding of enlightenment compare with the Western Age of Enlightenment?
How does the Buddhist understanding of enlightenment compare with the Western Age of Enlightenment? People who we might now call children of the Enlightenment--Chomsky, Hitchens, Dawkins, deGrasse Tyson, Pinker, and so on--have a way of relating to ethical questions that is very similar to the teachings of the Buddha. There is an understanding that human suffering is a problem to be overcome, and that it can be overcome through understanding things as they are and engaging productively in the physical world, rather than getting caught up in metaphysical abstractions which, stemming from delusion, greed, and aversion, prolong cycles of suffering. [more inside]
Help Me Watch TV AND Work from Home
Please recommend a monitor that will double as a TV, or a TV that will double as a monitor. [more inside]
Is it my arthritis or doctor insanity?
YANAD - On tonight's episode - Back Pain, specialist claims it's osteoarthritis, but I am 37 and have absolutely zero history in my family (even extended) is he wrong? What else could it be? Minor snowstorm inside. [more inside]
posted by UMDirector at 6:46 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by UMDirector at 6:46 AM PST - 10 comments
Can I water my lawn this way?
A question about the lifting capacity of sponges, gravity, pvc tubing and whether my lawn can be irrigated. [more inside]
posted by otto42 at 6:43 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by otto42 at 6:43 AM PST - 9 comments
Starting therapy... for three months?
Starting therapy... where to look? And the catch... I'm only here for the summer? Then what? More inside. [more inside]
Can unclaimed assets be legit if they don't show up in a state-run site?
I received a letter from a shady-sounding Legal Claimant Services, a 'division of Keane' claiming that my recently-deceased father has some assets in a Georgia bank. Of course, for a fee, they would help me recover the assets. Immediately, I performed an unclaimed property search in Georgia; the search yielded no results. Since I didn't see any unclaimed property in Georgia, I disregarded the letter... [more inside]
Wordpress Twitter Tools replacement
I've been using Twitter Tools on my Wordpress blog for a while now but it's not working the way I want. I tried using the newer beta version but that doesn't actually work at all. There's like a million Twitter-related plugins for Wordpress but which one(s) does what I want? Details within. [more inside]
posted by tommasz at 6:17 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by tommasz at 6:17 AM PST - 6 comments
Do cars really go 10,000 miles between oil changes these days?
We bought our first new car of the millennium back in March, and it came with free oil changes for life. Since it hit 5000 miles this week, my wife stopped by the dealership for an oil change / tire rotation. They are telling her that the car (2011 Corolla) only needs an oil change every 10,000 miles because they are using synthetic oil.
I religiously change the oil in my cars every 5000 miles, and the idea of going 10,000 miles makes me nervous. Should it make me nervous?
Cut the big blue marble in half...
What would happen to the earth's rotation, orbit, etc. if the planet were half as large, diameter-wise, as it is now? [more inside]
Finding a roommate: beyond Craigslist edition
Where/how to find a good roommate? [more inside]
posted by catatethebird at 5:21 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by catatethebird at 5:21 AM PST - 10 comments
How should I deal with team friction?
There is friction building within a team. Is it time to shuffle the team? [more inside]
Summer Activities for College Student
What are some ways a guy who just finished his first year of college and is home in New York City for the "summer" ("summer" = 3 months + 10 days) might expand his social life? [more inside]
Who knows what I did last summer?
How can I do a thorough background check on myself? What can be found out about me, by fair means or foul, for free and for a price? [more inside]
Help me discover how accurate iTunes Top 25 is and/or how to make it more on point
How accurate is iTunes Top 25 most played and can I make it any moreso? [more inside]
Help me make the most out of my Android Tablet
Help me make the most out of my Android Tablet [more inside]
posted by Cogentesque at 4:24 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Cogentesque at 4:24 AM PST - 8 comments
Online ivory tinkling.
Direct me to the best online piano lessons for someone who already has decent theory knowledge! [more inside]
How were car emblems designed?
My focus is mainly on the chrome badges that labeled models of the 1940s–’70s, as celebrated at Chromeography.
Who was generally responsible for designing the emblem? Were they from inside the car company? Did they have lettering experience or were they more often car designers who were handed the job because there was no one better available? Has the situation changed much since then? [more inside]
posted by Typographica at 2:39 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by Typographica at 2:39 AM PST - 1 comment
Shut (me) up, put (me) down
My boyfriend of two years feels compelled to put me down, in not-so-friendly ways, for the negative tendencies he sees in me. [more inside]
posted by Aleatoire at 12:10 AM PST - 73 comments
posted by Aleatoire at 12:10 AM PST - 73 comments
May 22
Design us a wonder of the world honeymoon!
HONEYMOON FILTER - are we crazy for considering this?
Help us plan the best honeymoon ever!
My fiance and I are from Australia. We are getting married in the end of October in Singapore, and we are planning for a November honeymoon. We have about 4 weeks to play with and are planning the trip of a lifetime, with some luck, and the help of the wisdom of the pleasant Mefite people. [more inside]
posted by shazzam! at 10:55 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by shazzam! at 10:55 PM PST - 11 comments
Misanthropic comedians who are women?
Looking for absurdist and/or misanthropic comediennes in the vein of Eddie Izzard, Dylan Moran, Lewis Black, etc.? [more inside]
posted by jyorraku at 10:46 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by jyorraku at 10:46 PM PST - 23 comments
Trying to simmer down now.
What do you wish you had done just before you moved in with your SO? Pretty SFW. [more inside]
posted by OompaLoompa at 10:34 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by OompaLoompa at 10:34 PM PST - 13 comments
Anxiety on the run...
I have anxiety. I've recently started running. While I'm running, I have occasional anxiety spikes, some of which get close to panic attack territory. Help? [more inside]
Me talk pretty one day?
My informal English is boring! I'd like to make it more interesting by incorporating new and/or local (to Philadelphia) linguistic features to it. [more inside]
posted by Deathalicious at 8:33 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Deathalicious at 8:33 PM PST - 18 comments
Make my meals less boring!
Need healthy food ideas with some specific criteria (food allergies, veg-aquarium). I've looked at all the other questions around this, and for one reason or another, they don't meet my needs. (Special snowflake, party of me!) [more inside]
Yoga in the beach - recommendations and tips please.
Yoga on the beach: looking for routines/workouts to follow... And any tips/tricks. [more inside]
I don't even remember what my periods were like in 2004, man.
What was it like for you to quit hormonal birth control after using it for a long time - let's say 5 or more years? [more inside]
I'll Give You Money to Give Me Motivation
Is there an online service that helps you stay motivated by charging you money if you fail to perform a verifiable action? [more inside]
apartment hunting in SF during boom times
We're trying to find an apartment to rent in SF (1-2br in the Mission or Noe Valley) and it's difficult. Competition is intense (20+ candidates showing up to see a open houses). What kind of things can we do to stand out from the crowd during the entire process?
Sayōnara, Willkommen
Moving from Japan to Germany. Recommend a moving company? I read the suggestions in a 2006 AskMeFi post, but since it's several years old, I thought I'd ask again.
Lopressor?
My doctor prescribed Lopressor in place of an anti anxiety medication. Should I get a second opinion? [more inside]
Tantric sex for dummies?
Is tantric sex as awesome as they say? Any resources for a beginner couple? [more inside]
How to decide what to do after college
I will be a senior in college next year. Up until recently, I was absolutely positive I wanted to go to grad school and become an archaeologist. Now, I'm second doubting myself (teal deer information inside) [more inside]
posted by raeka at 6:22 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by raeka at 6:22 PM PST - 26 comments
Waterproof shoes...sweaty feet.
Waterproof shoes...sweaty feet. [more inside]
Bible passages for a wedding?
Ideas for a wedding Bible reading that isn't 1st Corinthians 13? [more inside]
posted by Pallas Athena at 6:13 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Pallas Athena at 6:13 PM PST - 16 comments
help stretch thy knee and hammy?
Need help stretching knee/hamstring?
Tight knee is causing more and more pain in my leg (heel and rest of leg)... i'm fine once i warm up for a while, but need help stretching knee and my hammy [more inside]
tell me about HIM
Tell me about job prospects in Health Information Management. [more inside]
Standout cultural memberships in NYC
Which museums, venues & institutions in New York City have the most rewarding membership programs? [more inside]
LET'S DO IT AT ONE SPEED
Hey, single-speed / fixed-gear bike conversion experts! Help me buy the right stuff from the right place at the right price! [more inside]
Irish roots of Cardinal Dolan?
An elderly relative (married to a "Dolan") is very eager to find out if her husband might be somehow related to Cardinal Timothy Dolan - even if he's just from the same county (Galway.)
I've scoured the internet but could find nothing about the Cardinal's Irish lineage in the Auld Sod.
At one point Dolan had said he had done some personal research but was "so embarrassed" by what he found he stopped looking.
God knows what that means...possible Republican history?
i said tuck.
have you ever used amazon mechanical turk to transcribe voice recordings? [more inside]
I'm thinking of a number....
Yet another Episode of "Help Me Remember This Book: Science Fiction Edition." [more inside]
posted by Gygesringtone at 4:30 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Gygesringtone at 4:30 PM PST - 2 comments
This may or may not, in fact, be a book.
Name that book! [more inside]
Buying guitars: is it normal to get the one you see and play in the shop?
Buying guitars: is it normal to get the one you see and play in the shop? [more inside]
Using Google Talk Android App through Web Browser on PC
Is there a way to use the Google Talk Android App via a web browser on my PC? [more inside]
It took me three tries to ask this question successfully
How does Clear stack up against Verizon DSL? [more inside]
posted by General Malaise at 3:40 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by General Malaise at 3:40 PM PST - 8 comments
the name behind the funny faces
Artist filter: Who illustrated these funny face packs? A friend of mine is desperate to find the name of the artist, and other works by him or her.
posted by DaveZ at 3:24 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by DaveZ at 3:24 PM PST - 9 comments
What's a good wireless solution for uploading photos from a DSLR on the fly?
I've got a Canon 5D, an iPhone, and an iPad. What's a good on-the-go solution for uploading photos while bike touring? [more inside]
posted by mathowie at 3:15 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by mathowie at 3:15 PM PST - 10 comments
Being an airbnb host?
I'm thinking about becoming an airbnb host. Have you done this (or are you an experienced guest)? Is this a good idea, and do you have suggestions on how to make this more fun and profitable? [more inside]
posted by lunasol at 2:48 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by lunasol at 2:48 PM PST - 14 comments
Coping strategies and help from-a-distance for a small family stretched thin by a few curveballs?
What can I do from afar for a bedridden SAHM of an 18mo, and in general for their stressed-out family? Looking for anything and everything---advice, care basket ideas, childcare options, cleaning services, etc.---in the Echo Park/Silverlake/Los Feliz area of Los Angeles. [more inside]
Help a large group dine in New Orleans' French Quarter!
I'm organizing a group trip to New Orleans in June. There will be 12-13 of us and I'm trying to find a Friday-night casual restaurant and a Sunday brunch spot in the French Quarter that will take reservations for such a large group. (French Quarter preferred as it's near the hotel and some folks have walking issues, but we can possibly branch out with cabs, etc.) [more inside]
Venture funding
Getting funding from VC [more inside]
This would be easier if I read Italian.
Italy Travel Filter: How do we get from Bologna to Codroipo by train? Added bonus: how do we then get from Codroipo to the Marco Polo airport? [more inside]
Which motorcycle is in this music video?
Can anyone identify the motorcycle at the very beginning of Lana Del Ray's "Video Games?" It appears from approximately 0:05-0:10. Also, are there mainstream models that resemble that particular make and model??
posted by geoff. at 1:35 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by geoff. at 1:35 PM PST - 5 comments
Moving to California... But, where?
Moving to California in a few months. Central Coast, maybe? Any ideas, opinions, etc? See explanation... [more inside]
posted by thewalrusispaul at 1:13 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by thewalrusispaul at 1:13 PM PST - 17 comments
Moving the dough from here to there
What is a cheap yet secure way to send money from Canada to the US on a regular basis? [more inside]
posted by yawper at 12:54 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by yawper at 12:54 PM PST - 15 comments
Help me save the memories...
Any way to salvage pictures off of a wet iphone? [more inside]
posted by pearlybob at 12:51 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by pearlybob at 12:51 PM PST - 15 comments
Help an semi-autodidact learn to be a multidiscipline participant-observer
I’m currently working on my masters in an Industrial/Occupational Psychology program. My main topic of interest will be differences in national, social, and organizational cultures. What sort of anthropological or ethnological resources or books can you recommend regarding learning how to be good participant-observer and the techniques to do so?
I’m already familiar with the works on culture from researchers such as Geert Hofestede, Edward Hall, and Fons Trompenaars.
If there are any other recommendations regarding relevant resources or texts in related fields that my compliment my studies, please let me know. My interests lie in psychology, sociology, and politics which I believe are applicable.
Thanks in advance!
How to build a perennial garden from the ground up?
Talk to me about building a perennial garden from the ground up. I'm a fairly new gardener, and have recently bought a number of plants online. This worked well, because we have a small but complicated garden layout (in terms of sun/shade/water) and I can figure out specifics without getting overwhelmed. I also enjoy being present in a nursery to see the plants in person, but the good places are a fairly long drive away and weekend crowds can drive me insane.
Given a list of desired plants, how do you go about buying them? What is the most cost effective way of doing this? [more inside]
posted by barnone at 12:20 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by barnone at 12:20 PM PST - 18 comments
Help me help my marriage
My wife of 14 years never tells me she loves me. She never initiates sex. She never holds my hand, kisses or casually touches me. No pillow talk. No thoughtful little gifts. I do all of these things for her as often as I can. [more inside]
An Especially Different Unhappy Family Story
My mentally ill brother may not be doing so well. I'm estranged from the rest of my family. How to address? Wall of sad text within. [more inside]
dating/life in your 30s for nontraditional 30 somethings
How important is age vs life-stage when looking for a partner? I'm 30 but might as well be 25, and I don't know where I should be looking for my next partner. [more inside]
Where to go after the Galapagos Islands?
Help me find a place to travel that is remotely as amazing as The Galapagos Islands. [more inside]
posted by malhouse at 11:42 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by malhouse at 11:42 AM PST - 15 comments
A woodshed of one’s own
Plenty of time to practice music, but no place to do so. Creative solutions wanted! [more inside]
What to do, what to do...
Things to do near Valdosta, GA? [more inside]
Pool vacuum broke. Alternatives?
Long story short but there was a dishonest home seller & realtor and the house we purchased has a pool with leaking skimmer line. No suction for vacuuming. We have a temporary garden hose vacuum for the big stuff. Any idea how I can get the little stuff until this is repaired? [more inside]
Am I being ripped off by my car dealership or are they just idiots?
Dealer says they sold me a stolen car and I have to return it tonight. WTF? [more inside]
RROD soon?
Playing multiplayer Battlefield 3 on the weekend on an Xbox. My Xbox was juttery and slow. Not laggy from a poor internet connection, the problem seemed to originate on the Xbox itself. Animated loading screens were stuttery. Walking in the game felt like traipsing through mud. My only solution was new batteries in the controller, to no avail. Anyone else have a suggestion?
Where are the promising tech hubs in the US outside of Silicon Valley, NYC and Boston?
If you were looking for tech jobs in the US outside of the usual suspect places of California, New York City and Boston area, where would you start looking? I'm trying to find promising tech hubs for software development / digital media jobs with great quality of life outside of the aforementioned places.
A running backpack that DOESN'T move.
I need recommendations for a running backpack that's just big enough for my work clothing and DOES NOT BOUNCE! [more inside]
posted by atomicstone at 10:27 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by atomicstone at 10:27 AM PST - 12 comments
Sweet spots in Detroit
Detroit Filter: Where can I go to see beautiful examples of nature taking over abandonment? Also, interesting places where artists have re-worked the space? Or places were artists have kids. [more inside]
Data on civilian casualties of war?
I am interested in seeing some comparative data on the civilian casualties of warfare, particularly in the 20th and 21st centuries. Are there any great analyses of this topic, perhaps on DVD, YouTube, or illustrated in books with graphs? (I have a hard time envisioning the magnitude of these things when they are presented only as bald numbers.) I started thinking about this topic after watching The Fog of War, which is a documentary about Robert McNamara. He presented some amazing comparative information about World War II and the Cold War. I would love to acquire a similar critical context for other conflicts, including the recent wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.
How to avoid email blocking?
Help! My emails are getting blocked as spam. [more inside]
posted by jabo at 9:43 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by jabo at 9:43 AM PST - 7 comments
No escucho bien.
Foreign language filter: What did you do to improve your listening comprehension in your target language? [more inside]
posted by the foreground at 9:06 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by the foreground at 9:06 AM PST - 30 comments
Has a copy of John James Audubon's The Birds of America ever survived a flood by floating?
Has a copy of John James Audubon's The Birds of America ever survived a flood by floating? [more inside]
posted by feelinglistless at 8:48 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by feelinglistless at 8:48 AM PST - 4 comments
Visiting Iceland in October
I've always wanted to see the Northern Lights, so my boyfriend and I booked a package through IcelandAir for the end of October*. We're spending two nights Reykjavik and two Akureyri. What might we need to know or want to do that a guide book might not mention? With what seems like so much to see in a short amount of time, what's not to be missed? [more inside]
posted by amarynth at 8:44 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by amarynth at 8:44 AM PST - 8 comments
Distorted recordings of live music
How do we fix the problem of an over driven microphone recording live music in bars. [more inside]
posted by txmon at 8:42 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by txmon at 8:42 AM PST - 12 comments
7 Deadly Zins and Twinkies
Next month I'm traveling overseas from the US for the first time. What's the best way of packing the foods and beverages that friends have asked me to bring for them? [more inside]
posted by terrierhead at 8:35 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by terrierhead at 8:35 AM PST - 19 comments
Proper fit for minimalist running shoes?
Minimalist running filter: I normally size up a full size when buying running shoes (8.5 in "street shoes" to 9.5 in running shoes). Should I be doing the same for minimalist running shoes, and do socks matter? [more inside]
posted by ariela at 8:19 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by ariela at 8:19 AM PST - 6 comments
Time for a Rocky montage
Stage IV esophageal cancer, metastasized to liver and lungs. What now? Where in Toronto can one find the most aggressive treatment? [more inside]
Free alternative to Nelson Handwriting Font?
Does anyone know a free alternative to the Nelson Handwriting Font used for teaching children handwriting? [more inside]
Make me more comfortable with biking
You started biking later in life, and you did it in a big city. How did you become comfortable biking on roads with cars? I'm kind of freaked out by this. [more inside]
What's the best way to attach an open Word document to an open Outlook email?
Using Windows Vista at work: Once I finish making changes to a file in Microsoft Word 2007, I want to attach the file to an email in Outlook 2007. Currently, I am opening subfolder after subfolder getting to it either on the desktop or in the attach file dialog in Outlook, but that's annoying. Please advise. [more inside]
posted by Sock Ray Blue at 7:05 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Sock Ray Blue at 7:05 AM PST - 6 comments
TMI
I need to back up my LiveJournal account offline (preferably including comments) and then empty it without actually deleting the account. [more inside]
posted by griphus at 6:20 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by griphus at 6:20 AM PST - 11 comments
mental health will drive you mad
I need mental health insurance. Spouse's might have lapsed from the old job. The new job has crappy insurance. [more inside]
How do you manage not drowning in stuff?
Do you save email? Bigger, philosophical question inside.. [more inside]
posted by bellastarr at 6:05 AM PST - 41 comments
posted by bellastarr at 6:05 AM PST - 41 comments
Is there a basic online DAW that my friend in another city and I can use to collaborate on music?
Is there a basic online DAW that my friend in another city and I can use to collaborate on music? We want to do an album in 24 hours, and we're looking for a site where we can upload parts of audio tracks we are working on and do basic editing on them. [more inside]
Looking for social media buttons with counter
Social buttons for website. I want the HuffPo ones. I can't have them unless we custom build them, sez dev. [more inside]
Girlfriend has a crush but not on me
My girlfriend told me that she has a crush on another guy. Not really sure how to deal with this revelation. [more inside]
What is the best way to get better at disc golf?
I used to play a lot of disc golf 10-15 years ago, but haven't played much at all in the past decade. I recently took it up again, and quite frankly, I stink. I'd like to at least be able to be within a couple strokes of par. Am i better off just playing as many rounds as possible, or should I devote some of my time to just practicing my driving, putting, etc? What else can i do to make myself better at disc golf?
biggish group of design students traveling to Paris suggestions
Paris filter: A group of 17 design students in their early 20s will spend 3 days in Paris next week. The aim of the trip is to visit places related to books: Bibliotheque National, shakespeare bookstore, beaubourg etc.
We're looking for suggestions. [more inside]
posted by buck:fuller at 2:21 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by buck:fuller at 2:21 AM PST - 22 comments
Cheap, safe and in New Delhi- any ideas
Where can a single woman stay in Delhi for a few days that's both cheap and safe? [more inside]
How to petition a college course prerequisite?
My community college requires a basic, high school level Physics course as a prerequisite to any other course in the subject. While I took such classes in high school, I have no proof of this on my transcript.
My only option at this point is to appeal to the head of the department of Science and Mathematics. While I do plan on making as compelling of a case as possible, I've been told that they want to see some kind of proof that a student would succeed in such a class before granting the petition.
Does anyone have any idea what kind of things they might be looking for? What might I be able to do to prove that I know the material and would be able to handle the coursework?
posted by zazzles at 12:21 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by zazzles at 12:21 AM PST - 18 comments
Should I get him anything on Father's Day?
Father's Day - He's got kids, but they're not mine. Should I get him anything? [more inside]
posted by p1nkdaisy at 12:11 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by p1nkdaisy at 12:11 AM PST - 22 comments
May 21
Unique gift from California
I'm looking for unique gifts/souvenirs from California for my sisters and girlfriend (all in their 20s) and for my parents. I'm traveling the length of the state so almost any location would work. I would prefer to spend $50 or less on each gift but I have some flexibility. Local/unique items or something specific to California would be perfect! Food can work but must be nonperishable as I have lots of driving to do.
How does an extreme introvert find a suitable career path?
How does an extreme introvert find a suitable career path? [more inside]
Dog-friendly long weekend trip north of Chicago?
Destinations for memorial day weekend trip north of Chicago with a 75 lb dog? [more inside]
Cat boner-farts
Double-cat-penis-question: About 2 weeks ago my 6-9 month old neutered male cat started humping his favorite stuffed turtle. Now he's humping everything but sometimes farting too and having, um, anal squeezing. Is there a medical issue? Should I have him double-checked for neuterage? This gets a little gross. [more inside]
posted by MonsieurBon at 9:20 PM PST - 163 comments
posted by MonsieurBon at 9:20 PM PST - 163 comments
Salary negotiations for a lateral career move?
What exactly should I say during salary negeotations when I am changing jobs within the same company? [more inside]
Where can I find more music like "What You Feel" from Once More, With Feeling?
I'd like to find more music like the song "What You Feel" from the episode "Once More, With Feeling" from Buffy the Vampire Slayer. [more inside]
pprint-dispatch
Can anyone tell me which institution offered the first computer science degree in Australia and when that was? My Google hand is not working.
posted by mattoxic at 8:18 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by mattoxic at 8:18 PM PST - 3 comments
Is it dangerous to eat ice?
Aside from the dangers to your teeth, is it dangerous to eat ice? [more inside]
posted by princeoftheair at 8:05 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by princeoftheair at 8:05 PM PST - 25 comments
slanting WHAT?
What does the Latin genus name of the Mexican Burrowing Python, "Loxocemus" mean? In particular, what does the "-cemus" part mean? [more inside]
posted by The otter lady at 7:56 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by The otter lady at 7:56 PM PST - 4 comments
Explaining the physics of the motion of falling objects
How would explain and draw the solution to this physics problem re: packages dropped from an airplane (projectile motion/falling objects)? [more inside]
posted by sunnychef88 at 7:30 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by sunnychef88 at 7:30 PM PST - 17 comments
Her plants used to glow.
Plants vs. Zombies Zen Garden iPad filter. My obsessed hoarder mathematician spouse's cherished plants are not happy, and apparently nothing can be done to make them happy, and Crazy Dave will not sell her any new ones. [more inside]
posted by feral_goldfish at 7:25 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by feral_goldfish at 7:25 PM PST - 8 comments
Never produced Technology
What advanced technologies have been developed but shelved due to various concerns? [more inside]
America's Most Wanted is her way of finding eligible bachelors.
My mom was a victim of robbery. I am feeling immense victim-blaming and frustration. How can I alter my attitude and what can I best do to help my mom through this? [more inside]
Family Dynamics
How do I learn to feel safe around my family? [more inside]
help with septic system
Has anyone ever used septic seep to help with their leach field
Help me cope with the idea of a coming separation
We've been together for the past 15 years. My wife recently discovered that she in fact does not love me. It's making me feel very weak - we've started therapy, but i'm looking for ways to cope between sessions, and also come to terms with the fact that we may separate. Long story follows. [more inside]
Documentaries/other media that show logistics of how businesses grow?
Are there any good documentaries, books, or other media that portray the logistics of how businesses go from startup to large company? When I say logistics, I mean everything from finding and leasing real estate to hiring employees to accounting systems to inventory management to computer backup -- all the grittiest of the nitty details of how the large trains are made to run on time, for the first time, by a growing organization? I want to see how the infrastructure is built that makes large organizations work.
What's a good mindset/approach for developing a workout routine?
I'm in okay shape, but fitness and athleticism don't come naturally to me at all. Gyms are weird and stressful. Any advice on the best way to think about and develop a good workout routine? [more inside]
I'm looking for the Peter Hessler of the TCK world.
I am looking for memoirs written by Americans who grew up overseas. [more inside]
posted by kingfishers catch fire at 5:24 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by kingfishers catch fire at 5:24 PM PST - 11 comments
Yes, I know what it rhymes with...
Mr. Sadtomato and I are going Regina, Saskatchewan for just two nights this weekend. Please tell us where to have the best breakfast and the best lunch on Saturday. [more inside]
posted by sadtomato at 5:23 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by sadtomato at 5:23 PM PST - 2 comments
Study wine then baby, baby and wine or baby then wine?
I'm interested in studying all things wine related but what stops me is the desire for a second child sooner than later. How can I study wine while pregnant? Odd question but could use some help in understanding. [more inside]
What diet book would best fit my need?
What diet book would you recommend that includes low cost, pre-made meal plans with shopping lists included? [more inside]
What maintenance tasks should I be doing on my family's Macbooks?
I need to fix up my family's two Macbooks for the first time in three years. What needs to be done? [more inside]
What's a good job match for someone who is strong, courageous and enjoys helping people?
A friend of mine wants to make a career change. Friend is physically fit, courageous, intelligent and enjoys helping people. Can you help me brainstorm some more options? [more inside]
posted by OsoMeaty at 4:44 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by OsoMeaty at 4:44 PM PST - 8 comments
How to handle neighbor's nocturnal emissions (of cigarette smoke)?
Should we ask our new neighbor to lay off smoking in her bedroom, or just do our best to ignore it? [more inside]
posted by sarcasticah at 4:41 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by sarcasticah at 4:41 PM PST - 26 comments
What the heck did I do to my knee?
I injured my knee somehow. I don't know how. I just remember noticing one day that it really hurt. What the heck did I do to it? [more inside]
Movin' on up and out
Moving out of my apartment and I have a few questions on how to handle the last month of rent and the security deposit. [more inside]
How can I convince my wife to come to marriage counselling sessions with me?
I'm trying to convince my wife to attend marriage counselling with me, but I'm having a hard time doing so. Her opinion of marriage counselling (based on what she's read online) is that it's a waste of money and that a marriage counsellor would "only tell us what we already know." When I've pointed out that a marriage counsellor is there to help facilitate communication, her response has been "if we need a facilitator to help us communicate we're fucked anyway."
Reasons for needing counselling + bonus snowflakery inside. Apologies; it turned into a bit of a mind-dumpy wall of text. [more inside]
ERR_EMPTY_RESPONSE
Livejournal is failing me. Help find a replacement? (snowflakes inside) [more inside]
posted by Trexsock at 4:04 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Trexsock at 4:04 PM PST - 13 comments
Why do Big Store foods taste different?
I'll phrase this in a way to avoid legal problems or simple unfairness. I've noticed that certain foods and drinks I buy from The Big Store differ from the same items when I buy them from a Small Store. The items are the same brand with same description on packaging. But they just seem different in how they taste, feel, or spoil. Any insights on how and why this happens? [more inside]
posted by ErikH2000 at 3:57 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by ErikH2000 at 3:57 PM PST - 18 comments
Love our kitties, need a vet
Park Rose area of Portland. 2 cats, we are new to the city need a vet we can trust and who likes kitties, any success stories?
Is my plastic money good enough for them?
Am I going to be stranded in Denmark by my American credit cards?! [more inside]
posted by Andrhia at 3:04 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by Andrhia at 3:04 PM PST - 27 comments
Your goose is cooked son
PlotFilter: I'm researching heat waves in the 1970s (with the sweet spot being between 1972-1976) that would have led to fatalities in the Washington, DC area. [more inside]
posted by ilikecookies at 3:00 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ilikecookies at 3:00 PM PST - 8 comments
Make me a cache money millionaire!
Help me set up a simple 100% caching forward proxy for my home. I dicked around with squid and then apache+mod_proxy/mod_cache yesterday afternoon, and while they proxy beautifully, they don't seem to have much cache hit even on static content- almost or completely 0% cache hit. [more inside]
Moving is very moving, in a bad way
Husband has taken his dream job which requires us to move back to Louisiana. I was initially enthusiastic about the move which would also put me back in my office. But, now I'm getting discouraged and concerned that we're moving a third world country and our toddler and new baby on the way will suffer. Help me get some perspective. [more inside]
posted by Leezie at 2:48 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Leezie at 2:48 PM PST - 17 comments
Help! My flat stinks of cat pee! The UK edition.
What can I do to clean up cat piss and stop a tom from coming in and spraying? Tell me about products you can buy in the UK which work. [more inside]
posted by Helga-woo at 2:44 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Helga-woo at 2:44 PM PST - 8 comments
WTF FdjLmAi.exe
Anyone have an idea what FdjLmAi.exe is? [more inside]
posted by edgeways at 2:16 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by edgeways at 2:16 PM PST - 9 comments
Buying a minivan....
Looking to buy a used minivan and need recommendations and resource suggestions. If anyone reading this is currently driving a minivan and would like to mention what they like or dislike about it, I'd love your input and recommendations. Also, is there a site that charts what the most reliable, low-maintenance fuel efficient models were, from years 2006-2011? [more inside]
Harmless glance or red flag?
My sister received a dream job offer but for one thing - the man who will be her direct supervisor was definitely looking at her boobs both times she went into the office for the interviews. [more inside]
Help! How many Crowns are there?!
How many Crown Attorneys are there in Ottawa & Montreal? [more inside]
Windows backup returning error
I recently bought another 1TB HDD, so I now have two 1TB HDDs (Both western digital; caviar black) and an Intel SSD (operating system).
The new HDD, after one day of use has gone bad. S.M.A.R.T has detected errors, I ran the western digital tool and that also detected errors. I was warned to backup my drive, so I tried to last night but after 2 hours I gave up to re-do it tomorrow (tons of files). I stopped the backup properly and shutdown.
Now this morning I'm trying to get all 830gigs of my files off of the new bad drive, back onto my original storage hdd before the new drive goes completely bad and I lose all of my important files.
The windows restore and backup program is giving me error code: 0x8007045D near the start of the backup. I/O device error.
I've checked the destination HDD and it returned no errors (both with the western didgital tool and using chkdsk). I need to fix this problem quick before my new drive totally fails.
posted by johnx at 1:46 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by johnx at 1:46 PM PST - 6 comments
I'm not who you think I am...
How can I stop receiving other people's email that have the same name as me? [more inside]
1988 Toyota 4Runner V6 Transmission Trouble
How much will my transmission cost to fix? Left to its own devices, how much longer will it last? Any advice for a mechanical laywoman? [more inside]
What is this sound and where can I find more of it?
Fifteen years later, Calexico's The Black Light has finally clicked with me in a big way. I absolutely love the guitar sound in Gypsy's Curse. Does this sound have a name, and where can I find more of it? [more inside]
I didn't call you. My iPhone did.
Why is my iPhone dialing a number repeatedly? [more inside]
Bicycle question: down to two, help me choose one.
Bicycle question: which should I choose? [more inside]
What would a woodchuck build with all this wood?
Usable scrap wood left over from a home project. What can I build with it? [more inside]
I can see clearly now, the pain is gone...
I am considering changing from contact lenses that last one month to daily disposable lenses. Is there anything that I should know? Looking for pros and cons, particularly from anyone who has made this switch. [more inside]
posted by blurker at 12:31 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by blurker at 12:31 PM PST - 22 comments
For customer @ work: What shades does Agent Coulson (The Avengers) wear?
For my job: I told a customer I'd try my best to find a specific pair of sunglasses, model/brand, but I'm having trouble doing that. What sunglasses does Agent Coulson wear in 'The Avengers'? Picture link inside [more inside]
posted by JamesBlakeAV at 12:26 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by JamesBlakeAV at 12:26 PM PST - 9 comments
Am I being overly sensitive about an ex visiting my blog?
Someone I dated years ago obsessively visits my blogs and leaves messages. The messages aren't threatening, but they're starting to annoy me. Can I do anything about it? Should I? [more inside]
Old feuds, new friends, ultimatums and a sticky social situation. How do I navigate this stupid fight that precedes me?
Old feuds, new friends, ultimatums and a sticky social situation. How do I navigate this stupid fight that precedes me? [more inside]
Arizona Rite-of-Passage
Hot hacks. I'm in Arizona. It's supposed to be 108 degrees here today. Our a/c went out and won't be fixed for at least another 24-48 hours. Help us survive with dignity. [more inside]
in honor of darwin
Best way to turn a wooden box into an herb garden? [more inside]
Beantown
What are good examples of City/Country/Place nicknames that natives never use? [more inside]
Show me the files.
What is a good online storage solution for huge amounts of data, high privacy settings, and streaming online videos for multiple users? [more inside]
posted by banannafish at 10:48 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by banannafish at 10:48 AM PST - 7 comments
How to deal with a clogged foundation drain?
How to deal with a clogged foundation drain that's flooding my alley? [more inside]
Stop using my email address, whoever you are!!!
My email address being used by someone on bn.com (Barnes and Noble)... [more inside]
posted by littleredwagon at 10:42 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by littleredwagon at 10:42 AM PST - 29 comments
A "free apartment locator service" won't stop calling my cell phone.
A "free apartment locator service" won't stop calling my cell phone. Legal (U.S.) and logistical questions inside. [more inside]
posted by nebulawindphone at 10:37 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by nebulawindphone at 10:37 AM PST - 10 comments
Let this zombie account go on?
Should I just let my zombie Yahoo! account alone? [more inside]
Really big thighs
Asking for a friend: I have a 31 in inseam, 31 inch waist, 41 inch hips, and 24 in thighs (all circumferences). At what brick-and-mortar stores in Chicago can I buy nondescript men's slacks? In the past (fashionistas avert your eyes) I've mostly bought pleated pants several sizes too large and just belted them in. If possible I'd like to avoid that this time around.
It can't be, can it?
Books on stained glass?
A fine old fellow who did amateur stained glass has passed away, and I would like to purchase memorial book(s) for the local library. [more inside]
Help me find a good gaming conference
Social Gaming Dev Conferences - what are the absolutely can't miss social gaming conferences for developers, start ups and creatives around the U.S.? [more inside]
Tips to buy a laptop?
Need a new laptop, help me pick one. [more inside]
None of us could ever commit a crime.
What methods have you used to reduce and clean up pet hair (cat picture included), human hair and human skin? I feel like I'm living in some sort of suffocating winter wonderland. [more inside]
posted by KogeLiz at 8:52 AM PST - 37 comments
posted by KogeLiz at 8:52 AM PST - 37 comments
Dearly Beloved, We're All Made of Star Stuff
Wedding reading for the (very) non-religious space nerds. Suggestions? [more inside]
How to organize a text-heavy site?
Looking for examples of well-designed text-heavy websites. [more inside]
Spaces + Chrome = PITA
OSX: What did I do to cause Spaces to freak out when I tear off tabs in Chrome? [more inside]
Diamonds are a girl's best friend?
What to do with a loose diamond? A very kind family friend has given me a very lovely quarter caret marquise-cut stone. [more inside]
West Palm Beach Cheap Excursions?
Visiting West Palm Beach, Florida area in a couple of weeks. Searches for cool things to do in the area (including previous AskMeFi answers) always bring up a price tag of around $100 for a family of four (japanese gardens, wildlife preserves etc). Any ideas for inexpensive things to do and see in the area. We've visited in previous years and have enjoyed driving the A1A, hanging out a Delray Beach, browsing at City Place in West Palm Beach. I'm a Dad traveling with three females ages 45, 20, 13 - and I'm sick of shopping. Many thanks.
Looking for Christopher Hitchens audio files (debates, interviews, etc)
Looking for Christopher Hitchens audio files (debates, interviews, etc) [more inside]
Paper business cards? Give me something to work with!
Business cards circa mid-2012 - giving out paper business cards still seems necessary in most networking circles, but there's got to be a way of organizing the data in a useful matter... Right? Bonus points if it can interface with an iPhone and iPad. [more inside]
Is this flashlight going to kill me?
This thing is giving off an awful odor and I have no idea what's causing it. [more inside]
posted by JoeZydeco at 7:12 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by JoeZydeco at 7:12 AM PST - 18 comments
Getting a master's degree when disillusioned with academia?
I've always been drawn to science and research and I'm strongly considering going to graduate school to get a master's degree in computer science (location: Sweden) and maybe even aim for an academic career. But my recent experiences with academia has left my disillusioned, sad and angry. Can I get my degree without GRARing all the time? How? [more inside]
posted by Foci for Analysis at 7:03 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Foci for Analysis at 7:03 AM PST - 11 comments
Accutane alternative
What's the next best option after Accutane? I have Crohn's disease so that's not an option, but doxycycline and topical treatments haven't worked. Are there any other options? [more inside]
Why Offshore Banking?
Are there any benefits for an American working abroad, paid in local foreign currency, to having an offshore bank account (ex: Jersey), besides the obvious, of avoiding to pay taxes? I file taxes in the US every year and report all of my foreign accounts truthfully, and plan to do so for the rest of my life. My European-based spouse says I should have an offshore bank account "just in case". He can't really explain beyond that, except it's what a lot of Europeans do, and it's "safer". What's the point, especially if you're an American? [more inside]
I'm new to this game but with a load of experience!!
Tips for getting that next contract. I'm an IT contractor in the UK and have been for about 12 years. I'm pretty lucky to have not been out of work in that time. Unfortunately, current contract ends shortly and as yet, I'm not managed to find anything else. Every contract I've ever had has been based on someone recommending me into a new role, so I've never had to do the whole contract search thing. With my network currently failing me, where do I look for those roles I'd be great for? Do I register with an agency? Which Agency?
Help!!!!
posted by lloyder at 6:03 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by lloyder at 6:03 AM PST - 7 comments
What to do besides stalk Stephen King?
Going to Bar Harbor in a few days but.... have done absolutely no research. Any fun suggestions? [more inside]
posted by silverstatue at 5:12 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by silverstatue at 5:12 AM PST - 14 comments
Movie musicals without show tunes?
What movies are like "The Blues Brothers" and "O Brother Where Art Thou" in that they have music, but not in the "show tunes" style of most musicals?
Running a small online competition - help me make sure we're staying on the right side of the law.
The charity I volunteer with want me to set up a photography competition with a prize or prizes to be determined. Anyone can submit an unlimited number of entries (within reason) and the winner(s) will be decided by judges appointed by us. We'll display the photos on our website. What kind of legal warning do I need to provide on the competition entry page to safeguard us? Can I use some kind of standard template? [more inside]
Firefox - new is not always better
Firefox - how to be only a little bit up to date ?
Selenium (and a whole swag of other plugins/addons/extensions) don't work under FF 12 - what to do ? [more inside]
Am I too passive under stress? How to fix?
Should I be someone who takes more action when I'm under stress? If so, how do I go about becoming that person? [more inside]
My PC doesn't recognise my phone any more. Please help!
I have a Samsung Nexus S smartphone. Since upgrading to Ice Cream Sandwich, my PC (running Windows 7) no longer recognises the phone. [more inside]
posted by rubbish bin night at 4:15 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by rubbish bin night at 4:15 AM PST - 5 comments
Best clothing brands for men in their 20's
What are some good clothing brands for young men in their 20's? [more inside]
What's fun in the peninsula?
Looking for a weekday date idea in Silicon Valley between Mountain View - Redwood City. Not just dinner. Challenge: It's going to be coldish this week. [more inside]
May 20
Real Food in the Dramatic Arts - How Does It Work?
Edible theatrical properties - whose responsibility and how does it all work? [more inside]
posted by gingerest at 10:22 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by gingerest at 10:22 PM PST - 14 comments
Wearing glasses. I dont want to but i know life will be easier! help!
The time for wearing glasses has come! What do I need to consider? [more inside]
Dog Friendly Watering Holes Near Denver
Our new rescue dog (Abby) loves water. I mean, LOVES water. Help us find awesome spots to take her to play near Denver. [more inside]
posted by shew at 8:47 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by shew at 8:47 PM PST - 6 comments
What is this book?
BookFilter: This book had some futuristic name for Australia. What's the name of the book? [more inside]
How to jazz up a solid silk necktie?
Boyfriend has a solid-colored teal silk necktie he was forced to buy for a wedding. He says he'll never wear it again in it's current state as it is too "prom-y". Anything I can do to either a) make the tie more interesting (ex. a pattern) and thus wearable or b) put it to some other crafty use? [more inside]
Feels bad, man
My spouse is under some pretty severe work stress, and has recently come to realize that he might be depressed. Appointments with a therapist and a GP will be booked this week, but in the meantime I'm looking for other resources and support ideas. Depressed mefites, what are some amazing things that people have done to help you? What are some things you've wished you had someone around to do for you? [more inside]
How to cool the computer?
My computer heats up the entire apartment. Is there any way to cool it down? [more inside]
posted by rebent at 7:15 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by rebent at 7:15 PM PST - 17 comments
I ought to be... flattered?
She (possibly) likes me. I don't. Now what? [more inside]
Minnows that eat mosquitoes.
I have a 2 gallon clear plastic fish tank. I just put a couple of water hyacinths in along with the tiny aquatic snails they harbored and a handful of compost for nutrients. I also want to add a few small fish that will feed on mosquitoes. What would be the best commonly-available species, or mix of species? This is all just for fun, by the way. I live new Atlanta, Georgia.
Where is the best place in the world for a porter/stout (beer) enthusiast to travel if they want to taste it all?
Where is the best place in the world for a porter/stout (beer) enthusiast to travel if they want to taste it all? If there isn't a place that's best for those dark styles specifically, where do you go if you're a beer enthusiast generally? [more inside]
Cellocellocello
What is the quickest thing I can do to improve my cello playing and sight reading? [more inside]
How do I document my sideline business while collecting unemployment in PA?
Can you walk me through the steps/documentation necessary to collect Pennsylvania unemployment while maintaining a "sideline" business? [more inside]
What to plant near a creek that will be able to overcome weeds?
I have a area in my yard that is sometimes muddy and sometimes not due to a small creek that is a trickle or bigger according to the weather. I normally weed-eat this area but do not like disturbing the frogs, etc that live there naturally. This area is partly sunny and partly shade. What could I plant in this area that would thrive in mud and be able to overcome the weeds? I live in East Tennessee (Zone 6).
Web/mobile app for planning adventures with friends.
Looking for a web/mobile app for planning adventures with friends. [more inside]
Story based language instruction?
Do you know of any story based language instruction books? I have a vague memory from when I was a kid (late 70's/early 80's) of reading book that was the story of an american boy going to visit france. The book starts out in english, and adds french words to the story as the boy in the story encounters them. If I remember correctly, the last chapter is entirely in french. [more inside]
posted by billyfleetwood at 5:13 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by billyfleetwood at 5:13 PM PST - 8 comments
WHo owns an app?
If I make an app using an app builder like Apple Developer, Buzztouch, Mit App Inventor or Andromo, for example, who owns the app? [more inside]
posted by cda at 5:10 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by cda at 5:10 PM PST - 2 comments
What to do on a rainy anniversary?
Please help us save our anniversary! The boy and I are celebrating one year together tomorrow (Monday) and have been planning on going to Coney Island for months. Now there's a 70% chance of rain. What to do? [more inside]
posted by dysh at 4:48 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by dysh at 4:48 PM PST - 6 comments
Wacom Intuos 3 Tablet Missing Mouse?
I am in a position to be able to buy a used Wacom Intuos 3 Tablet at a very good price, but it is missing the mouse. Is that something that I would miss? (I would be using it primarily for drawing).
What to give a Boston-bound individual?
Boston-specific (or not) graduation gift? [more inside]
posted by Morrigan at 4:32 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Morrigan at 4:32 PM PST - 11 comments
Help my figure out my career path
I really need help figuring out my new career track. I want to take "the next step" and don't know where to start. [more inside]
posted by wolfdreams01 at 4:20 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by wolfdreams01 at 4:20 PM PST - 2 comments
Spinning an answer in an interview
Could one get away with saying he was laid off instead of let go for poor performance in an interview? Have you ever heard of anybody being fired for cause because he said he was laid off? [more inside]
Buying a Typewriter with history
I would like to buy a semi-famous typewriter. [more inside]
Why and how do people become dog breeders?
My wife and I want to become dog breeders (take a wild guess at which breed). We have some land. We both work at home. We both love dogs. How do people get started and why do they get started? Do they make an income from it or is it all about the love? What do they do when they're not breeding?
Tips for Pyrenees and Southern France?
Tips for Pyrenees and Southern France? [more inside]
I'm looking for a cheap but charming Bohemian paradise to live in forever.
Where in the US should I move? A whole variety of criteria inside. [more inside]
How unhygenic is constant handwashing of laundry?
For various reasons, it's significantly more convenient for me to handwash my dirty clothes/linens with detergent in the bathtub, and dry them on a rack in the living room. It's so convenient, in fact, that I'll bother to do my laundry, rather than wear rarely machine-washed and dirty clothes most of the time. [more inside]
How do I decay VHS tapes to get interesting audio effects?
Are there any resources I can use to learn about deliberately degrading tapes? [more inside]
Places to find "this will knock your socks off" type of projects
Where do I find information about cutting edge, uber creative "this will blow your mind" kind of projects? [more inside]
Who is T.J. Ecklebird?
What kind of baby bird did we find in our backyard? Will it be OK? Are we doing the best thing for it by leaving it alone? [more inside]
posted by Geckwoistmeinauto at 2:34 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Geckwoistmeinauto at 2:34 PM PST - 10 comments
Is the Chum-Churum drinkable?
Chum-Churum (19.5% alcohol made from sweet potato with added sugar and hfcs).
Open, unrefrigerated bottle for 24 hours at room temperature, then refrigerated. Safe to drink?
I'm saying it's totally fine. My friend has grave doubts.
posted by who squared at 2:28 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by who squared at 2:28 PM PST - 10 comments
How to Retain Lots of Technical Stuff ?
I move back and forth between language, technologies and systems. I spend inordinate amounts of times getting back to speed. Is there any way I can ease this and reduce this time period? [more inside]
In the past 4 days I've had 4 lapses in memory. Otherwise I'm 100% fine. Is this a problem?
In the past 4 days I've had 4 major-ish lapses in memory. Otherwise I'm 100% fine. Is this a problem? [more inside]
posted by Chorus at 1:59 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by Chorus at 1:59 PM PST - 27 comments
Wireless vs wired video streaming to my TV - Help.
