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April 30
Is this a good goal?
I have a personal goal to do karaoke in the future. It's not because I enjoy making a spectacle of myself in public or want to show off my singing voice (to the contrary!), it's because I currently have severe social phobia. I think doing something that anxiety-inducing would be a great stepping stone and I'd also like to use that hopefully positive experience as a marker for how far I've come. What songs would suit an otherwise mediocre female voice that surprisingly sounds decent singing There Is A Light That Never Goes Out by The Smiths and most of Bohemian Rhapsody by Queen? I'd prefer if the songs are available on your average bar's jukebox, but feel free to suggest obscure songs. Genre does not matter.
posted by Sara Bellum at 11:35 PM PST - 26 comments

Looking for a "strength training 101" book/resource.
Looking for a "strength training 101" book/resource. [more inside]
posted by lunchbox at 9:32 PM PST - 13 comments

A Pokey Little Radio Station
What are some pokey radio stations that play old country/forgotten 45's/big band/bluegrass/rockabilly from the 1920's-1960's that I can listen to online for free? [more inside]
posted by shortyJBot at 9:03 PM PST - 24 comments

Get us off the couch!
I'm looking for personal trainer & weight loss coach recommendations in the Seattle area. Help me, please! [more inside]
posted by azuresunday at 8:19 PM PST - 3 comments

Feed me!
Where should we eat vegetarian brunch in Baltimore tomorrow? [more inside]
posted by cheerwine at 7:50 PM PST - 12 comments

Las Vegas shared housing rentals
Las Vegas Shared Housing Monthly Room Rentals... I realize that Las Vegas has been hit hard economically, but are these shared housing monthly room rentals I see on Craigslist for real... $350/$500 for what appear to be rentals in very nice single family homes, etc.? Thinking of "picking one up" as an inexpensive escape as a second "home"... feedback appreciated re red flags, etc. Or have I simply been out of the rental mkt too long and don't appreciate opportunities that exist...
posted by america4 at 7:11 PM PST - 8 comments

How to become a family lawyer in New York City?
I want to work in family law in New York City and I don't really know where to start. [more inside]
posted by Salamandrous at 6:46 PM PST - 8 comments

Cedar Key advance planning
Have you been to Cedar Key, FL? [more inside]
posted by galadriel at 5:43 PM PST - 3 comments

Scratching Puppy
My 15 week old Golden Retriever pup scratches a lot. She doesn't have fleas or ticks. What kind of allergy could cause this? What should I do?
posted by psc1860 at 5:33 PM PST - 18 comments

Does this situation sound like stress-induced erectile dysfunction?
Does this situation sound like stress-induced erectile dysfunction? What can I do about it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 5:14 PM PST - 4 comments

Can I help my mom loose the weight?
My mother is obese. Can I help her? [more inside]
posted by your mom's a sock puppet at 4:46 PM PST - 25 comments

Digital Media in SF
Is there a digital-media/arts-type place in San Francisco that provides access to computers and digital technology - something like The Edge in Brisbane? [more inside]
posted by divabat at 4:45 PM PST - 3 comments

DIY Matchstick Bamboo Blinds?
I'm looking to install roll up bamboo blinds on a very wide, but short, length of windows. It would be very expensive to order them to spec, and I'm looking into making my own. The mechanism is very basic, and I imagine the material is very cheap. I just can't find shades on their own, not pre-assembled. [more inside]
posted by daboo at 4:20 PM PST - 5 comments

Lull Me To Sleep Without Using Enya
Seeking suggestions for mellow and soothing pop music. [more inside]
posted by EmpressCallipygos at 4:17 PM PST - 40 comments

Don't let my fiancé drown!
My fiancé had plans to drive from Houston to Saint Louis over the next two days. Now it's looking like there is a lot of flooding in the Memphis area and Southeast Missouri. Should she worry, or re-route her drive? What's the best route to take given current conditions? [more inside]
posted by raygan at 3:19 PM PST - 18 comments

Does your body go into starvation mode?
Nutrition filter: I have read a lot of articles about how if you consume less than 1200 calories your body goes into "starvation mode." I have read other articles that claim it is just a myth. Anyone have any sense of the truth of this? Thank for your help!
posted by Equiprimordial at 3:11 PM PST - 16 comments

Catering a Baltimore area wedding
Do you have recommendations for caterer in the Baltimore, MD area for my sister's wedding? [more inside]
posted by sciencegeek at 2:30 PM PST - 6 comments

How to enjoy a city break without walking?
My mother has recently been diagnosed with arthritis of the hips. She's going to Florence on holidays summer and is used to doing lots of walking: recommendations? [more inside]
posted by hannahlambda at 2:10 PM PST - 7 comments

Windows for Dummies. No, the glass kind.
My house needs new windows. I do not want the traditional window salesman vinyl. Every home renovation board seems to be geared to step 17 (this brand, this thing) in the process. And every window sales place feels scamtastic. What's step 1 to getting the windows I need? [more inside]
posted by Gucky at 1:51 PM PST - 13 comments

BUDT ZDAROV!
I'm in Moscow for the week. Where is the "Lower East Side" or "Williamsburg" of Moscow? [more inside]
posted by spicynuts at 1:42 PM PST - 1 comments

Any way to find this 2002 N.Y. Real Estate Law Reporter article today?
Desperately seeking article from 2002 N.Y. Real Estate Law Reporter [more inside]
posted by Majorita at 12:50 PM PST - 10 comments

Help a bipedal human get on two wheels.
Bikefilter: I know zilch about bikes. What kind of bike do I want? [more inside]
posted by greta simone at 12:49 PM PST - 22 comments

She's the 2nd parent, not me?
How do I deal with my MIL who has inappropriate boundary issues with her grandchilden (my stepchildren) and is treating me poorly as a result? [more inside]
posted by moojoose at 12:37 PM PST - 36 comments

New entrant to a Phd programme, any and all tips welcome!
I've started a Phd and would like to get tips and advise from those who have walked the path before me. [more inside]
posted by Mutant at 12:26 PM PST - 10 comments

Cheapest GPU supporting latest CUDA features?
What is the minimal Nvidia GPU that supports all the newest features for CUDA programming? [more inside]
posted by scose at 12:18 PM PST - 5 comments

I assume this means I can't end up in someone else's body either.
IANAL, and you may or may not be, but why is it is illegal to marry for insurance purposes? [more inside]
posted by jenlovesponies at 12:16 PM PST - 12 comments

Passport stamps are not Pokemon cards.
My boyfriend and I are going to have a five-hour layover in Berlin on Tuesday morning. Would that be enough time to leave the airport and grab breakfast somewhere? And if so, where should we go? [more inside]
posted by evidenceofabsence at 11:37 AM PST - 10 comments

What was this 'traditional' pub sport I (think I) saw on TV?
Some time in the last 12 months, I watched a BBC programme in which the presenters visited an event held outside a pub somewhere in England. According to my vague recollection, the point was to fish a rag out of a bucket of beer using the end of a broomstick, and then fling said beery rag at bystanders. I had thought that the programme in question was Oz and James Drink to Britain, and that this had taken place in Lewes, East Sussex, but even with variations on those things as search terms I can find no reference to this online. Has anyone heard of this? What is it called? Where and when does it take place?
posted by Pre-Taped Call In Show at 11:23 AM PST - 2 comments

How Do You "Break Up" with Another Dude?
How Do You "Break Up" with Another Dude? I think I remember my present problem turning up on Seinfeld or Friends or something, which makes sense because it's kind of absurd. When a romantic relationship no longer functions, there are some established processes and social mores. When a regular friendship maybe needs to end or be heavily renegotiated, the way to proceed is much less clear. Help? [more inside]
posted by EatTheWeak at 10:39 AM PST - 36 comments

Am I a relationship freak?
I'm a 29 year old straight female, and I've never been in a grown up relationship. Is there something really wrong with me? [more inside]
posted by dithmer at 10:38 AM PST - 26 comments

Riding the roads of northern New Jersey
Help me figure out where to ride my road bike in northern New Jersey. I'm looking for a 20- to 30-mile ride in a rural(ish) area--or at least some place where there are as few cars as possible. [more inside]
posted by bassomatic at 10:32 AM PST - 11 comments

How do I do something nice for Mother's Day when I normally try to avoid my mother?
What do I do for Mother's Day given that (1) she has brought me quite a bit of stress over the past few years and (2) her own mother passed away a few months ago? [more inside]
posted by Terriniski at 10:26 AM PST - 10 comments

Is my hair uncolorable?
Is my hair uncolorable? [more inside]
posted by LaurenIpsum at 9:49 AM PST - 22 comments

Streaks on the machine
PC Screen Cleaning: What's the best way to clean a PC monitor? Tried water, scared of windex, changed the cloth type -- still have wipe marks and dust. Home readies or commercials solutions with type of cloth to use appreciated.
posted by Funmonkey1 at 9:41 AM PST - 16 comments

Cocktail mixes for home-infused vodka
Cocktail ideas for home-infused vodkas: Strawberry, cantaloupe, vanilla-caramel, chai tea, tea with lemon and honey, bacon. [more inside]
posted by arcticwoman at 9:17 AM PST - 22 comments

If the shoe fits
Recommend a new shoe for my job that requires high speed continuous walking for about 10-15 miles per day. [more inside]
posted by santojulieta at 8:53 AM PST - 13 comments

How to overcome fear of rejection in relationships
I’m a 28 y/o woman who has finally found someone that I admire, who loves me dearly, and isn't a huge pain in my ass --and I'm hoping to make this last! Please help me to not ruin this wonderful thing! [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:53 AM PST - 17 comments

Roku Player Hookup
I would like to try a Roku Player to watch Netflix streaming vidoes on my TV. How do I hook up to my standard TV with a Dish Network Receiver and a Sony Blu Ray Player? [more inside]
posted by sandyp at 8:19 AM PST - 5 comments

Name that tune?
What melody is this? [more inside]
posted by attente at 7:34 AM PST - 3 comments

Why is poorly constructed text published?
NonFiction Filter: How come text in some published (non-fiction) texts is so poorly constructed? Why are bad examples not removed in the process of getting a book published? Is it down to cost, time, author's prerogative? (I include an example inside) [more inside]
posted by 92_elements at 7:27 AM PST - 19 comments

What Did I Eat Last Night? (No This Isn't About Food Poisoning.)
Last night I at something at a Northern Indian restaurant that was really terrible tasting. Any ideas what it might have been? [more inside]
posted by JohntheContrarian at 7:04 AM PST - 11 comments

compass without direction
is there a term for when a compass is going haywire and cant find a direction or at least for when the needle spins around? [more inside]
posted by skwint at 6:58 AM PST - 9 comments

Looking for advice on pitching a pop science book
Advice on approaching publishers for a popular science book? [more inside]
posted by metaBugs at 6:48 AM PST - 7 comments

Sway, sway, baby, you're so audio
What can I put on my MP3 player to get me through hours of much-hated housework & chores, particularly now that I'm packing up to move house (not long after I finished unpacking after the last move, dammit, so I haven't much motivation)? [more inside]
posted by malibustacey9999 at 5:13 AM PST - 18 comments

Port forward HTTPS on 443 to IIS server doesn't work
An IIS web server won't respond to port forwarded requests from the world on 443, but will reply to port forwarded requests on port 80. The IIS web server will answer on 80 and 443 on the LAN. I tried a new router, as well. [more inside]
posted by Runcible Spoon at 5:06 AM PST - 6 comments

Softball in the city.
Can anyone recommend a good softball league to join in the East Village? I'm a male, with above average skill level.
posted by Human's Nephew at 5:01 AM PST - 2 comments

We started with sex. Then liked each other a lot. Now how do we slow down?
I met a girl from a club and we had sex. She had a boyfriend then (she cheated on him with me). She is now single & we have been incredibly close. I think I'm being clingy and I need help BIGTIME because I really like her. [more inside]
posted by Vandal at 3:16 AM PST - 25 comments

What Chicago neighborhood should we move to?
ChicagoFilter: We're looking to move out of our miserable Hyde Park apartment. Hooray! We don't know anything about the rest of Chicago. What neighborhoods should we be looking at when one of us will be commuting via public transit to Northeastern Illinois University (in North Park) and one half will be commuting (with a car) to Hyde Park? Budget-friendly ideas welcome--we're just looking for anything with more grocery stores and a shorter commute time to NEIU than Hyde Park.
posted by besonders at 2:22 AM PST - 9 comments

Whyfore you play your fiddle, Nero? Burn my Blu-rays!
What's the best Blu-ray burning software out there? [more inside]
posted by CarlRossi at 12:00 AM PST - 4 comments

April 29
Does my cat have allergies?
My new kitten gets congested at night. Is she allergic to something? [more inside]
posted by mrfuga0 at 10:07 PM PST - 11 comments

Nutritionist?
Careers related to nutrition/diet that don't involve working with people as clients/patients? [more inside]
posted by mbird at 9:42 PM PST - 6 comments

Moving a bookcase without breaking it or myself
Anyone have experience moving an Ikea EXPEDIT bookcase? [more inside]
posted by ms.codex at 9:39 PM PST - 25 comments

Let's Say Hilary Won the Presidential Election. Would Bill Be Called FLOTUS?
If Hilary Clinton had become President of the United States, how would Bill Clinton have been referred to? He would obviously not be called The First Lady, so how would he be styled? And would he still be addressed as 'Mr. President' in the company of his wife, who would presumably be 'Madam President'? Are there any clearly set out protocols for address in this situation?
posted by gerls at 9:34 PM PST - 18 comments

word for a work within a work?
(for a friend) I am looking for "the word used to describe a description of a work of art or poem within another work--its a term used in art history and poetics, and it drives me crazy that it escapes me."
posted by idiopath at 9:29 PM PST - 10 comments

Heavy on the Salsa Please
Need your best Latin dance music STAT! [more inside]
posted by Ys at 8:51 PM PST - 5 comments

What's the name of this genre of Japanese porn? (NSFW, of course)
What's the name of this genre of Japanese porn? (NSFW, of course) Okay: Several women basically have their way with a very passive (or overwhelmed or mildly incapacitated) man. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:03 PM PST - 6 comments

I'm alive! Now what?
A medical condition that should have killed me didn't. I'm just understanding (three years later) just how lucky I was. What are some ways that I can keep this feeling of being lucky and grateful to be alive in happy, life-affirming (i.e., not morbid or overly emo) ways? [more inside]
posted by devotion+doubt at 7:17 PM PST - 20 comments

Help me sit!
I once stumbled upon a site offering a belt-like device to be worn around one's (bent) knees in order to sit comfortably without a chair. Do you know where to find this? [more inside]
posted by cp311 at 6:45 PM PST - 7 comments

Reddit acting goofy in FF.
My reddit page suddenly started looking like this. What's going on? I'm on an iMac running Snow Leopard, with the latest Firefox 4. [more inside]
posted by zardoz at 6:30 PM PST - 6 comments

Good translations of Cervantes and Tolsoy?
I'm up for tackling some big all-time classics, especially Don Quixote and War and Peace, and I'm wondering which translations to get. [more inside]
posted by Rinku at 6:11 PM PST - 19 comments

Housewarming Gifts For People I Don't Know
What is an appropriate housewarming gift for someone I don't know in person? [more inside]
posted by iLoveTheRain at 6:02 PM PST - 12 comments

Waking up with knee pain - why?
About once a week, I wake up with a searing pain on the inside of my top knee (if I'm sleeping on my right hand side, it's my left knee that hurts). The only way to get out of it is to physically hold my knee, take the weight of my leg, and move it into a different / straighter position. Once I've done that, the pain completely goes away and there is no after-effect at all - I can get out of bed and run around with no residual pain whatsoever. But I don't think this is normal... [more inside]
posted by finding.perdita at 5:43 PM PST - 10 comments

Best Recent iPad games for two different types of users?
Well it happened. I'm officially bored with all my ipad/iphone games. The App store has exploded recently and I'm pretty binary on the things I like, plus I've got to share the device with another game-lover with different tastes . What are the best, new iPad/iPhone games? [more inside]
posted by The Whelk at 5:40 PM PST - 49 comments

This is what happens when Mr. Wuzandfuzz goes to Costco alone - Nacho Cheese Filter
Anyone have any good (and I realize this may be relative) recipes that use nacho cheese sauce besides nachos? [more inside]
posted by wuzandfuzz at 5:27 PM PST - 13 comments

Hungry Authors are no fun.
O wise MeFites, I am looking for somewhere to take a group of 11 people for a business lunch somewhere walkable from Coit Tower. We are willing to go as far as the Ferry Building for delicious food. We are looking to spend about $20 per person for a nice lunch in a sit-down restaurant. Where shall we go? [more inside]
posted by chatongriffes at 4:56 PM PST - 11 comments

Only one Guardian?
Shows like The Guardian? Definitely… [more inside]
posted by dpcoffin at 4:52 PM PST - 9 comments

Renew US Passport
Renewing US Passport problem [more inside]
posted by allelopath at 4:42 PM PST - 6 comments

How to raise funds for trails?
What are your best fundraising ideas for a new non-profit focused on trail building for mountain biking/hiking? Another local trail building org has used raffles, film festivals, and races/contests. [more inside]
posted by jeffmac at 4:38 PM PST - 5 comments

East Capitol/Potomac Ave Safe?
How dangerous is Potomac Ave Metro area of DC (East Capitol) compared to the rest of Capitol Hill, Eastern Market or Columbia Heights? [more inside]
posted by whoaali at 4:07 PM PST - 16 comments

How do I convince the NSF that I really don't want to be part of a long term panel study?
I am a part of a joint National Science Foundation (NSF)/National Institutes of Health (NIH) panel study, and seemingly will be for the rest of my life. But I do not wish to be. How do I put my foot down and get out of it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:55 PM PST - 15 comments

To Eat It or Not To Eat It?
We've recently moved into a new place with an empty lot. The previous tenants used parts of the lot to garden, but it's now overgrown with a mix of food plants and weeds. Over the past month, we've had this plant popping up. It looks sort of spinachy, but we don't want to start mixing it into salads unless it's actually edible. Can anyone identify it? Closer look here.
posted by tau_ceti at 3:37 PM PST - 15 comments

Pantech jest unsupported directory?
I wanted to download pictures from my Pantech Jest phone. I was using a Scandisk adapter, placed in my camera, then tried to download to my computer. They don't show up. When I place the Micro Scandisk back into the card, I get an error message that says "files are found in unsupported directory please move them to the proper directory". How do I do this? And can I do this from the phone?
posted by Mimidae at 3:37 PM PST - 3 comments

I like spicy fish soup. But nobody will be there to make it for me.
I want a crockpot recipe I can make overnight that tastes like Bahama Breeze's "Bahamian Seafood Chowder" [more inside]
posted by Vorteks at 3:23 PM PST - 2 comments

Money in Berlin
I'm moving to Berlin for the summer, and I need to know how I should go about transfering living funds over. I'll be getting 3000 Euro when I get there, but that will not be enough to live on for the entire summer. Should I exchange them into Euros? Should I use my US credit card? Should I get a German bank account. I would love any advice you can give me.
posted by outlandishmarxist at 3:21 PM PST - 9 comments

JFK Assassination : Books You Would Recommend?
I finished reading Richard Belzer's hilarious book UFOs, JFK, and Elvis: Conspiracies You Don't Have to Be Crazy to Believe and it has gotten me interested in the JFK assassination. I then looked at a YouTube video that basically used a computer sim that showed the shooting coming from the book depository. My main question: Can any mefite recommend a book or three (of the million written) on the subject that they enjoy and find convincing on the assassination? I am open to any suggestions. Feel free to share your thoughts on the subject.
posted by snap_dragon at 3:06 PM PST - 21 comments

Help me impose structure.
Desperately disorganized person seeks realistic routine. [more inside]
posted by Buffaload at 2:44 PM PST - 8 comments

Flash numeric output
Why have my numeric output fields stopped working in Flash 11? [more inside]
posted by Chocolate Pickle at 2:40 PM PST - 4 comments

Shopping for Homeowners Insurance
Homowners' Insurance Filter: Should I stay with Hanover or try another agent and keep shopping? [more inside]
posted by Dr. Zira at 2:37 PM PST - 5 comments

Help Me Get Past The Dread Of A Long Trip
I am looking at a drive of 1300 miles in the next two weeks. How do I get past the dread? [more inside]
posted by Mickelstiff at 2:34 PM PST - 38 comments

Entertaining oneself while doing nothing?
What can I do to get through having to sit 12 hours for ten days doing nothing? Nothing! [more inside]
posted by JJkiss at 2:28 PM PST - 92 comments

uote about the evils of writing or technology
Looking for an ancient greek quote about the evils of writing or technology. [more inside]
posted by turtlefu at 2:25 PM PST - 5 comments

How much does milk cost anyway?
Why has the cost of milk gone up so rapidly, proportionally speaking? Five weeks ago, I could find milk for $2 a gallon; yesterday, the cheapest I found was $2.49 a gallon at Costco, and that was only if you bought two gallons at once. Everywhere else it's been higher - I even saw a store selling whole milk at $3.99 a gallon! This is just milk. Nothing premium or otherwise meant to raise the price point about it. Other dairy products have gone up in cost, too, but not so drastically (that I've noticed). [more inside]
posted by VelveteenBabbitt at 1:56 PM PST - 23 comments

Can't upgrade until August. Any other options for <$200 iPhone?
Another iPhone question. I tried to cash in on the 3Gs for $49 special today, but my contract still has 8 months on it, meaning I'm not eligible for an upgrade until mid-August. I can't afford to pay full price for an iPhone of any stripe. Do I have any options? [more inside]
posted by mudpuppie at 1:43 PM PST - 6 comments

How can I best help my boyfriend quit smoking?
How can I best help my boyfriend quit smoking? [more inside]
posted by animalrainbow at 1:38 PM PST - 38 comments

How can I finish the Five Boro Bike Tour and still have fun while doing it?
I have a ~50 miles bike ride ahead of me this Sunday, which I've done before. However, I am completely out of shape and haven't been training much lately. What should I do to increase my chances of finishing while still having a pleasant ride and without completely destroying my Monday? [more inside]
posted by falameufilho at 1:29 PM PST - 16 comments

Maddox in the bathroom
Google has failed me. I need to find that old Maddox thing about gay guys who keep doing things to him.
posted by cedar at 1:27 PM PST - 3 comments

Is there an app for doing my weeding?
What are some useful gardening apps for my iPhone? [more inside]
posted by otherwordlyglow at 1:06 PM PST - 3 comments

They do get a lot of sun in the summer...
Looking for non-depressing fiction about Russia (any time period). Is there an equivalent to Connie Willis's wonderful Blackout/All Clear? [more inside]
posted by you're a kitty! at 12:57 PM PST - 16 comments

Looking for a drug addict support organization besides NA
Please suggest support groups for recovering drug addicts besides Narcotics Anonymous (NA). [more inside]
posted by stedman15 at 12:39 PM PST - 15 comments

How to be a depressed but functioning employee
I royally screwed up at work. This isn't the first time. Depression may be partially causing it. What do I say to my boss? Can I change? How? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:25 PM PST - 12 comments

I'm not Charles Bronson. Or am I?
How do I silence the vengeful voice inside myself? [more inside]
posted by broadway bill at 12:04 PM PST - 42 comments

Getting Historical Stock Data in Asp.net
I need to access historical stock data for an ASP.NET website [more inside]
posted by unreason at 11:47 AM PST - 4 comments

How do showtunes get translated?
I'm trying to find information on the translation of musical theater, particularly the songs. [more inside]
posted by Gordafarin at 11:37 AM PST - 4 comments

Need the perfect maybe exotic gift
A friend of ours is going to be in Africa for a month this summer. During that month, he is going to be turning the big 5-0. What is something we can get him for his trip that would be particularly useful. I assume he already has a great camera.
posted by roomthreeseventeen at 11:32 AM PST - 9 comments

help me figure out what song this is!
what song is this? synthpop-sounding, melodic and upbeat but slightly melancholic as well. from what i can remember of the chorus may have been something about "rosanna" (not TOTO!). more vague descriptors within... [more inside]
posted by austere at 11:29 AM PST - 5 comments

Tumi on a Target budget?
I love this Tumi bag! ...is there anything similar but less expensive? [more inside]
posted by teragram at 10:47 AM PST - 13 comments

"When the evenin' train goes by..."
I'm heading up to Chatsworth, CA tomorrow night to record some train whistles. How far away from the tracks should I be to get that nice, misty, dreamlike faraway sound? And is there a particularly quiet/desolate part of town where I can sit for a few hours and gather said recordings? (Recommendations for other desolate, train-heavy spots within a two-hour drive also welcome.)
posted by mykescipark at 10:46 AM PST - 11 comments

I'm in love with a divorcing man who is having a divorce freak out. Help!
In love with a divorcing man who is now backing off. Help! [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 10:43 AM PST - 26 comments

This is a trap isn't it?
Online dating etiquette. When is it ok to ask about the other people you're seeing from the site? Is it different for men and women? What's the right response? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 10:43 AM PST - 22 comments

Mysterious leg stiffness appeared after running. Not sure what this is...
I took a month off from my running routine before running again. 5 days later this muscle stiffness feeling has not gone away. It's painful enough that it hurts to walk, especially down stairs. What is this? [more inside]
posted by audio at 9:55 AM PST - 10 comments

I want more empathy.
Are there any psychologists out there who know why we are able to generate so much empathy for animals but not for humans? [more inside]
posted by notion at 9:39 AM PST - 29 comments

How can I get over the fear of (or get OUT OF) dancing at my wedding?
Getting married in two months. GF and her family love dancing and will do a lot of it at the wedding. I want to make her happy, but I'm a terrible dancer and the whole thing is making me very anxious. What to do? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:34 AM PST - 29 comments

We can't just throw away our wedding photos, can we?
What should we do with our wedding photos now that we're getting divorced? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:33 AM PST - 29 comments

Not French, not Dutch, but....
Please help me with a name for the kind of door I want to get replace a current standard size exterior door. It would look like a closet door I have that is a standard size door but is in vertical halves and opens towards you on two sets of hinges. It's not a Dutch door, because that is cut horizontally, and I usually think of a French door as being two doors with a lot of glass.
posted by mmf at 8:51 AM PST - 14 comments

How do I see a large version of Google's logos for special days?
How do I see a large version of Google's reworked logo they make to commemorate special days? For instance, today Google has a little image of the Royal Wedding in place of "Google" in the upper left corner of their search page. I used to be able to go to the main Google page and the image would be nice and big, but now it defaults to my iGoogle page and the image is still tiny....
posted by bumpcat at 8:35 AM PST - 7 comments

Time Machine status: stuck in the now
The bad news: catastrophic hard drive failure! The good news: it's my back-up drive. Help me replace it. [more inside]
posted by BitterOldPunk at 8:20 AM PST - 8 comments

online tablature / chord charts for indie and alt-country?
What are the best online resources for indie and alt-country guitar tablature or chord charts? [more inside]
posted by mgerstenblatt at 7:45 AM PST - 4 comments

Who is this Archie Character?
ArchieComicFilter: Help! I was talking with a coworker and we were reminiscing about old Archie comic strips. I recounted one of my favorite strips but I can't remember who the character was! More information under the cut: [more inside]
posted by meowf at 7:36 AM PST - 13 comments

What is this called? -alled?
Does this quirk in my son's speech have a name? [more inside]
posted by ThatCanadianGirl at 7:04 AM PST - 11 comments

A few house shopping questions
Given two identical townhouses, one with no basement, the other with a finished basement, what would be the difference in value? Also, who benefits from the savings related to doing a transaction without a broker? Buyer, seller or both? [more inside]
posted by gfrobe at 6:09 AM PST - 11 comments

an apopogy for the unforgivable
I've been invited to a wedding where I'm only going to know a couple of guests. One of them is a woman who has every right to hate my guts. Help me navigate this. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 5:58 AM PST - 51 comments

Ruin our child's shot at president?
Should we stay or should we go? Make a big international move as a pregnant couple or with a tiny baby? Lots of (possibly) relevant details inside. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 5:56 AM PST - 25 comments

God Save Our Gracious Me
Does anyone have a link to the Kenny Everett sketch where the Queen sings, "God save our gracious me" while cooking breakfast? [more inside]
posted by jefficator at 4:00 AM PST - 4 comments

Sharing Matlab scripts.
Where can I find and share Matlab scipts? [more inside]
posted by molecicco at 2:55 AM PST - 4 comments

What does this hand (claw) gesture mean?
At 1:27 of this youtube video, what does the hand (claw) gesture mean? [more inside]
posted by pracowity at 2:15 AM PST - 11 comments

April 28
Pitching tents on campus is apparently not uncommon.
Moving from Seattle to Stockholm for graduate school this summer: how far in advance of the August 29th semester start should I fly out in order to maximize my chances of renting an apartment before all other students arrive? Also, where should I stay while I'm looking for a place to live? [more inside]
posted by halogen at 10:51 PM PST - 18 comments

Handicapping Reality
How do I learn and practice handicapping skills? [more inside]
posted by pakoothefakoo at 9:00 PM PST - 7 comments

Free alternative to MyFoodDiary.com?
Friend is trying to cut costs in her budget. Does anyone know a website that's as comprehensive and easy-to-use as MyFoodDiary.com, but doesn't cost $9 a month? [more inside]
posted by ®@ at 8:42 PM PST - 17 comments

Best episodes from before they got big?
TVFilter: What are some of the best episodes from before some big shows got big? Things like Mythbusters, Top Gear, and Planet Earth have big budgets now, but five, ten, or twenty years ago, these nonfiction-type shows probably had some classic episodes that are unlikely to be shown today but full of bootstrapped goodness. [more inside]
posted by BlackLeotardFront at 8:37 PM PST - 10 comments

Dancing With Partner Brings Out Issue of Self-Confidence
I am beginning to dance with female partners and I am terrified. Help! [more inside]
posted by goalyeehah at 8:36 PM PST - 20 comments

Insight as to why this guy who is interested in me is acting nervous?
Why is the guy who appears to have a crush on me suddenly acting so nervous? Why isn't he contacting me more now that I have expressed interest? [more inside]
posted by sunnychef88 at 8:21 PM PST - 70 comments

a remote exam under exam conditions
How to record something digitally in a way that verifies it has not been 'shopped [more inside]
posted by compound eye at 8:01 PM PST - 21 comments

Is professional detailing worth the money?
CarDetailingFilter: Is professional detailing worth it? IOW, do the professionals have tools, skills, or something else that means they can do much better work than a determined person can do on his/her own? Details follow. [more inside]
posted by DrGail at 7:53 PM PST - 8 comments

Help us live in a tent this summer!
Starting in a month, my girlfriend and I will be living for the summer in a 10x16, two room Kelty tent we bought on craigslist. We will be living/working on a farm outside of Olympia, WA. We'd love any advice/experience you might have on long-term tent living. We're super excited about it but we are aware it will suck sometimes... what sucked about it and how can we prepare for the suck? Lots more details inside on building a makeshift kitchen, hopefully cozy bedroom, etc. [more inside]
posted by Corduroy at 7:52 PM PST - 27 comments

Barcode/UPC lookup tool?
I have several thousand CDs and am thinking it's time to sell them, which would be easier if I had a comprehensive written list. There are lots of barcode/UPC-lookup sites on the Web, but many don't have comprehensive databases and none seems to take a full list or spreadsheet of numbers and return the product names so I would have a single list. Any suggestions?
posted by twsf at 7:01 PM PST - 10 comments

How to get my Dell Ubuntu server to boot from a different drive?
I have an Ubuntu server. It's a Dell PowerEdge with a PERC 6 RAID controller. I'm trying to get it to boot to a different drive, and grub doesn't seem to be cooperating - it appears to attempt to boot to the correct volume and partition and then bonks out when mounting /proc - what gives? [more inside]
posted by migurski at 6:58 PM PST - 21 comments

phalange SOS
please forgive my typing. i had a crush injury to my index finger one month ago. my question involves trying to figure out a way to minimize involuntary hand movements at night which only exacerbate the pain. there has to be some clever way to do this? [more inside]
posted by futz at 6:55 PM PST - 16 comments

What can I serve with leftover beans and rice?
What can I serve with leftover rice and beans? [more inside]
posted by KathrynT at 6:51 PM PST - 24 comments

Individual online appointment scheduler?
There's lots of great online software for allowing multiple participants to vote on the best single meeting time. There's also software that will allow people to book individual appointment times from a calendar. But I'm looking for a resource that will allow me to invite people to pick from an assortment of specific dates/times to schedule individual meetings with me. For example, let's say I have only ten one-hour blocks of time that are available for meetings next month. What online software will let me invite multiple people to choose from among those ten blocks, so that I am notified who picked which time, which is then not available to the remaining people?
posted by ericbop at 6:37 PM PST - 5 comments

Where was this abortion clinic in Toronto?
Dr. Leslie Smoling operated an illegal abortion clinic in Toronto from 1962 to June 10, 1968, when police closed the clinic and charged him. He then fled to Australia to evade prosecution, coming back after two decades (?) to face charges. Where in the city was this clinic? [more inside]
posted by avocet at 6:34 PM PST - 9 comments

What foul goddamn creatures!
How can I best remove ticks from my dog? Is there a gadget to improve my batting average? [more inside]
posted by Netzapper at 5:20 PM PST - 22 comments

How do you force yourself to slow down and take your time when proofing?
How do you force yourself to slow down and take your time when proofing? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:53 PM PST - 43 comments

Help me figure out how to get along.
Help me make the most of a beach vacation with my future in-laws. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:52 PM PST - 31 comments

Are inventions ever made possible by philosophy?
A little over a hundred years ago, William James wrote in Pragmatism that "the philosophic stage of criticism [as opposed to the scientific] ... so far gives us no new range of practical power. Locke, Hume, Berkeley, Kant, Hegel, have all been utterly sterile, so far as shedding any light on the details of nature goes, and I can think of no invention or discovery that can be directly traced to anything in their peculiar thought." (Emphasis mine.) Is it still -- or, for that matter, was it true then -- that there are no inventions made possible by the works of philosophers?
posted by CutaneousRabbit at 4:47 PM PST - 20 comments

Where are the creative couples?
I'm looking for media images (books, movies, TV shows) of a certain kind of romantic partnership: happily partnered, creative, bohemian couples [more inside]
posted by 3491again at 4:46 PM PST - 40 comments

Free or cheap DIY electric ukulele plans?
My teenager started an electric ukulele project in her woodshop class and can't afford to buy plans. What's the best way to proceed? [more inside]
posted by christopherious at 4:37 PM PST - 14 comments

Is there a Yelp! for real estate listings?
Is there some nice shiny, futuristic way to peruse area real estate listings which gives one an accurate picture of what is for sale in a given area? [more inside]
posted by amanda at 4:27 PM PST - 13 comments

A frog in a water nest?
On a hike in East Granby, CT, my friend came across this. Its a frog sitting in a fluffy nest sitting on top of a swampy pond. I really have nothing else to say other than is this normal frog behavior?
posted by arveale at 4:25 PM PST - 11 comments

Desktop/Cubicle amplifier with at least 3 inputs.
I am trying to find a desktop or office cubicle ( by which I mean pretty small and elegant) compatible amplifier. I just really need a headphone amplifier since I wont ever be able use any speakers at work, but I must be able to select between 3 different sources. [more inside]
posted by digividal at 4:15 PM PST - 6 comments

Same-sex Split
My same-sex partner and I have separated (to my shock and opposition) after a few years of hard financial times. While I am holding out hope that she will come to her senses, I need help deciding on what to do (especially regarding our house) in case we can't resolve our issues. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:05 PM PST - 9 comments

much ado about nuthin'.
What do you do in your downtime in the office? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:04 PM PST - 30 comments

What should I do about spilt fish sauce?
What should I do about spilt fish sauce? [more inside]
posted by jonnyploy at 4:01 PM PST - 5 comments

I created this modem out of poptarts and twine!
So, Jeffrey Deaver's The Blue Nowhere was terrible in almost every way but I didn't hate the premise. I'd like to read something that has a similar premise or themes but isn't ridiculous and cringeworthy. Any ideas? Thanks!
posted by doublehappy at 4:00 PM PST - 4 comments

Where can I watch tonight's Magic/Hawks game online?
Where can I watch tonight's Magic/Hawks game online? [more inside]
posted by andruwjones26 at 3:32 PM PST - 2 comments

Scripting PDF printing in Windows XP?
How do I script PDF "printing" in Windows XP? [more inside]
posted by buckaroo_benzai at 3:22 PM PST - 6 comments

A sense of dread in an sunburnt land
I'm looking for examples of media that combine the landscape of the American West with the horror genre. [more inside]
posted by 2bucksplus at 3:19 PM PST - 44 comments

Can I repair just the small damaged area of my parquet floor?
A small section of my wood parquet flooring is cracked and/or buckled. When I step on this area it creaks and springs up. Can I replace only the damaged section? [more inside]
posted by ranunculus at 3:18 PM PST - 2 comments

When should a potential landlord cash a deposit check?
We gave a check (for a security deposit) to a potential landlord to hold our spot in line. The landlord wasn't going to cash the check until she approved us for the house. We got the house (pending a signed lease agreement). When should the landlord cash the deposit check? [more inside]
posted by jz at 3:02 PM PST - 6 comments

can't find a blog post about stupidity and cleverness
there's a blog post somewhere out there about the good that can come of, instead of trying to do clever things, simply avoiding doing stupid things. anyone know who posted it?
posted by tehgeekmeister at 2:56 PM PST - 2 comments

Subclinical hypothyroidism during pregnancy?
I'm a little over 8 weeks pregnant, and other than the insane morning sickness, feel like I'm in good health. However, my thyroid results came back with normal free T4 and elevated TSH. Neither my regular doc nor my midwife seem concerned... so should I relax? [more inside]
posted by allisonrae at 2:35 PM PST - 3 comments

To follow up or not to follow up?
I just had a job interview I wasn't thrilled about. In a fluster, I sent my writing samples with a two sentence thank you note. I'd like to salvage the flubbed interview if I can. Should I mail a lengthier thank you letter, or just let it go?
posted by amyshmamy at 1:55 PM PST - 11 comments

Should I move or wait till I find a job at the end of my lease?
Lease running out and looking to move, but no job yet. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by animerion at 1:47 PM PST - 8 comments

Book about a job doing nothing.
This post reminded me of a name-that-book question. [more inside]
posted by ricochet biscuit at 1:47 PM PST - 5 comments

Double or triple play?
Baseball rules question---put on your umpire's cap. [more inside]
posted by teg4rvn at 1:46 PM PST - 16 comments

