Comments on: Random act of kindness

Question: Random act of kindness

HotPatatta — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 13:51:41 -0800

What item do you use all the time and wonder how you ever lived with without it?

I want to show someone special how much I care with a killer gift. Inspired by this essay, I'm in the mood to spend a bit of money on myself (aren't I thoughtful?) but I don't know what to buy. It should be something practical that I can use often, but it can be a luxury item or something cheap. I live in NYC, so I don't have a yard or much space to put something large.

By: Mngo

Mngo — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:05:53 -0800

I'm confused--is this for you or a friend?

On my body: a pair of sports shades with transition lenses that darken/lighten.
On my keychain: small cheap LED light.
In my bag/pocket: a really small camera (mine is the waterproof Pentax W60).
In the kitchen: a digital thermometer and a digital scale.
In the car (probably not your problem): gps.
In NYC: Google Maps for your phone; subscription tix to somewhere like New York Theatre Workshop.

By: HotPatatta

HotPatatta — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:06:09 -0800

Gah. "...how you ever lived without it" Obviously I shouldn't live without grammar checking software.

By: gnutron

gnutron — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:06:18 -0800

ipod. sonicare.

By: bahama mama

bahama mama — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:09:47 -0800

I don't know if this is really what you had in mind, but now that I have one I cannot imagine living without a kitchen sink garbage disposal! I love it, love it, LOVE IT! It makes cooking, cleaning up, and waste disposal so much easier. Just thinking about it makes me smile. I love you, my precious little kitchen sink disposal!

By: HotPatatta

HotPatatta — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:12:14 -0800

This is for me, Mngo. Perhaps you didn't get the memo, but whenever anyone on MeFi refers to "someone special", they're referring to me.

By: clearly

clearly — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:12:46 -0800

My girlfriend.

But seriously, my MacBook or my ipod car charger/fm transmitter.

By: mdonley

mdonley — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:13:05 -0800

A cool ceramic bowl (doesn't have to be fancy: something from Ross/Marshalls/a thrift store is fine, and no worries if it breaks) for spare change by the place you put your wallet when you walk in the door. $50 every few months is a great little surprise, and a lifesaver if you leave your wallet at work one day.

By: gaspode

gaspode — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:13:39 -0800

an immersion hand blender. But then again, I *really* like soup.

By: HotPatatta

HotPatatta — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:14:05 -0800

On second thought, they're probably referring to ThePinkSuperhero.

By: gwenlister

gwenlister — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:16:25 -0800

My really comfortable bed. I bought a new high end queen size bed last september and holy heck, what a change! Getting proper sleep is life changing.

Also, my immersion blender. Ridiculous how often I end up using it. I love it.

By: booknerd

booknerd — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:16:40 -0800

A really good garlic press. I absolutely refuse to cook at someone's house if they don't have one.

Prescription sunglasses were also an excellent investment, if you have bad eyesight. Probably not as big of a deal if you don't drive in the sun a lot, but they're priceless to me.

When I moved, I bought myself a memory foam mattress and nice new sheets. If you don't already have a really cozy, welcoming bed set-up, I think that's a nice gift to yourself.

By: gwenlister

gwenlister — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:16:53 -0800

gaspode scooped me! I should have previewed. LOL

By: Arbac

Arbac — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:16:55 -0800

A nice sized lcd hdtv with a computer hook up so I can use it as an extended desktop with my laptop. Being able to play divx's from my computer on the lcd tv while still using the laptop is amazing!

Oh ... and a deepfryer :)

By: sotonohito

sotonohito — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:17:21 -0800

Swiss army knife.

Not one of the insane ones that's as wide as it is long, just the boring type that has a couple of blades, a couple of screwdrivers, and a bottle opener. When I first got one (Christmas 1987) I couldn't imagine what I'd do with it, a few weeks later I was stunned that I'd ever lived without it.

By: ThePinkSuperhero

ThePinkSuperhero — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:17:28 -0800

A really nice down comforter.

By: katie

katie — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:18:37 -0800

Not sure if you cook, but I do and my two most valuable possessions are my heavy duty stand mixer (a Kitchenaid) and my big heavy Le Creuset dutch oven. I use them constantly and would hate to live without them!