Why does Windows 7 "play to" work on wireless but not wired? [more inside]
posted by alchemist at 1:50 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by alchemist at 1:50 PM PST - 2 comments
Looking for some feeding program best practices/policies for our inner city feeding program. We have no documented rules and needless to say it is resulting in chaos.
Looking for some feeding program best practices/policies for our inner city feeding program. We have no documented rules and needless to say it is resulting in chaos. [more inside]
Joomla, but the code is so short and simple anyone could help...
Seems like a simple two-line piece of code stopped working after a minor Joomla upgrade. [more inside]
How to connect a home network to Amazon VPC (with hardware VPN)
Is it possible to use a Cisco 881 along with a broadband router to connect to Amazon VPC (with hardware VPN option)? [more inside]
posted by bootlaces at 1:03 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by bootlaces at 1:03 PM PST - 2 comments
I don't want sex with my husband. What should I do?
Four years ago I married a great guy. We've been together a total of eight years. Sometime around when we got married...maybe a little before, I stopped wanting sex with him. I dreaded it on our wedding night/honeymoon. At first I thought it was just a phase, something to do with wedding planning burnout and general nerves. Four years later, it's even worse than it was. Otherwise, we have a good relationship, I think. We have everything in common, a shared worldview, good communication. Because of the sexual issue, we have talked numerous times about separating. I guess what I can't figure out is, why this has happened, and if our entire relationship is worth ending over it. [more inside]
Camtasia headache = sadface.
Why are my Camtasia MP4 exports cropping 1/4 of the video? [more inside]
posted by denriguez at 11:54 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by denriguez at 11:54 AM PST - 7 comments
Role and efficacy of hand "scribing" in learning
Is there any research either supporting or negating the importance of manual symbol making in learning? I'm thinking that manual symbol making, going back to diagrams in the earth, must be a well evolved capability, and that when we write something down all sorts of neural pathways are employed, and that those pathways and associations facilitate learning. [more inside]
How to hang a bunch of corkboards on my wall?
What's the best way to hang a bunch of bulletin boards (corkboards) on a large plaster-and-lath wall? Constraints: the boards should sit flush/flat on the wall, and should be removable / repositionable (within reason). [more inside]
posted by sixswitch at 11:36 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by sixswitch at 11:36 AM PST - 8 comments
Heartbreak support
Is there something like a 12-step program with meetings that I could attend that focuses on getting over a breakup? [more inside]
posted by Failure31 at 11:32 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Failure31 at 11:32 AM PST - 8 comments
can the second noun ever be the subject?
[Language Processiong / Grammar Question] With a pattern of noun infinitive adjective noun verb infinitive, can the second noun ever be the subject of the verb? Bonus question (below the fold): In the second case does the adverb of the verb always determine the sentiment of the second noun? [more inside]
Bookfort self-destruct will commence in 5 ... 4 ... 3 ...
I have a large number of books that I want to donate to a library or sell. I want to give my friends and family first pick at anything they want (my primary aim is to quickly reclaim the physical space used up by the books). I need a workflow that will allow me to scan the books' UPCs, etc. with my iPhone 4's camera and end up with an email-able spreadsheet pre-populated with ISBN/Title/Author. Columns for genre, edition and/or year, and short blurbs would also be welcome.
I have a PC laptop with the MS Office suite in addition to the iPhone. What are my options? Thanks, hivemind!
I need to be plugged in while in Europe.
US resident here who has traveled extensively to Europe...pre 1990. Haven't been back since and will likely need to travel to Europe at least 2 times for > 1 week each trip in the coming year. Might be as many as four trips. Back in the day, one's only contact with home was via landline/long distance calling cards etc.. Now there are cellphones, computers, wifi, skype, and the need for on the go data. To be clear, I need to be as nearly plugged into the "grid" as I am while at home. What are modern day US-to-Europe travelling hacks, particularly in regards to staying plugged in? [more inside]
Help me save my Shuffles
I put 20-100 songs into Windows Media Player (for example) and engage the "shuffle" or "random" play function. Many times the resulting generated playlist really, really, works, and I would like to save this playlist to burn a mix CD or just to replay later. Is this possible? With any program that you can recommend? [more inside]
posted by J0 at 10:29 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by J0 at 10:29 AM PST - 2 comments
How can I strengthen my futon frame?
Soliciting suggestions from handyperson types: How can I reinforce my futon to withstand heavier loads? [more inside]
posted by blue t-shirt at 10:29 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by blue t-shirt at 10:29 AM PST - 4 comments
Are there any single mother MeFites who conceived via a sperm bank who would be willing to share their experience with my friend?
Are there any single mother MeFites who conceived via a sperm bank who would be willing to share their experience with my friend? [more inside]
Do sunscreens that don't smell like sunscreen exist?
What sunscreen smells the least like sunscreen? [more inside]
Cozy it's not
Highly functional large room ideas for a small family of three? [more inside]
Is asking someone to turn their headphone music down a bad idea?
You're on a crowded bus, street car or subway. Someone has on headphones with the music so loud that you, and everyone in a 7-foot radius can hear it. Do you politely ask that person to turn their music down? [more inside]
Please don't say "wear a hat"
Where can I buy BIG, or at least non-tiny containers of natural / mineral / physical sunscreen? [more inside]
posted by pintapicasso at 9:32 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by pintapicasso at 9:32 AM PST - 5 comments
Amazing, newer French novels that are not available in English translation?
Amazing, newer French novels that are not available in English translation? [more inside]
posted by Cwell at 9:28 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Cwell at 9:28 AM PST - 6 comments
laundry stain removal
Laundry stain removal. Can't get a stain out. What works? [more inside]
How to troubleshoot an iMac/Boot Camp/Win7 installation
Help troubleshooting an iMac/Windows XP/Windows 7/Bootcamp/Parallels installation, please? [more inside]
posted by altolinguistic at 9:00 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by altolinguistic at 9:00 AM PST - 6 comments
Last minute gift idea
So... it's my stepmother's 78th birthday in a couple of days. This time, I need help in coming up with a last minute gift. [more inside]
posted by vers at 8:50 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by vers at 8:50 AM PST - 14 comments
Oh Brother, Trouble Weighs A Ton...
My 22-year-old brother is an inconsiderate jerk. My parent's have kicked him out. He's about to be homeless in an hour, with literally nothing to his name. I want to help him not live in a ditch but should I do that? [more inside]
posted by youandiandaflame at 7:56 AM PST - 101 comments
posted by youandiandaflame at 7:56 AM PST - 101 comments
It's all just a game.
I need an Ask sanity check about something in my relationship that is driving me crazy. My husband has a planned activity every other weekend, and my mounting frustration with the situation is becoming harder for me to ignore. But is it really something that I should be this upset about? [more inside]
Peripheral comfort zone?
What ambient temperatures are safe for typical consumer electronic devices? [more inside]
posted by jon1270 at 7:55 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by jon1270 at 7:55 AM PST - 5 comments
How can I encourage my brother to leave his extremely toxic workplace?
How can I encourage my brother to leave his extremely toxic workplace? [more inside]
Japanese grocers between Portland and Boston?
I need the best Japanese grocer between Portland, ME and Boston. [more inside]
posted by furnace.heart at 6:38 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by furnace.heart at 6:38 AM PST - 11 comments
Buy audi a1 or mini convertible?
Should I buy Audi A1 1.4 or Mini one 1.6 convertible? Which will I enjoy more? [more inside]
90s Pro video equipment - Betacam SP - recycle, donate, what ?
I have a Betacam-SP UWV 1800-p player/recorder. I cannot think of any use for it. Would it suit a college AV department ? Or a museum ? I'd like to see it find a good home, but I will settle for getting rid of it. Can any Mefiers recommend a next step ?
posted by devious truculent and unreliable at 6:22 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by devious truculent and unreliable at 6:22 AM PST - 3 comments
Where to I find this Samsung LED TV component adapter cable?
A friend's got a Samsung LED TV which has two input jacks (appears to be the "3.5mm" type) for Component signal - 1 socket for video (red, green, blue) and 1 for audio (red, white). Problem is: where do I find these cable adapters so we can connect (5) component cables into these (2) input jacks? [more inside]
posted by gttommy at 5:51 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by gttommy at 5:51 AM PST - 8 comments
Fix Grocery IQ or recommend an alternative?
Help me understand the Grocery IQ app for iOS or recommend an alternative. [more inside]
Was this really a hijack attempt?
Was this really a hijack attempt? In Texas in the 1960's or early 1970's there was an attempted hijacking of a plane. The Army drove by the plane with two jeeps and rendered the plane useless by almost severing the vertical stabilizer with machine gun fire. [more inside]
posted by Leenie at 1:16 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by Leenie at 1:16 AM PST - 1 comment
Does my cat scare away roaches?
May 19
What is the Facebook friends algorithm?
I'm trying to figure out the Facebook friends algorithm. Because I'm nosy. [more inside]
posted by rose selavy at 11:32 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by rose selavy at 11:32 PM PST - 11 comments
Get me out of your starry eyes and
What cover of the Records' "Starry Eyes" am I remembering? [more inside]
Help me learn how to draw simple comic style drawings.
I'm writing a book. I want to draw very simple black & white comic strip style cartoon drawings to go with it. PROBLEM: I can't draw. Heck, I don't even doodle. But I can learn! What books/websites/iTunes U/online classes/etc are out there? Got any advice or knowhow to pass along? Help me get started! [more inside]
posted by Mr Ected at 9:59 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Mr Ected at 9:59 PM PST - 10 comments
Are medical school loans too complicated for doctors to understand?
How would a doctor fresh out of residency figure out how to manage her new income and address her med school loans? [more inside]
Recipes for an evening cocktail after baby has gone to bed.
Somehow I ended up with a bottle of Disaronno. What are some good drink recipes? [more inside]
posted by HMSSM at 9:34 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by HMSSM at 9:34 PM PST - 31 comments
My rock Band needs wireless monitors.
Need suggestions for adding wireless monitors to my rock band set up. I ask the question here because the PA forums I've looked are overwhelming. [more inside]
posted by Davaal at 9:13 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Davaal at 9:13 PM PST - 3 comments
Adding a SATA HD to the computer. Bios thinks it's an external drive. What?
Adding a SATA HD to the computer. Bios thinks it's an external drive. What? [more inside]
posted by elmonobonobo at 9:10 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by elmonobonobo at 9:10 PM PST - 4 comments
Where to volunteer in Austin, Texas?
Needed: Austin-area non-profits at which to volunteer my time. [more inside]
posted by youcancallmeal at 8:14 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by youcancallmeal at 8:14 PM PST - 6 comments
What's a good website to find roommate(s) other than Craigslist?
What's a good website to find roommate(s) other than Craigslist? [more inside]
Meditation Before Sleep
What sort of meditation would be appropriate to aid in attaining a deep sleep? Something to do in bed immediately before you doze off?
posted by parallax7d at 7:49 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by parallax7d at 7:49 PM PST - 15 comments
Adding apps to someone else's iPad, or How do two people use the same iPad?
Is it possible for me to add apps to a borrowed iPad without losing everything that is already on it? [more inside]
posted by segatakai at 7:16 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by segatakai at 7:16 PM PST - 5 comments
Looking for this set of bento boxes
Do you see this 3-layer bento lunch box for sale online? One box in the stack is white with the yellow design, one is white with the orange design, and the 3rd box is white with the green design.
posted by cashman at 7:13 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by cashman at 7:13 PM PST - 10 comments
help me become a better potential employee.
How can I make myself employable / find a job in any writing or editing fields, with a BA and MFA? (in the Atlanta area, if it helps.) Snowflakey details abound. [more inside]
What's the easiest and quickest way to get rid of hundreds of books?
I'm moving in about ten days, I'm disabled, and my mother (who is in her mid-sixties) is here helping me pack. I've got four of five hundred books, mostly paperbacks and mostly genre fiction, about which I'm finally being sensible and eliminating. The problem we're having is that it's almost as much trouble to get rid of these as it would have been to pack them. [more inside]
What are some good movies about Berlin?
What are some good movies about Berlin? [more inside]
How to teach an adult beginner how to drive?
What's the best way for me to teach a beginner how to drive? [more inside]
posted by schmichael at 5:26 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by schmichael at 5:26 PM PST - 31 comments
Brief double vision in the mornings
For a while now, I've had about 5 minutes of double vision in one eye, but only in the mornings. Is this normal? [more inside]
I.D That Pin/Button!
I found a pin (with a button backing) at the flea market on the UWS in NYC last week I'd like to know what, if anything, it represents. Photo , Clearer with size comparison. Where/What is this design from? [more inside]
posted by The Whelk at 5:14 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by The Whelk at 5:14 PM PST - 6 comments
Where can I find .net/ruby/r contracts?
Well I just lost my job since the company I worked for folded. I have thought about starting my own Microsoft stack, and Ruby on Rails stack consulting company. (I am in the US, in Colorado) Need some help. [more inside]
Looking for Netflix instant films with great cinematography
We want to watch movies on Netflix Istant that have beautiful cinematography. Nothing too violent or gory. We'd prefer a good plot and characters.
We're not talking a good looking film, we want beautiful, drop dead gorgeous photography, available on Netflix Instant.
For an example of what I mean by drop dead gorgeous, check out the trailer for Nostalghia. Obviously other films by that director, Andrei Tarkovsky, are one list, but what else would you suggest?
Strange trance-like effect from repeating action?
When I was younger, I sometimes used to amuse myself by repeating a simple action over and over again until I got into a strange state. [more inside]
Did I just see someone get raped in porn?
NSFW porn question: I am a hetero woman and I like to watch hardcore porn once in a while. I just had an unpleasant experience, though. And I would like to know if what I saw is abuse or what the hell. [more inside]
posted by ADent at 4:28 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by ADent at 4:28 PM PST - 36 comments
Policy Solutions for DC Prisoners?
I'm doing a research and policy project on DC prisoners. I'm looking for information and personal stories on what the situation is like for DC prisoners serving time in the federal system. I'm also interested in information on conditions in the former DC Prison at Lorton. I'd like to compare conditions before and after the closure of Lorton and make some recommendations for how to improve outcomes for DC inmates, both during their sentences and after release. [more inside]
Why does the dryer fuse keep blowing?
What does (depressive) self-criticism sound like?
What does (depressive) self-criticism sound like? [more inside]
OH MY STARS! Can you help me keep them standing?
I'd like to use star-shaped paper lanterns as centerpieces for my upcoming wedding. (Such as these http://starlanterns.net) Is there any way to make them stand up easily? [more inside]
Should I get a U.S. Dept. of Education Special Direct Consolidation Loan?
Should I get a U.S. Dept. of Education Special Direct Consolidation Loan? [more inside]
Disinfecting My Feet After a Spa Pedicure
Currently in the process of getting a mani/pedi at a salon my friends have been to, but I haven't. Question about hygiene. [more inside]
The dress must be out there.
Mefi Sewers! I am a beginning sewer and just found a fabulous vintage patterned length of fabric (two yards x 58 inches) at a thrift shop for two bucks. I want to make a very simple a-line shift dress that is made from two cuts of fabric, front and back, that sew together on the sides of the body. A zipper in the back is ok. I cannot seem to find a pattern, vintage or otherwise, that fulfills these criteria. [more inside]
I want to hide the thing that will promote it once you've wandered inside.
Iframes and CSS insertion. Help or a better idea? [more inside]
posted by history is a weapon at 1:24 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by history is a weapon at 1:24 PM PST - 3 comments
I'm lost!
Help me plan my next career move [more inside]
Attacked by dog, how to get owner to take responsibility?
Help me think straight. I was attacked by a loose German Shepherd while out on a walk with my husband and our two small leashed dogs. What should I do next? The owner is in denial and I am concerned for the safety of myself and others. I think that if I threaten a lawsuit I could scare her into building a fence and reinforcing her door. I'm interested in getting her to take action to keep her dog enclosed or to take it to a behaviorist, not trying to win money in a settlement. [more inside]
Recommended moving companies for a move from Vancouver (Canada) suburb A to Vancouver suburb B?
Recommended moving companies for a move from Vancouver (Canada) suburb A to Vancouver suburb B? Need to move furniture up narrow steps without dinging either walls or furniture. Looking for reliable service but reasonably priced. [more inside]
Redeeming points for a great getaway?
Best way to use my Priority Club points? [more inside]
posted by manicure12 at 12:08 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by manicure12 at 12:08 PM PST - 3 comments
Recommendations for a therapist in SF/Oakland area?
Life happens. Looking for recommendations for a therapist in SF/Oakland area. Details inside. [more inside]
Have any of you participated in or led the genetics lab using fruit flies?
Have any of you participated in or led the genetics lab using fruit flies? [more inside]
Crush Hooked Up With Someone Else
First things first: I am a gay female. I have had a crush on my friend for several months (also a gay female), however, being inexperienced at making first moves and being shy, I have been moving very slowly. I thought perhaps she felt something for me, but never made any overt moves. Recently she drunkenly hooked up with another girl (whom she had just recently met within the last 2 weeks and this was only the second or third day they had really hung out together) at a party. I am wondering if I have completely missed my chance, and what I should do. [more inside]
posted by christiehawk at 11:29 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by christiehawk at 11:29 AM PST - 22 comments
Help a Dumb Daddy Out, Please
Help me unlock a locked phone without the code! [more inside]
posted by joelhunt at 11:09 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by joelhunt at 11:09 AM PST - 10 comments
At least the vodka stayed potable.
Freezer disaster! I came home from a week long trip to discover that the seal on my freezer had failed, and that everything at the front of the freezer had thawed. Everything at the back was coated in ice. But what about the stuff in the middle? [more inside]
posted by pickypicky at 10:46 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by pickypicky at 10:46 AM PST - 13 comments
Nashville, where can I pedal for entertainment?
Spontaneous day-trip to Nashville! When: Tomorrow, aka Sunday. Who: 2 weird, young dudes with a car and 2 bicycles. MeFi: What should we put on our list of awesome stuff to do and places to go? We already plan on eating and drinking at Bosco's. More growler-worthy beer is always welcome.
Talk to me about dissociation... or whatever my problem is
Is this dissociation? I would really like to learn more about my slightly peculiar experience of living life, and what it means, if anything. I've been suspecting some form of dissociation, but I'd love some pointers to books, articles or sites, or informed experiences that might help make things clearer. [more inside]
Horses over hockey???
How can I watch the NHL Playoff game today in Baltimore? [more inside]
Help me understand the term "high-maintenance" in describing a partner.
Help me understand the term "high-maintenance" in describing a partner. I am asking this question to get a clearer understanding of the term "high-maintenance" when your partner describes you as such. My interpretation of it has been respect, dedication, commitment and love and want to gauge whether I should alter my understanding of my definition and my actions. [more inside]
In the mood
Where can we go jazz/swing dancing in New York City? [more inside]
posted by thecaddy at 9:47 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by thecaddy at 9:47 AM PST - 3 comments
Teen Drug Usage and Rehab
From past addicts/addiction experience - At what point does a teen drug use go beyond teenage rebellion into a full blown addiction, and can anything be done if the teen doesn't want help, and not all parties are on board with consequences? Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
It's not a triffid, but what is it?
I have this plant [1] [2] [3] in my office. What is it? [more inside]
posted by spacewrench at 9:13 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by spacewrench at 9:13 AM PST - 5 comments
Links, links everywhere
I love the One Thing Well blog and the newish The Toolbox. Are there any other good link blogs similar in purpose (links to resources and webapps instead of news/articles)?
posted by Memo at 8:45 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Memo at 8:45 AM PST - 7 comments
How can I manage a group of active alcholics at a wedding without losing my mind?
My brother is a problem drinker at best, probably an alcoholic. We're heading to our small home town to watch my alcoholic father marry his prescription drug addict girlfriend. oh, the snowflakes. I'm trying to figure out how bad this is going to be, and if there is anything I can do to keep it smooth for the wedding.
I would like to hear other people's experiences to help me think positive. [more inside]
Questions about The Avengers Movie
At the risk of sounding like an idiot, I have some questions about The Avengers (the movie). Mild spoilers inside. [more inside]
posted by crapples at 6:59 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by crapples at 6:59 AM PST - 22 comments
Tips for replacing all your stuff after a move to Chicago.
My wife and I will be moving across an ocean(the atlantic - from Birmingham, UK to Chicago) in a couple of months and in the process I will be abandoning 87.6% of my stuff (everything but sentimental knick-knacks, some clothing and laptops). I'd like advice on rebuilding my stuff collection - furniture, appliances, kitchen utensils and all the other stuff you need to make an apartment livable. What would you do if you could do it all over again? [more inside]
posted by srboisvert at 6:45 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by srboisvert at 6:45 AM PST - 32 comments
Male lesbian?
Advice and guidance for someone grappling with sexual and emotional orientation? Specific case inside. trigger warning [more inside]
Preparing for Law School App
What can I do to prepare for applying to law school? [more inside]
What cat breed is this?
Mua ha ha ha
How to play a hilarious prank on phone scammers? [more inside]
Lucky Strike cigarettes in Dallas
Anyone know where I can get Lucky Strike cigarettes in Dallas, TX? Thanks
The modulation of our sense of smell
How and why do we become accustomed to smells? What makes some odours personally super-pungent one day and unnoticed 'background noise' later on, despite the smell remaining objectively unchanged? [more inside]
posted by peacay at 4:20 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by peacay at 4:20 AM PST - 7 comments
Awesome but not for me
Should I forego an opportunity in a (somewhat competitive) field I am not pursuing when I have nothing else lined up? [more inside]
posted by ichomp at 2:39 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by ichomp at 2:39 AM PST - 22 comments
Apps for an apple flavoured snowflake?
Friends, mefites, global citizens, recommend me your apps for the iPad. [more inside]
posted by b33j at 1:47 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by b33j at 1:47 AM PST - 14 comments
May 18
Next time, solicit advice before making major purchase...
I decided to try gas permeable contacts today, but now I've read previous questions on mefi, I am having serious concerns over my choice. Does anyone like their RGP contacts, especially after years of soft contact lens wear? [more inside]
posted by Kronur at 11:59 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by Kronur at 11:59 PM PST - 21 comments
Miniature Chinese landscapes?
You know those miniature dioramas you sometimes find in Chinese restaurants, the ones made out of something like bamboo shavings (?), usually scenes of some trees, a bridge and a small temple or gazebo, set in a little glass box/frame?
My Google-fu is weak - my young son is disappoint (he would love one for his birthday)... [more inside]
posted by progosk at 11:06 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by progosk at 11:06 PM PST - 5 comments
How can I take advantage of the medium of VHS?
I want to make a music video straight to VHS. How can I maximize the glitches and poor quality associated with the medium? [more inside]
I believe in sunshine and lollipops and manicures and jolly fun time..
"I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles." - attributed to Audrey Hepburn, but I'm kind of obsessed with how modernly wooey-gooey fabricated it sounds and wanting to know exactly where it came from. I'm happy to be proved wrong OR right, I just have to know. Does anyone know where this quote actually comes from? [more inside]
posted by bleep at 9:05 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by bleep at 9:05 PM PST - 20 comments
What trendy women's shoes are cozy through a long day of retail?
Help me find some wide, stylish shoes that won't have my feet in agony after long days of retail! [more inside]
posted by araisingirl at 9:00 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by araisingirl at 9:00 PM PST - 22 comments
A Good Bowl of Popcorn Should Not Be Hard
Unsatisfying popcorn making: Either help me figure out what I am doing wrong with the brown bag method or help me choose between the Whirley Pop, the Lindy's, or some other tool/method aside from traditional pan popping. [more inside]
Can't seem to get ahead...need your experience and expertise.
I got moved to a new department at work-- only to find out I'm working harder and with less of a break for the same pay. I feel I'm getting punished for being a good worker. How do I civilly and professionally tell my boss this without being canned? [more inside]
How to navigate crazy daddy issues?
How do I deal with an emotionally charged email from my (semi-estranged?) father? Is it time to cut ties? Crazy snowflake wall of text inside. [more inside]
Do we have to smell that smell?
We're looking for a new home and found one we like, but the odor is a bit overwhelming. Can it be fixed? [more inside]
posted by roue at 7:46 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by roue at 7:46 PM PST - 14 comments
Can I eat my chorizo?
So I've got the classic dilemma- to eat or not to eat. I have some chorizo (the mexican variety, olé brand, if it matters), that I opened maybe two, three months ago. The chorizo is stored in individually wrapped sausage shaped holders. The sell by date on the package is June 16, as in next month. When I broke open one of the wrappers, the chorizo still smells divine inside. Is it ok to eat it since the main package was opened? Does the air outside of the little wrappers cause what's inside them to go bad? The internet was full of generalizations ("it's ground meat, of course it will go bad"), but I'd like a more definite answer. Anybody know?
posted by nzero at 7:18 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by nzero at 7:18 PM PST - 15 comments
Make a wench of me.
What do ladies wear to kink events in NYC? And where can I, a plus-sized woman, shop for such clothes? Brick and mortar preferred. [more inside]
posted by KinkySockPuppet at 6:40 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by KinkySockPuppet at 6:40 PM PST - 2 comments
Career Advice for a Recent Law Grad
I'm seeking any and all advice regarding my career search. I will be relocating to Los Angeles from the Midwest in July. I lived in Los Angeles prior to attending law school and have always wanted to move back. I graduated from law school this month and will be taking the California bar exam. Unfortunately, the Career Services department at my school offers me very little assistance. [more inside]
Tooth and clause
Dental Insurance: I have it for the first time in 20 years. Help me figure out how (if) I can get coverage for a procedure that was pre-approved and then denied coverage. [more inside]
Advice on driving the TransCanada highway.
Help me figure out my route, travelling from Edmonton to Toronto on the TransCanada highway! [more inside]
posted by pytar gucchy at 5:15 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by pytar gucchy at 5:15 PM PST - 9 comments
Time/temp/solar: What is solar?
Time/temp/solar display: what is the solar telling me? [more inside]
posted by hishtafel at 5:11 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by hishtafel at 5:11 PM PST - 3 comments
Is House headed for liver failure?
At some point, I remember someone telling me that one of the reasons vicodin includes acetominophen in addition to hydrocodone was so that people trying to abuse Vicodin would suffer liver failure before the opioid abuse killed them. Wikipedia does not mention this, nor do the obvious Google queries. Can anyone confirm or deny this? And, more generally, what would be the ethical or business considerations that inform that decision?
What is THE BEST, most creative, most moving story & character-based PC game you've ever played?
What is THE BEST, most creative, most moving story & character-based PC game you've ever played? [more inside]
Who drinks the dregs of champagne?
What do they do with perishable alcohol at the end of a cruise? [more inside]
Installing a garbage disposal in a rental apartment
Installing a garbage disposal in a rental apartment [more inside]
posted by rainbowbrite at 4:01 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by rainbowbrite at 4:01 PM PST - 11 comments
Motofilter: how do you rate Hyosung as a manufacturer of motorcycles?
How does Hyosung compare to other motorcycle brands? [more inside]
Producer, Director, Key Grip, Best Boy etc
How to find someone to create a short business video for display in a public space. [more inside]
A Receipts Scanner needed with 'scan to email' functionality
I have been asked to find a receipts scanner. It should be able to work preferably as a stand-alone device (so not attached to a PC) and email receipts to an email address ('scan to email' so digital copies of receipts can go into an expense system), cost a few hundred dollars and be easy to use. So far I am not having much luck - there is the Neat scanners (www.neat.com) but they seem to require a Mac.
Can you still get your kicks on route 66?
Recommendations for routes and things to do on a two week road trip from Illinois to California and back? [more inside]
posted by xammerboy at 2:37 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by xammerboy at 2:37 PM PST - 7 comments
How to keep sane on a 6 month roadtrip?
Gearing up for a 6 month road-trip in the US. What do I take? Looking for sleeping bag, technology, and other gear recommendations. [more inside]
"Boot and Rally" is not a Feat of Skill
Help me come up with a list of "bar games" for a pub crawl! [more inside]
Looking for books on WWII that could be read aloud to an elderly, ex-Marine who served in the war.
I am looking for book recommendations that might be suitable to read aloud to an elderly man who served six years in WWII as a Marine, he has dementia, but has some very alert periods of time. He loves war movies (and MASH), and is still very much interested in the war.
What's this pain in my ankle?
Photograph Framing
I want to frame a 8x10 photograph, but I want to find a really cool place/website to either buy a cool and different picture frame or figure out how to do it myself. Any suggestions?
posted by Mikon6 at 2:02 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Mikon6 at 2:02 PM PST - 8 comments
How can I enjoy superman ice cream in Virginia?
Help me find superman flavor ice cream in the metro DC area -OR- help me find a cheap (but reliable) way to ship ice cream from Michigan to Northern Virginia. [more inside]
Car brakes broken?
Car Experts ahoy! 2009 Sonata with grinding rear brakes. Dealership says its normal wear and not covered under warranty... I'm skeptical.... [more inside]
posted by BigLankyBastard at 1:43 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by BigLankyBastard at 1:43 PM PST - 8 comments
How should I sell my MacBook Pro in Florence?
[Asking for a friend] How should I sell my late 2008 15" MacBook Pro in Florence, Italy? [more inside]
What's my next move?
At a work-life crossroads: 23 years old, college grad, getting laid off, about to get married and buy a house, struggling to find the next job, in school but thinking about going back for more degree(s). Seeking general advice on my next steps. [more inside]
Saturday Morning Rock Show
In the late 90s in Portland, Oregon, there was an AM radio program called the Saturday Morning Rock Show (if I'm remembering right) on (maybe) 1010 AM. Ran for 3-4 hours or so. Switched to Sundays at one point, then back to Saturdays I think, and then was gone. For most of their time they only played local Portland bands. [more inside]
posted by curious nu at 1:36 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by curious nu at 1:36 PM PST - 1 comment
Shark animation machine: go!
I want to make a lightweight, non-Flash animation for my webpage that looks like this one example... [more inside]
posted by pavane at 1:35 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by pavane at 1:35 PM PST - 3 comments
Best beginner tai chi videos?
Please share your recommendations for good tai chi videos to improve balance. [more inside]
Blowing Hot Air About Cold Air
Blowing Hot Air About Cold Air: Reviews of portable air conditioning units are rather vague about how loud they are. There are a few that advertise "library quiet", but I'm not so sure. Does anyone have experience with one of these machines? I need a QUIET one. If I could get down to half the volume of a window unit, I'd be very happy.
Aviator sunglasses that don't snag in hair?
Please school me in the mysteries of wearing aviator sunglasses. [more inside]
posted by 2soxy4mypuppet at 12:56 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by 2soxy4mypuppet at 12:56 PM PST - 13 comments
ISO electrical expertise
I just bought a house (yay!) and I need some schoolin' by educated mefites about the relative importance of various electrical upgrades my inspector recommended. If you're an electrician, a handyman with electrical expertise, or just a homeowner that's been through this, I'd love some thoughts on what is worth spending $$$ to upgrade now, versus not that important. [more inside]
posted by iminurmefi at 12:53 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by iminurmefi at 12:53 PM PST - 26 comments
Streaming music sites for discovering new artists.
I want to discover new artists by streaming music. [more inside]
posted by Kutsuwamushi at 12:26 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by Kutsuwamushi at 12:26 PM PST - 22 comments
I keep having bouts of self destructive behaviour in a relationship. 23/M Best ways to stop it?
I keep having bouts of self destructive behaviour in a relationship. 23/M Best ways to stop it? [more inside]
My name, please make a note of it.
I am female. I have a unisex name. My male partners have always had unmistakably male names. Why, then, have new acquaintances continually called my male partners by my name?! [more inside]
posted by thrasher at 12:14 PM PST - 34 comments
posted by thrasher at 12:14 PM PST - 34 comments
Unemployed, looking for an adventure
I'm 26 year old guy recently returned from teaching in Japan, out of a job, and looking for a new adventure. [more inside]
Volunteering in Tanzania?
Volunteering in Tanzania? [more inside]
Cartilage, anyone?
This might sound totally gross, but...where can a girl get her chicken cartilage fix? [more inside]
posted by amyshmamy at 10:55 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by amyshmamy at 10:55 AM PST - 19 comments
help me play with my model ships.
[gamefilter] Best, fast to play, naval or space miniatures (tabletop) simulation? Supports lots of players, time period irrelevant, won't take all night. Fussy details inside. [more inside]
What are the best reputable sources to learn more about internet marketing?
Though I've been working with web development since the 90's, I have a hands-on knowledge gap when it comes to internet marketing techniques like SEO, Adwords, analytics and the like. What are the best sources, free or paid, to learn more? I've been looking around for good resources, but it looks like this field is dominated by crooks. Any recommendations of books and sites written by reputable professionals is appreciated. I'm also a big fan of video lectures, if you know of any.
Keep the Jeep ?
Please recommend me a good gaming laptop (with a max budget of £800)
Can I be recommended a decent laptop that is fast, has good graphics and is overall good quality please. My maximum budget for this is £800. [more inside]
Uk EEA hassles.
UK Visa and Work Permit Help: So I just received a Uk Entry Clearance which was a "EEA Family Member" type because my unmarried partner being German and she is working in the UK. But:
a) why is it only valid for 6 months? and
b) am I actually allowed to work on this Entry Clearance? [more inside]
What to do about surprise cockroaches on day 1 of our lease?
We just signed a year long lease on a very nice house but haven't moved in yet. The lease started on Tuesday, the checks are cashed by the landlord, and the walkthrough in the bright light of day was fine. The landlord assured us that there were no bug problems (except termites in the past, which have been treated).
However, yesterday evening when we were moving the first load of stuff to the new house, we spotted multiple cockroaches (outside, but against the house/diving into cracks in the foundation). NOOOO!!! How to proceed when we would have not signed the lease under these conditions? [more inside]
History of Games 101
History of Games 101. I need to learn more about the history of gaming. Ideally getting a solid overview of the continuum of ancient games such as dice, chess and Go, all the way up through present day video games. Please recommend some books for me. [more inside]
Is something killing my roses?
My rosebushes were robust 2 weeks ago, but something's going on. Here's what the worst one looks like from afar and a closeup. [more inside]
posted by buggzzee23 at 10:01 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by buggzzee23 at 10:01 AM PST - 4 comments
what do you talk/move with ur gf's friends?
I am nervous(totally) about meeting bunch of strangers and the thought they are all there to meet me.
How do you handle this? what kind of conversations would you have with them? [more inside]
A console game deserving of the British Bulldog
Name a recent (and good) console game by a British company [more inside]
Mountain bike needs upgrade! Help
So I have a 5 year old mountain bike(IronHorse Team SE) that I have been riding beginner trails and mostly commuting. Condition is fairly good and have been keeping up with cleaning and lubing.
I want to spend up to $200 to upgrade components to make it lighter and faster while maintaining the same trail-ability
Components are
Rock Shox J-1 fork
Hayes IH-2 disc brakes
AL-6061 Frame
Shimano ST-EFX35 Shift Levers
TruVativ X-Flow Crank
Shimano CSHG30-8I Rear Cogs
Acera Shimano Rear Der.
Shimano C050 Fr. Der.
MythosXC 2.10F Tires
Weight 35 lbs
Any suggestions please?
Low-key in lower city
NYC: Low-key non-dive downtown Friday night bar? [more inside]
posted by greta simone at 9:07 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by greta simone at 9:07 AM PST - 10 comments
Open enrollment deadlines and dilemmas
It's open enrollment time, and given the changes in all the policies, it's now a lot harder for a clear cut decision. [more inside]
iPhone backup and protection during iOS 5 upgrade
Augggh. I'm being forced to upgrade my iPhone to iOS 5 (critical app requires it). Questions inside -- most importantly, can I completely opt out of iCloud? [more inside]
posted by lorimer at 8:56 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by lorimer at 8:56 AM PST - 15 comments
Help me take payments from future customers by phone!
I need suggestions on ways to be able to generate an invoice and then take payment details from a customer by phone. If the customer is uncomfortable with this I would like to offer the invoice with an online payment page for them to fill in themselves. [more inside]
How to scrape the Google cache
Had a plan to scrape a website, but now it's down indefinitely. Google has the site cached, but this makes things kind of complicated. Newbie questions about scraping websites and using the Google cache inside. [more inside]
I'd like to smoke outside, but I don't want to piss off the neighbors.
Should I introduce myself to potential new neighbors to see if my outdoor cigarette smoking would bother them? [more inside]
posted by Rob Rockets at 8:48 AM PST - 38 comments
posted by Rob Rockets at 8:48 AM PST - 38 comments
Can Jimmy come out and play?
I've been failing on getting some friends to go out and do stuff with me, and need some help figuring out what I can do to get better success. [more inside]
So Confused Right Now.
How do I deal with being a platonic relationship? [more inside]
posted by DuchessProzac at 8:46 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by DuchessProzac at 8:46 AM PST - 16 comments
Need inspiration for my next work of... well... something.
I'm not an artist by any stretch, but I recently discovered that I kind of like painting with acrylics-- and I've badly needed a hobby for a while now. But I also need inspiration and so I'm looking for images that I can use as examples, but that I can make my own. For example, I really liked this and so my very first (and so far only) painting was this (1,2). I'm liking very geometrical or line-based repeating patterns that are either brightly multi-colored or monochromatic designs, but even though I have rulers and compasses, I also have a very unsteady hand so the design has to be kind of forgiving. Can you help me find images or sites where I might be able to find an idea for my next one? [more inside]
Brainstorming daily ideas for a photo blog.
Help me brainstorm daily ideas for my photo-a-day blog. I just finished Day 70, and I'd like to get more creative. [more inside]
Should I tell my friend his memorial plan is too expensive?
Is there a way to politely tell my friend that his monetary requests for a memorial donation are self-defeating? [more inside]
Recommendations for a vocal instructor / coach in the New Haven / eastern CT shoreline area?
Recommendations for a vocal instructor / coach in the New Haven / eastern CT shoreline area? [more inside]
posted by ZenMasterThis at 7:16 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by ZenMasterThis at 7:16 AM PST - 1 comment
I am a total banking n00b
I need to open a local bank account so I can keep track of my money. But I'm thinking I might switch to an online banking service once it becomes available in my area. Can I open an account, deposit cash, and then withdraw it all and close the account again in the future without any hassle? Is there a particular bank I should lean towards using to make this process easier? I'm in Philadelphia, for what that's worth.
posted by Rory Marinich at 6:57 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Rory Marinich at 6:57 AM PST - 10 comments
Hip pain causes scoliosis? How do I fix it??
How can I fix this muscle strain that is giving me scoliosis (?) [more inside]
What's my best option for my company's email and to-do lists?
How difficult is it to switch to Microsoft Exchange? And is it worth it for my needs? [more inside]
posted by gman at 6:10 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by gman at 6:10 AM PST - 12 comments
Like Twisted Sister, we wanna rock
Where can a rock band get a gig in Manhattan on a favorable night of the week without having recent gig experience? [more inside]
Design a small apartment from scratch.
What could be a reference design for a comfortable, well-equipped, small (150 to 300 sqf) highrise apartment for up to two people? [more inside]
posted by UrbietOrbi at 5:47 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by UrbietOrbi at 5:47 AM PST - 12 comments
Nonfiction books/articles about trials?
Nonfiction books/articles about trials, please. [more inside]
Surfer mom
What's a good place/way to set up a website for a parent? [more inside]
Children's book about Quaker riddles?
Children's book about Quaker riddles? I read it as a kid, I remember a hell of a lot about it -- except of course the title. [more inside]
Can I turn off my hearing?
Would it be possible to install a switch of some sort in my head that would enable me to turn my hearing on and off? I realise that I would be unlikely to find a doctor willing to do this, but I'm interested in the theoretical possibilities. [more inside]
Insightful, high quality information design
Examples of high-quality user experience / interface / information design? [more inside]
posted by ryanshepard at 3:57 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by ryanshepard at 3:57 AM PST - 6 comments
Large Red Flower identification
All I know is I take my medicine, I always take my medicine.
[PlaylistFilter] Songs about being on, or prescribed with, psychiatric medication. [more inside]
Large file upload service? In real life?
We are traveling and have very slow Internet service. My BF is a photo retoucher and has about 100 large file images he needs to send to the client by tomorrow. It will take a week to send with our sketchy Internet connection. Is there a real life service that would do this for us (in the U.S. Not all images SFW)? Does Kinkos or some other place have a service for this? Any othe ideas? Thank you!
May 17
whoa what huh whuh
What are the origins of this creepy psychedelic image? [more inside]
posted by tehloki at 11:03 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by tehloki at 11:03 PM PST - 9 comments
Tell me your unlikely-yet-successful wireless plan sharing situations!
In-laws? Old roommates? craigslist? I'm trying to save some money here! Plus bonus snowflake question about tethering/MiFi options! [more inside]
Meditation for busy parents?
How do I find a time and place for meditation as a parent? [more inside]
Guesswork
My friend-with-benefits rarely texts me or asks to see me. So I think he's probably not that into it. But then he spends hours fixing things around the house for me. What would explain this? [more inside]
How to BLOCK browser toolbars from installing?
I need a method to BLOCK browser toolbars from installing. [more inside]
Correct way to put a 110V (three-prong) dryer onto a 240V circuit? Or should we just throw it in and get a new one?
We've swapped out a three-prong dryer cord with a four-prong one but not wanting to plug it in and potentially blow something up. Approach from here? [more inside]
posted by jgunsch at 8:45 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by jgunsch at 8:45 PM PST - 12 comments
A group of humans is called a...
A group of wolves is called a pack. A group of cattle is a herd. A group of crows is called a murder. A group of humans is called a ________? Is there a specific, academic term for this? [more inside]
posted by Groundhog Week at 8:03 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by Groundhog Week at 8:03 PM PST - 26 comments
Finding Summer Research Opportunities
Help me think of summer research opportunities for teachers/post-baccs. [more inside]
posted by Peregrin5 at 8:02 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Peregrin5 at 8:02 PM PST - 3 comments
Testosterone supplementation for women
Testosterone supplementation for women - looking for research or information to share with my doctor. [more inside]
Got Trouble finding River City
Is there a simple way to find out if a particular play will be performed near me? I have an itch to see The Music Man on stage and I don't care whether it's a school production, community theater, or further up the chain, I just want to see it. [more inside]
posted by apparently at 6:06 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by apparently at 6:06 PM PST - 12 comments
K stands for the Kindness we show our customers
Looking for funny 30 rock "Kabletown" quotes. [more inside]
induction cooktops
Tell me about the merits of induction cooktops. [more inside]
posted by wilful at 5:35 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by wilful at 5:35 PM PST - 30 comments
What camcorders record straight to a computer?
What's the best camcorder I can buy for a reasonable price that will output directly to PC? [more inside]
How Does One Go About Changining or Amending California Law?
A good friend of my wife lost her brother in a vehiclular hit and run. The accused was convicted of felony hit and run resulting in death. At sentencing it was discovered that felony hit and run resulting in DEATH falls under the same law/statue as felony hit and run resulting in INJURY and so the felon was sentenced to only four years in prison, three with good behavior. [more inside]
Caffeine thy name is C8H10N4O2, now get in my belly!
DripCoffeeFilter: Help me find a great drip coffeemaker. [more inside]
Help me pick a new city to start a new career in
New career has me relocating to either Los Angeles, San Francisco, or Tampa, FL. Help me choose the best fit. [more inside]
OH GOD YES
Are there any photographers in the SF Bay Area who specialize in wacky/zany/surreal portraiture? [more inside]
Time to change gears - from workaholic to worklife balance
Currently I am working in a job that requires me to be your typical workaholic but I am soon moving onto a new position in an organisation that is very worklife balance oriented and I am concerned I will struggle with the transition. [more inside]
posted by latch24 at 4:36 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by latch24 at 4:36 PM PST - 6 comments
Please help me find the perfect printer(s) for my project!
Please help me find the perfect printer(s) for my project! [more inside]
posted by perpetual lurker at 4:35 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by perpetual lurker at 4:35 PM PST - 1 comment
Transgender surgeon around Middle Tennessee?
I am looking for a surgeon in or around the Middle Tennessee area willing to do FTM Transgender chest reconstruction surgery. [more inside]
posted by Twain Device at 4:20 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Twain Device at 4:20 PM PST - 3 comments
Quick haircut in Denver?
Denver, CO: I am flying in to Denver tomorrow and have a small window of time during which I need to get a haircut. Where can I get my haircut tomorrow afternoon, downtown in the central business district? [more inside]
posted by gursky at 3:58 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by gursky at 3:58 PM PST - 10 comments
Mysterious islands in the street
What is the purpose of very small median strips close to the sidewalk near an intersection? [more inside]
Help me not feel like the most incompetent housewife on the block.
We just bought a new three-story house with 2,900 square feet of gorgeous dark hardwood floors that make every single tiny speck of dust stand out (and we're about to get a short-haired, light-colored dog). How the hell do I keep this place clean without going crazy? [more inside]
What kinds of problems are likely in software engineering temp contracts?
I'm a software engineer. I have a job lead that requires me to go through a temp/contracting agency. I have not done that before. Is this a good idea? Are there things I should be watching out for in the contract? Or is it generally clear sailing? Thanks very much for your help.
My ginny gin gin cocktail
Cocktail troubleshooting: I am trying to create a drink for a party tomorrow, but my gin-based drink is too ginny. [more inside]
B-100 Complex
I got this B-100 Complex from Costco that promotes energy and mental clarity. I took it for a week, every single day made so sleepy I even was afraid to drive. Does anyone has any idea why it has that effect when all the comments are so positives?
posted by 3dd at 3:11 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by 3dd at 3:11 PM PST - 10 comments
Looking for suggestions for middle-class to upper-middle-class rural areas around the Bay Area.
I'm looking for suggestions for middle-class to upper-middle-class rural areas around the Bay Area. [more inside]
What to Do Down in Monterey
I'll be visiting Monterey, CA for a weekend getaway soon (most likely the end of June), and I'd love some suggestions for what to do. I've been countless times with visiting relatives so have already done all the basic touristy stuff and chain restaurants, but don't know what else the area has to offer. [more inside]
posted by rhiannonstone at 2:44 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by rhiannonstone at 2:44 PM PST - 9 comments
What do I need to turn my bike into a reliable form of practical transportation?
What do I need in order to start commuting by bike? Assume that I currently have 1) a bike, 2) there is no 2. [more inside]
posted by Scientist at 2:25 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by Scientist at 2:25 PM PST - 51 comments
I'm studying abroad at Kangwon National University in about a month. Any interesting stories?
I'm studying abroad at Kangwon National University in about a month. Any interesting stories? [more inside]
Which is better, being debt free, or having large investments?
Should I try to pay off grad school loans this year (~50k@6.55%) or should I invest ? [more inside]
Do kids do better with individual chores or group chores?
Parenting filter: I have two kids, 11 and 9. I'm a divorced dad trying to figure out a plan for their accountability for their chores when they're with me. The biggest stumbling block seems to be division of labor. On the one hand, assigning individual chores (Daughter, you wash the dishes. Son, you dry and put away) and rewarding for completion seems simple enough. But I want to teach them teamwork, negotiation, time management (who does what part first) and shared responsibility. So sometimes I say "Clean the kitchen, you figure out who does what". The latter seems better for a shared reward like a trip to the movies. Does anyone favor one approach over the other, and why? BTW they're coming from a household where their mom and I differed on how to handle chores, so they're a little used to coasting.
posted by punocchio at 1:42 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by punocchio at 1:42 PM PST - 22 comments
What radio plays should I listen to?
Where to start in researching the 'best' radio plays? [more inside]
Advice on using investments to pay down debt
I have an investment account that I can access with only the tax penalty, but no other penalties, as well as various debts. I would like to use my investment account to pay off those debts. I am looking for advice on my particular situation. Ratios and special snowflake details inside. [more inside]
Advice on setting up a VPN
Advice on creating a VPN type service using a windows desktop. [more inside]
posted by a womble is an active kind of sloth at 1:19 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by a womble is an active kind of sloth at 1:19 PM PST - 5 comments
Analyzing data using surveys in Google Docs
We conducted a survey using Google Docs Spreadsheets. Unfortunately. Now we would like an easy way to analyze the data. How? [more inside]
posted by stellaluna at 12:50 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by stellaluna at 12:50 PM PST - 3 comments
Cheapest, fastest internet in the emerald city?