Reading on Research in the Digital Age
Summer short course filter: Fun readings on the internet, the future, and research in the digital age for high school teachers. Help a librarian plan a syllabus! [more inside]
posted by activitystory at 1:01 PM PST - 5 comments

Real estate trusts, partnerships or LLCs?
My father and I are interested in buying and splitting an investment property 50-50. What are the sort of legal arrangements we should be looking into to lower tax burdens and maximize buying power? LLC? Trusts? Who should we be talking to about this? [more inside]
posted by notnathan at 12:54 PM PST - 7 comments

It has a name.
What is my new job title for a very broad writing/editing position within a corporate team? [more inside]
posted by mochapickle at 12:51 PM PST - 12 comments

Karaoke in DC
What is the best Friday night karaoke joint in DC (or Metro-accessible)? [more inside]
posted by mthomps00 at 12:45 PM PST - 6 comments

How to find and get a disability lawyer in NJ when I have no money?
I live in Middlesex County in New Jersey. I have begun the application for disabilty due to anxiety and depression. I am worried I might need a lawyer, I have no money, and I don't know where to start. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:27 PM PST - 6 comments

Fun, romantic things to see and do in Atlantic City
Looking for fun/romantic things to do in Atlantic City, NJ. Best restaurants, best romantic gay-friendly hotels, don't miss events or locations? Things beyond the casinos. [more inside]
posted by Librarygeek at 11:45 AM PST - 9 comments

New laptop didn't match the specs advertised What are my options?
About a week ago, I purchased a laptop. When I finally got it, the laptop didn't have the specs advertised. When I wrote the company, they said it was a mistake and I could send the laptop back for a refund. The problem? I could've bought it cheaper (and gotten it sooner) from another company, but now that deal is gone. [more inside]
posted by chndrcks at 11:43 AM PST - 25 comments

Searching for music with a postive outlook.
Help me think of songs/musical numbers that echo the sentiment of "Don't Stop Believing". [more inside]
posted by royboy at 11:38 AM PST - 41 comments

PDF in Firefox 4
What is your method for reading PDF files in Firefox 4? [more inside]
posted by vortex genie 2 at 11:22 AM PST - 9 comments

Confirmation bias study and birthers
I feel like I recently read about a study on confirmation bias asking people a range of questions, one of which was an Obama birther question (as in do you hold birther beliefs), but I can't find it. The study was wanting to know perceived authority figures could influence held beliefs, and may have included questions about global warming. What am I thinking of? Can someone link to it - but mainly if it's a birther story.
posted by scunning at 11:11 AM PST - 3 comments

Doctor? Or quit whining?
Sudden, kind of horrible knee pain--wtf, body? Is this okay, or should I go see a doctor? If the latter, what kind of doctor should I see? [more inside]
posted by peachfuzz at 10:35 AM PST - 20 comments

Good book on cognitive bias?
I'm looking for a good introductory book on the topic of cognitive bias. [more inside]
posted by facetious at 10:27 AM PST - 13 comments

I love you, but let's talk about something else
Help me find songs about love or close friendship that contain lyrics about something other than the feeeeeelings the couple has for each another. [more inside]
posted by Gori Girl at 10:11 AM PST - 54 comments

Give me your clothes, your boots and your mathematical proofs.
I am trying to come up with the "ultimate utility tattoo" and I need some help with what would be on it. You've a full sleeve (an adult male's arm and shoulder) to work with so what important information do you think would be useful? [more inside]
posted by longbaugh at 9:49 AM PST - 38 comments

Shinjuku vs Shibuya
I will be in Tokyo for a few days next month and need to decide where I am staying - Shibuya or Shinjuku? [more inside]
posted by Julnyes at 9:44 AM PST - 10 comments

Preparing for my grand exit
Can anybody recommend a good estate attorney in San Francisco? We want to set up a will, and we undoubtedly need the whole estate-planning package (power of attorney, living trusts, etc). [more inside]
posted by Quietgal at 9:33 AM PST - 4 comments

Thrill me
Looking for recommendations for thriller novels. Preferences insdie. [more inside]
posted by fearfulsymmetry at 9:19 AM PST - 17 comments

Why does my plastic cart smell like a hobo's armpit?
Why does my utility cart smell like BO? [more inside]
posted by Burhanistan at 8:53 AM PST - 15 comments

Which Caribbean Island for our family vacation?
I am planning a summer vacation with my wife and 8-year old daughter. We would like the majority of our vacation to include beach combing and hammocks, kayaking, snorkeling and hiking. Which Caribbean island would be best for this? [more inside]
posted by jlowen at 8:49 AM PST - 9 comments

Can you recommend a non-glossy monitor to be paired with a Mac Mini?
Can you recommend a non-glossy monitor to be paired with a Mac Mini? [more inside]
posted by sharkfu at 8:49 AM PST - 6 comments

Plays for 8th-9th graders?
Can anyone recommend plays for performance by 8th-9th graders? I need to cast an entire class of 16-20 kids, and I'm looking for something generally gender balanced. [more inside]
posted by Greenie at 8:47 AM PST - 20 comments

Is there a medievalist in the house?
Are you a medievalist? I'm looking for books, diaries, art books, websites and other resources about private life and printing in the Middle Ages and early Renaissance. [more inside]
posted by johnasdf at 8:37 AM PST - 24 comments

Corporate social responsibility
Companies/corporations that use strongly human- and earth-friendly business practices and ethics? [more inside]
posted by so_gracefully at 8:29 AM PST - 21 comments

Preserving/Documenting Lantern Slides: How do I not ruin them?
My family has a collection of 35 lantern slides dating from the 1880-90's. They are black & white photographic images, with some handcolored. They are in reasonably good condition and I would like to somehow transfer them into a digital format. Is it OK to lay these on a scanner, or will strong light exposure risk damaging the slide images? Is there a better way to photograph or reproduce the images? [more inside]
posted by amusebuche at 8:27 AM PST - 12 comments

Finding work in London
UK jobsearching: I'm 26, and having a tough time finding any job in London - let alone one that's a good career prospect. Do you have any pointers, and in particular, advice on how to get reliable, short-term work to cover the gaps? [more inside]
posted by Drexen at 8:17 AM PST - 12 comments

My feet need your brain!
I need shoe recommendations, please. [more inside]
posted by pdb at 8:10 AM PST - 14 comments

Western Branch of American Reform Presbylutheranism Architecture
Is The Simpsons' First Church of Springfield (the building, not the denomination) modeled after an actual church or style of churches? [more inside]
posted by Who_Am_I at 8:03 AM PST - 10 comments

Preventing Bulky Arms
Workout Question - A few years ago I went away from my cardio-only gym routine and added in weight lifting. I did chest press, lat pull downs, shoulder press, etc. I'm a girl, btw. I lost a little weight but now my arms are bulky, not super muscly but just bulkier and sometimes they don't fit in my shirts. I enjoy lifting weights but I feel conflicted about it if my arms are going to continue to get bigger and bigger. My question is - how do I continue to lift weights without my arms getting bulkier and bulkier? I would like to also make my arms less bulky if possible.. Are push-ups a good option?
posted by AngryLlama at 8:03 AM PST - 25 comments

If it can possibly go on your head, i've tried it...
How do I get rid of my dandruff for good? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:49 AM PST - 21 comments

Have you ever successfully fought for a relationship that you knew was worth saving? How did it work out?
Have you ever successfully fought for a relationship that you knew was worth saving? How did it work out? [more inside]
posted by newlyminted at 7:48 AM PST - 24 comments

Tracking sales referrals for the long-term?
I am working out a standard operating procedure/system for a referral marketing program with a partner firm and seeking a useful web-based or software system to track signposted, offline referrals. We are thinking of using a discount code or something along those lines but I am dealing with some distrust from my partner about how we reliably continue to track referrals through the lifetime of the sales relationship. Is this going to be based on trust or are there electronic or other systems I should be looking into?
posted by parmanparman at 7:33 AM PST - 2 comments

Above the Poverty Level but Still No Money...what is this called?
Is there a term for this? People who are above the poverty level (and therefore not eligible for most social services) but below middle income (where they might have some discretionary income to spend on, say, education or legal services)? [more inside]
posted by eleanna at 7:16 AM PST - 25 comments

Disable photo tagging by friends?
How do I turn off the ability of others to tag photos of me on Facebook? All I see on Google is info on how to change the setting for previous iterations of Facebook's "privacy settings".
posted by helios410 at 7:12 AM PST - 9 comments

Line of Credit: Good Idea, or Bad Idea?
Financing company offered me a 2000$ line of credit. I have questions. [more inside]
posted by br4k3r at 6:55 AM PST - 13 comments

Do people really trace their family trees back that far?
Do people really trace their family trees back that far? I'm pretty much dead-ended in the 1850s. [more inside]
posted by smackfu at 6:31 AM PST - 52 comments

Facebook Question
Facebookfilter: I vaguely remember seeing something like a users most commented wall posts when viewing what i think was our friendship connection (the things we have in common). Where do i find this feature again and is there more to it? [more inside]
posted by freddymetz at 4:14 AM PST - 3 comments

How to manage new wealth?
Let's say that I am about to come into life changing amount of cash. What is the best way to manage this new wealth? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:54 AM PST - 25 comments

Literature for the sad
What recommendations do you have for literature with tones and themes of sadness​/loneliness​/inadequacy​/anxiety​/perfectionism​/depression​/alienation​/dissatisfaction? (Not all in a single book, of course). [more inside]
posted by parjanya at 2:50 AM PST - 50 comments

Video for contest
I've designed a pretty awesome piece of software. There's an industry contest I wish to participate in, and I need a video. Help me make it good. [more inside]
posted by mathemagician at 1:06 AM PST - 4 comments

The bigger they are, the more they run?!
NBA Filter: Why does the PF or C always inbound the ball after a made shot? [more inside]
posted by the NATURAL at 12:55 AM PST - 9 comments

April 27
Help me find the podcast that's just right!
Podcast recommendations sought! Snarky, humourous, preferably with some sort of informational content. [more inside]
posted by Phire at 11:54 PM PST - 46 comments

Aussie Dollars to Spend on Hong Kong Electronic Goodies
I"m an Aussie enjoying a high exchange rate and visiting Hong Kong in a few weeks. What electronic goodies should I be purchasing, and any suggestions on how to go about it? [more inside]
posted by jjderooy at 11:51 PM PST - 6 comments

dead wrong?
Are there any non-theistic/scientific/philosophical 'afterlife' theories out there? [more inside]
posted by threeants at 9:06 PM PST - 37 comments

Where in the US should I live for a couple of months this summer?
I can work from anywhere. Hooray! I'd like to sublet an apartment somewhere in the US for a few months this summer. But where? [more inside]
posted by Laura Macbeth at 8:40 PM PST - 52 comments

Where to spend a day writing in Sydney
I'm going to be in sydney CBD tomorrow, and would like to find a nice place to sit and work for a few hours. I know about the state library and the various university libraries. I've got a folding bike with me, so I'd be prepared to cycle up to 7km out of the city, or get a short ferry ride.
posted by singingfish at 8:05 PM PST - 7 comments

Curse my metal body, I wasn't fast enough.
I'm looking for a piece of model or miniature painting advice. Please to step into my office.. [more inside]
posted by kbanas at 8:02 PM PST - 16 comments

Favorite non-fiction audiobooks?
Favorite non-fiction audiobooks? [more inside]
posted by Homo economicus at 7:27 PM PST - 41 comments

Unfortunately All in the Family
Is checking bank statements the best way to find a life insurance policy? Can someone get a life insurance payout if they are not the sole beneficiary? (Family drama below) [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:26 PM PST - 13 comments

Paxil can't be that bad, right?
After a year in counseling to address anxiety, my therapist recommended pharmaceutical treatment. My doctor prescribed Paxil. I'm nervous as all get-out about taking it after reading horror stories on the internet. Am I overreacting? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:25 PM PST - 18 comments

NZ hair dye in America?
Where can I get this Schwarzkopf hair dye in America? [more inside]
posted by fuzzysoft at 7:16 PM PST - 8 comments

But on the Internet, no one can hear your introversion.
How should I respond to my employer's suggestion that I may be too quiet to keep my job? [more inside]
posted by metajc at 6:43 PM PST - 15 comments

What the heck is this song?
Please help me ID this song used in the last episode of a not so popular tv show in 2003... [more inside]
posted by nougat at 6:31 PM PST - 6 comments

Help us pick a car!
Do you own, or have you owned, a Honda Insight? Would you recommend it? [more inside]
posted by sonic meat machine at 5:44 PM PST - 28 comments

Need an ASP .NET 4.0 webhost
I need a reliable host for a ASP .NET framework 4 website. [more inside]
posted by signal at 5:15 PM PST - 4 comments

Should I reduce CPP payable on my taxes?
Quirky Canadian tax question - what's the long term impact of reducing CPP payable? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:51 PM PST - 2 comments

Chess!
Hoping this exists: A website where I can set up a scenario on a chess board and then have it tell me what the next move should be.
posted by rastapasta at 4:47 PM PST - 7 comments

Earth gravity in space? How hard could it be...
It's the future and humans live in space stations. What are some ways (real or fictional) that artificial gravity can be created so there will be no weightlessness? [more inside]
posted by thejrt at 4:31 PM PST - 18 comments

Faxing from computer, not machine
Is there a way for someone with a Mac laptop to send and received faxes directly from and to the computer? Is there a service that does this, allowing faxes to be received if the computer is off?
posted by lynnshaze at 4:08 PM PST - 7 comments

I am procrastinating about this RIGHT NOW
Do you cook alone? Do you enjoy it? I don't have the budget to go out whenever I am alone so I need to learn to make being in the kitchen solo a fun thing. [more inside]
posted by pointystick at 4:08 PM PST - 46 comments

Infertility specialist in the Chicago Loop?
I'm looking for an infertility specialist or reproductive endocrinologist in Chicago, preferably in the loop. Does anyone have any recommendations? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:31 PM PST - 2 comments

Can you recommend interesting/quirky/entertaining daytrips or guided tours?
I went on a really good "alternative" day trip to the Scottish Highlands with this company when I was in Edinburgh last week, and am now looking for recommendations for entertaining and offbeat guided tours and daytrips in other places. There are some good suggestions here for walking tours but I'm also interested in bus/coach/cycling etc.
posted by janecr at 3:05 PM PST - 2 comments

5...4...3...booze...1...LIFTOFF
Where can I watch the space shuttle launch on Friday in Washington, DC? Or, if there isn't anything going on: shuttle-themed cocktail recipes? [more inside]
posted by troika at 3:03 PM PST - 9 comments

An alternative to snacking
Is there an alternative to snacking that one can do while they focus on something else? [more inside]
posted by biochemist at 3:03 PM PST - 21 comments

Database--what words can I use to search for what I need?
Like a heathen, I'm so lost, I don't even know I'm lost. I think I need a database. But I don't know any proper terminology to search for more information or help. [more inside]
posted by largecorp at 3:00 PM PST - 6 comments

How you say..."chef novel" in German?
What would you call a coming-of-age novel for a chef? In german? [more inside]
posted by madred at 2:40 PM PST - 12 comments

Buying property or renting in the UK, in old age.
UK Filter: Can people retire without buying property when younger? [more inside]
posted by TrinsicWS at 1:14 PM PST - 22 comments

Where to host 15 in Paris for a brunch/lunch?
Paris - Looking for a fantastic location to host 15 people for a Sunday brunch/lunch in Paris. Ideally in a terasse/rooftop setting with a fixed menu per person (around 20 euros a head) [more inside]
posted by ruelle at 12:53 PM PST - 5 comments

Limited office safety topics, unlimited office safety meetings
Unconventional safety topics? [more inside]
posted by lizbunny at 12:40 PM PST - 56 comments

Is my MacBook battery a ripoff?
Is this laptop battery a ripoff, and how can I be sure? I bought a third party battery for my Macbook. It looks like the original 45Wh battery, but Coconut Battery (and the appropriate ioreg command) report the 'design capacity' as lower than it should be. [more inside]
posted by beniamino at 12:28 PM PST - 10 comments

Places to stay in Boston/Cambridge, May 19-22?
Places to stay in Boston/Cambridge, May 18-22? [more inside]
posted by speicus at 12:27 PM PST - 9 comments

Dinner date in DC
DC Filter: Affordable and romantic dinner date spots in DC? Warning: Extremely picky criteria inside. [more inside]
posted by windbox at 12:16 PM PST - 29 comments

Pity the child that can't find a production of his favorite musical
I love the musical "Chess." It is rarely ever produced, though. How or where can I get alerts in my email when a production of "Chess" is in the Los Angeles area? [more inside]
posted by Spyder's Game at 12:05 PM PST - 7 comments

Why not poetry?
This is a question for people who read widely, but don't choose to read poetry. What are you're reasons for not reading the stuff? [more inside]
posted by troubles at 11:59 AM PST - 149 comments

Why did I have a seizure?
Why did I have a seizure? How do I not do that again? [more inside]
posted by kat518 at 11:52 AM PST - 34 comments

Building a personal library for an autodidactic quiz buff
What books can you recommend that do for their subject what 'A Short History of Nearly Everything' does for science i.e. cover a broad topic in an entertaining and engaging way which is easy for the layperson to understand? I am interested in improving my General Knowledge and want to build a little library of similar books covering topics such as art, film, geography, history, literature, music, philosophy etc. [more inside]
posted by wannalol at 11:50 AM PST - 35 comments

progressions up to a tuck front lever?
I'd like to train for a front lever, but I'm too weak to get my hips up even in tuck (back rounded, knees to chin), even if I try to jump into it. What other exercises can I do to develop a tuck front lever? (I do have access to a weight room, and I'm working on straps rather than rings, if that makes any difference.)
posted by d. z. wang at 11:49 AM PST - 5 comments

How many arcade games are imported into the United States?
I'm trying to find out how many video arcade games (think coin-operated) are manufactured within the U.S. and how many are imported. Historical data would be very helpful too. [more inside]
posted by cyphill at 11:08 AM PST - 4 comments

Whey protein for energy, not bulking up? theories?
Wondering about using 20garms of Whey in the morning for my "am" food. Will it help me lose weight or expand the benefit of my exercise or does it only make you bulk up? [more inside]
posted by femmme at 11:03 AM PST - 12 comments

Efficient or lazy?
I wait until, I think a task needs to be done ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY or NO MORE DELAY possible to do anything. [more inside]
posted by daveg02 at 10:58 AM PST - 24 comments

Great places to find Kitchen inspiration?
About to purchase my first coop apartment in NYC, and it's desperately in need of a new kitchen, among other things. Mr. Narrative and I would like to go and look at kitchen cabinets and counter-tops and tile and such in person, preferably in a nice-ish store. Where should we go? [more inside]
posted by Narrative Priorities at 10:33 AM PST - 15 comments

Have too many people that want to play on sports team, how to manage?
I started a sports team at work and now we have more people who want to play than we have spots on the team. How would you diplomatically handle this? [more inside]
posted by MeatFilter at 10:24 AM PST - 20 comments

Go on iPad
A well-made Go game app for the iPad (or iPhone)? [more inside]
posted by raheel at 10:18 AM PST - 7 comments

They're all gonna laugh at me
Is blunt criticism a warning for being fired? I work in a small office where 3 mistakes (mainly numerical errors) I made have been called embarrassing in a 5 month period. This is not a financial sector job. Yes I make more than 1 mistake a month, but what's bothering me is that this specific word has been used by the 3 people I work with most. [more inside]
posted by Freecola at 10:08 AM PST - 20 comments

Planning a return visit to NYC... can you help me with a few very specific questions?
Planning a return visit to NYC... can you help me with a few very specific questions? [more inside]
posted by kdern at 9:52 AM PST - 30 comments

Does Canada import timber?
Does Canada import timber??? [more inside]
posted by musofire at 9:38 AM PST - 12 comments

How do you bring cash to a closing?
How does selling an under water house where you bring cash to the closing actually work? What happens if you come up short? [more inside]
posted by morganw at 9:29 AM PST - 7 comments

Fenway South
How can we amuse ourselves near Camden Yards tomorrow? [more inside]
posted by kidsleepy at 9:27 AM PST - 16 comments

Learning on the cheap
I have a summer without a full-time job lined up, live near a world-class college campus, and wouldn't mind sitting in on classes. I don't have enough money to actually enroll for non-credit, so I was wondering: what's the general policy is on sitting in on large lecture classes? [more inside]
posted by codacorolla at 9:10 AM PST - 14 comments

Trying to find a therapist in Atlanta to help with my reaction to stress
Can a therapist help me find a more productive (or at least less destructive) way to deal with stress? If so, can anyone recommend what style of therapy would address this best or, even better, recommend a specific person or practice in Atlanta? [more inside]
posted by duien at 8:53 AM PST - 4 comments

Near Death Experiences - Suicides
For Research - Need Near Death Experiences accounts of people who attempted suicide. [more inside]
posted by watercarrier at 8:52 AM PST - 13 comments

Bitten by the travel bug
Is traveling before starting grad school a feasible idea? [more inside]
posted by bookgirl18 at 8:45 AM PST - 9 comments

Keeping auto insurance without a real address?
How do I keep my car insured during an out-of-state relocation that may take a month or two to be complete? [more inside]
posted by shiny blue object at 8:44 AM PST - 4 comments

Help a dog who's missing his mommy?
How can we help calm this dog's separation anxiety? [more inside]
posted by lwb at 8:36 AM PST - 8 comments

Is my money lost & gone forever?
Money intended for me was PayPal-ed to the wrong person. Any chance I can get it back? [more inside]
posted by shiu mai baby at 8:21 AM PST - 15 comments

Rushin' Roulette is already taken
Here's another 'what should my roller derby name be?' question. [more inside]
posted by theRussian at 8:20 AM PST - 39 comments

Schenkerian analysis
Teach yourself Schenkerian analysis? [more inside]
posted by monkey closet at 8:09 AM PST - 2 comments

What am I?
I'm in the process of being hired on from contractor to full time status. My boss asked me what title I would like. I need some help figuring out what I want to be and how much a person of that title should make. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:40 AM PST - 6 comments

Champions League final in Barcelona?
Where to watch the Champions League Final in Barcelona? [more inside]
posted by Infinite Jest at 7:09 AM PST - 3 comments

Thanks for the 30 reminders that I'm 30 now!
Is it fun to get 30 things for your 30th birthday, or does it just remind you that you're 30 now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 6:44 AM PST - 44 comments

Bunting is not enough!
Where in central London can I found the most absurd or obscene Royal Wedding souvenir? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 6:44 AM PST - 7 comments

Any tips for vacation French immersion courses overseas?
Anyone have any tips or recommendations for French-language learning vacations? [more inside]
posted by huskerdont at 6:41 AM PST - 4 comments

Language Geekery: Slavic Edition
Which Slavic language should I study? [more inside]
posted by Sara C. at 6:40 AM PST - 34 comments

Trying to find a song from This Week in Science
Does anyone know what the break music during the last several This Week in Science (http://www.twis.org) shows is? I've asked around and either gotten no response or no one knows. I've tried googling the lyrics as I understand them and I get nothing.
posted by Ikazuchi at 6:38 AM PST - 2 comments

I have to buy a suit?
Can an employer force you to buy clothing that's not related to your job? [more inside]
posted by Cat Pie Hurts at 6:25 AM PST - 63 comments

Need Vacation Ideas!
I need (hopefully inexpensive) mid-Atlantic region vacation ideas. [more inside]
posted by MorningPerson at 6:21 AM PST - 7 comments

What Was the Name of This Book?!!
Can the Hive help me identify this children's puzzle book from the late 1960's- early 1970's? [more inside]
posted by Hanuman1960 at 6:16 AM PST - 5 comments

Where can I see the space shuttle launch?
Where is the best place to see the space shuttle launch in person this Friday? [more inside]
posted by foodybat at 6:11 AM PST - 12 comments

I need suggestions for a ticket system for my website?
I have a small website that im running a local event from and i need a way for people to be able to buy tickets online and for me to check them into the event. My main concern is people sharing tickets so I need some way to prevent fraud and it needs to be super cheap. The sites im running is built on wordpress im wondering is there a plugin or 3rd party service that I can use?
posted by toocan at 6:03 AM PST - 7 comments

I want to make something that looks pretty gross from 30 feet.
I need food that looks unappetizing but that won't make someone gag. Oh, and I'm making it in a Jello mold. [more inside]
posted by Medieval Maven at 5:49 AM PST - 31 comments

Computer Stuff, no gimmiks
Does anybody know a cheap computer parts store in Santiago, Chile? [more inside]
posted by defcom1 at 5:09 AM PST - 2 comments

Developing a writing discipline
Aspiring author here, asking other writing MeFites: how do you write? How do you discipline yourself? What gets you in the Zone? I have no discipline as a writer and depend on random bouts of inspiration, but I'd like to start approaching writing in a more structured way, with a view to (gasp!) publishing one day. [more inside]
posted by Ziggy500 at 3:44 AM PST - 31 comments

what are some really cool optical illusions I can print and put on my wall?
what are some really cool optical illusions I can print and put on my wall? [more inside]
posted by krautland at 1:35 AM PST - 14 comments

Prog-rock for prog-rammers.
Prog-rammer seeks prog-rock. Help me find some new coding music. [more inside]
posted by zvs at 12:36 AM PST - 42 comments

April 26
How does one push away from parental control while still maintaining a close emotional relationship?
How do i preserve my relationship with my mother while still making decisions she doesn't approve of? [more inside]
posted by becomingly at 11:26 PM PST - 35 comments

Please help me have comments on my Blosxom blog
You: Someone who knows how to set up a blog _with comments_ using Blosxom. Me: Apparently, a blithering idiot. Help! I wanted to set up a very simple blog for updates for my web page. The blog software my webhost offers is "Blosxom". The blog is fine, but I want comments, and I'm totally failing to manage this with the Blosxom plug-ins. [more inside]
posted by LadyOscar at 11:18 PM PST - 15 comments

You gave me life but it belongs to me now
How do I stop feeling responsible to my family for keeping myself safe and guitly for taking risks? [more inside]
posted by Chrysalis at 10:25 PM PST - 20 comments

Day trip advice: Twin Cities, Minnesota
I'm traveling to St. Paul, Minnesota I'll have a bunch of free time and a rental car. I would love recommendations for a day trip! [more inside]
posted by ReeMonster at 10:05 PM PST - 23 comments

How to motivate or force an ADD student to self-study?
I'm a college student with pretty serious ADD who's doing an Independent Study contract in a sink-or-swim situation on a topic I love and am motivated to research. However, I can't actually bring myself to start to do it seriously, and have wasted nearly half the quarter. Stress is mounting, time is nigh, my ability to follow my own schedules near-zero so far. How do I salvage this? [more inside]
posted by reenka at 9:50 PM PST - 32 comments

Help me be an adult!
What books/websites would you recommend for a recent college grad trying to navigate the practicalities of being a young adult, such as building credit, taking care of a car, wiring lighting, etc. [more inside]
posted by ribboncake at 9:45 PM PST - 11 comments

Is there an office game being played here?
Is there an office game being played here? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:31 PM PST - 17 comments

How do I go about getting a master's in Counseling?
What is the best way to get into the counseling field? [more inside]
posted by melizabeth at 9:14 PM PST - 3 comments

Visiting baseball team hotel in Denver.
Can anyone tell me where the visiting baseball teams stay in Denver? I'm coming there in May and want to stay in the same hotel as the Giants.
posted by davoid at 9:11 PM PST - 3 comments

Birds? Those are dinosaurs!
Can'tFindThisVideoAgainFilter: YouTube, perhaps; within last 6 months. A couple of guys go back in time (!) and keep a diary. They return to the present and assert that birds are just dinosaurs. Pretty sure the punchline was something close to my tagline above. Much better than as described...
posted by TigerMoth at 9:10 PM PST - 1 comments

What is the best vehicle for a Dad and his young daughter to take on driving adventures?
What is the best cheap(ish) camper/rv/vehicle appropriate for a Dad and his young daughter to take on driving adventures? [more inside]
posted by EvilPRGuy at 9:07 PM PST - 12 comments

Help with CSS for Wordpress
I'm trying to help my friend put together a simple site, using wordpress as a platform for a static site/CMS. I'm having trouble moving the header (and all the content below it I suppose) to the top of the screen, 3px from the top. Could anyone help me by looking at the source code? [more inside]
posted by FireStyle at 8:55 PM PST - 6 comments

What should I get my wife for graduating from a Master's program for fiction writing?
What should I get my wife as a gift for graduating from a Master's program for fiction writing? [more inside]
posted by deern the headlice at 8:38 PM PST - 13 comments

Missing Friend
Any ideas for finding a lost Chinese friend? [more inside]
posted by bearette at 8:31 PM PST - 8 comments

FSM prop
I'd like to make a giant prop Flying Spaghetti Monster for my school's atheist student group, to present during the fall organization fair. How do I go about this? [more inside]
posted by LSK at 8:29 PM PST - 7 comments

Hothead wondering whether university faculty or reputation.
Should an incipient PhD student shoot for the adviser or the program? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:24 PM PST - 28 comments

I just want to go to work happy...
Work drama! How to integrate two distinct factions in a new team? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:24 PM PST - 5 comments

Where to meet interesting 30-somethings in Boston?
Where to meet interesting 30-somethings in Boston? [more inside]
posted by AlmondEyes at 8:14 PM PST - 12 comments

Who was the controversial boy preacher from the 1990s?
For a brief period in the early 1990s there was a young boy, perhaps 10 or so, who seemed to be featured in a different story on CNN Headline News every other day. Each had the same underlying theme: Boy Preacher Causes Controversy. Eventually, there was a climax: Outside his school he told his principal, "You go to Hell.;" However, Boy Preacher was steadfast in his suspension of reality, "I said, 'You will go to Hell.' I never said, 'You go to Hell.'" Then he entered in into a religious refractory period, and there has been no excitement for about 20 years. What was his name? What is he doing today? What was the big deal, anyway? [more inside]
posted by scottso17 at 7:51 PM PST - 3 comments

Advice about Guardianship
Can you recommend resources regarding Guardianship proceedings for an autistic child turning 18 at the end of the year? (You are not my lawyer, I'm not looking for legal advice, I am seeing a lawyer next week; here I am just looking for advice / experiences from other families who have been through this process.) [more inside]
posted by Lokheed at 7:36 PM PST - 5 comments

Show the Love Inexpensively
A week of gifts that don't break the bank? [more inside]
posted by Leezie at 7:17 PM PST - 10 comments

Am I crazy to even consider switching from Verizon to AT&T for the iPhone?
I'm a longtime Verizon customer. Due to one of those "AUGH" instances, missed out on upgrading to the iPhone (details inside). I'm considering switching TO AT&T just to get an iPhone. Is this completely nuts? [more inside]
posted by tzikeh at 6:40 PM PST - 44 comments

Christian tumblr recommendations
I want to follow more Christian tumblr blogs. Can you recommend any that have good quotes and/or write substantial blog posts? I would prefer a minimum of politics. [more inside]
posted by pecknpah at 6:34 PM PST - 5 comments

I see dead people's websites.
What are the best "zombie" websites? I'm looking for interesting examples of password-protected blogs, facebook pages, etc., that were frozen in time upon the owner's demise (or incarceration/disappearance), but which still stay alive (and interesting) in the comments. Or, the sites of dead people that have been taken over by friends/fans, and are updated regularly. [more inside]
posted by turducken at 5:56 PM PST - 16 comments

Insurance help?
Deer hunting with my BMW was expensive! Insurance question from a former insurance agent who has forgotten the rules... [more inside]
posted by kiwi-epitome at 5:52 PM PST - 8 comments

Help me save my orchid!
What's wrong with my orchid? [more inside]
posted by lovableiago at 5:22 PM PST - 18 comments

Old paycheck found, now what?
What should I do about an old paycheck of mine I just found? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 5:16 PM PST - 18 comments

Around the world in 200 books
I'd like to read a book about each country's history, ideally one offering as comprehensive of a timeline as possible. My goal is to get a brief overview of the history of a region rather than a specific focus on any singularly important event. I'm looking for specific suggestions for any and all countries. Since that is a fairly wide net to cast, I'd settle for the best choices on the countries with the longest and most interesting histories and/or specifically interesting books. I have a Kindle, so bonus points for books available in that format.
posted by highfidelity at 5:15 PM PST - 20 comments

What's up with my ac?
Leaking central air conditioner. We live in Austin, and it's been in the 90s for the past week or so. During this time, the air conditioner (central air, not window unit) has had some water surrounding the bottom, which is now seeping through the base of the wall onto the other side. What's going on? [more inside]
posted by odayoday at 5:09 PM PST - 6 comments

Cargo Van/Truck Month-Plus Rental
Forgive terseness. Rent a cargo van or box truck for more than a month. Take some gear from Washington, DC to Phoenix, AZ. Shoot a movie. Take gear back to DC. Total of around 36 days. [more inside]
posted by Shotgun Shakespeare at 4:41 PM PST - 11 comments

Help me with my adorable new kitty!
How do I care for a kitten who may have been taken too early from his mother? I've never cared for anything younger than a year old, and now I have an 8 week old kitten. [more inside]
posted by kro at 4:10 PM PST - 30 comments

Stop Motion Emergency!
I'm making a stop-motion film, and my camera (a Nikon D40) died mid-shoot. A friend loaned us a different camera (a Nikon D300), and I'm having trouble figuring out what settings I need to change in order to get the same look as my old camera had. Please help me, metafilter! [more inside]
posted by hansbrough at 3:59 PM PST - 12 comments

Keeping it backed up and in synch
Continuous Backup of external drives OS X 10.6 - best system? [more inside]
posted by VikingSword at 3:55 PM PST - 18 comments

Would this tattoo be misconstrued?
How likely is it that my tattoo would be misconstrued as an affront to Holocaust victims (Jews in particular), and how much should I allow that to affect me as I decide whether to get it? [more inside]
posted by Houyhnhnm at 3:43 PM PST - 84 comments

Yippie!
What is the current status of the Youth International Party? (No, I don't mean what can be found via Google.) Who if anyone would need be involved in reviving that group under that name? I am not looking for speculation here, but actual contacts.
posted by Ardiril at 3:15 PM PST - 2 comments

Calorie tracker to use with usb barcode scanner
I have a usb barcode scanner. I'd like to know if there is some kind of web application (or a program that I can download) whereby I scan the barcode of a particular food item and the nutritional information is retrieved. In particular, I'm interested in this so I can keep track of my calorie intake. I've done some searching and found a few iphone apps. However, I don't have an iphone (or any kind of cell phone), so these don't really work for me.
posted by Proginoskes at 3:06 PM PST - 4 comments

See that, officer? I told you it was a UFO.
I'm looking to buy a dashcam, just out of general geekiness and paranoia. Any suggestions? [more inside]
posted by chairface at 2:50 PM PST - 3 comments

Can TikiWiki handle my very specific project?
Will TikiWiki (or similar software) work for my rather specific needs, or do I need to build something myself? [more inside]
posted by uniq at 2:49 PM PST - 1 comments

What happens when Animal Control shows up?
What happens when a dog bite gets reported to the state of Pennsylvania? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 2:42 PM PST - 11 comments

Help me find a webcomic and a webstory
I cannot remember a webcomic that I am sure I found while surfing through metafiltered waters. I also cannot remember a short story that I am also sure I discovered through similar means. Help me, O-Me-Fi, you're my only hope. [more inside]
posted by J0 at 2:42 PM PST - 3 comments

[citation needed]
Do in-text citations made using MLA style necessarily include parentheses? [more inside]
posted by doubtless at 2:34 PM PST - 9 comments

just good not good enough
How can I advance from a pretty good writer to really good writer? [more inside]
posted by yarly at 2:23 PM PST - 27 comments

Dealing with suicidal clients?
In my law practice, I regularly encounter clients who are despondent and suicidal. I don't feel that I am well prepared for dealing with this issue. Without considering the ethical issues as to disclosure, what is the best course of action when dealing with a client who tells you that they're considering suicide? What resources are available as a guide to dealing with a suicidal client? [more inside]
posted by Dignan at 2:15 PM PST - 11 comments

The Easter bunny is on the lam
How to capture a domestic bunny that was released into the wild? [more inside]
posted by ladybird at 1:50 PM PST - 5 comments

Toxin-free low rent vermiculture
I'd like to use hard PVC piping to make a worm tower for my garden - how safe is this? [more inside]
posted by ryanshepard at 1:22 PM PST - 10 comments

Soft top convertible without a garage?
Is it just flat out stupid to get a soft top convertible if you don't have a garage and live in NY (or more generically, a place where it snows a few times a year)? [more inside]
posted by Brian Puccio at 1:21 PM PST - 19 comments

Forced to redecorate the bedroom. Halp!
So. This renovation just keeps getting worse. Now the bedroom is involved. Help me brainstorm new flooring, wall color, and keep me sane. [more inside]
posted by bilabial at 1:21 PM PST - 8 comments

Steam Heat
I'm about to sign a lease on a commercial space that has radiator heating. The landlord wants us to pay one third of the heating costs for the building, as the space takes up the ground floor of a three story building. At first this seemed logical to me, then I thought about it a bit... [more inside]
posted by newpotato at 1:13 PM PST - 12 comments

Is there an Ipod Classic Cemetery?
My old Ipod Classic has been slow to start lately, and at times couldn't be stopped without a reset. Today, however, it started making a sad sound reminiscent of a spinning disk scraping against cardboard, interrupted by occasional quiet mournful beeps and a cute icon of a sad Ipod, along with the apple website support address. It does not seem to be able to restart, no matter what. So -- do I take it somewhere (?where?) for repairs/refurbishment or give it a decent burial -- and if the latter, what does one do with an Ipod loaded with personal stuff which can't be restarted or wiped?
posted by bearwife at 1:12 PM PST - 12 comments

How can I make calls on my android without using up my minutes, via siproid or google voice?
How can I make calls on my android without using up my minutes, via sipdroid and/or google voice? [more inside]
posted by Patrick Leo at 1:06 PM PST - 6 comments

Looking for a meditation radio show
Looking for a meditation radio show [more inside]
posted by freakazoid at 1:05 PM PST - 6 comments

How do I hide a computer when I’m not using it?
How do I hide a computer when I’m not using it? I want to use a PC in the living area of my house but not leave electronics in plain sight. [more inside]
posted by coondognd at 12:35 PM PST - 12 comments