By: jbickers

jbickers — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:20:02 -0800

My Xbox 360.

By: Cool Papa Bell

Cool Papa Bell — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:23:38 -0800

I think the key is to look around and what you use all the time right now, and replace that with something better. A good food prep item is nice (super powerful blender!), but what if you don't cook?

And there's nothing wrong with buying a super-comfy, super-expensive, super-long lasting pair of shoes. Or replacing all of your socks and underwear in one fell swoop (aka "the ubiquitous item reboot").

By: chaplinesque

chaplinesque — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:23:52 -0800

Maid service.

Trust me--it's better than any material possession. Nothing can beat the experience of coming home to an immaculate, clean-smelling house and sleeping on fresh out-of-the-dryer sheets with hospital corners. I would eat ramen noodles every day if I had to just to keep my maid.

By: Pecinpah

Pecinpah — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:25:58 -0800

For me, this essential item would either be my PAC bag, my Gerber lock blade, or my Sony Ericsson Z525a (though I guess any multi-function phone would do).

If stranded on an atoll in the Pacific, I'd take the knife.

By: Confess, Fletch

Confess, Fletch — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:28:36 -0800

A towel...

HHGTTG geek.

By: ClarissaWAM

ClarissaWAM — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:32:37 -0800

Do not currently own, but I give my vote to a really good quality bed.

There are many components you can spend loads of money on:
- good quality mattress (preferably latex)
- proper (slatted) frame
- bedframe with electric components etc
You can spend a fortune on your bed. Considering how much time you spend in it it's totally worth it.

Imagine sinking into bed every night feeling great, and properly looking forward to the 8 or so hours you're gonna spend in it.

By: Greg Nog

Greg Nog — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:34:00 -0800

For cooking: A silicon spatula.

For whisky: a nice glass.

Do you have a nice, durable, high-quality leather wallet? If not, consider that; it'll last for years and years.

By: Calloused_Foot

Calloused_Foot — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:36:11 -0800

A dremel. Also hand tools that are not from the dollar store (doesn't have to be pro quality, but Craftsmans or Stanleys after living with cheap stamped wrenches that were probably QC rejects at the Chinese factory are a godsend). And an Otterbox - my non-waterproof camera has been saved by one of these numerous times.

By: Calloused_Foot

Calloused_Foot — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:37:20 -0800

Oh, and if you have lots of things that use AA batteries, eneloops or hybrios or some other low-discharge Nimhs

By: Metroid Baby

Metroid Baby — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:39:08 -0800

Probably won't apply to you:
-My adjustable sports bra, good running shoes, and compression shorts.
-Addi Turbo circular knitting needles.
-Gingher craft scissors.
-Urban Decay Eyeshadow Primer Potion and a variety of eyeshadow brushes.
-Tweezerman tweezers - cheap tweezers suck by comparison.
-My Hitachi Magic Wand.

If none of those sound up your alley (not sure what you'd do with a sports bra or eyeshadow primer), I'd suggest a super-nice kitchen knife set. I use my knives all the time. Fantastic sheets/pillows, or a luxurious bathrobe, are also worth it.

By: not sure this is a good idea

not sure this is a good idea — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:40:21 -0800

took me a long time to think of something. it is hard to think of anything i use every day (apart from work equipment). but eventually I remembered my coffee maker. one of the bialetti rip-offs (stove top, aluminium, you screw it open and there's a funnel inside for the grinds). part of the morning ritual and it - or the coffee at least - is a real pleasure. to be honest, it's probably my third or fourth, since every ten years or so I melt a handle, or lose one moving, or something. anyway, there you go: a "stove top espresso maker" (it's not to make espresso; just strong coffee).

but I'm not sure you can go out and do what you want. we buy an awful lot of crap in our lives. i think maybe you just have to wait for the right thing to stick. what are the odds that you buy "that one thing" tomorrow? even with preparation, i think they are low. i never expected my first coffee maker to become a significant part of my life. maybe you need to look again and see if something is already stuck?

By: amicamentis

amicamentis — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:40:35 -0800

iPod, and in addition a transmitter so that you can play it using only the radio. Ideally it would charge the iPod as well. Those were indispensable on long car trips.