What are my options for broadband residential internet in Seattle? [more inside]
Is there a trick of your trade that you always do, even if the results are not noticed?
In your given field, is there one thing that you always do that may be overlooked but you consider it important? It may not be obvious, but it makes your work higher quality and/or more efficient and you can't imagine being happy with the work if you didn't do it. [more inside]
Is there a way to eat lower-carb as a vegetarian with dietary restrictions?
Lowering carbs as a vegetarian with many diet limitations – this seems impossible and I'd love to hear how you navigate it. [more inside]
posted by carbide at 12:30 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by carbide at 12:30 PM PST - 32 comments
I've lost touch with my kids, and I don't know how to fix it.
I've lost touch with my kids, and I don't know how to fix it. [more inside]
Please leave your answer after the beep.
Help me understand my landline phone problems and possibly buy a new one. [more inside]
Cool job or practical internship?
I haven't gotten an offer yet, but if I do, would it be a bad idea to pass it up for something with less benefits? [more inside]
How do I get out of this low GPA mess?
End of junior year in college, biology major, low GPA, just feel miserable. Is there any hope left for me? [more inside]
My only regret is that I never wrote down the name of this friggin book...
Another "vague memory of childhood book" question. This one had to do with some kids and...something about the American
Revolution. [more inside]
Best companies in America
I am beyond fed up with large companies. Unfortunately, I don’t have much of a choice in some cases, but I’m hoping to get a list of companies that are decent and still practice actual customer service, rather than just giving lip service to it. (Examples at the bottom for people who feel like reading a rant). [more inside]
DEC (Device Ecosystem Failure)
Ipad 2 - how to transfer a SUBSET of photos in a folder to an iMac. Problem: can transfer ALL photos, and can transfer handpicked photos, but not a folder of selected photos. Tried iPhoto and Image Capture. [Asking for a friend]. [more inside]
CMS for science!
Looking for a good content management system for a science research lab website. Any suggestions? [more inside]
Need advice on work-order software.
My very small office is looking for Windows software suggestions for tracking work orders. I know nothing about this kind of software, only that someone suggested BMC (Numara) Track-It. Are there others you have used that you can suggest to me? [more inside]
Me Tie Dough-ty Walker!
Art technique filter: How did Stephen Gammell (the original illustrator of the haunting book Scary Stories to Tell in the Dark) accomplish his nightmare-inducing style? [more inside]
posted by halseyaa at 10:23 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by halseyaa at 10:23 AM PST - 7 comments
I Feel Pretty Oh So Pretty...or is it something else?
How concerned should I be about my teenage daughter's obsession with taking pictures of herself? [more inside]
posted by daydreamer at 10:22 AM PST - 61 comments
posted by daydreamer at 10:22 AM PST - 61 comments
Hotels in Oahu
Going to Oahu in June. Looking for any updated/current info anyone can provide regarding 1. a good/great hotel for three nights at a good/great value and 2. any off-the-beaten path recreational activities/site seeing/leisurely must-dos! Can you help? [more inside]
My wife confessed to being molested as a child and I am not sure how to respond
I've been married to my wife for a few years, but she confessed to me recently that a neighbor molested her when she was a child. How can I respond to this in a helpful, supportive way? [more inside]
Yet another "what is this book I read as a kid" post.
Help me identify a young adult book I read in the late 70s or early 80s about a boy lost in the wilderness. [more inside]
posted by Occula at 10:10 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Occula at 10:10 AM PST - 5 comments
Cajón of my own
Should I buy a cajón? I know the best thing would be to go to my local big box drum store (ba-dum-dum) and try them out, but in the meantime...Can I get something in the hundred dollar range that sounds good, isn't too fragile, and is portable-ish? Are there particular brands/models that are considered particularly good value, can't-go-wrong choices? Also, I'm 5'2" -- Should I be worried about getting something too big? I'm interested in getting a cajon because it seems versatile and reasonably easy to get nice sounds out of it even while learning. Is that a safe assumption, or is there a better choice in the portable-hand-drum, sitting-around-playing-music-with-friends department (e.g., bongos, djembe...)? Have I asked too many questions for one post? [more inside]
Why can't duloxetine (cymbalta) be prescribed to me? Is there some kind of restriction in the UK.
Why can't duloxetine (cymbalta) be prescribed to me? Is there some kind of restriction in the UK. [more inside]
posted by conrad101 at 9:44 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by conrad101 at 9:44 AM PST - 7 comments
Restaurants in/around Lake Villa, IL
Posting for my girlfriend:
I am looking for restaurant recommendations for a date somewhere in or around Lake Villa, IL (roughly 10 miles west of Gurnee.) I am willing to drive up to 30 minutes. I am looking for good food, strongly prefer an independent restaurant to a chain and absolutely no sports bars. Unique/hole in the wall is okay, as long as the food is good and we can talk.
Both people on this date are female, but I'm not holding my breath for lesbian bars/restaurants in that area.
posted by JJtheJetPlane at 9:43 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by JJtheJetPlane at 9:43 AM PST - 6 comments
Bird tattoo
I am getting a tattoo of two birds on my back to cover up some old tattoos that I no longer like. I am looking for bird species inspiration. Ideally these will be some sort of plumed birds, but please link me/give me a species name of any birds that you find to be particularly beautiful. Thanks!
How did you escape your toxic work situation?
How did you escape (or deal with) your toxic work situation? [more inside]
How do you avoid being tired after work?
Give me your best tactics for avoiding sleep and slack after a long workday. [more inside]
What is the origin of the "fishing up a boot" trope?
We've all seen this trope. A man is rod fishing, when he thinks he's just made a catch, but, tarnation! It's an old boot! Only there's something about it that just strikes me as quite odd about this whole business. [more inside]
posted by Algebra at 9:18 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Algebra at 9:18 AM PST - 13 comments
Can anyone help me identify two obscured songs from vaguely remembered lyrics?
Can anyone help me identify two obscure songs from vaguely remembered lyrics? [more inside]
She's dating a guy who had an affair and is now divorced - can it work?
She's dating a guy who had an affair and is now divorced. Can it work? How? [more inside]
Grandpa wants to see the heir apparent
How to email an iPad photo to a large group? [more inside]
posted by kestrel251 at 8:57 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by kestrel251 at 8:57 AM PST - 5 comments
Help me write Third Reality
I want a simple, bare-bones environment for working on my systems programming chops. [more inside]
posted by invitapriore at 8:48 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by invitapriore at 8:48 AM PST - 7 comments
A cluttered mind is a sign of...wait I forget.
This is a question about organization and task management. Long and snowflakey, harsh criticism allowed. [more inside]
Searching Craigslist
What is your favorite tool for searching multiple Craigslist cities? Crazedlist is now defunct and I'm sad. I know I could set up a million RSS feeds, but I thought I'd ask here first before going to the trouble.
posted by MacChimpman at 8:42 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by MacChimpman at 8:42 AM PST - 7 comments
Help me get over burnout
How do I push through feeling burnt-out? [more inside]
How can I avoid self-sabotage and turn this internship into a career?
I just landed a dream internship (part time, unpaid) that will probably last about 6-8 months. Please help me avoid self sabotage so I can turn it into a job/career. [more inside]
Can you help us bless our wedding dinner?
Can you help us find the transcript of a blessing or poem from Praire Home Companion? Either that, or some other suitable grace for a Catholic/atheist/multifaith wedding blessing before dinner. [more inside]
Fern with Lettuce on her Tooth
Name This Book: A children's chapter book (think Judy Blume) in which a nerdy girl named Fern gets lettuce stuck to her front tooth. [more inside]
posted by something something at 8:17 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by something something at 8:17 AM PST - 11 comments
Ipad as a musician´s friend !!
Where can I find this out-of-print book?
Where to find an out-of-print geneaology book? [more inside]
Is it possible to make my cat less needy?
Cat psychology filter: Is it possible to make my cat less needy? [more inside]
Why is my broadband acting weirdly?
Why does my wireless router stop some devices from accessing the web every now and then. [more inside]
to Russia with love
Do you know any good videos for young children to learn a little Russian? [more inside]
posted by spbmp at 7:39 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by spbmp at 7:39 AM PST - 11 comments
Power Grid: The Game is way more fun than this.
Explain alternating current distribution across "the grid" to me in terms an educated layman can understand. Specifically, I have a question about how to talk about which power plants are providing power to a particular consumer. [more inside]
posted by 256 at 7:27 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by 256 at 7:27 AM PST - 20 comments
Therapist Recommendations around Westchester County NY
I am looking for suggestions for a great therapist in the Westchester County, NY area. I am thinking one that focuses on cognitive-behavioral therapy may be best, but am open to suggestions. [more inside]
Comfort foods of the world! I wish to cook and eat you!
I want to amass a collection of comfort food recipes, and I want them to be from as many different cultures and cuisines as possible! [more inside]
Grammar correction in older fiction?
Correcting the grammar of other people. How long has this been a part of popular culture? [more inside]
posted by teraspawn at 6:46 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by teraspawn at 6:46 AM PST - 20 comments
Sudden influx of calls to mobile phone
My mobile phone is suddenly getting lots (more than 30 in the last 18 hours) of phone calls from "unknown" numbers and numbers with strange area codes. No voicemails are left. In many cases, the leading three digits don't appear to be area codes used in North America (examples include 375, 736, and 486), so these could be calls from outside the U.S. and Canda. What's going on? What should I do? [more inside]
Old Fashion Candy Classics
too many copies of a book?
What to do with ~50 copies of a Physics Text? [more inside]
Domestic legs of international flights
I'm trying to wrestle with flights here, and none of the domestic options are very good. So I'm considering flying the domestic leg of an international flight instead. But I've got several questions. [more inside]
What is this thing?
How do I handle my mother's crush on my boyfriend's (much younger) brother?
My mother, who has borderline personality disorder, has thrown a tremendous wrench into my relationship. I am so overwhelmed by this right now. Help? [more inside]
Can I sue a freight forwarder for loss of future business?
My company lost its largest customer due to a freight forwarder screwing up and delivering an order a month late. Can I sue the freight company? [more inside]
mp4 battery
Replacement flat battery pack for a dead mp4 player. [more inside]
Am I infesting my garage with wood ticks when I leave my work clothes there?
I volunteer at a nature preserve which is known to have wood ticks & deer ticks. People have gotten Lyme disease from tick bites there, so out of concern for our household critters, I take off my clothes in the garage upon returning home and proceed directly to the shower.
Would any ticks on said clothing migrate to the rest of the garage, or would they stay put until I pick up the pile & put it through the washer?
posted by rpaxton at 5:40 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by rpaxton at 5:40 AM PST - 6 comments
New, [unsusual()?] career choices.
I am a Systems Engineer. I work with models and simulations and do a lot of work with Excel and Bespoke modelling tools and massive massive piles of data. I'm pretty good at it, most of the time.
But, what else could I do (preferably in or near London) ? [more inside]
posted by Just this guy, y'know at 5:27 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Just this guy, y'know at 5:27 AM PST - 3 comments
Peeling paint reveals Lockwood sticker: which came first?
On two doors, the door closing mechanism's paint is peeling, and underneath the paint there is a Lockwood sticker. Is this a design feature, an 'easter egg', or what? Photos inside. [more inside]
posted by UltraFleece at 5:11 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by UltraFleece at 5:11 AM PST - 6 comments
Help me get it on this weekend.
Fun, nerdy, date ideas in Ottawa, On? [more inside]
when i find the time capsule, maybe i'll find my memory
I buried a time capsule in our backyard 25 years ago. I'm not sure I remember where I buried it. Can you help me find it without tearing up the yard? [more inside]
Serging forward
I used an overlocker (serger) for the first time yesterday, and I was impressed. I'd like to get one when I am in a position to have a proper sewing space (hopefully in the next year), but can I survive without one for dressmaking well enough? And what should I be looking for in a first machine? [more inside]
How hard is it to drive with a hitch?
I was asked to help a friend move. I'd be driving a small two door hatchback. Attached would be a U-Haul U-Box hitched on to the back (See here for details). I have never driven anything with a hitch on the back. I would need to drive it 4 times, each time it would be about 15 miles or so. It would help save a lot of money if i could do this. How hard is it to drive with something big hitched behind? Should I help out? Any thoughts, or tips on the situation would be very appreciated.
posted by Mr.X at 4:21 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by Mr.X at 4:21 AM PST - 16 comments
Spoof "how-to" videos
What is the website full of fake home improvement / how to videos that seem reasonable at first but are actually all spoofs / parodies with bad advice? [more inside]
posted by ac at 3:10 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by ac at 3:10 AM PST - 5 comments
Melbourne!
I'm going to be spending the upcoming weekend in Melbourne, and am interested in shopping for vintage and handcrafted items, as well as general wandering/people watching. Where should I go? [more inside]
I need to replace my netbook
Help me replace my eee901 netbook. My needs are annoyingly specific. [more inside]
May 16
Please help decipher the signatures of a drawing and painting
My wife and I bought a sketch and a watercolor, both of which have visible signatures, but that we cannot decipher. Images: Sketch Img 1 & 2, Painting Img 1 & 2. Does anybody recognize the artists or have any suggestions on how to ID the artists? [more inside]
posted by comradechu at 11:10 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by comradechu at 11:10 PM PST - 3 comments
Can you watch movies on an iPad without a network?
How can my friend watch movies on her iPad like you would on a laptop? [more inside]
Yea, verily wast he tricked oute withe many fineries
I recently came across the phrase "tricked out"--used just the way we use it today--in a book from the late 1800s. I was so shocked that I searched Project Gutenberg and found it used all over the place. What's the deal? And what are some other current-sounding phrases that go back further than you would think--used the way we use them today?
posted by circular at 10:43 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by circular at 10:43 PM PST - 30 comments
How do I transform my bed into gold?
How can I transform my super old vintage painted cast iron bed into a rad shiny metallic aged gold bed in the least painful/expensive way possible? [more inside]
Earnest TV that doesn't short change women
Can you recommend me a TV series that is both earnest and feminist friendly? [more inside]
posted by Bleusman at 9:46 PM PST - 51 comments
posted by Bleusman at 9:46 PM PST - 51 comments
Do all cats look like sphynx cats under their fur?
Do all cats look like sphynx cats under their fur? [more inside]
posted by timsneezed at 9:14 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by timsneezed at 9:14 PM PST - 3 comments
No time left to lose
Did nothing for 3 years. Now I need a job again. Am I doomed? [more inside]
VERY simple alternating strength-training program
I want two quick and easy strength-training exercises I can alternate and do every day, in order to get my exercise groove back. What are two complementary ones? [more inside]
posted by Jacen Solo at 8:20 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Jacen Solo at 8:20 PM PST - 12 comments
Name this obscure work-related principle of efficiency?
Looking for the name of a principle, probably named after its originator, who was likely a programmer, that goes something like "When we interact, please assume that I won't be offended by a lack of social niceties, and get right to the point for the sake of efficiency." I feel like it had a stub or some brief mention on Wikipedia, and I remember first encountering the idea in someone's forum signature.
Which of these Spanish language films should I watch?
My college's language lab has a bunch of Spanish language movies that I can watch to fulfill my language lab requirement for my Spanish class. But I know very very little about Spanish language film. Which of these movies should I watch? For an added level of difficulty, assume I can only watch five films in a semester.
I'd love to work here...in two months.
I have an interview tomorrow. I had a phone interview that went well enough that they’ve asked me to meet other people on the team in person. The job seems like a good fit for my skills and based on what I’ve learned so far, I’d like the job. The issue: I’ve planned a month-long trip for July. [more inside]
posted by shoesietart at 7:55 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by shoesietart at 7:55 PM PST - 10 comments
I want to be a roughneck!!
Roughneck/oil rig filter: Im trying to pursue a career change and working on an oil rig & doing the roughneck type work is something I'm interested in. Ive been a IT Support/Network administrator/Network engineer for the past 12 years and its time for a change and time to get out of the office environment. How do i get into this line of work? I see a lot of websites promising to "Help you" get into the industry but when i look closer they look like a bunch of crap. Anyways if anyone knows please let me know. BTW...Looking for something in Tx...Ideally working xxxx number of days on xxxx number of days off because i have a family. Really any foot in the door would be ideal i just don't know how to get there,
Xenophobia or anti-oppression?
Why is cultural appropriation bad? [more inside]
Should I include this in my online freelance clips even if the editing is not up to my standards?
I'm new to freelance writing online. What do I do if a website publishing my work (through a middle-man content network who pays me) edits/adds to my writing in a way that I feel detracts from the quality of the work? I only have 4 published clips so far; should I include a link to this website when clips are requested by potential employers? [more inside]
Games on Discrete Planes
What video games take place on multiple (but finite/not many) two-dimensional planes? [more inside]
posted by 23 at 7:28 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by 23 at 7:28 PM PST - 18 comments
Gluten Free Carribean
Are there any gluten free dining options on St. Thomas or Dominica? [more inside]
Overcoming panic attacks involving urinary urgency?
How to control panic attacks/panic disorder when the primary symptom is sudden urinary urgency? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 6:58 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by anonymous at 6:58 PM PST - 12 comments
A head full of snot at altitude
In two days I will be taking a series of flights to travel from Australia to Europe for a very much needed month long break. Unfortunately I have a bad cold, secondary infections in my throat and sinuses and generally feel like crap. Given that 27 hours of travel time is not likely to be kind to me, how can I avoid turning up in Edinburgh in even worse shape? [more inside]
iPad + ? = music
With all this tech, surely there's a way to listen to music in my living room? [more inside]
posted by libraryhead at 6:31 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by libraryhead at 6:31 PM PST - 25 comments
That quiet guy at work...
My introversion is causing some friction in the workplace. How do I address it? [more inside]
I've painted myself into a box...
What are the top "best practices" for graphic designers? [more inside]
Spock vs. the Anti-Spock
Anyone have good ideas of characters who personify over-emotional thinking, over-rational thinking and a healthy balance of both?
The missus leads a group at a recovery center, and she's trying to find examples to show the patients to help them understand between emotional and rational thinking. The best we've come up with is Spock/McCoy/Kirk; is there a good clip that shows this interplay between the characters?
Or, please, if you have better characters and scenes she could use, we'd appreciate it.
posted by jsmith77 at 6:16 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by jsmith77 at 6:16 PM PST - 20 comments
How do I carry my yen?
What's the best way to handle getting/carrying foreign currency? (For travel to Japan, in particular.) [more inside]
Looking for blog and podcast networks
Looking for blog and podcast networks. [more inside]
I didn't order the paint chips!
How to deal with a car dealer for problems with new car before delivery? [more inside]
torturing loved ones for fun and profit
We're considering having our wedding ceremony outside. At night. In winter. Is this completely crazy? Is there any way to make it less crazy? [more inside]
Ghost stories to tell children aloud?
Ghost stories to tell a five-year-old? [more inside]
Are Moscow train tickets change-able?
Moscow train tickets -- change-able or refundable? ISO on-the-ground info. [more inside]
Legal Writing and Advocacy
Hi ,
I was wondering if any mefiers could help advise me on potentially choosing a certain module for my llb (undergraduate law) option.
I was thinking of choosing the legal writing and advocacy option, but I am not sure.
Has anyone any idea of what is usually expected in a module such as this? It strikes me as an option very similar that provided in American law schools. How are these usually assessed? The naive bone in me is entertaining the prospect of a slightly less harsh marking criteria compared to the substantive core modules I shall be studying as well; but I could be wrong.
My course book mentions the break down of the module as follows:
Legal Writing and Advocacy:
- Reflective Learning Journal (40%)
- Response to Consultation Document (30%)
- Oral Presentation 1 - (15%)
- Oral Presentation 2 - (15%) [more inside]
Need to deliver baked goods to a friend, in Toronto, at night
A friend of mine, who lives in East York (Toronto), is working insanely long hours. I want to send him baked goods from a great bakery (since he wants cookies really badly). Can you help me find a bakery that will deliver to him outside of regular office hours (possibly faaar outside regular hours), and that I won't have to go to in order to set this all up--since I'm in Ottawa?
Should I ditch COBRA and switch to an individual plan?
Health insurance question: I got laid off from a small company a few months ago, and have been paying over $400 monthly for COBRA. This eats up a ton of my unemployment money. I'm wondering if I should switch to an individual plan. [more inside]
Please enter a phone number for the verification code to be sent to you (NOT)
Is it safe or desireable to give a mobile phone number, to a website for verification? [more inside]
"May you always find water and shade"
What are some non-generic blessings our officiant-friend can end our wedding ceremony with? Difficulty: no mention of God, please. [more inside]
posted by np312 at 4:22 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by np312 at 4:22 PM PST - 21 comments
Can I get undeleted on Blogger?
Can I get undeleted on Blogger? If so, how? [more inside]
Low heart rate: how much to worry and what to do?
I went to see the doctor this morning about some stomach pain I thought might be an ulcer. When the nurse checked my heart rate, it was 48 bpm. Neither the nurse nor my doctor (who knows my med history) said anything about this. I wasn't concerned until I googled it when I got home, and now I'm having a lot of anxiety about it. Called my doctor and he said that a one time reading of 48 with no other symptoms is not troubling. Nurse said I should check my pulse tomorrow and if it's still in the 40s, call them. How much should I be freaking out right now? [more inside]
posted by The Pantless Wonder at 4:15 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by The Pantless Wonder at 4:15 PM PST - 18 comments
Please help me track down this (very faintly remembered) comic book!
Please help me track down this (very faintly remembered) comic book! [more inside]
posted by The Card Cheat at 4:04 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by The Card Cheat at 4:04 PM PST - 2 comments
Back together or bust?
My fiance's parents moved back in together after almost 17 years of being divorced. I know it's really none of my business, but still I'm curious: has anybody else had parents that got back together after a long time apart, or has anybody done this themselves? How'd it go? [more inside]
posted by Rocket26 at 4:00 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by Rocket26 at 4:00 PM PST - 20 comments
Simplify, simplify, simplify!
What are some items you purchased that have had the net effect of simplifying your life or reducing the clutter in your home? [more inside]
posted by 2bucksplus at 3:55 PM PST - 37 comments
posted by 2bucksplus at 3:55 PM PST - 37 comments
Donating to an NGO in Uruguay
I'd like to make a donation to the SOS Rescate Fauna Marina, an NGO in Uruguay, but I'm not sure how best to do so. [more inside]
One Way or Another
How practical is airline travel for fat people? [more inside]
posted by zinon at 3:43 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by zinon at 3:43 PM PST - 35 comments
Make our family cruise memorable, but in a good way?
Taking the family on our very first cruise on a Carnival Conquest. A 7 day Western Carribean itinerary going to Montego Bay, Grand Cayman, and Cozumel. Help me with experienced cruiser/traveler tips, especially with children. What should I know about, avoid, and go out of my way to do. Of course special snowflake multiracial special needs family details inside. [more inside]
posted by cross_impact at 3:30 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by cross_impact at 3:30 PM PST - 6 comments
Single device encryption - is sounds like a SHAm.
Help me understand how encryption works when there's just one device involved. [more inside]
posted by Tehhund at 3:19 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Tehhund at 3:19 PM PST - 13 comments
What's that funny smell from the sauna?
Over the last few months we've noticed a strange lighter fluid/butane scent coming from our home sauna. I need help trying to figure out a possible explanation. [more inside]
I need to protect my new carpet!
I'm moving into a new apartment in less than a week. I have three dogs that are not fully potty trained. Please recommend products I can spray around the place to discourage accidents on the carpet, furniture and floor. Please also recommend which products I need to make sure accidents don't result in a permanent stain and/or smell. Thank you !
When should I stop working and start looking in a relationship?
Relationship-filter: I am willing to work on my relationship with a S.O. This leads to the problem that I have a hard time assessing if the relationship is working through. Let me explain more: [more inside]
Attachment and daycare
Attachment and daycare: how do people do it? [more inside]
posted by mooselini at 2:50 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by mooselini at 2:50 PM PST - 31 comments
Don't argue with me!
I have a simple mind, and I want to make a bunch of simple invitations.
I have a simple mind, and I want to make a bunch of simple invitations. [more inside]
Perparing to adopt a teenager.
Attention therapists, social workers, and counselors of Metafilter: Suggestions of books and resources to equip a couple in their late fifties planning on adopting a 17 year old girl. [more inside]
posted by Poppa Bear at 2:39 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Poppa Bear at 2:39 PM PST - 6 comments
How best to sell a junker car?
What's the best way to (legally) get rid of a car that's currently running, but beyond economic repair? [more inside]
posted by UbuRoivas at 2:37 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by UbuRoivas at 2:37 PM PST - 24 comments
Something stanks and I want some
Where can I get a new patient appointment in San Francisco this week?
Where in San Francisco can I make a new patient appointment THIS WEEK? [more inside]
I mean, they're all just competing for resources, right?
What is the current state of interdisciplinary research between biology and economics? [more inside]
posted by gauche at 2:33 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by gauche at 2:33 PM PST - 4 comments
On-line subscription contracts
I'm looking for pointers to draw up a contract for an online subscription-based service. (UK based) [more inside]
Gotta get the hell up out of here.
What are productive ways to use a year off from work if I want to make myself more marketable, skilled, and noteworthy? [more inside]
How do you rebuild a professional network?
Please help me rebuild my professional network. [more inside]
What are my silly cats doing now?
Why do my cats act all funny? (Obligatory adorable cat pictures inside.) [more inside]
posted by Ruthless Bunny at 1:52 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by Ruthless Bunny at 1:52 PM PST - 16 comments
Come now Metafilter, help me compile a playlist of the best R&B Summer Jams from the years 1986 to 1991, which are similar in radness to the two featured inside this post...
Come now Metafilter, help me compile a playlist of the best R&B Summer Jams from the years 1986 to 1991, which are similar in radness to the two featured inside this post... [more inside]
Gay-friendly doctor in NYC?
Can you recommend a gay or gay-friendly primary care physician in NYC? [more inside]
Find me a good Yankees bar in NYC
Where are some nice bars to watch the Yankees in NYC? [more inside]
Game/tech blogs
I'm looking for blogs that will answer questions like "Is now a bad time to get an unlocked Galaxy Nexus?" or "Now that Diablo has arrived, what are the most anticipated games of 2012?" Tech and video games galore, please. Bonus points if it's hilarious.
Survival Horror Game?
For a friend: "Help me identify this survival horror game I remember playing several years ago." [more inside]
posted by estlin at 12:45 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by estlin at 12:45 PM PST - 3 comments
What Does The French Text on The Drawing Say?
French speaking friends on Ask Mefi - Can you please tell me what the text on this drawing says?
Full drawing. Close up.
posted by extrabox at 12:35 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by extrabox at 12:35 PM PST - 17 comments
Buying a shirt for skinnyfat dude w/long arms in NYC
Shirt-filter: Buying, via Mail-order or in NYC, a casual dress shirt for a guy who is skinnyfat, with long arms. Shirt Me AskMe! [more inside]
Help me find a freelance coder
Where can I hire reliable coders to do piecemeal coding for me? [more inside]
iPhone
iPhonefilter: After getting my screen replaced I cannot hear people when they call me but they can hear me. Speakerphone still works though. What happened? This is a 3GS. [more inside]
Tweak or replace this stalling bittorrent client?
My qBittorrent client (for Linux) stalls out far too often and knocks me offline. Why is this happening, and what can I do to fix or mitigate the problem? [more inside]
The dos and don'ts of getting ambushed with a camera
I recently discovered that someone I dated a few years back (it ended badly) is the subject of a soon-to-be-filmed documentary in which he "gets back" at all the people who have romantically wronged him in the past. The production has a crew, a blog, and a fundraising page. The copy implies that the "getting back" will occur in-person. What is the best way to behave if one finds themselves ambushed by a documentary crew, possibly in a prank-like situation?
Did you ever notice that...
I'm looking for movies with such rich production/set/etc. design that you can watch them repeatedly and always find something new. Examples inside. [more inside]
How to send a just friends email
I slept with a guy, then found out he might want more of a relationship. How to be nice but make it clear I don't want one? [more inside]
Finding grants to start a private, nonprofit school
Some folks in a small town dear to my heart are hoping to start a private, non-profit elementary school. I've offered to help out finding grants. But it's... confusing. [more inside]
Can I convert a letterhead template from Word or pdf to Wordperfect?
My firm has a letterhead template in a Word picture image and pdf format. I'd like to be able to use that with Wordperfect X4 so I can type directly on/into it. Is this possible? Alternatively, can I "print" a Wordperfect file onto a letterhead template in pdf? [more inside]
posted by dios at 11:35 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by dios at 11:35 AM PST - 5 comments
Can an elderly person who has lost their will to live actually induce a physiological problem solely with the power of their mind?
Can an elderly person who has lost their will to live actually induce a physiological problem solely with the power of their mind? [more inside]
Who are we in the U.S., really?
Besides Central Americans, what are other countries that have major first-generation diaspora communities in the United States?
India? Armenia? Cambodia? Other Asian countries? Just wild guesses here. [more inside]
posted by metajc at 11:22 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by metajc at 11:22 AM PST - 13 comments
And maybe something with dollar signs I don't know
Need help with (possibly?) "indirect" in Excel. [more inside]
Please help me get my Excel data back.
Earlier this morning, I accidentally deleted some columns of data on an Excel spreadsheet and then saved it. Is there a way to get those columns back? [more inside]
What Would You Want To Learn at Cookery School?
I'm opening a cookery school, hoping to entice people and children from all walks of life to learn and care more about their food and how to prepare it. What courses would you want to see offered at a professional cookery school?
Help me talk to my friend with cancer
My neighbor is dying of cancer. It's touch or go, and I am not sure, but it may be the end. I am young enough that I haven't known many people to die, and my neighbor is himself young. Not to be dramatic, but I don't know how to say goodbye and I'm nervous. [more inside]
Facebook wants me to share everthing, but...
FacebookPrivacyFilter: I'm out to increasingly larger circles of friends and work colleagues, but am not out to my extended family. What steps can I take on Facebook to delay the inevitable without causing drama? [more inside]
In need of a cornbread recipe.
Looking for a cast iron skillet cornbread recipe. [more inside]
Massage School?
Careers for massage therapists? [more inside]
Can I sue my university?
Can I sue my university? [more inside]
Is it legit that I should go to small claims court?
I've been asked to testify at small claims court for a car accident I was in 3 years ago in which another person was at fault. Is this normal? More inside. [more inside]
How to Handle the Hormones
Emotional cheating vs. Real Life cheating (with prostitutes!) or how to handle hormones... [more inside]
Sources explaining why you shouldn't put a comma after the year when a date is used as an adjective?
Sources explaining why you shouldn't put a comma after the year when a date is used as an adjective? [more inside]
Help Me Do Better At Personal Ads
At my wits end with personal ads (and photos). Sorry guys, this one is long. You've been warned. [more inside]
Not So Grimm Fairytales
Can you recommend books of fairy tales, folklore, or myths, that are not European? [more inside]
posted by instead of three wishes at 8:43 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by instead of three wishes at 8:43 AM PST - 26 comments
"Hey, remember that one episode where ..."
What are the best examples of experimental television episodes? [more inside]
What to do when your house shrinks without you knowing it?
Our house is 300 square feet smaller than we thought it was. Is there anything we can do? [more inside]
posted by JuliaKM at 8:23 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by JuliaKM at 8:23 AM PST - 14 comments
Black and White Road Stripes
What are the deep black stripes on highway lane markings immediately following white stripes? [more inside]
posted by c0nsumer at 8:20 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by c0nsumer at 8:20 AM PST - 10 comments
Dear in the Dealership Headlights
YANMM(mechanic) - so I have a 2007 Equinox with around 120,000 km and it is time for a regular oil change. I have it done at the dealership when the car tells me to (some usage meter thing on dash). This time the dealer tells me I have lots of other recommended services. It seems excessive but I have zero car knowledge. Can you smart folks give me some guidance? [more inside]
posted by saradarlin at 8:07 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by saradarlin at 8:07 AM PST - 25 comments
Best book for beginning C++ student?
What's the single best book for a beginning student of C++ to work through over a period of a month or two?
Help with a WordPress website conversion
I need a little advice about a WordPress site. I'm helping to redesign an existing website, the owner of the site is requesting a WordPress conversion. Everything's been set up, but it might not be in the right place. [more inside]
Looking for music tinged with nostalgia and sad longing.
Songs like Jackson Browne's These Days are suffused with nostalgia and wistfulness, what other great songs fit this mold? Help me find them. [more inside]
posted by MasonDixon at 7:35 AM PST - 60 comments
posted by MasonDixon at 7:35 AM PST - 60 comments
Will there be a run on Greek banks and if so what would that mean?
How likely is a run on Greek banks? What would the short to medium term effect of a run be on Greek businesses? Would it effect different types of businesses differently?
Religious conversion stories in literature?
Looking for: Religious conversion stories in literature, from Paul onward. Specifically: from non-belief to belief. William James covers this nicely. And I seem to recall Dostoyevsky addresses the issue at least once in his novels (which?). Also C.S. Lewis, I think, somewhere. Other thoughts?
Help me be a great dog owner.
I'm going to be a dog owner soon but I've only owned cats. I want to be a great dog owner. Can you recommend a good all-in-one book to get me ready for training and care?
Can two days of changed diet significantly affect my running capabilities?
Can two days of changed diet significantly affect my running capabilities? [more inside]
posted by tippiedog at 7:14 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by tippiedog at 7:14 AM PST - 18 comments
Make me less of an academic island!
I'm a PhD student, and I'd like to do more academic networking over email. How does this work, and what should the emails sound like? [more inside]
Being a bridesmaid is the WORST THING EVER EVER EVER
I'm in the wedding party of a woman I detest. In fact, 3 of the 4 women in the bridal party now officially hate the bride. Help us navigate this crazy situation. [more inside]
I need help deciding on a home data storage/NAS solution.
I need help deciding on a home data storage/NAS solution. [more inside]
posted by royalsong at 6:43 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by royalsong at 6:43 AM PST - 11 comments
Should I get a property survey?
What's the downside of not getting a property survey? [more inside]
posted by glenngulia at 6:27 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by glenngulia at 6:27 AM PST - 11 comments
Should I move my potted vegetable plants to catch the morning sun?
I have a cherry tomato plant and a few pepper plants (scotch bonnets and jalapenos) in pots in a window that faces due west - they get bright shade until about 3 pm, and then hot, direct sun until about 6:30 pm. Should I move them to the front garden (facing south) in the mornings? [more inside]
Who's running the show?
How does a parliamentary democracy function during the time between a government's dissolution and new elections? [more inside]
posted by helloimjohnnycash at 6:14 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by helloimjohnnycash at 6:14 AM PST - 9 comments
Chumby & Last.fm
How can I get last.fm streaming to my chumby from my (ubuntu linux) laptop? [more inside]
I don't want to be a psycho bride to be
[Psycho Filter] - I love him. He loves me. We intend to get married next year. YAY! But it feels like a really long time away. Help me to be patient and enjoy the anticipation and build up, because right now I am suffocating in a world of "OMG CAN WE PLZ GET MARRIED YESTERDAY!" eagerness. [more inside]
posted by gwenlister at 5:05 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by gwenlister at 5:05 AM PST - 28 comments
Come hang out behind the dairy twist with me and look at cars...or at least help me find the ad...
Looking for a 1999/2000 VW Jetta commercial where some dudes come up to a Jetta driver and ask him to join them to "look at cars" "behind the dairy twist". [more inside]
Meat art from South America
Can you recommend a book about the meat culinary in South America? Bonus points if it's focused on Uruguay's or Brazil's cuisine [more inside]
How is laser penetration controlled?
How is a laser beam controlled so that it only penetrates a fixed distance into a soft material that it could normally pierce right through? [more inside]
posted by Quillcards at 2:27 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Quillcards at 2:27 AM PST - 9 comments
Late night takeout food in Vancouver
I'm looking for mefi's recommendations for late night take-out, fast food or quick ethnic food in Vancouver BC. [more inside]
Can anybody help me find TV shows/documentaries/podcasts/literature on doctors and hospitals in Brazilian Portuguese?
Can anybody help me find TV shows/documentaries/podcasts/literature on doctors and hospitals in Brazilian Portuguese? [more inside]
Apparently when you hit your early 30s everyone you know gets pregnant at the same time?
I want to give a standard starter library of awesome children's picture books as baby shower gifts for my close friends who are first time mothers. What should I include? [more inside]
May 15
Northern California vacation ideas
Northern California trip planning help please! I'm attending a wedding in the Sonoma region this summer and would like to plan a week-long Northern California trip ending in Geyserville. I'll be with family and need to stay in hotels or B&Bs, (not camping or not motels.)
I'd love help with itinerary ideas, especially national parks/forests that might be fun for trips in the area. If you have stayed in nice hotels or B&Bs in Northern California, please share your suggestions. Kid-friendly ideas also appreciated. I've got a full week- would like to stay in maybe 2 or 3 locations (not necessarily moving every night).
posted by gen at 11:36 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by gen at 11:36 PM PST - 6 comments
Who is Johnny Ryall?
The Beastie Boys, "Johnny Ryall ." Wikipedia is useless here. Was this a real person they knew?? [more inside]
posted by jbenben at 11:34 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by jbenben at 11:34 PM PST - 6 comments
What can I not miss in the world of electronica?
I've spent years focused on studio electronica albums and am realizing that was a mistake. Having recently discovered Daft Punk's 2006 set from Coachella and deadmau5' 2009 set from The Roundhouse and been utterly, totally, completely blown away by both of them, I've decided that I need more live-recorded big beat in my life. What high-quality live recordings are considered "essential listening" for someone who wants to hear a legendary artist along these lines at their best? [more inside]
posted by TheNewWazoo at 11:21 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by TheNewWazoo at 11:21 PM PST - 8 comments
SFO to MSP: A (hopefully) Painless Move
Moving from San Francisco to Minneapolis: Best way to schlep our stuff? [more inside]
Advice for an introvert doing an extrovert's job?
I am a pretty introverted person with a job where I am expected to be outgoing and bubbly and enthusiastic for most of the day. How do I deal? [more inside]
Boyfriend?
Do I ask for something more or just let it flow? [more inside]
How do dragons breathe fire?
How do dragons breathe fire? [more inside]
Why does Klout think I'm "influential in paranoia"?
Why does Klout think I'm "influential in paranoia"? [more inside]
I'm moving to Santiago, Chile! What now?
I'm moving to Santiago, Chile! What now? [more inside]
posted by saul wright at 8:34 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by saul wright at 8:34 PM PST - 5 comments
Can debris for the Tohoku earthquake and tsunami be used to create new land?
Could rubble and debris from the Great Eastern Japan earthquake be 'reclaimed' to make useable land? [more inside]
posted by sconbie at 8:32 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by sconbie at 8:32 PM PST - 7 comments
Sleeping suggestions for a mattress-less house
I'm subletting a house for three months in a town three hours from home. (I'll be there temporarily for work.) House doesn't come with a bed. What's the most comfortable sleeping arrangement I can make for myself without buying or transporting a mattress? [more inside]
How do I save my new-to-me Zen X-Fi 16GB?
New-to-Me Creative Zen X-Fi (16GB) holds a charge fine - until I plug it into the computer. Then the battery does a ten-second Death Spiral and the unit shuts off, making loading tracks an immense / impossible chore. Resetting sees a healthy green battery again. I'm at my wit's end. [more inside]
posted by Chutzler at 7:58 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Chutzler at 7:58 PM PST - 3 comments
How to play music wirelessly on home theater system.
Rdio/Bluetooth/home theater receiver/iPhone...please help me out of this mush. [more inside]
Credit card overcharged for a rental car from last month. What do I do?
Getting overcharged for a car rental from last month. How do I fix this? [more inside]
posted by Prairie at 7:48 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Prairie at 7:48 PM PST - 9 comments
Don't call me, I won't call you
How should my brother indicate that he is deaf (and therefore cannot accept phone calls) on his resume without outright stating "no phone calls please"? [more inside]
Seed-filter: Can you ID this seed?
Seed-filter: Can you identify this seed (head-on, profile)? My mom came across this odd seed and is wondering what it is. I suggested that we plant it to figure out, but decided that Asking Metafilter might be a faster option.
Better care for Grandma
Please tell me about your in-home elder care solutions in the US, specifically in the rural Northeast/upper Midwest. [more inside]
posted by Snarl Furillo at 7:03 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by Snarl Furillo at 7:03 PM PST - 10 comments
I have a staff member who is driving me up the wall. Please help me to understand what exactly it is that she is doing - and how to deal with it.
I have a staff member who is driving me up the wall. Please help me to understand what exactly it is that she is doing - and how to deal with it.
Much more under the cut. [more inside]
TOR browser is connecting but not loading .onions
Setup TOR Browser Bundle, connected to network, but no .onions are loading...? [more inside]
What local foods are worth seeking out on a road trip in Northern California and Oregon?
We are going on a trip to the Northern California Coast and Oregon. I want to stop in Walla Walla Washington on the way to Portland because of the onions and wine tasting bars downtown. Is there any other local food worth a detour on a road trip vacation? [more inside]
The BEST girl name!
Suggestions for girl names needed! We've got a few contenders, but nothing seems exactly right. [more inside]
PITA!
What kind of doctor do I need to see about this errmm.... thing... on my butt? [more inside]
Hypothetical Astronomy
If all non-solar-system stars ceased to exist, how would things look different to us on earth? Would anything change? [more inside]
posted by juniperesque at 5:49 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by juniperesque at 5:49 PM PST - 16 comments
Prezi and its possible relatives?
To Prezi or not to Prezi, and a general question about such things. [more inside]
posted by Iosephus at 4:44 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Iosephus at 4:44 PM PST - 12 comments
Wrestling with the ethics of outing my stepdaughter
Wrestling with the ethics of outing my stepdaughter to her mom. [more inside]
posted by coldhotel at 4:38 PM PST - 56 comments
posted by coldhotel at 4:38 PM PST - 56 comments
LLC, S-corp, Corporation?
I run a electronic music blog and we are in the works of snagging some pretty big deals. A number of my partners mentioned forming an LLC. While our profit is low, we are potentially entering some big contracts in the future and need some credibility and protection. What is the most basic, simple form of corporation we can form? [more inside]
zune to iPhone?
[Dumb techie question filter] Please help a non-tech-savvy iPhone novice figure out this iTune stuff. [more inside]
sports radio on my blackberry?
Is there a way I can listen to ball games on my Blackberry Tour 9630 in NYC? Barring that, Internet stations- with local sports broadcasts? Recommendations for smart stations/shows?
Bamboo: elegant solution or flora nightmare?
Should I plant bamboo? [more inside]
Name of stylized sketch-based 3d graphics software?
What is the name of that very stylized program where you can draw 2d pictures in a 3d space? You don't ever have to deal with a 3d mesh or vertices. It has black lines with dots and when you draw on a line it'll snap to the line you've already drawn. You draw a picture, then you turn to a different perspective, draw again, and so on.
posted by clockbound at 4:05 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by clockbound at 4:05 PM PST - 8 comments
Need solar eclipse glasses -- where to buy???
Where can I buy glasses or such things to view the annular eclipse on Sunday -- at the last minute, for a reasonable price? [more inside]
No one ever said tests were fun, but...
How can I make an exam setting as stress-free as possible? [more inside]
Parents guide to (possibly) Aspergers
My nine-year old's teacher asked us to come in for a conference today and brought up the possibility that our son has Asperger syndrome. It's not really a surprise given his difficulties making friends and some of his behaviors, but I'm not sure what the next steps should be and could use any and all advice.
posted by saffry at 3:22 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by saffry at 3:22 PM PST - 22 comments
What can I say in response to purposefully dense remarks about my diet?
What can I say in response to purposefully dense remarks about my diet? [more inside]
Can you help me find football match reports from between the two World Wars in Esperanto?
Can you help me find football match reports from between the two World Wars in Esperanto? Specifically I'm looking for any match report featuring the Austrian national team of the era (1918-1937) but anything even remotely connected would be of help. [more inside]
Metal-detector friendly bras?
Oversensitive workplace metal detector: are there any wire-free or metal-free bras with good support? [more inside]
Feline renal failure
Elderly cat with renal failure/retinal detachment and mild hyperthyroid. Looking for cat lovers who can help advise me on the road ahead. [more inside]
How can I save my love from dying?
Knowledge-based hope is much needed. Since my first plea -- which helped a lot, really, this month of May has been sorrowful for Maria João and for me. A metastatic brain tumor (around 3 cms) was detected and removed. Gamma-knife surgery is next.
Tomorrow starts the search for other cancerous tumors in her body. We both feel, against all odds, that we will be lucky.
But what should we do? What should we hope for? Statistics are againsts us but we love each other truly.
Two months ago we found a beautiful house to move into. We could move in come July, after all the tests are made.
What should we do? What should our attitude be? Should we move or stay put? Should we change country? Should we prepare to die? Or live as much as we still can?
Desperate questions need realistic answers. We're fighting for our lives here. Please tell us, knowingly, how to behave.
For what it's worth - usually nothing - I think this time we'll be lucky enough to survive. Whatever happens.
posted by MiguelCardoso at 2:02 PM PST - 25 comments
posted by MiguelCardoso at 2:02 PM PST - 25 comments
Nerd action scenes?
Safest place to order my credit report from all three bureaus (not free)?
Best and cheapest place to get credit scores from all three credit bureaus without getting on some crazy subscription that makes it difficult to cancel?
It's been less than a year since I got my free report, but I need to get an updated one now. [more inside]
Because blowing into a madeleine just goes pphhhtthh
Does this flute candy that I remember from my childhood exist, and can I get it delivered in the U.S.? [more inside]
posted by chickenmagazine at 1:39 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by chickenmagazine at 1:39 PM PST - 13 comments
What's the best mobile/iPhone headset mic out there?
All iPhone / mobile headphone reviews go into (sometimes) excruciating detail about the sound qualities and quality of the headset, but I've found very few that actually talk about the mic quality.
So I ask: are there candidates for "best mic"?
Is hootsuite still the best?
I'm evaluating options for social media dashboard type interfaces. Is hootsuite still the best? [more inside]
posted by TimeDoctor at 1:28 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by TimeDoctor at 1:28 PM PST - 3 comments
Dad School
What are some good references or software tools to help me teach my young kids some basic computer skills (including typing, spreadsheets, and more)? [more inside]
The ability to perform wheelies does not increase social confidence
How can I boost my confidence in approaching social situations? [more inside]
posted by clavier at 1:18 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by clavier at 1:18 PM PST - 9 comments
Oh, balls.
Is there anywhere in New York City that sells Truck Nuts? I need them sooner than they can be shipped.
posted by Jon_Evil at 1:13 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by Jon_Evil at 1:13 PM PST - 5 comments
Too much anxiety, therapy isn't working, help?
My anxiety is running my life. I've been to therapy, it made it worse. What next? [more inside]
Should I eat this soyrizo that was left out overnight?
Soyrizo left out (in package) overnight: eat or not eat? [more inside]
Desire for knowledge versus genuine interest in a subject
How do I differentiate between a love of learning and genuine interest in a specific subject? [more inside]
posted by constellations at 12:58 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by constellations at 12:58 PM PST - 5 comments
Bungled biopsy fun!
I stupidly allowed a dangerously incompetent dermatologist to take a punch biopsy out of my tummy. Now I have an open wound. Help me keep this sucker from getting infected until it granulates and heals. [more inside]
posted by kataclysm at 12:37 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by kataclysm at 12:37 PM PST - 28 comments
Vintage and/or estate jewelers near New York City?
Places to buy vintage and/or estate engagement rings local to New York City? Warnings and cautions? [more inside]
Black hole tum, won't you come... eat up all my food.