Spoilers!
Are there any examples of particularly elegant implementations of "spoiler tags" out there that work well with both screen readers and touch/mobile based site designs?
posted by Artw at 12:35 PM PST - 11 comments

Taxonomy or list of English grammatical constructs?
Taxonomy (or just a list) of English grammatical constructs suitable for use as a checklist for a second language learner? [more inside]
posted by amtho at 12:33 PM PST - 11 comments

Do we need a Living Trust?
In California, what are the benefits of a Revocable Living Trust and a will? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:31 PM PST - 4 comments

Home security systems for dummies.
Home security systems for dummies. [more inside]
posted by Capri at 12:29 PM PST - 8 comments

Is there a way to 'short' higher education?
Is there a 'bubble' in higher education? By that I mean, are there too many colleges right now, who are charging too much for tuition, and too many people paying too much for degrees, and taking loans that they will never be able to pay off? And assuming that there is such a bubble, and it were to burst, how would a deeply cynical person invest to make money on the collapse in the way that some savvy people made money on the housing market collapse?
posted by empath at 12:22 PM PST - 22 comments

Let's....Let's Play Together
What Two-player cooperative apps are there for the iPad and iPod Touch? [more inside]
posted by cashman at 12:21 PM PST - 6 comments

post p90x plan
If P90X worked for you, what did you do after you finished the program? [more inside]
posted by roger ackroyd at 12:13 PM PST - 7 comments

Impersonal Gift Ideas Needed
I need a completely generic, impersonal thank you gift for a boss with whom I spend a ton of time but about whom I know next to nothing. [more inside]
posted by pineappleheart at 12:10 PM PST - 22 comments

Hit me up with your 1 or 2 day Boston area trip suggestions!
Decent 1 or 2 day trips from Boston area? [more inside]
posted by modernnomad at 12:06 PM PST - 14 comments

Should I report my Nanny to CPS
I am concerned that my son's Nanny may have gotten high while looking after my son. Should I report this to CPA/CPS? [more inside]
posted by Metheglen at 11:53 AM PST - 42 comments

Treemaps that can use an image for each node.
Any treemap / other visualization software that can use a named image file to represent each node? [more inside]
posted by inflatablekiwi at 11:37 AM PST - 1 comments

That... sounds... gooey and romantic.
Help me plan a swanky superdate in Cleveland! [more inside]
posted by Tehhund at 11:12 AM PST - 6 comments

Nanny Time
I'll be watching my friend's 1 year old for 6 hours a day (9-3), 5 days a week for the summer. I'll be bringing my 11 month old to her house. Our kids get along well and her place is well baby-proofed. I bought a double jogger and she bought an extra high chair and car seat. I've never dealt with two babies before and I need advice. [more inside]
posted by kristymcj at 11:12 AM PST - 7 comments

Are there companies that sell access to nutritional information databases that I could subscribe to that a smartphone app could make use of via scanning bar codes and performing certain custom calculations?
When someone makes an Android/iPhone app that scans a food product's bar code and returns nutrition information on that food from a database, who made that database? I can see Weight Watchers doing their own, but surely not everybody reinvents the wheel on this every time somebody makes an app that does something similar. Does anyone sell access to such a database? If so, who is that? [more inside]
posted by Askr at 11:05 AM PST - 6 comments

Am I screwing myself financially long-term if I go for a cheapie uncontested divorce?
Am I screwing myself financially in the long run if I go for a cheapie quickie uncontested divorce? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 11:00 AM PST - 20 comments

The numbers are on my side, right? Do these numbers exist?
What are the chances that my pregnancy will be normal and I'll have a healthy baby? I'm not asking for fortune-telling; I'm asking for statistics. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 10:59 AM PST - 17 comments

How to illustrate U.S. public debt?
How would you illustrate the U.S. public debt of $14 trillion in a concrete way? [more inside]
posted by keijo at 10:07 AM PST - 21 comments

This thing makes a polio-stricken girl in a field look positively cheerful
Art ID: old print, possibly by Andrew Wyeth? Help solve this family mystery! [more inside]
posted by ErikaB at 10:04 AM PST - 3 comments

Is 'Psychology of Incompetence' competent?
Is Norman Dixon's On The Psychology Of Military Incompetence still considered to be an accurate portrayal of organisational psychology? [more inside]
posted by Jakob at 9:59 AM PST - 1 comments

ISO Jesus for Dummies, Jr.
Is there a book (or books) that explains Christianity that's suitable for an atheist 10 year old? [more inside]
posted by vespabelle at 9:54 AM PST - 26 comments

Seattle's weather goddess is a cruel, cruel mistress.
Help me deal with my debilitating S.A.D. that is worse in the transition between winter/spring (now!) [more inside]
posted by Idafolk at 9:48 AM PST - 9 comments

Learning to use computers in Spanish.
Is there a good Spanish-language primer/course/guide for beginners wanting to learn Windows? [more inside]
posted by Evilspork at 9:42 AM PST - 1 comments

How should I respond on a wedding invite if I do not have a date yet?
How should I respond on a wedding invite if I do not have a date yet? [more inside]
posted by *lostatsea* at 9:41 AM PST - 28 comments

career choice
Career Counseling: What is the best resource for finding out what people actually do? Your job isn't your title or what you know, but what you sit there and do all day long. [more inside]
posted by amsterdam63 at 9:38 AM PST - 3 comments

photocopying textbooks?
I have been asked to explain to a group of college students the consequences of copyright violation. Specifically, the consequences of photocopying entire textbooks instead of buying them. I know it's illegal because it deprives the publisher of the opportunity to make money off of the book, but what are the legal consequences? Do publishers really ever sue individual college students over illegal photocopying of their books? [more inside]
posted by foxinthesnow at 9:17 AM PST - 33 comments

Civilian deployment blog?
I'm looking for a blog about a civilian embarking on a short-term deployment to Afghanistan (or Iraq?) in some sort of support role—I think he was involved in engineering or computer modeling or mapping or something similar. I believe he was either a MeFite or was mentioned somewhere on MetaFilter. Anyone have a link? [more inside]
posted by limeonaire at 9:11 AM PST - 3 comments

Great Gift Ideas for a Road Warrior
Gift ideas for a friend who is on the road constantly? [more inside]
posted by willie11 at 9:10 AM PST - 20 comments

Help me clean my car!
What products and methods should I use to go about cleaning the interior of a car? [more inside]
posted by foxy_hedgehog at 8:48 AM PST - 15 comments

Tracking with informed consent
What iPhone/Android apps are used in research, along the lines of Mappiness? [more inside]
posted by Korou at 8:46 AM PST - 1 comments

I really want this job...
A friend of mine put me in touch through email with someone who works at a company I'd like to work for. She told me to send her my resume and she'd bring it in for me (awesome!). I haven't got a response to an email asking her if she had brought it in. Should I send it (again?) through more official channels? [more inside]
posted by pised at 8:46 AM PST - 6 comments

Cereal = Soup?
Is cereal a soup? [more inside]
posted by Carillon at 8:45 AM PST - 88 comments

Are we crazy to camp...?
Will it be too cold to stay in a campervan in August in Victoria, Australia? [more inside]
posted by raspberry-ripple at 8:43 AM PST - 6 comments

Looking for a tablet for video, word and and pdfs. Not an iPad.
Looking for a tablet-like media device that plays ripped DVDs, and easily saves and views PDFs and Word docs to take with me travelling. Fitting in a small carry bag would be great as well. Difficulty: Not an iPad. [more inside]
posted by evadery at 8:17 AM PST - 27 comments

Cheaper to buy a local cellphone while travelling?
I'm travelling in the US (Los Angeles) from Canada. What are my phone options? i'm sick of paying my local company's roaming charges. Can I buy a phone in LA that'll have full data/text/voice options for a month? If so, what'll it cost me? Can I just buy a chip for my iPhone for that month with no contract? (And if so, what's the best way to unlock it). Also, is there a way to forward SMS/text messages sent to my Toronto number? [more inside]
posted by dobbs at 8:16 AM PST - 3 comments

Where to stay during summerfest?
Summerfest in Milwaukee questions. Where to stay and what to do? [more inside]
posted by travis08 at 7:53 AM PST - 12 comments

How do I grab an unused domain?
How do I grab a domain that is currently parked but not in use? [more inside]
posted by special-k at 7:38 AM PST - 9 comments

Latin help
Quick Latin translation help needed! [more inside]
posted by cardamine at 7:35 AM PST - 6 comments

Fetish... Anxiety... Asexuality... Help?!
A fetish is causing me a great deal of anxiety, could anyone help me figure out how to deal with this? [more inside]
posted by Scrimshaw at 7:27 AM PST - 19 comments

Navigating job offer timelines?
I interviewed for a seasonal job and an internship. I was offered the job, and haven't heard about the internship. I would prefer the internship. They told me they would get back to me this week.... is it okay to contact them and ask if they've made a decision? [more inside]
posted by geegollygosh at 7:11 AM PST - 4 comments

Am I moving to a decent apartment or a human kiln?
Has anyone survived a Texas summer (or a similar hell-like environment) living in a second story 110 year old building that has floor vents for air conditioning? Yeehaw. [more inside]
posted by hillabeans at 7:05 AM PST - 14 comments

YANAD/YANMD – Was I mis-diagnosed?
Last Thursday and Friday I had really bad pain in my back on the right side, in the middle – just about where the ribcage ends. I had a low-grade fever on Friday evening. On Saturday morning I decided that the pain was bad enough to necessitate a trip to an Urgent Care facility, as my doctor does not have weekend hours. [more inside]
posted by sleepykitties at 6:59 AM PST - 11 comments

Fast Keystroke Navigation in Windows
Is there an open source or shareware program like Quickjump? allowing jumping to a folder with a few keystrokes? [more inside]
posted by flexiverse at 6:48 AM PST - 4 comments

How does Bates Numbering on exam papers reduce the possibility of cheating in universities?
How does Bates Numbering on exam papers reduce the possibility of cheating in universities? [more inside]
posted by gttommy at 6:38 AM PST - 7 comments

GPS....
Help me understand GPS devices for cars. [more inside]
posted by dfriedman at 6:08 AM PST - 26 comments

My fiancee would murder me if I murdered the baby birds.
When can I fix this hole in my house without killing the baby birds? [more inside]
posted by InsanePenguin at 6:06 AM PST - 8 comments

Help us name our health site/blog
Please suggest names for a healthy living website... [more inside]
posted by pearlybob at 5:52 AM PST - 6 comments

Dropping out of grad school
I'm planning to drop out of grad school in a few weeks. My questions is, when do I tell my advisor? I would wait until the last day of the semester, but I have a big presentation that will require my thesis committee member's time. I really don't want to do this presentation so would telling my advisor before this happens be a good idea? I also feel it would be more decent of me to tell my advisor sooner rather than later, but I'm not sure what to do. My advisor can be really mean and may make my life a living hell for the final weeks/days that I'm there (though I guess I deserve it). Any insight is greatly appreciated.
posted by Lost82 at 4:19 AM PST - 17 comments

Look at this face, what do you see?
Please help name my Italian Greyhound puppy before he develops a major identity crisis. [more inside]
posted by LongDrive at 3:30 AM PST - 72 comments

Help looking for a sci-fi story?
I'm looking for a web novel/short story: sci-fi, underwater research facility, end of society, etc. [more inside]
posted by Cpt. The Mango at 3:17 AM PST - 5 comments

Traveling from Nepal to Tibet: during monsoon season? Seeking tour and advice
Traveling from Nepal to Tibet: during monsoon season? Seeking tour and advice [more inside]
posted by wingless_angel at 2:49 AM PST - 6 comments

Places for great photos in South Wales?
Places in South Wales for photo-hungry tourists? [more inside]
posted by Mwongozi at 2:48 AM PST - 11 comments

Help me find a half-remembered article
Half-remembered-article-filter: Being a single male in your 40s. [more inside]
posted by StephenF at 2:29 AM PST - 4 comments

Girl...on a budget...very shallow pockets...moving across country...what is the safest/cheapest way to get this accomplished?
How does one move across country with the least amount of headaches possible? [more inside]
posted by penguingrl at 12:52 AM PST - 20 comments

I want to sail around Australia. Help me!
I'd like to circumnavigate Australia in a sail boat one day. What's the best way to learn about sailing to prepare me for the trip? what do I need to know to survive? and more... [more inside]
posted by Bacillus at 12:46 AM PST - 13 comments

Actually, I just don't like you.
Someone I don't like has asked what she did to make me not like her - should I tell her the truth or just gloss over it? [more inside]
posted by cilantro at 12:29 AM PST - 47 comments

April 25
mandarin-english dictionary with unicode
Looking for chinese english dictionary with unicode code points [more inside]
posted by lahersedor at 11:17 PM PST - 4 comments

Hi, how are you?
What do you say to friends or acquaintances when passing each other while walking in opposite directions? [more inside]
posted by masters2010 at 11:14 PM PST - 30 comments

Croatia to the EU?
Croatia to the EU? [more inside]
posted by mtheshark at 11:08 PM PST - 6 comments

How do I change my life from an immature lax kid to a mature responsible man?
I need help with my life especially what's going on with me nowadays. How to defeat my fear of failure? How should I start living a fresh life? How do I actually start? [more inside]
posted by Johnkx at 10:19 PM PST - 11 comments

Please help me figure out how to get from Paris to Chamonix and back, via train.
Please help me figure out how to get from Paris to Chamonix and back, via train, 2 weeks from today. [more inside]
posted by xotis at 10:17 PM PST - 9 comments

Where do the really good custom CMS creators show off their work?
Where can I read about the craft of deploying really well-designed, client-appropriate content management solutions for the web? [more inside]
posted by circular at 9:24 PM PST - 1 comments

Believe Me If All These Endearing Charms sounds like Home on the Range
Why do parts of the song Believe Me, If All These Endearing Young Charms sound like Home on the Range? [more inside]
posted by mtphoto at 8:54 PM PST - 6 comments

Please help me be happy in Kalispell.
I got a sweet internship in Kalispell, MT going from mid-June through July. I've never been up there - what should I know, see, and do? [more inside]
posted by adorap0621 at 8:32 PM PST - 11 comments

Not Another Nicholas Nickelby
What are some characters named Nicholas in well known, or hopefully famous, works of literature? [more inside]
posted by miss-lapin at 8:29 PM PST - 24 comments

Who can I hire in Portland to convert an analog slideshow to digital?
One of my aunts has a slideshow of her life (meaning actual slides in a slide projector) that has been matched with some music on cassette tapes. My aunt's family would like this transferred to DVD. They lack the technical know-how and money to get this done, so they've turned to me for help. If I had time, I could convert the slides and cassettes to digital format. I don't have time. I do have money, though. Can you recommend a company in Portland, Oregon that will convert an analog slideshow to digital? Cost is no object, really. If there are no good options in Portland, I'm willing to consider shipping this elsewhere to get the work accomplished.
posted by jdroth at 8:13 PM PST - 2 comments

Am I a jerk/idiot for wanting the ultimate man-cave... my own place!?
Am I a jerk/idiot for wanting the ultimate man-cave... my own place!? [more inside]
posted by sharingideas at 8:01 PM PST - 58 comments

Dear new friend.
I would like to be a Mid-East soldier's internet pen pal. [more inside]
posted by hubble at 7:00 PM PST - 11 comments

Opening a Can Should Be Easy
Best hand operated can opener ever! Recommendations? [more inside]
posted by 47triple2 at 6:46 PM PST - 27 comments

Help me find globe string lights
Where to find 150 ft + of Globe String Lights for cheap (like these, only looooong). [more inside]
posted by nadise at 6:42 PM PST - 5 comments

How to switch apps well on a Mac?
I just bought my first Mac (Leopard). It seems like Command + tab to switch applications is way less useful than Ctrl + tab was on my Windows--I don't really want to tab between things I've shut but not closed (or however you say it), and repeatedly four-finger swiping to view all open apps makes me have to look for which one I want every time, which is slow. Am I missing something?
posted by wpenman at 6:24 PM PST - 34 comments

I've got nothing but time...
What would you do with 2 months and $2000? [more inside]
posted by brynna at 6:17 PM PST - 28 comments

Truck + BBQ = Name?
Challenge: The BEST name for a food truck serving excellent BBQ? [more inside]
posted by kjs3 at 6:09 PM PST - 59 comments

Pharmaceutical Companies in Denver?
ColoradoFilter: Who are the major industrial players in Colorado, specifically the Denver region? Are any pharmaceutical companies big there? I may be dragging the SO to Boulder with me for law school, and he needs a job in this field. (slightly more inside!) [more inside]
posted by traversionischaracter at 5:47 PM PST - 8 comments

Computer ignoramus at the helm over here.
How do I make videos to put on Vimeo when I just have audio? [more inside]
posted by custard heart at 5:44 PM PST - 3 comments

Getting business cards
Where is the best place to get embossed business cards? [more inside]
posted by a womble is an active kind of sloth at 5:36 PM PST - 11 comments

Help me look cute while not getting the evil Grandma eye!
Find me a dress, chubby tattooed girl version. [more inside]
posted by youcancallmeal at 5:23 PM PST - 23 comments

Where should newlyweds travel over the Christmas holiday?
Where should newlyweds travel over the Christmas holiday? My fiancée and I are going to spend our first Christmas together as a married couple apart from our families. We are trying to decide where we should go. We aren't looking to do something on a super small budget (like no hostels, shared showers, etc.), but we also can't spend an obscene amount. We enjoy beaches, food, culture, and maybe some adventure. We are going to Mexico for our honeymoon so that is out. We are traveling from NYC if that influences your ideas. We welcome all suggestions. Thanks in advance.
posted by misterL at 5:21 PM PST - 15 comments

Casual off-site conference meetup in New Orleans
Looking for a place in New Orleans to host a casual meetup during a conference. Any ideas? [more inside]
posted by roll truck roll at 5:11 PM PST - 6 comments

wine and dash?
name-this-really-long-fundraising-run filter! featuring: wine and a really great cause. [more inside]
posted by crawfo at 5:07 PM PST - 13 comments

But what if I CAN'T make it there?
I just graduated, and I have an opportunity to live rent-free in NYC for a couple of months while looking for work. Can you think of a reason this is a bad idea? [more inside]
posted by showbiz_liz at 4:56 PM PST - 36 comments

Vegetarian+Office+South Beach?
Office-lunch-friendly South Beach food for vegetarians? [more inside]
posted by c'mon sea legs at 4:53 PM PST - 4 comments

Small fire pit inside gazebo... bad idea??
Is it possible to put a small fire pit underneath a metal/fabric gazebo? [more inside]
posted by Thrillhouse at 4:34 PM PST - 10 comments

F yeah starting a community garden
Give me a crash course (links, personal experiences) in helping start a community garden! [more inside]
posted by mandymanwasregistered at 4:10 PM PST - 4 comments

Splitting Disneyland Tickets?
Can two people split up a two-day Disneyland ticket? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:46 PM PST - 10 comments

Longer, place-oriented fruitcake books. Panforte?
Looking for fruitcake books strongly rooted in a sense of place. [more inside]
posted by rebekah at 3:24 PM PST - 14 comments

Getting songs on Beatport
How do you go about releasing songs on Beatport? [more inside]
posted by fantasticninety at 3:22 PM PST - 2 comments

Why do I tear up my shoes like this??
Why do I tear up my shoes like this?? I do this to all of my tennis shoes. Is there an insert or something that I can place in my shoes to help stop this nonsense?
posted by Jackie_Treehorn at 2:59 PM PST - 18 comments

dye that "ran" a bit---health hazard?
I recently Rit-dyed a silk outfit for a special reception. The dye "ran" a bit at the underarms, staining my undergarment. Is this a health hazard? [more inside]
posted by ragtimepiano at 2:52 PM PST - 1 comments

SF Filter: Where can I find more SF in the vein of Peter Watt's "The Island"?
SF Filter: Where can I find more science fiction in the vein of Peter Watt's "The Island"? [more inside]
posted by jjonajason at 2:45 PM PST - 7 comments

Spiders Terrify Me, but I Want One as a Pet
I'm considering getting a spider as a pet. A tarantula of some sort. Can anybody provide some tips for me? [more inside]
posted by jabberjaw at 2:39 PM PST - 9 comments

Help me ride a broken raft...
Is there a good (definitive or even just interesting, really...) companion reader to Ezra Pound's Pisan Cantos? [more inside]
posted by RollingGreens at 2:35 PM PST - 4 comments

How do I properly show 2 addresses?
Two addresses. The physical address the other the mailing address. How do I show this in my letterhead? Business card? Invoices? I'm stumped.
posted by pianomover at 2:28 PM PST - 9 comments

Words like "birther"
Is there a canonical list of words like "birther" and "truther"? [more inside]
posted by moammargaret at 2:22 PM PST - 13 comments

I need my web site translated into Spanish
I need to have my web site translated into Spanish. Is there an online service that will do this cheaply and that I can trust? [more inside]
posted by banished at 2:18 PM PST - 5 comments

Tips on Fighting Irrational Anxious Thoughts?
I struggle greatly with anxiety and am on a crazy amount of meds simply to sleep and relax. I am doing things to get through such as exercise, yoga and breath/meditating. One of the things that I read and have been implementing is answering 'cognitive distortions' with reality-based answers. Basically, I think I'm helpless (it spirals from an event to "I'm going to lose my job" all the way to "I'm not going to make it"). I've read the books like Feeling Good and do techniques on paper but am not sure how to think realistically and come up with any responses that I believe. This has been going on for some time. Any others who struggle and have tips on how you have tackled cognitive distortions (aka Bullshit Thoughts)? I am not in a hurry and am willing to put in solid effort. I am asking for help but am willing to try to believe I'm not helpless in the long haul. (BTW, I haven't been able to afford a counselor....yet.)
posted by anonymous at 1:44 PM PST - 19 comments

Advice for getting through the mid-twenties identity crisis?
What has helped you get through the identity crisis that sometimes occurs in your twenties/thirties? What has helped you form your sense of who you are as an entity separate from your parents/schooling? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 1:44 PM PST - 31 comments

How to get a postdoc position in the social sciences
I'm interested in potentially pursuing a postdoc and have no idea how the process works! I'm completing my PhD in the social sciences in Canada and wondering how one goes about getting these positions and if I can secure my own funding, can I go anywhere? [more inside]
posted by DorothySmith at 1:40 PM PST - 10 comments

What do I do after my automatic sprinkler goes off?
What do you do after an automatic sprinkler in your home gets activated? [more inside]
posted by 0xFCAF at 1:30 PM PST - 10 comments

Sloth much?
How can I be more active in my daily life? [more inside]
posted by Sassyfras at 1:27 PM PST - 25 comments

Like a sitcom, but in my ears
Scripted comedy podcasts? [more inside]
posted by mumblingmynah at 1:26 PM PST - 14 comments

When is it necessary to write a cover letter?
When is it necessary to write a cover letter? [more inside]
posted by Sloop John B at 1:06 PM PST - 16 comments

rap lyric disambiguation
we can’t figure this out… is the guy saying “simply to simplifiy” or “simply the semper fi” at [nsfw/violent lyrics] this timestamp at 3m30s
posted by the mad poster! at 1:04 PM PST - 9 comments

Guitar -> ??? -> iPad -> audio files
What connection kit and software do you recommend for amp modeling and recording guitar on iOS? I'd like to plug the guitar into the connector, pick an amp, record stuff, then get the audio files either off the device or into other apps for mixing.
posted by ignignokt at 12:35 PM PST - 8 comments

artfilter question - help identify this painting from the museum of art fort lauderdale
looking for clarification on this painting i recently spotted in ft. lauderdale. i assume it is a robert henri, which is why i snapped it, but then ingeniously neglected to check.
posted by camdan at 12:32 PM PST - 3 comments

Going it alone following adrenal vein sampling (AVS).
Once my ride home from the hospital drops me off, what should I expect to be unable to do by myself after my adrenal vein sampling procedure? [more inside]
posted by chez shoes at 12:25 PM PST - 12 comments

Mrs. Betty Draper
What do I need to be a good corporate wife? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:16 PM PST - 35 comments

How many hats is one person supposed to wear?
Am I incompetent or being pulled in too many directions? Very long, I'm afraid. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:15 PM PST - 12 comments

Not Constantinople
I’m beginning to think about a trip to Istanbul (from the DC area) in September or October (dates somewhat flexible). Detailed questions and background inside… [more inside]
posted by JoanArkham at 12:11 PM PST - 26 comments

The best classic/progressive rock vinyl albums?
Recommendations for the best prog/classic rock vinyl albums? [more inside]
posted by pickinganameismuchharderthanihadanticipated at 12:06 PM PST - 39 comments

How to become an omnivore...and like it?
An adult friend of mine is very, very picky about food. She doesn't eat any vegetables in their recognizable forms (e.g. hates tomatoes, but tomato sauce is no problem). Fruits, meats, dairy and other starchy stuff (bread, potatoes, rice, etc.) are all OK, but she'll gag on a piece of lettuce. What can she do to expand her tastes? Is it as simple as forcing yourself to eat a tomato once a day, or is there any pattern for how people can learn to appreciate more foods? [more inside]
posted by phaedrus441 at 11:57 AM PST - 44 comments

Seeking a poem about blurry vision
I am looking for a poem I read once online about an artist (Matisse? Gaugin?) who confronts his eye doctor about not wanting to wear eyeglasses. In the poem, the artist talks about how his blurry vision allows him to experience the world as connected. It's a really beautiful poem, but I can't find it through all of the eyeglasses spam on Google. Can anyone point me to the poem?
posted by salishsea at 11:31 AM PST - 6 comments

Any tips on Harris Wofford?
Graduation gift ideas: Does anyone have the contact information for Former Senator Harris Wofford? Or alternatively, any old campaign memorabilia? [more inside]
posted by quodlibet at 11:00 AM PST - 4 comments

What's a great sewing class for this summer???
For sewing/textile geeks out there: My summer just opened up and I have the time and financial resources to take an awesome class somewhere in something. Any recommendations??? [more inside]
posted by ashtabula to opelika at 10:57 AM PST - 7 comments

Weird interviewing situation.
I really think I got screwed during my grad school interview. Should I try to remedy it, or will that just look like I'm being a spoilsport? [more inside]
posted by Viola at 10:54 AM PST - 12 comments

Baby shower play list
I'd like to put together a play list of songs that you probably shouldn't play at a baby shower. [more inside]
posted by phelixshu at 10:52 AM PST - 93 comments

Proximity between homes and schools
X% of people live within Y miles of a public school. Where can I find datapoints for X and Y? [more inside]
posted by bac at 10:50 AM PST - 12 comments

Tracking Devices: How do they bleepin' work?
Follow-up: What could temporarily block or disable the tracking anklet my fictional character is wearing? [more inside]
posted by baronessa at 10:48 AM PST - 16 comments

Trying to get to the root of what's causing my dog's reoccurring discharge.
Can you help me identify this reoccurring discharge my dog is having? Pictures included. [more inside]
posted by jwfree at 10:44 AM PST - 6 comments

SNL Sketch About No Yes
Does it bother anyone else when people say "Yeah. No." or vice versa? Saturday Night Live spoofed this in the last few years. Help me find the sketch or other examples of people criticizing this recent-ish sentence structure. [more inside]
posted by davextreme at 10:19 AM PST - 29 comments

Have you ever taken Enbrel?
I may start taking Enbrel to treat moderate-to-severe psoriasis (no - knock on wood - arthritis to date), and I'm wondering if anyone here has experience with it. [more inside]
posted by The Card Cheat at 10:06 AM PST - 11 comments

Fat pills for the fatty
I suspect I have Body Dysmorphic Disorder and Avoidant Personality Disorder. My current psychiatrist is only treating me for Social Anxiety/selective mutism. During our first session he did not focus on what I consider to be the disorders causing me to remain homebound and avoidant of people. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 10:06 AM PST - 13 comments

Buddhist Mythology
Recommendation for a book of Buddhist mythology? [more inside]
posted by Paquda at 10:05 AM PST - 6 comments

Recommendations for Bay Area libraries to visit
My friend and I are going on a driving tour of awesome/strange/compelling Bay Area libraries and we're looking for recommendations. The only one on the list so far is the Mills College rare books room. We're open to special libraries, public libraries, academic . . . . the only criteria is that it is not actually in San Francisco (since we have use of a car for the day we don't want to waste it on things she can access via public transportation). Recommendations?
posted by gingham at 9:41 AM PST - 19 comments

Woofers shake uncontrollably at moderate volumes with turntable source; why?
When increasing the amplifier volume beyond a certain level, my speakers' woofers begin to shake spasmodically when my turntable is the source. However, the same problem doesn't occur with a digital source at higher volumes. What's goin' ahn? [more inside]
posted by alexandermatheson at 9:39 AM PST - 10 comments

Employee with mental health issues.
Need advice on handling an employee's mental health issue. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:24 AM PST - 21 comments

Gonna need an ocean…of calamine lotion
Three weeks ago, I was exposed to poison ivy, and it wound up going systemic on me. I am going to be placing myself at risk of exposure again, and need to limit the damage. There is a product called Oral Ivy that has been recommended to me as a preventative. I have questions. [more inside]
posted by adamrice at 9:24 AM PST - 17 comments

Ultra-portable toss-up
ThinkPad X120e or Asus Transformer? Lightroom capability on the Thinkpad? Honeycomb photo apps? [more inside]
posted by tropikal at 9:22 AM PST - 9 comments

I don't even get past the second song on my playlist...
I can't run for more than 3 minutes or so without getting shin splints - what's going on, and how can I fix it? [more inside]
posted by SNWidget at 9:19 AM PST - 47 comments

Please tell me more about project management
What are some of the project management best practices? Are there tools that can help keep a program manager aware of details or is this a characteristic of the person? If I wanted to hire a project manager, what should I look for to get a good/skilled person? Are there contract/independent project managers? [more inside]
posted by Wolfster at 8:45 AM PST - 7 comments

Help me with life choices!
Help me with my life problem! I want to move, my husband does not. [more inside]
posted by sadieglass at 8:45 AM PST - 38 comments

What happens if Korean immigration refuses my tourist visa?
What happens if Korean immigration refuses my tourist visa? I am a Canadian living in Korea using tourist visas. I am doing online university from Canada and I am not working illegally. I have an apartment in Korea and I am worried that if I get rejected for some reason, I will have no way to get my things. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:44 AM PST - 4 comments

job interview in France, help me avoid awkwardness
What should I know about french cultural conventions in the context of a job interview? [more inside]
posted by valdesm at 8:42 AM PST - 5 comments

Will Kindle Demons Eat My Baby?
I want to self-publish my urban fantasy novel, but I'm worried about shooting myself in the foot with a number of decisions. [more inside]
posted by scaryblackdeath at 8:37 AM PST - 8 comments

Best iPhone apps
What are the very best (i.e. most useful) iPhone apps in these specific categories? [more inside]
posted by Go Banana at 8:36 AM PST - 18 comments

Oh, it's THAT song!
What are some melodies or samples that everyone recognizes but most people don't know the origin of? [more inside]
posted by theodolite at 8:30 AM PST - 35 comments

Extended low grade fever - when is it doctor time?
Low grade fever for 10 days with (mostly) no other symptoms. When is it doctor time? [more inside]
posted by booksherpa at 8:21 AM PST - 19 comments

How to move songs in a playlist to an external drive on a Mac?
How to move a single playlist worth of music from my iMac to an external drive... ? [more inside]
posted by You Should See the Other Guy at 8:16 AM PST - 4 comments

How to disinvite someone to be my date to a wedding?
I asked a friend of mine to go with me to a family wedding because I thought my boyfriend would be unable to attend. Plans changed and he can now attend. The bride and other family members know my boyfriend and want him to come. How could I disinvite my friend to take my boyfriend? I know this is extremely rude and feel bad. Thanks.
posted by seesom at 8:14 AM PST - 35 comments

Vegans and carnivores, living together ...
Where can vegans and carnivores get some good food together in NYC? [more inside]
posted by troywestfield at 8:13 AM PST - 7 comments

I hope that someone gets my, I hope that someone gets my, message in a...
When my girlfriend checks into her hotel in Europe a couple months from now, I'd like her to have a letter from me waiting on her, is this possible to arrange? [more inside]
posted by althanis at 7:59 AM PST - 12 comments

How to watch my dog at home when I'm at work?
Is there a good iphone app that will allow me to use my Mac's built in camera (or multiple Macs cameras) to monitor my home? I need an app that will record both audio and video (and save them to my computer) not just play sound when I am monitoring it through my phone. [more inside]
posted by laxlaws at 7:51 AM PST - 2 comments

What are some accounts of black slavery in America?
What are some good recent fictional and non-fictional accounts of African-American slavery in pre-Civil War America? [more inside]
posted by Potomac Avenue at 7:44 AM PST - 14 comments

Selling with "World" Music
Asking for a student: we're looking for TV commercials that have any kind of identifiably "world music" or more generally non-western musical styles in their soundtracks. [more inside]
posted by fourcheesemac at 7:35 AM PST - 24 comments

How do I help my parents from several states away?
How do I stop having extreme anxiety when I think about the fact that I live 1,500 miles away from aging parents? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:23 AM PST - 21 comments

What are little things I can do each day to lower the amount in which I care what people think of me?
What are little things I can do each day to lower the amount in which I care what people think of me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:22 AM PST - 26 comments

what the heck are these things?
Please help me identify the device seen here (3 pics) what i'm looking for is the specific brand etc. [more inside]
posted by chasles at 7:14 AM PST - 14 comments

Tell me about yourself
Following from this question, how do you approach and answer the classic interview questions? I am looking for specific examples / tactics around questions like: Tell me about yourself? How do you deal with ambiguity? How did you manage a difficult personality? How do you deal with competing priorities? How do you influence people? Any of the examples in the aforementioned thread are fair game. I am interested in both your specific answers but also your general approach / goal in answering the question. Personal anecdotes a plus!
posted by jasondigitized at 7:05 AM PST - 8 comments

Where can I sell used DVDs in Canada?
Where can I sell used DVDs in Canada? [more inside]
posted by GlassHeart at 6:47 AM PST - 7 comments

Trader Joes for the Preggos
Help me put together a care package for a pregnant friend based on shopping at Trader Joe's. [more inside]
posted by librarianamy at 6:24 AM PST - 10 comments

How to Spend My Mid-Spring Staycation
You live in New York City. (Brooklyn, to be exact.) You have two weeks of unemployment before you start a new job, during which you can do WHATEVER YOU WANT. You don't have a car, so staying within the realm of public transportation is important. Where do you go? What do you do? [more inside]
posted by blackcatcuriouser at 5:37 AM PST - 26 comments

I'm going to be in Venice for the next week and a half! Please give me some recommendations for food and sightseeing. Thanks!
Hi all. I am looking for recommendations for food in Venice (anything from a Paninoteca to a Ristorante). I've read that it is difficult to find good food in Venice, so I'm hoping the Metafilter hive mind can help me out. In addition, any recommendations for sightseeing would be great. Especially non-traditional/off the beaten path stuff. Thanks again.
posted by batou_ at 5:32 AM PST - 11 comments

Parking in Boston
I'm currently apartment-hunting in Boston, and have a question about how street-parking works (specifically, in the winter). [more inside]
posted by maryrussell at 5:19 AM PST - 14 comments

Party like it's 1991 in a maternity ward.
Where in south east Asia can 16 adults - half 20s, half 40s - have a good time for a week. Requirements: beach and relaxation for all, nightclubs and shopping for some. Not too overblown but not too quiet and within a day's easy travel of a main airport. Hotel / resort / villa recommendations welcome. Budget up to US/Aus $70 per person per night. [more inside]
posted by Kerasia at 5:01 AM PST - 4 comments

Resources for making handmade jewellery (earrings)
Looking for information about making handmade jewellery (earrings) - resources, tips, help, suggestions, etc. [more inside]
posted by dbirchum at 4:37 AM PST - 7 comments

Disappearing Files
Is iTunesU supposed to act like this (ie: auto-delete after a single play)? [more inside]
posted by RavinDave at 12:42 AM PST - 8 comments

April 24
Why is my belly so pootchy?
Suggestions for reducing a pootchy far-post-pregnancy belly? [more inside]
posted by leahwrenn at 11:04 PM PST - 8 comments

How do I translate "販売、サービス 改善部 into English?
How would you translate 販売、サービス改善部 (kaizenbu) into English? [more inside]
posted by farce majeure at 10:15 PM PST - 3 comments

What did your personal trainer teach you about getting fit?
What did your personal trainer teach you about getting fit? [more inside]
posted by mintchip at 9:57 PM PST - 26 comments

Have you had sedation dentistry? Can you tell me about it?
Have you had sedation dentistry? Can you tell me about it? [more inside]
posted by onepot at 9:23 PM PST - 40 comments

Memorable Mothers' Day
My best friend's husband has asked for help finding a first Mother's Day gift. We're at a loss. Hope him? [more inside]
posted by amelioration at 9:22 PM PST - 11 comments

"Josh got caught... awww-deeeeeee!"
As a kid, did you say, "aww-dee" when someone got in trouble? [more inside]
posted by srrh at 8:56 PM PST - 47 comments

Name that classical tune!
Most TI-99 games used classical tunes for their music. I'm trying to identify the main theme from the game Alpiner, which can be found here. I'm also trying to identify the tune that plays when you conquer the last mountain, which I couldn't find online but reproduced from memory here. Any ideas? [more inside]
posted by luvcraft at 8:25 PM PST - 6 comments

Double vision-- double vomit
Pukey kitties: when is it normal and when do we go to the vet? [more inside]
posted by ohio at 8:11 PM PST - 20 comments

What do I do about someone squirting glue into the locks of my house?
What do I do about someone squirting glue into the locks of my house? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:04 PM PST - 20 comments

How Can I Make This Chart in Excel 2010?
Can you help me change the color on part of a chart in Excel 2010? [more inside]
posted by Bugbread at 8:02 PM PST - 4 comments

Dental Work Fail
Help! My old dentist screwed up my teeth and now I live 500 miles away and need a possible root canal. Is there any way to get a reimbursement for the work that was done? [more inside]
posted by tessalations999 at 7:59 PM PST - 8 comments

Songs of Babel
Hearing the same song or melody done in disparate languages fascinates me. What are some songs that have been covered in multiple languages? [more inside]
posted by Hollywood Upstairs Medical College at 6:39 PM PST - 65 comments

Half my advertising budget is wasted...on one billboard
You know those amazing billboards with moving parts and 3D effects and breaking the 4th wall and so on? Where the hell are they? [more inside]
posted by Jehan at 6:23 PM PST - 12 comments