Also: a AA battery recharger, if you tend to go through batteries quickly. I have one from Energizer and once I got over the initial expense, it has saved me a ton over the year. The recharged batteries also seem to last longer than regular AAs.

An alarm clock that plays songs of your choosing instead of an annoying buzz or cell phone jingle.

Down-filled bootie slippers for the winter.

Containers to hold various things on your desk and in the bathroom.

A pair of really great-feeling underwear.

By: _dario

_dario — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:50:28 -0800

Last thing I gifted that very special person with, are a good quality shaving brush, soap and razor, and 15 minutes a day of self indulgence.

By: PatoPata

PatoPata — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:56:00 -0800

iPhone, especially now that third-party apps are available. It has replaced my alarm clock, instrument tuner, voice recorder, calculator, and a big stack of CDs. It also acts as a flashlight (extremely handy), notepad, calendar, address book, mileage recorder, camera, atlas, and music identifier (hold it up to the speakers and it can often tell you the artist and song). Plus I always have something to read, such as the complete works of Shakespeare.

I'd be really tempted by the maid idea, though. Really tempted.

By: _dario

_dario — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:56:55 -0800

Contrary to his adopted namesake, not sure this is a good idea's is a really good one, actually (and, Bialetti handles and pretty much everything else are available as spares here in Italy - memail as needed)

By: imjustsaying

imjustsaying — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:00:08 -0800

-TomTom One Auto GPS unit...

...has transformed me from freaking out when driving into unknown territories to someone who will willingly, eagerly, and enthusiastically drive anywhere.

By: junesix

junesix — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:01:19 -0800

A moleskine journal and compact Fisher Space Pen - they go with me everywhere and capture my thoughts before I forget them

A good tailor - who does perfect work, knows your name, and charges a fair price

For cooking, I second the dutch oven and silicone spatulas. And one quality 8" chef's knife - you don't need a whole set.

By: beccaj

beccaj — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:01:26 -0800

GPS and kitchen tongs.

By: DevilsAdvocate

DevilsAdvocate — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:01:37 -0800

A pepper mill. Doesn't have to be a fancy one. But the difference between freshly-ground pepper and pre-ground is night and day.

Seconding sotonohito on the Swiss army knife, although I do have one of the "insane" ones. In fact, I've used at least 2/3 of the various features on it at one time or another, so I consider the super-featured ones worthwhile.

Seconding booknerd on the prescription sunglasses.

Seconding Mngo and imjustsaying on the GPS receiver. (I do a lot of solo road trips)

Mini Composition Books for writing reminders to myself or other notes. Fits easily in a pants pocket, and unlike my PDA, I don't care if I put it in the same pocket with my keys, sit on it, etc.

Broadband wireless internet. (too obvious?)

Chaco sandals. I like the Z/1, but they have other styles too. The price may seem high for sandals, but they're worth it.

A high-end universal remote. I have this one. Again, the price may seem excessive if you've never had a really good universal remote. It's not.

By: roofus

roofus — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:02:27 -0800

No "stuff" is really going to change you life. Having said that I can nth, memory foam, smart phones, satnav, and hand blenders. The single thing which most changed my life is a good Athens Password.

[Afterthought: If you fly fish, go buy Roman Moser Leaders. They totally improved my casting in a way I never expected]

By: kimdog

kimdog — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:04:47 -0800

I am also going to vote for a really good mattress. Is there anything else that you use ~50 hours a week? If you want to really splurge get some really great linens too. Generally, I'm pretty frugal, but if I had the resources I could drop $5k on a new bed and linens easily. Truly, I lust.

By: dolface

dolface — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:05:24 -0800

maid +a gazillion, mine comes once a month and I LOVE those days!
sonicare
good kitchen knives
detachable keychain if you have lots of keys

By: Mitheral

Mitheral — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:12:52 -0800

A Leatherman Surge. I use it all the time. I was totally amazed how much more useful it was than the medium sized swiss army I used to carry.

By: Lucinda

Lucinda — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:15:15 -0800

count me in the iPod/sonicare camp.

By: mecran01

mecran01 — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:27:59 -0800

Leatherman Micra. I use it daily. Also, prescription glasses. My eyesight is pretty good, but even my weak prescription reduced my headaches.