Recipes for people with peptic ulcers? Or maybe a food list, and I can figure it out myself? [more inside]
One world, one pantry, all that jazz
I know it's a rule of cooking that ingredients that grow together taste good together: the same climate conditions give us the best tomatoes and the best basil. But are there any pairs (or trios, or whatever) of foods from really really disparate parts of the world that go shockingly well together? [more inside]
posted by firstbest at 12:04 PM PST - 33 comments
posted by firstbest at 12:04 PM PST - 33 comments
From grad student to ... marketing-type-guy?
[Asking for a colleague filter] Marketing people, how do I jump from academia into your world? [more inside]
Duped into & getting dicked out of illegal sublet. Recourse?
Moved into illegal NYC sublet under pretense of legality, now must leave. Recourse? [more inside]
Was that really a Beechcraft Starship flying over my house in CA?
So I regularly see what looks to be a Beechcraft Starship flying over my home in Moraga, CA. Wondering if a) it is indeed a starship and b) who owns it. [more inside]
posted by zeoslap at 11:41 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by zeoslap at 11:41 AM PST - 8 comments
How to sell a brand new never been used wedding dress?
Please advise me on the best/easiest way(s) to sell a Brand New Never Been Worn Wedding Dress. [more inside]
How should I respond to my MIL's inane babble?
(Anon bc my husband sometimes reads askme.) My mother in law often seems to suffer from verbal diarrhea; she fills perfectly reasonable silence with inane chatter, and it gets annoying and frustrating to spend time with her (I often have a constant refrain of "Cool story, bro" running through my head). Apart from just nodding, saying "mmm hmm" in a non-committal-please-don't-bother-telling-me-more tone of voice, etc. -- is there anything I can do or say that will make this stop? [more inside]
HealthFilter: I am curious about a strange disorder which I think might be Tourette's but I'm not sure. More (lurid and peculiar) details and symptoms below...
MedicalFilter: I am curious about a strange disorder which I think might be Tourette's but I'm not sure. More (lurid) details below. [more inside]
Quirky Travel Journal Questions
Quirky travel journal questions - Italian Edition. [more inside]
Moving to the next level of DSLR - recommendations?
Six months ago, I posted about learning to take pictures of my three-month-old baby. I got some great advice and have left auto mode behind (for the most part). However, I think it might be time to move on from my trusty D40 and would love some recommendations. Or am I jumping the gun too quickly? [more inside]
posted by CrazyGabby at 10:17 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by CrazyGabby at 10:17 AM PST - 16 comments
Pregnant; send help.
I am pregnant and on meds and terrified to not be on meds. Can you help me sort this through? I'm five weeks pregnant and on 300 mg/day of Wellbutrin XL. I promise I don't think you are my doctor or my pharmacist. I'm looking for advice from women who have Been There or those with concrete science-y knowledge. [more inside]
Turnaround time for detaching Blizzard authenticator from account?
I lost my Blizzard Authenticator after cleaning my room... THE DAY BEFORE DIABLO! I contacted them, but I haven't heard anything. I sent in a photo of my Driver's License through their contact form for detaching the authenticator from my account, but I haven't heard anything back and it's been over 12 hours (I know I should give it time)... Anybody have any idea how long this kind of thing usually takes? I'm worried that maybe it didn't go through and maybe I should try sending again. If I had a general idea my mind would be greatly eased.
Have my graph and graph it too?
How can I generate a graph server-side, and update it client-side? [more inside]
posted by fvox13 at 8:55 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by fvox13 at 8:55 AM PST - 11 comments
What does it mean to be diagnosed with emphysema?
My father has been diagnosed with emphysema. Despite a bunch of online reading, I have no idea what this really means for him, or my mother, his lifestyle, prognosis or any of that stuff. Can you help? [more inside]
posted by HopStopDon'tShop at 8:48 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by HopStopDon'tShop at 8:48 AM PST - 5 comments
Orchid Dead or Alive?
My orchid stems are turning from green to yellow, and all the flowers are falling off. Is this normal? [more inside]
How does this illuminated Beijing advertising technology work?
How does this advertising wizardry in the Beijing subway work? [more inside]
Nutritionist home visit on a budget?
I'd like to hire a nutritionist or a student nutritionist (there is a nearby college that offers degrees in Nutrition Science) to visit my mother a few times a week to create meal plans and give instruction. Is this (a) insanely expensive, (b) legal, considering a student would not have any legal standing to give health advice? [more inside]
posted by domo at 8:33 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by domo at 8:33 AM PST - 15 comments
Digital grand piano
What is the best learner digital piano, for under a grand? (1000 GBP)
French Translation for Stevenson's "Requiem"
Looking for a French translation of Robert Louis Stevenson's Requiem
posted by BozoBurgerBonanza at 8:30 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by BozoBurgerBonanza at 8:30 AM PST - 2 comments
A PC, a TV, a DVD ... and a CEO who needs to be heard
I have:
posted by scruss at 8:27 AM PST - 11 comments
- a PC (a HP Compaq 6200 Pro Small Form Factor PC with VGA and dual-mode DisplayPort outputs)
- a TV (a Toshiba 55G310U - 55" class 1080p 120Hz LCD TV)
- a DVD of a company presentation that we need to play on this PC
- a room that seats 9
- … and a CEO who is coming very soon who needs the audio from the presentation to be clearly audible.
posted by scruss at 8:27 AM PST - 11 comments
Help me collect on a default judgement win.
How do I collect on a default judgement in MA without an attorney? [more inside]
posted by Thrillhouse at 8:06 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by Thrillhouse at 8:06 AM PST - 4 comments
food = love?
Humorous stories about food, family, & love? Preferably articles that are available on the Internet. [more inside]
Buy or Rent in London?
We’ve found a decent flat in Rotherhithe, London. We’ve made an offer Monday. Owner has accepted. Yay? Suddenly we’re getting ice cold feet. Are we doing the right thing? [more inside]
Are we trashing our recycling?
How bad is it if non-recycling/non-compost items end up in recycling/compost bins? Is it counter-productive to green efforts to give office workers ONLY recycling and compost bins and their desks, no trash cans? [more inside]
posted by CruiseSavvy at 7:30 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by CruiseSavvy at 7:30 AM PST - 21 comments
Where do music festival vendors find good help?
Asking for my 22 year old daughter who would like to spend the summer (or longer) working at music festivals. She has service industry experience, including restaurant work, and she's been to several festivals over the past few years, so she's familiar with and comfortable with the living conditions. She's going to a Summer Camp (Chillicothe, IL) in a couple of weeks and will talk to vendors there. In the meantime, where should she be looking?
I discussed a friend's private, very personal, problem with my own friends, and now I feel terrible for doing so. Can I fix this?
I discussed a friend's private, very personal, problem with my own friends, and now I feel terrible for doing so. Can I fix this? [more inside]
Where do I get freelance liablity insurance.
How do I go about getting liability insurance as a freelance writer? [more inside]
Banking while travelling?
Traveling in Central America -- what do I do about money? [more inside]
Better than a red phone box cookie tin
Is there any way I can try to program with punch cards?
Cheap but bombproof II
A while back there was a thread regarding insanely overbuilt, reasonably-priced consumer goods "like an AK-47" such as the WRT54G and 90s Nokia phones. It was really useful to me, and by the looks of it it was to many other people. The sad thing is that it was closed in 2008, and lots of the products aren't on the market now or have had design changes.
4 years later, what products now deserve to sit in the cheap but bombproof category?
posted by jaduncan at 3:19 AM PST - 48 comments
posted by jaduncan at 3:19 AM PST - 48 comments
I want to see who clicks a link in an email
Managing a mailing list. I want to see who clicks a link. I want to look good infront of my boss. [more inside]
posted by priorpark17 at 3:05 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by priorpark17 at 3:05 AM PST - 10 comments
Socialising on a budget
Socialising on the cheap. How does one do it? [more inside]
posted by Ziggy500 at 2:47 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by Ziggy500 at 2:47 AM PST - 13 comments
Looking for organization first, prettiness second.
Is there such a thing as the perfect purse? [more inside]
posted by DisreputableDog at 12:01 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by DisreputableDog at 12:01 AM PST - 32 comments
May 14
I like my *insert alcohol here* old and my women young.
Does a liquor exist that meets the following [read: personal] criteria? What about a cigar to go with it? [more inside]
posted by RolandOfEld at 10:53 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by RolandOfEld at 10:53 PM PST - 28 comments
What does my dryer's rotary iron mode do?
What is this dryer mode? I have a Samsung dyer (DV4006) with various modes, two are "Iron" and "Rotary Iron". What is the difference? [more inside]
posted by tiamat at 10:52 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by tiamat at 10:52 PM PST - 2 comments
When an apartment is treated like a used car lot
How much is too much when it comes to a landlord showing your apartment? [more inside]
posted by Shouraku at 9:46 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by Shouraku at 9:46 PM PST - 21 comments
Should I include the names of my friends when I talk about them in personal correspondence to family?
Should I include the names of my friends when I talk about them in personal correspondence to family? [more inside]
How to choose between bicycles
I'd like to buy a new road bike and I think I have a general idea what I'm looking for (aluminum, Tiagra, WSD). Within that class of bikes, how do I choose between the available brands? [more inside]
Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice.
I am moving from behind the computer to in front of the computer, how do I learn to speak up during meetings? [more inside]
What happens when a ski resort closes for the season?
How do they shut/close ski resorts for the season? [more inside]
posted by potsmokinghippieoverlord at 7:55 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by potsmokinghippieoverlord at 7:55 PM PST - 13 comments
Therapy checklist
Psychotherapy starter kit [more inside]
i'll see your $0.01 and raise you $5000...
debt collection offer...is it legit? [more inside]
posted by ps_im_awesome at 7:27 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by ps_im_awesome at 7:27 PM PST - 14 comments
My house is a dump.
I live in a complete dump. How can I make the best of my crappy living situation while I look for a new place? [more inside]
I am feeling miserable because of this job that I can't leave. How can I cope?
I accepted a job offer last August that turned out to be completely inadequate for me. I have to live with the consequences of that choice until next December. Help me figure out the best way to cope with this. [more inside]
Photography portfolio website suggestions?
I need a photography portfolio website for myself. I already maintain smugmug and flickr sites, but these are mainly used for works in progress and special projects. Not final collections.
I want something that is simple, elegant and easy to manage, supporting three or four galleries with limited numbers of images and an about page. I've looked into Joomla with Joom:Gallery and it all seems too much, overkill and means I'd have to become a web gal again. Should I bite the bullet and learn Joomla or another CMS, hire a designer or is there a service that "keeps it simple" and without their own branding?
posted by michswiss at 7:04 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by michswiss at 7:04 PM PST - 15 comments
1. Internet appliance *with browser*. 2. Hotel wifi. 3. ??? 4. Netflix!
I have a Blu-ray player *with an internet browser* that still can't authenticate with my hotel's wifi. [more inside]
Retail Broadway?
Play based on Retail [more inside]
A different kind of hair removal.
How do I remove hair that's stuck in a foam mattress topper, without breaking it? [more inside]
What should we see and where should we stay between Salmon, ID and Salt Lake City for a few days this fall?
What should we see and where should we stay between Salmon, ID and Salt Lake City for a few days this fall? [more inside]
Notifications for things I shouldn't be able to see
Since about a month ago I've been getting notifications (under the globe icon) about a few friends of mine about postings they've made on various pages. Without fail clicking on them yields "The page you requested was not found". I'm still listed as friends with these people - have they singled me out for partial blocking? Is there some way to avoid getting these notifications for things I can't see?
Scopophobia
Am I right to say no to this colonoscopy? Horribly personal details inside. [more inside]
How can I encourage my nice explore her body without shame?
I am a virtual aunt to a young woman who has never masturbated. She believes that she needs to learn, but she is worried that god will stop loving her. [more inside]
Would this be considered self-plagiarism?
I submitted a paper for a class for a grade; I'm hoping to now use it to fulfill another school requirement. [more inside]
posted by Sakura3210 at 5:41 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Sakura3210 at 5:41 PM PST - 23 comments
Facebook Etiquette
I've been told I use facebook like a freak. Do I? [more inside]
posted by Fairisle at 4:50 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by Fairisle at 4:50 PM PST - 31 comments
Eating out with food allergies in New York City
I've got food allergies. Going to NYC for a week. Where do I eat? [more inside]
I need someone to make sure I do my chores...
How can I find help keeping up with life? I need an option between permanent supportive housing and crap, I haven't taken out the trash or paid a bill in three months. [more inside]
posted by Fee Phi Faux Phumb I Smell t'Socks o' a Puppetman! at 4:25 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Fee Phi Faux Phumb I Smell t'Socks o' a Puppetman! at 4:25 PM PST - 13 comments
L.A. psychiatrist specializing in eating disorders?
Can you recommend a psychiatrist in the Los Angeles area who specializes in medication management for eating disorders? [more inside]
How do I get a Netopia 3000 DSL modem to work in bridge mode?!
I'm going absolutely crazy here! I previously had a 2Wire DSL modem set to bridge mode with the Linksys router handling PPPoE auth. I recently moved and I'm trying to do the same thing with a new Motorola 3347 (Netopia 3000) and I can't get it to work to save my life. [more inside]
Have any of you experienced joint and muscle pain as a side effect of taking Allegra?
Have any of you experienced joint or muscle pain (or discomfort) when taking Allegra? [more inside]
Help me keep my Workstation quiet!!
I like to keep my home office incredibly devoid of machine noise. To that end, other than my sound system (where I choose the noise), my workstation consists of 1.) A Mac mini running Lion Server on Raid 0 3.5" drives (2 x 500GB) and 2.)A Lacie quadra 1TB drive doing Firewire 800 Time Machine backups every hour (I put up with the Tsk, Tsk, Tsk, every hour without being annoyed). I need more storage, but don't want to increase the (lack of) noise factor... [more inside]
Could my clavicle be causing blood flow problems?
Is it possible for my clavicle to interfere with blood flow to my brain? If so, is it dangerous? [more inside]
3D texture mapping, or 2D image distortion?
Would learning a bit more about 3D wireframing/texture mapping improve the speed over a complicated ImageMagick distort? [more inside]
Like a moth to a naked light.
How can I improve my chances of getting into graduate programs? [more inside]
posted by Nomyte at 3:45 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Nomyte at 3:45 PM PST - 3 comments
"Is this your homework, Larry?"
I'm getting phone calls and late night texts (and sexts) for an Edith. Edith appears to be a local teenager. How to deal? [more inside]
posted by Miss T.Horn at 3:41 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Miss T.Horn at 3:41 PM PST - 15 comments
Startup Weekend questions
Have you been a participant, organizer, or audience member at Startup
Weekend? I'm trying to understand some things and not go in blind. [more inside]
Why aren't desktop OSes innovating anymore?
Why is there so little innovation nowadays in desktop OSes (both Windows and Mac)? I would think features like a super-smart Siri, face and gesture recognition, and perfectly grandparent-friendly interfaces would long be standard by now, but that is far from the case. What is holding things up?
posted by shivohum at 3:12 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by shivohum at 3:12 PM PST - 14 comments
How do I thank multiple interviewers for a single position?
I want to send a post-interview thank you email but I am a little unclear as to the best way of going about it. I had five 30 minute sessions with one to two employees each; the last session was with the head of the group I'd be working for.
Should I send one email to all employees, an email to each session group, an email to only the senior interviewers (3 people), or some other iteration?
Am I being credit negged?
Credit scores - is there such a thing as consumer vs professional scores? [more inside]
posted by cestmoi15 at 2:56 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by cestmoi15 at 2:56 PM PST - 5 comments
Is this gun, um...safe?
How can I tell if this very old rifle is safe to fire? [more inside]
posted by doogan nash at 2:49 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by doogan nash at 2:49 PM PST - 16 comments
Redirect landline telephone to foreign number.
How can I redirect my US number to non-US number? [more inside]
excuse me, are you driving a stepped-on pig?
why are my brakes doing this? [more inside]
I'm a freaky baby and I like to freak you!
Name this early to mid-90s dance hip hop number (accuracy of lyrics may be <100%):
"I'm a freaky baby and I like to freak you,
you and you, so what you gonna do?
Don't wait, don't hesitate, just me that freak
On a plate baby and just maybe..."
I am slowly being driven insane by this chorus. Please help.
longform for fiction
Initial wins at a new job
How to ship cheap and reliable to PR?
I need to purchase network cables and other computer cables from a vendor to ship to Puerto Rico from U.S., to arrive at most 1 week from now. Please recommend vendors with decent prices on network cables and the like.
MS Word Doc Merging?
MS Word doc merging... too complex to pull off? [more inside]
Do you sync you know the answer?
Help me manage my music library! I have circa 25GB of music, and I would like to know the best (least effort) way of keeping it up to date across my devices including syncing my playlists. [more inside]
Where else can I get my human relations fix?
I love AskMefi for many things, but ultimately it comes down to being super-nosy about other people's lives, and the human relations questions are my favorite. What other sites should I be checking out to satisfy my curiosity about other people's lives and problems, as well as thoughtful advice and insight? I'm a big fan of Carolyn Hax's column, but am drawing a blank at what other sites I should try out.
Python for screen-scraping?
I want to code a really basic screen-scraper to make a tedious work task slightly less tedious. I'll probably be doing it in Python. Some assistance required! [more inside]
posted by griphus at 1:33 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by griphus at 1:33 PM PST - 9 comments
total recall
My friend became pregnant while taking birth control that Pfizer later recalled. She is young and not particularly internet savvy. She is keeping the child and she asked me to help her find a lawyer to explore a potential lawsuit against Pfizer and for advice on dealing with media interest in this story. [more inside]
Please help with my major photo backup plan!
I want to consolidate the photo collections from 5 PCs and a Mac, fling them onto one drive (regularly backed up) and then access the drive from any of these computers with great convenience. Have you ever done anything like this? Any pointers? More inside... [more inside]
posted by razzman at 1:25 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by razzman at 1:25 PM PST - 2 comments
Should my mother buy long term care insurance?
My 70-year old mother is trying to decide whether to buy long term care insurance. The premiums are high (>$4000 per year, for max three years of benefits) and she's trying to weigh the risk of running out of cash too young if she coughs up the premiums, versus the risk of self-insuring. Can anyone offer advice? [more inside]
posted by copacetic at 1:23 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by copacetic at 1:23 PM PST - 5 comments
I brake for new brake pads.
Get thee to the mechanic or just go to the box store down the street: brake pad replacement edition. [more inside]
Where can I watch the show "Made In Canada"?
Where/how can I watch/get a hold of the Canadian comedy "Made In Canada" (a.k.a. "The Industry)? [more inside]
iSad
iPhone stolen, sad panda. Anything in particular I should keep in mind when I buy the replacement? Pros and cons of buying new rather than used or refurbished? Any smart ways to foil thieves next time around? Thanks.
Post no bills?
Is it legal to advertise by taping posters to telephone poles, bus shelters, boarded up storefronts, etc? Do outfits like Poster Giant have some kind of special exception? [more inside]
posted by bubukaba at 12:54 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by bubukaba at 12:54 PM PST - 7 comments
Phil 101
What were your experiences with philosophy courses like in university, non-philosophy majors? [more inside]
Importing Old Home Movies
I need a cheap and easy way to get RCA-interface or S-Video interface video onto my desktop. I've seen a few devices that are sub-10.00 (which would happily be my price range, if possible) but reviews are wide ranging between "this is great!" and "this is a piece of crap!" [more inside]
Keychains!
What's the most useful or beautiful keychain you've ever owned? [more inside]
posted by Apropos of Something at 11:50 AM PST - 61 comments
posted by Apropos of Something at 11:50 AM PST - 61 comments
Help me plan a road trip with kids.
Road trip! My wife and I are taking our two kids on our first real road trip, from the mid-Atlantic to the Midwest. I’d like advice on routes, activities, and must-see stops along the way. Lots of details and specific questions after the jump. [more inside]
I got scammed??
Did I just get scammed on Ebay? [more inside]
Small compartmentalized gym bag?
I would like a very small gym bag, ideally no larger than a backpack, but it must have two separate compartments (where you put the gym clothes after the work out). Cross contamination = ew. Any tips?
Examples of blogs and websites who are great at visual storytelling?
I'm looking for blogs/websites that are great at visual storytelling, regardless of topic or content. (Similar to The Bold Italic) [more inside]
Help me find gigabit switches that won't fail after 2 years
Netgear GS108 alternatives? Mine keep dying. [more inside]
posted by strangecargo at 11:08 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by strangecargo at 11:08 AM PST - 4 comments
what can a multilingual person do in life to pay the bills and pass their life meaningfully
How to use my foreign language skills to help myself (job, etc.) and to help others? [more inside]
posted by saraindc at 10:52 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by saraindc at 10:52 AM PST - 10 comments
So THIS is that nasty DRM thing they talk about...
So, I have an ebook in the epub format. I want to read it on a device that is not the one I downloaded it to. Calibre informs me that this book is locked by DRM. I still want to read it on this device, and I don't want to buy the book twice - how do I make it so? [more inside]
posted by badgermushroomSNAKE at 10:44 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by badgermushroomSNAKE at 10:44 AM PST - 12 comments
How can I split a video signal coming from a MacBook?
I have a MacBook spitting out video via the Thunderbolt/Mini-Display Adapter port. We usually use another adapter to turn that from Mini-Display -> HDMI so we can run it to a TV.
We'd now like to split the signal to three TVs, all showing the same video signal. Doable? [more inside]
posted by GilloD at 10:43 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by GilloD at 10:43 AM PST - 3 comments
ooo my preggie dogs!
My pregnant feet hurt! Looking for a possibly impossible set of shoe qualities: wide width, arch support, decent looking enough to wear to a work meeting, no heel or very minimal heel (so no clogs), and not more than $100. Links to Zappos much appreciated.
GIS software for dummies
I need maps of specific countries in 300 dpi format, suitable for inclusion in a book. I found some promising GIS files, but I don't have any experience with GIS software, and am having difficulty finding something that fills my needs. More details inside [more inside]
Need a GREAT Divorce Attorney (NoVA)
I need a recommendation for a GREAT divorce attorney in Northern Virginia. And by great, I mean: a strong advocate for me and my kids, a strong sense of fairness and the ability to go toe to toe with the ugliest attorney my spouse might dig up. [more inside]
*Sad Charlie Brown Song*
In need of some inspiration/motivation [more inside]
Am I SQL to the task?
I'm a full-time freelance web designer and developer for a wide variety of clients. One of my clients just asked me to build a web site them but it turns out that what they really want instead is a user registration system that has a rewards component. Can I beg, borrow or steal something that's already built, or should I get out now before I get in too deep? [more inside]
Cabin in the Woods question.
Cabin in the Woods question. [Spoilers inside] [more inside]
posted by Eddie Mars at 9:51 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Eddie Mars at 9:51 AM PST - 2 comments
Are grocery stores becoming cash-negative operations?
With so many customers using non-cash methods of payment and customers getting cash back via debit purchases, are grocery stores becoming cash-negative operations? [more inside]
posted by rmd1023 at 9:49 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by rmd1023 at 9:49 AM PST - 11 comments
A good place to buy a custom bobble-head?
I want to buy a friend a bobble-head of themselves. Has anyone used a company they can recommend? [more inside]
I'm looking for some unusual dice for my boyfriend's birthday.
Where can I find or have made 6-sided dice with one color for 1-2 and another for 3-6? [more inside]
posted by petiteviolette at 9:34 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by petiteviolette at 9:34 AM PST - 12 comments
Why should I vote for a major party candidate for POTUS?
I am looking for convincing arguments about why I should vote for a major party candidate for President of the United States. This isn't as direct a question as it sounds. [more inside]
posted by Invoke at 9:22 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by Invoke at 9:22 AM PST - 34 comments
Work eight hours a day for ~$24 an hour, or two hours a day for ~$120 an hour...
Should I quit my job now that I am making more money as a self-published author? [more inside]
I want to be a beauty
How do I not let comments about my appearance affect me so much? [more inside]
What are the rules for working undercover as a cop?
What rules are there for (American) law enforcement types operating undercover? What sort of things are they barred from doing? [more inside]
posted by scaryblackdeath at 9:21 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by scaryblackdeath at 9:21 AM PST - 5 comments
What is the best solution to setup different wordpress blogs and have one central blog which combines all the postings from these?
What is the best solution to setup different wordpress blogs and have one central blog which combines all the postings from these? [more inside]
Take the Water Out of the Log
I greatly over watered my emerald green arborvitaes this season, so now the tops are drooping. How do I fix this, or don't I? [more inside]
How can I let my bunny outside?
Our rabbit always wiggles out of those rabbit harnesses, but she really wants to go outside into the garden. We live in a downtown area so she has to be contained somehow. Any ideas? [more inside]
posted by Clotilde at 8:28 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by Clotilde at 8:28 AM PST - 15 comments
I'm just like Yahoo's ex-CEO.
I have attended college but did not graduate. I just told an interviewer that I did. What should I do? [more inside]
Amateur Sericulture
What is the most efficient way to harvest spider webs for an art project? [more inside]
Please rec some good learning materials
Statistics, machine learning, and image analysis/processing. Two months. Self-study. No other obligations. Recommendations? [more inside]
posted by puppetsock at 8:14 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by puppetsock at 8:14 AM PST - 10 comments
What are the best bars/lounges in NYC?
What are the best bars/lounges in NYC? [more inside]
People who do x are more likely to y
I'd like to read about unexpected statistical correlations that begin to emerge when companies or academics use data mining to analyze behaviour in large groups of people. I'm looking for articles/sites that are a little more serious than this (found while searching Metafilter for this topic). More like this (NYT: Target is able to predict that some customers are pregnant before their children are born). Thanks for your recommendations! [more inside]
Future of my clawfoot tub
Clawfoot Bathtub: keep it, sell it, or chunk it? [more inside]
Bike rack rental in NYC?
Where can I rent a car that seats 4 people as well as a bike rack for their bikes...in NYC? [more inside]
Machine-washable fashionable clothing -- a pipe dream?
Which clothing brands out there make stylish, machine-washable clothing? [more inside]
posted by peacheater at 7:47 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by peacheater at 7:47 AM PST - 14 comments
How to get rid of the crappy default non-black in Adobe Illustrator CS5?
Crappy default non-black in Adobe Illustrator CS5: why, and how can I get rid of it? [more inside]
posted by Tom-B at 7:46 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by Tom-B at 7:46 AM PST - 11 comments
Do I really need to address the cockroach problem?
Today I saw a cockroach. It's huge. (3 inches?) But I mean - it's just a cockroach, right? RIGHT? [more inside]
posted by goodbyewaffles at 7:44 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by goodbyewaffles at 7:44 AM PST - 24 comments
I have a whole bunch of moneys
How long will it take me to feed a couple gallons worth of coins into a Coinstar machine? [more inside]
posted by bondcliff at 7:41 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by bondcliff at 7:41 AM PST - 30 comments
Should I stay or should I go
I am in a solid, long-term relationship with a person who I love and could see myself being with forever. But I can't shake the thought of another person. I don't know what to do. Lots of snowflakes inside. [more inside]
Is this piece of garbage iPad case a lost cause?
Can my bluetooth keyboard be fixed (by me)? [more inside]
Link my mood to my food, man.
How can I be better at making a connection between what I eat and how I feel? [more inside]
Windows Phone 7 lost comma key
What happend to the comma on my Windows Phone 7 keyboard in the "to" field of email? [more inside]
posted by dzot at 6:59 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by dzot at 6:59 AM PST - 2 comments
Tips for moving from Winnipeg to Edmonton?
Tips for moving from Winnipeg to Edmonton? [more inside]
Please help my girlfriend before bloodsuckers drive her completely crazy.
Can you help me identify/fight back the bloodsuckers in our apartment? [more inside]
How much time to you actually have to catch a train at Grand Central Terminal?
How much time do you actually have to catch a train at Grand Central Terminal? [more inside]
Escaping Ma Bell’s Vile Offspring
Please share your experience purchasing local landline service from a Competitive Local Exchange Carrier. [more inside]
Guitar Lessons in Cambridge/Somerville(/Boston?)
I have a friend who's looking to learn (rock) guitar. Any firsthand recommendations for teachers in the Somerville/Cambridge area? [more inside]
Where to go in California without a car?
Traveling in California for five weeks--but without a car. Where should/can I go and what cities/places should I absolutely not miss? I'll be starting in Northern California and working my way down. [more inside]
LED replacements for halogen?
Any experience with LED replacements for recessed halogens? [more inside]
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 4:44 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by RandlePatrickMcMurphy at 4:44 AM PST - 10 comments
Why so hard?
Can someone identity the MALE actors in these [NSFW] videos? [more inside]
posted by Trexsock at 2:35 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Trexsock at 2:35 AM PST - 3 comments
Who to follow on Twitter - wife edition
Which journalists, cultural commentators and other cultural figures do Twitter well? [more inside]
I'm getting a Nook Tablet, OMG
I'm getting Nook Tablet! Woohoo Mother's Day! [more inside]
posted by lilywing13 at 1:38 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by lilywing13 at 1:38 AM PST - 15 comments
Find me a place to stay in NZ?
North Island of New Zealand travel recommendations? Help us make my conference into a holiday. [more inside]
Canon 60D versus Nikon D5100
Another newbie dSLR question: First time buyer trying to decide between a Canon 60D versus Nikon D5100. I hope you guys aren't getting annoyed with these yet. [more inside]
posted by midmarch snowman at 12:16 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by midmarch snowman at 12:16 AM PST - 12 comments
May 13
When is it appropriate to call the spcaLA
At what point is it reasonable to get involved and call spcaLA, especially if the information is secondhand? All the troubling details inside. [more inside]
posted by katemcd at 11:33 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by katemcd at 11:33 PM PST - 19 comments
Excess skin after weight loss
I have finally lost most of the extra weight I gained for the past 20 years. What can I do to get rid of the flabby skin? [more inside]
Istanbul vs Iceland
Travel decisions: Iceland or Istanbul? [more inside]
posted by girlalex at 10:56 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by girlalex at 10:56 PM PST - 19 comments
Guest at June wedding... if not a suit, then what?
As a male guest at an early June wedding, if not a suit, then what? [more inside]
What motivates WS financial analysts following stocks to give out their recommendations for free? These recommendatins can be found on Mornigstar etc.
What motivates financial analysts following stocks to give out their recommendations for free? These recommendations are then shared by sites like Yahoo Finance, morning star etc. Also, most of these sites say analyst recommendation. Is there a way to see which analyst is making the recommendation? Which site would you recommend for researching analyst recommendations for stocks? I am curious because financial analysts don't seem like people who would give away information for free. I am curious about what motivates them to share such valuable info. Also, it would really help to know a reliable site that collects and shres these recommendations
Your valued dishwasher experience needed.
Dishwasher recommendations please! Two year old Frigidaire just broke (again) and it was as noisy as hell anyway (it was supposed to be a "quiet" model). Wife wants another new one... [more inside]
Day trips from Cagayan de Oro
Suggestions for one-day trips this June out of Cagayan de Oro* in southern Philippines? [more inside]
stand and deliver
I want to buy a...something that would help me convert my regular desk into a standing desk and back into a sitting desk if I choose. [more inside]
posted by elizeh at 7:50 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by elizeh at 7:50 PM PST - 14 comments
I only barely understand what a lumen is
I'm getting a projector for gaming (and occasionally movies). It's across a living room, about 15 feet, to go on a wall. I've previously used just a boring office projector and that worked fine. I'm not super concerned about image quality; it needs to be good enough to read text on the "screen", but that's about it. Can I get away with an LED projector? [more inside]
posted by NoraReed at 7:36 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by NoraReed at 7:36 PM PST - 2 comments
Why does my Macbook freeze all the time?
Why is my Macbook so slow and constantly freezing? [more inside]
Just When I Thought I Was Out...
iPhone 4S / Still (Again) in Hollywood Filter: Are there any Pay-As-You-Go type data plans with SIM cards for an unlocked 4s user in the USA? [more inside]
posted by rokusan at 6:43 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by rokusan at 6:43 PM PST - 8 comments
Why must Centurylink make all this so difficult?
Anyone out there have any experience setting up Centurylink (q.com) email to work with the iPad native Mail app? [more inside]
The Perfect Cat Tree (refusing to use the pun on "purr")
Cat trees: I've never owned one but have been offered one as a present for my pretties. What should I keep in mind? Do you have any recommendations? I'm thinking about this one. I would attach "cat stairs" to the walls but I'm not allowed, so a cat tree it is. I don't want to end up buying a big tree that they're able to knock over in five minutes or is covered with nonsense they'll never touch. My cats are big climbers, they like cozy sleeping spots but height is a priority for the cat tree. Maybe I'm overthinking this? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 5:41 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by anonymous at 5:41 PM PST - 23 comments
help me do this casual hookup thing?
looking for some NSA encounter while travelling, willing but clueless: help me do this casual hookup thing? [more inside]
3D Zodiac character items needed
Where can I find good quality stamped or molded _3D_ reproductions of zodiac signs (the fish, goat, scales, etc - not the written characters) of a "classical" appearance, between 1" and 2" diameter? I found several places selling a zodiac candy mold, which might work, but I'm not sure I like the style of the images. I'm wanting to use whatever I find as a pattern for sand-casting metal to make adornments for a big armillary sphere I'm building for my garden, so it doesn't really matter what they're made out of. Tin, plastic, wood, paper - whatever. If they're too flimsy I can make castings of them and use those as patterns. Suggestions would be appreciated. :-)
Writer seeks readers: possible LTR
Tell me stories of people finding unusual routes to getting their books to readers. I have written a book and would love to hear about people who found readers through more DIY channels. Not interested so much in how to self-publish, as in hearing stories to help me find the next step for my creation. [more inside]
posted by bobbyno at 4:59 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by bobbyno at 4:59 PM PST - 20 comments
How do I use a second monitor as a large typeface to-do lists that I can see at a glance from across the room?
I want to use a second monitor as a large typface to-do/task list, but I have no idea where to start. [more inside]
posted by smallerdemon at 4:52 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by smallerdemon at 4:52 PM PST - 12 comments
Morally-significant IT work?
For those of you who work in a computer field (IT, software development, etc.) and you feel your work has some greater moral purpose (beyond paying the bills): what do you do? And how did you find your job? [more inside]
Why are groups being killed in Mexico?
Who are Mexican drug cartels killing in large numbers? [more inside]
Baby Gift Ideas for Sporty Geeks
I need baby gift ideas for a new mom who is an engineer and likes sports. [more inside]
How to do a pre-downloaded Achewood collection with alt-text intact?
I'm planning a very long airplane flight, and I'd love to spend it re-reading Achewood if at all possible, on my iPad. One caveat: alt-text! [more inside]
Do I need to see Avengers in 3D and/or IMAX?
I'm pretty agnostic about 3D and IMAX both. But some films really should be seen 3D (e.g. Avatar) and/or IMAX (e.g. Dark Knight).
So...if I view Avengers 2D and/or in non-IMAX, will I be missing out? Each option limits my field of showtime options (and increases expense)...
Was "The Scream" sold a few weeks ago also sold a few years ago?
Recently, Munch's "The Scream" sold for about $120 million. Somehow I had in my mind the idea that (a version of) "The Scream" was sold at auction a few years ago. Did I imagine this? [more inside]
Weight lifting formulas?
If I know how much I can dead lift, is there a formula (or something similar) to predict healthy weights for other lifts? [more inside]
Alternative to cell phones abroad/on cruise?
Alternative to cell phones abroad/on cruise? [more inside]
From A to Spain (Salou that is)
Other than by car, what is the quickest way (at reasonable cost) to get from BCN, Barcelona's airport to Salou in the Tarragona region just south of Barcelona using public transportation? It's 1.5 hrs by car but 4+ by PT according to the Google. [more inside]
posted by IndpMed at 1:53 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by IndpMed at 1:53 PM PST - 5 comments
Montreal on a full belly
My friend and I are going to Montreal next weekend. Been there a few times, so I'm looking for quirky things that are off the beaten path to see and do. Any ideas? [more inside]
Where did you pierce your babies ears?
Where did you go to pierce your 1 year olds ears? [more inside]
posted by chunking express at 1:41 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by chunking express at 1:41 PM PST - 29 comments
What Film did I see/
What short film did I see? It was 1988 and it was in an American Literature class at the local junior college. [more inside]
posted by svenvog at 1:38 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by svenvog at 1:38 PM PST - 2 comments
I Destroyed Firefox. Profile is deleted & It No Longer Works.
While on Firefox (12.0) for my Mac (OS 10.5.8) I hit a mail link which caused my Firefox window to open rapidly window on window ad infinitum. It locked up my mac and I couldn't even get to Firefox Preferences/Tools etc without multiple windows opening on top. I force- quit. I restarted and this did not help. I uninstalled an reinstalled and this did not help. It hit about midnight and stupid and tired, I deleted my entire profile....The whole blasted thing in a rash moment.
So unlike available articles on Mozilla for retrieving missing/lost/messed with profiles mine is simply bye-bye by my own hand. I emailed Mozilla and got these instructions:
"Try to delete the profiles.ini file
*http://kb.mozillazine.org/profiles.ini_file
*http://kb.mozillazine.org/Profile_folder_-_Firefox"
I don't have the ini file in the locations specified nor elsewhere. This link did not seem to help, either. I tried entering a terminal command for Firefox (cannot find page for that now) and no luck. If I click on Firefox, it says "Firefox is already open, only one copy can be in use." (Nothing else is open and I even restarted the computer a few times.)
Any ideas? I like Firefox the best and would like to use it. And yes, I was an idiot to delete things so will take appropriate lashings.
Always be ready
I move a lot and often. Help me live out of my backpack. [more inside]
some of my best friends are libertarians?
Should I date someone who supports Ron Paul? [more inside]
posted by mercredi at 1:03 PM PST - 86 comments
posted by mercredi at 1:03 PM PST - 86 comments
Tips for making a drap space stylish
How do you decorate a small apartment with white walls, beige carpets, and not much natural light? [more inside]
Is AskMe now it's own weather system?
AskMe sent me down a bunny trail that lead right back to AskMe. There has to be a name for this. [more inside]
I love this lantern. I would like it even better if it lit up!
Is my google account hacked?
This morning about 108 gmail inbox messages vanished. I can find them under "all mail" but i don't know they would leave the inbox. Also, someone's been trying to add an event to my google calendar, with no success.
are these two things related? is there evidence of a hack?
thank you.
How to help my infant sleep
What kind of sleep training book or technique do I need? [more inside]
I want to want to express myself.
I have nothing to say. Almost ever. How does one go about getting used to the idea of expressing oneself? [more inside]
posted by jumelle at 12:01 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by jumelle at 12:01 PM PST - 20 comments
Cute, magical date ideas for two sad people?
Cute, magical date ideas for two sad people? [happening tonight!] [more inside]
Identify this hanging pendant lamp!
Please help me identify this hanging pendant lamp. [more inside]
posted by roomwithaview at 11:48 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by roomwithaview at 11:48 AM PST - 3 comments
UK job search: contracts and taking notes
(UK-based) I've started applying for new jobs and as I'm now getting along in the process, I'm wondering about 1) signing a contract before leaving my current job and 2) taking notes during a job interview. [more inside]
What pets don't hate being pets?
Need to rehome a cat who bit once
Rescue cat dilemma: does the fact that this cat bit me mean that I won't be able to find a shelter for her? [more inside]
posted by computech_apolloniajames at 11:24 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by computech_apolloniajames at 11:24 AM PST - 15 comments
21 states in 21 days!
What should we see on our road trip? This is our route. Last 2 weeks of July. What are the best things to do? Where should we eat? What can we not miss? [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 11:15 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 11:15 AM PST - 11 comments
When switching auto insurance, should I cancel the old policy or just let it lapse?
Switching auto insurance: cancel old policy or let it lapse? [more inside]
posted by StrangeTikiGod at 11:01 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by StrangeTikiGod at 11:01 AM PST - 9 comments
Will giving up dairy help my acne?
Will cutting dairy help my acne? [more inside]
E pluribus -- wait, how do you say 'soap' in Latin again?
What's the best way to combine small shards of soap, the pale remnants of larger bars, into one usable bar? [more inside]
posted by jason's_planet at 10:22 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by jason's_planet at 10:22 AM PST - 20 comments
How to talk to boyfriend about his smothering behavior
What do you do about a smothering boyfriend? [more inside]
Any tips to make a whiny cat less whiny?
How can I teach a cat the virtue of patience? [more inside]
posted by morninj at 9:36 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by morninj at 9:36 AM PST - 21 comments
Walkabout? Vision quest?
What do people outside of the U.S. do when they're feeling depressed and aimless? Are there different cultural traditions, rituals or events to pick yourself up and set a new path for yourself? Something more than "take a walk to clear your head?"
Should I break up with my narcissistic sister?
Estranged from my sister because of her wedding and personality. To make this right or cut off my narcissistic sister. [more inside]
posted by sweltering at 8:51 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by sweltering at 8:51 AM PST - 33 comments
How do you provide proof of balance when you need money?
Need-based scholarship for international students filter: When you apply for admission at an overseas school, the hosting country requires a proof of balance of a certain amount. When the school offers a need-based scholarship to international students, how do you resolve the conflict between having to have the balance and needing the money? [more inside]
posted by icollectpurses at 8:35 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by icollectpurses at 8:35 AM PST - 13 comments
Moving from Ontario to Alberta, drive through US or Canada?
Help me convince my son not to drive through the US from Ontario to his new city, Calgary, Alberta. Or alternatively, convince me it won't be the hassle I think it will... [more inside]
So, then, which IS the droid I'm looking for?
Starting a new job and I am being given a smartphone. Or, actually, $100-$150 to buy a smartphone. My plan will be unlimited on Sprint. What phones do you recommend? [more inside]
posted by azpenguin at 8:21 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by azpenguin at 8:21 AM PST - 17 comments
Wedding gift etiquette turns my brain to mush.
One of my best friends is having a destination wedding this summer. Yay! So is one of her friends that I don't know. Confusion. [more inside]
posted by socialdrinker at 8:11 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by socialdrinker at 8:11 AM PST - 18 comments
ArtFilter: Find me this orgy tree!
I have a picture in my brain of a piece of art I saw once, but can't for the life of me find it again searching the most reasonable terms in my addled brain: art tree orgy (and derivatives there of) - help, MeFe! [more inside]
How to work with a terrible employee who can't be fired?
I'm the manager of an incompetent teacher working in a private school. With an unspoken company policy of "unless they commit a crime, we don't fire people," how do I get this person to see that they need to leave? [more inside]
Help me get over my decade-long addiction to the Internet.
I've been addicted to the Internet for a decade now and every aspect of my life has been affected. Help me rejoin society, get past this, learn time management skills, develop a work ethic, and piece my life back together. [more inside]
Have gun, will shoot self in foot.
When we left our heroine, it was 2002 and she was an avid JRPG player, wise in the ways of the spiky haired menu-based combatants. She returns, older if not wiser, to do battle again, in--okay, wait, what are all these games, and why do they expect me to know how to play them already? Help me find some training wheels, experienced gamer-types. [more inside]
Some GarageBand for iPad
Some GarageBand for iPad questions. I have an iPad 1 with the latest version of GB. [more inside]
Surely a paintball gun is not the answer
Barky dogs next door keeping me up at night: is there anything I can do? [more inside]
posted by indognito at 5:53 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by indognito at 5:53 AM PST - 28 comments
Which Android phone do I want?
I have a HTC Wildfire S, which I like a lot and does everything I want except with one big caveat: the inbuilt memory on the phone is pitiful. The inability to move some apps to the SD card is proving to be a pain. I have reached the stage, after only a handful of not-preinstalled apps, of having to constantly uninstall/reinstall apps as I need them.
So, can someone suggest to me another phone that might suit me better? [more inside]
posted by oclipa at 5:27 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by oclipa at 5:27 AM PST - 7 comments
Accomodations in small US city
As many europeans travellers in the US I first visited NYC and SF.
This time I want to try something different, a trip through various states as Colorado,Nebraska etc.. but where are the budget accommodations ( More details) ? [more inside]
Selling a piece of pop art
A dead relative left me a James Rosenquist signed print or poster. I would like to sell it. I would not like to deal with selling it. What's the easiest way to get something reasonable for it, as I have no idea of what the market value is. Contact Christie's or Southeby's? Are there agents who will deal with the whole process for a commission?
Music about sailing, maritime adventures, etc., please.
Looking for music about the sea, the ocean, the seaman's life. [more inside]
posted by peeet at 2:28 AM PST - 71 comments
posted by peeet at 2:28 AM PST - 71 comments
May 12
What can I buy my Canadian friend when I'm in the UK ... today?
Bad friend: I forgot to buy a birthday present for my Canadian friend. I am in the UK. I would like to be able to give her something today. I have a debit card, a credit card, Paypal and the internet.
I'm thinking that a voucher would be good, but for example, can I buy an amazon.ca voucher for her? Can she use an amazon.com or .co.uk voucher in Canada? What other vouchers are there that will allow me to pay from the UK? [more inside]
Where should I go camping in Southern Utah?
We are new to Utah and planning a camping trip to the southern part of the state. We're trying to decide which parks/attractions to hit in our small time frame. This could be our first and last trip to do this, since we don't think we'll be living here much longer and have limited vacation time to take at work. [more inside]
Something more than a happy birthday vote
Birthday gift filter: What to get a sibling running for local public office? [more inside]
posted by goodnight moon at 11:14 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by goodnight moon at 11:14 PM PST - 11 comments
Published studies on effective presentations
Peer review filter: seeking published studies on effective presentations, their preparation and delivery. Not looking for "how-to" books or webpages on the topic. [more inside]
posted by Prof Iterole at 10:43 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by Prof Iterole at 10:43 PM PST - 2 comments
How much could I sell this Acer Aspire for?
For how much do you think I can sell this Acer Aspire? [more inside]
Help me stop killing my eyesight in Mac OS on an HDTV.
A MacOS n00b (me) seeks knowledgable a MacOS user to help him with a problem. I've connected my brand new Mac Mini to an HDTV via an HDMI cable. I'm running it in 1080p since I bought the mini to use as an HTPC. But in this resolution, system text (such as the wind name, the URL bar in Safari etc) is killing my eyes. It's pretty small and barely readable from my couch. How do I fix this?
Need help on downloading pictures from Nikon Coolpix camera
When I download my pictures to my computer from my Nikon Coolpix S630, it always downloads ALL the pics instead of just the new pictures I just took. How do I download only the new pics? [more inside]
What kind of animal was this?
Japanese snowclones
Where can I find examples of snowclones in Japanese?
What is tumblr roleplay?
Useful gifts made of beautiful fabric
What (relatively useful) items/gifts can I make out of beautiful fabric? I'm developing a dangerous Spoonflower addiction. [more inside]
I'd like to put my eggs in a freezer basket.
Interested in donating some eggs. Genetic longevity and the like. Tips? [more inside]
Is my friend trying to surreptitiously decline a gift?
Question for the "guess culture" people: If a friend wants to leave a gift I gave her behind at my house for a year, is that likely to be her way of saying she doesn't really want it? Does that mean I can treat the gift as mine? [more inside]
posted by lollusc at 7:53 PM PST - 48 comments
posted by lollusc at 7:53 PM PST - 48 comments
Would you like to come to... No, you're busy. I see
How do you find out about events in Tokyo, before they're just about to happen? [more inside]
Be my Pandora please
If I like this, what else might I like? I recently discovered Totally Enormous Extinct Dinosaur, and am particularly enamored of this track, titled "Garden." [more inside]
Hamlet's succession
Why wasn't Hamlet crowned King of Denmark immediately after his father's death? [more inside]
posted by Optamystic at 6:24 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by Optamystic at 6:24 PM PST - 23 comments
Best set-and-forget ROM for Droid Eris?
What is the best (fast, stable) 3rd party firmware for the Droid Eris? [more inside]
posted by ChrisHartley at 6:13 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by ChrisHartley at 6:13 PM PST - 5 comments
I spy with my little eye something that is....plastic, spiky, full of holes
What is this movie??