What are some ways to promote a garage/yard sale?
What are some ways to promote a garage/yard sale? [more inside]
posted by JPigford at 6:22 PM PST - 12 comments

Caramel experiment gone wrong...
How do I rescue a caramel experiment gone wrong? [more inside]
posted by Bongotrance Rabbitfriend at 6:22 PM PST - 8 comments

Want a nerdy online forum
Are there any online forums that are more intellectually oriented? [more inside]
posted by cerebral at 6:15 PM PST - 14 comments

Subnormal Memory
Attempting to identify a comic book artist! [more inside]
posted by DisreputableDog at 6:13 PM PST - 5 comments

Thats my daughter in the water
I recently found out I have a 13 year old daughter. Now what? [more inside]
posted by holdkris99 at 6:07 PM PST - 42 comments

How can I work on a ship in Europe?
My brother will soon graduate from a US Maritime Academy with a 3rd Mates Unlimited, and a couple years later, have a 2nd Mates Unlimited License (to steer ships). How hard would it be to transfer/use this license in Europe? Specifically, he is interested in working in the North Sea for Norwegian companies because of the better pay, working conditions, time off
posted by pynchonesque at 6:04 PM PST - 4 comments

Hold out for it all in relationships?
As a single Mom at 36, is it foolish to believe I can "have it all" regarding relationships? [more inside]
posted by aprilc34 at 5:56 PM PST - 20 comments

Yeah, So That One Guy Is Blogging About Becoming a Pro Golfer, But...
Is there a website that tracks how many hours you've put into building a skill, a la Malcolm Gladwell's 10,000 Hours-to-Mastery concept? [more inside]
posted by The ____ of Justice at 5:46 PM PST - 8 comments

What was this disaster movie?
Movie ID: Disaster film, sabotage at a nuclear plant? (not The China Syndrome) [more inside]
posted by justkevin at 5:36 PM PST - 9 comments

People want a part of you, but who they get is never who you seem.
Stupid questions for interviewers: memorable, harmless, or just stupid? [more inside]
posted by Nomyte at 5:02 PM PST - 21 comments

How can I deal with my alcoholic parents?
What are my opinions for dealing with my alcoholic parents while they spend the week with us? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:53 PM PST - 39 comments

Unhappy in our own way.
Being around most of my mother's family makes me uncomfortable and angry. How to let go of my past with them and come out of family gatherings feeling more positive? [more inside]
posted by houndsoflove at 4:51 PM PST - 12 comments

Let's Go Mexico (City for 6 months)
I am a US citizen considering spending 6 months in Mexico City in about 12 to 18 months from now. What kind of things do I need to consider over the next year or so? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:51 PM PST - 2 comments

Help me lose my belly
I'm a fit guy in my early 30's, but I have a small stomach and some soft love handles that I can't seem to get rid of. [more inside]
posted by Yunani at 4:25 PM PST - 23 comments

videogame books
What are some good books by or about videogame designers? [more inside]
posted by kittensofthenight at 4:24 PM PST - 14 comments

Saddleback Backpack Questions
Questions about the Saddleback leather backpack. Can't find many reviews about this particular piece. How is it for carrying? How is it in the rain? And most importantly...just...do you like yours? [more inside]
posted by madmethods at 4:10 PM PST - 3 comments

Videos with easy to follow inter-personal interactions.
Looking for simple videos with easy-to-follow interpersonal interactions with a white/plain background, with limited camera angle changes. Use of sarcasm or other subtle social cues appreciated. [more inside]
posted by lettuchi at 3:01 PM PST - 5 comments

The Great Wall of My House
I want to make an existing wall taller so I don't have to look at my awful neighbors anymore. Help! [more inside]
posted by BlahLaLa at 3:01 PM PST - 18 comments

Is it better to master the basics or challenge yourself with something beyond your level?
With respect to developing skills/expertise, is it better to master basic techniques before moving on to something more challenging, or to challenge yourself with something beyond your level? [more inside]
posted by ChipT at 2:53 PM PST - 12 comments

Alice's Dress Changed Colour
I remember seeing on British TV some time in the 90s/00s, a production of Alice in Wonderland where Alice's dress subtly changed hue in between (every?) scene(s), from blue, through yellows and violets. (It may not have been a specifically British, or a made-for-TV production, either.) [more inside]
posted by benzo8 at 2:52 PM PST - 3 comments

Agreed to review a book. It's awful. Now what?
I agreed to review a novel. I just received the review copy and read the first chapter, and it's absolutely awful. What does professional etiquette dictate here? [more inside]
posted by Faint of Butt at 2:51 PM PST - 26 comments

What is early labor like?
What is early labor like? [more inside]
posted by cymru_j at 2:43 PM PST - 23 comments

How should I sit up in bed?
How should I sit up in bed? [more inside]
posted by inbetweener at 2:28 PM PST - 5 comments

What does an online law degree do, exactly?
What does someone do with a law degree from one of the online unaccredited law schools? Can you pass the bar and practice law? If you represent yourself as a "lawyer" or "counsel" is that illegal? [more inside]
posted by geoff. at 1:56 PM PST - 19 comments

Businessese is not my first language.
How do I go about learning to speak better businessese? [more inside]
posted by Work to Live at 1:45 PM PST - 4 comments

Why do I feel like I am driving on the wrong side of the road?
Why do I feel like I am driving on the wrong side of the road? [more inside]
posted by mai at 1:32 PM PST - 14 comments

Websites with ideas for new websites?
Are there any sites with ideas for new web services? I'm in an entrepreneurial slump and ideas are a dime a dozen--so where are all the ideas? Trying to find inspiration for creating a new consumer web service. [more inside]
posted by Elminster24 at 1:19 PM PST - 16 comments

Missed techno-utopias
What are some compelling techno-utopian visions from the past that didn't pan out? [more inside]
posted by yourcelf at 1:14 PM PST - 23 comments

I apparently give other people second-hand trauma--how do I stop?
How do you cope with other people finding your life strange, depressing, or kind of disturbing, especially when you don't feel the same? I'm really tired of having to choose between everyone telling me I'm "hard to get to know" because I don't share a lot of personal information or floods of tears on my behalf. [more inside]
posted by kittenmarlowe at 12:02 PM PST - 49 comments

One nervous pagan versus a thousand christians
I am not Christian, and often feel seriously awkward and uncomfortable talking to faithful people on/around/about Christian holidays. How can I avoid or lessen this feeling? [more inside]
posted by Heretical at 10:53 AM PST - 54 comments

Short Stories like White Elephants
IdentifytheShortStory Filter: Takes place in Spain. Probably by Hemingway. About a man who dies, but at the end of the story the narrative scope expands to include the lives of others.
posted by HeroZero at 10:33 AM PST - 2 comments

Why was Jesus killed?
Why was Jesus of Nazarath (also called Jesus Christ) killed? What was going on in Roman occupied Jerusalem that lead up to his death? [more inside]
posted by garlic at 10:27 AM PST - 24 comments

Got a bright idea?
Is there a better option than incandescent bulbs for my kitchen? More inside... [more inside]
posted by daver at 10:03 AM PST - 7 comments

Can pepsi-can alcohol stoves release dangerous vapors?
I've been cooking in the backcountry for years with a pepsi-can stove (it simply provides an aerated vessel in which to ignite 75% - 99% isopropyl alcohol which you pour into it)...now recently I've noticed a distinctive, not exactly pleasant smell at the very end, when the fuel finally runs out and the flame extinguishes itself...perhaps a residual vapor is released at that point (I'm usually done cooking). SO, my question is, are dangerous gases perhaps being released? I'm wary of course of getting aluminum in my bloodstream and catching Alzheimer's, but any other dangers I should know about?
posted by wavejumper at 9:46 AM PST - 19 comments

I want a kitty!
I just moved to Orlando, and I'm a little lonely. I really, really want to adopt a cat. However, I'm not convinced that it is a good idea. Help? [more inside]
posted by firei at 9:36 AM PST - 17 comments

Help me solve this dessert challenge!
Help me solve this dessert challenge! [more inside]
posted by cheapskatebay at 9:23 AM PST - 25 comments

Weird moving elevator buttons, why so blue?
Why do the elevator buttons seem to be moving? My eyes deceive me! [more inside]
posted by greatgefilte at 9:00 AM PST - 6 comments

Where can I buy a Wake 'n' Bacon alarm clock ASAP?
Where can I buy a Wake 'n' Bacon alarm clock? [more inside]
posted by jitterbug perfume at 8:38 AM PST - 9 comments

Bad reaction to antibiotics. Make the itching stop...
I had an allergic reaction to amoxicillin. I am currently half way through a 10 day prednisone taper. The hives are gone, but I am still itchy. When will the itching stop? [more inside]
posted by burlsube at 8:09 AM PST - 4 comments

Learning languages the smart way
What's the best way to apply the "deliberate practice" philosophy to language learning? [more inside]
posted by jweed at 8:02 AM PST - 9 comments

Replacing wooden fence posts.
I need some advice for DIY replacement of a wooden fence. [more inside]
posted by Durin's Bane at 8:02 AM PST - 4 comments

Wedding bells... again...?
What's the mean number of marriages for Americans? [more inside]
posted by WidgetAlley at 8:02 AM PST - 20 comments

Melancholy loners
Melancholy movies about loneliness and alienation? [more inside]
posted by giggleknickers at 5:42 AM PST - 77 comments

How much should a freelancer be compensated for project-related travel?
I'm being asked to travel to a 3-hour meeting as part of a freelance project I'm working on. How much time should I be compensated for? [more inside]
posted by SomeTrickPony at 5:35 AM PST - 8 comments

Family friendly to visit the black hills immediately after Sturgis?
Should we avoid vacationing in the Black Hills, SD area, right after the Sturgis rally? We (4 adults, 4 kids aged 3-8) are planning to arrive on August 14, the day the rally is ending. The plan is for camping and visiting the Black Hills, Mt Rushmore, Custer State Park, ect. Are we likely to regret arriving on the tail end of a biker rally, or should it all be over and done? [more inside]
posted by Steve3 at 5:18 AM PST - 14 comments

Setting up an ATM machine: Is it a relatively simple process? What's the catch?
The site that I'm valeting at right now has plenty of foot traffic. Almost every time I'm at work, I get asked if there's an ATM machine around. I tell them that it's a half-mile away, and they just give up. I thought it would be a great opportunity to put up an ATM machine nearby. [more inside]
posted by RaDeuX at 2:29 AM PST - 15 comments

Suspenders for shirts?
Does such a thing exist that will allow me to keep my shirt tucked in, invisibly? [more inside]
posted by Solomon at 2:22 AM PST - 25 comments

April 23
Far Too Jealous
Please help me understand and manage what I think is an unhealthy and debilitating jealousy. [more inside]
posted by xbeautychicx at 11:28 PM PST - 33 comments

Keep deactivating facebook account, how do I make useful?
I keep deactivating my Facebook account, but I think it can be of use to me. How can I make it useful, especially while in a quarterlife crisis? [more inside]
posted by lankford at 11:10 PM PST - 10 comments

Help me remember the name of this magical movie
Help me to come up with the name of this movie. The world contained magic, and Michael Caine was a strong magician with an 'evil eye'. [more inside]
posted by eye of newt at 11:03 PM PST - 12 comments

How can my girlfriend and I stay..."pure" until marriage ?
How can my girlfriend and I stay..."pure" until marriage ? [more inside]
posted by 70klicks at 10:43 PM PST - 62 comments

Ich will ausrocken!
What's some great German music I can dance, sing, and rock out to? [more inside]
posted by ElectricBlue at 10:10 PM PST - 18 comments

Twilight, Rearranged
I'm trying to find a Twilight-related blog that I remember seeing recently. The blogger cut all the pages out of a copy of Twilight, scanned or photographed them, and rearranged snippets of text to highlight and criticize odd or repetitive choices of language. [more inside]
posted by Orinda at 9:50 PM PST - 3 comments

How to deal with your parents getting a divorce when you're an adult?
How to deal with your parents getting a divorce when you're an adult? [more inside]
posted by dayspteh at 9:04 PM PST - 27 comments

Computer glasses?
Do computer glasses work? Where can I find a company that will fit a pair of frames with eyestrain lenses? [more inside]
posted by god particle at 9:02 PM PST - 10 comments

Help me identify this music video
Help me identify a music video containing a couple of black metal kids. [more inside]
posted by Wanderlust88 at 7:53 PM PST - 3 comments

Gift for MPH Grad
Your best ideas for a graduation gift for my sister-in-law who is getting her Master of Public Health next week. [more inside]
posted by mutt.cyberspace at 7:12 PM PST - 7 comments

Should I give up on antidepressants?
Do antidepressants just not work for some people? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:06 PM PST - 27 comments

The Most Toast
Toast Filter: Some members of my family feel it necessary to touch everyone else's glass when toasting at the table - glass-to-glass contact between every dang glass at the table. It can be a bit inconvenient, especially when there more than a few people at the table. Anyone know toast etiquette / history? [more inside]
posted by ecorrocio at 6:57 PM PST - 19 comments

friend to the left of me, girlfriend to the right, here i am
My best friend and girlfriend hate each other. [more inside]
posted by whalebreath at 6:11 PM PST - 22 comments

No you cannot has dsl
Please help me get my DSL to work. I have to keep power cycling my modem and tech support is useless. [more inside]
posted by 4ster at 5:59 PM PST - 12 comments

Where in the world can I find the most high-tech and futuristic locations?
Where in the world can I find the most high-tech and futuristic locations? [more inside]
posted by stst399 at 5:29 PM PST - 31 comments

Help me get my Doctor Who!
Is iTunes my only option for getting Doctor Who Season 6 online? [more inside]
posted by orrnyereg at 5:26 PM PST - 8 comments

tips/tricks/product suggestions for DIY hair color?
I haven't colored my own hair in over 10 years, and the last time I did I used salon products sold to me by my hairdresser. Those products aren't available to me now, so I'm looking for a decent store-bought brand (or at least something available to non-professionals). [more inside]
posted by Koko at 5:25 PM PST - 19 comments

Premed in Austin?
I'd like to become a psychiatrist. Problem: I earned a bachelor's degree that includes none of the prerequisites for getting into medical school. I live in Austin, TX. [more inside]
posted by sindas at 5:07 PM PST - 11 comments

Blueberry plant advice needed please
Please help my bring my blueberry plant back to life! [more inside]
posted by cheemee at 4:54 PM PST - 3 comments

Walk this way
End Credits movie sequence. Where did this shot originate from? [more inside]
posted by cazoo at 4:31 PM PST - 9 comments

Who is the dog that said, "Yes, dear" in the cartoon?
I'm trying to remember the name of the animated cartoon (or the dog in the cartoon) that said "Yes, dear, right away, dear." In my memory, it looked kind of like the Pepe Le Pew animations. [more inside]
posted by PersonAndSalt at 3:34 PM PST - 15 comments

Dealing with being introduced to a large group at once
How do I more gracefully join a large group of people when I only know a couple of them? How do I make my friends comfortable in the opposite situation? [more inside]
posted by rwatson at 3:17 PM PST - 14 comments

Slideshow Bob needs help !
I need to make about 3-4 different jpeg slideshows that can be burned to a DVD. Nothing fancy, but it would be nice to add text to the images ( I have Photoshop, so that's not critical), and be able to control the speed (very critical) to maybe 30 seconds per slide/jpeg. Total images would be less than 50. Autoplay a plus. I am using Windows 7, and love simple to use free stuff, but would pay 50-100 if it is worth it. What am I looking for?
posted by lobstah at 3:11 PM PST - 14 comments

Help me identify that hip-hop microphone song?
Hip-hop song with something about a microphone and an atomic bomb? [more inside]
posted by kinsey at 2:40 PM PST - 3 comments

I need help putting my ideas for a tattoo into an actual image. Help please?
I need help putting my ideas for a tattoo into an actual image. Help please? [more inside]
posted by jitterbugperfume at 2:32 PM PST - 7 comments

Doesn't seem all that jaunty to me.
I'm trying to copy some windows files to an external USB drive so I can wipe the disk. I am doing this under Ubuntu Jaunty because it won't stay up in XP due to malware (not even long enough to scan the drive, but I'm don't need to repair the system. I just want to get some files off it.) [more inside]
posted by Obscure Reference at 1:29 PM PST - 13 comments

How do I give and receive "vacuous" compliments graciously?
How to give and receive "vacuous" compliments graciously, particularly in relation to artistic work? [more inside]
posted by RobotHero at 1:19 PM PST - 30 comments

Help finding an IT job at a non-IT company?
Recently I've been looking for a new job. I think I want to work at an interactive agency, but I can't really finding any listings, and I feel like I'm missing something. Can you help point me in the right direction for finding tech jobs that are at places other than pure IT companies? [more inside]
posted by gchucky at 12:57 PM PST - 8 comments

Inappropriate Anthropologist Love Story...DVD or Book?
An anthropologist studying some primitive society fell in love with one of the women he was studying, and, against all professional decorum, married her and brought her home. The ensuing events were apparently pretty interesting. The person who told me about it can't remember if it was a book, a film, or what. Or which country...or which anthropologist. Can anyone help?
posted by Quisp Lover at 12:34 PM PST - 14 comments

We are all responsible adults, right? Right?
Are my expectations about STD testing unreasonable? Am I being paranoid? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:15 PM PST - 52 comments

What is Time Machine Backing Up?
Why is Time Machine backing up nearly a Gigabyte every time? [more inside]
posted by dougrayrankin at 11:47 AM PST - 11 comments

My cat is acting sad and its my fault, please help
Cat psychology question: I may have really upset my cat - please help me soothe her. [more inside]
posted by dmbfan93 at 11:32 AM PST - 14 comments

What should i do for a bachelor party in Windsor, Ontario?
A group of us are planning on heading to Windsor from Chicago for a bachelor party next month. What are some fun things we can do? [more inside]
posted by AMP583 at 10:57 AM PST - 9 comments

Give me girl power-- but with nuance.
I'd like recommendations for books, stories or non-fiction accounts of women wrestling with societal norms to achieve their goals and having trouble overcoming their own internalized ideas of gender. [more inside]
posted by DeusExMegana at 10:47 AM PST - 26 comments

Help me identify this bird?
A friend snapped a photo of this bird outside of their house near North Plains Oregon, and we're having trouble identifying it. [more inside]
posted by mattdini at 10:38 AM PST - 20 comments

Looking to buy a cute, non-wool rug
Looking to buy a cute, non-wool rug. [more inside]
posted by bigbluehouse at 10:36 AM PST - 6 comments

"kids love pedos"...?
At a local gas station I received a quarter that is branded with a symbol that says "kids love pedos." Am I supposed to bring it to the police? [more inside]
posted by pintapicasso at 10:33 AM PST - 14 comments

Seeking a Charming Inn Without the Florals and Lace
Any suggestions for inns or small hotels that incorporate modern/minimalist design? I'm trying to avoid the Victorian, lace, floral aesthetic. I'm particularly interested in the New England/East Coast area. [more inside]
posted by pourtant at 10:25 AM PST - 10 comments

Comic with irreverent comments?
Barely remembered web comic filter: "This week, Author X communed with nature while Author Y was reduced to a fine powder." Literally all I remember about this comic (apart from that I liked it) was that every strip had a comment afterwards saying odd things that each of the authors had done. Long shot, but do you know what I'm talking about?
posted by teraspawn at 10:23 AM PST - 2 comments

What is going on in my body?
Possibly really dumb, gynecology-related question inside, regarding a former hysterectomy and what is going on in my body now. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 10:02 AM PST - 8 comments

Obi-Wan Kenobi to my Anakin
How do I make the most of a corporate mentor? [more inside]
posted by quirksilver at 10:01 AM PST - 3 comments

Epstein-Barr treatment options?
A friend of mine has a relative with Epstein-Barr. We are looking for information on treatment and doctors in either New York or Chicago. [more inside]
posted by phunniemee at 9:50 AM PST - 6 comments

Crayons and Paas tablets? Ist that all you've got?
I'm getting ready to dye Easter eggs with my kids, ages 7, 9, 11 and 14. Do you have any tips for decorating easter eggs? Our repertoire consists of using two colors, crayons, and putting on stickers. My google-fu is failing me. [more inside]
posted by craniac at 9:27 AM PST - 18 comments

Help Ubuntu blindness!
How do I get Ubuntu Linux to recognize my plugin USB DVD/RW drive? [more inside]
posted by ackptui at 9:05 AM PST - 4 comments

Possible Masonic symbol? Something else entirely?
What is this weird symbol carved in stone? [more inside]
posted by AmandaA at 7:59 AM PST - 15 comments

What would Einstein eat?
I once read that Einstein had several outfits exactly the same, so he didn't waste time figuring out what to wear. Has anyone done this with food; specifically, figuring out exactly what to eat over the course of a week to provide exactly the right amounts of all the proteins, carbohydrates, vitamins, etc. that the body needs? If so, is this menu available? [more inside]
posted by tomwheeler at 7:39 AM PST - 30 comments

The Cockroach of the Internet
My parents seem to have a fairly stubborn Trojan on their computer that periodically will forcibly install various Facebook-related apps. They don't even USE Facebook; but I check my own account when I visit them (about twice a year). I've just run Malware Bytes and run their Norton; Malware picked something up and killed it, but then it tried to install something again and I ran Norton, but that only found one cookie. Help?
posted by EmpressCallipygos at 6:39 AM PST - 16 comments

Can-I-Eat-It Filter: The Unrefrigerated Jelly Episode
Is it safe to eat this unrefrigerated strawberry jelly? [more inside]
posted by rabidsegue at 5:59 AM PST - 10 comments

Forgotten book request
Searching for the name of a (trilogy? or longer?) of SF/Fantasy books I read in the late 1980s or early 1990s. [more inside]
posted by KirkpatrickMac at 5:10 AM PST - 8 comments

The Golden Retriever Needs New Wheels--Help him pick out a Subaru Forester.
What do you know about 2000 - 2005 Subaru Foresters? Problems? [more inside]
posted by AuntieRuth at 3:38 AM PST - 30 comments

April 22
Coming of age in the Atomic age
What are your favorite mid-century memoirs? [more inside]
posted by twinight at 10:44 PM PST - 19 comments

Menstrual Migraine Filter
I've had brain surgery that involved cutting out a quarter-size hole in my skull and peeling back the dura-matter and layers of other tissues, drilling through bones connected to my ear, then putting everything back with a titanium plate. The surgeon forgot to order pain meds. and I was in misery for two hours before the first shot. This was NOTHING compared to the migraine I barely endured two days ago. Had we a gun in the house I would most certainly not be here. [more inside]
posted by Mertonian at 10:32 PM PST - 33 comments

How do I break up with him?
How do I break up with him? [more inside]
posted by cscott at 10:18 PM PST - 30 comments

Jacket: similar but cheaper.
I am in love with this jacket. Where can I get a similar one more cheaply? [more inside]
posted by hapticactionnetwork at 9:26 PM PST - 14 comments

Like Tufts, Only Easier
What are some colleges close to major cities in the Northeast (NYC, Boston, etc.) that are challenging but not at the top level? [more inside]
posted by JohntheContrarian at 8:41 PM PST - 39 comments

Which?
Grinnell or Oberlin? [more inside]
posted by leotrotsky at 8:17 PM PST - 29 comments

Late-night PDX hangouts that aren't 18+?
My 16-year-old sister and I will be in Portland, OR tomorrow and we need to kill some time between 8PM and 1AM. Know of any places, activities, or events that go late and aren't 18+? [more inside]
posted by brookedel at 7:43 PM PST - 10 comments

Work & Holiday maritime jobs Down Under?
If I were to do a Work and Holiday Visa in New Zealand/Australia what jobs could I reasonably expect to get that allow me to legitimately log USCG Sea Time and and gain other valuable maritime experience? [more inside]
posted by DetonatedManiac at 7:36 PM PST - 4 comments

How can I get these files into family videos?
What are the best user friendly video editing software programs? [more inside]
posted by maxg94 at 7:10 PM PST - 8 comments

Removal of moles and other blemishes from my scalp when I shave my head?
I am losing my hair, but I'm comfortable with the fact that soon I'll either be a guy with thinning hair, or a guy with a shaved head. What I'm worried about is that I may just have unsightly moles on my head. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 6:17 PM PST - 11 comments

How should I respond to "how was your trip?"
How should I respond to "how was your trip?" [more inside]
posted by palegirl at 6:12 PM PST - 18 comments

Stomach stretching and tips on preparing for and succeeding at restaurant eating challenges (or competitive eating contests)
Man vs Food vs Stomach Capacity: How (and for how long) should I "train" my stomach to hold six pounds of food? What can the stomach handle? How does food differ from liquid in the stomach? Additional tips for beating restaurant eating challenges? Lots of questions, and an account of my experience preparing so far, after the break. [more inside]
posted by purefusion at 6:11 PM PST - 13 comments

What do I do with an incredibly old laptop?
I have a Thinkpad 755c, dating from 1995 or so. Is there anything remotely useful/interesting I can do with it? [more inside]
posted by hoyland at 6:09 PM PST - 13 comments

Swap a Car Lease?
Taking over a car lease- My fiance and I are wanting to take over a car lease. We have searched under leasetrader.com and swapalease.com, but there aren't many options in our area. Are there other websites you know of? Thank you!
posted by Equiprimordial at 6:05 PM PST - 1 comments

Seeking archival professional laundry in Houston, Texas
Do you have a recommendation for a trusted laundry in Houston who can clean treasured linens, quilts, and hand-knits and -crochets and wrap them with archival paper? [more inside]
posted by Addlepated at 6:00 PM PST - 2 comments

Let Me Build On That Thought
After fourteen years of being being in the same position/job I may be moving on by October or earlier. During this time most of my networks have dried up/disappeared. Looking for sites online where I can brainstorm entrepreneurial, creative, occupational ideas and possibilities. [more inside]
posted by Xurando at 5:59 PM PST - 2 comments

How do I learn more about root cause analysis?
Root cause analysis. What exactly does it mean in the context of an engineering job and how can I prepare for this interview? [more inside]
posted by just.good.enough at 5:23 PM PST - 8 comments

Stealth evangelicalism in "haunting" shows?
What's the deal with shows like Animal Planet's "The Haunting?" Is this just a front for evangelicalism or charismatic christianity? [more inside]
posted by nevercalm at 5:18 PM PST - 12 comments

Get this thing out of me?
I am experiencing serious mood-swings and insecurities. Just got Mirena IUD put in a few weeks ago. Could it be the hormones, and how do I manage without destroying my relationship? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 5:14 PM PST - 12 comments

Does anyone have experience with waxed cotton?
Waxed cotton jacket: is it practical? [more inside]
posted by eeby at 4:54 PM PST - 10 comments

Is this clause in my temp agency agreement fair?
Is it fair for my temp agency to prevent me from being hired on full time at the current business I'm contracted with? [more inside]
posted by bettershredder at 4:49 PM PST - 11 comments

Remote mouse & keyboard applications?
I need help finding a remote keyboard and mouse app - for one computer to control another, not for a smartphone to control a computer. More inside. [more inside]
posted by terpia at 4:21 PM PST - 12 comments

As-it-happens research updates: can't write with 'em, can't write without 'em?
How to concentrate on a research-driven book project when the subject matter is periodically changing / being updated by other writers? [more inside]
posted by taramosalata at 4:03 PM PST - 4 comments

Can I just hire a drill sargeant to scream at me?
I want to learn how to (temporarily) show no reaction when someone is angry with me or says mean things to me. [more inside]
posted by IndigoRain at 4:03 PM PST - 25 comments

Need a Mother's Day gift for grandma
I need a great mother's day gift for my new baby's wonderful grandmas. [more inside]
posted by bq at 3:56 PM PST - 8 comments

Quaint village near Berlin?
I am currently vacationing in Berlin and I have this notion that it would be wonderful to escape the city for a small, cozy, quintessentially German village somewhere nearby -- like within 1-2 hours of train travel if possible. I know Potsdam and Spandau, but I would prefer somewhere less traveled and -- for lack of a better word -- quainter, where we can taste the locally-brewed beer and eat some rustic German food. Any suggestions?
posted by gentle at 3:53 PM PST - 7 comments

A Ring Fit for My Own Queen Mother
Where in Manhattan/NYC can I buy a cheap replica of the Princess Diana/Kate Middleton engagement ring? [more inside]
posted by ThePinkSuperhero at 3:40 PM PST - 2 comments

Like wearing red to a bullfight
What are some interesting/quirky/idiomatic phrases that convey the sense that one has just walked into the metaphorical lion's den, or somewhere you are dangerously out of place? Examples of what I'm looking for, inside. [more inside]
posted by np312 at 3:25 PM PST - 27 comments

I got funded for an MA in London. Hooray! Now how the hell will I pay the rent?
I got funded to do an MA in London, but I still don't know how I'm going to afford it. What jobs could I do that will allow me to study and live without insane financial stress? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:25 PM PST - 5 comments

Providence? Or Scaminence?
Providence? Or Scaminence? [more inside]
posted by lpsguy at 3:16 PM PST - 6 comments

wiki my science!
I run a user facility that houses a variety of scientific equipment and i want to start a wiki for documentation & tutorials. Looking for open-source wiki software and your tips for starting a wiki. (Or if you're a scientist and you've ever used a facility like this, what kinds of things you'd like to see in your FacilityWiki!) Details inside... [more inside]
posted by sararah at 2:44 PM PST - 7 comments

Have I been played?
I've been in country for one day and suddenly I am very popular with much younger women. Do I have "Sugar Daddy" written on my forehead or is there something else going on? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 2:38 PM PST - 59 comments

Non-libertarian SF recommendations, anyone?
Help me find awesome SF books that aren't libertarian screeds, y'all. What are your favourite Science Fiction books that aren't just swimming in libertarian ideology? [more inside]
posted by LMGM at 2:34 PM PST - 56 comments

Who'll auction off my old beater for me?
On the heels of this recent question, I'm wondering -- can I have my old car sold in a [non-eBay] auction? [more inside]
posted by Rash at 2:28 PM PST - 4 comments

For I did go a-wandering, a-wandering I went...with dog.
Where can I hike with a dog off-leash in or near Portland, OR? [more inside]
posted by thatbrunette at 2:07 PM PST - 6 comments

Reluctant Barbie Girl
How can I explain to my boyfriend that some of the fantasies he has about me are hurting my self esteem (and our relationship)? [more inside]
posted by patronuscharms at 1:49 PM PST - 65 comments

Help me fix my question mark earrings!
How can I fix my awesome earrings after the metallic plating has chipped off? [more inside]
posted by Captain Cardanthian! at 1:48 PM PST - 13 comments

Online Plain Text Editor for HTML and/or CSS
The default plain text editor on my work computer drives me up the wall, and I'm not allowed to download a replacement. Are there any online plain text editors I can use to draft an occasional HTML or CSS file and preview my results?
posted by ocherdraco at 1:32 PM PST - 12 comments

LA Puppy Play Date?
I want to play with puppies and awesome dogs this weekend. Where in Los Angeles can I do this? [more inside]
posted by TheGoldenOne at 1:11 PM PST - 5 comments

Halp me trim down my Mac system drive to fit a ssd
SSD's for Mac Pro (NOT a laptop): I'm thinking about adding a smallish one of these to a 3-year-old Quad-Core Xeon desktop and can't find any descriptions about how exactly to split out storage (Documents, Pictures, Mail, Downloads, etc.) from apps and System files. I.e., how to install Snow Leo and apps on the ssd so they use another standard internal drive for all their storage, etc.? Anybody done that? Thank you!
posted by dpcoffin at 12:49 PM PST - 10 comments

How to handle exclusion
Do I let (seemingly) being excluded bother me? Do I say anything? [more inside]
posted by Prairie at 12:42 PM PST - 27 comments

Help me glaze this ham with raw honey.
I have a jar of raw honey that is more like a paste than a liquid. I would like to use it to glaze my ham this weekend. [more inside]
posted by hazyspring at 12:30 PM PST - 8 comments

Good doggies deserve better?
My next-door neighbor keeps her dogs outside 24/7. I'm not sure how I should feel about this. [more inside]
posted by gnutron at 12:24 PM PST - 32 comments

Running 16bit Windows program via a browser or some other solution
I have a small simple 16 bit windows application that I need access to from a couple dozen Windows 7 64 bit computers. Unfortunately we lost some of the source code so recompiling it is not in the cards any time soon. Is there a way I can host this app on something like Amazon AWS and give all these users access to run the app via a browser or some other method? Installing VM lite or the windows virtual pc is not an option unfortunately. These users would need access to this program concurrently. The VMWare solutions are far too expensive and the VMLite product that might help we won't be out for some time. Thank you for reading my post. Have a great one.
posted by JohnGL at 12:20 PM PST - 7 comments

Do I have to tell my boss I'm applying for another job in our office before I land it?
I am applying for a job within my small department. Career counselor says I MUST tell my boss this before landing the job. I don't wanna, but can't see a way around it either. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:15 PM PST - 9 comments

Midcareer Academic negotiations: what to look for?
Mid-career Academic Offer/Negotiations filter. Qs about questions to ask, people to see, other advice from faculty/academics wanted. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:14 PM PST - 5 comments

Foreclosure (but not on us personally) How long til the bank bounces us out and we dont get to live rent-free? Because this is pretty awesome right here.
Foreclosure!!!(but not on us personally) How long til the bank bounces us out and we dont get to live rent-free? Because this is pretty awesome right here. [more inside]
posted by Senor Cardgage at 11:58 AM PST - 18 comments

Bad kitty!
Can I launder a wool blanket at home? [more inside]
posted by jamaro at 11:57 AM PST - 13 comments

Singable and danceable?
Looking for good pop songs that I can dance to and sing along with. [more inside]
posted by Metroid Baby at 11:04 AM PST - 13 comments

Should I keep my mouth shut?
Is there anything I can say to discourage my socially-anxious friend from giving pedantic lectures? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 10:59 AM PST - 26 comments

Where can I move that is near Toronto, but cheaper and better to live?
I'm not sure I want to live in Toronto anymore, but I want to stay *near* Toronto. Where can I go? [more inside]
posted by JoannaC at 10:55 AM PST - 14 comments

It's three fingers to the next campsite
Is there a topo map of the Superior Hiking Trail that gets granular enough to be useful on the trail? or a few maps that cover the whole thing? [more inside]
posted by zombieApoc at 10:52 AM PST - 6 comments

.org domain name for personal blog?
I want to but a domain name and .com is taken. Should I buy .org? [more inside]
posted by Devils Rancher at 10:16 AM PST - 25 comments

Suggestions for car donation programs?
Suggestions for car donation programs in Washington DC? [more inside]
posted by forkisbetter at 10:02 AM PST - 8 comments

Need a dentist on the Seattle Eastside
Seattle Eastside dentist recommendation, please? Special issue: I haven't seen a dentist in 16 years. Yes, you read that right. [more inside]
posted by Cool Papa Bell at 9:47 AM PST - 18 comments

What's the word for not coincidence? (Not synchronicity)
I'm looking for a word or term that says that coincidence may be your unconscious keeping useless information in the background of your mind (i.e. reading about a specific type of bird on wikipedia, and then the next day seeing one fly in front of your car). [more inside]
posted by unrequited at 9:43 AM PST - 4 comments

Where do I get my Italian beef and other Chicago classics for 10 people coming to my house for the weekend?
What are some good Chicago-area catering options for a group of 10 people? We are hosting a small group of relatives at our house for the weekend in May, and we want to have some classic Chicago dishes for people to eat. But, we also don't want to spend the whole weekend in the kitchen working on deep dish pizza, either. So, we're looking for suggestions on places to check out that we can bring food home for about 10 people. So far, we're going to check out Portillo's and Jewel for Italian beef, but I'm open to other options for the beef and other Chicago specialties. (Actually, we live in Naperville, but I'm willing to go pretty much anywhere in the area if it is worth it.)
posted by achmorrison at 9:38 AM PST - 11 comments

Liquidating small vintage items
What antique stores/dealers in Austin might be interested in buying vintage kitchenware such as Pyrex, and various small pieces of American art pottery (Roseville, Sascha B, Van Briggle, etc.)? [more inside]
posted by xenophile at 9:17 AM PST - 3 comments

Somatic Experiencing, trauma recovery
Somatic Experiencing is a method of recovering from emotional trauma-- I'd like to hear about experiences with the system because In an Unspoken Voice describes it as dealing well with the paralysis aspect of trauma, not just the intrusive memories and explosive emotions, and I tend to be pretty stuck. [more inside]
posted by Nancy Lebovitz at 9:15 AM PST - 6 comments

embroidery france french stitches names
Is there a list somewhere of French names for common embroidery stitches (split stitch, backstitch, stem stitch etc.)? Google is failing me... [more inside]
posted by mippy at 9:14 AM PST - 4 comments

Windows networking for dummies
Help this Unix guy understand Windows domains, security and file sharing. I'm a software tester who's mostly worked with unix systems and unix file systems but now I've got to develop and execute a test plan for file sharing between Windows clients and samba servers running within Windows domains of various configurations. What are some good relatively quick learning resources that can get me up to speed? [more inside]
posted by octothorpe at 9:10 AM PST - 3 comments

Electrical Grounding problem
How to ground (shield?) a laptop to get a good EEG signal? [more inside]
posted by DMelanogaster at 8:58 AM PST - 25 comments

A cool and smell free summer in Brooklyn
I need to cool my apartment without making it smell terrible. [more inside]
posted by shimmer at 8:51 AM PST - 5 comments

How do I recover from un-quitting my job?
My husband was laid off today... The day that was supposed to be my last day of full-time employment. How do I recover at work? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:24 AM PST - 14 comments

Good relationship counselors in Northern VA?
Need a recommendation of a good, preferably non-marriage-centric, relationship counselor in the Northern Virginia / DC Metro area. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:24 AM PST - 3 comments

Is this staffing agency legit?
Help me decide if a contract staffing agency is legit. Google has turned up nothing. [more inside]
posted by dust.wind.dude at 8:18 AM PST - 11 comments

I'll carry your backpack; you carry the baby
Long-term travel during pregnancy. Should we go? And where? [more inside]
posted by gushn at 8:13 AM PST - 14 comments

Now word on the street is y'all suckers (don't) want static.
Help me find a place to purchase this tiny car part for a Scion xB! [more inside]
posted by FatherDagon at 7:48 AM PST - 7 comments

Nothing but moths in my bellfry...
I need to buy a bell today. Where would I shop for such a thing? [more inside]
posted by Serene Empress Dork at 7:44 AM PST - 18 comments