By: diode

diode — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:34:27 -0800

An Xtracycle. In my former locale, I used to ride quite a bit recreationally and on errands. I hated carrying stuff on my back while riding, and panniers generally suck in terms of carrying real poundage, plus they're just not very cool to have on your bike, they sway, catch the wind, you worry if they're going to disappear and so forth.

I moved to a city where I knew I'd be on my bike everyday, so made my bike into a sport utility bike (SUB) by adding an Xtracycle.

An Xtracycle extends your carrying capacity by multiples over a standard bike frame. It's a frame that you add to the rear of your bike, extending the wheel backwards 14" and adding some high capacity bags. 4-6 bags of groceries, no problem. Lumber, cabinets, surfboards, no problem.

People are always asking me about it because it stands out in crowd, a bike with an X on the back. It changed my bike from being a useful machine to a pack animal on two wheels.

By: neilkod

neilkod — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:35:17 -0800

For outdoor work, the Grass Gator - it's a game changer.

By: neilkod

neilkod — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:37:49 -0800

Oh yeah, my road bike.

By: sveskemus

sveskemus — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:37:58 -0800

A really good chef's knife makes a hell of a lot of difference when you're cooking. I also don't know how I ever survived without an iPod.

By: carbide

carbide — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:38:28 -0800

Swimming goggles with prescription lenses. They cost far more than I could afford, but they are fucking awesome and I would have bought them years ago if I knew how happy and swimming-obsessed I'd be if I could see in water.

By: -harlequin-

-harlequin- — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:43:27 -0800

Cool Tools is basically a huge list of reviews of stuff that (for some people at least) meets the criteria.

By: bristolcat

bristolcat — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:50:02 -0800

A year after getting it, I find myself folding into the fetal position when I think about the possibility of having to give up my Palm Treo with unlimited data plan. You will probably opt for an iPhone, but anything that you can use to read e-mail, surf MeFi, access Wikipedia and read the daily news from the comfort of anywhere is a beautiful thing.

I also can't imagine living without a second monitor on my computer, going a month without a therapeutic massage or walking in my house without my gentle, loving kitty welcoming me.

By: cnc

cnc — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:53:13 -0800

My TiVo.

By: platinum

platinum — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:54:01 -0800

If you travel at all, invest in good, well-made luggage with a lifetime guarantee.* It doesn't have to be a whole set, in fact I'd recommend getting just one amazingly awesome carry-on and learning how to travel with only the one bag. I finally bought one great carry-on last year and it has entirely changed how I pack and travel.

*The lifetime no-matter-what guarantee can't be praised highly enough. It's worth every extra penny after all the crappy luggage that have gotten ruined after only one or two trips.

By: pluckysparrow

pluckysparrow — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:07:12 -0800

A rice cooker.

By: gemmy

gemmy — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:10:52 -0800

I'm in the iPod/iPhone/Palm Treo camp too. I can't even imagine living without my iPod touch, and I won't give it up for anything (unless it's for an iPhone when they stop their deal with AT&T).

The other thing would be a DVR recorder of some kind, in conjunction with an HD TV. Going back to normal TV is pretty painful at this point, as I only watch what I want when I want it these days. This might be way beyond your budget, though... ;)

By: limeonaire

limeonaire — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:14:42 -0800

A simple metal flip-top card-holder. $10 if you look in the right place; $20 for the geek version. This might seem gimmicky or affected to some, but I promise, it's a great way to keep your necessary handful of cards (a couple credit cards, various ID, a few business cards) on your person at all times, whether in a pocket or your purse, without the cards getting bent or misplaced. Never knew how useful it would be until I finally found a version for $10 at a local store and started using it.

By: Green Eyed Monster

Green Eyed Monster — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:15:57 -0800

two words:
Iron. Skillet.