I need help identifying a movie from the 80s! [more inside]
posted by paperclip2000 at 5:00 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by paperclip2000 at 5:00 PM PST - 4 comments
former hipster seeks family car with function
Does this car exist (USA)? 4 wheel drive, third row seating, manual transmission? No sliding doors; I don't want a minivan. Help me maintain my dignity while driving kids around, please. [more inside]
Ye Olde Commute
Getting from San Francisco to Mountain View every weekday over the summer, but don't currently own a car. How should I do it? [more inside]
Zurich patent office that Einstein worked in
Does anyone know if the patent office in Zurich, Switzerland that Einstein worked in when he published his famous papers at age 26 still exists? If so, where is it and is it open to the public? If not, what happened to it?
posted by zaebiz at 4:05 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by zaebiz at 4:05 PM PST - 5 comments
Give me a script for kicking out my roommate
I need to kick out a roommate nicely, but for no "real" reason. Help. [more inside]
posted by sideofwry at 3:27 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by sideofwry at 3:27 PM PST - 42 comments
Hot soups for hot weather?
I'm good with winter soups, I'm good with cold summer soups, but can't seem to find a hot summer soup I like. Send me your simmering summer soup solutions. [more inside]
posted by The Whelk at 3:23 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by The Whelk at 3:23 PM PST - 18 comments
Is there a DVD equivalent to sending your photos to be picked up at a Walgreen's in another state?
Is there a service (I was hoping FedEx did this, but, alas) where you can upload a DVD image from one state and someone can come pick up a burned copy in another state? (Beats mailing it.)
posted by BleachBypass at 3:20 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by BleachBypass at 3:20 PM PST - 9 comments
Is there an equivalent of Norm Abrams (New Yankee Workshop) or David Marks (Wood Works) for metal working?
Is there an equivalent of Norm Abrams (New Yankee Workshop) or David Marks (Wood Works) for metal working? Specifically milling and metal turning although I'd like to know more about welding, hand work, measuring, layout, etc. [more inside]
posted by RustyBrooks at 3:09 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by RustyBrooks at 3:09 PM PST - 9 comments
How long will my simple home fridge pickled beets last?
If I roast some beets, place them in glass mason jars along with some chopped onions/herbs/salt and pepper- and then cover everything with vinegar, screw the lids on and place the jars in my fridge- how long should the jars stay good?
Dealing with family
How do I deal with a family member that turns offhand comments into personal attacks against them, as well as putting themselves down. [more inside]
posted by Dynex at 1:11 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Dynex at 1:11 PM PST - 13 comments
Help my audience avoid having to choose me over the Giants.
How do really good and thorough event planners find dates with the fewest conflicts? I am in San Francisco, planning music events, and would love to find a comprehensive calendar including major festivals, concerts, bridge closures, naked marathons, sporting events, etc. Failing a comprehensive calendar, what main Bay Area calendar resources would you use?
Out of the frying pan and into the fryer
Apparently someone took out a home loan in my name. What do I do now? [more inside]
posted by never nice at 12:49 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by never nice at 12:49 PM PST - 22 comments
How to minimize dog allergens in a vehicle
How to get dog allergens out of your car or this favor just got out of hand. Part human relations, details inside. [more inside]
posted by ibakecake at 12:32 PM PST - 26 comments
posted by ibakecake at 12:32 PM PST - 26 comments
I'll trade you 2 gushers for the rest of your chee-tos
What are the hottest desserts in the school cafeteria right now? [more inside]
401k, come out, come out, wherever you are!
Grandpa died and left my mother his 401k. We can't find the money and the companies he's worked for can't seem to help. Are we missing something in our search? [more inside]
Katahdin Day Hike Trail Route?
What's the best route for a Katahdin Day Hike from Roaring Brook parking lot? [more inside]
posted by bobdylanforever at 11:08 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by bobdylanforever at 11:08 AM PST - 2 comments
The San Francisco Treeeeee
Tree Identification Filter - What is this tree from the streets of San Francisco? [more inside]
posted by melissasaurus at 11:00 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by melissasaurus at 11:00 AM PST - 6 comments
Apathy towards bad people: naive or some form of perceptual disorder?
Is there an exact psychological disorder to explain this person's apathy towards seemingly bad people? [more inside]
posted by pixienat at 10:40 AM PST - 40 comments
posted by pixienat at 10:40 AM PST - 40 comments
Putting girlfriend on the lease when she has already been living here
Girlfriend moved in with me in January. She's not on the lease. I am renewing the lease and want her to officially be on it. Will this cause a problem with the rental agency? [more inside]
Why is my internet download speed bumpy?
When I do a speed test on my cable modem why do the results look different in safe mode? [more inside]
Please help me ID this TO-220-3 IC
What kind of IC is this? Picture shows a TO-220-3 IC with the label S9010, B5 and a manufacturer logo of a sort of stylized C. It is installed in the Q1 position so I assume it is a transistor. [more inside]
posted by KevCed at 10:24 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by KevCed at 10:24 AM PST - 7 comments
Balance ball chair at work?
Do I want a balance ball chair to use at work? If so what do you recommend I look for (features, brands)? [more inside]
posted by mazienh at 10:20 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by mazienh at 10:20 AM PST - 12 comments
The Political Season will be More Bearable if Discussed in Graphic Form
Searching for the perfect graphic novel/comic book...for learning and enlightenment! [more inside]
posted by vivid postcard at 9:53 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by vivid postcard at 9:53 AM PST - 15 comments
lawf0rms4u.biz
My new landlord wants me to give him a lease for us to sign. Is there a good resource for printable lease agreements? [more inside]
posted by k8lin at 9:41 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by k8lin at 9:41 AM PST - 12 comments
Save my pipes!
Would a whole house water softener be worth it? [more inside]
posted by M Edward at 9:14 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by M Edward at 9:14 AM PST - 13 comments
Alternative dynasty / feudalism simulators
Looking for good alternatives to Crusader Kings that focus on politics rather than warfare. [more inside]
posted by a small part of the world at 9:12 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by a small part of the world at 9:12 AM PST - 6 comments
Robotech for the Roboton
Best place to buy Macross and or Robotech collectibles in the Seattle/Portland area? [more inside]
Morality as social norms?
Are there any books that discuss morals as a kind of social norm?
I don't need this.
I am happily married, but I'm having trouble dealing with an ex who dumped me and now regrets it. Please help me not put my marriage at risk. [more inside]
It tastes like Spring in alcohol form!
Oh, baby, put me to sleep!
Please help me make sex boring. [more inside]
Help Me Find the Best Office Chair
What's the best office chair for someone with scoliosis and chronic lower back pain? I don't know what's happened in chair design since the Aeron chair made such a splash and would appreciate your help in getting up to speed now that I have an office where I can order a chair to spec. [more inside]
Immanuel Kant was a real pissant.... starting an Australian philosopher's club.
I have quite a few very smart friends. One or two studied some philosophy at uni, I didn't. I was hoping to start some kind of casual philosophy in the pub discussion amongst the interested parties of mostly newbies. But how?? [more inside]
To Serve Fur-kind: Name that cookbook
Help name my local Humane Society's benefit cookbook. You know those cookbooks assembled from local folks' recipes? My local Humane Society is soliciting a title for the collection. I'd like to submit potential titles, and am turning to you for your witty, pithy and well-worded suggestions. [more inside]
Is my ulnar nerve healing?
I was diagnosed with Ulnar Nerve Neuropathy (cubital tunnel syndrome). Is the sensation in my hand a sign of nerve healing, or do I need a second opinion? [more inside]
I Can't See the Pretty Pictures
Images are not loading or taking too long to load. What is the problem? [more inside]
Biking in my suit? How not to ruin my pants.
Anything like a suit-friendly bikeseat cover? [more inside]
CFA worth it for a role in Real Estate Investment?
CFA worth it for a role in Real Estate Investment? I was wondering if the CFA will be useful to me if I want to work in Real Estate Investment – starting probably with a Commercial Brokerage firm in their asset management department, which would involve buying and holding investment properties for their income as well as possible capital appreciation. Ultimately perhaps work for some kind of REIT. [more inside]
You're not fired... yet.
Being scapegoated at work in an already toxic environment. [more inside]
posted by toerinishuman at 4:32 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by toerinishuman at 4:32 AM PST - 26 comments
"Lend me your ears and I'll sing you a song..."
I want to teach myself how to sing, but am clueless as to how to go about doing it (or whether I’m even cut out for it). Help! (Details inside.) [more inside]
posted by Kevtaro at 3:35 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Kevtaro at 3:35 AM PST - 9 comments
What sort of store do you buy disguise makeup at?
Where does one buy disguise makeup stuff? (types of local stores) A mask like the kind from spfxmasks.com (doesn't have to be that good though) would be nice. But really I can make do with a lot less... whatever I can buy in local stores, as I need it soon. But I have no idea what type of store I would buy it at, so I could check the yellowpages and start calling around. This is in Ottawa, anyone know any specific stores here, either?
In particular I need a skin colored patch to conceal some distinctive skin features.
I actually want to have the disguise on by 2pm today... cut it a bit close I know but the idea did not develop until now...
How do I recreate these slipper biscuits?
Last minute Mother's Day request: how can I make these biscuits/cookies, ready to be given to the recipients in about 18 hours? [more inside]
posted by malibustacey9999 at 12:49 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by malibustacey9999 at 12:49 AM PST - 9 comments
May 11
What are the Russian Lyrics to this song?
I'm looking for lyrics (in Russian/Cyrillic) to this song. I'm not familiar enough with russian to do more than pick out a few words. I don't want the English lyrics, I would like to figure that part out myself. :) Any help at all would be appreciated.
posted by subarctic_guy at 11:41 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by subarctic_guy at 11:41 PM PST - 2 comments
Can you tell me the title and author of this book?
Help me ID a book about food! (More below.) [more inside]
getting out of a suddenly dangerous dating situation
I just had a really upsetting/scary interaction with someone I've been dating/sleeping with and I'm not sure where to go from here. [more inside]
posted by These Birds of a Feather at 10:36 PM PST - 54 comments
posted by These Birds of a Feather at 10:36 PM PST - 54 comments
world building?
Looking for a game like lordofultima.com, but better [more inside]
Light jacket style, suggestions for styles asked for
Fringe S04E22; William Bell's (Leonard Nimoy) jacket. Recommend anything similar that is purchasable online? [more inside]
posted by porpoise at 10:14 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by porpoise at 10:14 PM PST - 9 comments
Realistic novels that aren't realistic novels.
Novel recommendation filter: family dramas that aren't family dramas. I don't typically like "realistic" novels about people's real world problems, but I love it when stories can sneak in those stories through especially dramatic hooks. For example, the TV show Six Feet Under used the funeral business to tell a family saga, John Le Carré's A Perfect Spy was ostensibly a spy story, and Clive Barker's Sacrament told a personal story through muted fantasy elements. So, with that in mind, what other novels might I like? [more inside]
How can I say thank you
What's a good thank you gift for the people who helped me survive school? [more inside]
Tubular 80's Fruitsnack?
What is the tubular 80's Fruit Snack haunting my dreams? [more inside]
posted by esereth at 8:56 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by esereth at 8:56 PM PST - 13 comments
Hey, cmoj, tell that joke.
What jokes do you know that absolutely depend on telling a good story? [more inside]
Help me better understand risk management
Can someone explain the following quote by a senior Wall Street executive, “JPMorgan violated the cardinal rule of risk: Don’t become the market.” [more inside]
Now that I'm enlightened, I'm just as miserable as ever
"Now that I'm enlightened, I'm just as miserable as ever". John Cage repeatedly retold this story, attributed to Suzuki -- but where is the original? [more inside]
More Like Dr. John
More Music Like Dr. John [more inside]
How do you contact companies looking for work when you're in a different city?
How do you contact companies looking for work when you're in a different city? [more inside]
ISO 15 yo Girl Birthday Party ideas.
What was the best teen (+- 15) girl birthday party you had/remember? We live in Los Angeles. [more inside]
How late is too late to find a good apartment?
How early should we look for apartments in Pittsburgh to move in July? [more inside]
How much should I worry about losing muscle (especially organ damage) from crash dieting?
How much should I worry about losing muscle (especially organ damage) from crash dieting? Is this a real thing or a diet myth? And if real, what's the best way to avoid it while losing fat as fast as possible? How crashy does a crash diet have to be to be actually dangerous? [more inside]
Help me maximize my time in Los Angeles!
In less than three weeks I will be spending a week in Los Angeles to see if I want to move there. Not having a car, how can I make the most of the week I have there and make it a great vacation regardless of my decision? Basically, how do I plan this trip? [more inside]
posted by signondiego at 5:52 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by signondiego at 5:52 PM PST - 16 comments
Man Mini Newbie question
2.0GHz Intel Core 2 Duo processor, 4GB, 320 GB. Hi I won a Mac Mini at a local auction. I only got the unit and the power supply. I purchased a Mini-DVI to VGA Female Monitor Cable Adapter to use with my existing monitor. I have a keyboard as well. I hooked up everything but all I get is blank screen. One time I got a message insert bootable dvd, I think. Please help an apple newbie.
Thanks
How to test pH of skin?
How would one test the pH of skin? And other questions related to the pH of skin, shampoo, and conditioner. [more inside]
Phablet Green
What is this weird little card?
What is this weird little card that I got in the mail? [more inside]
posted by cosmic.osmo at 5:08 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by cosmic.osmo at 5:08 PM PST - 4 comments
It must go up or down
I have this kind of choking thing that sometimes happens when I eat. It's not a Heimlich maneuver type thing. I can breathe. [more inside]
Brewer seeks microbes
Methanosaeta Concilli, Firmicutes, g-Proteobacteria and d-Proteobacteria... where can I get some? [more inside]
Cat's nose knows no bounds!
Computer crashed, what adapter do I need for my hard drive?
The SATA adapter I bought doesn't hook up to my hard drive so I need help finding the right one. [more inside]
posted by mewohu at 4:33 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by mewohu at 4:33 PM PST - 3 comments
Where to look for electrical engineering jobs?
Electrical Engineering Jobs. My wife, who has a master's degree in electrical engineering, has recently moved to the US and is looking for a job in high tech, specifically, doing circuit design or FPGA. What are the best places on the web to look for listings of such jobs? If it matters, we're in Colorado. [more inside]
posted by epimorph at 4:31 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by epimorph at 4:31 PM PST - 7 comments
Help me properly buckle up the little kids
I spoiled my kids, now how to reverse it? Specifics about car seat [more inside]
Old-timer web designer looking to get back up to speed with HTML5
I need to do a bit of web design and I haven't done any since people were still using tables to position things. Point me to a good book and/or online tutorial to help me put together a relatively contemporary-looking site. [more inside]
Make PHP multidimensional arrays saner
Is there a PHP IDE that makes dealing with large multidimensional arrays easier? If not, does anyone have a coding style that has made these arrays easier to deal with? [more inside]
Renters' Rights After Burst Water Heater in Apt Across the Hall
About three weeks ago, we moved into a fantastic new apartment; we are renting. Last Friday, the water heater in the apartment across the hall burst causing extensive damage to our apartment. What are our rights with respect to rent and reasonable expectations regarding quality of life following this incident? Extended explanation inside. [more inside]
posted by JuniorBCat at 4:20 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by JuniorBCat at 4:20 PM PST - 7 comments
Where has all the Reach Total Care Floss disappeared to?
Where has all the Reach Total Care Floss disappeared to? [more inside]
I have to swallow a camera. What's your experience?
I have to swallow a camera. What's your experience? [more inside]
How can I get the most out of a 3-month stay in Copenhagen?
Moving to Copenhagen for 3 months, excited and nervous! What will I eat? What should I bring with me to wear? How will I get around? How will I stay in touch? Hope me, hivemind! (MANY details inside because I am such a special snowflake) [more inside]
posted by zingiberene at 3:32 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by zingiberene at 3:32 PM PST - 14 comments
What, if anything, can you tell me about these strawberries?
Can you tell whether these strawberries are organic? Also, are they stolen? [more inside]
posted by désoeuvrée at 3:28 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by désoeuvrée at 3:28 PM PST - 23 comments
Let them eat steak...
YANMD. Neutrophil, lymphocyte, ferritin & iron counts are "off." I can't Google this with my snowflake details. Asked my doc and she simply advised a multivitamin w/ iron. Should I get a second opinion? Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
posted by luciddream928 at 3:28 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by luciddream928 at 3:28 PM PST - 7 comments
How can I get a second job with Americorps?
My Americorps stipend turned out to be much less than I was initially told, by a lot. Is it possible to get a second job? [more inside]
Dog breed mix mystery
What breed(s) do you think my dog is?
Some photos:
Cricket too cool for school
Laying
Cricket and Giant knitting
She is:
30-40lbs
Smallish.
Tan and white with ticking on all four paws
and black tips on the fur on her back
Bright green eyes
Wrinkly forehead
Reddish brown nose and nails
I am told her siblings has some longer hair
Loves to:
Run, herding (sort of)
has some cat like tendencies,
does not bark much, has a weird little "woof"
sort of squeaks when she gets excited.
hops and pounces a lot
cuddles alot [more inside]
How do soldiers in wartime talk about death?
I'm looking for quantitative studies or other accounts of how often, and in what ways, soldiers in dangerous wartime situations discuss the possibility of death. [more inside]
Where should I go in Duluth to watch the Champions League final?
Where should I go in Duluth to watch the Champions League final?
Fashionably Late Adopter
What is the best Android phone for a cheapskate without a data plan? [more inside]
posted by LiteOpera at 2:27 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by LiteOpera at 2:27 PM PST - 21 comments
Cause of thyroiditis?
Can you guys give me any idea of what could be causing my thyroiditis? [more inside]
Where can I find studyblue alternatives?
My favorite study website removed its note-taking feature. I want to find another virtual backpack service with as many options as studyblue used to have. Any recommendations? [more inside]
Hey look a Champion Tee with a Creeper face on it...
Is there any gear out there for Nerds/Geeks/Gamers/Etc who run/cycle/enjoy fitness? [more inside]
posted by snapped at 1:54 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by snapped at 1:54 PM PST - 12 comments
iPhone apps for cycling?
iPhone apps for cycling? [more inside]
Help me find a way to take a vacation.
Is there a consequence-free way to just disappear from work responsibilities for a week or a month or a few of those, while still being able to pay rent and still having a job at the end of it? [more inside]
Change one thing about me
Help me change one thing about my appearance [more inside]
The legend of Herkimer Diamonds
I'm looking for information on the supposed metaphysical bond created between two people wearing Herkimer Diamond gemstones. [more inside]
Help me brush my teeth, not brush them away.
Should I use an electric toothbrush? [more inside]
Help the Sad Kid Not Get Fired
I have depression. I was just fired from my part-time job at my university for "inconsistent attendance" during shifts for the past two semesters. I realize that I can't get my job back, but how can I prevent this in the future? [more inside]
Relationship Radio Silence
Am I over-reacting? A 4-month relationship followed by 10 days of radio silence. Of course snowflake, etc. [more inside]
Pernicious California Butter Ants
Please help me deal with these single-minded ants. [more inside]
Can I cross-check Amazon, Hulu, Netflix, Crunchyroll, etc. all in one place?
Is there a website somewhere with a long list of tv shows/seasons, all of the (legal) ways they're available online or streaming to tv, and upcoming new release dates? I'm tired of cross referencing all of them manually, or paying for an episode that was available for free two days later with one of my subscriptions.
Can you port just one number from a Verizon family plan?
How do you port just one phone number from a family plan to a new one? My son is going off his dad's Verizon mobile family plan and is getting his own (not necessarily through Verizon). His dad has several lines on his family plan and will be keeping that account.
Compiling an open source project in Visual Studio for dummies?
I need to compile an open-source software package, originally intended for a POSIX machine, in Visual Studio. I am comfortable with the ./configure > make > make install cycle, having done it many times, but I have never used VS in my life.
Can someone explain to me like I am six, what I would do to begin doing this in VS? I can't make a makefile, because configure is a bash script. I realize I could use MinGW or Cygwin, but I've been asked to avoid that if possible.
I already have VS (C++ version) and also SDK installed on a Win 7 box.
Let's assume for this question that using a pre-built binary is not an option.
Coach? Therapist? Kick in the pants? What do I need?
I want to change careers, and I’d feel a lot better about it if I could get some advice from a third party. What kind of a person should I be looking for? I’m an academic health sciences librarian right now and I’d like to stay in health information somehow - working for one of the publishers whose stuff I buy would be great, or maybe health IT - but I have no experience or credentials in the types of jobs I’m interested in, and I’m not sure whether I'm doing this right. Could a career coach help me? [more inside]
Name This Indian Sweet
Name This Indian Sweet [more inside]
Character vs. imaginary nature
What are some examples in fantastic and speculative fiction of characters struggling to survive in a beautiful but alien and dangerous natural environment? All media acceptable. [more inside]
Jade plant rescue advice?
What should I do with this Jade Plant rescue? I noticed it in the outdoor planter of an abandoned house and grabbed it. It's about 11" tall, and was under a bit of an overhang, so has been pretty much completely starved of water for yoinks. The leaves are all pretty much gray, deflated and leathery, except the very newest baby leaves (which seem extremely new -- but there aren't very many of the new ones). It came out with a bit of a root system, so I think it will be fine to replant, but should I prune it way back? Way, way back? Or leave the limbs but prune them? Or just it let it be to do as it will? [more inside]
posted by taz at 10:06 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by taz at 10:06 AM PST - 9 comments
History Research After College
I am graduating this weekend with a BA in History. I wrote a senior honors thesis and really loved the process of conducting research. Is there a way I can continue researching next year, while I'm not in school? [more inside]
Yamaha FJR 1300 Out, Toyota Prius In
CarFilter: 4 doors, hatchback, 30MGP (highway), manual. Go! [more inside]
How long does it take to learn to ride a motorcyle?
I just bought a motorcycle. I have no idea how to ride it, but in three weeks I'm supposed to visit a friend 600 miles away. Can this happen? [more inside]
What happened to Steve Moncuse?
Does anybody know whatever happened to Steve Moncuse, the writer/artist behind Fish Police? He appears to have stopped working in comics in the late 90s, and has no web presence that I can find.
posted by Lentrohamsanin at 9:35 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by Lentrohamsanin at 9:35 AM PST - 2 comments
GF and DF Delayed Serving Breakfast Items?
Gluten-free and dairy-free breakfast option I can bring for breakfast potluck? Needs to be quick prep and either good cold or microwave-reheatable. Sweet or savory ideas welcome. [more inside]
posted by batmonkey at 9:34 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by batmonkey at 9:34 AM PST - 20 comments
Help me find an elusive summer perfume
Just before Christmas 2011 I sampled a perfume in a Sephora in Ohio that I’d love to buy now, if possible. Unfortunately, I remember neither the brand nor the name of the perfume. Can anyone identify this elusive scent? [more inside]
posted by House of Leaves of Grass at 9:13 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by House of Leaves of Grass at 9:13 AM PST - 12 comments
USA-based phone solutions for non-residents?
Non-American who occasionally travels to America wants a Southern California phone number (Los Angeles area) that has data and that my friends can text to. My phone works on all USA carriers. What's the cheapest permanent solution? A web-based (or other non-cell) solution is also welcome as long as people can text to the number. [more inside]
posted by You Should See the Other Guy at 9:03 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by You Should See the Other Guy at 9:03 AM PST - 11 comments
How to find dates of U.S.military service?
My 82 year old brother can't recall his dates of military service. He was in the U.S. Air Force in the 1950's and left with an Honorable Discharge but he can't recall the dates.
Can anyone give advice as to how these dates could be ascertained? What agency should be contacted and can it be done online?
Thanks.
Interface problems
So what have you done to help your small child use a cell phone? [more inside]
No one came to the audition. What to do?
My friend is trying to stage his own play at a fringe festival. But when he held auditions, hardly anyone came. What should he do? [more inside]
Buying things of real value.
I would like to buy things that have a money value based on their actual utility. For example, I think gold is something that is overvalued since the shiny, soft metal doesn't have so many practical uses to justify its value. The second criteria is that the value of the thing would not go down much over a span of about 30 years, even if the economy went in the tank. Thirdly, I've a preference for commodity-like items that can be sold without much work. [more inside]
posted by ErikH2000 at 8:20 AM PST - 41 comments
posted by ErikH2000 at 8:20 AM PST - 41 comments
Chemist looking for non-chemistry work
I'm a current senior graduating with a degree in chemistry from a fairly selective liberal arts problem. The catch is that I really, really do not want a job in a chemistry lab when I graduate. I'm looking for ideas for alternative career options that would be realistic for a chemistry graduate. [more inside]
posted by aleatorictelevision at 8:09 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by aleatorictelevision at 8:09 AM PST - 17 comments
How to break land?
We have an 1 acre field of grass and a few other plants like dandelions etc. We want to turn it into a garden of heirloom and "open pollinated" food, in an effort to reduce our footprint as well as feed our family and others. The question I have is what is the best way to "break" the ground the first time. [more inside]
Thin sleeping bag
I want a sleeping bag that is super thin (no thicker than a sheet) and weighs almost nothing. Like item #4 in this picture. [more inside]
SD rental house for large group with kids?
Please help find a beach rental in San Diego for 3 families with toddlers? [more inside]
posted by synapse at 7:35 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by synapse at 7:35 AM PST - 7 comments
Paying the stupid tax.
I put some money on a prepaid virtual Visa card. When I tried to use it, it was declined. I'm wondering if there's a place that'll accept it, or if I am out fifty-five American dollars. [more inside]
posted by andrewcilento at 7:32 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by andrewcilento at 7:32 AM PST - 13 comments
How many pageviews?
I have a blogger/blogspot blog, and I get very different information about my stats from the "stats" page, Google Analytics, and statcounter.com. Who is right? [more inside]
posted by insectosaurus at 7:26 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by insectosaurus at 7:26 AM PST - 2 comments
Less toxic path to purple?
Light purple hair, from light brown hair. Bleach/toxicity inevitable? [more inside]
Help me smooth out these hat wrinkles
Is there a way to restore this hats' brim to it's original smoothness? It's a Dorfman Pacific cotton canvas hat that I really like. I had to wash it and now the brim is all wrinkly. [more inside]
Maid of Honor drama
While planning my totally drama-free wedding, I'm having drama with my maid of honor and at this point I'm not sure whether I should even have a maid of honor. Advice, please! [more inside]
Bank did a bad thing; don't know how to respond to Bank
My bank, in Canada, committed what feels like fraud. Not sure of next steps. [more inside]
Jumping through hoops for Spotify.
If I leave my computer for several hours, or it goes into hibernation mode, my audio programs Spotify and/or Media Monkey become weirdly unable to play audio tracks. What gives? Windows XP [more inside]
Do laptop network connections fail over time?
Do laptop network connections fail over time? WIFI and Ethernet cards? If so, is it time to replace my current computer? [more inside]
Plan B
He is an old friend of mine, and I recently helped him out by getting him a role at our company where I am senior developer.
Issue is buddy demonstrates a supremely arrogant streak, and loses his temper during discussions about architecture – when the approach under discussion is not his and tends to pout for the afternoon or storm off. This has come to a situation where I want to terminate his contract and will also probably terminate a very old friendship.
Catharsis below the fold... [more inside]
posted by the noob at 6:23 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by the noob at 6:23 AM PST - 23 comments
Help me find help to get a job
Career coach or someone who can help me find/get a job in my field (social work/non-profit)? Getting desperate and losing hope after three years of no luck. In NYC. [more inside]
posted by greta simone at 6:10 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by greta simone at 6:10 AM PST - 14 comments
Would this simple anti piracy idea for cinemas actually work?
1 – I think most camcorders/smartphones have sensors that pick up infrared light and that light then becomes visible to us when displayed on a regular screen.
2 – So could cinemas simply project a message or irritating swirling patterns on the screen with an infra red laser, ruining “cam” copies but not inconveniencing moviegoers?
Happy Kitten Friday
We welcome your advice on how to properly hail our new overlord. [more inside]
posted by onhazier at 4:14 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by onhazier at 4:14 AM PST - 17 comments
POS for a housewares retail outlet
Best POS/inventory management for a shop selling a mixture of unbarcoded and barcoded items (i.e. some loose stuff) and wishing to monitor stock levels, produce meaningful reports. Can't decide between Mac/Windows/Cloud... [more inside]
First-time bicycle rider: I want to buy a bicycle and learn how to ride it.
First-time bicycle rider: I want to buy a bicycle and learn how to ride it. Any recommendation / advice? [more inside]
posted by eisenl at 12:42 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by eisenl at 12:42 AM PST - 28 comments
How does single-stream recycling actually work?
My community has recently switched over to a single-stream recycling system. That's cool, but what don't I know? [more inside]
May 10
Reputable SEO?
SEO tied to sales- any recommendations? [more inside]
What are 10 year old kids into these days?
What are the 10 year old kids into these days? [more inside]
Where should we eat in Jackson, MS?
Where should we eat in Jackson/Bolton Mississippi? [more inside]
How do I move my items across country?
How do I move my items across country? About a dozen boxes plus a chest freezer. [more inside]
posted by AdaJoy at 10:06 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by AdaJoy at 10:06 PM PST - 10 comments
Win7 Workstation as Selective Gateway
Can you advise how I can configure my Win7 workstation as a gateway for selected traffic? [more inside]
How can I get my cat to eat his prescription kidney food
My cat has to eat a special kidney friendly diet. How can I encourage him to eat? [more inside]
How do I stay sober?
How do you stay sober through difficult times? [more inside]
Where can I find art-related social activities during a vacation in London and Edinburgh?
Where can I find art-related social activities during a vacation in London and Edinburgh? [more inside]
You are my electrician. Will I ever blow dry my hair again?
Home electrical mystery: Why did tripping a circuit cause all of the GCFI outlets within the circuit to fail (ie none of them can be reset now)? How can I fix this? [more inside]
Cape Town and the living is easy
I am moving to Cape Town, South Africa in January. Need specific info, contained herein. [more inside]
Searching further afield for a new Vanilla Field
I've been wearing the inexpensive and yummy Vanilla Fields perfume for years, but now it's been discontinued. WHAT THE FUCK, COTY?!! It's still possible to buy some old stock on the net but that won't last long. What can you recommend as a replacement fragrance that has a similar scent and is similarly affordable?
Help me track down a song!
Tunefilter: I'm trying to track down a song I heard in a bar last night... [more inside]
Car seat for a Mini convertible?
My husband loves his 2007 Mini Cooper S convertible, but also loves his 3 year old, 38" tall, 30 lb daughter. We're hoping to bring the two things together with the perfect car seat. It needs to be easy to get into for the kid, harness (as opposed to seat belt) preferred. Have any actual real-life Mini owners made this work?
Adjustable Standing Desk for $150 or less
Where can I get an adjustable standing desk for under $150 without having to DIY it? [more inside]
posted by melancholyplay at 8:13 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by melancholyplay at 8:13 PM PST - 13 comments
Name That Tune #345987
NameThatTuneFilter! Female singer, newer song, high, breathy. Difficulty: only a few words to go by. Help a sister out - I'd love to hear the whole song! [more inside]
Seeking a better understanding of the immune system.
Seeking a better understanding of the immune system. As I understand it: #1 I am exposed to bug. #2 I get bug. #3 I am now immune to bug.
I understand that open wounds, chemo, or ailments that suppress the immune system would cause a person to fall ill more easily.
How could a product effect a person's immune response?
Refined Flour is her Jam
My friend's birthday is coming up, and she loves white bread. What white bread related gifts can I give her? [more inside]
posted by sweetkid at 6:41 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by sweetkid at 6:41 PM PST - 31 comments
What did the doctor think I had?
What is a doctor looking for if he palpates the kidney area and asks if it is painful? [more inside]
posted by smilingtiger at 6:39 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by smilingtiger at 6:39 PM PST - 7 comments
Stomach pain during pregnancy.
Chronic stomach pain during pregnancy. Prescribed medicine isn't helping. What worked for you? [more inside]
posted by Circumstands at 6:30 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Circumstands at 6:30 PM PST - 11 comments
What causes to donate to?
My husband and I are looking to begin donating to one LGBT rights group and one immigrants' rights group. Who should we pick? [more inside]
posted by that's how you get ants at 6:08 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by that's how you get ants at 6:08 PM PST - 23 comments
401(a) consequences?
I am a state employee at a university that mandates participation in a 401(a) retirement plan alternative, so neither the state nor I pay into social security.
I signed this form affirming that I am forfeiting future social security payments or disability benefits.
What should I be doing to compensate?
Looks different but actually the same
New species or larval stage of known species? [more inside]
A day late and a note short?
Please help me with post-interview thank-you note timing. [more inside]
posted by thisjax at 5:36 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by thisjax at 5:36 PM PST - 11 comments
Am I floundering? I'm at my wits' end.
Am I floundering? I'm at my wits' end. Snowflaking details inside.. [more inside]
How comfortably can a family of four live in silicon valley on a single income of $150-160k/year?
How comfortably can a family of four live in Silicon Valley on a single income of $150-160k/year? [more inside]
Do any songs mention the cassette tape format?
Are there any song lyrics that directly mention cassette tapes? Wording doesn't have to include the exact phrase "cassette tapes"--could use the words tapes, mix tapes, cassettes, etc. The better-known the song, the better for my purposes. Thanks!
What does Rincewind think right after that one time he casts a spell?
QuotationFilter: Rincewind the Wizzard cast a spell that one time (when he was in peril and the eighth spell needed to work through him to fry the cause of the peril with octarine fire) and then Rincewind thought something to the effect that he now understood why most wizards were single and pale (because doing magic was really satisfying and more fun than a normal life, apparently). I can't remember the exact wording, or find it in the books-- do you know? (I want to know because I might feel the same way about engineering.)
posted by sninctown at 4:39 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by sninctown at 4:39 PM PST - 6 comments
adventures in used car selling
Selling a car on craigslist -- are there any drawbacks to including the VIN in the ad?
posted by wutangclan at 4:31 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by wutangclan at 4:31 PM PST - 9 comments
Many Sex on the Beach!
What is the correct or best way to pluralize the cocktail named "Sex on the Beach"? [more inside]
posted by two lights above the sea at 4:28 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by two lights above the sea at 4:28 PM PST - 42 comments
The seed is the cage is the seed
Writers I like: Johan Huizenga, A. S. Neill, Christopher Alexander, Philippe Gaulier, James Paul Gee. Thoughts I'm interested in: the systemic formation of culture; how we interact with and are shaped by said systems; how those systems emerge as part of a "playful" procedure; how play is often used as a release from cultural standards. Who else will I like? What ideas will fascinate me further? [more inside]
posted by Rory Marinich at 4:26 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Rory Marinich at 4:26 PM PST - 9 comments
I want this money to grow grOW GROW!
What do I do, investment-wise, with an extra $5-10,000 a year? [more inside]
posted by jabes at 4:26 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by jabes at 4:26 PM PST - 9 comments
Something goes thump in the night
Thin walls, noisy partner; help me be a better neighbor? [more inside]
Abusive family found me by tracking my phone
I moved into a new area, but then I didn't turn off my old cellphone (that my family got me) because my sister was sending me abusive messages and I wanted to collect them as proof just in case I use it in court, and now I got a message that said that I got tracked with the verizon Family Locator (since they were the owner of my old cellphone's account). I didn't even know such thing existed nor thought that my family would actually use that on me. I am terrified because now they know my location, they can just come down here. They were threatening to come over, hire a private cop and a private investigator, and etcetera for days. I am scared to go out the house. I feel messed up. It's already been a hectic week because I was moving my items (without my own car), going to job interviews, dragging groceries, etc... I don't want to burden my new roommates either.. what a shitty week. I tried so hard to find a safe place where no one can find me. I don't know what to do, feel so stupid. I know where the court is, should I just get the restraining order now? Even though my family knows my exact where about. [more inside]
How can I make my Raleigh play nice with all the pretty bike baskets I want?
Needed: Stylish bike bag solutions! What baskets / panniers would fit my Raleigh's giant rear bike rack? [more inside]
posted by aaanastasia at 3:21 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by aaanastasia at 3:21 PM PST - 8 comments
I want to make (or have someone make) and sell a certain flavor of candy. How can I do this?
I want to make (or have someone make) and sell a certain flavor of candy. How can I do this? [more inside]
<img alt="A picture of me">
I am a web developer. I am not your web developer (yet.) Do you want to see a picture of me on my web site? [more inside]
Do I throw away a half-bottle of maple syrup?
Throw away or keep? A Maple Syrup love story. [more inside]
posted by LemonGardot at 2:08 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by LemonGardot at 2:08 PM PST - 29 comments
Travel tips for Switzerland- Zurich, Chur, and Vienna
Going on a trip to Switzerland for about 10 days at the end of September. We're flying into Zurich and then going to visit the tiny village near Chur where my family emigrated to the states from, and flying home from Vienna. Looking for travel tips for Zurich, east Switzerland, day trips from Chur or Zurich, and Vienna. [more inside]
posted by forkisbetter at 1:36 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by forkisbetter at 1:36 PM PST - 13 comments
Customizable/Universal Tracking App?
I would like to use a single smartphone app to track a customizable set of personal attributes and/or behaviors. For instance, I would like to track my daily weight, peak flows, alcoholic beverages consumed, run distances, and hours slept. I would like to do this with a single app, and not an app for each attribute/behavior being tracked. [more inside]
posted by u2604ab at 1:35 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by u2604ab at 1:35 PM PST - 11 comments
Double or Triple?
Replace my Motorola NVG510 modem on ATT Uverse?
Can I replace my ATT Uverse supplied Motorola NVG510 DSL modem with another modem? [more inside]
Best tool to create a family photo site?
What's the best tool/theme/software to create a family photo site? [more inside]
Sign me up, Santa Fe?
We're considering moving to Santa Fe. Tell us what we should know and where we should live. [more inside]
posted by Flamingo at 12:07 PM PST - 24 comments
posted by Flamingo at 12:07 PM PST - 24 comments
The Grass Is Much Greener On the Other Side of June
FHA refinance at the exact wrong time: any recourse? [more inside]
posted by Brak at 11:44 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Brak at 11:44 AM PST - 7 comments
Van Gogh Letter
Looking for a very specific van Gogh line from his letters... [more inside]
posted by disillusioned at 11:44 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by disillusioned at 11:44 AM PST - 4 comments
What's the best way to deal with Outbrain links in Firefox?
Is there a Firefox extension or something that will change Outbrain links into the regular links they appear to be when you first mouse over them? [more inside]
How to get an iPod to work in my life
I change playlists for an iPod Touch a lot, as I update them often. What is the best way to put new playlists on an iPod Touch? I must be doing it wrong because it is a pain. [more inside]
posted by cashman at 10:22 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by cashman at 10:22 AM PST - 11 comments
Helpless Doorknob Scans needed
Looking for scans of the 20 cards of Edward Gorey's "The Helpless Doorknob". [more inside]
What's your favorite car rolling over stunt?
Car rolling over filter: I'm looking for movies wherein a car rolls in a spectacular (potentially test-able) way. Or for an interesting or counter-intuitive reason. Think along the lines of the car flip on the way down Fillmore in Jade. Or the Bond/Casino Royale flip of the McClaren. Hopefully even more spectacular.
Batch white balance/ transparent layers problem
Batch white balance/ layer transparency? [more inside]
The bassline to Fascination Street will no doubt invade my dreams
Help me track down this book from childhood about giant animals!
ChildhoodBookFilter: Help me correctly recall/find this awesome book I had as a kid about giant prehistoric animals. [more inside]
posted by lovableiago at 9:27 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by lovableiago at 9:27 AM PST - 5 comments
Metafilter: The cause of, and solution to, all of life's onion-related problems.
You made my house smell like (delicious, delicious) onions! Now please help me make it stop. [more inside]
posted by range at 9:20 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by range at 9:20 AM PST - 24 comments
Hanging Weighty Wool
Looking for a heavy-duty garment rack to hold multiple pieces of weighty clothing in a storage room. [more inside]
posted by GJSchaller at 8:56 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by GJSchaller at 8:56 AM PST - 7 comments
Where did the Google News videos go?
Google News videos: Up until a couple of days ago there were four or five videos displayed in the right hand column of the Google News site. Now they're gone. Is it just me? Did I change a setting that caused this. I don't think I did. Or did the site change? Can I get them back?
How to come to terms with long cycle of failure and move on?
After years of escapism, how to anchor life to meaning (or vice versa?) when almost four years of research hasn't amounted to anything? [more inside]
Beginners Guide to PC Buying
Help me purchase a mid-range desktop that plays games besides solitaire and minesweeper. [more inside]
Metal filing cabinet makeover: Have you ever done anything other than spray paint a filing cabinet?
I want to purchase a cheap metal filing cabinet on craigslist and then restore it into something awesome. [more inside]
Who sounds like Topaz?
I like these songs by a band called Topaz (now defunct I believe). Who else sounds like this? I guess I'm specifically looking for lots of horns, driving bass, generally jazzy, funky stuff.
How to retrieve iPod lock screen photo?
On my iPod touch, I accidentally deleted a photo from my photo roll, but it is still being displayed as my lock screen photo. How can I get it back?
(iOS 5.1 9B176, touch model MC540ll)
The logistics of moving without a car
I'm moving in a few months and don't have a car. What are my options? [more inside]
Getting hired in the industry without experience
How do I break into the service industry (i.e. host, server, barback) without any (or very little) experience? [more inside]
Writer researching ancient Egypt looking for assistance
I'm researching ancient Egypt for a Middle Grade book, and I'd love to find an expert or two whose brains I can pick. [more inside]
Math Help - Library Contest Edition
Math Help! We're doing a big inventory project in my library this summer and we want to attach weekly prizes to it to help motivate the poor students who have to do all the scanning. Trick is, students do not work the same amount of hours per week, so we would like some way of weighting each student's output so that those that work less feel like they can compete with those who work more while not disadvantaging those with longer hours by requiring them to go insane in order to keep up. How to keep things fair and sane? [more inside]
places to check out in san francisco
I am a 22 yr old guy traveling to San Francisco for the first time June 5th-9th. I want to get a good mix of tourist stuff to do, then check out a few places that necessarily wouldn't be on the top places to check out that are cool. Any suggestions would be awesome. Thanks!
Help with Laptop keyboard
My wife's laptop keyboard is messed up. Whenever she hits "b" it spits out 4b, whenever she hits "n" it spits out 7n. The space bar doesn't work. This is a Lenovo laptop. She did just clean the keypad and she used a damp paper towel, but she didn't seem to spill any liquids into the keyboard. Is this salvageable? Solutions, ideas, help?
Cabins Near Mount Mitchell, NC
Our small three person family is looking to rent a cabin on or near Mount Mitchell in North Carolina this winter. Does anyone have any suggestions for rentals with awesome mountain views?
(Late) Hero Worship
How do I express admiration for a famous person in a non-creepy way? And do I really want to express my admiration to begin with? [more inside]
Recommendation for a history of the Spanish Civil War
Recommend a good history on the Spanish Civil War? [more inside]
posted by molecicco at 6:39 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by molecicco at 6:39 AM PST - 14 comments
Welcome, Hackers!
Does including a "welcome to my website" statement on your homepage invite or legitimize hackers? [more inside]
posted by jeoc at 6:01 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by jeoc at 6:01 AM PST - 17 comments
Ink & Drum Printer?
Seismographs and polygraphs have a movie-portrayal printout of a paper drum & a needle drawing beautiful squiggles. What is that means of production called and how can I get it? [more inside]
posted by tmcw at 5:53 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by tmcw at 5:53 AM PST - 4 comments
My pet died. I think his death was preventable. Help me cope.
My pet died. I think his death was preventable. Help me cope. [more inside]
posted by prior at 4:43 AM PST - 23 comments
posted by prior at 4:43 AM PST - 23 comments
Hacking Sony and getting away with it?
Old news, but in regards to the Sony massive breach (hackers stole 77M account details, incl credit cards), how intelligent would the hackers be to remain uncaught? [more inside]
posted by gttommy at 4:11 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by gttommy at 4:11 AM PST - 3 comments
Should an 11 year old read Kafka?
Is Franz Kafka to intense to give to an 11 year boy? [more inside]
Can you show me some jaw-dropping or spirit-lifting Olympic photography?
Can you show me some jaw-dropping or spirit-lifting Olympic photography? [more inside]
Why does my router/ISP hate my new laptop?
Why on earth is my laptop – and only my laptop – causing our ADSL modem/router to constantly disconnect and reconnect to our ISP?
I’m having some serious issues with a new laptop I purchased about [more inside]
posted by Ted Maul at 2:34 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Ted Maul at 2:34 AM PST - 9 comments
Help me find the LA Trash I crave!
Looking for really trashy old paperbacks in and around Hollywood! [more inside]
posted by Bunny Ultramod at 12:59 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by Bunny Ultramod at 12:59 AM PST - 3 comments
Where to lock up my stuff at Aquatic Park, SF?
San Francisco, Aquatic Park. I'd like to start swimming there, but I need more details about using either of the clubs for their showers/lockers. More inside. [more inside]
May 9
Modernism via Bus.
How easy is it to use public transportation to get from Frank A. Sedita City Court to the Albright Knox on a Friday Afternoon. [more inside]
posted by PinkMoose at 9:44 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by PinkMoose at 9:44 PM PST - 10 comments
Things to see & do in Cambridge, MA before you die, aside from the education bit
Farewell, Boston & Cambridge! (What to see/do before I go) [more inside]
posted by smirkette at 9:23 PM PST - 22 comments
posted by smirkette at 9:23 PM PST - 22 comments
What can I grill that will take me forever?
Wife gone for the weekend: What is the most complex, time consuming recipe you have tried for any type of meat/fish/poultry on a grill? [more inside]
Purchasing a mid-life crisis
I'm pretty sure am asking a question that has been well answered for The most part before.
For the first time in 25 years i've wanted to purchaser a new auto,specifically the John Cooper Works Mini Clubman.
Is the john cooper package wroth it compare to the regular Clubman or Cooper S C (sorry don.t care about MPG)
How do I negotiate the best price.
Thanks
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posted by Carbolic at 8:53 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Carbolic at 8:53 PM PST - 15 comments
Pick my commuter bike pedals
Help me pick which SPD/flat pedal to get for commuting. [more inside]
Can supportive adults help?
I am looking for article/s pertaining to childhood and outside adult support from a dysfunctional family. [more inside]
posted by annsunny at 8:30 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by annsunny at 8:30 PM PST - 2 comments
Tsukemono / Japanese pickle recipes needed
Give me your favorite tsukemono recipes, please. [more inside]
posted by ryanshepard at 8:20 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by ryanshepard at 8:20 PM PST - 8 comments
This line is being recorded.
I have an 8GB iTouch with a voice recorder, and a crappy Samsung flip phone. I am about to do a phone interview, and I need to record it. What's the best way to hook my MP3 player up to my phone to record the interview?
posted by pxe2000 at 7:55 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by pxe2000 at 7:55 PM PST - 4 comments
What are some interesting human-free spaces I could film in Boston or NY?
What are some interesting human-free spaces I could film in Boston or NY? [more inside]
posted by timsneezed at 7:21 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by timsneezed at 7:21 PM PST - 18 comments
Going off HRT AMA?
A while ago, I quit taking HRT without consulting my endocrinologist or any other medical practitioner. How big of an idiot am I? How do I fess up to my doc? [more inside]
What is the music in this Todd Solondz trailer?
What are the songs in this trailer for Dark Horse, the upcoming Todd Solondz film? [more inside]
posted by (The Rt Hon.) MP at 6:54 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by (The Rt Hon.) MP at 6:54 PM PST - 3 comments
What ever became of James Burke's little spheres?
In the final episode of James Burke's "Connections", he describes a secret experiment mixing CuSO4 and NaOH, and the potential uses for the result. That was the late 1970s--I am curious what actually happened since then. [more inside]
posted by This_Will_Be_Good at 6:49 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by This_Will_Be_Good at 6:49 PM PST - 9 comments
Undermined or Oversensitive?