Where can I get a whiff of the ghost of blackpowder?
Can you recommend the best Historical Fort/Monument to visit in the North Eastern USA or Maritime Canada? [more inside]
posted by Sustainable Chiles at 7:08 AM PST - 17 comments

Looking for a diabetes monitor that's strong enough for a human, but gentle enough for a cat
I need to find a blood glucose meter I can use to track my cat's blood sugar. [more inside]
posted by reenum at 6:58 AM PST - 6 comments

Robber barons, in reverse
What is the moral obligation that the wealthy have towards the less-well-off? [more inside]
posted by titantoppler at 6:36 AM PST - 79 comments

Tips for Vanuatu/general Pacific island life?
Opinions on Vanuatu/general pacific life? [more inside] [more inside]
posted by jaduncan at 6:10 AM PST - 8 comments

Job switch advice
Old job over, new job good! But help me ease a few anxieties over the switch. [more inside]
posted by I_Love_Bananas at 5:28 AM PST - 5 comments

Learn business basics, apply to art field?
How can I learn basic principles of business? [more inside]
posted by meadowlark lime at 5:02 AM PST - 8 comments

Alan from The Hangover is NOT Admirable
Examples of admirable fictional characters named Alan? [more inside]
posted by minifigs at 3:21 AM PST - 33 comments

Should I study in London, even if I can't afford it?
Should I study abroad when finances and my gut are telling me no, but everyone else is telling me yes? (Lots inside. Yes, I'm going to talk to the financial aid office and a therapist.) [more inside]
posted by Judith Butlerian Jihad at 2:32 AM PST - 33 comments

Movie With Ghostly Children?
Can anyone help identify this classic movie about ghostly children? [more inside]
posted by Joey Michaels at 2:20 AM PST - 9 comments

Possible to change Wordpress comment timestamps?
Is it possible to change timestamps on comments in Wordpress? [more inside]
posted by dubadubowbow at 2:19 AM PST - 3 comments

I Rap Therefore I Am
I know this is kind of vague, but I'm looking for examples of rappers, or even just individual rap songs, that have a "philosophical" message. I don't mean that they encourage people to get off drugs, or do something with their lives, or anything like that (though I'd like those examples, too) -- but that they espouse a specific philosophy of life or worldview. I'd love some mainstream examples -- I'm not just looking for "issue" rappers who have made philosophy their thing (though I like these, too!) Thanks!!
posted by caoimhe at 2:04 AM PST - 41 comments

Which should we pay for and which should we do ourselves?
DIY: is it easier to go a good DIY job painting walls (interior) or installing laminate floors? [more inside]
posted by lollusc at 1:55 AM PST - 32 comments

April 21
Mysterious green/white flower
Can you help me identify this flower? I saw it in a park (in England, if that matters) the other day. [more inside]
posted by bibliophibianj at 11:46 PM PST - 7 comments

Exotic => Erotic
Soc-Psych-filter! Do people become gay or lesbian because they grow up feeling that stereotypically straight-acting kids are "exotic" -- as per the "Exotic Becomes Erotic" theory? [more inside]
posted by dontjumplarry at 10:51 PM PST - 28 comments

want to turn low res web image to higher res print ready image
What are some websites, software or photoshop plug ins to turn a low resolution image (ie. something I grabbed from the web) into a high resolution image (ie. something that I can use to print)? Something that is good enough to make the image look good at 16 by 11 or so. [more inside]
posted by barnacle fan at 10:37 PM PST - 9 comments

Help me make my kitchen work for me!
I am looking for an app (android preferably, but iPad/iPhone ok) to help me keep my kitchen inventory... But with a special detail. [more inside]
posted by LyndsayMW at 10:14 PM PST - 3 comments

art school confidential
Help me become the uninhibited artist and writer I once was. [more inside]
posted by iLoveTheRain at 10:00 PM PST - 13 comments

Moving to Seattle for residency, need apartment recommendations.....
Seattle knowing/loving Mefites....A friend has to move to Seattle for surgical residency, multiple hospitals, crazy hours...What's the best apartment choice? [more inside]
posted by skepticallypleased at 9:58 PM PST - 8 comments

Will yoga help my herniated disc?
I have a mild herniated L5 disc. It's been causing me continual back pain, and pain in my left leg. I've heard that yoga can help build strength and help with the pain. Is this true? [more inside]
posted by PostIronyIsNotaMyth at 9:12 PM PST - 17 comments

Technology Focused Blog Directories
I am looking for some high quality blog directories devoted to technology blogs. I already have plenty of general blog directories with technology sections, and I have googled extensively, but I am hoping there are some out there I am missing.
posted by twiggy32 at 8:54 PM PST - 2 comments

Another Name Assistance Plea
Please help name another business/Etsy store/website. (I had to ask because I am stuck and you are good at it!) [more inside]
posted by Glinn at 8:47 PM PST - 14 comments

I have the game Mousetrap, but not an actual mouse trap.
There is a mouse running around my house right now, and all the stores are closed. How can I trap it? [more inside]
posted by Ruki at 8:45 PM PST - 13 comments

Pillsbury pie crust ideas
I've got this packet of Pillsbury Pie Crust in my freezer. What are some delicious things you can do with it? There are plenty of recipes out there but I'd like to hear what your favorite is.
posted by storybored at 8:34 PM PST - 10 comments

Commute from Glendale to Long Beach
LA Traffic Filter: How long will it take me to drive from Glendale to Long Beach tomorrow morning? And when should I leave to arrive by 8:00am? And what's the best route?
posted by JPowers at 8:09 PM PST - 5 comments

Less than a week to spend in South America
I have less than a week -- but where? Sao Paulo, Rio de Janeiro, or Buenos Aires? [more inside]
posted by armage at 7:15 PM PST - 5 comments

Smartphones for world travel
What's the state of the art in quad-band capable Android smartphones? Essentially I'm looking for alternatives with capabilities similar to the Motorola Atrix 4G. It needs to be carrier unlocked and support 850/900/1800/1900MHz GSM 2G functions and 2100MHz WCDMA. [more inside]
posted by thewalrus at 6:30 PM PST - 5 comments

How to get a strong white line on a black ink background?
I'm trying to draw in white over a black fountain pen ink background that I've applied to vellum Bristol. But I haven't found a way to do so that results in a sharp line. [more inside]
posted by the sobsister at 6:29 PM PST - 13 comments

Internet-Notebook Computar
What is the lightest-weight netbook released in the past twelve months? [more inside]
posted by mnemonic at 6:18 PM PST - 11 comments

Help me fly!
Flying. ID. Waiting for new driver's license, old one clipped. [more inside]
posted by J. Wilson at 6:11 PM PST - 17 comments

Have I damaged my career options after grad school?
How will I look to recruiters after getting the boot before school starts? [more inside]
posted by Query at 6:04 PM PST - 8 comments

Spot, Spot2, Spot3, Spot4?
My foster dog is very pregnant and about to pop. I need some awesome puppy names! [more inside]
posted by tryniti at 5:50 PM PST - 54 comments

Help me help my family
A family member has just found out their very aggressive cancer has returned after what was thought to be a successful surgery. My family member and their partner have been advised to think in terms of management as opposed to cure. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 5:48 PM PST - 6 comments

Upgrade from Outlook 2003 or no?
Should I upgrade from Outlook 2003 or just keep using it forever? [more inside]
posted by mono blanco at 5:36 PM PST - 9 comments

step on a crack, break your mother's back, etc.
I'm curious about ritual superstitions, particularly the ones involving driving--holding your breath when going past a graveyard, for example. What are more of them? [more inside]
posted by NoraReed at 5:22 PM PST - 63 comments

THESE SCAREWARE VARIANTS ARE GETTING TOO STRONG
"XP Security 2011" --- did I really just get absolutely beaten by a Windows scareware virus? [more inside]
posted by shipbreaker at 4:46 PM PST - 18 comments

Trying to figure out the title of an old Easter special from HBO...
Is anyone familiar with an Easter puppet special that was on (I think) HBO in the early '80s? I remember that it involved a bunch of bunnies working in an Easter egg factory, and that the Easter Bunny ("E.B.") was fairly nervous and might've had a Woody Allen-esque delivery. It definitely isn't "Tale Of The Bunny Picnic" (though that looks pretty cute, too). Bonus points if there's a streaming version anywhere online - I'd love to show this special to my bunny-obsessed niece. Thanks, all.
posted by mintcake! at 4:42 PM PST - 7 comments

Teh HeteronormZ data outdated, incomplete, or other?
What scientific research has been done on the science of gay attraction and sexuality? [more inside]
posted by herbplarfegan at 4:35 PM PST - 19 comments

Smartphone - call plan - data plan = PDA + WiFi?
I have a Samsung Captivate smartphone with a rate plan and data plan. If I were to cancel my AT&T contract (and pay the required fee, of course), could the phone continue to be used to access the Web via Wi-Fi to sync my Google calendar/contacts/e-mail, surf the Web, and run Web-enabled apps? Would I lose anything else besides telephone and 3G data capabilities?
posted by davcoo at 4:32 PM PST - 2 comments

The Theory and Technique of Obtuse Electronic Music Textbook Writing.
Miller Puckette's The Theory and Technique of Electronic Music, as a textbook, seems obtuse and unrefined to me. Am I missing something? [more inside]
posted by invitapriore at 4:21 PM PST - 6 comments

Where can I find satirical lyrics for Billy Bragg songs inspired by his support for Nick Clegg
Where can I find satirical lyrics for Billy Bragg songs inspired by his support for Nick Clegg [more inside]
posted by bonecrusher at 4:20 PM PST - 0 comments

Creative Color
Are tetrachromats more prevalent and successful in the fashion industry and art world? Are there groups of trichromats who are overrepresented in artistic endeavors on the whole? [more inside]
posted by Blazecock Pileon at 4:20 PM PST - 7 comments

Building a website for a professional writer
[WebdesignFilter]: Building a website for a professional writer and film critic. Just articles and stories, as Victorian as possible. Got a prototype ready and need feedback. [more inside]
posted by yoHighness at 3:42 PM PST - 4 comments

Why does nose-oil make the foam go away?
Why does nose-oil eliminate the foam from carbonated beverages? [more inside]
posted by jenkinsEar at 3:42 PM PST - 14 comments

How many books are checked out of public libraries per year?
On average, how many books are checked out of a US public library, per year? Has there been a decline or an incline books being checked out in the last couple of years? [more inside]
posted by carpyful at 3:37 PM PST - 8 comments

Searching for people to read to me.
Is there a service that takes articles from the web and reads them for you? [more inside]
posted by StimulatingPixels at 3:15 PM PST - 15 comments

I don't know how to quit you, Tofu.
Being a vegetarian for 18 years comes with a whole lot of identity issues and emotional baggage. How do you let that go and start eating meat again? [more inside]
posted by etoile at 2:45 PM PST - 37 comments

Can someone help me find a Plastic/Acrylic artist that was posted on MeFi last summer???
There was an artist posted on MeFi around last summer/spring and I need help finding their name. I've searched for quite a while over the past week. I believe they melted plastic over busts, can anyone help me??? Here is an example of their work.
posted by ACair at 2:26 PM PST - 3 comments

(Spain) Spanish Social Movements: What sites and literature can I look into to get up to date with social movements on the ground in Spain currently?
(Spain) Spanish Social Movements: What sites and literature can I look into to get up to date with social movements on the ground in Spain currently? [more inside]
posted by parkbench at 2:20 PM PST - 2 comments

Why is entropy necessary for there to be memory?
In the From Eternity to Here episode of the Science Talk podcast, Sean Carroll says that without entropy there could be no memory. Could you provide an explanation of why that is to somebody who's very much a layperson when it comes to thermodynamics? [more inside]
posted by willnot at 2:06 PM PST - 7 comments

via @predictive_users
Is there any way to identify social media users who are consistently sharing viral content before it goes viral? [more inside]
posted by halseyaa at 1:56 PM PST - 8 comments

Help, I'm a Platonist!
I am passionately in love with ideas, but I feel pretty tepid about real things. Can this be reversed? [more inside]
posted by overeducated_alligator at 1:51 PM PST - 5 comments

Equipment list: Circular saw, tourniquet, bowl of ice, phone with 911 preprogrammed into it ...
Help me get over my fear of using a circular saw. [more inside]
posted by echolalia67 at 1:39 PM PST - 39 comments

JET vs AmeriCorps
JET (teaching English in Japan) vs AmeriCorps (cool community stuff in my city). Or, how do you decide between two paths that seem comparably engaging/difficult/unknown? [more inside]
posted by elephantsvanish at 1:37 PM PST - 17 comments

To refund or not to refund, that is the question
I just finished up a small project that I way overestimated. I sold the project for a fixed bid, nominally based on the hourly rate I charge for my services. The customer has already paid me - should I offer to refund the difference? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 1:32 PM PST - 29 comments

Brain Tumor Blogs
I have been diagnosed with stage 2 glioma/astrocytoma (brain cancer). I would love to find some good blogs from people who have gone through the treatment and experience of brain cancer, but I've been having trouble with the search. Links would be much appreciated! I've looked at "Blog for a Cure" and there are few that are updated. I've found more by googling but many are inapplicable. Thanks in advance for your help.
posted by anonymous at 1:31 PM PST - 13 comments

What should I know before getting my website made?
What did you wish you knew before you had your first website built. [more inside]
posted by NatProp at 1:26 PM PST - 16 comments

The Song of the Gregarious Polygynous Pinniped
I would like a full CD/LP of bearded seals, please. [more inside]
posted by mykescipark at 1:19 PM PST - 13 comments

Studies that tell us to invest in the very young
I'm looking for research studying the efficacy of parenting classes and/or early education intervention for infants and toddlers (as opposed to programs that target older children). [more inside]
posted by slightly sissy tea hound at 1:13 PM PST - 7 comments

Is it as bad as it seems?
Need information on the Wyndham Orlando Resort, please [more inside]
posted by Epsilon-minus semi moron at 1:11 PM PST - 7 comments

Culinarily conflicted, or How I learned to stop worrying about what I eat and just love food.
How to balance the desire to eat vegan with the passion for occasional meals that aren't? [more inside]
posted by Kitteh at 12:11 PM PST - 39 comments

Outlook Notification?
In Microsoft Outlook 2007, how do I set up a notification when a contact is available? [more inside]
posted by jaseaco at 12:00 PM PST - 3 comments

Do you have good examples of compelling "Feature Tour" videos for web applications or software?
Do you have good examples of compelling "Feature Tour" videos for web applications or native/software applications? [more inside]
posted by jeremias at 11:46 AM PST - 4 comments

Looking for short farm/food films
For a film festival focused on farms, food and food systems, I'm looking for short (under 45 minutes) films on those topics. Documentary, fiction or animated all acceptable. Any suggestions appreciated, especially with contact info or website links.
posted by beagle at 11:46 AM PST - 14 comments

How Much Personal Information Should I Give Out When Being Designated An Heir?
How Much Personal Information Should I Give Out When Being Designated An Heir? [more inside]
posted by gov_moonbeam at 11:43 AM PST - 9 comments

Great movies/films/documentaries about the roots of rock 'n' roll?
Great movies/films/documentaries about the roots of rock 'n' roll? [more inside]
posted by goethean at 11:21 AM PST - 18 comments

Needing an interesting reading fix.
Please help with RSS/Atom feed suggestions that are both interesting and easily read, in full, via Google Reader's mobile version. [more inside]
posted by magnoliasouth at 11:20 AM PST - 7 comments

Is organic food really better for you?
Is there a scientific consensus—ideally based on controlled, peer-reviewed, longitudinal, independently replicated studies—that an organic diet is healthier than a non-organic diet? [more inside]
posted by ixohoxi at 11:06 AM PST - 31 comments

Please recommend web performance/compatibility vendors
Browser/OS/platform/device compatibility testing vendors - reviews and advice. [more inside]
posted by Mister_A at 10:46 AM PST - 1 comments

How would I modify recipes for making mini-cakes and tarts instead of a single large cake/tart?
How would I modify recipes for making mini-cakes and tarts instead of a single large cake/tart? Specifics on my cakes and tarts are inside. [more inside]
posted by Mrs. Pterodactyl at 10:46 AM PST - 7 comments

Braintree, where's that??
Braintree, MA filter: looking for a cool bar/cafe/bistro...you get the point. [more inside]
posted by ps_im_awesome at 10:34 AM PST - 2 comments

Help for iron deficiency anemia symptoms?
Iron deficiency anemia causing sustained exhaustion and fuzzyheadedness. How can I treat the symptoms? (Underlying cause is undiagnosable so far and only worsening.) [more inside]
posted by sparrows at 10:20 AM PST - 17 comments

so long suckers?
What did you do the summer before you went on the academic job market? What do you wish you had done? [more inside]
posted by gerryblog at 9:53 AM PST - 10 comments

Recommendations for an "Intro to R" course in the NYC area
Help me spread my love for R. [more inside]
posted by docgonzo at 9:53 AM PST - 9 comments

Hydraulic brakes better for long descents?
I am looking for a cross-country bike for use in a mountain-y watershed area. I am not a skilled or graceful descender, and there is going to be a lot of descending. Bike shop guy, who I have known for a while and trust, says hydraulic discs are the way to go because of how they handle heat. Is this really a factor I should account for? [more inside]
posted by everichon at 9:52 AM PST - 13 comments

Help Me Dump AT&T
AT&T be gone. What are my options to have a land line at home? Can I use the phones I have? [more inside]
posted by snowjoe at 9:50 AM PST - 11 comments

How to create a line graph and vary line thickness dynamically?
I need to figure out how to create a line graph that allows me to vary the thickness of the line dynamically (i.e., as a function of a variable). Sort of like the way this health care expenditure/life expectancy graph varies the line thickness based on average number of doctor visits per year. [more inside]
posted by jasper411 at 9:49 AM PST - 7 comments

Help me debunk Auntie (& Bill Whittle)
Help me debunk Auntie (& Bill Whittle) - warning, highly politicized fiscal data [more inside]
posted by Reasonably Everything Happens at 9:43 AM PST - 11 comments

How do I turn the folders/files on my server into a website?
How can I turn the folders on my web server into a browse-able website (without setting up a content management system)? [more inside]
posted by brother at 9:42 AM PST - 8 comments

How happy are German cows?
I'm heading over to Europe in a few weeks and I'm curious about the differences in food quality and food ingredients as compared to the U.S. What will I find there that might be emblematic of a different system or attitude toward food? [more inside]
posted by amanda at 9:40 AM PST - 25 comments

Cheap drunk vs. blood alcohol level
Ok I admit it, I’m a cheap drunk, a lightweight. One beer, one glass of wine, and I’m feeling good. Any more than that, even another half a beer or half a glass of wine, and I’m starting to get buzzed. So I’ve always been very careful with my drinking. I’ve never been stopped for suspected DUI, and don’t plan to be. That said, I’m curious about whether my blood alcohol level actually increases more quickly than most people, or do I just feel the effects of the alcohol more quickly without my blood alcohol level rising very much. IOW, over a period of an hour, you drink two beers, you’re not drunk, and your blood alcohol level is below the legal limit. I drink two beers in an hour, I’m pretty buzzed, enough that I would not drive. Is my blood alcohol level probably over the legal limit? If it matters, I’m a fairly normal-sized adult female, 5’5”, 120 lbs.
posted by Dolley at 9:34 AM PST - 10 comments

Abandon ship, once and for all, or fight for what I have?
Seven months ago I cheated on my partner. Six months ago I came clean to him. Three months ago we broke up. This past week we have begun to spend some time together, and I feel like we both reached a breakthrough last night. Am I crazy to have this renewed faith in/willingness to work for our love? Do I need to finally let it go? Much more inside. [more inside]
posted by fignewton at 9:16 AM PST - 23 comments

Pot fell off stove, burn ring on wood floor.
Hot pot fell of stove onto wood floor. Burn ring! Help! [more inside]
posted by Sreiny at 9:04 AM PST - 7 comments

Chemotherapy Comfort Stuff
My beautiful, hilarious, brilliant, elegant mother started chemotherapy today. Please give me your best suggestions for comfort items. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:01 AM PST - 22 comments

Sante Fe in August
Sante Fe, NM in August: Yea or Nay? [more inside]
posted by starman at 8:57 AM PST - 10 comments

An Abundance of Avocados
What to do with a sudden, moderate, windfall of avocados? [more inside]
posted by Curiosity Delay at 8:42 AM PST - 32 comments

Gay Perry.
Where should I stay during Gay Pride in Paris? [more inside]
posted by jph at 8:36 AM PST - 2 comments

Amsterdam Cycling Excursions
I'll be in Amsterdam for 7-10 days in early August, and am looking for some self guided bike rides out of the city and into the surrounding countryside. [more inside]
posted by steinwald at 8:15 AM PST - 7 comments

Why are teachers allowed to scream at kids?
Why is it legal for teachers to treat kids in a way that you could never treat adults in a workplace? And if a parent wants to think about addressing this archaic situation in terms of the system (rather than just moving one's child to another class, for example) how would one even start to think about doing this? [more inside]
posted by Tylwyth Teg at 8:15 AM PST - 54 comments

Why do my thumb knuckles always crack?
Why do my thumb knuckles always crack? And how can I stop it? It seems like every time I bend either of my thumbs all the way, they "pop". I have no other poppy bones, and I am a 28 year old male, and neither of my thumbs have ever been injured as far as I know. It started about a year ago.
posted by crawltopslow at 8:13 AM PST - 8 comments

How do I find a researcher on the internet?
What is the best way to find a freelance researcher to help me create infographics? [more inside]
posted by ejfox at 7:59 AM PST - 5 comments

Help me find a hat!
Good summer hat for city wear? [more inside]
posted by rubbish bin night at 7:47 AM PST - 7 comments

Southern women's film!
Does anyone have any recommendations for films, performance art pieces, or shorts with the subject matter of women's identity politics in the South? [more inside]
posted by _superconductor at 7:27 AM PST - 6 comments

How do car engines work?
Are there resources on the internet where I can find information about what's under the hood of my car? I just feel that being a man and all I should have a good idea of what I'm looking at when I pop the hood of my car. I just want to learn the basics and maybe get a better idea of how stuff works under there. I have a Honda and a Toyota, and I know things are built differently under there, but if there's anything specific to those two then that would be preferable.
posted by fiestapais at 7:17 AM PST - 14 comments

INTP jobs?
INTP-friendly companies in Philadelphia, New York, Chicago, or Madison? (à la Myers-Briggs) [more inside]
posted by zeek321 at 7:13 AM PST - 15 comments

What's this handwritten, scroll font?
What is this font? I'm trying to match the cute, handwritten scroll feeling of "just add ice." I'm happy to find a typeface either to buy or a free download. OpenType preferred. My results from Identifont weren't close.
posted by gladly at 7:05 AM PST - 3 comments

Do you know of a free web base facebook update and email scheduler?
I looking for a reliable and free way to schedule facebook updates. I have used laterbro, hootsuite and socialsafe. All have issues. I post about 12-20 times a day and they frequently stop sending the updates at some point. The best solution would be web based. I would also like to find a free web based email scheduler as well. What have you, hive?
posted by citybuddha at 6:32 AM PST - 3 comments

If you can't cite it, it doesn't exist?
What is the proper MLA citation for a book abstract? [more inside]
posted by Breav at 6:16 AM PST - 4 comments

iPad gmail app is broken... help?
My iPad Gmail app appears stuck in viewer mode. How to fix? [more inside]
posted by Zinger at 5:42 AM PST - 8 comments

installing Win7 without admin privileges
Tech help - trying to install Win7 over XP Pro, without administrator privileges. [more inside]
posted by wilful at 5:12 AM PST - 10 comments

Gift ideas for Diabetic
I need gift basket ideas for an elderly diabetic homebound woman. [more inside]
posted by sandyp at 4:53 AM PST - 11 comments

Loving life and loving my wallet too
Lately, I've been enjoying myself more. I go out to concerts, I eat in restaurants, I buy books from Amazon, I buy fruit juice and cake and cool ingredients to make delicious food. All this is a welcome turnaround from the days when I would spend hours indoors feeling miserable. But the result is that I'm burning through money like there's no tomorrow. [more inside]
posted by Acheman at 3:57 AM PST - 47 comments

A relatively strange css/js problem
Why can't my javascript see the position of an element if it's set in the CSS but it can if it's set in the style attribute? [more inside]
posted by sodium lights the horizon at 3:56 AM PST - 4 comments

This relationship, it's like Groundhog Day.
How to extricate myself from a negative relationship cycle. [more inside]
posted by noella at 3:29 AM PST - 48 comments

Looking for the best resources about generative art
Looking for the best resources for generative art [more inside]
posted by primer_dimer at 3:08 AM PST - 6 comments

How do you become an international election observer?
How do you become an international election observer? [more inside]
posted by lapsangsouchong at 2:11 AM PST - 4 comments

Stadium Operators
Which company is seen as the premier Stadium Operator in the industry, internationally or otherwise? [more inside]
posted by Neale at 1:52 AM PST - 2 comments

What to do during a free weekend in Shanghai?
I have a short weekend (Fri night to Sun morning) off in Shanghai during a work trip, and I'm looking for an activity - even a day trip to Beijing or the Great Wall. I'd appreciate suggestions and/or advice. [more inside]
posted by jonobarel at 1:19 AM PST - 12 comments

I'm feeling lucky with chrome custom search leaves me feeling decidely unlucky
How do I use I'm Feeling Lucky with Chrome Custom Search and ALWAYS get the first result, not a list? I've googled my heart out. Some searches work, others give me regular results. I always want the first result. [more inside]
posted by Tres at 12:30 AM PST - 2 comments

April 20
Chicago Restaurants for Locavores Updates?
A 2009 question by the same title (http://ask.metafilter.com/141735/Chicago-Restaurants-for-Cheap-Locavores) with loads of good advice, but 2 years in the restaurant world can be a long time and it is not so critical to be in that 30-40$ range (though 195 before tax and tip is a stretch). Will be there for three nights in May. Any places that speak to the intersection of community and food would be of interest as well as those with wow factor for food (ambiance not so important) will be at hyatt regency
posted by dougiedd at 11:52 PM PST - 8 comments

Arena in the Pacific?
Does anyone know of a movie similar to Fredric Brown's short story "Arena," (or the Star Trek episode of the same name) that takes place on a Pacific island, with an American and a Japanese soldier pitted against each other? Note: I just watched Boorman's Hell in the Pacific, and it's not that. [more inside]
posted by stargell at 9:56 PM PST - 11 comments

Who celebrates pre-Easter holidays?
Where is there a Thursday Pre-Easter Holiday? I met an Asian tourist today who asked whether banks, libraries, and schools would be open on the Thursday, Friday, and Saturday before Easter. When I said the only "holiday" was Easter Sunday, he said that 15 yrs or so ago he visited the US and remembered these days as holidays. Now I'm curious. Does anyone know where in the world this might be so? I told him that some churches might hold special services on those days, but that wasn't what he remembered.
posted by calgirl at 9:11 PM PST - 28 comments

pscary psi pseminars? Help!
Psi seminars: BF is hooked, I'm scared, what now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:52 PM PST - 16 comments

Pregnancy scare
What have been your experiences with the medical abortion pill (RU-486 or mifepristone and misopristol)? If you have to have an abortion, would you do it in the US or the UK? [more inside]
posted by carolinaherrera at 8:47 PM PST - 16 comments

And it's all for me grog, me jolly jolly grog.
I would like to find a small pub in Portland, Oregon, with regular live folk-ish music. [more inside]
posted by curious nu at 8:15 PM PST - 7 comments

NACA?
NACA: Friend or foe? [more inside]
posted by serazin at 8:10 PM PST - 3 comments

Finding a cheap/creative wedding venue that can trick people into thinking it's a formal/traditional location.
How to search for a wedding and reception venue in LA. [more inside]
posted by brenton at 7:29 PM PST - 10 comments

How do incentive stock options work?
Incentive stock options: explain them to me as if were a child! [more inside]
posted by kmtiszen at 7:20 PM PST - 15 comments

Ahh, there is that liberal guilt again!
I am looking for a few pointers to well-regarded non-profits that focus on "social equality" (I may not be using the right term) - breaking povery cycles, education assistance, living wages for blue-collar work and so on. I don't know where to start, but maybe you can help me! [more inside]
posted by blindcarboncopy at 7:18 PM PST - 10 comments

TV leads to dissing ?
"Television will lead to people disrespecting authority figures" ... what is this article/paper/book which I saw quoted recently ? [more inside]
posted by southof40 at 7:03 PM PST - 2 comments

should've realized in the beginning
Help me figure out what to do about this undergrad research situation [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:01 PM PST - 6 comments

Should I purchase a house?
Am I crazy to want to purchase a house? [more inside]
posted by jsturgill at 6:51 PM PST - 27 comments

CMA, as good as a CPA?
I am debating getting my CMA, certifed management accountant designation. It is a new term to me, and I work in finance with gaggles of CPAs. Is the CMA a recognized and respected designation? [more inside]
posted by natasha_k at 6:45 PM PST - 3 comments

Cheap bike repair in Austin
Please recommend for me a down-and-dirty bike shop in Austin. [more inside]
posted by carterk at 6:37 PM PST - 5 comments

am i crazy or what?
Should I sell a settlement annuity to buy a second house for an investment? [more inside]
posted by timpanogos at 6:31 PM PST - 9 comments

Electrolyte sources
What are cheap bulk sources of electrolytes? [more inside]
posted by waterandrock at 6:18 PM PST - 17 comments

Not your grandfather's black New Balance
Here's what I want: leather sneakers that are acceptable for a young man to wear with business casual clothing. I want them to feel and wear like sneakers, but look nice enough to wear with wool pants and a button-down dress shirt in a professional environment. [more inside]
posted by 2bucksplus at 6:01 PM PST - 35 comments

Help me get this job!
Give me your best behavioral/situational interview questions! [more inside]
posted by elquien at 5:52 PM PST - 15 comments

When I watch a movie, you don't have to worry about maintenance, computer!
How do I keep my Windows 7 computer from deciding it's time to update when I'm watching a Netflix Watch Now movie full-screen? (It really breaks the mood.)
posted by Jonathan Harford at 4:54 PM PST - 9 comments

Indie Songs of Sex
Suggest some non-mainstream songs about sex, the erotic, and especially seduction. Bonus points if Australian. [more inside]
posted by divabat at 4:49 PM PST - 48 comments

Customizing Wordpress's Media Library -- should I use a hook?
Question about Wordpress plugins and hooks. [more inside]
posted by Victorvacendak at 4:44 PM PST - 4 comments

Help me find a new home in the Philadelphia suburbs
Advice for where to move in Montgomery County (North Philadelphia suburbs) and where to find good listings! [more inside]
posted by moshimosh at 4:33 PM PST - 3 comments

Treadmill desk recommendation
Which Treadmill Desk? [more inside]
posted by serunding at 4:12 PM PST - 6 comments

I want a portable, non-folding, legs-that-screw-in, table
I want a portable, legs-that-screw-in wood table. Does anybody know what kind of hardware I need to make this happen or of a table for sale that has legs made to screw on and off frequently OR a folding leg table of wood that is truly a cut above a regular card table? [more inside]
posted by Foam Pants at 3:36 PM PST - 15 comments

Source for downloadable list of current stock symbols?
Where can I get a list (or lists) of all stock symbols of stocks currently trading on major US exchanges for download? If possible, lists that are kept updated over time would be preferable. I don't mind pulling the data out of a larger set if necessary.
posted by procrastination at 3:10 PM PST - 3 comments

Philadelphia Subway lat/long or a shapefile?
Does anyone know where I can get a listing of lat/long for philly subway stations? A Shapefile would work too since I think I know how to convert the stops into lat/long.
posted by treeshar at 3:02 PM PST - 3 comments

Are they the same book with different titles, or variations on a theme?
Gwyneth Paltrow's cook book is called My Father's Daughter in the US and Notes from my Kitchen Table in the UK. The synopses I've seen suggest they have the same recipes but different surrounding texts. Are they the same book with different titles, or variations on a theme? [more inside]
posted by feelinglistless at 2:57 PM PST - 10 comments

Help me reword "ascend a [horizontal] walkway" so it is correct.
Can you "ascend" a horizontal "walkway"? No? Then how does one describe this action in a single word? [more inside]
posted by phonebia at 2:56 PM PST - 28 comments

How can I beat the craziness of the Continental/Amtrak link between EWR and Philly
Does anyone have any recent experience with the Continental/Amtrak link for trips to Philadelphia 30th St. Station (coded ZFV by Continental)? I need to get to Princeton NJ (not Philly) and Continental/Amtrak link is much cheaper than just a flight to Philly or Newark. [more inside]
posted by cptspalding at 2:51 PM PST - 5 comments

bittersweet painkillers
Can I do anything to reduce hydrocodone (lortab) "hangovers" which happen when the pill wears off? [more inside]
posted by KogeLiz at 2:45 PM PST - 10 comments

Tell me about Messageboard Games!
Please tell me about games which involve online messageboards/online forums! [more inside]
posted by zresearch at 2:43 PM PST - 10 comments

Lumbar Limbo
This morning, I sneezed and threw out my lower back. Since then, I've been unable to walk any significant distance without severe pain throughout my lower back/butt/left thigh, and the pain while walking is getting worse. Should I go to the hospital? [more inside]
posted by downing street memo at 2:35 PM PST - 25 comments

2.5 months in Paris--what to see?
I'm going to be moving to Paris for 2.5 months, what should I do while I'm there? [more inside]
posted by deansfurniture5 at 2:27 PM PST - 15 comments

Fillin' out forms... fillin' out forms...
So for work I have to login to a DoD website and fill out this form, and to complete my task I'm going to have to fill out this form several thousand times. But, here's the deal - the data I am entering in all of the fields are indentical for each form except for one field. [more inside]
posted by smoothvirus at 2:27 PM PST - 10 comments

Reflections on Collections
Hou Hanru: On the Mid-Ground is a collection of curatorial statements and catalogue essays by a curator/critic. What other collections of curatorial statements might you recommend? [more inside]
posted by Jagz-Mario at 2:01 PM PST - 2 comments

I need to understand more about cultural differences in doing business with Japan
I need to understand the Japanese cultural importance of "saving face" with respect to business, and how I can make myself less frustrated with an ongoing business negotiation I'm involved in. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 1:58 PM PST - 10 comments

Recurring herpes outbreak
Recurring herpes outbreak - every week for 6 months [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 1:57 PM PST - 6 comments

Is 'throat malfunction' a thing?
Can throat muscles weaken or stop working? [more inside]
posted by AdamCSnider at 1:46 PM PST - 17 comments

Software for the Socially Minded?
What open source/free software projects exist that have a humanitarian or social justice mission? [more inside]
posted by shaun uh at 1:37 PM PST - 14 comments

Is The Onion hacked or is it me?
What is "Yaza Kilolardan Kurtularak Girmek İstermisin?" Has The Onion's Facebook sharing section been hacked, or is it my computer? [more inside]
posted by Jorus at 12:55 PM PST - 2 comments

How do runners pass the time?
What are some games that 2 people can play while running long distances to pass the time? [more inside]
posted by never.was.and.never.will.be. at 12:47 PM PST - 24 comments

Aside from mushrooms, are there any decorative houseplants I can grow in a dark and neglected apartment?
Does a dark and somewhat uninhabited apartment mean I can't have houseplants? [more inside]
posted by Vorteks at 12:41 PM PST - 20 comments

Is a Mul-T-Lock worth the Mul-T-Cost?
Is a Mul-T-Lock worth it? [more inside]
posted by mkultra at 12:29 PM PST - 5 comments

Could my relationship break be temporary and successful?
My girlfriend have decided to go 'on a break'. I'm interested in hearing about how others have fared in such an arrangement. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:25 PM PST - 36 comments

Refinery cold start article in Wired?
In the past 6-9 months, I read an issue of (I believe) Wired Magazine that included an awesome multi-page diagram of the steps required to restart an oil/gas refinery after an emergency shutdown due to hurricanes. Which issue of Wired is this in? [more inside]
posted by crysflame at 12:15 PM PST - 3 comments

Laws that 49/50 US states have.
What are some laws that exactly 49 out of the 50 US states have on the books? [more inside]
posted by EnormousTalkingOnion at 11:45 AM PST - 45 comments

tips or advice for cat with arthritis?
tips/advice for a cat with arthritis? [more inside]
posted by roxie110 at 11:44 AM PST - 12 comments

How to settle for someone ugly?
How do you settle for someone? I feel like it would be so much easier to find a woman to date if I didn't care what her face looked like. Does anyone know of any way to make myself do this?
posted by vash at 11:36 AM PST - 57 comments

Recommend a USB microphone or headset for NaturallySpeaking?
Dragon NaturallySpeaking: Can you recommend a USB microphone or headset that works well with this software? (or maybe bluetooth) [more inside]
posted by Not Supplied at 11:19 AM PST - 4 comments

Negotiation 101
Here's what I don't understand about negotiation: why it's good to go last. [more inside]
posted by still_wears_a_hat at 11:10 AM PST - 10 comments

"Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain" by Betty Edwards - Materials list?
My wife is planning on learning to draw from the book "Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain" by Betty Edwards. I'd like to surprise her with a box with all the materials that are needed to complete the course but I can't get the book away from her for long enough without her being suspicious. I've tried google but no luck. Does any one have or can direct me to a list of the materials needed? Thanks
posted by ndaguiar at 11:07 AM PST - 7 comments

How do you find a space to convert into a home?
After reading this post, I've realized that I want my next house to be.. different. How do I go about finding a warehouse/church/water tower to convert into a home? [more inside]
posted by Adridne at 11:03 AM PST - 12 comments

cabin recommendations near Richmond, Va (up to 4 hours away)
cabin recommendations near Richmond, Va (up to 4 hours away) [more inside]
posted by shalam at 11:03 AM PST - 11 comments

What variety of leather pants are most appropriate for my needs?
I am the proud new owner of a beautiful 1985 Honda Nighthawk 700S. Tell me what else I should spend my money on. [more inside]
posted by BobbyDigital at 11:01 AM PST - 23 comments

Retired spy, looking for some movies to watch
I really like spy movies where the main character is trying to retire/extricate themselves from The Company. I've seen a bunch from the library, but which ones have I missed? [more inside]
posted by carsonb at 10:55 AM PST - 32 comments

Need some good portable headphones.
Good portable headphone suggestions. [more inside]
posted by Dick Laurent is Dead at 10:44 AM PST - 14 comments