By: hungrysquirrels

hungrysquirrels — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:17:40 -0800

- Leatherman Micra (swiped by the TSA) or my replacement Squirt P4 scissor version attached to key chain, it's come in handy more times than I can count
- Pepper mill
- Down duvet (available at Ikea for a reasonable price)
- Good quality knife(s) for cooking

/there's a number of other items I'd be reluctant to part with, but I'd suggest to go with something practical and useful

By: Magnakai

Magnakai — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:18:40 -0800

Things that I would miss terribly if they were gone:

SLR camera with normal-length lens (28mm on a 1.6x crop, 50mm on a normal one)
Acoustic guitar
Good quality electric toothbrush (Sonicare for me)
Good quality laptop
Decent (though cheap) chef's knife.

Each of these has made a real impact on my everyday existence.

By: twirlypen

twirlypen — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:33:08 -0800

Do you drink wine? If so, think about a couple of Riedel glasses. I used to think it was ridiculous- $60 or more for a wine glass? After I tried them though, I was sold. Any half decent bottle of wine in a regular glass tastes fine, then as soon as it's poured into a Riedel it completely opens up, you'll find flavours and depths you never realised were there.

If you don't drink wine, you could buy some for me?

By: yeoja

yeoja — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:44:24 -0800

cat + litter + wood floor = ROOMBA

By: lizzicide

lizzicide — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:57:08 -0800

My Sidekick LX, for all the same reasons as the Palm Treo listed above.

By: pearlybob

pearlybob — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 17:11:14 -0800

Nthing maid service. I LOVE my maid!!

By: saxamo

saxamo — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 17:25:23 -0800

Gorilla Glue. Seriously, I can't count how many things i've fixed with gorilla glue...

By: Succa

Succa — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 17:41:55 -0800

Thirding the Le Creuset dutch oven. It's coming to the grave with me.

By: Blazecock Pileon

Blazecock Pileon — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 18:05:29 -0800

If you love to cook, there's nothing more useful than a really good quality santoku or chef's knife.

By: jeremias

jeremias — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 18:22:07 -0800

Picking up on the favorited answers here, I see you sense you are knife-worthy. This is good.

You will not be able to live without one of these if you begin to use it.

http://www.chefknivestogo.com/masamoto.html

By: grapefruitmoon

grapefruitmoon — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 18:23:16 -0800

When I moved to Boston, I got one of the small Moleskine city notebooks in order to always have a map on hand. I never leave the house without this thing. The blank pages act as a catch-all for notes that I need to jot down, leaving my actual journal free for, well, journalling. The thought of life without a small all-purpose notebook OR a map of the city with me at all times is depressing thought indeed.

By: fogster

fogster — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 18:24:26 -0800

- Leatherman Wave, though it's a lot larger than the smaller one recommend up-thread. It gets used at least several times a week, and I'm not in a 'mechanical' profession. (I use the Wave and am quite happy with it, but they have some newer ones that look equally as spiffy.)

- A Mini Maglite. (Prices vary: don't pay more than $10.) Despite being insanely cheap, I'm impressed with it even after 2+ years of ownership. It's bright, it's light, and boy is it solid. (I've been tempted to buy a considerably-more-expensive Surefire light for a while, but so far the Mini Maglite keeps on impressing me. That and I'm cheap.)

- A good battery charger and a whole bunch of rechargeable batteries for it. I used to swear by my 15-minute rechargeables, but I just had one of them die prematurely, and discovered that the 15-minute chargers are apparently pretty harsh on the batteries.

- More RAM for your computer. My computer had 1GB, even back in the XP days when 1GB was still halfway decent. I bumped it up to 2GB, and the difference was amazing.

- I loved my Fisher Space Pen, until I lost it. The "it writes in space and underwater!" is obviously of no use, but have you ever tried holding a sheet of paper to the wall and writing... in vain? It also felt solid, looked good, and wrote really well.

- Really comfy stuff. I recently bought new socks, and am amazed at the difference between the new ones and my threadbare old ones. I also have a nice fluffy towel, which I'd been taking for granted for a while until I mistakenly picked up the wrong one, which felt like sandpaper by comparison.

- I know it sounds silly and missing the point, but getting rid of stuff I didn't use also made me feel really good. It's amazing how much of the stuff around the house has probably sat for a solid year without me picking it up.

- If you drive, a GPS. Once in a while it helps me when I'm lost, but perhaps the biggest effect has been on 'reassuring' me. I never though of myself as particularly nervous/anxious when driving through unfamiliar areas, but I'm sure a lot more confident knowing that, no matter where I end up, I can pull the GPS out of my glovebox and fire it up if I need to.