I'm thinking my best friend isn't the best of friends. How do I deal with that? [more inside]
International (but English) equivalents to William's Obstetrics?
I'm a medical student in the US, but having had a peripatetic childhood I have long had a fascination with cultural differences in medical practice. I'm hoping to go into OB, and was wondering what the granddaddy texts in other English-speaking countries are. Any suggestions?
posted by eglenner at 6:10 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by eglenner at 6:10 PM PST - 7 comments
which vampire novel?
Name that book: A novel published in the 80s about a meek English teacher in a small English village who falls into a grave one night and gets impaled on a stake. He then turns into a vampire.
Fresh dirty motor oil.
I left the cap off my motor oil for weeks, and dust, leaves, twigs, spiders, and who knows what may have fallen in there. Can I still use it in my car? Should I filter it first somehow?
posted by brenton at 5:35 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by brenton at 5:35 PM PST - 32 comments
Stop Motion Movie Actors Needed. Must Be REALLY Short And Cheap!
Help! I need ideas for two small figures (toys most likely?) to serve as the main characters in stop-motion movie clips. They should be under 6 inches tall, more or less. Ideas for a male and a female figure needed. The male character is a geek. The female is a girl-next-door type. [more inside]
Can I freeze it, thaw it, then eat it?
He loves to break my glasses. Now he needs his own.
Our 18 month old needs glasses. Before we head over to the eyeglasses store, is there anything we should know? [more inside]
posted by ambrosia at 5:10 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by ambrosia at 5:10 PM PST - 19 comments
Please recommend me some novels (or movies) about being a confused 20-something.
Please recommend me some novels (or movies) about the confusion and ridiculousness of being in your early 20s. [more inside]
posted by ad4pt at 4:59 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by ad4pt at 4:59 PM PST - 28 comments
Good Mexican / Tex Mex in Orlando
Good Mexican / Tex Mex in Orlando [more inside]
How can I make this heartwarming?
I have to give a wedding toast for someone I barely know, whose fiance I don't at all know. And there are further complications. Uh... help? [more inside]
It Shall Rise From the Ashes
What are the great novels of Detroit? All genres welcome, but latter half of the 20th century preferred. Thanks!
posted by gerryblog at 4:20 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by gerryblog at 4:20 PM PST - 11 comments
Why isn't my web host trusted?
drawing on fabric & stylish blanks?
What materials are good for drawing on fabric and clothing in a non-hokey way? And where is a good place to get stylish blanks? [more inside]
posted by fireflies at 3:46 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by fireflies at 3:46 PM PST - 12 comments
Licensed to ________
Licensed to _______ : What are some cool/random/interesting licenses or certifications I can earn? [more inside]
posted by jph at 3:36 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by jph at 3:36 PM PST - 39 comments
Recommend me a book in logic, rhetoric and argument skills/crafting
Recommend me a book in logic, rhetoric and argument skills/crafting But nothing ideological please. I basically need something that will help polish my writing and compress my ideas.. if that makes sense. I need to be incredibly efficient and concise with my writing as I will be starting a degree in (undergraduate) law.
Something better than this in quality and value or any other alternative (e-) resource [more inside]
What comedian did I see in a Comedy Central special?
Help me figure out what blondish, male comedian I saw on a special that aired on Comedy Central in the early 2000s. [more inside]
Someone processes adult sales. Who are they?
I need names of United States banks that offer merchant accounts for adult web businesses. [more inside]
Exposed to hepatitis C. Now what?
On Friday I got a call from my primary care physician saying that my HCV AB EIA QL (Hepatitis C) test result came back reactive. The same test in August 2011 was nonreactive. I am waiting for the referral to the GI department to be processed so I can find out what happens next. In the meantime I'm freaking out. [more inside]
posted by thrasher at 1:34 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by thrasher at 1:34 PM PST - 15 comments
Where are all the cool lady podcasts?
Where are all the cool lady podcasts? I listen to TAL, Wiretap, Radiolab, The Truth, etc., all of which I love, but I would like to hear some female perspectives in the mix as well. I prefer science-y content but comedy or just life in general works too. I'm open to anything, really, just want to hear some great female podcasting.
posted by tatiana wishbone at 1:15 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by tatiana wishbone at 1:15 PM PST - 35 comments
How to setup a pay-to-use wifi?
I have a rental property, rented by the week in the summer. I now have a cable modem and a wireless router in the house. I want to offer the wifi for a fee per week. What is the best way to set it up and how can I get paid? [more inside]
one burns money and makes you fat, the other burns fat and saves you money
Getting around LA via bicycle? [more inside]
Negotiating for more or walking away...
Help me decide if I should take a job. [more inside]
career goal/direction
I need a concrete career goal/path/direction with possibility of grad school or other type of education. [more inside]
Well, that was obvious.
What are the most world-shattering discoveries, innovations, and methods of our lifetime? [more inside]
What's this riff?
What is the name of that classic synth song or riff? [more inside]
Bring back the .doc
I am getting the following error when trying to save in .doc format in Microsoft Word 2011 for Mac (v. 14.2.0): "the save failed due to out of memory or disk space". I can open .docs, but can only save as .docx. This happens with brand new documents and old ones. [more inside]
posted by DiscourseMarker at 12:00 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by DiscourseMarker at 12:00 PM PST - 18 comments
A Concise AP Euro Outline?
Where can I find good study materials for the AP European History Exam? [more inside]
posted by Flood at 11:52 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by Flood at 11:52 AM PST - 14 comments
Mister, I'll make a man out of you (in 6 easy steps)
What are the best general DIY websites around? (excluding instructables.com) [more inside]
posted by Think_Long at 11:52 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Think_Long at 11:52 AM PST - 12 comments
Peppers in Sauce?
I remember having sliced green peppers soaking in a mysterious thin dark sauce at a Mexican/Latin American restaurant. They served it like a condiment/topping. The placed closed years ago and I have no idea what this was called. Any ideas? recipes?
posted by yeahyeahyeahwhoo at 11:41 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by yeahyeahyeahwhoo at 11:41 AM PST - 10 comments
Current Events in a College Course
What's the best way to incorporate current events into an intro-level college course? [more inside]
posted by cupcakemuffin at 11:35 AM PST - 15 comments
posted by cupcakemuffin at 11:35 AM PST - 15 comments
Art/Illustration style identification?
Is there a name for this style of art, very popular in the early 70s? I'd like to learn more about it, or find some of the children's books I remember with that kind of illustration, but searching's hard without a search term.
Help me find this top
Looking for specific super ruffly top similar to this photo. [more inside]
posted by v1sual.3rr0r at 11:32 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by v1sual.3rr0r at 11:32 AM PST - 9 comments
Let's play dress-up!
They say to dress to highlight your best attribute...what if you have nothing you want to highlight? What do you wear then, especially if you want to look more feminine? [more inside]
My dress is a stiffy
Can you soften poplin? [more inside]
Seriously, this is funny?
Are people significantly more likely to laugh at people who have a reputation as being funny? [more inside]
posted by WhitenoisE at 11:24 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by WhitenoisE at 11:24 AM PST - 21 comments
Blood Tests Results - Need Help Deciphering Please
What do elevated protein/globulin levels in blood indicate? [more inside]
Will living abroad be a rewarding experience?
I've been offered a job overseas, but I'm on the fence about it. What have your ex-pat experiences been like? [more inside]
posted by astapasta24 at 11:01 AM PST - 32 comments
posted by astapasta24 at 11:01 AM PST - 32 comments
Are there any iOS apps for community remix, besides Mixel?
Are there any mobile apps that support community/collaborative remix? Apps that go beyond your own social network (i.e. Facebook/Twitter sharing), but post to their own public community. There are thousands of sites like that on the web, but the only ones I can find on iOS are Mixel and Make Pixel Art, and that seems crazy.
Help me find a great, dark comic?
Dark on-line comic about a boy left in his crib, who's then led astray by a malevolent cat - unforgettable, but now I can't find it for the life of me! [more inside]
posted by progosk at 10:50 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by progosk at 10:50 AM PST - 6 comments
How to automate a dynamic web page using VBA?
Help me automate some of my work involving taking values in a spreadsheet and plugging them into a website with dynamically generated content. [more inside]
posted by Reverend John at 10:32 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Reverend John at 10:32 AM PST - 8 comments
Apparently adults get homesick too
Mid-20's female about to be very homesick. What can I do in advance and out in the field? [more inside]
I moved. The cheese stayed where it was. Now it doesn't return my calls.
What should I do instead of online journalism? [more inside]
How to parse a text file & collect a piece of each line automatically?
I need to go through text files, each containing hundreds of lines, and copy a specific part of each line, and then add all those parts together into one long line, each part separated by a comma. But how? [more inside]
Big dude needs strong wheel!
I'm a big guy. I need a beefy bike wheel. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by pdb at 10:03 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by pdb at 10:03 AM PST - 14 comments
Need video clips
I need to find a resource (or resources) where I can download old black and white clips. [more inside]
Crying over spilt milk, or is it spilled?
Do we cry over spilt milk or spilled milk? My spell checker says the latter but I remember the former. [more inside]
posted by patheral at 9:44 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by patheral at 9:44 AM PST - 33 comments
NYC/Brooklyn-specific gifts for twin 4yr old girls
What NYC or Brooklyn-specific gift can I get for twin girls age 4-5 who I 've never met but know they have everything, are probably reading beyond their age level, etc. My budget is around $20-30 total. I don't know anything about this age group or whether the parents are pro/against princess/barbie stuff and I'd like to avoid gender-stereotyping gifts anyway. Ideas? Thanks!
You mean you're too old for 'The Very Hungry Caterpillar'?!
What stand-alone book could I bring in as a guest reader for a class of 5th graders? [more inside]
arriving by amtrak to Fort Lauderdale/Miami
Taking Amtrak from Tampa to Fort Lauderdale/Miami on a Friday and returning on a Sunday. Wanting to pick up a rental car at or by one of the rail stations and wondering about logistics and the best way to do this. [more inside]
Help with debt collectors
My sister needs some help dealing with a debt collector who is pursuing her very aggressively. The debt collector keeps calling her at work and threatening her. At this point, my dad is looking into hiring a lawyer to help her out and be a go-between to deal with this debt collector for her. Any advice on who to call? [more inside]
posted by hazyjane at 9:10 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by hazyjane at 9:10 AM PST - 24 comments
I'm not paid, but I still want to be a professional!
I just joined my local volunteer Fire & Rescue Squad. What should I be reading to get up to speed on this dizzyingly complicated new field? [more inside]
What are some great creative video clips that assemble a variety of resources in elegant ways?
We are making a short video for a fundraising campaign for our online service. We want to include some existing videos about our website made by the TV, as well as some pictures. I'm looking for ideas about how to beautifully arrange and connect them.
What are some great creative video clips where creators assembled a variety of resources in elegant ways?
posted by vladimirfrolov at 9:03 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by vladimirfrolov at 9:03 AM PST - 2 comments
All that glitters, how much cash can I get for that?
What is a reasonable amount to expect a gold dealer to pay for half an ounce of 14k gold? [more inside]
posted by Serene Empress Dork at 8:57 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by Serene Empress Dork at 8:57 AM PST - 17 comments
No seriously, a large print Arduino would be great...
Back in the days of yore, my (almost) 77 year old father was quite the geek and maker, but never a programmer. Fast- forward to today and he can no longer work on big building projects and spends much of his time with his iPad and TV. We've been discussing what kinds of "doing" projects he'd like to work on, but the obvious contender of an Arduino is maybe a little difficult as I'm not in Australia to help him out with the programming side of things. What great projects have you known senior geeks to get into? [more inside]
posted by pipstar at 8:52 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by pipstar at 8:52 AM PST - 8 comments
Rights issues recording contemporary classical piano music
I’m a pianist living in Canada and I’m interested in recording (and making commercially available) solo classical piano music by living Canadian composers – music that is still under copyright. What are the legal requirements and, if applicable, industry norms to acquire the rights to record this music? [more inside]
Why should I play for the MBA?
What exactly do they teach in MBA programs? [more inside]
Sorry, grandma!
Please help me find replacement earrings or a reasonable facsimile of a beloved pair. Oh, and for a reasonable price! [more inside]
posted by hmo at 8:21 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by hmo at 8:21 AM PST - 6 comments
Making a cheesecake (halfway) in advance
Can I make this cheesecake recipe partway and then assemble and bake it later? Will it affect the quality? [more inside]
Pull a tune from the wall of sound
Is it possibly to meaningfully engage with a large number of twitter followers? [more inside]
Can this CPAP stand be saved? Or is there a better way?
My partner uses a CPAP machine at night, with a stand to elevate the hose, to keep it from getting crushed or tangled. The stand he uses works well—it greatly improves his sleep—but each stand fails at one soldered joint after about a month of use, so he just buys another one each time. We're tired of paying $20 a month for what should be a one time (or at least rare) purchase. Can you help us find a way to reinforce the stand, or a sturdier stand that we'll only need to buy once? [more inside]
posted by ocherdraco at 8:11 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by ocherdraco at 8:11 AM PST - 28 comments
Why Cardiac Catheterization #2?
YANMyMom'sDoctor, but why would a second/follow up cardiac catheterization be performed? She has been receiving pulmonary rehab but seems unlikely to be able to reverse heart and lung damage; Rehab seems to be to maintain quality of life. Snowflake details below. [more inside]
Pardner, I am hopeful that you are fixing to answer my question.
When did the use of contractions become common in American English and/or when did the absence of contractions become an (accurate or not) shorthand for outdated diction? [more inside]
posted by Admiral Haddock at 7:52 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Admiral Haddock at 7:52 AM PST - 8 comments
What is this template that I keep seeing?
I've seen a lot of new companies with landing pages whose layouts look exactly like Atlassian's. [more inside]
the best teachers INSPIRE
I'm dating an awesome girl that cannot feel the beat--help me help her sense of rhythm. [more inside]
Unexpected changes in perception after eye surgery. What's going on?
Unexpected changes in perception after eye surgery. What's going on? [more inside]
Help me rock out this yard sale
Tell me all you know about throwing a successful yard sale! I am having a yard sale the first weekend of June and I am ready to get rid of some stuff and make a little scratch. [more inside]
Wanna be on Mommy's new album?
Music Trivia: What musicians have included their children's voices in their recordings? [more inside]
Desperately seeking adapter
I'm visiting MacMinnville, Oregon from the East Coast. When I arrived at my motel I found that my adapter for my Dell Vostro 1520 laptop no longer works. Is there anyone out there who could direct me to a retail outlet near here, perhaps in Portland or Salem, where I could buy a replacement? Since I only have about an hour of battery time left, I'm somewhat desperate. Thanks.
Post-graduation dessert for 20?
Any suggestions for a restaurant in Baltimore where we can have (just) dessert for ~20 people following the Goucher graduation? A reservation would be ideal to assuage the stress of relatives. [more inside]
Help getting wee bit of CALM, VERNON experience.
For a job application- How can I get a little bit of hands on experience of using an archives management system like CALM or VERNON? I live in Bristol, England. [more inside]
Need a place to stay in Vienna and things to do.
Hotel and other quick recommendations for Vienna? [more inside]
How do I reference this Joint Committee on Human Rights report, both in text and in my bibliography, using the Harvard referencing style? Thanks!
How do I reference this Joint Committee on Human Rights report, both in-text and in my bibliography, using the Harvard referencing style? Thanks!
Five year old green thumb
I'm trying to get my five year old step son interested in gardening. We made a special flower bed for him and I to grow plants in together and he is really excited to grow "rainbow blossoms" in it. Help me make this as rewarding for him as possible! [more inside]
posted by gwenlister at 4:41 AM PST - 38 comments
posted by gwenlister at 4:41 AM PST - 38 comments
May 8
Chicago Fuji Battery Charger
I've got a four-hour layover at Chicago O'Hare tomorrow afternoon, during which I'd like to buy a charger and spare battery for my Fuji X100. [more inside]
posted by erikgrande at 10:13 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by erikgrande at 10:13 PM PST - 12 comments
Damn Movie, get out of my head!
Movie filter: Help me find the name of the movie where all I remember is that it featured Asian actors, was shot in Asia and had a looooong climatic shootout in a field outside a village. [more inside]
posted by theobserver at 9:36 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by theobserver at 9:36 PM PST - 14 comments
Help me smell good
I would like to adopt a smell that will be My Smell. I want only a partner leaning in close or the person I'm hugging to smell me. I'm interested in hair stuff, perfumes, and all that other fragrant crap, with a strong preference for organic products. [more inside]
Should I continue on this debt repayment plan with a 4th party?
I defaulted on my student loan and entered into an agreement with a third-party debt collector to repay. That loan has now been "transferred" to another agency that seems to be pretty sleazy, although I've been assured by my original lender that this new company will honor the terms of the agreement I had with the first collection agency. Is this my best option, or should I be doing something else? [more inside]
What does it take to turn a home into a theater that shows new releases?
A hypothetical question: what would it take to turn a room into my house into a theater that shows new releases (and avoid loud audiences)? [more inside]
Help me find a well-researched book on the organic food movement
Looking for a thoughtfully-researched book about organic food and/or breast cancer as a Mother's Day gift [more inside]
LOUD freeways in Seattle!!!
Seattle freeway pavement is rough and loud. Why? [more inside]
posted by skybolt at 7:06 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by skybolt at 7:06 PM PST - 10 comments
What's like a Brooks Brothers shirt, only cheaper?
Is there anything comparable in quality to, but cheaper than, Brooks Brothers shirts?
I usually buy the no-iron, slim-fit BB shirts, but I'm trying not to drop too much cash, as I need to replace all my shirts (WTF deodorant stains?!). I don't like the ginormous blousey shirts that typically pass for men's dress shirts, so recommendations for something along the lines of BB's slim-line shirts, qualitatively comparable but cheap enough that I'd switch brands would be appreciated.
Found an art pad in NYC. How should I try to find the owner?
Found an art pad on the 14th st A/C/E subway. I posted on Craigslist. What next? Are there other sites I should post on that people check?
Dog for grandparents?
Dog recommendation for grandparents? [more inside]
CSS - Insert background to tumblr code?
Where do I put the page background image code details in tumblr CSS code? [more inside]
posted by DrtyBlvd at 5:30 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by DrtyBlvd at 5:30 PM PST - 2 comments
When in Atlanta...
My 13 year old daughter and I will have four hours to burn in Atlanta before catching our flight. Any suggestions on something "Atlanta-ish" that might appeal? We're driving in from Nashville to catch the flight. She's excited about seeing a new city!
Academic offence related to plagiarism suggestions
My name is David. Currently, I am enrolled in a PhD program at a well reputed university in USA. At the very beginning of the semester, one day I talked with the Prof. (Very new in the department, first time he is offering this course) after finishing lecture because he is copying everything from a website even the assignments. He did not change anything in the assignment even the numeric values. I draw his attention. He did not take it seriously but giving me hard time throughout the whole semester. He accused me of copying four sentences from Wikipedia in one of my assignment. It’s a 12 page assignment completely based on experimental result. I got the result and then I described the results while I was describing the result four of the sentences exactly match with Wikipedia. I totally forget to add reference. However, I added references everywhere as it requires. During coding in C++, I did not copy a single line from anywhere all of my own codes but Prof. accused me that I modified some codes from online sources that even I do not know. [more inside]
"Just tell him how you feel" - really?!
You're supposed to bite the bullet and tell someone how you feel -- because life is about risk and vulnerability and Going For It, I get that. But I also can't shake the feeling that by the time it gets to that point, it's already too late. Disabuse me of this notion (or not)? [more inside]
How To Block Calls To My iPhone?
Got myself a new iPhone and a new number last month. Now, I get spam calls several times a day from the same number. I'm on ATT and the only way to block numbers is to pay extra. I've installed a "silent" ringtone for that number, but they seem able to make the phone ring despite that.
How can I block this number?
Looking for good tribute albums
Tribute albums - I would like to hear your favorites. [more inside]
Can you reccomend a Pub along the Thames in London from which to watch the Thames Jubilee Pageant?
I will be travelling to the UK this May/June and will be in London on June 3. I have heard that for the Jubilee Pageant on the Thames, some pubs along the river are accepting reservations for tables.
It seems like a great way to spend the day - does anyone have any specific recommendations for pubs along the Thames that I might contact?
"No MRI" identification?
As someone who has worked with metal and now has a small piece of metal (non surgical) lodged in my bone, I should not have an MRI. What is the best way to make this known? Do I need a medic alert bracelet/tattoo?
posted by beefetish at 4:07 PM PST - 23 comments
posted by beefetish at 4:07 PM PST - 23 comments
What does this story mean?
What does the Joe Hill story "My Father's Mask" mean? [more inside]
Why might my Sprint cellphone usually be unable to receive calls from AT&T cellphones?
Why might my Sprint cellphone usually be unable to receive calls from AT&T cellphones? [more inside]
posted by moift at 3:49 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by moift at 3:49 PM PST - 6 comments
Ahhhh, health! Now let's smoke?
As a former smoker I find that a good, vigorous workout makes me absolutely crave a cigarette. What is that?! [more inside]
To poke or not to poke; that is the question.
To poke or not to poke; that is the question...poked with acupuncture needles, that is. [more inside]
posted by Evilspork at 3:35 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Evilspork at 3:35 PM PST - 19 comments
How do I move on from this?
I suffer from depression and issues relating to low self esteem. In a moment of unbelievably horrible judgment and extreme selfishness I slept with my best friend's husband. She found out. I'm pretty sure I've lost her friendship forever and I have no idea how to deal with this crushing guilt and regret. [more inside]
Cyclists: how do you avoid going crazy?
Cyclists: how do you avoid going crazy? [more inside]
bad friend + mefi = better friend?
How do you manage feelings of frustration when someone in your life is behaving in a self-destructive way? [more inside]
Help locating jewelry website?
A long time ago (~5 years or more), I happened on a website for a man selling silver charm necklaces. The background was black and everything was very dark-themed. I remember one necklace being about Romeo and Juliet, and the charms were I think a bottle of poison, a dagger, and a sleeping potion, and there was an Alice in Wonderland-themed one too. Most of the necklaces had 3 charms and they all had a story associated with them. The charms were almost all made of oxidized silver. The necklaces were quite expensive. It wasn't a company, it was just a guy with a website. I'm trying to locate the site, and Googling (even image search) has proven fruitless. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? [more inside]
Not carpal tunnel, but my thumb hurts
Really don't think this fits symptoms for carpal tunnel, but my thumb hurts. Or rather, more like the part of my hand between the tendons/muscles of the thumb and pointer finger hurts. [more inside]
posted by lovingkindness at 2:06 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by lovingkindness at 2:06 PM PST - 9 comments
How do I broaden my horizons when I hate everything in sight?
I have pickied myself into a corner. Help me out! [more inside]
NYC Piano Mover
What to do with $20,000
I have $20,000. I want to do something to make this money grow. Ideas? [more inside]
Sports summaries via email
Sports game summaries by email: Does the kind of service I'm looking for exist? I'm looking for a website where I can choose my favorite teams, then get a daily email each morning with a capsule summary of any games my teams have played the prior day. [more inside]
Am I just not cut out for the corporate world?
Any advice for what I should do when the inevitable happens, and I am informed I did not get this promotion? How can I prevent losing faith in everything job related if this is how things work around here? [more inside]
posted by Quincy at 1:35 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Quincy at 1:35 PM PST - 9 comments
roadtrip time. I have an unlocked iphone and need a prepaid sim card. which one should I choose?
roadtrip time. I have an unlocked iphone and need a prepaid sim card. which one should I choose? [more inside]
Songs with birds chirping
Help me find indie music with the sound of birds chirping in the background. [more inside]
Moving to DC - How/When/Where?
How to find housing in the Washington, DC area? Specific concerns about neighborhoods and timing with school/employment inside. [more inside]
Because it’s summer and the memories are just waiting to happen.
It's that time of year again . . . when the kids and I escape the heat of the desert and head to the Poconos. I need your help (just like last year) to make our time in the wilderness exciting and plain awesome. [more inside]
How do I code a website to use Twitter as an interface?
How do I code a site to parse direct msg tweets, act on them, and then reply? [more inside]
A rose by any other name..
Are there differences in the energy needed for a plant to produce a certain color flower than a different plant producing a different color? [more inside]
Is it safe to bring my grandfather's stuff into our place?
Is it safe to bring my grandfather's stuff into our place? [more inside]
posted by JoannaC at 12:11 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by JoannaC at 12:11 PM PST - 8 comments
What is the word I need...when is an app not an app?
For android and apple mobile devices: The main page holds icons of apps. What do you call the icons within the app itself, especially if they are not links to mobile sites? Apps seems confusing. For example: ZDbox is a multi-function app for android that has, when you open it, other things you can do. Assuming that they were to look like the main page of a mobile screen, what are these things called?
gorgeous high-res photos of baby vomit
Non-photographer new parents looking for a decent camera to capture their wee one! [more inside]
posted by Theta States at 11:54 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Theta States at 11:54 AM PST - 12 comments
Recommendations for Canadian car insurance
Looking for car insurance recommendations in Calgary, AB. Has anyone had a fantastic deal, good service or other tips? [more inside]
posted by arcticseal at 11:38 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by arcticseal at 11:38 AM PST - 5 comments
Font ID
Why-Fi!!!
More PowerBook frustration...last week I had this issue with my Powerbook's battery. As of yesterday, I now cannot get any connection to the internet via wireless, even though I am connected via airport. [more inside]
I'm a data scientist! What does that mean?
Can you point me to the best resources to learn about these new-fangled things they call data science and big data? I just started a new job as a data scientist and need to get up to speed. [more inside]
posted by Tooty McTootsalot at 11:15 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Tooty McTootsalot at 11:15 AM PST - 10 comments
Cheap hair salons in Vancouver BC for a basic trim?
Cheap hair salons in Vancouver BC for a basic trim? [more inside]
How to ship to the Basra Airport?
How can I mail/ship a manila envelope directly to the Emirates office in the terminal at Basra International Airport (BSR) in Iraq? I'm looking for address info and shipping methodology. [more inside]
Short story for dictation
Looking for a short story to read to my school class for them to practice dictation. [more inside]
posted by Morsey at 10:46 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by Morsey at 10:46 AM PST - 12 comments
aerial photos from 1950s?
where can I find aerial photos of a neighborhood in brooklyn (11215 zip code) from the 1950's or 1960's?
posted by davidvan at 10:42 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by davidvan at 10:42 AM PST - 5 comments
Where should I have my SF wedding dinner?
In search of a moderately priced restaurant for a smallish (~40 guests) wedding dinner in San Francisco in late August. [more inside]
posted by makonan at 10:24 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by makonan at 10:24 AM PST - 11 comments
Should I perservere with my IT degree?
A year and a half ago, stuck in what I thought was a dead-end job, I decided to do a degree in computing/IT with the Open University. Six months later, I landed a job as a Test Analyst in the IT department of the company I was working for. I now have an actual career. I've been continuing with the degree, but I'm finding bits of it very dull and it's difficult to get motivated. Should I keep going? [more inside]
Tell me about water.
Looking for facts about water, in part because I'd like to pass them on to a conservative friend. [more inside]
Best source for magnetic car signs?
What's the best place to go for custom magnetic signs that you put on the side of your car to advertise your business? [more inside]
How to bill for marketing / copywriting
How should I bill a client for freelance writing of marketing copy? [more inside]
I'm looking for recipes that are basically the hardcore level of food.
I'm looking for recipes that take, literally, days to make and are incredibly labor intensive. [more inside]
I love the way you say "diegesis"
In 1Q84, as in many of his other books, Haruki Murakami frequently tells us what music his characters are listening to, providing a de facto soundtrack to the novel. What other authors suggest or provide soundtracks to their works and/or what other written works basically have soundtracks?
posted by davidjmcgee at 10:07 AM PST - 28 comments
posted by davidjmcgee at 10:07 AM PST - 28 comments
Do not go gentle into that good night
What do I need to experience before I die? [more inside]
Quick turn-around strategy for buying Facebook stock?
How feasible is a quick turn-around strategy for buying Facebook stock? [more inside]
posted by ragtimepiano at 9:45 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by ragtimepiano at 9:45 AM PST - 19 comments
Is it destination envy or a real problem?
Do you have dysthymia? How do you deal with the constant dissatisfaction part of it, specifically as it relates to careers? [more inside]
posted by nubianinthedesert at 9:42 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by nubianinthedesert at 9:42 AM PST - 5 comments
How do I force Outlook to send/receive on MY schedule?
Outlook - How do I force a send without also refreshing the receive? [more inside]
Why not pay the ETF?
Is there a reason not to buy an iPhone from AT&T, pay the ETF, and get it unlocked, instead of paying for an unlocked phone? [more inside]
posted by Nothing at 9:22 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by Nothing at 9:22 AM PST - 9 comments
What's the best/affordable watch for running/fitness, something with GPS and heartrate monitor?
What's the best/affordable watch for running/fitness, something with GPS and heartrate monitor? [more inside]
posted by pytar gucchy at 9:21 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by pytar gucchy at 9:21 AM PST - 6 comments
What movies or TV shows feature the quintessential police interrogation scenes?
What movies or TV shows feature the quintessential police interrogation scenes? [more inside]
An inappropriate choice of lubricant
I put two-stroke oil into my four-stroke lawn mower engine. How bad is that? [more inside]
So it's not really a vineyard?
I am getting married on Sunday, on Monday morning we are flying to Martha's vineyard. What should we do while we are there? [more inside]
posted by cessair at 8:27 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by cessair at 8:27 AM PST - 7 comments
Alternative systems to current money and currency
Money: who are the current deep thinkers about money, monetary systems, currency, global flow of cash... and alternative systems and options. [more inside]
posted by HopStopDon'tShop at 8:21 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by HopStopDon'tShop at 8:21 AM PST - 4 comments
D&D Campaigns for a single player?
Can anyone recommend some simple Dungeons & Dragons campaigns specifically designed for two people (one DM and one player)? [more inside]
posted by notmydesk at 8:19 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by notmydesk at 8:19 AM PST - 5 comments
Is my doctor going to laugh me out of her office?
So, I think I might be depressed, but I'm not sure, and I'm worried my doctor will think I'm just whining about nothing. [more inside]
Dog-friendly outdoor destinations in the Upper Midwest
Seeking suggestions for dog-friendly camping and hiking in the Upper Midwest -- Minnesota, Wisconsin, and the Upper Peninsula. [more inside]
Poetry & poignancy for the end of an era (& sale of my childhood home)?
My mom has sold my childhood home :( I want to leave a 'time machine' box with small objects in a place where it may or may not be found.... I want to write something but I'm at a loss for words... Can you suggest a poem? [more inside]
What Should We Be Looking For In A Mason?
What should I know before finding a mason/masonry company to do brick repointing and foundation repair? [more inside]
Is blood donation an efficient way to help others?
When I donate blood or platelets, how much am I helping others? Is this an efficient form of community work? Donating platelets takes a couple of hours. Should I be working those hours and donating the money or volunteering in some more active way? [more inside]
posted by Area Man at 7:25 AM PST - 38 comments
posted by Area Man at 7:25 AM PST - 38 comments
Keep your head in the ballgame ...
I am helping coach my son's summer all-star team and I need situational baseball videos, both good and bad examples, ideally available online and free. [more inside]
The cure for diabetes: McDonalds?
What is the possible explanation for a type 2 diabetic eating 237 grams of carbs in a meal and not seeing any significant spike in blood sugar? [more inside]
Sickly sweet and wonderfully nice.
I am too nice and selfless. How do I become less nice and/or meaner? [more inside]
Help me rehab a finger injury as effectively as possible
I recently injured my index and middle fingers on one hand. How can I rehab this injury most effectively and quickly? [more inside]
posted by jeffmshaw at 6:52 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by jeffmshaw at 6:52 AM PST - 12 comments
Will a middle-aged noncorporate female regret getting a semi-visible tattoo?
I've got a question about tattoo locations, and finding the right artist. [more inside]
Help me keep my cat.
Cat Problems. We have a 7 year old cat who has always been mean to others, but loving and affectionate with us. Recently this has changed. What other options can I explore, as I don't want to give the little jerk up. Details (lots) Inside. [more inside]
Tell me About White Ink Tattoos
What can you tell me about getting a white ink tattoo? [more inside]
House down payment: Is bigger better?
House down payment: How much is best in the current economy? [more inside]
I'm not ready for a relationship, but I will commit to a pair of shoes.
Can you help me buy comfortable but stylish shoes? [more inside]
posted by costanza at 6:17 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by costanza at 6:17 AM PST - 30 comments
Can't forget Mother's Day...
I need a place for Mother's Day brunch near Danbury, CT. [more inside]
posted by teragram at 6:13 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by teragram at 6:13 AM PST - 5 comments
Lean business practices
What are the best resources to learn about Lean methodology without taking a class? [more inside]
posted by wolfdreams01 at 5:51 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by wolfdreams01 at 5:51 AM PST - 2 comments
retirement kung foo ideas
I'm retiring after 35 years in 6 months.Any suggestions on good sites for retirement talk, hobbies,vocations etc...thanks
Quality music/cinema receiver driving at least 130w for cheap?
I need a new amplifier/receiver for music and TV/home-cinema. I've looked at the Onkyo "network" range, especially entry level around £350-£400, but I am sure I could get my hands on an amp from a few years ago with all the features I desire, and save a bundle. I'd really appreciate your advice. [more inside]
If music be the food of love, play on
I need suggestions for my "A million girls have a crush on you but I have one the most-est" playlist. [more inside]
posted by chocolatemilkshakes at 4:42 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by chocolatemilkshakes at 4:42 AM PST - 29 comments
What is still going on with my sinuses?
Ongoing sinus issues, teeth hurting, painful to breathe. [more inside]
Projects like devilbunnies...but less insufferable, y'know?
Are there any current shared-mythos writing projects structurally similar to alt.devilbunnies? Think the evolving Cthulhu Mythos, if those guys were working relatively quickly via email and had a really good FAQ.
Sometimes when I need to do certain tasks, especially emailing superiors, I get a lot of anxiety about it, which causes me to procrastinate on it, which causes *DAYS* to go by, just causing me more anxiety and more procrastination. What can I do to stop this cycle?
Sometimes when I need to do certain tasks, especially emailing superiors, I get a lot of anxiety about it, which causes me to procrastinate on it, which causes *DAYS* to go by, just causing me more anxiety and more procrastination. What can I do to stop this cycle? [more inside]
posted by 254blocks at 12:31 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by 254blocks at 12:31 AM PST - 24 comments
May 7
moving away, I need help!
One day, I would like to move, I need your help. Not actual moving help, decision making help! [more inside]
posted by jennstra at 11:03 PM PST - 20 comments
posted by jennstra at 11:03 PM PST - 20 comments
What is this picture from?
What is the source of this photograph? NSFW. Link. Thanks!
Work-y Love Triangle: Help Me Keep It Simple.
I like him, I am pretty sure he likes me, yay! Complications: we essentially work together, and he theoretically has a girlfriend. Tips/suggestions needed for navigating this situation with maturity, honesty, and a minimum of hurt feelings. Stories and anecdotes about similar situations--with good outcomes or otherwise--VERY welcome. [more inside]
How can I let this nice guy know I'm not interested?
How can I let this nice guy know I'm not interested? [more inside]
Working at CHAI
Asking for a friend: Looking for first/second hand experience of people working at the Clinton Foundation/Clinton Health Access Initiative (CHAI) and whether it improved their chances of getting into grad school? [more inside]
Seeking Engraver
I'd like to find an artist to commission who specializes in work that looks like classic engravings; less something like Wondermark / Harper's illustrations and more the decorative and detail work like on an Emperor Norton note. Any recommendations, and if not, where (and how) can I look? [more inside]
posted by 23 at 8:35 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by 23 at 8:35 PM PST - 7 comments
Spider Identification for the Terrified
What spider is this? Also, we sucked him up in our Dyson vacuum which is currently out on the deck... what do we dooooo?
posted by Nickel Pickle at 8:30 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by Nickel Pickle at 8:30 PM PST - 19 comments
And while you're in Beijing, pick up some milk.
How much should I charge someone who wants me to do a special errand while travelling abroad? [more inside]
Do you know her?
I am trying to identify a woman from a cookbook. "The only thing I know about her is two pictures from a cookbook printed by the Maryland Seafood Marketing Authority (Department of Economic and Community Management) in the mid-1970s." [more inside]
So....can I have a shiny new job?
How do I ask for a promotion? [more inside]
Scrapping a thesis: Awful Idea?
I graduate in two weeks and my senior thesis is still unwritten due to a myriad of circumstances. Should I just scrap it and take my BA without the honors distinction? [more inside]
posted by shesdeadimalive at 6:57 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by shesdeadimalive at 6:57 PM PST - 35 comments
It's the end of the world as we know it
I'm trying to think of realistic extinction-event scenarios that don't involve nuclear bombs or things crashing down from outer space, but would doom humanity in about the same time frame (wiped out within a generation, or even quicker.) [more inside]
posted by egeanin at 6:39 PM PST - 39 comments
posted by egeanin at 6:39 PM PST - 39 comments
Save My Asphalt
My son's car (my old 97 Mazda 626) has a minor oil leak. It's damaging my asphalt driveway. What are my options? [more inside]
posted by COD at 6:18 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by COD at 6:18 PM PST - 9 comments
interview travel advice needed
Interview travel etiquette advice needed [more inside]
Red flag or just a pink one?
How personal is too personal for a job interview question? [more inside]
college radio song ID
Looking for an ID of a song playing on a college radio station. [more inside]
We can't take it with us.
Please teach me Apartment Showing 101 so that I can end my lease and move far, far away. [more inside]
Where on Earth can I find a hardshell case for a MacBook Pro 17'' (mid-2007 model)?
Where on Earth can I find a hardshell case for a MacBook Pro 17'' (mid-2007 model)? [more inside]
Am I overreacting to my neighbor's behavior?
What to do about a weird neighbor? [more inside]
Which neighborhood is most ideal in the Triangle, NC?
I am moving to the Triangle in North Carolina but work from home so a commute is not an issue. Recommend the best neighborhood(s) in the entire region! [more inside]
posted by JacksonEsquire at 4:05 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by JacksonEsquire at 4:05 PM PST - 13 comments
Money issues with family
Can you shed some light on this situation with my mom and her hints about her financial situation? [more inside]
Copyright Permission Question
YANML, but can I still remain anonymous while seeking Copyright permission from my sources? [more inside]
How pure is potato starch?
How pure is potato starch? Can I rely on it not to include the high amounts of potassium that potatoes do? [more inside]
posted by WasabiFlux at 3:41 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by WasabiFlux at 3:41 PM PST - 7 comments
Reference management advice
Are there any online services to convert an article on a website into a bibtex file? [more inside]
os x lion compatible scanner
Looking for a decent flatbed scanner compatible with Mac OS X 10.7 (Lion) under $100. Will be scanning mostly photos but some documents and drawings as well. Available at Amazon preferably. [more inside]
posted by 6550 at 3:02 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by 6550 at 3:02 PM PST - 10 comments
What should I do if I need to quit before the end of my notice period?
UK employment law/HR filter: quitting a job before the end of a notice period [more inside]
Condition Excel... And Repeat
Excel Filter: Advanced Conditional Formating, Format based on type of formula used (average, sum, sumproduct etc..) [more inside]
posted by MechEng at 2:38 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by MechEng at 2:38 PM PST - 5 comments
Is forgiveness only for the unforgivable?
How to forgive yourself and others healthily [more inside]
posted by grokfest at 2:28 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by grokfest at 2:28 PM PST - 21 comments
Read-only vs Read&write
Recently, all files I create on my Mac are read-only docs to others, how do I create them so they are read & write? Please note I'm not asking how to modify them after they've been created... [more inside]
posted by artdrectr at 2:24 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by artdrectr at 2:24 PM PST - 10 comments
Unique Orthodontic Problem Needs Best Possible Advice
I need to locate an outstanding orthodontist (in the DC area or otherwise) who can provide a second opinion on my 12 year old son's highly unique problem with his No. 7 canine. [more inside]
posted by Jamesonian at 2:24 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Jamesonian at 2:24 PM PST - 3 comments
Moving forward after making a mistake?
It would seem that I've f'd up, big time. Now what? How do you move forward when you're fairly sure you've made a bad decision and can't turn back. (details inside) [more inside]
posted by farce majeure at 2:08 PM PST - 31 comments
posted by farce majeure at 2:08 PM PST - 31 comments
What is moped parking law?
I'm having issues with Moped parking in Michigan. Anyone have any experiences or know the laws here? [more inside]
posted by Forerunner343 at 2:02 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Forerunner343 at 2:02 PM PST - 11 comments
Early 1980s sitcom about a TV station in a house
Trying to remember a sitcom from the early 1980s about the "world's smallest television station." Was it real or did I just dream it up? [more inside]
posted by smoothvirus at 1:57 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by smoothvirus at 1:57 PM PST - 6 comments
Short term sublets in Venice, Italy
Help finding housing in Venice for 2 weeks, June-July! [more inside]
Norway Itinerary
Norway Itinerary: I've always had a nagging desire to see Norway but after all the recent shocking activity the thing that struck me most was the amazing people. So I've decided to see the beautiful country for myself and would like some help putting together a memorable itinerary [more inside]
Urban Plannin'
I'm looking to make the jump from the public sector to perhaps a career in urban planning. Can you share your experience with me? [more inside]
How can I sound like a human being when I talk?
I would like my voice to be engaging and interesting sounding. Difficulty: I currently have the tonal range of a garbage truck. [more inside]
posted by peachfuzz at 1:38 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by peachfuzz at 1:38 PM PST - 8 comments
A space in time removed, too soon to tell.
Grieving Protocol Question: My community lost a beloved friend in an accident on Friday night. I have some recordings of his voice. How soon can I share these? [more inside]
how should i think about an easement on a property i might buy?
How worrisome is it to have an easement with your neighbor on a path between the two properties? I am mostly worried that someone might break their neck there, then sue me. Is that a legit issue? Are there other angles to this that I should consider? [more inside]
Places to stay in (East) London in June?
Have any recommendations of places to stay in East London in June? [more inside]
Home theatre audio systems... Help!
Home theatre audio systems... Help! [more inside]
How to keep from getting discouraged?
How do I keep from getting discouraged in personal pursuits (spec. hobbyist electronics)? [more inside]
Home buying jitters or common sense?
What are the structural components of a solid house, that a layperson could determine? [more inside]
posted by A Terrible Llama at 11:57 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by A Terrible Llama at 11:57 AM PST - 16 comments
Can I find details about a manslaughter case from 1942?
Can I and should I request court records from a 1942 manslaughter case in Tucson, AZ? [more inside]
What is the Facebook protocol during a painful divorce?
What is the Facebook protocol during a painful divorce? [more inside]
Any port in a cell phone storm?
Currently, I have a Virgin Mobile PAYG smartphone. I'd like to get a phone on my family's Sprint plan instead (for the same monthly price as Virgin, I can get unlimited whatever). However, Sprint says they can't port my phone number because Virgin is a reseller of theirs. I've heard that you can port your number to Google Voice for a small fee, and then have Sprint port the number to a Sprint phone, but this advice was found on a forum somewhere and no one backed up the claim that it actually worked. Would it work? Have you done this? I'd really like to keep my phone number, and before I risk losing it, I'd like to know. Thanks.
What will rise from the ashes of our beloved Chumby?
With what should we replace our beloved Chumby? [more inside]
posted by PhoBWanKenobi at 11:27 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by PhoBWanKenobi at 11:27 AM PST - 7 comments
Dental problem
I'm guessing this one is unusual, and maybe only answered by an advanced dental pro, but here goes: I have an under-bite, in that my front-most lower teeth actually make contact with the roof of my mouth. I tend to grind my teeth at night and so end up with a sore spot just behind my front upper teeth. I've gone to a orthodontist/dentist and he created a bite plate for me but I hate to use it. It tastes like plastic and feels bulky and uncomfortable in my mouth. Is there another way to fix this problem? [more inside]
posted by ConnieL at 11:24 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by ConnieL at 11:24 AM PST - 11 comments
A beginner's guide to quality clothing and shoes.
I'm a woman. I'm getting ready to fork out $150+ in a pair of shoes, what brands are actually worth it? What about clothes? [more inside]
Did our Real Estate agent do us a disservice, and if so, do we have any recourse?
We are selling our condo in California, and we got an offer at our asking price, we emailed our agent and said that we wanted to have another open house to see if we got any other offers. She agreed, and then emailed us a contract accepting the the bid with the message "sign this", which my wife did.
As far as we can tell this means we have now sold our place, and cannot accept any other offers. Is that correct?
If so, is what she did bad practice or something else, or are we just missing something here? Do we have any recourse?
(There was another open house yesterday, and an agent tour tomorrow).
Help me find the name of a unique language acquisition method that I've heard about but can't quite identify.
Help me find the name of a unique language acquisition method that I've heard about but can't quite identify. [more inside]
posted by RapcityinBlue at 10:31 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by RapcityinBlue at 10:31 AM PST - 3 comments
Livres Bob?
Early reader books in French? [more inside]
Reliable webmail service?
Can you recommend a reliable webmail service provider that I can use my domain name with? [more inside]
Stop us from sleep-murdering this sweet cat
How have you convinced your cat to let you sleep? (The cat who howls in the night). [more inside]
posted by instead of three wishes at 10:09 AM PST - 30 comments
posted by instead of three wishes at 10:09 AM PST - 30 comments
Amazon Five Star items
Is it possible to search Amazon.com for the highest rated, five star products, across all departments? [more inside]
posted by jaimev at 9:17 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by jaimev at 9:17 AM PST - 2 comments
Sew help me
So I've bought a sewing machine. Now what else do I need to get going? [more inside]
How large is a large onion?
Are there any guidelines for the sizes of food called for in recipes in books and magazines? Basically, I'm wondering how long it takes for new recipes to catch up to changes in food packaging, how large is large, and who decides that? [more inside]
posted by amarynth at 8:19 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by amarynth at 8:19 AM PST - 13 comments
IT's a job thing
Can I fast track myself into a freelance IT career in a week? (I don't work in IT, nor have I any experience.) [more inside]
How Do I Limit My Google Alert Results to English Only?
How do I eliminate foreign language results in Google Alert results? [more inside]
What was that article about colonies of bacteria acting like actual historical cities?
Help me find an article about bacteria modeling human behavior at a macro level. My google-fu is failing me. [more inside]
posted by gauche at 7:17 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by gauche at 7:17 AM PST - 4 comments
Or do people even still DO fractals?
Do you know a program that would allow even a dummy to generate fractal zoom videos? Or do you know a person who likes to generate fractal zoom videos, for free? [more inside]
posted by troywestfield at 7:08 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by troywestfield at 7:08 AM PST - 4 comments
Help me find this urban public spaces book.
Help me find this urban public spaces book. [more inside]
Where to go for therapy
What kind of therapy do I need? [more inside]
My next question will be about typewriters at this rate.
Speaking of camera repair - is it worth getting my old-school 35mm camera repaired? Or are reports of film's demise exaggerated? [more inside]
Origins of the Knocker
What are the origins of the pinball knocker? It seems to be unique to pinball machines. I would think that there is a story as to how or why this method was chosen to signal the player that they received a free game. Its such a distinct and mechanical sound. I have some theories but cant seem to find any facts related to the origin of the knocker.
posted by jmsta at 6:41 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by jmsta at 6:41 AM PST - 10 comments
A Very Arkansas Vacation
My husband and I are thinking about taking a last-minute mini vacation to Little Rock and (maybe?) Hot Springs, Arkansas, this week. There are a couple of threads on the area on AskMe, but nothing in the past few years... so I'm hoping for updated recommendations on things to eat, do, see, etc! Interests & specific requests within! [more inside]
Derailleur derailed.