Very affordable commuter/road bike?
Very affordable commuter/road bike? [more inside]
posted by thsmchnekllsfascists at 9:42 AM PST - 28 comments

Abandon my job for future prospects?
Abandon my job for future prospects? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:31 AM PST - 8 comments

Know anyone that has experienced burning pain in their neck (back of neck) that radiates to the face , and if so how do they relieve it?
Know anyone that has experienced burning pain in their neck (back of neck) that radiates to the face , and if so how do they relieve it? [more inside]
posted by aorkis at 9:27 AM PST - 6 comments

Tired of being the kibble that's always there; time to turn into a laser pointer!
My boyfriend and I live together, and the relationship is great, but things have gotten very 'comfortable'. I think it's time to take everything he thinks he knows about us and turn it upside-down (in a good way)! How though? [more inside]
posted by Sa Dec at 9:22 AM PST - 41 comments

Why do I cry so easily when I used to never cry?
Have you ever switched from being a stoic to being a crier? Could this be from treating my depression or something else? [more inside]
posted by Hey nonny nonny mouse at 9:13 AM PST - 19 comments

Yet another albumfilter
I'm looking for a recently released album that was actually recorded in the 70s but was only released now. The name was something like Torrey Canyon, Torrey Pines, Laurel Canyon (but Google is not helping me here), any ideas? I really wanted to listen to it but it's looking like I have the name completely wrong. I believe I originally heard about it on Metafilter. I do not have lyrics, because I haven't heard it! Note: it is not Torrey Canyon LTD, from Kent, OH.
posted by chesty_a_arthur at 9:08 AM PST - 14 comments

Best OC neighborhoods for living & playing?
Help me find the most interesting and walkable neighborhoods in Orange County! [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:08 AM PST - 7 comments

Photo Library
I have several thousand images from almost 30 years of photography and filmmaking scattered throughout one of four hard drives on my Mac. I want to move all my images to their own drive, build a searchable photo library, and I need a way to organize, tag, search, and easily find images. [more inside]
posted by Ann Onymous at 9:03 AM PST - 9 comments

How can my wife and I make our ill-defined vacation home dream a reality?
Please help me figure out how to build or buy a vacation/summer home or cabin within 3-4 hours of New York City [more inside]
posted by lieberschnitzel at 9:01 AM PST - 12 comments

White couch = worst. idea. ever.
White Couch + 2 Dogs = I need recommendations for upholstery cleaners in NYC [more inside]
posted by melissasaurus at 8:56 AM PST - 0 comments

Help me find an M.I.A. mashup?
I'm looking for a specific mashup, and suggestions for similar mashups. [more inside]
posted by herrdoktor at 8:40 AM PST - 5 comments

PowerPoint to PDF on iPad
How can I convert powpoint presentations (.ppt and .pptx) to PDF for editing on iPad 2? [more inside]
posted by cmchap at 8:36 AM PST - 4 comments

Breaking glass nicely
I collect beach glass to make things. I've used a rock-polisher to create beach glass. I am looking for hints in increasing my yield from the rock-polisher, namely how to break bottles to get decent sized pieces. [more inside]
posted by k5.user at 8:25 AM PST - 15 comments

Dear Mr. Darwin: How is babby formed?
How did sexual reproduction become evolutionarily advantageous? [more inside]
posted by AngerBoy at 8:25 AM PST - 23 comments

Looking for umbrella with Library of Parliament on the inside
Anybody know where I can find a Library of Parliament umbrella that was previously sold by Chapters? [more inside]
posted by Gor-ella at 8:03 AM PST - 3 comments

Criticise my coworkers, how do I do it right?
How do I get better at providing constructive criticism to design colleagues? Especially ones that don’t ask? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:02 AM PST - 12 comments

How to find a medical specialist
How does one find a specialist in your area? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:02 AM PST - 5 comments

How to handle speed dating rejection with class?
How do you handle rejection from Speed Dating in a classy manly way? I received a rejection email from a woman and I feel like I should reply...see details below... [more inside]
posted by PetiePal at 7:43 AM PST - 36 comments

Too zombied to come up with a creative title.
I'm worried I'm going to be fired because I'm so tired. [more inside]
posted by sarahj at 7:42 AM PST - 58 comments

How do I change key or pitch on a song in itunes?
Hi, I have a song in my itunes that my daughter will be singing to at a recital. The teacher asked me to "change the song a few half steps up to key C". She said her students do it often, but I'm not computer savvy. [more inside]
posted by lynnie-the-pooh at 7:15 AM PST - 23 comments

Do you have a wicked source for laptop parts?
I've got a busted up Dell Mini 9. Can you help me source a few parts? [more inside]
posted by TomMelee at 7:02 AM PST - 6 comments

What on Earth was going on in Venice?
I was in Venice for a few days at the end of March, and several times saw young people in the street participating in a weird ritual: they would read out a passage from a hand-made poster, the crowd would laugh, and someone would attack them with a foodstuff -- I saw a lot of flour, once a meat tray, and an unfortunate soul having canned whipped cream injected down his pants. What? [more inside]
posted by ffrinch at 5:52 AM PST - 13 comments

Wife mistrust me, what do I do?
Wife mistrusts me now over a single comment, and thinks I'm withholding family information. What should I do? [more inside]
posted by pxharder at 4:31 AM PST - 37 comments

One what?
When rappers say "one time for the .../two times for the ...", what are they referring to? If I'm watching a concert, what am I supposed to do? [more inside]
posted by the NATURAL at 3:38 AM PST - 12 comments

When did the idea of America being the "freest country in the world" gain popularity?
When did the idea of America being the "freest country in the world" first gain popularity? [more inside]
posted by Hartster at 3:02 AM PST - 14 comments

How do I make these cakes for a 2yo's birthday?
On my daughter's second birthday, I'd like to make cakes like her favourite toy - but edible. Please help me! [more inside]
posted by monkey closet at 2:01 AM PST - 11 comments

Synching "likes" between facebook and website posts
There are two sets of FB "likes" that I would like to be synched; one, the likes on the website's posts, and the other, the likes I get when I link to those posts on Facebook. 21 people like my latest post on my website, but only one person has liked the link I put about the post on facebook. Can I get the two to add together with some automatic gizmo? Thanks mefi!
posted by omnigut at 12:37 AM PST - 4 comments

1970s French cop movie
I saw this French cop/conspiracy/scandal movie at French camp in the 1970s. Now that I have the awesome power of the internet at my disposal, I'd like to find it again. But I can't. [more inside]
posted by dhartung at 12:35 AM PST - 7 comments

Help with Brazilian Cheese Bread
Help improving my Brazilian cheese bread. I tried to make Brazilian cheese bread, but the inside is all gooey. How do I make the inside fluffier? [more inside]
posted by shoyu at 12:26 AM PST - 17 comments

How to find concierge (private) doctors / medicine in Europe and Asia?
I'm looking to find doctors who practice private/concierge medicine in Europe and Asia. These doctors typically charge an upfront fee and gives you significantly more attention (ie, he has 500 instead of 3000 patients; is available immediately 24/7). They usually practice family medicine or internal medicine. This type of doctor is growing in the US, but I can't seem to find them elsewhere in the world...
posted by JiffyQ at 12:03 AM PST - 9 comments

April 19
Image monster wants images NOM NOM NOM
How can I easily save the images I find online for later viewing? [more inside]
posted by bkudria at 10:39 PM PST - 14 comments

Where Can I Find This Silver Elemental Ring?
Please help me find this silver ring with a rectangular lapis lazuli (or possibly sodalite?) setting and elemental symbols around the band. [more inside]
posted by rhiannonstone at 9:46 PM PST - 1 comments

Southern California Mystery Building
What is this ocean side Southern California building? [more inside]
posted by mmascolino at 9:34 PM PST - 8 comments

Help a survivor figure out how to get medical care.
How do sexual abuse survivors handle getting long-term medical care? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:12 PM PST - 20 comments

How much storage for photos on Google Apps?
How much storage does Google Apps for Non-Profit provide for photos (Picasa Web Albums)? [more inside]
posted by roaring beast at 8:49 PM PST - 4 comments

The Tree Ferns Have to Love Themselves Before I Can Love Them
What is going on with my new tree ferns? Bad things, yes, but what manner of bad things? [more inside]
posted by RJ Reynolds at 7:53 PM PST - 5 comments

My eyes are going to pop out of my head.... thank you Spring!
Hello fellow Metafilterians, now that allergy season is upon us, does anyone recommend the best OTC med for: pressure on the eyes, chest congestion, stuffy nose, and sore throat? It's much worse in the morning. Coughing up yellow awfulness (sorry, gross). Claritin and Mucinex-D do NOT work. Sudafed works like a charm but knocks me out, literally for 2 days. Not sure what's out there, haven't had allergies in a couple of years.
posted by luciddream928 at 7:52 PM PST - 35 comments

Should I pay a deposit despite a weird clause in the application?
I'm renting an apartment in Denver, CO, and the property manager is asking I pay a deposit in the form of a money order mailed to his address or delivered to the onsite manager to hold the apartment. I've checked the property out with the onsite manager, and it looks great. Worryingly, the application says that if offered the apartment and I refuse to sign the lease, the deposit will be kept. Is this normal, and is there anything else I should be worried about? [more inside]
posted by speedgraphic at 7:40 PM PST - 15 comments

Self-Referential Name Check Mixtape
Dear MeFi, please help me in making the most awesome self-referential name check mixtape ever. [more inside]
posted by nulledge at 7:19 PM PST - 22 comments

Who is the Moriarty to your Holmes?
What sort of questions would you ask someone about on the theme of enemies and nemeses? [more inside]
posted by Felicity Rilke at 6:54 PM PST - 18 comments

How to practice safe PayPal?
I'm about to purchase a $1500 camera from a fellow I met through an online photography forum. I'll be paying via PayPal (funded by my American Express). I've no reason to think the seller untrustworthy, but what can I do to protect myself just in case?
posted by aladfar at 6:52 PM PST - 10 comments

Show, don't tell!
Tutoring two 2nd-grade students in writing more creatively. I'm a creative writing grad student, so no sweat right? Wrong. Their first language isn't English. [more inside]
posted by joyeuxamelie at 6:43 PM PST - 10 comments

Opening a can of tomato paste, the contents spewed out. Can I eat this?
Opening a can of tomato paste, the contents spewed out. Can I eat this? [more inside]
posted by moira at 6:35 PM PST - 16 comments

Which ADHD med won't cause anxiety?
What's a focus-enhancing ADHD medication that won't cause anxiety or make me feel "out of it" the way caffeine does? [more inside]
posted by incandescentman at 6:33 PM PST - 21 comments

justin.tv DVR?
Hey, anybody got an end-to-end solution to do set-it-and-forget-it style timeshifting of Justin.tv streams? [more inside]
posted by mwhybark at 6:01 PM PST - 0 comments

Simple PHP gallery with RSS and easy uploads?
I'm looking for really simple PHP image gallery software that does RSS, automatically parses a directory of images, and automatically generates thumbnails. That's really about it. [more inside]
posted by odinsdream at 5:37 PM PST - 9 comments

What non-teaching jobs are available for a potentially laid off teacher?
My government has made severe cuts in education, due to that and the fact I'm only in my 2nd year of teaching the probability that I would be laid off is very high. I have a sociology degree and an education degree, but I'm struggling any job that asks for either. [more inside]
posted by bluehermit at 5:34 PM PST - 16 comments

I Will Die a Happy Person If I Find This Song
I'm on a search for a song from the eighties. [more inside]
posted by Fairchild at 5:29 PM PST - 44 comments

Where did "as all get-out" come from?
IdiomFilter: What is the origin of the phrase "as all get-out"? [more inside]
posted by nzero at 4:56 PM PST - 5 comments

Get me off my butt.
After getting married, and starting a new (temporarily lower paying) job, money is tight. During the wedding planning, I thought, "Man, when I have the money again, I'd love to get back to rock climbing or take a French class". Well, the money is still tight, and looks to be for a while. What are some hobbies I can pick up that would cost very little to no money per month? [more inside]
posted by two lights above the sea at 4:50 PM PST - 44 comments

My Dad Needs a Better Son or Daughter
There will soon be a death in my family. I'm worried this one's going to be especially hard and I'm not sure what to do. [more inside]
posted by EatTheWeak at 4:46 PM PST - 19 comments

Vegan mac and cheese, please!
Does anyone have any tips for vegan mac and cheese? Or favorite recipes would be nice also. [more inside]
posted by MaryDellamorte at 4:38 PM PST - 16 comments

tv pour les petites?
Asking for a friend: French-language TV (or radio) pour les petites? [more inside]
posted by SymphonyNumberNine at 4:20 PM PST - 7 comments

Straight out of the box: smartphone(s) that can...
Which current smartphone in the market plays FLAC files, has crossfade, has 10-band equalizer, and can either grab folder.jpg/cover.jpg from the same folder or display embedded artwork of any size straight out of the box? [more inside]
posted by querty at 4:13 PM PST - 8 comments

How do I get a good apartment at the right time?
I'm in College Park, MD for graduate school. My lease ends in August, and I feel like it's time to start looking for a place. I want to stay within a few minutes of campus (lived in Hyattsville before, and really liked that) but also want to try to get a place between $500 to $700 before utilities and cable. I've mostly just known people for the past few places I've lived, so I'm looking for some advice on when to start seriously looking, where to look, and other advice. [more inside]
posted by codacorolla at 4:12 PM PST - 6 comments

I need a (soft) condensed matter physics textbook.
I need a (soft) condensed matter physics textbook. [more inside]
posted by pombe at 4:01 PM PST - 3 comments

Music like Up's; up, then down
I'm looking for songs that start out cheerful or sweet and turn sad. My best example of this is the Marriage Song/Theme from the movie Up. It doesn't suit my purposes, however. Can you help me find some others? [more inside]
posted by HE Amb. T. S. L. DuVal at 4:00 PM PST - 11 comments

Is a drug test required for a DOT medical card?
Drug-testing filter: A friend of mine is working for a non-profit domestic (USA) organization and was asked to get a DOT health/medical card to drive a truck/trailer combination in excess of 10,000 lbs, carrying heavy equipment. Will a drug test be required?
posted by bright and shiny at 3:55 PM PST - 6 comments

A carnivore-herbivore compromise spot in Ann Arbor?
Restaurant recommendation in Ann Arbor for a vegetarian and a picky carnivore. [more inside]
posted by palindromic at 3:54 PM PST - 12 comments

Your best burrito recipe please.
Why are food cart burritos so so good and how can I make my burritos at home that good? [more inside]
posted by saffronwoman at 3:47 PM PST - 20 comments

Need a new fridge, what?
I have to buy a fridge and I don't how important things are. [more inside]
posted by b33j at 3:33 PM PST - 18 comments

How do you make 'cinegraph' gifs?
We've talked about how to make gifs before - but what about "cinegraphs?" [more inside]
posted by teststrip at 3:24 PM PST - 7 comments

Where do I go to sell custom designed notepads?
Where can I go to sell custom notepads? [more inside]
posted by Make Way for Ducklings! at 2:58 PM PST - 4 comments

Book title
My mother in law is convinced there was a novel published in the last twenty years featuring a nun as the protagonist. It was written by a man and won at least one award. Any ideas?
posted by katestap at 2:55 PM PST - 14 comments

Fun/amazing/mindblowing Physics Presentation?
Ideas for Amazing in-class Physics presentation? [more inside]
posted by MansRiot at 2:32 PM PST - 16 comments

Ebook reader help.
Hello Folks; My wife would like a ebook reader,and we know very little about this. [more inside]
posted by WOLF101 at 2:28 PM PST - 24 comments

Questioner that just won't quit. HELP!
How to deal with a customer that just won't stop asking pre-sale questions? [more inside]
posted by foggy out there now at 1:34 PM PST - 33 comments

Nom Nom Ow!
Is my diet triggering migraines? [more inside]
posted by Kitty Stardust at 1:31 PM PST - 25 comments

I need cover(s)!
I need sound clips from film, television or other media that incorporate the word 'cover' or 'covers' in some way. Suggestions? [more inside]
posted by Gin and Comics at 1:21 PM PST - 14 comments

Survey software recommendations?
I'm looking for a better web survey software for academic research applications. I cannot use a hosted service such as survey monkey because of human subjects data safeguarding considerations. [more inside]
posted by mhorta at 1:12 PM PST - 7 comments

No me gustan los almacenes
Why are people in Mexico not interested in "grocery stores"? [more inside]
posted by shotgunbooty at 1:04 PM PST - 21 comments

How to find passersby at 9/11?
I am a journalist trying to find a way to locate people who were passersby at 9/11. Not first responders, mind you, or folks who escaped from the towers -- just people who happened to be around when it happened. And despite their non-direct involvement, may have been in some way affected. Thoughts?
posted by It ain't over yet at 1:00 PM PST - 21 comments

What should I do with my unlimited bandwidth?
What should I do with my unlimited bandwidth? [more inside]
posted by contemplace at 1:00 PM PST - 4 comments

Seeking side job to earn $400-500/mo.
How to earn extra $400-500/mo. with limited hours and 8-5 job? Specifally, seeking good at-home/on the side or Saturday/Sunday A.M. job ideas. [more inside]
posted by Dukat at 12:55 PM PST - 13 comments

I have a hard disk, but nothing to enclose it.
Please help me find a reliable external Hard Disk enclosure. [more inside]
posted by indiebass at 12:36 PM PST - 14 comments

Where can I get these old Sony tape formats converted?
Sony HG120 tape, Sony 8mm MP120 tape, Sony Video8 MP60 tape. Need converted to DVD or other modern format, in Philadelphia. If not local, than some reputable online business someone has used previously. [more inside]
posted by furious at 11:57 AM PST - 3 comments

Gold Standard Minus Federal Reserve
What would the U.S. economy be like right now if it hadn't left the gold standard and the Federal Reserve had not been created? [more inside]
posted by spikeleemajortomdickandharryconnickjrmints at 11:43 AM PST - 24 comments

Crotchety Crocheter is Crotchety
Crochet-filter: Can you tell me how to make the edging of an afghan not be bunched up and stupid-looking? [more inside]
posted by motsque at 11:37 AM PST - 12 comments

Did Robert Fulgham really write this short reading?
There's a sweet and commoner-than-I-expected wedding reading that's frequently attributed to Robert Fulgham. It starts "You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment..." and is sometimes referred to by the title "Union". Did he actually write it? [more inside]
posted by Plutor at 11:17 AM PST - 4 comments

Basic HTML Knowledge of New Employees
Is it unreasonable to expect most knowledge workers entering the job market today to have basic HTML knowledge? [more inside]
posted by tuzy2k at 11:10 AM PST - 97 comments

Multi-skilled graphic designer
Hiring a new graphic designer. Is it realistic to be looking for someone with both print and web design skills and some ability to code? [more inside]
posted by n-clue at 10:03 AM PST - 22 comments

Our long-term NYC hotel just canceled on us
We're moving to New York City in 8 days. Our extended-stay hotel, where we made a reservation weeks ago, just told us they won't be open by then. What do we do now? [more inside]
posted by Flying Saucer at 9:58 AM PST - 31 comments

What are librarians to do when they suspect a student is cheating on a research paper and want thier help to do so?
What are librarians to do when students cheat on a research papers and 'want them to help them? [more inside]
posted by Tullyogallaghan at 9:38 AM PST - 27 comments

How can my wife get a teaching job, or a similar job?
Wife cannot get a teaching job. How to increase chances or what alternate career paths? [more inside]
posted by NotSoSimple at 9:13 AM PST - 22 comments

Where do IT people go to die?
Where do IT people go to work when they don’t want to do IT anymore, or even work in a corporate environment? In which jobs and/or careers would IT experience be valuable? [more inside]
posted by bondcliff at 8:44 AM PST - 25 comments

The Winamp Countdown (nee-ner-NEE-nerrr)
Did Winamp just install something on my computer without my permission? Help solve my mystery. You have 3 hours 52 minutes remaining! [more inside]
posted by AugieAugustus at 8:39 AM PST - 11 comments

How do major chains make pizza?
How is pizza made at a major chain pizza restaurant? [more inside]
posted by jca at 8:38 AM PST - 53 comments

Plateauing after 7 pounds? Not fair!
Why aren't I losing weight anymore, despite meticulously tracking my calorie intake and exercising? [more inside]
posted by rachaelfaith at 8:36 AM PST - 69 comments

Let's Do The Brain Wave Again
Has anyone had success with neurofeedback, or know someone who has? [more inside]
posted by enzymatic at 8:06 AM PST - 10 comments

Canadian Election returns in Austin?
Where can I watch the Canadian Federal Election in a bar/coffeshop in Austin, TX? [more inside]
posted by jpziller at 8:03 AM PST - 3 comments

SSD Tips
Hoping for reliable info on appropriate care and management of modern SSD drives. [more inside]
posted by drpynchon at 7:47 AM PST - 6 comments

Can you help ID this mysterious piece of electronic music?
Can you identify this (seemingly) misidentified piece of electronic music? It's supposedly by Marumari and is called "Kid Icarus Fight", but I am pretty sure that's incorrect... [more inside]
posted by chr1sb0y at 7:39 AM PST - 5 comments

No, woman, no cry
Why does random music make me teary? [more inside]
posted by dejah420 at 7:07 AM PST - 41 comments

So much grief
Is there a grief groups in Silicon Valley, for men? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 6:56 AM PST - 7 comments

common properties of x and not
when considering 'time/space', and then identifying 'time frames' as a discrete property of this. is it appopriate to then say 'time/space' and 'not time/space' share the common property of 'time frames' ?
posted by captain wibbly at 4:20 AM PST - 15 comments

Who Corrects the Correctors?
"Graphic novel" isn't merely a more sophisticated synonym for "comic book." The "H" in the Montreal Canadiens logo doesn't stand for "Habitants" (it's just "hockey"). What are other examples of wrong "insider" info commonly cited by poseur-types? Stuff that only true experts/fans would be quick to refute, and probably snicker at? [more inside]
posted by TheSecretDecoderRing at 1:55 AM PST - 78 comments

What, if any, is the connection between Desi Arnaz and Desi Arnaz Hines II?
What, if any, is the connection between Desi Arnaz and Desi Arnaz Hines II? [more inside]
posted by mreleganza at 1:23 AM PST - 3 comments

Nice suburbs to rent in darwin?
what are the nicest suburbs to rent in darwin australia? is the inner city a good option? apartment for preference
posted by sparkle55 at 12:42 AM PST - 3 comments

Why are these pipes built in a strange way?
Why can't LNG (liquid natural gas) pipes have long straight runs? [more inside]
posted by woodblock100 at 12:20 AM PST - 10 comments

Why did my electric motor stop?
What in an overdriven, broken electric motor is "burned out"? [more inside]
posted by telstar at 12:08 AM PST - 13 comments

April 18
Trying to remember childhood novel titles
Looking for titles for two fantasy books from childhood, the publishing time frame is 1970~1990ish. Scenes from Game of Thrones reminded a friend of them... [more inside]
posted by nightchrome at 10:17 PM PST - 11 comments

Sparking, short-lived light bulbs - is there any solution?
Why do our light bulbs seem to burn out far faster than they ought to? And our light switches make sparking noises? [more inside]
posted by treehorn+bunny at 9:27 PM PST - 15 comments

Job hunting in Canada
Where to start looking for web content (or similar) work in Canada? From New Zealand? [more inside]
posted by roobot at 9:22 PM PST - 8 comments

When do I file my 1040X?
I just realized I made a mistake on my NJ state income tax return *after* I e-filed it with TurboTax. The mistake turns my refund into a payment. Should I wait until the incorrect refund clears and then file a 1040X, or just file the 1040X immediately? [more inside]
posted by fennokin at 8:46 PM PST - 9 comments

Finding supporters of human cloning
I need help finding contact information of supporters of human cloning for my school project. [more inside]
posted by hotdiggitydog at 8:38 PM PST - 3 comments

Flickr + Creative Commons = ?
I'm thinking of switching my default Flickr license from All Rights Reserved to Creative Commons. Help me understand the practicalities of this. [more inside]
posted by fremen at 8:18 PM PST - 9 comments

What Wifi connector is this?
Can YOU identify this wifi connector? [more inside]
posted by passtehbrainz at 8:16 PM PST - 3 comments

cabin stuff
What cool/useful/fun items do I want to have at a cabin with no electricity? [more inside]
posted by ian1977 at 8:05 PM PST - 73 comments

OS X Style Folders in Windows 7?
Is there any way in Windows 7, an application or setting, to get folders to behave like in Mac OS X? I mean specifically the little triangles you can click to expand the folder so you can work with the contents without going into the folder. [more inside]
posted by Pants McCracky at 7:56 PM PST - 3 comments

Tiny NOM, NOM, NOM.
What should we feed our new kitten? [more inside]
posted by Sissinghurst at 7:42 PM PST - 17 comments

New apartment + new kitty?
I will be moving house soon and am interested in adding a (second) cat to my household. How to minimize trauma for the cat I already have? [more inside]
posted by alphasunhat at 7:19 PM PST - 3 comments

If you owned an Italian restaurant, what would you call it?
Please help me think of a new name for an Italian restaurant. [more inside]
posted by slimceagirrl at 7:18 PM PST - 42 comments

Sleep Cycle App Killing Battery?
Sleep Cycle app on iphone 4 - does it kill your battery? [more inside]
posted by grak88 at 7:10 PM PST - 4 comments

Need "Weird" Sci Fi book recommendations
Can anyone recommend Psychedelic/ Mind Expanding contemporary Sci Fi books? [more inside]
posted by Liquidwolf at 7:04 PM PST - 28 comments

Is bullying behavior from 15 years ago an automatic dis-qualifier for an interview?
Hiring a new employee. Well qualified applicant bullied a current employee in high school (15 years ago). Immediate disqualification? [more inside]
posted by Nickel Pickle at 6:42 PM PST - 63 comments

I'm about to take my GED test, and it's long overdue. I'm fairly confident I'll pass most sections, but how can I keep from over-thinking the essay question?
I'm about to take my GED test, and it's long overdue. I'm fairly confident I'll pass most sections, but how can I keep from over-thinking the essay question? [more inside]
posted by mingo_clambake at 6:22 PM PST - 25 comments

The cat ate the keat
What term describes this property of human language? [more inside]
posted by molybdenum at 6:10 PM PST - 17 comments

Cheapest TV?
What's the cheapest, best HD TV I can get in Australia? I'm upgrading from a CRT to some sort of flatscreen. I'm mostly going to use it for playing XBox and watching TV, so larger is better and it should be in HD. I've looked around on Gumtree but I'm wondering if there are any sites that would let me order overseas with cheap shipping and/or tricks MeFis know to get the best prices.
posted by Lovecraft In Brooklyn at 6:05 PM PST - 11 comments

Do I really need a T series thinkpad?
Will I be missing out much if I buy an SL series or Thinkpad Edge laptop instead of a T series thinkpad? [more inside]
posted by kitcat at 5:57 PM PST - 10 comments

Pythagoras Switch available to purchase?
Is the adorable Japanese children's TV show Pythagoras Switch, (aka Pitagora Suicchi) available as a dvd or download in the US? [more inside]
posted by apparently at 5:56 PM PST - 2 comments

Go see a doc now or wait?
Should I go see my doc tomorrow or wait a month? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 5:49 PM PST - 18 comments

Am I working legally?
I'm currently a UK international student and I just found out about online writing services such as www.demandstudios.com. I've just earned my first $15 through the first article which I'd submitted, yay ! However, I'm concerned about the legalities of such activities. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 5:48 PM PST - 5 comments

Mental Biking
Tips on getting mentally prepared for my first mountain bike race. [more inside]
posted by Hands of Manos at 5:40 PM PST - 11 comments

Something other than tubular bells plz
What's the chime-y instrumental background music at ~1:35 of this clip from the No Reservations Thailand episode? [more inside]
posted by juv3nal at 5:14 PM PST - 8 comments

Fighting like cats and cats
Help me introduce a new kitten to my cat. [more inside]
posted by mesha steele at 4:57 PM PST - 12 comments

Stupid burning stupid hand
Can you help me stop stupid burning my stupid hand? [more inside]
posted by A Terrible Llama at 4:47 PM PST - 42 comments

Annual reviews and raises for a newbie
My first annual review since entering the workplace is coming up. What should I expect? Can/should I parlay the courtship I'm getting from other companies into a raise? [more inside]
posted by Jacen Solo at 4:41 PM PST - 10 comments

Help me not be a creepy jealous boyfriend
How do I get over feeling weird about my girlfriend and her male friend? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:40 PM PST - 43 comments

High altitude day hikes in California.
High altitude day hikes in California. [more inside]
posted by Tell Me No Lies at 3:21 PM PST - 11 comments

How do I un-traumatize myself?
I tried to break up with my boyfriend over the weekend, and it didn't go well. I've agreed to give things another shot but I don't think I can get over what happened during the breakup. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:19 PM PST - 201 comments

What should I get paid as an editor for an ebook company?
What should I get paid as a senior editor of a new ebook company? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:18 PM PST - 3 comments

Looking for online environmental video recommendations.
I'm looking for awesome short environmental videos available online, to be included in an environmental video festival. Thoughts? [more inside]
posted by binocularfight at 2:43 PM PST - 7 comments

Facebook friends
I have an old friend Ned (who is not friends with any of my other friends) on facebook. I comment on and discuss many things with this Ned. My other friends (who are not friends with Ned, live in a different state, have never met Ned, and have no connection to him except my existence!) show up on Ned's page liking what I have said and occasionally even adding to the discussion. [more inside]
posted by skjønn at 2:31 PM PST - 24 comments

Roadtrip SF to LA/Indio with teens?
Help me plot out an awesome roadtrip and hotel from San Francisco's East Bay to Indio, CA this weekend. Bonus point: teenagers, driver's sanity, scenic viewpoints [more inside]
posted by zippy at 2:03 PM PST - 15 comments

Ghost in the van
Ghost in the van: our 12-passenger van has started up a few times without a key in the ignition. Also, the locking mechanism sometimes engages continuously, leaving us briefly locked in/out of the vehicle. Is it haunted? [more inside]
posted by otolith at 2:02 PM PST - 12 comments

Atomic Cafe Incidental Music
Does anyone recognize the music playing during Eisenhower's speech at about 40 minutes into "The Atomic Cafe"? It's not on the soundtrack and it doesn't seem to be listed in the closing credits. Thank you!
posted by interrobang at 1:59 PM PST - 5 comments

Legit indie mmo projects?
I need help finding an Indie mmorpg project. [more inside]
posted by softriver at 1:45 PM PST - 3 comments

DC charities that pick up furniture donations?
DC area (Arlington, VA specifically) charities that will come pick up furniture donations? Preferably alternatives to the Salvation Army? [more inside]
posted by alaijmw at 1:42 PM PST - 5 comments

Product recommendations for the usual summertime beauty issues...?
Product recommendations for the usual summertime beauty issues....? [more inside]
posted by foxhat10 at 1:34 PM PST - 8 comments

Getting off the advanced plateau
Given 4 months of free time, how can an advanced English learner take the biggest step toward full fluency? [more inside]
posted by mshrike at 1:20 PM PST - 11 comments

Python-Tkinter data passing
I'm writing a program in Python using Tkinter for GUI stuff. How can I pass data back from my buttons to the logic of my program? [more inside]
posted by anaelith at 1:13 PM PST - 9 comments

Alphabet songs around the world?
Are there "alphabet songs" for alphabets other than English? THere is the familiar alphabet song, to the tune of "twinkle twinkle little star". Are there similar songs for children learning the alphabets of other languages, such as Finnish, German, French, Spanish, Italian, Russian, etc.? [more inside]
posted by cogneuro at 1:11 PM PST - 25 comments

Conflict wine?
I was invited to a Passover seder tomorrow night with the request that each guest bring a personal bottle of wine for our own individual enjoyment. There was also this: "I would appreciate if your wine was not produced in occupied Palestinian territory." In the spirit of being difficult, I'd like to locate a wine produced in a state with an ongoing territorial dispute. Can you recommend one? [more inside]
posted by thejoshu at 12:39 PM PST - 40 comments

Kanye's art history?
Can you tell me about Kanye's classical-composite Coachella backdrop? [more inside]
posted by oinopaponton at 12:31 PM PST - 7 comments

Seeking online collaboration tool!
Looking for a cheap (free?) online collaboration tool that will allow me to share documents with a group of folks. Maybe it has a blog/notes capability? Maybe a discussion board? Plus it sends email notifications to users when updates are made. Is KeepandShare? Is it something else? Help?
posted by that's candlepin at 12:27 PM PST - 9 comments

Help me make the best ever Bachelorette party goody bags.
Help me make the best ever Bachelorette party goody bags. [more inside]
posted by ridiculous at 12:19 PM PST - 19 comments

Which deaths cause angel lust?
Which circumstances lead to an erection after death? [more inside]
posted by Hactar at 11:50 AM PST - 7 comments

There's data just waiting to be scraped....
Excel-macro filter / this-must-be-possible filter: copy and paste a cell (say, A2) into Google Maps, hit submit, then copy and paste the first phone number into an empty cell (say, A10). How to make it work? [more inside]
posted by chrisinseoul at 11:45 AM PST - 9 comments

how can I have the community help tag hudreds of text documents?
Looking for web based Open Source tool for allowing tagging of text documents by a community [more inside]
posted by bottlebrushtree at 11:41 AM PST - 4 comments

Refi under water?
Is refinancing a house absolutely excluded when you're under water? (Mortgage balance ~250k, home value ~220k)
posted by LonnieK at 11:39 AM PST - 7 comments

The Social Impact of Air Conditioning in the United States
I've been thinking about the social impact of relatively mundane technologies, like air conditioning, largely because of a brief mention by Kevin Kelly in What Technology Wants. He says something along the lines of, "cheap air conditioning transformed the American southeast." So I'm looking for scholarly sources that discuss the transformative power of air conditioning on american culture. [more inside]
posted by mecran01 at 11:37 AM PST - 18 comments

What are our tenant rights in MI?
If a tenant's safety is severely threatened, can they legally bypass the lease agreement and break the lease? [more inside]
posted by roomcoloredcharlatan at 11:28 AM PST - 36 comments

I'm burning for you
help me break a fever asap! [more inside]
posted by fingers_of_fire at 11:07 AM PST - 20 comments

No cow prints.
I'm looking for recommendations for dressy, breastfeeding-friendly outfits to attend a wedding (or two!) in. [more inside]
posted by tchemgrrl at 10:58 AM PST - 9 comments

Why have a herb & spice rack if you dont use it?
My herb and spice rack never gets used. I would like to use them all up this year, if not I will probably throw them away. Since I don't have a chef's instinct, I don't know what foods they are best used for, or probably more importantly, what foods they wont work well with. [more inside]
posted by chrisdab at 10:52 AM PST - 28 comments

eu quero falar ..
Can you direct me towards a Portuguese class in Seattle? [more inside]
posted by queens86 at 10:49 AM PST - 3 comments

Theater. China. Sheesh.
Hey Theater People!!! How do I run backstage wardrobe for a show in China??? [more inside]
posted by ashtabula to opelika at 10:38 AM PST - 8 comments

Pasttimes for sad children
I have three weeks off and I've forgotten how to amuse and improve myself. [more inside]
posted by Xianny at 10:27 AM PST - 17 comments

What is the title/author of this essay about caring for an aging dog?
What is the title/author of this essay about caring for an aging dog? More inside. [more inside]
posted by voodoochile at 10:23 AM PST - 7 comments

Need insurance advice.
Renter's insurance. How much does one get, and how do appraisals work? Asking on the higher end of things, broadly speaking. [more inside]
posted by Admiral Haddock at 9:55 AM PST - 7 comments

My beloved cat died. How can I integrate her collar into a memento?
My beloved cat died. How can I integrate her collar into a memento? [more inside]
posted by bristolcat at 9:26 AM PST - 24 comments

Springtucky Derby
I'm trying to gather a list of regional pejoratives for cities and suburbs. Like here in Oregon USA, we refer to Springfield as "Springtucky," and Clackamas as "Clackansas". In Denver they call Aurora "Saudi Aurora" or "Guadalaurora". "Spocompton" is a common epithet for Spokane, WA. [more inside]
posted by yalestar at 9:25 AM PST - 218 comments

Sticker Printers in California and Area
Looking for recommendations for print shops in California (or close by) that can print full color stickers on a roll. [more inside]
posted by dripdripdrop at 9:05 AM PST - 3 comments

How do I remove print artifacts from a scan?
Removing colour print dithering artifacts from scanned image/map? How? [more inside]
posted by flexiverse at 8:55 AM PST - 8 comments

Rustic cabin on the Appalachian with in a 1/2 day drive of Pocono PA
The last weekend of June I'm headed to Pocono PA for a family reunion with my bf. We're from Seattle and want to stay an additional 4-5 nights to explore the area. We're looking for a rustic cabin or lodge surrounded by wilderness to explore. We've been looking around the Delaware Gap but everything seems targeted at families with kids or golfers (we're in our 20s). It'd be great to do some hiking on the Appalachian Trail. The hut to hut hikes in NH look pretty amazing but they're a bit of a trek from PA. If you're familiar with the Northwest we're looking for the Doe Bay or Kalaloch of the area. Thanks for your help.
posted by If You Ain't Dutch, You Ain't Much at 8:43 AM PST - 3 comments

Another toy to be abandoned, or fierce time waster?
I have an opportunity to get an new xbox for cheap, and I have a huge (really huge) library of games available for me to borrow from and play for free. If I do go this route, which games should I look at? I'm not really a gamer... [more inside]
posted by cgg at 8:32 AM PST - 8 comments

Always scribble, scribble, scribble -- now how to display?
I've been keeping research notebooks since the early 1990s, on a lot of different subjects. They're all finally consolidated as a couple thousand text files written in Markdown syntax. I'd like to start putting them up, gradually, on a website for others to use. A wiki seems the best way. (Is it?) I've got a few other questions about the best one, and best way, though: [more inside]
posted by finnb at 8:25 AM PST - 5 comments

Need ideas for a sexy video to re-ignite relationship with beloved spouse.
Need ideas for a sexy video to re-ignite relationship with beloved spouse. [more inside]
posted by anonymous_account at 7:49 AM PST - 11 comments

Enable me to change my latitude for 30 days, please!
Please help me request a month off of work. I have a great opportunity coming up, but don't want to risk my job for it. [more inside]
posted by DizzyLeaf at 7:45 AM PST - 9 comments