- An external hard drive to back up my (whole) computer to.

I'd nth a smartphone, but I think that's something you have to decide for yourself. I love my Treo to death, but will probably get an iPhone when the time comes. But it's amazing how much I rely on the thing. I used to have a cell phone and a PDA, but I usually forgot the PDA. Having it in my phone means I always have it with me. It syncs with Outlook (or other programs if you hate Outlook... as I do, actually...), keeping my contacts and calendar synced. It has a notepad which is a great way for me to jot down thoughts. Mobile web and e-mail is surprisingly useful, as is Google Maps. (Even without GPS capability in my (aged) phone.) I have an app to store all my passwords (encrypted), so I use nice strong passwords everywhere. (And keep a 'backup' paper copy... Somewhere I'm not saying.) It's also my alarm clock. Aside from clothing and furniture, it's probably my most-used gadget.

By: cocoagirl

cocoagirl — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 18:39:32 -0800

New England speaking: heated bathroom floor and heated toilet seat.

By: altcountryman

altcountryman — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 19:09:40 -0800

Smartwool socks.

Netflix.

By: zachxman

zachxman — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 19:10:53 -0800

Echoing GregNog and junesix that one silicone spatula (or more?) is a great addition to a kitchen of any level (and cheap enough to add on to your other luxuries

By: dobbs

dobbs — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 19:16:33 -0800

My single speed bike.
My commercial blender.
My food processor.

By: emelenjr

emelenjr — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 19:51:26 -0800

Old Bay Seasoning.

By: sunshinesky

sunshinesky — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 19:55:13 -0800

Exercise.

By: sunshinesky

sunshinesky — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 19:55:43 -0800

.. not an item...

By: crinklebat

crinklebat — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 20:52:55 -0800

One of those super-fuzzy robes from Restoration Hardware. I felt ridiculous buying it (even on sale) but after a week I was hooked. It's an extravagant robe, but for jumping out of the shower on a weekend morning in winter...it's perfect. My mom has one made from similar material that isn't from Restoration Hardware, but I kind of feel like the term "plush robe" could mean different things to different people. Why take a chance?

Oh, and Rainbows.

By: Happydaz

Happydaz — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 21:19:31 -0800

Cutco knives. I swear by 'em.

My iPod.

A well-fitting suit.

By: crazyray

crazyray — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 21:45:16 -0800

I threw away 100% of all of my socks, went to Costco, and bought 48 pairs of identical socks. This means that on laundry day, I do not have to match socks anymore- all I have to do is pair them up in any order whatsoever. Best gift I have given myself in years!

By: Zeker

Zeker — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 22:29:26 -0800

DSL Internet.

Because dialup sucks.

By: shelleycat

shelleycat — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 22:45:17 -0800

Really well cut, comfortable underpants. Don't look at the price tag, the good ones are always expensive. Instead when you find that pair that never bunches, never sags, never gives horrible lines, always looks good and just generally feels great wear after wear after wear, go out and buy a whole set. Like ten pairs or so, enough that you always have some clean.

I'd link the exorbitantly expensive pants I wear but they aren't likely to be your style. My boyfriend also has a few fancy pairs of Bonds men's undies which are amazing, and he loves wearing them. Fancy pants are so worth it.

By: ig

ig — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 22:56:06 -0800

a really really good chair.

a really really good pillow.

a headlamp.

artwork you enjoy.

By: fairytale of los angeles

fairytale of los angeles — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 23:23:33 -0800

You might not need scrip sunglasses, but polarized ones will rock your tiny world, if you've never had them before.

By: Foam Pants

Foam Pants — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 23:25:25 -0800

I have this footstool. I can't stop sitting on it. Right now I have four chairs in this room and I am sitting on this footstool. I carry it into other rooms when I want to sit in them. My dog comes and sits in between my legs and my chin rest just on top of his head when I am on this footstool and, when he wants belly pets, I can easily reach all the good places from the footstool. I use it for a table when I sit on the floor and eat supper. I use it to get my short self up to the top of closets. I have painted every room in my house with it and sat on it while I tiled my bathtub. I plan on being buried upright, sitting on this footstool.