The "hanging bolt" or "pivot bolt" assembly which held the rear derailleur to the frame of my son's old mountain bike disassembled while he was riding it and vanished. Is it possible to find generic replacement parts or does it need a whole new derailleur (it's an old Suntour Accushift \alpha-2000)? What's the cheapest way to get this bike running at this point?
posted by ennui.bz at 6:34 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by ennui.bz at 6:34 AM PST - 13 comments
Mid-17th century London coffee house coffee degustation
Suppose I wanted to drink a faithful recreation of the coffee served in a mid-17th century London coffee house. [more inside]
posted by dhoe at 6:25 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by dhoe at 6:25 AM PST - 10 comments
Did I destroy my Kindle?
Where can I get a camera lens serviced in NYC?
What are some good camera repair places in New York City? [more inside]
posted by Stynxno at 5:56 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by Stynxno at 5:56 AM PST - 5 comments
“It’s your birthday. Someone gives you a calfskin wallet. How do you react?”
I’m looking for collections of realistic hypothetical scenarios intended to provoke a response or reflection. [more inside]
How can I graduate and find a job when I'm struggling?
I am in my 7th year of a science Ph.D. at MIT and I need to graduate. I have invested an incredible amount of time and energy in this process, and I definitely have a Ph.D. level of skills and knowledge by now. 7 years is not outside the norm for my department. The problem is that a number of circumstances occurring in a row have lead to a bad/toxic relationship with my advisor and slow performance on my part. [more inside]
Slicing the Big Apple.
Which Manhattan neighborhoods consistently rent at higher prices? Which Manhattan neighborhoods tend to be more affordable? [more inside]
Startup Sets in OSX Lion (for video editing)
Remember back in the OS 9 (and earlier), how you could have start up sets? I know in these heady days of Lion, we don't need to manage extensions and fonts, except... I sorta do. [more inside]
Where can I get a good eyepatch?
Where to get a good eyepatch for daily use in a professional environment? [more inside]
What Tumblrs do you follow?
What Tumblrs do you follow? [more inside]
Contemporary songs about the Cold War?
There have been questions about Cold War songs from the '80s (1, 2, 3). What about songs about the Cold War from the 2000s? [more inside]
How to model the accident rate on a certain stretch of road
How could I approach modeling the number of accidents on a certain stretch of road? I've got some semi-ecological approaches in mind but no idea if they're workable. Are there standard approaches to this sort of problem? [more inside]
posted by col_pogo at 2:19 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by col_pogo at 2:19 AM PST - 9 comments
May 6
Spiders all up on my face
How big a deal is this numbness following a (presumed) spider bite? [more inside]
posted by Nomiconic at 8:37 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Nomiconic at 8:37 PM PST - 18 comments
Keen on quinoa
I have a package of quinoa from Trader Joe's with an expiration date of 3/2011. I've decided I'm going to try cooking with it as long as it's not rancid. I've never cooked or eaten quinoa before though so how do I know if it has gone rancid? Assuming the quinoa is edible, what ingredients go particularly well with quinoa?
posted by Constance Mirabella at 7:36 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by Constance Mirabella at 7:36 PM PST - 30 comments
Alternative to God?
What if you don't believe in God anymore? What then? [more inside]
posted by triggerfinger at 7:09 PM PST - 65 comments
posted by triggerfinger at 7:09 PM PST - 65 comments
What to see between NY and SF?
Road trip from NY to SF... what to see in the "middle bit"? [more inside]
What digital communications technology relied on underground biscuit tins?
Searching for an incredibly obscure (and hence impractical?) communications technology I saw outlined in a BBC Micro User or Acorn User magazine in the 8-bit era. Difficulty: biscuit tin. [more inside]
posted by Leon at 6:04 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by Leon at 6:04 PM PST - 8 comments
Wine Bistro in Las Vegas Near the Airport?
I ate at a great little restaurant in Las Vegas about 3 years ago that I'm trying to find while I'm here this week. These are the details I remember about it - it was near the airport, not attached to any hotel, specialized in wine, had a European bistro feel to it, had great food. I think it may have been in a strip mall but not positive. And I seem to remember it had numbers in the name, but again, not positive. I'm on a business trip and would love to find it, or something like it. I'm staying at South Point, so being easy to get to from here without having to deal with Strip traffic is a plus.
posted by ms_rasclark at 5:53 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by ms_rasclark at 5:53 PM PST - 6 comments
Trackball button gone a tad kerflooey
Left button on trackball gone a bit wonky, is there a fix before I buy a new one? [more inside]
For the love of Pete, please find me shorts that sit at the waist!
Are women's shorts that fit at the waistline illegal these days? [more inside]
What to do if you can't help overhear a private conversation about you?
What are you supposed to do if you can hear a private conversation between two people and the conversation is about you? [more inside]
Why do banks distrust a 27-year-old with no credit history?
Is lack of credit regarded as a risk only for older people? And if so, why? [more inside]
posted by jackbishop at 5:05 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by jackbishop at 5:05 PM PST - 8 comments
Is the USPS exempt from parking tickets?
Idle curiosity: Are USPS delivery cars/trucks legally exempt from parking tickets and violations, or do parking checkers just ignore them because, well, it's the government?
posted by hafehd at 5:03 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by hafehd at 5:03 PM PST - 9 comments
How do I tell my boss I want to leave my job before my 3-month notice period ends?
How do I ask my boss to let me leave a month before my 3 month notice period ends when he wrote me a nice recommendation letter for a job that I was applying for? [more inside]
posted by bie81 at 4:47 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by bie81 at 4:47 PM PST - 12 comments
Dirty cops in small-town America
I'm looking for examples of recent, extreme police corruption in rural or small-town America. [more inside]
Welcome to Walmart Margaritaville
Is Walmart "bad"? [more inside]
How best to whiten teeth
[asking for a friend] What is the safest in-office method of whitening or bleaching one's teeth? [more inside]
posted by Caligula's Idiot Cousin at 3:09 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Caligula's Idiot Cousin at 3:09 PM PST - 9 comments
Help this amazing, but neurotic young woman, not drown in this overwhelming work situation.
Help me get through a toxic and stressful situation (revolves around work) and successfully get some coping mechanisms (and cajones) for the first time ever.
After a couple years of amazing- work has gotten tough-and I need help getting through it- and I respect you guys on MeFi a lot... I'm getting support but there must be some other things I could be doing. I've attempted to write in order of: context, challenge, question. [more inside]
posted by misspony at 2:41 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by misspony at 2:41 PM PST - 15 comments
Help me get enough cat hair to make a new cat off my kendo pants
I have a hakama covered in cat hair. I mean covered. How can I clean these? [more inside]
Compter viruses do it, why can't I?
Is there any an easy way to get Internet Explorer to redirect internal network links through a different IP address? For technical reasons that are not clear to me, we've been unable to access links to a client's Sharepoint site. However, we've found that if we change the "sharepoint" part of the address to a specific IP address, it works fine. (http://sharepoint/menu to http://1.2.34.56/menu).
Is there a way to get Internet Explorer to automatically resolve the link through the IP address? I tried changing the system host file but that only seems to work for whole domains. Googling turned up a Firefox extension but unfortunately I'm stuck in IE. Please help!
Thanks!
posted by Hermes32 at 2:15 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by Hermes32 at 2:15 PM PST - 9 comments
Last minute travel plans: looking for ideas on where to go
It has been a fairly busy, stressful year, and I've found it a challenge to schedule time off. (surgical sub-specialty training, so late nights/long hours, etc). Thankfully I have a week of vacation coming up SOON (5/14-5/20), but I haven't made any plans yet. I am looking for suggestions, please! [more inside]
posted by maryrussell at 2:03 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by maryrussell at 2:03 PM PST - 11 comments
this is my box, this is my box, i never travel without my box...
Help me help a friend: which (probably romantic-era) composer wrote a piece about a Chinese lacquer box? I have searched like crazy and found nothing.
Bone to meat ratio of hams
Is it possible to tell which spiral sliced ham has a smaller bone in it while it's still in the package? [more inside]
posted by boby at 1:37 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by boby at 1:37 PM PST - 8 comments
Advice about iTunes 1080p HD versus Blu-ray (movies)
Advice about iTunes 1080p HD versus Blu-ray (movies) [more inside]
movies where someone is told to wait 24hrs to file a missing persons report
I'm looking for specific movies where someone is told they have to wait 24 hours to file a missing persons report.
(This is not true, and there are many many places that will tell you it's not true "despite what you see in the movies," but it's surprisingly difficult to find those movies.)
Narcolepsy/sleep apnea NYC
Narcolepsy and sleep apnea treatment in NYC [more inside]
How to soften silk fabric?
I have a 100% silk pillowcase. After washing how the instructions told me to (in cold water and hanging it up to air dry) it feels stiff. How can I get it to feel soft and silky again? The instructions said not to dry it. Thanks!
Summer Dance Program for Adults
Summer Dance Program for Adults [more inside]
How to appeal against a Facebook app being disabled (if the appeal process doesn't work)
Any ideas on how I can contact Facebook's Platform Team to appeal against an app being disabled? [more inside]
Accents across the pond.
Have there been any American actors that have been cast as primary characters on British shows and use a British accent? [more inside]
posted by curious nu at 12:10 PM PST - 30 comments
posted by curious nu at 12:10 PM PST - 30 comments
What is this hypnotist movie?
Help me identify this movie I saw years ago: I'd guess it was made in the 40's or 50's, american, thriller involving a hypnotist. [more inside]
How to buy porn on Ebay
Porn sellers want me to buy porn on Ebay. My husband and I want to buy porn on Ebay. But Paypal doesn't want me to buy porn on Ebay. How do I fix this? [more inside]
I broke my hi-fi system and my hi-fi speakers.
I replaced old 6 ohm woofers with new 8 ohm ones. Now, my amplifier overheats. Can someone here explain the science of what I have done wrong? [more inside]
posted by shipbreaker at 11:22 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by shipbreaker at 11:22 AM PST - 19 comments
This Is Your Script . . . This Is Your Script Unplugged
Looking for more examples of a plot. Well, more of a structure really. The one from Noises Off, where you are shown how the story should go, then they go through it again, only this time everything goes wrong. Bonus points if they go through it a third time, and it absolutely explodes. [more inside]
posted by Garm at 11:07 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by Garm at 11:07 AM PST - 18 comments
Help. Cat pee is ruining my life.
What to do about a possibly pre-existing pet urine stain that has soaked through the carpeting in our rental apartment? Especially since our cat has found the spot and is exacerbating the problem with her own urine! [more inside]
Comic Filter
Help me identify a comic book without too many details to help.... I remember hearing a podcast that mentioned a comic book where the story involves some kids (?) who live in a haunted house and who get different powers by (maybe) taking something like a key (?) and either eating it or sticking it inside their head or something. For what it's worth, I think it's a relatively new comic. Yeah...I didn't want to hinder the search for answers by giving away too much helpful information. Any ideas?
posted by richmondparker at 10:31 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by richmondparker at 10:31 AM PST - 3 comments
Give me a roadmap for coding
Suggest to me a roadmap for learning to code. Ideally geared towards Python. [more inside]
Why do I experience ear pain a few hours after bathing?
Why do I experience ear pain a few hours after bathing? [more inside]
Help me redo my office! (desk configuration and wall color especially)
My office looks like crap, and I've never done anything to improve it. Now I have the chance for a new desk and new paint, but I don't know what to ask for! Help me not end up with something just as dreary as the current version. [more inside]
How to make my voice project louder and sexier?
How do I get my voice to project louder, naturally? [more inside]
posted by 6spd at 9:44 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by 6spd at 9:44 AM PST - 14 comments
Best babysitter search
Hi, what's the best luck you've had for finding a babysitter online? I don't know any good sites.
How can I get over self-comparatively dismissing tasks?
I cannot seem to make progress in my research because I always end up feeling my colleagues would do a much better job. How can I get over this? [more inside]
It's raining sandwiches...
Found a sandwich inside my locked garage. The car was undamaged. What now? [more inside]
posted by be11e at 9:00 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by be11e at 9:00 AM PST - 19 comments
Age 70 and ready for new technology, I think.
I am anticipating switching from a PC to a Mac Book Air, please help me understand any downsides and address several concerns. [more inside]
posted by rmhsinc at 8:54 AM PST - 21 comments
posted by rmhsinc at 8:54 AM PST - 21 comments
How to compose solo flute folk music?
I want to compose a piece of unaccompanied folk music. What do I need to know? [more inside]
What is the cheapest, most effective way to get a programmable display for 160 characters, visible at 100ft?
What is the cheapest, most effective way to get a programmable display for 160 characters, visible at 100ft? [more inside]
Rock my chair
I saw this awesome rocking chair at yesterday's Free Comic Book day in Hoboken. The store says the owner is emotionally attached to it and not quite ready to sell it. So... does anybody know where to find a chair just like this? [more inside]
Old-school Star Wars
What's the best way to watch the non-special versions of the original Star Wars movies? Is it worth getting the laserdiscs? [more inside]
Ring? Check. Girlfriend? Check. Now what do I do?
Me and my girlfriend are going to get engaged in a couple of weeks and both decided that we would rather avoid a formal proposal. Instead, we will spend a day together at the beach and magically emerge engaged.
Given the fact that the surprise quirky engagement is off the table, any ideas for how I can make this an even-less forgettable day?
Bonus question: What are the technical things that you regret missing from when you got engaged? More pictures? Who to tell first? What am I missing?
YANML: Is a restaurant liable for an injury in the bathroom?
My daughter was in the bathroom stall and got her thumb pinched in the door when another patron open the door. Her thumb was cut and needed six stitches. ER visits are expensive, should the restaurant help cover the costs?
Pros and Cons of Unions?
How do the pros and cons of labor unions really add up? [more inside]
Help find the source of this image
Looking for the original source of this image [more inside]
posted by houlihan at 7:11 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by houlihan at 7:11 AM PST - 7 comments
Animal Control wants to quarantine my (outdoor) cat
Animal Control wants to quarantine my (outdoor) cat--how can avoid this? [more inside]
posted by Jon44 at 5:50 AM PST - 44 comments
posted by Jon44 at 5:50 AM PST - 44 comments
Are listening skills that hard to come by?
Why is it so hard to remember what I've shared with you on dates 1, 2, 3 and 4? [more inside]
posted by BlueMartini7 at 5:42 AM PST - 33 comments
posted by BlueMartini7 at 5:42 AM PST - 33 comments
Modelling hypothetical XRD patterns. Is this even a thing?
I'm looking for (preferably free) software that will model X-ray diffractograms for mineral mixes of known quantities. Does such a thing even exist? [more inside]
How to get rid of Ads by Clicksor?
My Mozilla Firefox has began letting a popup that says "Ads by Clicksor" at the top corner pop up when I am on the internet. I need help eliminating this problem... [more inside]
posted by just asking at 4:55 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by just asking at 4:55 AM PST - 10 comments
Computer, Y U NO connect to the Internet??
Is there a somewhat simple solution to this problem? We recently installed new wireless Internet at home but my laptop (older Toshiba Satellite) refuses to connect to the net. It will automatically find our network and connect to it, but doesn't go that step further to actually connect to the Internet. This only happens with the wireless at home - it works fine with other networks I've tried out. Is my computer just not recognizing the new modem?
very painful orgasms
I love the whole process of sex, but as soon as I'm getting ready to orgasm, my ladyparts explode into pain and burning and it makes me super sad. [more inside]
posted by iLoveTheRain at 12:50 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by iLoveTheRain at 12:50 AM PST - 25 comments
Ambient Wedding Playlist Help.
Looking for suggestions for folksy, acoustic love songs for our wedding reception. [more inside]
posted by arha at 12:42 AM PST - 34 comments
posted by arha at 12:42 AM PST - 34 comments
Lock/Unlock switch on a hard drive?
Lock/Unlock switch on a hard drive? [more inside]
May 5
Everyday workout
What's a simple workout that can help me get into the habit of regular gym visits? [more inside]
HELP: google contacts seems to be psychotic!
Google contacts seems to be getting increasingly problematic for me. In some contact records, I have over a dozen random email addresses assigned to a contact (that have no relation at all). In others, the contact email is legitimate, but is now named after some individual I have never ever had any form of contact with, apparently through some google+ functionality (I have not signed up for google+).
Aside from ditching this increasingly crappy platform, any advice how it make this work?
I cant see hand fixing thousands of contacts....
He has a magic bottle...
What the heck is wrong with my neighbor's car? [more inside]
What advice would help this family?
What can I do to help my mother and siblings cope with an abusive parent? [more inside]
Wireless printing
How do I set up wireless network printing without using my existing wireless router? [more inside]
posted by Bokmakierie at 9:29 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by Bokmakierie at 9:29 PM PST - 4 comments
Really want your Moscow recommendations
Traveling to Moscow (the Russia one) for about 9 days, mostly solo. [more inside]
old lady nuns
Idle curiosity about nuns. [more inside]
Need help finding a book to help me rebuild civilization.
I'm trying to remember a book that explains how to build a machine shop step by step from a pile of coal. [more inside]
posted by krisak at 8:48 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by krisak at 8:48 PM PST - 5 comments
Help Me Find a Program to Manage Multiple HD's
Is there a program that I can manage multiple harddrives as one large virtual HD? [more inside]
Why won't this sewing machine work?
Why is the top thread on my sewing machine unable to catch the bobbin thread? [more inside]
posted by christinetheslp at 6:32 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by christinetheslp at 6:32 PM PST - 16 comments
What is a good introductory 16mm film camera for someone aspiring to shoot feature films?
What is a good introductory 16mm film camera for someone aspiring to shoot feature films? [more inside]
Which power brick goes with my GEN4 G-RAID?
Which power brick goes with my 2TB G-RAID GEN4 drive? [more inside]
Makeup experts: can you recommend a dark brown eyeshadow without a blue tinge to it?
I've bought several packs of neutral-natural smokey brown eyeshadow collections (including these two) just trying to look natural. Instead, they all turn blue-ish when put on my eyelids, and I look exactly like I'm wearing artificial colors.
Trial and error is getting way too expensive! Has anyone had any luck with finding a set of browns that are actually brown?
Thanks!
Help me find an essay I once read on how to create a toxic workplace/relationship.
Can you help me find an essay I read on how people keep people in toxic workplaces and bad relationships? [more inside]
posted by JMOZ at 6:06 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by JMOZ at 6:06 PM PST - 2 comments
I love scotch. Scotchy, scotch, scotch. Here it goes down, down into my belly...
What are good movies to watch while drinking a fine scotch? [more inside]
posted by In The Annex at 5:40 PM PST - 29 comments
posted by In The Annex at 5:40 PM PST - 29 comments
Software to transpose non-digital music?
Is there free or affordable software that can transpose scanned sheet music? [more inside]
posted by lemoncakeisalie at 5:28 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by lemoncakeisalie at 5:28 PM PST - 8 comments
We have the technology... and there's a cat sitting on it.
Is my cat going to damage our Airport Extreme? [more inside]
posted by dayintoday at 4:47 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by dayintoday at 4:47 PM PST - 14 comments
How can I transfer all my iBooks samples to my new phone?
How can I transfer all my iBooks samples to my new phone? [more inside]
Jack Nicholson's Glasses in Easy Rider
What type of glasses is Jack Nicholson wearing in Easy Rider? [more inside]
Help me not be a butt(crack) of a DIY plumber...
PLUMBING: Is it easily possible to replace what seems to be a leaky drain valve (slowly dripping) in a hot water heater tank? Is that what's pictured in my link? Is it even worth it when the top of the tank is corroded (although it seems to be coming from the pipe and not eating thru' the metal at all) like this? This thread says don't mess with it. And right, you know: T'anks for the help. [more inside]
posted by Shane at 2:59 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Shane at 2:59 PM PST - 11 comments
Bad Idea? Probably. Do It Anyway? Probably
Hardwoods under my yucky carpet. Just how big a pain in the ass is this going to be? DIY version. [more inside]
Keynote, on Mac - how to specify duration per slide?
The presentation (in Keynote, on a Mac) is autoplay and has two slides. How can I configure the timing, so Slide #1 shows for 6 seconds, then Slide #2 for 4 seconds?
Dish Network bundles
How do Dish Network TV/phone/broadband bundles work? Anyone have any experience? [more inside]
I am pretty much appalled that this is such a hard thing to find
Okay so what about the best image hosting websites that aren't free? [more inside]
posted by Mizu at 1:38 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Mizu at 1:38 PM PST - 11 comments
Help me find online resources for how to pronounce difficult words
I have terrible pronunciation. Can you direct me to dictionary-type sites that teach how to pronounce words using high-quality audio files? Merriam-Webster has the basics and is easy to use, but I am also looking for resources that cover more specialized vocabularies such as cooking terms, medical terms, technology terms, the names of important cultural figures, place names, and product names. Obscurity/difficulty level: stuff like sambal oelek, Yulia Tymoshenko, Mies van der Rohe, SUSE, Schenectady, Elidel, Saucony. [more inside]
posted by Susan PG at 1:32 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Susan PG at 1:32 PM PST - 12 comments
Please help me ID this early-80s music video!
Please help me ID this early-80s music video! [more inside]
posted by Legomancer at 1:27 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by Legomancer at 1:27 PM PST - 13 comments
How can I better identify and understand "theme" and "subtext" (and "motif"?) in stories and not just take them (as I tend to) as a plot or a bunch of things that happen.
How can I better identify and understand "theme" and "subtext" (and "motif"?) in stories and not just take them (as I tend to) as a plot or a bunch of things that happen. [more inside]
Cool uses for velcro fasteners?
I require lentils.
We are in the middle of a kitchen remodel and do not have a working stove or oven, but I'm really in the mood for a lentil dish for dinner. Help? [more inside]
Fewer kids, better outcomes?
Are there any studies that show that couples who have fewer children are able to raise the children they do have better? [more inside]
How much should I expect to get repaid?
How much should I expect to get repaid? [more inside]
posted by Captain Chesapeake at 11:57 AM PST - 38 comments
posted by Captain Chesapeake at 11:57 AM PST - 38 comments
What are the best comments or threads you've ever seen on reddit?
What is the best comment or thread you've ever seen on reddit? [more inside]
posted by Blasdelb at 11:56 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by Blasdelb at 11:56 AM PST - 20 comments
What the heck is a hard-right carriage return?!
What is a hard-right carriage return? [more inside]
How honest should I be with a distant friend?
I went from being very good friends with someone to having them kind of shut me out very suddenly, maybe not on purpose. I'm thinking about writing them a letter about this, but it feels kind of self serving. Does this sort of thing ever make sense? Lots of special snowflake inside. [more inside]
posted by GilloD at 11:18 AM PST - 29 comments
posted by GilloD at 11:18 AM PST - 29 comments
Seattle or Eastside, whats better
Seattle vs Eastside, where to live? [more inside]
Calculus final? OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD
Please help me prepare for my Calculus I final. Difficulty: no trig. [more inside]
posted by cobain_angel at 10:57 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by cobain_angel at 10:57 AM PST - 9 comments
Birdcaller ID
Trying to identify a (possibly migrating) bird by its call, which sounded like CHEE-fo-TEE-TEE. I heard it in southwest Pennsylvania in April. My attempt at mimicking the call is inside. [more inside]
Is my case eligible for a Labor Board panel review?
I was eligible for a sizable bonus on February 1, 2012, the one year anniversary date of my start date. The offer letter said I'd get an email listing the criteria on which the bonus would be based by the end of February 2011. I never got the email. Requests for the criteria went unanswered. So have emails and phone calls since November.
Is this something I could present to a Labor Relations panel for resolution? I have tons of qualitative and quantitative data on the work I've performed, essentially in a vacuum.
Any thoughts would be much appreciated. Thanks.
VALS test?
Does anybody know how to obtain a current copy of the VALS questionnaire? Or some reasonable approximation? [more inside]
posted by bukvich at 10:36 AM PST - 1 comment
posted by bukvich at 10:36 AM PST - 1 comment
Why is my router's config page only available wirelessly, all of a sudden?
I just upgraded to a new modem from Time Warner, which gives me super fast download speeds! Currently, however, I don't have easy access to my router's configuration page, and can't seem to figure out why. Help! I'll try to give all the pertinent details. [more inside]
Not enough to go around
Are there any good books about unhealthy competition between sisters? I want further insight into my older sister's negative impact on me and our other younger sister. I have not been able to find anything on the subject. Books about competition in families where scarcity was an issue during childhood would also be welcome. Thank you.
Best Practice for Retrofitting Glass Block
Opening in concrete block wall doesn't evenly divide by glass block sizes. Now what? [more inside]
Boyfriend still uses okcupid
Boyfriend still uses okcupid. [more inside]
Mixing old with new
My wife likes to combine old things with new ones; everything from aspirin to maple syrup. If a new bottle enters the house, the old stuff from the nearly empty bottle gets dumped in. It feels wrong but I can't explain it scientifically. What's really wrong with doing that? Should I just get over it?
Urban composting: where to begin?
Jabber on my apple devices
Is there a native way to communicate get googletalk to talk with IOS devices? [more inside]
posted by edman at 8:30 AM PST - 4 comments
posted by edman at 8:30 AM PST - 4 comments
What is the best option for automatic investing?
What is the best option for automatic investing? [more inside]
posted by Blue Jello Elf at 8:04 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Blue Jello Elf at 8:04 AM PST - 10 comments
New mom food delivery with a delay factor.
How long after having a baby would food delivery be appreciated? [more inside]
posted by bquarters at 7:37 AM PST - 25 comments
posted by bquarters at 7:37 AM PST - 25 comments
Marriage with no desire?
Is it ultimately selfish to stay in a marriage without love for the sake of the kids? [more inside]
Barcelona in a flash!
Trying to plan a *very* short, cheap, but very special trip to Barcelona later this month. My partner and I aren't great at planning and we're feeling overwhelmed by all the possibilities against the limited amount of time we have. Halp! [more inside]
posted by sundaydriver at 6:13 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by sundaydriver at 6:13 AM PST - 9 comments
A rum business
What can you teach me about making daiquiris? [more inside]
Custody and Polyamory
Can more than two parents have full legal (and physical) custody of a child? [more inside]
What's the closest app to a paper notebook for android?
I would like to find a notetaking application that is flipable. Rather than having to open and close various, lists, tabs or folders of notes I want basically one very long note pad with several pages. Basically I'm hoping to find an app that is exactly like a small paper notebook that you would put in your pocket. It's not one note, it's not ak notes, it's not Evernote. Does anyone have any suggestions? Bonus points if it is sinkable.
[UK filter] What to do with an exorbitant electricity bill from E.on?
I moved into a flat in London in Sept 2011. I wasn't given any meter readings---my agency didn't have them and didn't even know where the meters are. Landlord also doesn't have a good idea where they may be. I don't know previous tenants. There is no gas in this flat---it's electricity only. [more inside]
May 4
FAFSA blues
Why didn't low-carb dieting work for me?
I tried a low-carb diet. I didn't lose much weight and my experience was different from what most other people report. Why? [more inside]
Archery for the unfit and large-breasted?
Archery filter: I want to check out archery, but I have some basic questions first. [more inside]
posted by primate moon at 8:11 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by primate moon at 8:11 PM PST - 10 comments
Which Malekith came first?
Who came first: Malekith the Accursed, foe of Thor in the Marvel comics, or Malekith the Witch-King of Naggaroth, ruler of the Warhammer Dark Elves? Was one definitely swiped from the other? Has legal action ever ensued?
How can I get rid of some of my books?
I have a library of over 500 books that I'd like to sell, online probably. How do I go about it? [more inside]
Get me from Point A to Point B and Back
I need to get me and my luggage from BWI to DC and back to BWI. Help! [more inside]
Yoga that will kick your ass
Wanted: The toughest, non-spiritual, exercise-focused yoga DVD available. P90X need not apply. [more inside]
I haven't an Inklings
Where can I find some hapless slob (of the discerning, lettered variety) upon whom to foist my amateur fiction writing for the purpose of obtaining constructive feedback? [more inside]
posted by Trespassers William at 6:43 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by Trespassers William at 6:43 PM PST - 15 comments
Nazi Secrets Documentary
Documentary filter: MrK heard glowing description of a history documentary about Nazi propaganda in 1936 in Berlin. [more inside]
Syncing iPad handwritten notes with a desktop app (and vice versa)?
Is there an iPad handwritten note-taking app that also has extensive file organization AND syncing capability (like Evernote)? [more inside]
posted by saladpants at 6:04 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by saladpants at 6:04 PM PST - 9 comments
prayer?
Official prayer at a publicly-funded college? Whom do you complain to? [more inside]
posted by wandering_not_lost at 5:36 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by wandering_not_lost at 5:36 PM PST - 28 comments
Give her "space" and potentially end the relationship, or try to compromise?
Wife wants "space" -- but we're supposed to move to a foreign country in a week. Give her "space" and potentially end the relationship, or try to compromise? There's more to it than that, so here goes: [more inside]
How do I fix push notifications on my jailbroken, unlocked iPhone 3gs?
How do I fix push notifications on my jailbroken, unlocked iPhone 3gs 4.3.3? [more inside]
posted by crawltopslow at 4:55 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by crawltopslow at 4:55 PM PST - 6 comments
Whether and how to tell my shy, older friend I like-like him?
Help me decide whether, and how, to man up with a shy friend I like-like with a significant age gap. Cue the snowflakes. [more inside]
posted by hungry hippo at 4:50 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by hungry hippo at 4:50 PM PST - 36 comments
Nitpicky persnickication...
I just finished writing my first children's book. Hooray! Now I have fingernail biting anxiety regarding the agent querying process. Please help. [more inside]
posted by melangell at 4:42 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by melangell at 4:42 PM PST - 6 comments
Are there any well paying jobs working with animals?
Asking for a friend: Are there any high paying jobs that involve working with animals? [more inside]
I'd like to know about the logistics of colonization.
I'd like to know about the logistics of colonization, from the point of view of the colonists. In general, but primarily I'm interested in 16th or 17th century European colonization - for example, the people who founded what is now New York City. [more inside]
What's a good book for selfstudying second semester physics?
What's the best book to self study semester second of algebra based physics with? [more inside]
posted by tomtheblackbear at 3:38 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by tomtheblackbear at 3:38 PM PST - 7 comments
Questions about refinancing
When I call my credit union they offer me a 4% loan, when I call the broker who found my current loan (but works at a new place), he quotes me 3.75%. The credit union would keep the loan themselves. I have no idea who the other loan is with. Assuming closing costs are comparable, how do I choose between these two offers? [more inside]
"Is it the sea you hear in me, its dissatisfactions? Or the voice of nothing, that was your madness?"
How do I deal with my (very insecure and overly sensitive) friend's tendency to take things said in passing as deep, personal criticisms? I used to be able to take it in stride but his recent prescription steroid treatments have ramped this trait up to stratospheric levels. [more inside]
Carpooling isn't fun any more.
How do we maintain a friendship and resolve issues without carpooling any more? [more inside]
Can you help me find a new hairstyle?
I need haircut help. I've been caught in a cycle of cutting my hair into a bob, letting it grow out then bobbing it again. Lather rinse and repeat... for the past fifteen years. Lately I feel like my hair is dragging me down and it's time for a new cut, but I'm completely overwhelmed and clueless as to what will look good and work with my hair. [more inside]
Want to do something great for my husband's 30th, but I'm totally broke!
I'm unemployed and broke, and my husband's big 30th birthday is right around the corner. He went all out for my 30th, so I feel horrible that I can't afford anything nice. Suggestions? [more inside]
comfort from a distance
My mom is having foot surgery and she won't be able to touch her foot to ground for 6 weeks. She lives alone and I live across the country. What can I mail to her or order for her that would make her life during recovery easy and comfy? [more inside]
Time for the next tattoo... need some art help.
Where to find different hieroglyphic "font"? [more inside]
posted by emkelley at 2:24 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by emkelley at 2:24 PM PST - 11 comments
RIP, My 16.1 Mp Friend?
Drove a car over my brand new Nikon Coolpix S8200. Can I give it the Heimlich? [more inside]
posted by youandiandaflame at 2:18 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by youandiandaflame at 2:18 PM PST - 7 comments
Watching Boxing in Boston
Best place in Cambridge, MA to catch the Cotto Mayweather fight tomorrow night? [more inside]
Five years? Really?
Urgent help needed: tourist visa has been denied from Mexico, what are the options? [more inside]
posted by Gusaroo at 2:01 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Gusaroo at 2:01 PM PST - 12 comments
Can I put an SSD in my MBP?
I'm just curious, but if I install something like this, would it invalidate my (purchased separately) AppleCare on a year-old MacBook Pro? [more inside]
posted by 4ster at 1:58 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by 4ster at 1:58 PM PST - 7 comments
Help me clear the Air
Is there anything I should know before I restore the OS on my new MacBook Air in an attempt to circumvent an unreasonable and oppressive IT department? [more inside]
posted by Crotalus at 1:43 PM PST - 40 comments
posted by Crotalus at 1:43 PM PST - 40 comments
Modern toddler stories? My google foo is top-notch but I am frustrated with what's out there.
I am looking for simple, modern stories to tell my toddler. I am disappointed with what I am finding online and at book stores, mostly because it is so hopelessly outdated and/or un-relatable. I don't want stories about farm animals, or centuries-old fables written in ye olden english, or nonsensical babble that rhymes but makes little sense otherwise, or "stories" that are not stories at all but rather pictures that you point at to name colors, numbers, etc (we've already mastered those). Any recommendations on stories that a toddler can relate to, and perhaps learn a lesson or two?
posted by rada at 1:30 PM PST - 35 comments
posted by rada at 1:30 PM PST - 35 comments
H like Humor and Hurt
Hello Mefites. I need your perspective about my boyfriend's sense of humor and mine. [more inside]
posted by niak at 1:05 PM PST - 61 comments
posted by niak at 1:05 PM PST - 61 comments
Do outstanding medical bills hurt your credit rating?
Has there been a recent change in the relationship between medical debt and your credit rating/score? [more inside]
So obvious, even a fool could understand it
How does one internalize advice that is an enumerated collection of pithy platitudes? [more inside]
posted by identitymap at 12:42 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by identitymap at 12:42 PM PST - 10 comments
Vacuum Minion
Robot vacuum question: Neato or Roomba? Customer reviews seem to favor the Neato, but I can't tell whether the Neato is better or whether the company is better at astro-turfing. Guide me on my tiny robot vacuum choices! [more inside]
posted by edbles at 12:32 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by edbles at 12:32 PM PST - 13 comments
Cat bites & pus
Decrease in pus production in an infected bite: always a good thing, or could it mean something bad? [more inside]
Generational Theory: Mayan 2012 Edition.
Can you point me to some interesting articles/books about Strauss-Howe generational theory, and how it may be affecting modern day politics/economics? [more inside]
What is the ecosystem percentage cover of earth's surface?
What is the percentage cover of earth's surface, made up by marine, terrestrial, estuarine, and freshwater ecosystems? [more inside]
posted by WhaleRider at 11:50 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by WhaleRider at 11:50 AM PST - 8 comments
Quiet bar or restaurant in central Toronto that doesn't play music?
Quiet bar or restaurant in central Toronto that doesn't play music? [more inside]
How do these websites generate income?
How do these websites generate income? [more inside]
I am the bad news bear
Is there a liquor store/deli that will deliver a six pack to an office building in the Financial District of Manhatten, ASAP? [more inside]
posted by Diablevert at 11:21 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by Diablevert at 11:21 AM PST - 10 comments
How is this website blocked?
Trying to read the Grant Morrison interview on Playboy.com from the FPP and both Firefox and Chrome tell me it's blocked. I've checked downforeveryonebutme and it says it's up. Checked my two routers and it's not blocked there. What else can I check? Totally baffled. Qwest in Seattle is my ISP. [more inside]
posted by artof.mulata at 11:16 AM PST - 22 comments
posted by artof.mulata at 11:16 AM PST - 22 comments
So I got an ipad; now what?
What can I do with an ipad 2? This is both a technical and personal/relationship question about getting an ipad 2...see below for explanation and question. [more inside]
posted by kaybdc at 11:01 AM PST - 19 comments
posted by kaybdc at 11:01 AM PST - 19 comments
How can I treat the parasitic disease "Leishmaniasis" caused by a sand fly bite?
Tropical Parasitic Disease Filter: Help! What treatments are available for Leishmaniasis, caused by the Sand Fly Parasite? [more inside]
Librarian with giant employment gap-advice please!
How do I re-enter the librarian world after five years off as a SAHM? [more inside]
Help with inconsiderate gifts
How to handle well-intended but inconsiderate and unwanted gifts? [more inside]
How To Handle Feeling Exhausted (Too Tired To Come Up With A Creative Title)
How do I (someone with depression) handle feeling exhausted all the time? [more inside]
Is this common?
Is it common for long term couples to get more comfortable and less passionate? [more inside]
Good friend/bad friend
I am not feeling this baby shower right now. Help! [more inside]
posted by *s at 9:40 AM PST - 31 comments
posted by *s at 9:40 AM PST - 31 comments
Yes, I know this doesn't make me special
If you reach your mid-20s with no career direction, what do you do? How do you fix it? [more inside]
"You find yourself in a dingy office, wondering about books from your youth. Do you ask the internet?..."
NameThatKid'sBookFilter, Take 20,896: trying to recall the name of an unusually funny choose-your-own-adventure-type book I read back in the proverbial day. Here's all the info I can recall: [more inside]
posted by julthumbscrew at 9:13 AM PST - 2 comments
posted by julthumbscrew at 9:13 AM PST - 2 comments
Insect Identification
To whom should I report an employer that hires by gender?
An Oregon-based employer is posting job ads that explicitly seek workers only of a specific gender, when gender is clearly not relevant to the job. Should I report this to someone, and to whom? [more inside]
posted by croutonsupafreak at 8:14 AM PST - 36 comments
posted by croutonsupafreak at 8:14 AM PST - 36 comments
Help me find the perfect running shoe.
Need help finding the perfect running shoe. [more inside]
Pimp my listening experience!
Audiophilia-on-a-budget advice needed: I want to upgrade my desktop listening experience for around $200 or less. Currently reasonably happy using Sennheiser HD-280 plugged straight into my Mac Pro, but borrowing a friend's Total BitHead has inspired me to look further. [more inside]
Washington DC, get in my belly & iPhone
Spending a long weekend in D.C. Looking for off the beaten path restaurant, app suggestions & other recommendations. [more inside]
posted by TravellingCari at 7:53 AM PST - 38 comments
posted by TravellingCari at 7:53 AM PST - 38 comments
Not so sexy, not the usual yeasty subject either, what gives?
Womanly-bits-filter. For several years have had discharge that I really don't think is a yeast infection (I've had classic yeast infections before) but I haven't had much luck getting a more sensible explanation. Hoping this sounds familiar to some other lady Mefites. [more inside]
Best practices for approaching busy ex-employers for reference? And how to explain longer stay at university?
I'm a new grad entering the workforce. What's the best way for me to approach busy busy BUSY ex-bosses (so busy they have phone gatekeepers, cuz they're always on the phone with Very Important People) to use them as a reference? I left them on good terms, but it's been at least two years and no contact in between. Several related questions ahead. [more inside]
Whose mess is it?
Cohabiting couples, how do you handle the housework? Is there a clear distinction between your mess and their mess? [more inside]
Help me Normalize
I need to split a field in a database into lots of fields, in order to normalise the database, but I can't figure out how to do it. [more inside]
posted by Just this guy, y'know at 7:27 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Just this guy, y'know at 7:27 AM PST - 6 comments
That stinks!! No.. it SUCKS!
When, where and how did the word 'sucks' become somewhat inoffensive, mainstream-- a word that can be said on prime time television? Was there at tv show? Is it generational? Or is my perception regional and based on my cohort? [more inside]
posted by sandmanwv at 7:11 AM PST - 43 comments
posted by sandmanwv at 7:11 AM PST - 43 comments
What hardware do I need for recording and live mixing?
I need a USB interface to connect 2 mics, a midi keyboard, and an ipod to a computer, for both live mixing and recording. Hope? [more inside]
posted by crookedneighbor at 7:05 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by crookedneighbor at 7:05 AM PST - 7 comments
How likely were you to be drafted during the Vietnam war?
How likely were you to be drafted during the Vietnam war if you were eligible? [more inside]
posted by dukes909 at 6:43 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by dukes909 at 6:43 AM PST - 26 comments
A week's worth of reading in one suitcase
Help me optimize my vacation reading! I’m headed out to the Outer Banks next month, and there’s nothing on the agenda but reading and relaxing. I’m having trouble coming up with a week’s worth of new reading material that won’t take up significant space in our truck, though. Can you recommend me lengthy or dense books--in other words, books that will give me maximum entertainment minutes per page--that are still fun vacation reading? [more inside]
posted by House of Leaves of Grass at 6:34 AM PST - 35 comments
posted by House of Leaves of Grass at 6:34 AM PST - 35 comments
How do I increase partition size in a RAID 1 array with minimal downtime?
RAID 1 Partition Filter: Physical capacity increased. How do we increase the partition size to match on a production machine? Details within. [more inside]
Yes I'm Sirius, and don't call me Shirley.
Surpriseish birthday gift filter: Shirley, the hive mind knows more than me for radios, and can pull together a Sirius XM radio recs/kit recs for installation in a 2006 Toyota Prius (currently has factory radio)? [more inside]
Bi MeFi Man concerned about coming out to immediate family
How do I tell my family I'm bisexual? [more inside]
Shower a la mode
Please recommend a dressing gown/bath robe that a) isn't white b) isn't indecently short c) isn't made from a staticky material d) isn't going to fall apart after three washes. [more inside]
Five month old eats all night now. Can we get it back down?
Our five month old son has gone from (breast) feeding once or twice overnight, to feeding at least every couple of hours. We're at the very beginning of trying solids. Can we get the night feedings back down? What's going on? [more inside]
Where does the car go?
Where would you leave a car in (or around) New York City for 4 or 5 days? [more inside]
Querying a credit card statement
Confusing credit card statement. Is it possible for my credit card company to have made a mistake? What should I expect when I call them to clarify? [more inside]
Extortionate Letting Agent Fees in the UK.
London UK Letting Agent Fees for an incoming potential tenant: What is 'reasonable' and is there any room to bargain on these? (i.e. Fees per person for "Credit Check" and Admin Fees.) [more inside]
May 3
I want to drink and derive in the comfort of my own home.
Good online accredited Precalculus and Calculus classes? [more inside]
posted by spinifex23 at 11:59 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by spinifex23 at 11:59 PM PST - 5 comments
Smaller than an elbow...
How do I find out what earbuds don't hurt my ears? [more inside]
posted by mephron at 11:33 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by mephron at 11:33 PM PST - 13 comments
Fiction that's like Game of Thrones
I'm looking for something like game of thrones, but real. Epic, sweeping historical fiction with complex stories, political intrigue, backstabbing, and moral ambiguity. [more inside]
posted by Green Winnebago at 10:57 PM PST - 54 comments
posted by Green Winnebago at 10:57 PM PST - 54 comments
Mobile broadband in Australia, but cheap
Seeking mobile broadband on the cheap in SE Queensland, Australia. [more inside]
posted by dg at 10:24 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by dg at 10:24 PM PST - 9 comments
Cheap internet!
Who is currently the best ISP in New Orleans in terms of price/bandwidth? [more inside]
Who owns those "misspelled URL" pages?
Who owns those "misspelled URL" pages? [more inside]
Mysterious garden delight or horrible weeds you decide.
I could really use some help identifying some plants that have popped up in my garden. [more inside]
posted by wwax at 8:46 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by wwax at 8:46 PM PST - 14 comments
Online colleges for a Massachusetts student?
I'm a student in Western Massachusetts. What are some good online colleges (in-state or otherwise) at which to take some math and economics courses over the summer? [more inside]
How A went from thinking B to C
Please recommend stories about mental battles. Specifically, people overcoming deep-seated fears or beliefs. [more inside]
posted by fix at 7:31 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by fix at 7:31 PM PST - 7 comments
Invoking my employer's work-life balance policy
Biglawfilter, workplacepoliticsfilter. Can I take seriously my firm's assurances that invoking a "work-life balance" policy will not be a terrible career move? [more inside]
What is a good fight?
You are in a healthy, happy relationship: What are your fights like with your significant other? [more inside]
Can't we just play Monopoly?
(Minecraft Filter) So my kid started playing Minecraft, and now he wants to get into the world of mods and skins. Halp! [more inside]
posted by BlahLaLa at 6:11 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by BlahLaLa at 6:11 PM PST - 11 comments
Yoga? Oh, puke!
Recommendations for Yoga DVDs -- my situation and needs inside. [more inside]
Tattoo Time!
Best place to get amazing colorful tattoo around Worcester, MA (by which I mean within an hour of driving)? [more inside]
How do I help my friend the addict?
How do I help my best friend who is using heroin? Back story inside. [more inside]
How to go about moving a pet's grave
I need to exhume and move the remains of our pet. What can I expect? Any tips? Real world experience? [more inside]
Daycare woos
Infant daycare recommendations around Boston? [more inside]
Any advice on weird knee pain problem appreciated.
Weird, intermittent knee pain question [more inside]
How do I grow Cestrum Nocturnum?
When will the time come that what my mom says does not matter to me
how not to feel the need to justify myself in front of my parents. Because their approval should not matter at this point of my life, but I am still angry when they compares me to others in achievement. [more inside]
money is awesome but getting sued is less awesome
I got ahold of an Advanced Reader's Copy of a book that is not out yet. It is made by a famous actor (and it looks really, really bad). It has special wrapping related to said author and a "note" from the author (copied, in his handwriting, or at least it's supposed to be in his handwriting). Would it be illegal for me to sell it? Would it be immoral for me to sell it? Could I actually make a big pile of money by selling it? [more inside]
The buddy system for procrastination?
I'm using Teux Deux--but is there on online support forum that help me support my goals for exercise, uncluttering, other side projects? I need a buddy! [more inside]
Save my video project, please!
Newbie video person here, having loads of trouble. I have some video files in .mts that I would like to edit in Windows Movie Maker (or, if I must, in iMovie) and then publish on YouTube or Vimeo. I need to convert them first, since they won't import correctly into either program. What free program do I use to do that, and what should I convert them into to make the editing and then uploading as pain-free as possible? [more inside]
posted by vegartanipla at 5:01 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by vegartanipla at 5:01 PM PST - 10 comments
Help me get rid of my disgusting air conditioner
My air conditioner is covered in pigeon droppings, and I need to get rid of it. I have some questions about this. [more inside]
thirty-year-old Hermione
Help me dress my age, but still be me. [more inside]
Help me identify this dance tune I heard on the radio a few weeks back.
Need an pop / dance music enthusiast to identify a current song. Includes live amnesia cover version of what I think was the chorus. [more inside]
posted by circular at 4:22 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by circular at 4:22 PM PST - 2 comments
A good bee book?
My Wife and I just purchased a beehive starter kit and get our Nuc in a few weeks. We know a lot about certain things like protecting from predators etc and plan to take a 1/2 day course in June. We would like to purchase a book in the same class as Storey's Guide to Raising Chickens that we can use as a reference book. Does anyone have any suggestions? Also any other advice will be welcomed.
Gift for BFF attaining BSN as second career?
Gift for BFF since childhood to celebrate attainment of nursing degree and job offer? Almost no expense spared. [more inside]
posted by Punctual at 4:15 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by Punctual at 4:15 PM PST - 12 comments
I'm excited about this longboard! How do I use it?
I just got this longboard as a birthday present. Is it "good"? Also, how do you begin to longboard? [more inside]
flip camera replacement?
We want to replace our Flip video camera ... with what? [more inside]
quitting now or later???
I just started a job at a finance leadership program at a Fortune 500 company. The program is extremely well known is 2 years long and is on the path to become an executive at this pretisgious company. I joined right after school ended (4 days) and never really had a strong inclination to go into finance. I knew that from the begining, while I know I do not want to stay there long-term as I am likley leaving after 2 years, I'd love to hear thoughts on whether I should leave the company now. [more inside]
Name that comedian...
Looking for the name of a stand-up comedian... [more inside]
posted by GnomeChompsky at 3:08 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by GnomeChompsky at 3:08 PM PST - 5 comments
Are you a dancer? No, I'm a drunk.