Please help me find a group video chat solution that works better than Skype!
Please help me find a group video chat solution that works better than Skype! [more inside]
posted by utsutsu at 7:39 AM PST - 7 comments

help identify books about solipsism
help identify books about solipsism [more inside]
posted by anonymice at 7:14 AM PST - 12 comments

connect pv-gs120 without firewire
Can a Panasonic PV-GS120 be used for streaming video without a firewire port? Plus more questions! [more inside]
posted by fozzie33 at 7:11 AM PST - 2 comments

Is my cat a stealth arsonist?
My roommate is blaming an oven fire on my cat, and it's causing some tension between us. Help me figure out the best way to handle the situation so we're both satisfied. [more inside]
posted by Neely O'Hara at 7:09 AM PST - 79 comments

Job applications: how to get positive references?
So what is the current protocol for getting professional references & making sure they're positive? Difficulty: I am still employed and don't want to tell The Boss I'm applying. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:06 AM PST - 7 comments

Looking for specific Radio Lab (I think) piece
Where can I find a Radio Lab (I think...) recording that was of a girl's speech patterns from birth through adolescence? [more inside]
posted by davidvan at 6:50 AM PST - 3 comments

Rock of Cashel art
Where can I find a print or high-quality poster of this photo of Ireland's Rock of Cashel? [more inside]
posted by cuddles.mcsnuggy at 6:26 AM PST - 5 comments

Save me from having to fix my couch every half hour?
How can I make this cover stay on my couch? [more inside]
posted by torisaur at 5:46 AM PST - 10 comments

Burning Sulfa? Freezing Sulfa? Striking a happy medium...
My RA medication (sulfasalazine) seems to work less well after I am about halfway through a bottle of tablets (i.e. about halfway through each 30 day supply). How do I keep the tablets at a defined (warmer than average) temperature, in case storage conditions are an issue? Details inside. [more inside]
posted by blue_wardrobe at 5:08 AM PST - 8 comments

Where do I buy eighties ski gear?
Where can I buy ski wear from the eighties? Better yet, are there any companies that do this now? [more inside]
posted by modoriculous at 4:36 AM PST - 10 comments

Unwanted webspace - what now?
I just accidentally bought a year's premium-ish web hosting. I can't get a refund. How should I sell it or give it away? [more inside]
posted by piato at 3:58 AM PST - 19 comments

Bimonthly San Francisco apartment question: Student Edition
Please help a new grad move to San Francisco. I will probably arrive on June 1 and start working June 10, and I have $1500 for the whole move in process. Where do I stay while I'm apartment hunting? A hotel is very expensive and a hostel is pretty cramped. I could probably stay on a friend's couch but are there any other reasonable options for 1 month stays? [more inside]
posted by yaymukund at 3:17 AM PST - 18 comments

Tablet application UI / UX resources
I'm looking for user interface (UI) and user experience articles, tutorials, and resources specifically targetted at tablet applications. [more inside]
posted by asymptotic at 2:33 AM PST - 8 comments

Looking for long, colourful leather bracelets
I really like the coloured leather bracelets in this photo from STREETFSN. Where can I get similar bracelets? [more inside]
posted by neushoorn at 2:28 AM PST - 10 comments

Show me a clip with real personality...
I am seeking movies and clips of individuals with personality disorders, for a lecture I will be giving to college students. Any great ideas? [more inside]
posted by gilsonal at 12:34 AM PST - 28 comments

Help me find durable high-quality clothing basics for small women
I'm looking for recommendations for well-cut, simple, durable, high-quality clothing basics for women. [more inside]
posted by Susan PG at 12:11 AM PST - 16 comments

Should I buy bank stock? The sequel
Should I buy bank stock? The sequel [more inside]
posted by allelopath at 12:02 AM PST - 7 comments

April 17
Help Us Design a CS + English Puzzle
My friends, a software engineer and a novelist, are getting married. I want to give them a puzzle to solve as a wedding gift that requires the use of both their skills. [more inside]
posted by jewzilla at 10:49 PM PST - 10 comments

Songs about domesticity
What are some good songs about domesticity besides "Our House" by Crosby Stills Nash and Young?
posted by malhouse at 10:03 PM PST - 58 comments

iPhone was stolen - now what?
Stolen iPhone - no remote "wipe everything" software set up, what can I do, if anything, to protect my privacy? [more inside]
posted by mingodingo at 9:51 PM PST - 9 comments

Places around Sydney for Day Trips
[SydneyFilter] The Easter holidays are upon us, and we aren't going anywhere. Right now, it seems likely that we'd only be able to do day trips (same day return, no overnight stays) to places around Sydney. Where should we go? [more inside]
posted by vidur at 9:21 PM PST - 16 comments

Do I have to live in Virginia to go to school there?
My family lives and pays taxes in Virginia, and has for nearly a decade. I'd like to live and work in D.C. and commute to a certain suburban Virginia school to finish my Bachelor's degree starting this coming Fall term. I'd be financially independent with the exception of tuition, which my parents would cover. Is there any way I could be eligible for in-state tuition while living in the District?
posted by elektrotechnicus at 8:43 PM PST - 15 comments

Am I losing my mind or just getting old?
I've recently noticed that I occasionally feel lost (literally) when I absolutely shouldn't. [more inside]
posted by TheShadowKnows at 8:24 PM PST - 13 comments

How can I learn to cook
How can I learn to cook for myself? [more inside]
posted by lunchbox at 8:23 PM PST - 31 comments

Pop group backup dancers. What's the story there?
What's the history of performers using backup dancers? [more inside]
posted by holterbarbour at 8:17 PM PST - 8 comments

name of a movie...
Can you help with the name of this movie: From the 70s (possibly early 80s) about a teenage boy and his relationship with a psychiatrist/therapist. I think his brother had died, also, he might have been a swimmer? The therapist helps him overcome his emotional demons. I cannot remember much more than this but it was a great movie and I want to watch it again!
posted by saturn~jupiter at 8:06 PM PST - 3 comments

Help me find a hip hop song with the lyric "black diamond, white gold".
Help me find a hip hop song with the lyric "black diamond, white gold". [more inside]
posted by rosa at 7:49 PM PST - 8 comments

How to deal with re-emergence of a braggy friend?
What do you do with a "friend" who gets you down but you'd like to keep as a professional connection? [more inside]
posted by timsneezed at 7:08 PM PST - 13 comments

Becoming more laid-back?
How do I become a carefree person? [more inside]
posted by xicana63 at 6:57 PM PST - 17 comments

Should I stay or should I go?
My living situation is perfect. But I'm not satisfied with it. Is there a way to fix it? Should I leave? If so, how? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 6:56 PM PST - 20 comments

How do I sell video?
How do I sell footage of a celebrity from before they were famous? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 6:55 PM PST - 10 comments

protecting myself while walking against agressive dogs
what can i use to protect myself from unleashed aggressive dogs on my walk to work? [more inside]
posted by alcahofa at 6:54 PM PST - 20 comments

Identify this board game?
The song title notwithstanding, what's the board game being played in this ABBA video?
posted by JanetLand at 6:44 PM PST - 3 comments

How to unload a painting of light
How much is this particular proof of a Thomas Kinkade painting worth and how do I go about selling it? [more inside]
posted by cardboard at 5:40 PM PST - 8 comments

Do Italian soccer players use their ankle more?
Do players of Italian soccer use the heel part of their foot for dribbling/passing more than in the Premier league or elsewhere? [more inside]
posted by fantasticninety at 5:26 PM PST - 2 comments

Explain business ethics, and how they are applied today.
Is my new employer (a spice company) acting ethically in its business practices? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:46 PM PST - 12 comments

Companions to love of my life The Last Express?
I don't know much about computer games, but I love historical adventure game The Last Express. Please help me find similar games. [more inside]
posted by Put the kettle on at 4:21 PM PST - 10 comments

Moving to a new and better host
I am moving to a new host for my website and I have a couple questions. [more inside]
posted by lilkeith07 at 3:32 PM PST - 9 comments

Help me resurrect my Xbox - for the 4th time!
Anyone know of real E-74 error Xbox 360 fix? [more inside]
posted by UMDirector at 3:22 PM PST - 6 comments

Twelve/Douze Points to Estonia...
What foods should I serve at a Eurovision party? (It will be mid-afternoon in my time zone.) Any other party suggestions? [more inside]
posted by Terriniski at 3:12 PM PST - 11 comments

Looking for Tiny Houseplants in Savannah
I have the urge to build a small terrarium but have had little luck finding plants the right size in Savannah, GA. Where can I find small houseplants in the Savannah area? [more inside]
posted by KirkJobSluder at 3:07 PM PST - 5 comments

Apple-Esq Music
Creating an Apple-esq product video for my final project. Any music suggestions? [more inside]
posted by orangeseed at 2:52 PM PST - 8 comments

Control Issues
Control issues: help me find online resources and reading material [more inside]
posted by lover at 2:46 PM PST - 8 comments

Is my cabbage a boy or a girl?
Please help us with French translation for an engraving on a wedding ring! Details inside. [more inside]
posted by DeucesHigh at 2:38 PM PST - 6 comments

How to deal with a traffic ticket I got while on my bike in New York?
I was cycling in Central Park this morning and got a summons for running a red light with my bike. Now what? [more inside]
posted by falameufilho at 2:00 PM PST - 22 comments

Wanting to Learn How to Make Digital Art (poorly worded, I know)
I have good drawing skills (especially pen and ink) but am an amateur artist. I would like to get into working with digital art etc perhaps even to the point as a side job or making a living. The bumps are that I cannot afford to go back to school and am not super tech-savvy (yet). I have basic skills in Photoshop and Adobe Illustrator but that is it. Any ideas on where to go next? (I am so completely ignorant on the field taht I don't know what to call people who do this for a living.) Push come to shove, I could probably take a few classes a year, though after I save some money.
posted by snap_dragon at 1:53 PM PST - 11 comments

My feet are killing me after a London weekend.
Can anyone help me get back on my feet (literally)? My feet are killing me after a London weekend. [more inside]
posted by SurrenderMonkey at 1:43 PM PST - 12 comments

How do I convert video from my DSLR?
Hassle free way to share video from a DSLR? [more inside]
posted by theJigsawLady at 1:34 PM PST - 6 comments

I don't have to explain myself to you
I'm looking for bubblegum dance music. The most sublime bubblegum dance you know of. Things like Waka Laka or the famous Barbie Girl. [more inside]
posted by Rory Marinich at 1:32 PM PST - 59 comments

How much can I expect to spend in two weeks at the Bahamas?
How much can I expect to spend in two weeks at the Bahamas? [more inside]
posted by inTikiwetrust at 1:15 PM PST - 3 comments

Helena Fun Map
Where online can I buy a "fun" map of Helena, MT? [more inside]
posted by Brocktoon at 1:15 PM PST - 1 comments

How to set up online appointment booking for advising/experiments in academic department
Recommendations to set up an online appointment booking system for student advising appointments and psychological experiment participation in a medium-sized academic department? [more inside]
posted by KDj82kao at 1:07 PM PST - 8 comments

Lodging in Reykjavik, Iceland
Icelandlodgingfilter: My wife an I will be in Iceland for a week in late May and are looking for lodging. We're out of the demographic for loud noises and partying but like to get a feel of places that we visit. [more inside]
posted by Man with Lantern at 12:49 PM PST - 7 comments

help my dog stay chill
Two years ago, I rescued an older 10lbs shiba inu/chihuahua mix who has a lot of fur and overheats easily. We've already had a few hot days in Los Angeles this year, and I'm concerned about keeping him cool and healthy, especially since we've moved to a new house that gets a lot warmer during the day. [more inside]
posted by roger ackroyd at 12:44 PM PST - 16 comments

Help with disability insurance post lay-off
Help! Got an injury before getting laid off, but doctor underdiagnosed me until after the lay-off. Can I still make a disability insurance claim with the company or is it too late? [more inside]
posted by truth1ness at 11:40 AM PST - 4 comments

Best Aloha Experience
Visiting Hawai'i for 10 days. Staying on Oahu. I also want to go to the island of Hawai'i to Volcanoes National Park. What are the best site s to research my trip? Are there some overlooked interesting sights you can recommend, a can't-miss restaurant, etc., on Oahu or Hawai'i? Out of the way museum? [more inside]
posted by Mom at 11:22 AM PST - 13 comments

Berkeley Staycation
Need Help planning a Berkeley CA/East Bay Staycation with my wife. [more inside]
posted by bitdamaged at 10:11 AM PST - 27 comments

Finding a Job in the Middle East
overseasjobfilter: I'm about to be a newly minted BA with a foundational understanding of formal arabic. I want to find a job in an Arabic-speaking country. Thoughts and ideas? [more inside]
posted by cirgue at 10:05 AM PST - 5 comments

Does one need good grades to enter the Coast Guard?
How much does GPA affect entrance into the Coast Guard? [more inside]
posted by debbie_ann at 9:56 AM PST - 2 comments

Graduate School: Can I ? Should I? Where?
Graduate School: Can I ? Should I? Where? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:23 AM PST - 9 comments

Gracefully handling more power at work - tips?
I am becoming more "powerful" at work even though my job title is remaining the same, and I'd like some ideas on how to handle the change gracefully and maintain good relationships with my colleagues. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:23 AM PST - 17 comments

Rowhouse 101?
Moving Into A Rowhouse In Baltimore. What Do I Need To Know? [more inside]
posted by Spurious at 9:20 AM PST - 9 comments

Nothing sappy for this baby boy!
What upbeat song would be an appropriate soundtrack for a 30-second time lapse video clip of my wife's baby belly growing over the span of her pregnancy? (intro to the baby's first year video) [more inside]
posted by siclik at 9:09 AM PST - 25 comments

Is she my ex-BFF?
Is she my ex-BFF? [more inside]
posted by heartofglass at 9:01 AM PST - 25 comments

Are strawberries related to catnip?!?
One of our cats gets off on strawberries. Is this OK? [more inside]
posted by notsnot at 8:47 AM PST - 28 comments

MORE relationship hacks?
My relationship is good, but I want it to be the best relationship EVER (hyperbole). What are some good ways to improve a long term relationship, after both people are really comfortable with each other? [more inside]
posted by tweedle at 8:35 AM PST - 29 comments

Help me cut up a giant video clip - easily!
I ripped a DVD of music videos, and now have one giant .m4v file. What's the easiest way to cut it down to separate videos? I used handbrake to rip it, but the chapters don't correspond to the videos - there are intros, etc. that i don't want. I have access to iMovie and maybe Final Cut Express, but that seems like overkill. There's gotta be a simpler way, right?
posted by smelvis at 8:29 AM PST - 8 comments

Happy first birthday! I got you a Tjōlerfäger!
I am in Canada and would like to acquire an Ikea gift card that can be used at an Ikea in Sweden. [more inside]
posted by keeo at 8:24 AM PST - 3 comments

Help me find one weekend of fun or inner-peace.
Where in North/Central American could I go for an overnight of adventure or peace or interest? [more inside]
posted by Toto_tot at 8:19 AM PST - 4 comments

Any tips for an older learner driver (UK)?
I'm going to learn to drive a car. I have never driven a car before (unless you count, like, dodgems). I'm in my late 30s, and have recently moved to a town on the edge of nowhere (in Wales). The idea of driving is beginning to make me nervous. It's a combination of the "it's hard to learn when you're old" thing, the "rural place so no dual carriageways" thing, and the "oh my all those cars seem to go so fast" thing. What can I do to make this easier? Are there any "learning to drive for dummies" books that are worth getting? Or should I just stop panicking, bite the bullet and book myself some lessons?
posted by handee at 7:52 AM PST - 38 comments

Oh, it's on now! Give me your best dessert recipes, please.
I'm looking for the very best, "I've never tasted anything so good," melt in your mouth, dessert recipes I can find. [more inside]
posted by patheral at 7:48 AM PST - 54 comments

How to help a girl who is being made to feel uncomfortable at work?
This afternoon, a girl at work confided in me that a male colleague of ours has been making her feel uncomfortable. I want to help her, but I find myself questioning my own motives. I don't want to be one of "those" guys... [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:42 AM PST - 37 comments

Is there already an online resource for looking up the punishments for various crimes?
Dear Metafilter, I'm trying to create on online database of the legal status and punishment of various activities in different jurisdictions. Does this already exist? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:42 AM PST - 4 comments

Help me find the value of my sterling tea set. :)
How do I find the value of a silver tea set? [more inside]
posted by Thrillhouse at 7:07 AM PST - 3 comments

To Persevere or 'Next'?
How to solve this dating dilemma? [more inside]
posted by MBViktor at 5:36 AM PST - 21 comments

how can I reduce my fiancee's anxieties so I can eventually start looking for work?
My fiancee suffers from panic and anxiety disorder as well as OCD. I live with her and her mother and haven't worked since 2005 because of my own mental health challenge (bipolar disorder). I now want to start the long journey towards being employed again, but a potential stumbling block will be her anticipatory anxiety. She gets totally panicked when I have appointments such that I have had to cancel visits to my psychiatrist or meeting up with friends. How will we ever get to the point where I can be making regular appointments for job interviews? More inside. [more inside]
posted by AuroraSky at 5:32 AM PST - 26 comments

Is there a trick to probate I'm not seeing?
My mother died, and now I need to know what to do about wills and probate and so forth. [more inside]
posted by flabdablet at 5:16 AM PST - 10 comments

Help me not suck at job interviews
I have an interview for my dream position this week. Help me ace it/not ruin my chances. [more inside]
posted by nerdfish at 3:31 AM PST - 11 comments

My friend is being stalked and harassed, how can we help?
How can I help a friend protect herself from a stalker? [more inside]
posted by Saminal at 2:46 AM PST - 21 comments

Puppy love
Will getting a dog help me be less of an introvert? [more inside]
posted by bendy at 1:54 AM PST - 31 comments

Please help me binge by giving me your high volume low calorie food flood ideas
Please help me binge! Looking for high volume, low calorie foods that I can seemingly eat endless amounts of without feeling bad [more inside]
posted by saraindc at 1:21 AM PST - 47 comments

Prompted for a username and password when browsing to an IIS virtual directory
Why do I get prompted for a Windows username and password when I connect to a virtual directory under IIS? [more inside]
posted by Ritchie at 12:50 AM PST - 3 comments

Awesome Android themes?
Anyone know any cool kickass Android phone themes that are really well designed?
posted by antgly at 12:08 AM PST - 5 comments

April 16
Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society. Mark Twain
I need a major rehabilitation of my wardrobe. I kinda know where to start, but I need any fashion help possible. Caveats: I'm a guy, I'm overweight, I have a limited budget for now, and I'm style-impaired. [more inside]
posted by Mister Fabulous at 11:04 PM PST - 19 comments

What are these white bugs on my houseplants?
What are these small white things (bugs?) on my house plants? [more inside]
posted by hgcrpd at 10:39 PM PST - 5 comments

Catching automotive scofflaws on my street
Automated camera w/infrared for catching scofflaws (boom cars)? [more inside]
posted by 4midori at 9:46 PM PST - 9 comments

Please recommend books on "mixed-use" garden design for Northern climates.
I have an old formal garden next to my 1830's house and I'd like to transform it to more of a kitchen garden with a combination of vegetables, herbs, flowers, berries and espaliered fruit trees interspersed with stone work and some wilder areas. I'm also considering chickens and will want a place for a clothes line. Do you know of a good book for designing beautiful, yet practical, gardens? [more inside]
posted by bumpcat at 9:10 PM PST - 10 comments

help me decide
I got 2 job offers - yay! But now I need help on deciding which one is the right career move for me. [more inside]
posted by vocpanda at 9:04 PM PST - 2 comments

Moving from the cool aunt to the coolest aunt ever
Help me introduce my aunt to good music she's never heard. [more inside]
posted by bessel functions seem unnecessarily complicated at 8:38 PM PST - 16 comments

He's been so much more relaxed since we started shouting at him
Senior dog going deaf. Care of deaf dog: anything I'm overlooking? [more inside]
posted by galadriel at 7:36 PM PST - 8 comments

Can best friends transact Silver bullion?
A good friend of mine is in a reciprocal position to my position. He has a decent amount of old silver dollars that he would like to convert to cash and I am interested in accumulating Silver bullion... [more inside]
posted by Rafaelloello at 6:56 PM PST - 7 comments

help! I bought a cellphone I can't use.
Confused about my new Samsung cell phone.. [more inside]
posted by bearette at 6:53 PM PST - 6 comments

How much bacon deliciousness am I really dealing with here?
Am I misunderstanding how to read basic nutrition labels? Please help me figure out how much of what is in my package of bacon. [more inside]
posted by Nerro at 6:34 PM PST - 8 comments

Please tell me I won't have to busk for money in Mexico!
Going overseas in 4 and both by debit and credit card stopped working. Can I get a replacement or open a new account and get a card in time in Australia? [more inside]
posted by Admira at 6:30 PM PST - 13 comments

Literature by Committee.
Do you know of any high end forum or blog threads which have started with a controversial but lucid OP (original post) and over a large number of comments the OP'er has proven him/herself to be totally and wickedly dishonest and possibly insane. [more inside]
posted by Pennyblack at 6:26 PM PST - 30 comments

Best fine visual art on web?
What is the most interesting fine visual art that has been made for the web? I am especially interested in experimental stuff that could never exist as a conventional painting or sculpture, and which can only be experienced online. Any examples appreciated!
posted by mortaddams at 6:19 PM PST - 13 comments

Are there any good resources for modestly priced sunglasses made for women with bigger craniums?
I'm a petite woman with an extremely large head. It is difficult for me to find decent-looking non-RX sunglasses that don't painfully squeeze my head. [more inside]
posted by arnicae at 6:16 PM PST - 4 comments

my honda civic has trouble going into reverse. why?
our 2006 honda civic EX sedan (automatic) is having occasional problems shifting into reverse. we're taking it in to be fixed, but i want to try and read up on this beforehand. fascinating details inside. [more inside]
posted by patricking at 6:14 PM PST - 5 comments

Is unity sameness?
Spirituality filter: What does "union with God" or "unity" mean to you? Mystics and religious figures often talk about how union with God/ unity is the final end/ realization in the spiritual path. I have heard many different ideas and interpretations about what this means but am unsure how to think about it. [more inside]
posted by tessalations999 at 6:05 PM PST - 15 comments

You givin' me the high hat?
Help! Name that movie! I only remember a single scene: the movie is set in the 20s or 30s, I think, and one of the characters- who I believe is a chubby little guy with a moustache- is obsessed with the idea that people are "givin' him the high hat." [more inside]
posted by foxy_hedgehog at 5:55 PM PST - 9 comments

Forum suggestions.
Is there somewhere I can go online to discuss relationship questions, or to ask for advice? Which forums are best for getting someone else's perspective? [more inside]
posted by Small Pockets at 5:37 PM PST - 9 comments

A little too sensitive. On both sides.
Dating bean plate: Are we both too insecure and anxious to date each other? Or this is normal for the first stages of dating? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 5:26 PM PST - 10 comments

Like a moth to a flame
Why am I drawn to certain people like a moth to a flame? [more inside]
posted by 3491again at 5:12 PM PST - 19 comments

Help me eat the food of other countries!
I need more information on which popular ethnic dishes I need to avoid. [more inside]
posted by The Biggest Dreamer at 5:10 PM PST - 12 comments

Which drinks for springtime?
What are some seasonally-appropriate beverages for spring? [more inside]
posted by Hither at 5:01 PM PST - 16 comments

lost for words
Spanish idiom filter: I'm looking for a spanish idiom/phrase meaning something far away from civilisation. It went something like: ahi donde el jesu christo something.any ideas?
posted by freddymetz at 4:51 PM PST - 7 comments

Instant Mouse
I'm looking for the recipe for "Instant Mouse" from The New Natural Cat by Anitra Frazier. Is it kosher to not buy the book, but ask for the recipe? I did used to own it...
posted by dmvs at 4:25 PM PST - 6 comments

A night we'll never forget... that we can't tell anyone about?
My longtime boyfriend and I are coming up on an anniversary soon, and we're planning a "sinful" vacation to celebrate. We're also pretty kinky. Where in the US can we go and what can we do to have THE most (legally) debaucherous weekend imaginable? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:24 PM PST - 14 comments

Never be friends with your boss?
My friend is now my boss. How does our friendship change? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 4:24 PM PST - 11 comments

Papal Hitman Gear: Never Leave Rome Without It
[Catholic-Details-For-Fiction-Filter] I'm one of the Pope's personal hitmen/supernatural problem solvers on assignment. What's in my travel kit (besides blessed weapons & ammo)? [more inside]
posted by Pirate-Bartender-Zombie-Monkey at 4:19 PM PST - 27 comments

What weeds are these?
I'm having some trouble identifying two weeds in my yard/garden. [more inside]
posted by elsietheeel at 3:42 PM PST - 9 comments

How to get to Crater Lake without a car?
How can I get to Crater Lake from Portland OR, without having to rent a car? [more inside]
posted by juliaem at 3:03 PM PST - 8 comments

Keep me dry
Fender suggestions for a road bike [more inside]
posted by bluelight at 1:59 PM PST - 11 comments

How to store lemon zest?
How to store lemon zest? [more inside]
posted by palliser at 1:46 PM PST - 19 comments

How do I deal with an expectation of perfection at work while receiving little constructive feedback?
How do I deal with an expectation of perfection at work while receiving little constructive feedback? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 1:14 PM PST - 13 comments

Should I admit that the anonymous gift was from me?
Should I admit that the anonymous gift was from me? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 1:13 PM PST - 34 comments

One way the West has the East beat...
What are some In-N-Out Burger locations easily accessible via airport and light rail? [more inside]
posted by Golfhaus at 1:01 PM PST - 15 comments

BBQ recommendations
Help me choose a new BBQ. [more inside]
posted by SueDenim at 12:49 PM PST - 11 comments

Car won't start - could it be a loose timing belt?
Rainy day + Replaced timing belt (2005) that's loose + Car won't start. Could it be the loose timing belt or just a wet distributor cap? [more inside]
posted by bitteroldman at 12:47 PM PST - 10 comments

There's a Mystery Afoot!
Can anyone identify these splats? My friend found them in her Ann Arbor MI (USA) townhouse after having been away last weekend. They were on windowsills as well as the bathroom floor. In addition, a few small items on top of a tall piece of furniture were knocked over. While she was gone, the interior motion-sensor of her alarm system went off twice, but the service tech found and replaced a bad wire, so this may or may not be related. We assume it's animal droppings of some sort, but have no idea beyond that. Can you help?
posted by DrGail at 12:41 PM PST - 10 comments

Should I continue on with my co-author on a questionable project (and with a difficult working relationship)?
Should I continue on with my co-author on a questionable project (and with a difficult working relationship)? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:13 PM PST - 5 comments

And She is Looking Forward to Trying Some of this Casual Sex Everyone is Talking About
I am in my mid-twenties and, after being in relationships almost continuously since high school, I am finally single and ready to start dating around. I want to start meeting people and maybe have a few one-night stands, because why not? I am a little unfamiliar with how to meet strangers. The discussion came up with some of my friends about wingmaning. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:12 PM PST - 14 comments

ET 2.0 Beyond Phoning Home
I just got a smartphone. What are some great ways you've found to use your phone? I've got a good array of basic apps, so I'm not so much looking for recommendations, but instead for your ideas about how to integrate the phone and its combinations of apps into a productive and creative way of life. [more inside]
posted by Miko at 11:59 AM PST - 37 comments

Need help ID'ing this bird
Strange but beautiful large bird - what is it? [more inside]
posted by watercarrier at 11:59 AM PST - 7 comments

Ach I'm an idiot
After 10 years of being blasé about downloading dodgy stuff from wherever I pleased, I've just messed up my computer in a single mouse click. It won't start up now, even in safe mode. How can I fix this? [more inside]
posted by cincinnatus c at 11:54 AM PST - 13 comments

What are the most genuinely useful, practical things you've bought on Amazon that you didn't even know Amazon sold?
What are the most genuinely useful, practical things you've bought on Amazon that you were surprised they even sold? I'm trying to spend a gift certificate, but drawing a blank. [more inside]
posted by critzer at 11:47 AM PST - 44 comments

My kitten is missing
My kitten is missing. What can I do to maximise the chances of getting her back? [more inside]
posted by hazyjane at 11:20 AM PST - 26 comments

Phaa Love Pa!
Is a human-dolphin hybrid genetically possible? [more inside]
posted by Guy_Inamonkeysuit at 11:15 AM PST - 17 comments

Taxes Taxes Taxes - What Do They Want From Us?
You Are Not My Employer's Accountant: My W-2 this year has an entry in Box 18, which is preventing me from e-filing because Boxes 19 and 20 are (correctly) blank. There's a mistake here somewhere... but where? [more inside]
posted by Devoidoid at 11:11 AM PST - 2 comments

Are my antibiotics necessary?
I had a tooth extracted last week and despite being on antibiotics for four days, it's infected, and the infection has spread, making it painful to swallow. The solution: a different antibiotic has been prescribed. I don't like antibiotics, so my question is: what would happen if I just didn't take the damn things, took the painkillers, braved it out and waited for my body to handle it alone? Would that just be stupid? I appreciate that it's probably hard to advise without specific details, but any comments welcome.
posted by Holly at 11:01 AM PST - 30 comments

Need to know if the auto repair guy is ripping me off! help!
Check engine light came on this morning. Auto repair guy is giving me a very large estimate and an offer to just buy the car off my hands. I know next-to-nothing about cars, so can't tell if he's robbing me or not. People who know cars, help me figure this out? [more inside]
posted by paultopia at 10:53 AM PST - 28 comments

Good contest sites and Facebook contests that are open internationally (or just to Canadian residents)?
Good contest sites and Facebook contests that are open internationally (or just to Canadian residents)? [more inside]
posted by GlassHeart at 10:02 AM PST - 4 comments

keep your chemicals to yourself please
What can I do if my neighbor's pool leaks into my yard? (USA, VA) [more inside]
posted by headnsouth at 9:05 AM PST - 21 comments

Denver Airport Layover
I'll be taking a business trip in a few weeks and I have a 6 hour layover in the Denver airport. What are my options? I've heard the airport might be too far away from the city for any real excursion. Is there anything worthwhile INSIDE the airport? NEAR the airport? Or do I just need a good book and a cup of coffee?
posted by tmharris65 at 7:07 AM PST - 19 comments

Is that shyness or are you just unhappy to see me?
How to tell the difference between an anxious person who's interested in you but shy about it from a person who's not interested and anxious because you're creeping them out? [more inside]
posted by houndsoflove at 6:35 AM PST - 15 comments

silence of the shams
just how unrealistic is a gun silencer as presented in films, something about twice the size of the barrel making a pistol barely audible? how close to the "polite sneeze" sound of a silenced pistol can you get in reality with a similarly-sized muffler?
posted by dong_resin at 6:28 AM PST - 20 comments

Please help this fictional illiterate...
My brain needs some fiction reading and I'd like some recommendations based on my tastes in TV/Film: Mad Men, Quadrophenia, Good Fellas, The Krays, There Will Be Blood, Election, Spinal Tap, American Beauty, Eyes Wide Shut, Flashbacks of Fool, The Graduate, Rushmore. Thanks!
posted by punkfloyd at 6:22 AM PST - 21 comments

Why Is Facebook Crashing My Computer?
My Windows Explorer has recently begun to crash whenever I get a Facebook email. Any idea why this is happening and how I can fix it?
posted by Mickelstiff at 5:45 AM PST - 4 comments

iTunes for v8.0?
iTunes doesn't want to sell apps to me anymore, and I'm hurt. Any help for a v8-er? [more inside]
posted by biddeford at 5:43 AM PST - 3 comments

Comfortable formalwear -can it be done?
Calling Men's Fashions: Is there a way to do formalwear without squeezing the neck? [more inside]
posted by Ys at 5:12 AM PST - 28 comments

Should I be content to do a poor job?
Career: New job, rapidly discovering I don't like the way the place works, but need to stick it out. How to adjust my expectations in order to survive? [more inside]
posted by Franny26 at 4:01 AM PST - 22 comments

Navigation without data connection on Android
I used to have an app on my Nokia E71 that would allow me to set waypoints and then provide a distance and bearing back to that position using the phone's built-in GPS. You could store thousands of GPS waypoints, either by using your current location or by entering long-lat; and organise waypoints into groups. There was no need for any data access. Does something like this exist on Android (HTC Desire)? What I'm not looking for is an offline SatNav program like CoPilot or MobileNavigator.
posted by alby at 3:55 AM PST - 4 comments

An album cover as a toilet door sign?
What album cover would be cool as a toilet door sign? Anything goes...! [more inside]
posted by kev23f at 2:31 AM PST - 32 comments

Motorcycle suggestions please!
I'd like suggestions for a motorcycle- less than $8000, would get 40-100 miles daily with several stops, comfortable for a larger dude, and gets rocking mpg. [more inside]
posted by gally99 at 12:30 AM PST - 11 comments

What to expect way before you are expecting
I am not even pregnant yet, and I feel like my husband is already concerned about the state of my body after pregnancy. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:17 AM PST - 62 comments

What are these lists called?
Is there a specific name for the McSweeneys-type quizzes / lists where the reader is asked to identify which category an item belongs in? [more inside]
posted by LSK at 12:11 AM PST - 4 comments

April 15
Chess sites wanted
I'm looking for free sites on which to play chess against live people. [more inside]
posted by wansac at 10:29 PM PST - 20 comments

hurtin' pup
My dog had oral surgery today and had six teeth out; all went normally. Sent home with pain meds, and has taken them. She has been whining all night, and I know I would too if I were her, but I'm running out of ideas. What else can I do to help both of us sleep? [more inside]
posted by Countess Elena at 10:26 PM PST - 11 comments

OK, You've Had Your Fun at My Expense....Please. I mean it. Stop.
What's it like "on the inside" when a politician gets skewered over really stupid comments or actions and the response goes viral? [more inside]
posted by webhund at 9:25 PM PST - 6 comments

Seller/developer claims to have a competing offer on house that we're interested in, the day before we're due to meet with her-- is this suspicious?
Do real estate sellers ever falsely claim to have a competing offer to drum up a sense of urgency and drive up your own offer? That would be really unethical, right? But is there any way to verify their claim of another offer? [more inside]
posted by ms.codex at 9:18 PM PST - 27 comments

Can I make a thing go switchy?
Can i put a three-picture, automatically alternating slideshow in a wordpress.com post? [more inside]
posted by Jon_Evil at 9:17 PM PST - 10 comments

What is the cheapest prepaid WiFi in Australia?
What is the cheapest pre-paid WiFi internet is Australia?
posted by Bacillus at 8:57 PM PST - 7 comments

How to improve my writing?
Do you know of a free website, or good book, that will help me write better? [more inside]
posted by learninguntilidie at 8:52 PM PST - 15 comments

Studying Abroad vs. Working
Asking for my friend. My friend is finishing her associate's degree in a creative field in May, but is not sure of whether she should look for a job right away, or accept her admittance to a prestigious and high-profile exchange program at a foreign university. Oh, and she knows about the flipping-a-coin trick so that won't work. [more inside]
posted by tickingclock at 8:48 PM PST - 1 comments

Hi, my name is -, and I'm incredibly creepy
Can you recommend good books on forgiving yourself / accepting yourself for having a kink? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:58 PM PST - 23 comments

How does re-categorizing independent contractors work?
My wife is looking into reporting her boss for miscategorizing her as an independent contractor. I'm quite sure she has been; her boss has even referred to the staff repeatedly as employees. (In materials we have saved.) We're looking for an employment attorney right now, but I've just got a couple preliminary questions to understand how this works. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:58 PM PST - 9 comments

Making travel plans to San Fran.
Trip planning to SF/Yosemite help! [more inside]
posted by melizabeth at 7:49 PM PST - 10 comments

Bosch Dishwasher Drain Noise
I've got a Bosch SHU9915UC/U11 dishwasher that makes a really loud noise a few times during the wash cycle. The noise comes during the draining cycle(s). It's loud and I think I might even hear some grinding noises. It does drain, and there is no water left inside when the cycle is complete, but I could do without all of the extra noise. I've located a replacement pump online, but before I buy I just want to get a few second opinions as to what you think the problem might be. Thanks!
posted by Jackie_Treehorn at 7:36 PM PST - 5 comments

Oh god, why is there a dead deer under my deck?
There is a dead deer under my deck. Who do I call to get rid of it? [more inside]
posted by tylerkaraszewski at 7:35 PM PST - 10 comments

Bandwidth meters show no activity
Bandwidth meters don't detect any network traffic. What's happening (or not)? [more inside]
posted by feelinggood at 7:23 PM PST - 4 comments

What test scores should one list on a resume?
What test scores is it appropriate to list on a general resume for someone with a Master's and job experience? [more inside]
posted by saizai at 6:55 PM PST - 41 comments

Meow, meow, meow, plink, plonk, plink.
Where is this image from? [more inside]
posted by magnificent frigatebird at 6:46 PM PST - 3 comments

Linux flavor for old laptop
I have an old IBM Thinkpad T30-2366-21U 1.6 Ghz 256 Mb ram, came with Windows 2000 Pro SP4 which MS no longer supports. I wonder which Linux distro would be a good fit for this machine to get a little more useful life out of it. Thanks for your opinion.
posted by ackptui at 6:32 PM PST - 11 comments

Best local cellphone option in France?
My family is meeting up in Paris this June to spend time together, and my parents would like to have a cellphone to use there. They don't currently use one, and know very little about how to get one. They've asked me to figure out their best option. [more inside]
posted by smilingtiger at 6:21 PM PST - 8 comments

WaxingFilter: Advice for a rookie?
I have an appointment tomorrow morning for my first session of body waxing. What do you wish someone told you before the first time you got waxed? [more inside]
posted by AMSBoethius at 6:14 PM PST - 20 comments

I love it when a plan comes together
Tell me your favorite movies about the successful execution of a plan. [more inside]
posted by twinight at 5:27 PM PST - 80 comments

Anybody have any experience with multi-point locks for French doors?
Anybody have any experience with multi-point locks for French doors? [more inside]
posted by UbuRoivas at 5:23 PM PST - 8 comments

Why is my Wordpress blog redirecting to a single post from the front page?
Help me figure out why my wordpress blog is redirecting the front page… [more inside]
posted by soulbarn at 5:08 PM PST - 2 comments

Best of JSTOR?
Help me make the most of JSTOR and the other online resources my university library subscribes to before I graduate. [more inside]
posted by two or three cars parked under the stars at 4:41 PM PST - 8 comments