Reno 911: are some seasons better than others? [more inside]
posted by Fister Roboto at 2:34 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by Fister Roboto at 2:34 PM PST - 11 comments
Should I be doing anything besides wringing my hands
So, you might remember my question 'help me navigate and not screw up this budding online relationship', in which I managed to self sabotage a good thing w/ a guy who was really into me by dragging on a conversation online for 4 months and screwing up 3 attempts to meet. Well, I re-read our entire conversation and it seems he had subtly made attempts to hang out 2 additional times! (I don't know what's wrong with me and why I was being so daft, scared or evasive). I took you all's advice and apologized for flaking on our first official/somewhat organized meetup in which my rules about being feminine/cautious caused me to act like an idiot. His specific response to my date suggestions was ... [more inside]
Does it do any good to report a dangerous driver?
Will calling 911 about a very dangerous driver do any good or am I wasting my time or theirs? Not long ago I found myself behind a car that was regularly switching between driving in the middle of a wide shoulder and crossing the center line 2 or 3 feet into oncoming traffic. I called 911 and even though they said they'd look into it their tone of voice seemed to say otherwise. And tonight I found myself behind a car that was driving even more erratically on a road that I often drive, bike or run on. I didn't call even though I could easily imagine myself or someone else being killed or injured by them. What should I do if I see a dangerous driver again?
posted by 14580 at 2:18 PM PST - 38 comments
posted by 14580 at 2:18 PM PST - 38 comments
Excel function for consolidating a bunch of rows of nearly identical data?
I need help sorting out a bunch of data in Excel where the row data is almost identical except for one column that I need to retain. [more inside]
Any free-form whiteboarding desktop apps like Stixy.com?
Are there any decent Whiteboarding/Brainstorming/Sticky-Notes software apps out there? Like a digital cork-board? [more inside]
posted by fembot at 1:17 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by fembot at 1:17 PM PST - 6 comments
I need an amazing book on the philosophy of science that will get my juices flowing
I want to learn more about the philosophy of science, the validation of its methods, its relation to faith and our core existence, its weaknesses, its controversies, its fundamental warps and wefts into the fabric of our society. [more inside]
posted by Peregrin5 at 12:39 PM PST - 32 comments
posted by Peregrin5 at 12:39 PM PST - 32 comments
Itchastitch
Has anyone ever had an itchy skin problem, with or without a medical diagnosis, seen a shrink about it when dermatology didn't seem to be helping much, and the shrink treatment helped? [more inside]
When did the American "Business Reply Mail" concept begin?
What is the general history of the US postal "business reply mail" ? When did it begin? [more inside]
posted by Quarter Pincher at 12:27 PM PST - 3 comments
posted by Quarter Pincher at 12:27 PM PST - 3 comments
Tell me about your root canal!
Tell me about your root canal! [more inside]
Couch to 5K abbreviated
How to best prep for a 5K when I don't have time to complete Couch to 5K... [more inside]
posted by DoubleLune at 12:08 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by DoubleLune at 12:08 PM PST - 17 comments
Transcribing exisiting recording with app or software
Is there a way to use Google Voice, Evernote, or other free (or cheap) software to transcribe a 30 minute audio recording? [more inside]
Do I have any recourse for lack of air conditioning in my apartment?
I've been without air conditioning for the past two weeks in my apartment, and it seems like it will be another two weeks before I get it. My landlord doesn't seem to care, and I don't know if I have any options in this situation. [more inside]
posted by trogdole at 11:19 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by trogdole at 11:19 AM PST - 13 comments
Studying Abroad in Cairo!
I'll be abroad in Cairo for this coming year -- what do I need to know? What should I pack? Leave at home? Be sure not to miss? What's overrated? [more inside]
How can I take baby steps toward writing for tech publications?
How can I take baby steps toward writing for tech publications? [more inside]
If you look like a leader and talk like a leader...
I'm the new supervisor for a director who needs to develop more director-level skills: project management, leadership, taking initiative. Can you recommend concrete things he might do so I can help him show measurable progress? [more inside]
Sending thoughts and, err, stuff
ComfortFilter: Looking for a better way to express sympathy and support than just "We're keeping you in our thoughts." Can't just be for close loved ones. [more inside]
posted by Wretch729 at 10:16 AM PST - 24 comments
posted by Wretch729 at 10:16 AM PST - 24 comments
Some YouTube videos not displaying on Apple TV
I have 4 videos on that I uploaded to YouTube. When I go to my videos on Apple TV only 3 show – tho all 4 show when I view on the web. Why?
Need help for an aspiring screenwriter.
What's the best how-to book for an aspiring screenwriter? [more inside]
Major players in US industries
Who are the big players that control the majority of the market in US industries? [more inside]
posted by 7life at 9:49 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by 7life at 9:49 AM PST - 16 comments
Blocking unsolicited gchat invites
Blocking random people from contacting me on Google Talk? [more inside]
How to use Copyrighted characters in original Art?
I recently completed a series of art prints for an upcoming art show. I thought while I was getting them printed I would submit them to Zazzle and make them available online. But 3 out of 4 were rejected because of "A copyright complaint from the rightsholder". I think my work is a clear use of parody and would not be confused with an official product. [more inside]
posted by Mark5four0 at 9:40 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by Mark5four0 at 9:40 AM PST - 6 comments
What does it all mean?
Can askmefi break down my experience with psilocybin mushrooms? [more inside]
missing the name.
Trying to find a website I saw awhile back that tracked current legislation in the House and Senate. [more inside]
How should I deal with this medical bill?
I recently received an unexpected medical bill in the mail. Should I pay it, or should I ask my parents to pay it? [more inside]
How to cope with body changes that come from weight loss?
I recently lost some weight but am struggling to accept my body changes, specifically smaller boobs. I just lost about five pounds, so not much at all. But it seems like its all gone from my chest, I have lost a solid two cups sizes just due to the five pound weight loss. [more inside]
PDX trail running
Recommendations for running trails in Portland, OR, please? [more inside]
posted by bread-eater at 7:41 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by bread-eater at 7:41 AM PST - 6 comments
Is there a prohibition or taboo against fictitious storytelling in any religion or religious tradition that you know of?
Is there a prohibition or taboo against fictitious storytelling (written or spoken) in any religion or religious tradition that you know of? [more inside]
It's not eggzactly the same thing.
It doesn't seem like egg whites can be anything but runny egg whites, but I know if they're beaten long enough they eventually become meringue. What other examples are there in which something starts out as one thing and is transformed into something altogether different? The more unexpected the better.
Managing IUD insertion and post-insertion pain
IUD insertion pain: please help me plan for handling it. I'm extremely sensitive to pain (especially right now, given recent medical history), but my doctors and I agree I need a Mirena IUD. [more inside]
I Know Why The Caged Bird Takes Klonopin
What is my best option when my girlfriend who had a stroke less than a month ago was abruptly terminated by her company? [more inside]
How I learned to stop worrying and love the dog
Tell me your experiences getting over fear or discomfort with dogs. My wonderful brother, bless him, loves me, but fears dogs. But now I'm getting a second one (German Shepherd puppy), the breed of his nightmares, and he is struggling. He's told me himself he wants to get over it, and I'm sure exposure and puppies will help, but I'd love to hear your own experiences and anecdotes getting past this. [more inside]
posted by Elfasi at 6:25 AM PST - 27 comments
posted by Elfasi at 6:25 AM PST - 27 comments
I'm shocked, no, seriously, I am.
Are Frequently Asked Questions, on blogs in particular, really Frequently Asked Questions? [more inside]
where do I go for help for knee pain?
I've been experiencing sore knees after running and I think it's time for me to seek some professional help. Where should I go for help? I was going to make an appointment with my primary care doctor, but I'm afraid he's not going to be able to help me much. Should I go straight to a physical therapist or a sports doctor or orthopedist? I just want to be able to run without pain again. [more inside]
posted by mbidi at 6:17 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by mbidi at 6:17 AM PST - 11 comments
man vs locked car
What laws or rules govern automobile door locks in the United States? [more inside]
posted by jepler at 6:01 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by jepler at 6:01 AM PST - 20 comments
Do I list a consulting agency on my resume?
I currently work at [big media company] right now but through a consulting agency. I am applying for an actual staff job through [big media company]. How do I list my current job on my resume? [more inside]
Debt Notice from Old Gym.
Debt Notice from Old Gym. Details inside..... [more inside]
Outsider Trading
Suppose I was in a position to financially damage a company. Assume that I have no involvement whatsoever with the target company. Would it be illegal/immoral to short their stock right before doing so? [more inside]
posted by justsomebodythatyouusedtoknow at 2:49 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by justsomebodythatyouusedtoknow at 2:49 AM PST - 12 comments
Have I said too much?
I've recently begun hanging out with a new group of friends, which is great. However, I find myself having a lot of anxiety after spending time with them, and worrying that I might have said something that will cause them to judge me or not like me. [more inside]
Instant Oatmeal like Starbucks'?
Instant oatmeal connoisseurs: what brand is the most similar in taste and texture to the Perfect Oatmeal at Starbucks? [more inside]
posted by simplethings at 1:54 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by simplethings at 1:54 AM PST - 16 comments
What makes a mom a good mom? What does it feel like to have a good mom?
What makes a mom a good mom? What does it feel like to have a good mom? [more inside]
posted by stoneandstar at 1:15 AM PST - 46 comments
posted by stoneandstar at 1:15 AM PST - 46 comments
Staying Dry But Not Too Dry!
Any recommendations for a good anti-perspirant that doesn't overdry skin? [more inside]
posted by lirael2008 at 1:14 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by lirael2008 at 1:14 AM PST - 3 comments
How can I get old-fashioned suitcases or something similar?
Every time we travel as a family we have a pile of suitcases. I think I need some old fashioned hard-sided rectangular suitcases which
- are light;
- stack nicely;
- have a handle;
- won't come open in flight or be destroyed by TSA guys.
What profession would suit me best?
Should I go into nursing or human resources? [more inside]
posted by queens86 at 12:09 AM PST - 16 comments
posted by queens86 at 12:09 AM PST - 16 comments
May 2
Do other countries have an Oval Office?
Which other countries (if any) have a specific, famous office for their heads of government, comparable to the Oval Office for the President of the United States? [more inside]
Spider ID and advice
Over the past week or so we've had an influx of spiders, mostly in the second floor of our house. As near as I can tell, they're comprised of daddy long legs and [ARACHNOPHOBE TRIGGER WARNING] these guys. I was hoping some of the more knowledgeable among you could help me identify this species and advise whether we should seek professional help. I'm also curious if anyone has any tips on how to minimize the spider population indoors (unfortunately, peaceful coexistence is not an option due to the feelings of some members of the household). [more inside]
posted by stufflebean at 11:44 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by stufflebean at 11:44 PM PST - 13 comments
First Time Flying with Baby - Advice Needed
First time air travel with an 11 month old. Need all the advice I can get from experienced parents! [more inside]
"She slipped the dirk from under her pillow..."
Should I train myself to sleep on my back? [more inside]
posted by DisreputableDog at 11:29 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by DisreputableDog at 11:29 PM PST - 15 comments
Where to print and frame a PDF?
What service should I use to print and frame a PDF? [more inside]
posted by incandescentman at 11:20 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by incandescentman at 11:20 PM PST - 2 comments
Adobe Reader Anguish
I downloaded Adobe Reader and now I've lost everything (well, all access to pdf's, at least...) [more inside]
iMovie has beaten my ass
How to convert an AVI to YouTube MP4 format. [more inside]
posted by Marie Mon Dieu at 10:31 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Marie Mon Dieu at 10:31 PM PST - 6 comments
How to get rich in three easy steps.
How do you sell an entertainment booth/game/contest to something like a trade show, fundraiser or festival and/or its sponsors? [more inside]
posted by michaelh at 10:24 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by michaelh at 10:24 PM PST - 4 comments
Not exactly The Matrix, but what?
What is the name (medical/psychological term?) for this feeling that "my life been a dream since that one event several years ago"? [more inside]
posted by vidur at 9:43 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by vidur at 9:43 PM PST - 6 comments
Good Baltimore area doctors?
Good primary care doctors in/near Baltimore? [more inside]
posted by capnsue at 9:39 PM PST - 5 comments
posted by capnsue at 9:39 PM PST - 5 comments
I want effective, not-dumb-looking motorcycle armor
Where can I find a full suit of motorcycle body armor that doesn't look like some teenager's idea of motorcycle body armor? [more inside]
Pimp my PSP, please!
What games do I need to find for my newly acquired old PSP? [more inside]
posted by deezil at 8:53 PM PST - 15 comments
posted by deezil at 8:53 PM PST - 15 comments
What do I do as a tenant of an illegal apartment?
Am I in legal trouble if I have been living in an illegal attic apartment in NYC? [more inside]
It was originally sold in tins
Say I want to store my dental floss in a metal container. Are there any (common) types of metal that would make the floss taste funny or become dangerous to my health?
Android App - Upload to S3 ?
Android App to upload files to Amazon S3 file storage service ? [more inside]
posted by southof40 at 7:42 PM PST - 2 comments
posted by southof40 at 7:42 PM PST - 2 comments
Personal shoppers: good idea or just more trauma?
What is it like using a Macy's personal shopper? Is that my best option? [more inside]
Can I ditch my old web hosting service without "letting them know"?
Can I ditch my old web hosting service without "letting them know"? [more inside]
Lost Parakeet
What are the chances of a domestic parakeet returning home after flying out of the kitchen door? Wings are not recently clipped. [more inside]
Help a crazy cat lady compile a collection of photographs and paintings.
Help me find black and white vintage photographs or old paintings that feature at least one person and at least one cat. [more inside]
Help me decide what option regarding my future is best.
What I should do? [more inside]
Electric Boogaloo
Last fall, I asked you guys for some help with my OkCupid profile. Your advice worked really well for me! I've changed a fair bit since then and now that I'm getting back into dating full-time I'm going back for round 2 with the hive mind. [more inside]
posted by modernserf at 6:12 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by modernserf at 6:12 PM PST - 18 comments
Why is some of my cheese weird?
Food puzzler: I frequently buy the same kind of factory-packaged Tillamook cheese from the grocery store in ~8 ounce plastic wrappers. Oddly, the same product is not always the same - each package has one of two very dissimilar textures, either dry/crisp or oily/plasticky. Last week I bought two packages from the same store sitting in the same row - and one has the texture I like, one has the plasticky texture. Any idea why? [more inside]
What should we do over a weekend near ATL for less than $100?
Bachelorette weekend suggestions near Atlanta, GA? [more inside]
Help me build a simple magnetometer!
I'd like to build a magnetometer. Nothing fancy, just something to play around with and ideally see changes in the local earth magnetic field. [more inside]
How do I avoid maiden name confusion on my CV?
How do I list publications on my CV that were under my maiden name? [more inside]
posted by kalanchoe at 5:37 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by kalanchoe at 5:37 PM PST - 8 comments
If an employer requires a training course, shouldn't they also pay for it?
Is it legal for an employer to force employees to pay for a training course? My wife works in a fairly high-end hair salon and the owners organize a yearly training day. Attendance is mandatory and each employee must pay $700 to attend. [more inside]
posted by robotnixon at 5:20 PM PST - 21 comments
posted by robotnixon at 5:20 PM PST - 21 comments
What do I tell my ex?
A Ribbon cutting ceremony that isn't
Ideas for a building dedication that doesn't include a ribbon cutting? [more inside]
posted by faineant at 4:36 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by faineant at 4:36 PM PST - 10 comments
Why would a convenience store always ring up the wrong price?
Workers at this one convenience store always charge slightly more than the stated price. What is the scam here? [more inside]
I have a month to lose some weight without the help of cardio!
I have about a month to lose 5-10 lbs for an upcoming wedding that requires me to wear a dress that does not fit and cannot be altered. Normally I'd cut back on calories and just go running a lot, but I've been rendered unable to run or elliptical or bike due to an Achilles injury that I don't want to worsen. What dietary things and other workout things can I do during this time to ensure weight loss? In my twenties, no health problems, no dietary restrictions, reeeally need to fit into this god forsaken dress.
posted by blackcatcuriouser at 3:50 PM PST - 42 comments
posted by blackcatcuriouser at 3:50 PM PST - 42 comments
Advice for the undertrained?
Am I going to badly regret running a half-marathon this weekend with minimal training? [more inside]
posted by Pomo at 3:38 PM PST - 17 comments
posted by Pomo at 3:38 PM PST - 17 comments
Archiving Family Treasures
Archiving Really old photos: Your suggestions on methodology and tools? [more inside]
How can I tell if my boss' spyware transmits audio?
I think my boss is spying on me with screen sharing. That's...understandable, or at least discussed in our contract. But I want to make sure it's not capturing audio. How can I check...without using the work computer? [more inside]
Leaving PhD program without burning bridges?
I am currently working on a Ph.D. but may have an opportunity to enter my field early. Is there a way I can drop out without burning bridges? When should I speak with my adviser about it? [more inside]
Is he on his own, or can I help him through this?
Can you help someone else make a big career change? Or do they have to do it entirely on their own? [more inside]
Where can I buy a baby keepsake in NYC?
Where in Manhattan can I buy an engraved gift for a new baby? [more inside]
posted by Tin Man at 1:59 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Tin Man at 1:59 PM PST - 6 comments
Job Application Rule: If you don't know what the acronym means, you probably can't do that job.
I want to apply for a position called "BP&A Sr. Analyst". I have all the skills, but I don't know what exactly does BP&A stand for? [more inside]
posted by CathyG at 1:51 PM PST - 4 comments
posted by CathyG at 1:51 PM PST - 4 comments
How to understand (certain) guitar tabs/chord notation?
I like playing the piano by following guitar chords. However I don't understand, and nor can I find any reference material, on what certain chords mean. [more inside]
posted by cdenman at 1:44 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by cdenman at 1:44 PM PST - 18 comments
Trolling videos?
I am trying to find some good videos (perhaps on YouTube) on avoiding cyberbullying/trolling which are suitable for an older kid. YouTube search just pulls up a hodgepodge of videos, news reports, pointless amateur clips, and so on. Ideally what I'd like is a Yogscast (from Minecraft fame) type of presentation where experienced gamers talk about how to recognize trolling behavior, how to keep others from pushing your buttons, and why it's pointless to engage or retaliate. Parenting and supervision is working to a certain extent, but maybe a video is out there that would help drive the point home. The trolling has been happening mainly on Roblox and Playstation Network.
Procedure/workflow: How did you organize your time and work for independent projects?
I am looking for anecdotes about how people organized their work to launch a successful website or project independently. [more inside]
posted by Michele in California at 1:35 PM PST - 18 comments
posted by Michele in California at 1:35 PM PST - 18 comments
I knew being a parent wouldn't be easy, but this is really hard.
Help me be a better long-distance parent. [more inside]
Looking for cancer survival statistics by individual hospitals in England.
Looking for cancer survival statistics by individual hospitals in England. [more inside]
posted by paduasoy at 1:30 PM PST - 9 comments
posted by paduasoy at 1:30 PM PST - 9 comments
Conversational narcissist
How can I change my conversational narcissism? [more inside]
Am I crazy to try cutting my own hair?
My haircut is always short and simple. I saw this on Amazon and started wondering "Why don't I cut it myself?" Are you a guy with short hair who cuts it yourself? What would I need to know? [more inside]
posted by Mr Ected at 1:16 PM PST - 36 comments
posted by Mr Ected at 1:16 PM PST - 36 comments
Help me get the concert ticket I've always wanted.
What strategy should I employ to be most likely to get tickets to see Elizabeth Fraser at this year's Meltdown Festival? [more inside]
posted by Grangousier at 1:09 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by Grangousier at 1:09 PM PST - 6 comments
Is it possible to be certified in the United States of America as a veterinarian without ever performing a desexing?
Is it possible to be certified in the United States of America as a veterinarian without ever performing a desexing? [more inside]
posted by vash at 1:07 PM PST - 27 comments
posted by vash at 1:07 PM PST - 27 comments
Non-traditional financing options?
Looking for creative ways to finance a project/hobby when funds are low. [more inside]
Is there a way to be notified when something on my Amazon Wishlist is available cheaply?
Is there a way to be notified when something on my Amazon Wishlist is available cheaply? [more inside]
posted by madcaptenor at 12:54 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by madcaptenor at 12:54 PM PST - 7 comments
How do I make sure that my information is removed before taking my old eletronics for recycling?
What steps do I need to take before recycling my old computers? [more inside]
posted by asnider at 12:53 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by asnider at 12:53 PM PST - 10 comments
Looks like you need a costly car repair...not!
How do car dealer customer reps in the repair shop get paid? Salary? Commission? Both? [more inside]
First running injury and first race in the same week?
Running advice needed. First time with shin splints, first race coming up this weekend. [more inside]
Hey presto, your waterfall is a tomato plant!
I want to fill or cover a large water feature on my property so it's child-safe, does not require maintenance, and ideally, allows planters/planting. Advice? Online guides? Experience? [more inside]
Pink!
Help me go pink - mostly out of spite. [more inside]
We work in creative. We don't dress up. Or do we?
What does one take to the Cannes Lions in June? Dresses? Ball gown? Jeans? Flip-flops? Sunscreen? [more inside]
posted by functionequalsform at 11:59 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by functionequalsform at 11:59 AM PST - 5 comments
Can I put solid deck stain right over semitransparent?
New semi-transparent stain on deck is ugly. Can I put solid stain right over it? [more inside]
Amazon is now automatically generating pull quotes from similar customer reviews: How are they doing that?
Amazon recently started featuring pull quotes on product reviews that are automatically compiled from 'similar' customer statements. For example, take a look at top of the reviews section for an iPad.
At first I thought these might be manually maintained on popular products, but the pull quotes exist for some pretty obscure items with only a handful of reviews. They are obviously being procedurally compiled. I'm working on a project where this exact type of natural language processing could be very useful.
Is there a preexisting library available that offers functionality similar to what Amazon is doing here? Or could anybody point me in the right direction for understand the technology behind this better?
Would parents hire me?
I'm a mother (of a toddler) who works part time and is looking to make some extra money. I've considered babysitting jobs, but aside from raising my own son, I don't have much experience with kids aside from babysitting jobs I had when I was a teenager. No recent references. Could I get hired? [more inside]
posted by trillian at 11:39 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by trillian at 11:39 AM PST - 12 comments
Why won't Bill Moyers speak to Robert Caro?
Why won't Bill Moyers speak to Robert Caro? [more inside]
Expose me to new worlds!
What are some interesting blogs or sites about interesting lives, travel experiences, or people in general? [more inside]
Popcorn and Wagner
Are there any MeFites who go to The Met: Live in HD performances at their local movieplexes? In particular, did anyone catch the Ring Cycle in 2010 (in person or via Live in HD)? It's playing again over the next few weeks, and I'm trying to decide whether to commit the time and money for more than the new documentary about the production. I'd love to hear your opinions about the Met performances in particular, and about "live performance at the cinema" in general.
posted by catlet at 11:20 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by catlet at 11:20 AM PST - 10 comments
Prorating monthly fees
What is the right way to calculate daily rate for monthly charges? [more inside]
posted by primethyme at 11:06 AM PST - 10 comments
posted by primethyme at 11:06 AM PST - 10 comments
Where are you Auxiliary Badger?
Where did my bass boost go?
Windows 7 64: "Bass boost" became "bass management". I don't want this, and I don't want to play an endless game of cat and mouse with Windows Update. [more inside]
Ennui - why?
I feel really fed up and I don't know why or what to do about it. My current situation may be the best one for me at the moment, so why do I feel unhappy? (A lot of long snowflakiness inside.) [more inside]
How many times did 12 Angry Men approach mistrial-bait?
At what junctures, if any, do the jury deliberations in the classic film 12 Angry Men take a form that would probably result in a mistrial rather than acquittal if they were to become known to the court? I have linked to the full film on YouTube for convenience's sake. [more inside]
posted by The Confessor at 10:15 AM PST - 17 comments
posted by The Confessor at 10:15 AM PST - 17 comments
Looking for exploration/immersive puzzle games
I've been a long-time fan of the Myst series, but up until recently with Fez I didn't realize how much I missed atmospheric games based heavily on exploration and worldbuilding-type puzzles. Can anyone recommend more? [more inside]
Ideas for masters degrees, for which their is high demand for academic staff
I would like to work within a UK academic environment. Given my background what niche would give me the best chance of success? [more inside]
posted by choppyes at 10:02 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by choppyes at 10:02 AM PST - 14 comments
empirical studies on contemporary racism & discrimination
I'm interested in resources relating studies on discrimination in the United States today. I'm thinking of something along the lines of this Tim Wise post linking to a bunch of studies, but something a little more comprehensive, recent, without links through Facebook, if possible. Am particularly interested in data along the lines Wise mentions, about contemporary discrimination against African Americans in housing, employment, etc. Does this exist? Thanks!
Is it a mental disease that is curable? Feel it is difficult to focus.
It looks like procrastination, and I do not know where to start my graduate lab work. Is it a mental disease that is curable? Feel it is difficult to focus. [more inside]
posted by onkyo at 9:53 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by onkyo at 9:53 AM PST - 7 comments
cold weather clothing?
I'm trying to plan a trip to Fairbanks, Alaska next March in the hopes of seeing the northern lights. I'd be happy for any tips you might have in general for trips to alaska/northern lights viewing. However, my first concern (as I do more research) is clothing - I'm in Georgia, and doubt I have anything that is suitable for March in Fairbanks. (-20 to 50 degrees?) [more inside]
I don't wanna go!
Are they going to kick me out of grad school(linguistics phd)? [more inside]
upgrade iMac OS without App store?
How do I update my iMac to latest OS? [more inside]
Masters Graduation Gift
Graduation gift for a close friend getting their masters in education? (More inside) [more inside]
Can I get back into academia (particularly a hard science) after leaving?
Can I get back into academia (particularly a hard science) after leaving? [more inside]
Wedding shower etiquette in NYC
We've been invited to a wedding brunch/shower at a restaurant in NYC and I've already RSVP'd that we're attending - should I be expecting that we have to pay for our meal? [more inside]
What are these classical songs?
Please help me identify a couple of classical songs. [more inside]
posted by malocchio at 8:53 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by malocchio at 8:53 AM PST - 6 comments
Group Calendar for BlackBerry
I need to find a way to share a group calendar that will work with a Blackberry and a boss who doesn't like technology. Special Snowflake details inside. [more inside]
What are the ways we could expand services and support available to LGBT young people online?
What are the ways we could expand services and support available to LGBT young people online? [more inside]
posted by Kirn at 8:22 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Kirn at 8:22 AM PST - 7 comments
Help computer
I have a website that I would like to display a random youtube video upon load. I've seen some examples with PHP, but I cannot seem to properly implement them. [more inside]
MLB Gameday Audio damper?
MLB GamedayAudioFilter: I subscribe to MLB Gameday Audio. It has the streaming audio component, which I care about, and some replay ticker display thingy, which I don't. I have the audio on at an acceptable level, but then the commercials come on AND THEY'RE SUPER-FUCKING LOUD WHOA NELLY. Is there any sort of damper I can install on my Mac to counter this? [more inside]
posted by Capt. Renault at 7:47 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by Capt. Renault at 7:47 AM PST - 7 comments
Trying to change the world one opinion at a time
What is the most effective method of persuasion? Can I/how can I apply the best ones? I would love an in-depth, research-supported answer... anecdotes are also fine but I do have some personal caveats that I suspect will complicate things. [more inside]
posted by six-or-six-thirty at 7:43 AM PST - 20 comments
posted by six-or-six-thirty at 7:43 AM PST - 20 comments
Help me destroy a printer in the most satisfying way that will not end up in me being arrested.
Help me destroy a printer in the most satisfying way that will not end up in me being arrested. [more inside]
posted by lesbiassparrow at 7:41 AM PST - 62 comments
posted by lesbiassparrow at 7:41 AM PST - 62 comments
I'm looking to buy a smallish, modern gray couch for my new apartment. Catch: needs to be under $700. Help?
I'm looking to buy a smallish, modern gray couch for my new apartment. Catch: needs to be under $700. Help? [more inside]
Why is nobody replying to my sublet emails?
I am trying to find a summer sublet in Portland on Craigslist. I have sent out a handful of responses to ads, but so far, I haven't gotten any responses--not even a "sorry, it's been filled" or a "sorry, you're not what we are looking for". Is this standard when looking for sublets in a major city, or should I be rethinking the wording of my contact email? [more inside]
Tax issue or nonissue?
I think someone (semi-falsely, read on) wrote that they paid me a nominal amount on their tax return filed this year. I did not file, and did not need to. Several questions about filing, residence, and liability follow, somewhat NYC specific. [more inside]
FAM or IUD or baby but please god, no pill
Hate the Pill -- IUD or FAM? If so, how so? Snow flurry inside. [more inside]
Feeding the Teachers
Teacher Appreciation Lunch. What goes with submarine sandwiches, potato chips, and pasta salad? [more inside]
Is ABF super awesome?
Experiences with ABF U-Pack? [more inside]
You are getting verry sleepy... Spiral Umbrella!
Where can I get an umbrella with a spiral pattern? [more inside]
What's that phenomenon, theory, or "rule" that says that the first so many seconds of an online video are useless, so you may as well not watch them?
Seen here before, unable to locate now...
What's that phenomenon, theory, or "rule" that says that the first so many seconds of an online video are useless, so you may as well not watch them? [more inside]
posted by bricksNmortar at 6:06 AM PST - 3 comments
posted by bricksNmortar at 6:06 AM PST - 3 comments
Can I used celebrity photos on site?
What is the legal/permissable use of photos of famous people on my website? [more inside]
Tips for sleeping without the AC?
I want to attempt to sleep without turning on the air conditioning this summer, any lifehacking tips for training one's body to adapt to a 30°+ environment when sleeping? [more inside]
Is it possible to listen to realplayer ( links?) with itunes?
Is it possible to listen to realplayer ( links?) with itunes?
I enjoy listening to airchecks from the website reelradio.com. It seems that all their links to the audio they feature are all realplayer in origin. It would suit me better if I could listen to them in itunes. Is there a way to do this,hive? I know I can not download these. looking for a solution.
Disappearing power steering fault on a Toyota aygo
Power steering failure, AA guy said it was the alternator, dealership (where it's under warranty) claim they can find nothing wrong with the alternator or any aspect of the power steering. Warranty expires next month. What now. [more inside]
posted by cilantro at 4:08 AM PST - 14 comments
posted by cilantro at 4:08 AM PST - 14 comments
Method Range of Object Global failed
I'm starting to write some Excel-VBA Macros, but it seems I don't get some basic things. I tried this simple code: [more inside]
posted by SweetLiesOfBokonon at 3:49 AM PST - 6 comments
posted by SweetLiesOfBokonon at 3:49 AM PST - 6 comments
Confessionalism (Both Specifically and In General)
Besides the Wikipedia listings, who are some confessional poets, writers, visual artists and songwriters? I'm especially looking for contemporary confessional poets, writers, and visual artists. (I have the contemporary songwriters covered.) [more inside]
May 1
Anyone in Ottawa that can help me process some WVO into biodiesel?
I am looking for someone in Ottawa that can help me convert a few hundred liters of Waste vegetable oil into biodiesel. This is for a local organization, a sort of charity that is interested in environmental issues etc. but the processing doesn't have to be donated, we can pay for it. [more inside]
Do modern nations use exile as a punishment?
Do any nations use exile as a regular punishment? [more inside]
posted by the man of twists and turns at 10:30 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by the man of twists and turns at 10:30 PM PST - 16 comments
Translations of McDreamy
International Mefites who watch Grey's Anatomy! I'm looking for examples of how "McDreamy" is translated into other languages.
Finding a doc who uses LDN?
Do you take low dose naltrexone? How did you find a doctor willing to consider an off label use of a medication, even one as "safe" as this one? [more inside]
posted by gilsonal at 9:55 PM PST - 12 comments
posted by gilsonal at 9:55 PM PST - 12 comments
Book title search, Part Nthing
Please remember this historical novel title for me. I'm sure it's been at least 15 years since I read a novel about a stonemason's apprentice. The master mason marked his buildings with the letter "H". It takes place somewhere in medieval England, I think. [more inside]
My first time moving to a new state. Help me prepare!
I've never really moved before. I went off to college, sure, but that was in the same state, just a few hours from home. This is a different ballgame. I'll be leaving Iowa to live somewhere else for an extended period of time and this will be a first. I could use some help in preparing for this and advice on what to do when I get there. [more inside]
How should I sell my house?
I'm moving out of a duplex soon. The owner on the other side wants to buy my half - should I sell it directly to him or put it on the market? [more inside]
I'm transgender and I need to go (on the) straight (and narrow).
I am transgender (transsexual MTF). I am self-medicating and I need to go legit. I am looking for a recommendation for a therapist in NYC (and possibly an endocrinologist) who is accepting new patients and is willing to work with the fact that I am self-medicating (and hoping to stop self-medicating and go legit). [more inside]
posted by sokkupapetto at 8:46 PM PST - 14 comments
posted by sokkupapetto at 8:46 PM PST - 14 comments
not the van morrison band, and not the pronoun either
Three of the four books in Joyce Carol Oates' Wonderland Quartet are available as eBooks. Why isn't the fourth? [more inside]
Nice tomatoes!
Our lovely neighbor just stopped by to gift us a couple of tomato plants -- apparently they germinated more than they needed. I am excited! I am also sort of clueless about growing vegetables (yes, I know tomatoes are a fruit). I seek your wisdom. [more inside]
posted by That's Numberwang! at 8:25 PM PST - 13 comments
posted by That's Numberwang! at 8:25 PM PST - 13 comments
iCal replacement
I need an iCal replacement for Mac OS 10.6... [more inside]
posted by bongo_x at 7:45 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by bongo_x at 7:45 PM PST - 19 comments
Hive got to get some recipe ideas from The Hive
Have you eaten a low histamine diet? What do you eat? [more inside]
posted by vitabellosi at 7:42 PM PST - 10 comments
posted by vitabellosi at 7:42 PM PST - 10 comments
Considerations buying a car in Chicago to take to Brooklyn.
Living in Brooklyn, what do I need to know about buying a new car in Chicago and bringing it back? [more inside]
posted by cgk at 7:26 PM PST - 1 comment
posted by cgk at 7:26 PM PST - 1 comment
How to determine immigration status of ex-wife after immigration/marriage fraud?
I, a U.S. citizen, married a foreign national some time ago and helped her obtain conditional permanent resident status as a result of the marriage. I subsequently discovered that she had no intent of engaging in a legitimate marital relationship with me and, instead, had married me for the sole purpose of becoming a permanent resident of the United States. Upon this discovery, I filed for an annulment but was instead granted a divorce (details inside).
My immigrant ex-wife will soon need to apply (via the I-751 process) to convert her "conditional" permanent resident status to "true" permanent resident status if she wishes to remain in the United States legally (which she does). I do not know whether she will be granted this status, but I would like to find out whether or not she does attain it. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I might find this out? [more inside]
Need to lock an interior door of an old house
I need a way to lock an interior door of an old house with old doorknobs. It has a skeleton lock but we have no key. Can we replace an old knob like this? [more inside]
Interview Scheduling & the new grad - advice?
I'm a recent MLIS grad who just scored an interview with a municipal information management office. Unfortunately, the job is 4 hours away and Greyhound can't get me there for a face to face interview before mid afternoon. I plan to ask about interview slots in the late afternoon, but would it be unreasonable to ask about a skype interview if none are available? Other suggestions are also very welcome.
posted by peppermind at 6:45 PM PST - 8 comments
posted by peppermind at 6:45 PM PST - 8 comments
Help me fix my old lady knees.
How can I strengthen my knees? [more inside]
posted by futureisunwritten at 6:26 PM PST - 19 comments
posted by futureisunwritten at 6:26 PM PST - 19 comments
Is this weird or not?
At a physical checkup I met a med-school student who was touring around with the doctor learning to diagnose, etc. She seemed sweet. Would it be weird to call the office and ask her to lunch?
posted by uncannyslacks at 6:23 PM PST - 28 comments
posted by uncannyslacks at 6:23 PM PST - 28 comments
The Butthole Dialogues
How to rectify (har har) anal itching. [more inside]
Fun research paper ideas
Fun, interesting research paper ideas! [more inside]
posted by goosechasing at 5:58 PM PST - 16 comments
posted by goosechasing at 5:58 PM PST - 16 comments
I know credit card companies are smart, but can I be smarter?
So I'm considering applying for a new credit card for the sign-up promotion. I know this is generally not a great policy. but how bad of an idea is it really in terms of credit score? [more inside]
Neighbor damaging my plants -- need a nannycam
Neighbors (?) deliberately cutting down our young plants. They have been nasty to us before. Considering a "nanny cam" to train on the not-cheap plants ... would like a) advice on nanny cams to suit our purposes; b) any other avenues to consider? [more inside]
I can't believe I don't understand
What is this New Zealand flight attendant saying in this Air New Zealand safety video? [more inside]
posted by andrewesque at 5:37 PM PST - 11 comments
posted by andrewesque at 5:37 PM PST - 11 comments
Can This Computer Be Saved, Part Deux
So I asked a laptop-seems-to-be-dying question last week, and through trial and error I've discovered a trick to make it work...but it's not ideal or optimal, and I was wondering if my new information might bring about any new advice as to what might be wrong with it/how to fix it. [more inside]
Chick Lit in the City
I want chick-lit books set in New York City or London. [more inside]
Eastern Europe two week jaunt
Help me plan my Eastern Europe trip this Summer [more inside]
Birthday party planning advice needed
As host, should I pay? Should I even I bring it up? [more inside]
posted by hellameangirl at 4:04 PM PST - 78 comments
posted by hellameangirl at 4:04 PM PST - 78 comments
A Symphony, Divided?
Is there anywhere to listen to the component parts of a piece of classical music? [more inside]
posted by ilana at 3:55 PM PST - 6 comments
posted by ilana at 3:55 PM PST - 6 comments
Okay. Umm... Under "Weaknesses" you've put eczema.
Help me get back into the job market after nearly a decade of some combination of drug addiction and self employment. [more inside]
Advice On Starting A Personal Chef / Meal Delivery Business?
Recently I've been considering starting a small personal chef business. I was hoping there might be some personal chefs here on MeFi that could offer me some advice/tips. [more inside]
When to pull the plug?
Family Drama Filter: Please help me sort out this situation. My parents are very difficult people and I'm considering cutting off ties. Help. [more inside]
posted by floweredfish at 3:22 PM PST - 50 comments
posted by floweredfish at 3:22 PM PST - 50 comments
Why don't tornado warning sirens sound continuously?
Why don't tornado warning sirens sound continuously? [more inside]
Learn Spanish while working fulltime
Have you successfully learned Spanish while working and without travel? What was your process? [more inside]
How to deduct expenses when consulting abroad?
received 1099-misc. i earned this income over 8 months while consulting for an american company abroad.any special deductions for me?easy way to deduct daily expenses?advice? [more inside]
Should I include 1099 work when filing for unemployment in CA?
My employment history is a crazy jumbled mess. Help me file for unemployment, Hive Mind! [more inside]
Should I contact this interesting guy?
Should I text, friend, or otherwise contact a guy I met in a bar on Sunday? I've never really met a romantic interest this way before and have always been a bit leery of it. But he seemed cool. [more inside]
posted by sucky_poppet at 1:57 PM PST - 46 comments
posted by sucky_poppet at 1:57 PM PST - 46 comments
Double vision with an unknown cause: where do I go from here?
Double vision with an unknown cause: where do I go from here? [more inside]
Living with my Wife's Cats
Please help me find a reasonable way to handle being an unwilling co-owner of two cats [more inside]
posted by Beacon Inbound at 1:09 PM PST - 80 comments
posted by Beacon Inbound at 1:09 PM PST - 80 comments
Practicing is a pain in the...finger?
Is this pain in my first ring finger knuckle from guitar playing normal? [more inside]
posted by quiet coyote at 1:01 PM PST - 7 comments
posted by quiet coyote at 1:01 PM PST - 7 comments
Paint the town RED!
New York City vacation! Metafilter made San Francisco so memorable, can you do the same with New York? [more inside]
Text Widget Generator?
Is there a tool that would let me embed a semi-random text generator? [more inside]
Stop the sucking sound!
How can I make my new leather orthotics barefoot-friendly? [more inside]
Scooped
I'm making ice cream for my friend's wedding at the end of this month. I need to figure out how many gallons of ice cream I should make, how to store them and how to serve them. Can you help us navigate the logistical details? [more inside]
Looking for an Old Article on a Woman Taking Testosterone
Years ago, I read an article by a woman who took large doses of testosterone. I cannot remember if this was a FtM transexual, or just a woman who took it for the purposes of the article. One bit I remember: she said she was walking down the street and was amazed at the urge to fuck everyone in sight. Can anyone dig this up for me?
Don't lean on me
Leaning on my elbow is causing my shoulder much grief. And yet I keep doing it! How do I stop? [more inside]
What neighborhoods should I consider in Seattle?
If I'm moving to Seattle from NYC this summer and have time to scope out ~3 neighborhoods on a quick upcoming trip, where should I start? I'm having trouble squaring good advice I see online with my commute situation, which is that I intend to take the Software Company shuttle bus to Redmond. [more inside]
posted by bradamant at 11:40 AM PST - 39 comments
posted by bradamant at 11:40 AM PST - 39 comments
How to deal with measurement and adjustment for online glasses?
How to deal with measurement and adjustment for online glasses? [more inside]
How can I bring my sibling home?
What legal avenues exist for blocking a potentially negligent relative foster parent arrangement? New parents reside in Southeast Asia. Special snowflake details within. [more inside]
How to properly organize work history?
Need assistance with resume chronological order of work history. [more inside]
posted by delasoull at 10:43 AM PST - 7 comments
posted by delasoull at 10:43 AM PST - 7 comments
I need advice in establishing a "targeted" charity
When I was getting my Master's degree, my mentors suggested I continue on to a Ph.D. The application fees alone were enough to make me laugh, but a kind person paid those fees for me and I eventually was accepted into a program.
I've always wanted to pay this gift forward by helping to pay college-related fees for other aspiring students at my alma mater, and would like to do so in the name of the person who did this for me. [more inside]
posted by Piscean at 10:41 AM PST - 8 comments
posted by Piscean at 10:41 AM PST - 8 comments
How to show appreciation for a miracle?
Our favorite parakeet (a 5 year old little sweetie who came to us as a rescue) just spent 48 hours as a wild bird, and three people were instrumental in returning her safely to us. Please help us decide on the perfect gifts of appreciation. [more inside]
posted by cakebatter at 10:37 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by cakebatter at 10:37 AM PST - 5 comments
Just go to SLEEEEP already!
How can I get my toddler to go to sleep on his own after spoiling him like I have? [more inside]
posted by daydreamer at 10:35 AM PST - 26 comments
posted by daydreamer at 10:35 AM PST - 26 comments
Best way to record acoustic guitar songs?
What's the best way to record acoustic guitar songs? [more inside]
posted by StephenF at 10:16 AM PST - 9 comments
posted by StephenF at 10:16 AM PST - 9 comments
Help me ATT. You're my only hope
How do I rent property for a cell phone tower? And who do I call to do it? [more inside]
She Really Deserves Something Special
I'm looking for a meaningful and beautiful, but inexpensive, gift for a young woman who has successfully completed a treatment-oriented sentence, remaining drug and alcohol free for two years. She also aced her treatment program and has found and retained a good job. [more inside]
posted by bearwife at 9:35 AM PST - 12 comments
posted by bearwife at 9:35 AM PST - 12 comments
Shut out the world!
Please recommend your favourite in-ear/earbud noise-cancelling headphones with an iPod/iPhone control and mic. [more inside]
Automated way of checking commercial DVDs for errors?
How to verify library patron complaints about freezing, skipping, & other issues with our movies on DVD? [more inside]
Trendy backpack or tote
Trendy Backpack [more inside]
I need someone to sit on my cats.
I need a cat sitter recommendation for the Upper East Side. [more inside]
Where can I find a cheap psychiatrist in Los Angeles?
[Los Angeles filter] I don't have insurance. How can I find a psychiatrist who will continue my current prescription for cheap? [more inside]
Triangle-shaped literary magazine?
I am looking for any information about a triangle-shaped literary magazine that was published in Northampton, MA in the 1980s. [more inside]
Anything I can do to improve poor headphone sound quality with on-board Realtek HD?
Anything I can do to improve poor headphone sound quality with on-board Realtek HD? [more inside]
Cleaning multiple months of cat litter
Cleaning a severely neglected house with (non-neglected) resident cats [more inside]
Any positive experiences with moving? Any at all?
Moving across the country and I'm overwhelmed and confused by the reviews about moving companies. Help? [more inside]
Mudwoman aspirations
Is 3 months a feasible time frame to train for a Mudman race when I can't currently lift my bodyweight? [more inside]
posted by jillithd at 8:04 AM PST - 11 comments
posted by jillithd at 8:04 AM PST - 11 comments
Am I qualified to make these home renovations?
I just bought a small brick 1960s ranch house and I want to: 1) cover the outside of the cinder-block lower level with something like stucco, 2) get rid of the crappy grass in the yard and replace it with nice grass, and 3) replace the crappy vinyl siding with something like wood siding. Can a dummy like me pull this off? [more inside]
VROOM VROOM
Thinking about going to the Laguna Seca MotoGP races this summer with my 6 year old girl who is into racing. Is this a family-friendly event? Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by H. Roark at 7:50 AM PST - 5 comments
posted by H. Roark at 7:50 AM PST - 5 comments
No couch, no problem?
Couch arriving much later than expected (over a month), having guests up before then, best options? [more inside]
Healthy recreational cooking ideas...?
My wife loves baking cakes, but I'd really like her to stop. What other things could she cook that meet her requirements and mine? [more inside]
How do I make it through a long, pointless meeting?
I need advice on surviving a corporate retreat with my sanity intact. This isn't a "'fun' activity leads to team bonding" kind of retreat, it's a "sit in a conference room for hours discussing the future of our unit" retreat. So, essentially, a six-hour meeting, and I am not good with meetings. [more inside]
The Working Class Goes To Heaven
Happy May 1, everyone! Movie questions - I'm putting together a film series showing radical comedy about being working class/pink collar/lower-middle-class, mostly drawn from the sixties, seventies and early eighties. Or at least I hope I am - this was inspired by realizing how great 9 to 5 is and a vague memory of seeing reruns of other movies with a similar sensibility on the late show in the late eighties and early nineties. [more inside]
How to use this capital letters?
I'm learning English and I found the sentence, "Most Likely to Succeed." on the internet. Why are they spelled with a capital initial? Is there any particular rule of English grammar...? How different from "most likely to succeed" ?
posted by mizukko at 7:08 AM PST - 13 comments
posted by mizukko at 7:08 AM PST - 13 comments
Please help me set up a new Windows computer the correct way.
Please help me set up a new Windows computer the correct way. [more inside]
I don't want to give Apple any more money for a crummy speaker
It's me or the dog! Or both of us and a lifetime of sulking
My friend has a dog. Her boyfriend hates the dog. She would like to keep both of them, and has asked me for advice. What to tell her? [more inside]
posted by Catseye at 5:43 AM PST - 98 comments
posted by Catseye at 5:43 AM PST - 98 comments
Is is this thing on?
Why do people say "is is" when they mean "is?" [more inside]
posted by Infinity_8 at 5:20 AM PST - 72 comments
posted by Infinity_8 at 5:20 AM PST - 72 comments
Building a modular/portable stage
Plans/suggestions for constuction a low portable (modular, sectioned) stage? [more inside]
Growlers in London?
(Beerfilter) Where can I buy take-away jugs of fresh draught beer in London, UK? [more inside]
posted by narcotizingdysfunction at 2:58 AM PST - 18 comments
posted by narcotizingdysfunction at 2:58 AM PST - 18 comments