Getting good help these days, cancer edition.
Medicalized New Yorkers: How do you get a biopsy appointment fast? [more inside]
posted by Morpeth at 4:17 PM PST - 5 comments

Simple walkie-talkie recommendations?
Recommendations for good, simple walkie talkies, or similar "Where are you, kid?" devices. [more inside]
posted by The corpse in the library at 4:12 PM PST - 6 comments

I'm probably fucked.
What is the best way for an US-based online poker player to obtain proof of their online bankrolls in light of the pending worldwide shutdown of FTP, Stars and AP? [more inside]
posted by Asherah at 4:12 PM PST - 2 comments

Considering Naltrexone
I am attempting to curb my alcoholism, and I'm wondering if taking Naltrexone might be a good aid. [more inside]
posted by chmmr at 4:00 PM PST - 21 comments

Be vewwy quiet...
How do I catch a rabbit? [more inside]
posted by rouftop at 3:59 PM PST - 15 comments

Help me not get robbed in Rome.
I'm going to Rome and concerned about getting robbed/pickpocketed. Help me have an unstressful vacation! [more inside]
posted by vanitas at 3:58 PM PST - 35 comments

Establishing a business in Japan for a European
Any suggestions for a guide to business development for a European in Japan? [more inside]
posted by punilux at 3:44 PM PST - 2 comments

Pickled beet surplus
Does anyone have any good ideas/recipes/uses for pickled beets? [more inside]
posted by moxiequz at 2:59 PM PST - 23 comments

Antiques Roadshow, perhaps?
Help me identify and date this glass pendant lamp. [more inside]
posted by anotherkate at 2:55 PM PST - 5 comments

Seeking Windows Random Image Viewer and Random File Opener?
I'm looking for two free Windows applications: a full-screen randomized slideshow, and a random file opener. Slightly more detail inside the fold. [more inside]
posted by WCityMike at 2:45 PM PST - 4 comments

Scotland Itinerary Planning
Scotland vacation help needed, please. We have the itinerary, now we just need suggestions on the best things to do! We'll be visiting Edinburgh, Inverness, and Glasgow. [more inside]
posted by smalls at 2:07 PM PST - 16 comments

Also, I'm not to keen on working for free, either, unless that's not as outlandish a concept as I perceive it to be.
Thinking way, way ahead filter: I would like an industry internship for summer 2012, between the first and second year of my MSc in Biochemistry program. How do I go about securing it? [more inside]
posted by halogen at 1:43 PM PST - 3 comments

Please tell me how to say "little sister" and "little brother" in different languages.
I'm looking for translations for the phrases "little sister" and "little brother" in any language you might know. I'm interested in both literal translations and any affectionate slang-y translations. Many thanks!
posted by ersatzkat at 1:19 PM PST - 53 comments

YANMAccountant... but do I need one?
My 2010 was the first complicated tax year I've had- bought a house, and wondering whether the HR Block online filing is still sufficient, or if I'll need and want a professional- and if so, where to find a good one in the Capitol Hill/Seattle area this weekend. [more inside]
posted by hincandenza at 12:42 PM PST - 15 comments

Would you like to buy this toaster?
I’m looking to make a career change, possibly into sales. You sell me on it…Go! [more inside]
posted by doorsfan at 12:35 PM PST - 9 comments

I'm ready to join 2009.
So, what's this Twitter thing all about? [more inside]
posted by Buffaload at 12:15 PM PST - 25 comments

Reputable online mortgage brokers?
Anyone use an internet-only mortgage company to refi their mortgage? [more inside]
posted by Pocahontas at 11:32 AM PST - 4 comments

WiFi in a Plaster House
I just purchased a home that is all plaster and wire-mesh. Apparently, the place is one huge WiFi deadzone. What are some options for getting the house WiFi enabled? [more inside]
posted by misterpatrick at 11:03 AM PST - 8 comments

I'll swap my chainsawing abilities for this any day!
Help me to wildly change my professional direction from Forest Engineering to Anthropology...I have some ideas, too. [more inside]
posted by Tarumba at 11:01 AM PST - 5 comments

How to say "I'm praying for you" when, well, I'm not.
Prayer alternatives. [more inside]
posted by kat518 at 10:58 AM PST - 34 comments

Should I keep trying to maintain the friendship?
Should I keep trying to maintain the friendship? [more inside]
posted by dt2010 at 10:49 AM PST - 11 comments

Dinner party recipes for someone who eats yogurt for dinner
Go-to dinner party fare for recovering vegetarian? [more inside]
posted by *s at 10:49 AM PST - 15 comments

It's not "Do you want fries with that?" it's "You are interested in our credit management program!"
Finding Work in Montreal Filter: With only intermediate french, and a newly minted BA, how do I swing something that's not telemarketing? You could also help by giving general adult job hunting advice. [more inside]
posted by Phalene at 10:29 AM PST - 8 comments

What is "sugar"?
What are ways to eliminate sugar from my diet? [more inside]
posted by jefficator at 9:48 AM PST - 40 comments

Is a link to illegal content illegal in the UK?
In the UK, can a link on a website to illegal content (in this case a version of the leaked BNP membership list) itself be considered against the law? [more inside]
posted by jack_mo at 9:40 AM PST - 5 comments

I don't need the pointy boots; I just need the hat.
I need a "tribal" cowboy hat. The short-brimmed kind worn by those SLP boys with the pointy boots. [more inside]
posted by Seamus at 9:18 AM PST - 6 comments

Please help me help my mum.
My mother (45yo) is suffering tremendously from some sort of arthritic condition. But is there something else we should be looking for? [more inside]
posted by gruggywoof at 9:08 AM PST - 20 comments

Documentary Hypothesis
Is there an alternative to the Documentary Hypothesis yet? [more inside]
posted by lhude sing cuccu at 9:00 AM PST - 7 comments

ideas for homemade planter covering
I have three DIY self-watering tomato planters made from beige 30-or-so gallon containers. They work great, but "in the sun" in my yard means "visible from the street." Please tell me some ways that I can make them more attractive with coverings or any other ideas that you might have. [more inside]
posted by Mayor Curley at 8:53 AM PST - 7 comments

Free version of 3D Studio
I need a free alternative to 3D Studio, one that has a fairly similar interface. [more inside]
posted by spacefire at 8:34 AM PST - 10 comments

The little subaru that could...
Car is acting funky. I know there is a transmission issue, but... [more inside]
posted by rich at 8:27 AM PST - 10 comments

One list or many?
OrganizationFilter: When scheduling tasks for a day, do you just throw them into a giant list and move through it, or do you come up with specific times and orders for things? [more inside]
posted by SNWidget at 8:25 AM PST - 17 comments

Is it appropriate to ask my new employer if my salary will increase over a period of time?
Is it appropriate to ask my new employer if my salary will increase over a period of time? I forgot to ask that question during the job interview. [more inside]
posted by starpoint at 8:25 AM PST - 19 comments

How can I set up a retired professor's web presence.
What's a tastefully-themed content management system + host that is not a blog? [more inside]
posted by morganw at 8:21 AM PST - 10 comments

How to use slingbox without a cable box
How can I set up a Slingbox or Vulkano without a set top cable box? [more inside]
posted by ranunculus at 8:12 AM PST - 3 comments

Should I doubt my awesomeness?
Okay, okay. I started sending out resumes. Now I need some help separating the wheat from the chaff, so to speak. All of these emails about consulting and contract positions - are they worthwhile, or just recruiter spam? [more inside]
posted by fanta_orange at 8:07 AM PST - 11 comments

A Jewish mother, natch
Does traditional Judaism and/or the Talmud say anything positive about women who do not marry or have children? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:54 AM PST - 7 comments

chocolate muffins that are chocolaty, filling and nutritious?
chocolate muffin recipe filter: I'm looking for a recipe for muffins I can make and take when on the go, that are chocolaty, filling and as nutritious as possible (ingredient and capability limitations inside). [more inside]
posted by ThiefOfSweets at 7:39 AM PST - 16 comments

Scintillating scotoma, now what?
I got my first scintillating scotoma, now what? [more inside]
posted by Tom-B at 7:21 AM PST - 10 comments

Do you have a hotel recommendation for Washington DC?
Two dads and four kids visiting Washington DC for a weekend next month. Do you have any hotel recommendations? Other travel advice? [more inside]
posted by see_change at 7:17 AM PST - 18 comments

Should I destroy my old journals?
What should I do with two of my hidden journals which might hurt the feelings of my fiancée if discovered? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:03 AM PST - 51 comments

Need advice on finding a job while pregnant.
I'm seven months pregnant. I need to find a new job, stat. Advice? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:03 AM PST - 6 comments

Snap, Edit, Sell = Money
What is the best photographer fee approach for portrait photography? Mrs. dyno04 is getting into the photography business and is trying to figure out how to best price sittings, prints, etc... We don't really like the sitting fee + price per print approach. So we are thinking about either a sitting fee + price per print + after X amount of prints receiving print release rights or sitting fee includes print release rights. If you were going to pay someone to take pictures (she is targeting babies, families, possibly pets), what kind of fee structure would you like to see from a photographer?
posted by dyno04 at 6:58 AM PST - 6 comments

Looking for blogs that are off the beaten path
Which blogs out there are the best kept secrets? [more inside]
posted by greenfelttip at 6:36 AM PST - 22 comments

How To Finance a Non-Degree Program
My sister wants to be a Speech-Language Pathologist, but is having trouble figuring out how to finance the program she wants to go into. [more inside]
posted by ThePinkSuperhero at 6:17 AM PST - 6 comments

Copenhagen international schools?
International schools in Copenhagen? [more inside]
posted by Ian Scuffling at 6:08 AM PST - 6 comments

Taxing dilemma...
11th hour tax filing question...Do I have to file a NY state tax return? [more inside]
posted by sundrop at 5:33 AM PST - 9 comments

Laptop losing signal
My HP laptop keeps dropping wireless signal after only a few minutes. [more inside]
posted by timdicator at 5:24 AM PST - 11 comments

Danger is my middle name.
Why is it common practice in the US for people to be known by their first initial and middle name eg. J Robert Lennon, E Jean Carroll? Why don't those who prefer their middle name still keep the initial? [more inside]
posted by mippy at 3:56 AM PST - 68 comments

The 'Build a Better Bike' Trap.
What's a good bike? While looking for a bike, I realized there are (maybe) six manufacturers of frames and ten manufacturers of everything else (excluding hand-made specialty parts). Which ones are the best - 'best' meaning highest quality construction for the least added 'name-brand' expense? [more inside]
posted by From Bklyn at 3:26 AM PST - 27 comments

Cheap rig for Skyrim
Sub-$700 Skyrim computer? [more inside]
posted by jiawen at 12:31 AM PST - 12 comments

April 14
Down Far South
I know that there is a big country scene in Australia, and I know some of the artists (Kasey Chambers, et. al) but I don't know the details really. [more inside]
posted by PinkMoose at 11:17 PM PST - 14 comments

Is there an appropriate gesture for a favorite shop that is closing?
One of my favorite coffee shops is closing their doors after many years in business. I'm thinking of getting something for the proprietors to thank them for their many years of brightening my mornings with caffeine and conversation, but I'm not quite sure what would be appropriate. [more inside]
posted by fifteen schnitzengruben is my limit at 10:54 PM PST - 16 comments

Why is my memory failing me at such a young age?
Why is my memory failing me at such a young age? [more inside]
posted by red_rika at 10:16 PM PST - 28 comments

How to distribute self-published books
Does anyone know of a company or companies that do sales and distribution of self-published books? [more inside]
posted by partner at 10:15 PM PST - 7 comments

Small mistake or burnt bridge - where is the dividing line?
After growing up in a VERY authoritarian family environment, I lack a sense of proportion when it comes to when I've really screwed up bad. I'm in therapy but would like some further advice. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 9:45 PM PST - 13 comments

Help a budding videographer
I've got a Nikon D7000 to record video. I've got a Zoom H4n to record sound. I've got Adobe Premiere Pro (which I'm just learning) to put them together. What's the best way to go about recording and combining audio and visual during post to ensure easy (I really don't want this to be a pain in the neck, if possible) and effective synching? If it matters, I'll be recording musical performances in a controlled environment.
posted by zachawry at 9:18 PM PST - 8 comments

Maybe I caught it from the toilet seat?
I have been dating the same man for 4 years. We've been monogamous for about 3 and a half years. When we became monogamous, I had the full round of STD testing done, all negative. Since then, I've had regular yearly pap smears that included testing for HPV. All negative. Until today, when my doctor called me to tell me that the pap smear I had last week tested positive for HPV. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:31 PM PST - 18 comments

Share and share alike
We just bought a hot tub and we are concerned about herpes. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 8:31 PM PST - 9 comments

Is my friend's Hotmail account hacked or not?
I got a spam email from my friend who has a hotmail account. It looks like the spam has been sent to everyone in his hotmail distribution list. My question is, how did the hackers do this? Did they need his password in order to get access to his distribution list? As far as I know he is still able to use his account which puzzles me. Wouldn't a hacker (if he had the password) quickly change the password so that they could keep sending spam out on that account?
posted by storybored at 8:23 PM PST - 9 comments

How to figure this out?
Did you ever have a burning urge to do something significant that makes a difference in the world? How did you become that person? How did you figure out what is it that you wanted to do and how to get there? [more inside]
posted by xm at 8:06 PM PST - 12 comments

Is this math impossible?
I do not know math. I have a number, and I want to backwards engineer that number so I can arrive at it by adding some unknown amount and 13% of that unknown amount. Is there any way to figure this out besides trial and error?
posted by aunt_winnifred at 7:46 PM PST - 6 comments

Tell me where to learn golf in Pasadena, CA. Please?
I live pretty close by to the Brookside Golf Course in Pasadena, CA. Can you recommend a golf pro to seek out? Also, what questions should I be asking to see if I'm a good match with the instructor? I'm a beginner. Never been out on the fairway. But I've hit a few balls on my own. Thanks!
posted by onich at 7:07 PM PST - 1 comments

We're content, should we move?
You have friends, a kid, a spouse, family that you reasonably like nearby, a good job, a place to live, and most of the other trappings of a decent life. Would you move for something new? [more inside]
posted by fireoyster at 6:44 PM PST - 28 comments

Camera gear in Los Angeles
In Los Angeles (Redondo) for a few days. Any suggestions for the best place(s) to purchase Lowepro/Pelican camera cases/Lastolite panels etc ?
posted by fullysic at 5:14 PM PST - 6 comments

Does the 2010 version of TurboTax Premier really remove an important useful function useful in previous versions?
In past versions of TurboTax Premier, there was an option to use an external file (not a data feed directly from a third party) to import all stock transactions. Where is that in TurboTax Premier 2010 ? [more inside]
posted by iknowizbirfmark at 5:11 PM PST - 1 comments

Help me to hack Google Translate
How to get Google Translate to translate only parts of a Word document? [more inside]
posted by TheGoodBlood at 4:50 PM PST - 7 comments

OSX / Little Snitch Internet problem!
My iMac (running Snow Leopard) suddenly stopped connecting to the Internet, and I think--but can't prove--that Little Snitch is to blame! [more inside]
posted by zardoz at 4:41 PM PST - 10 comments

Not so Incredible anymore
I broke my smartphone, what should I do? [more inside]
posted by The Winsome Parker Lewis at 4:38 PM PST - 8 comments

If I've got to lug it through airports, it better be fantastic!
Which of these scotches would you recommend? [more inside]
posted by zennish at 4:15 PM PST - 36 comments

Typical Cost of Insurance covering Knob & Tube Wiring
What is the average increase in home insurance if the house has knob and tube wiring? [more inside]
posted by Andrea2880 at 3:31 PM PST - 11 comments

Gift Card Recursion
Why is letting our customers use gift cards to buy gift cards a bad idea? Or is it? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 3:06 PM PST - 27 comments

Integrating research with mind maps
I'm involved in a major research-based writing project and I'm looking for a way to bridge the gap between mind maps and research findings. I currently do a lot of thematic organizing in mind maps, and I separately keep a huge list of quotes/paraphrases from my research. The problem is fitting the two together. [more inside]
posted by philosophygeek at 3:03 PM PST - 5 comments

Oh prickly pear, where are you?
Where can I buy prickly pear syrup in Chicago [more inside]
posted by Carillon at 2:46 PM PST - 5 comments

Help an old guy read.
Kindle guide for an elderly gentleman? [more inside]
posted by fifilaru at 2:30 PM PST - 4 comments

Any recommendations for a good clinical nutritionist or naturopath in New York?
Any recommendations for a good clinical nutritionist or naturopath in New York City? [more inside]
posted by vecchio at 2:09 PM PST - 3 comments

People watching for fun!
What are the interesting traits, habits or facts that you can pick up on just by looking at someone? [more inside]
posted by Fat Elvis at 2:01 PM PST - 104 comments

What are the best 'visual novels'?
What are some good 'visual novels'? [more inside]
posted by empath at 1:43 PM PST - 9 comments

I Want A New Drug
Is there a dictionary of prescription and OTC drug names, which has an open license or can be licensed cheaply? [more inside]
posted by Blazecock Pileon at 1:36 PM PST - 8 comments

Best way to resolve a failure-to-file notice?
Please help me figure out how to resolve, as cheaply as possible, this failure-to-file notice I've received from the Massachusetts Dept. of Revenue. [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 1:31 PM PST - 7 comments

More books for eager reader
Help me find appropriate books for my 3rd grade daughter who is a voracious reader. [more inside]
posted by bove at 1:31 PM PST - 66 comments

"I love you!" "...I know." ::WOOSH FREEZY SOUND::
So, my poetry is going to be in a large local juried art show. One of my poems is professing my love for my boyfriend. We haven't said "I love you." but have discussed marriage and house-buying and will be living together this summer. Should I point out the poem is about him to him? [more inside]
posted by lettuchi at 1:19 PM PST - 24 comments

Bank is keeping my money!
How long can my bank hold a deposit? [more inside]
posted by Shark Tail at 1:11 PM PST - 18 comments

asparagus appetizers sans bacon, pretty please
Give me your best vegetarian appetizer/hors d'oeuvres recipe using baby asparagus! The catch: it should go well with sour beers. [more inside]
posted by booknerd at 1:08 PM PST - 9 comments

On Being Financially Responsible...
Going forward, what is the best use of my about-to-be-paid-off credit card? [more inside]
posted by lovableiago at 1:01 PM PST - 16 comments

Help me find a good IDE for gui development in Java
Help me find a good IDE for gui development in Java. [more inside]
posted by bookman117 at 1:01 PM PST - 8 comments

Tax Filter: I Swear I'll Pay As I Go Enough This Time
Must I pay estimated taxes this year if last year I didn't withhold enough taxes and triggered a $29 penalty when I filed my 2010 return? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 12:55 PM PST - 4 comments

What is this WWII film?
Another movie filter-name that WWII movie! [more inside]
posted by Mnky197 at 12:52 PM PST - 3 comments

Student loans at 40?
Is it worth it at 40yrs. old to take out student loans and go back to school full-time for 2 years? The profession I am interested in has a starting pay around 45-60K and is in the healthcare profession, so jobs are plentiful. I would be taking out about 30K in loans and of course, losing my current salary. My spouse and I both make pretty good money, we have a 4 month old child, we own a home and have 2 car notes, but no other debt. Considering these factors is it worth it to take on that amount of debt at 40 to make that kind salary? Is having a more satisfying career, being a happier person, parent and spouse (not that I am unhappy personally, just very dissatisfied with my career) worth the loss of salary and debt? Is that fair to my family?
posted by flesti at 12:44 PM PST - 30 comments

Shampoo me!
Help me find a better shampoo. [more inside]
posted by Dojie at 12:43 PM PST - 37 comments

Choosing shower floor tile shouldn't be this hard.
Now I need help choosing tile for the shower floor. Is the one I picked going to hurt me? I know you are not my tile setter but I've got to order tile soon. Testing the tile before ordering is not an option. [more inside]
posted by bilabial at 12:37 PM PST - 12 comments

Where to find a stats person in Boston?
Statistical analysis (for dissertation) in Boston? Help. [more inside]
posted by paloma_pigeon at 12:34 PM PST - 2 comments

How can the NBA fine a coach?
Lakers coach, Phil Jackson was just fined by the NBA for talking with the media about a possible lockout next year if the NBA and the players union don't finalize a new CBA. As part of the player's CBA or the ref's CBA they can fine those guys, but on what authority can the NBA as a league fine coaches, assistant coaches, and owners?
posted by pwb503 at 12:32 PM PST - 4 comments

Why does this Russian translation not match up?
There's a "Trimet Respects Civil Rights" notice on all the public transit vehicles in Portland. It's one straightforward paragraph translated into 6 languages. Why is it that in the [what I believe to be] Russian translation, the word "Trimet" only appears once, whereas in the 5 other languages it appears twice? [more inside]
posted by desertface at 12:21 PM PST - 6 comments

I have an idea for a documentary. Now I just need to see some similar ideas so I can figure out how to do it.
I'm thinking of putting my resources into a documentary on a small quirky themepark that went out of business a while ago. What I need are good examples of feature length documentaries on unusual places so I can see how one would be produced. [more inside]
posted by rileyray3000 at 12:15 PM PST - 8 comments

Vegan macaroon recipes!
Have you ever made tasty vegan coconut macaroons? Do you have an awesome recipe from that experience? [more inside]
posted by mandymanwasregistered at 12:06 PM PST - 3 comments

It ain't a yard, it's weeds.
What is the best thing to do about all the weeds in my yard? There's hardly any grass remaining. [more inside]
posted by rahnefan at 11:48 AM PST - 6 comments

Clasp your hands, say yeah
Where can I find clasps like this? [more inside]
posted by furnace.heart at 11:42 AM PST - 7 comments

What if I say no, don't contact my supervisor?
When applying for federal jobs, how problematic is it not to allow a potential employer to contact a previous supervisor? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 11:31 AM PST - 8 comments

How do I ship Iodine tablets from the UK to Japan?
How do I ship Iodine tablets from the UK to Japan? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 11:30 AM PST - 6 comments

Tasty
American cooking : If someone from Europe was your guest, someone with a sweet tooth, and you really wanted to treat that person to a special dish representing a genuine sample of your State's cooking, what would it be ? [more inside]
posted by nicolin at 11:26 AM PST - 79 comments

mouth off
I chew my mouth and I want to stop without using gum or other mouth foods as my main crutch. [more inside]
posted by WeekendJen at 11:21 AM PST - 12 comments

Should I get eye muscle surgery?
I have Strabismus, a misalignment of the eyes which causes double vision. It's a condition I've dealt with my whole life but which had largely only manifested itself during periods of above-average tiredness, fatigue, or intoxication. As I passed through my 20s and now into my mid 30s, the condition has worsened to the point where it affects me every day, and I want to fix it. I'm considering eye muscle surgery, but I'd like to hear some personal accounts as to the effectiveness of this treatment. Positive or negative experiences are welcome, as well as non-surgical treatment ideas.
posted by srkit at 11:17 AM PST - 13 comments

.
Looking for book and/or film recommendations for 2 young girls (10 and 8) who will be visiting the Holocaust Memorial Museum in a few weeks. As a sort of primer.
posted by edgeways at 11:16 AM PST - 27 comments

I want to know everything about cocktails: making, history, science, and theory.
I want to learn how to make truly excellent, craft-quality cocktails. What should I read? [more inside]
posted by faeuboulanger at 11:13 AM PST - 12 comments

Stop Chrome from adding extra tab when opening links
Help me stop Google Chrome (Mac OS X) from creating a superfluous tab when opening for the first time with an external link. [more inside]
posted by qwip at 10:51 AM PST - 6 comments

Letters to a friend in prison
How do I respond to an old friends letters from prison? [more inside]
posted by xarnop at 10:46 AM PST - 44 comments

What should I do about people who flake on me?
How to deal with friends who cancel on you at the last minute constantly? [more inside]
posted by melissam at 10:42 AM PST - 41 comments

How do I send automated text messages to multiple recipients?
For a community health project, I need automated capability to send text messages to participants' phones based on a specified schedule, content and sequence of messages. The volume would be in the range of 100 recipients grouped into 6 or 8 different categories (each category would receive a distinct sequence of messages), with perhaps 2 or 3 messages per day to each recipient. Any suggestions?
posted by pavi at 10:35 AM PST - 4 comments

Maintaining privacy while networking
Can I use LinkedIn and still maintain a modicum of privacy online? [more inside]
posted by moojoose at 10:32 AM PST - 5 comments

Student loans available for a student without a co-signer?
Student loans available for a student without a co-signer? Need a one time loan of $18,000.... [more inside]
posted by roxie5 at 10:27 AM PST - 20 comments

Ready, set, hesitate.
I was all set to leave my current job in two weeks to take some time off and work on my Masters. I need to call my boss tomorrow to resign, and I have cold feet. Help! Should I take the plunge? [more inside]
posted by Tehhund at 10:20 AM PST - 7 comments

android apps
Is it possible to develop personal android apps? [more inside]
posted by amsterdam63 at 10:17 AM PST - 7 comments

Cordial Exes
The friends of my recent ex-bf sent me an email invite to attend their monthly music jam session. My ex will probably be attending. I want to go, but I also don't want to make things awkward. [more inside]
posted by chara at 10:05 AM PST - 21 comments

Help finding a composition from an experimental film.
I can't seem to find out if a song used in a short experimental film is available anywhere. The film is "Tango" by Zbigniew Rybczynski. You can check the film out here. I believe it's from 1980. More details inside... [more inside]
posted by raintheory at 9:35 AM PST - 1 comments

Noob Camera Question
Camera Noob Filter - I like taking pictures and I find that I like taking them a lot lately. My boyfriend is in a band and I love taking pictures of their shows but I can't get great shots in low - light with my Sony point and shoot. Any suggestions on a camera that isn't the full-blown DSLR but not point and shoot that will give me great low light shots as well daylight shots?
posted by AngryLlama at 9:32 AM PST - 28 comments

Flea replica bass?
Is a replica of my dream bass made and sold anywhere? (It's Flea's [of Red Hot Chili Peppers].) [more inside]
posted by jitterbug perfume at 8:46 AM PST - 10 comments

Who is most likely to say this word?
Is there a web service that shows the geographical usage of a particular word from twitter? [more inside]
posted by seanyboy at 8:40 AM PST - 2 comments

DC breakfast for foreign tourists
Friends coming in to DC from overseas. Where should I take them for breakfast and sight-seeing before they can check in to their hotel? [more inside]
posted by Neekee at 8:23 AM PST - 20 comments

Do you recall the story about the almost perfect carving with one obvious flaw?
Does anybody have a link to an old story (or fable) about a great artist or craftsman who intentionally introduced an obvious flaw into each of his works (or maybe it was his greatest work) so as to avoid invoking jealousy in the gods? [more inside]
posted by bukvich at 8:17 AM PST - 16 comments

Pick me! Pick me! How do I do the employment equivalent of getting chosen for the team?
I am in the running to get a dream job. I just heard back from the place and it is between me and one other candidate with a decision to be made by the end of next week. Is it appropriate/would it be helpful to make one final pitch to my contact? [more inside]
posted by HonoriaGlossop at 8:07 AM PST - 4 comments

Protein BLAST
Eating lots of protein for depression, anxiety and mood swings? It's working. Anybody ever done this? What did you eat, and when? [more inside]
posted by Rocket26 at 8:00 AM PST - 28 comments

Help me buy a unique frame (or ten) online...
Are there any good resources online to buy unique picture frames online? Where else can one find good frames for 4x6 photos (or slightly bigger) for a large travel collage. I don't want to use the same frame more than once, and I'm happy to buy from several different stores. [more inside]
posted by evadery at 8:00 AM PST - 2 comments

Tooth issues - what gives?
What is up with human teeth? Why do they so often come in crooked, in the wrong place, or not at all? [more inside]
posted by yawper at 7:44 AM PST - 29 comments

Writers or artists who have killed.
Who are artists or writers who have committed murder? [more inside]
posted by fryman at 7:39 AM PST - 53 comments

What to do in Martinsreid?
I will be traveling to Martinsreid Germany, near Munich, in June. While my partner is at a conference I will have a couple of days to look around. This is my first time overseas and I'm pretty excited! Suggestions on what to do?
posted by haikuku at 7:32 AM PST - 6 comments

How can I be smart in buying smart pen as gift?
How smart are smartpens? [more inside]
posted by Postroad at 7:27 AM PST - 3 comments

A Matter of Appenstance
Creating, what I think would be, an extremely simple app that only does one thing. How difficult and where to start? [more inside]
posted by sandra_s at 7:26 AM PST - 9 comments

classic works, published in high quality
Tell me about high quality publishing! What does it involve, where can I read more about it and who does it? I’m interested in buying old cornerstone types of works like The Federalist Papers, The Origin of the Species bound, made, etc. at the best possible quality. [more inside]
posted by the mad poster! at 7:22 AM PST - 11 comments

Add Wordpress to Dreamweaver site? Or start over? Or something else??
I built and maintain a fairly basic website for my daughter's nursery school, and I need to know the simplest way to integrate a blog feature (to be utilized by the teachers), as well as a way to allow the school's director to make updates from time to time to a particular page of content without having to teach any of them how to use Dreamweaver CS4 (this is key), which I use to maintain the site. I am by my own admission more of a designer than a coder (the technical stuff is not my strong suit), and on top of this I have a pretty limited time frame in which to accomplish this. Other than hiring someone else to do it for me, can anyone offer suggestions? I thought about using Wordpress - either integrating it into the site as is, or starting over and rebuilding the site in Wordpress. But I haven't come to any conclusions yet (obviously!).
posted by missuswayne at 7:16 AM PST - 11 comments

Preemptive Strike
I have sixth months until I need to look for another job. Outside of keeping my resume and LinkedIn profile up to date, what things can I do in the meanwhile to strengthen my position with recruiters and potential employers? [more inside]
posted by jasondigitized at 7:10 AM PST - 3 comments

Gearing up for summer
I'm looking to replace my '70s vintage Schwinn 3-speed cruiser with a lightweight bike that would be more conducive to longer rides. It's an adorable bike and it has served me well, but I live in a walk-up building and schlepping it up and down the stairs is downright painful, and doesn't exactly make me want to take her out for a spin on a whim. [more inside]
posted by blackcatcuriouser at 7:08 AM PST - 4 comments

Help me find a good camp
Do you know of any summer day camps in New York for an inquisitive, science minded 11 year old boy? [more inside]
posted by RajahKing at 6:23 AM PST - 3 comments

Help me clean my couch
We have a two-year old sofa that looks terrible and needs to be cleaned. The upholstery is 100% light-colored polyester that looks like linen. The problem is that any water leaves a very noticeable ring on the fabric. Although we're pretty good about keeping food and drinks off the couch, we have a very drippy-nosed greyhound who has left dozens of little drip marks all over the cushions. Cleaning with water and a wet rag only makes the problem worse. I also tried using Goddard's Dry Cleaning fluid (a solvent), which just left a whitish spot. Any suggestions? Would hiring a professional do the trick?
posted by jrichards at 6:19 AM PST - 5 comments

FFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUU
I've got a nasty bit of malware. How do I get rid of it? [more inside]
posted by TheWhiteSkull at 6:18 AM PST - 15 comments

A theme that rocks ?
[Wordpress filter] I like the looks of www.rollingstone.com and I am trying to look for a theme that can get me there. [more inside]
posted by madeinitaly at 6:15 AM PST - 4 comments

Help me get cat to stop chewing fabric!
About a year ago my cat developed the habit of chewing on fabric. I can't leave clothes anywhere in his reach now, because anytime I do he chews on them (I have had to throw out many articles of clothing due to this.) My bedding is also full of holes, and I'd like to get new blankets and sheets but know there would be no point as long as he'd just chew them up too. I can't spray my whole bed with anything bitter, and I'd really prefer not to have to start shutting him out of the bedroom because he usually sleeps at the foot of the bed. What can I do to end this behavior? Help
posted by Zorz at 6:14 AM PST - 10 comments

A book about the tax man?
I've recently started using Kindle Direct Publish. During the signup process, they ask for all of my identifying information so that they can properly cut me a royalty check. What are, if any, my tax obligations? [more inside]
posted by thanotopsis at 6:11 AM PST - 3 comments

Can you identify this plant and help me take better care of it?
Can anyone identify this plant and help me take better care of it? I think it's slowly dying. [more inside]
posted by paul_smatatoes at 5:25 AM PST - 15 comments

Why does images look good on a computer screen, but a print-out even at hi-resolution produces images that don't look as good?
Why does images look good on a computer screen, but a print-out even at hi-resolution produces images that don't look as good? [more inside]
posted by gttommy at 3:50 AM PST - 21 comments

Well its not like the baby's head is spinning around on the ceiling.
How do I ease the process of tetrahydrocannabinol withdrawal? [more inside]
posted by hal_c_on at 3:37 AM PST - 17 comments

Researching 19th century India
I'm starting a novel set in 19th century India-- but I don't know where to start my research. [more inside]
posted by suburbanbeatnik at 3:08 AM PST - 10 comments

This COBRA is strangling me!
I have COBRA health insurance now, and while it's terrific, it's really expensive (almost $500 a month!!). I am thinking of dropping it and going for short term health insurance until I get a job with a group insurance plan. Is this a terrible idea? I'm an otherwise healthy young woman with no pre-existing conditions (that I know of). And, if it's not a bad idea, can anyone recommend a reputable company?
posted by caoimhe at 2:47 AM PST - 10 comments

Clean my bedroom!
After misplacing something important, I've decided I've had rather enough of my messy-ass bedroom... [more inside]
posted by Heretical at 1:19 AM PST - 38 comments

April 13
Blur me.
How can I achieve these beautiful blurred-background shots on my Nikon D40 camera with lens 18-55? [more inside]
posted by LittleMissItneg at 11:06 PM PST - 18 comments

I can't keep walking on broken glass
I need help with an employee who cannot stop breaking stuff. [more inside]
posted by AlliKat75 at 10:37 PM PST - 51 comments

Whaaaaaaa? Can it be TRUE?
Will Shortz' face as a crossword? [more inside]
posted by custard heart at 10:26 PM PST - 3 comments

I knew I should have bookmarked it...
Help me rediscover a long lost blog that had an awesome design. [more inside]
posted by Blandanomics at 10:04 PM PST - 8 comments

Where can I find cheap bulk 256mb usb drives?
Where can I get a pack of four or five 256/512 mb usb flash drives to be used as give-aways? [more inside]
posted by robobrent at 10:03 PM PST - 19 comments

Default pandora station
How do I get the default station pandora streams to you when you're not logged in, but it still knows your facebook account? Rarely I get it by accident but most of the time I just get a log in screen.
posted by Jasper McLean at 9:37 PM PST - 2 comments

Panic attacks while driving!
I am terrified of driving cars. I don't have much experience driving (lived in a large city and used public transportation until recently). I find myself thinking that I will get into a car accident every time I get into the car. It is especially bad on the highway, and I even experience shortness of breath and major anxiety while on the highway. Help! [more inside]
posted by Equiprimordial at 9:25 PM PST - 23 comments

Help Me Keep my Arthitis at Bay
My knee pain was just diagnosed as "mild arthritis." I'm going to be 44 in a month. I know losing some weight will help, and I'll go back on my diet to lose a few pounds. What have you done to mitigate arthritis in your own life? [more inside]
posted by maxwelton at 9:12 PM PST - 12 comments

Paying taxes as a self-employed person for the first time on 2011 income
Newly self-employed in 2011, I have a few (U.S., Federal) tax questions for experienced independent contractors or otherwise self-employed persons out there. [more inside]
posted by nanojath at 8:41 PM PST - 11 comments

i hate my tonsils.
Just had my tonsils removed. The liquid Vicodin I was given keeps wearing off every two hours. I can only take it every four. Help me prolong the pain-relief (and survive the next few days). [more inside]
posted by patronuscharms at 8:00 PM PST - 31 comments

50megs is runing my rep.
15 years ago, as a teenager, I wrote a fanfic about a sexual encounter and published it under my real name. One of the archives with this story has resurfaced on a new server, www.50megs.com, unbeknownst to the original owner of the archive. She's tried to have the page removed but to no avail; I've also been in touch with the new host of the site but have been told to just contact the owner - who no longer really owns it. What can I/we do to get this page down? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:40 PM PST - 15 comments

Discreet bar in PDX
PDXfilter: Can anyone suggest a bar in Portland, Oregon (far west part of downtown) for a discreet meeting? [more inside]
posted by anonymous at 7:39 PM PST - 6 comments

Pitching a Fit
What's a good program for pitch shifting a .Wav file? [more inside]
posted by to sir with millipedes at 7:38 PM PST - 3 comments

Green chile in my burgers, Green chile in my eggs. Green chile on enchilada. Green chile on my chicken legs!
Where can I get New Mexico Chiles in Philadelphia? [more inside]
posted by chicago2penn at 7:02 PM PST - 14 comments

Aloha bartender!
The Dr. Mrs. Strangelove and I's favorite late 20-something female bartender is leaving for warmer pastures (Hawaii from San Diego): what is a good going away gift for her?
posted by strangelove at 6:30 PM PST - 11 comments

I think my earring hole closed -- what now?
My ear piercing is closing after TWENTY YEARS? What do I do? [more inside]
posted by Eyebrows McGee at 6:29 PM PST - 25 comments

Need help IDing a sci-fi novel about the building of an interstellar transport network, a mean ship AI, and first contact with an unknowable alien intelligence
Can you help me identify this SF novel? Female protagonist is employed overseeing the construction of a transportation network into deep space. She has to deal with the ship's AI who is trying to turn her son (also a crew member) against her. They run into a very strange intelligent creature and try to figure out how to keep from destroying it with their gateway network, while also carefully monitoring the amount of time that she spends outside of suspended animation. [more inside]
posted by penduluum at 6:19 PM PST - 6 comments

help me find my happy medium groove
Dancing 101: I need to find my middle ground between grinding on guys and dancing like my grandma. [more inside]
posted by geegollygosh at 6:07 PM PST - 11 comments

If you don't have the wherewithal, you don't need the why.
Have you been able to convince employers that your transferable skills make you a good hire? [more inside]
posted by Nomyte at 5:25 PM PST - 16 comments

Help me understand the way the world works!
I follow politics and current events, especially international politics, fanatically. I know next to nothing about economic systems, philosophy (particularly political philosophy), sociology, and other basics of social science that could be useful when trying to make sense of the world, though. I would like to change this. [more inside]
posted by dcheeno at 4:46 PM PST - 26 comments

My Fore