By: mcbeth

mcbeth — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 23:51:57 -0800

Nice left-hander kitchen scissors.

It is the only pair in this home that never ever gets lost because only I can use it.

(Though I guess this one might not apply for you if you're a righty, but buy a pair anyway - it'd sure be fun to watch you try to cut through stuff using the wrong hand.)

By: Joseph Gurl

Joseph Gurl — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 03:27:01 -0800

All Piano, John Tilbury plays the music of Morton Feldman,

a good stereo (mine's NAD stuff with Acoustic Energy speakers, nothing too fancy),

a bottle of Laphroaig 15,

A Glencairn glass,

and a Siamese cat.

By: flutable

flutable — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 05:28:57 -0800

My swiss army knife. It's a champion.

I've...
* performed home surgery with it
* fixed electronic devices with it
* vaporised very small ants with the magnifier
* broken into offices at work (when people have forgotten their keys) with it
* cut things, reamed things, cleaned under my toenails
* the pliers have held, crushed and twisted more things than my tired old fingers remember
* cut things, sliced things, prepared many meals with it.

It's like an old friend.

By: callmejay

callmejay — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 06:29:53 -0800

Steelcase Leap ergonomic chair.
A great recliner.
A good pen.
Post-it flags for marking books.
UltraFire C3 Cree flashlight. Smaller than a MagLite and UNBELIEVABLY BRIGHTER.
Boker Wharcom. My favorite pocket knife.
Disposable contacts.
A keychain pill fob.
Custom orthotics.
Comfy shoes. (Nikes and Naot.)

By: nax

nax — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 07:01:26 -0800

Post it notes. My bro-in-law divides life into "BPN" and APN."
The internet.

By: misanthropicsarah

misanthropicsarah — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 07:05:20 -0800

nylon pan scrapers.

mine were all of 75¢.

By: InfinateJane

InfinateJane — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 09:18:31 -0800

As stated several times above, a lovely bed set-up. For me, nothing beats really, really, ridiculously expensive, smooth white sheets (always bought in the January sales, when they're more than 60% off, of course) and perfect pillows.

A Le Creuset dutch oven is worth every penny, several times over. I've revised my cooking skills just to maximize use of this gorgeous piece of kitchenware. I've lent it to my mother-in-law for extra-impressive brownie points. I made sure to get it back very shortly, of course.

A PS3. Yes, it's good for games - also for storing and viewing your digital photos and music. We also loaded Linux onto it and use it for group web-browsing (Hey, you GOTTA see this site! or let's plan our holiday!) on the nice big flat screen TV instead of hovering around the PC.

A pony and a castle. Well, I WISH I had those, and certainly would refuse to live without them once obtained.

By: bz

bz — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 09:31:16 -0800

Weekly massage therapy.

By: annsunny

annsunny — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 13:23:14 -0800

Stainless steel water bottle. I don't drink soda, and I use it every day. It's dishwasher-safe, too.

By: bradbane

bradbane — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 13:36:05 -0800

Leatherman - I use this daily.

A good chef's knife.

Mini Maglight

Computer stuff - Evernote software (especially now with the iPhone app), monitor calibrator (I have a Huey Pro), and a continuous ink system for my inkjet.

iPhone - I'm not sure how I lived my life without this. I never get lost, never eat at a bad restaurant, never overpay for something, never go without music, never forget things, and never get bored waiting in line or on the train. I can use it as a level, snapshot camera, a flashlight, a note taking device, calendar, alarm clock, timer, etc. If I had to choose one thing that I couldn't live without it would be this.

By: aarwenn

aarwenn — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 14:26:17 -0800

A coffeemaker with a timer. I have tried the stove-top coffee setup, and it's too many moving parts for me--and too hard to clean. I tried the Senseo, I tried a normal espresso maker. I finally got a coffeemaker--just the normal American kind of coffee--with a timer, after trying five thousand other things, and it has really changed my life. Suddenly, I'm a morning person! Mine was five bucks at the Goodwill.

Del.icio.us. I am on about five different computers as part of my day. Having all my bookmarks saved in one account is a lifesaver. Between this and the next piece of software, my life is so much easier.

Google Calendar. It sends text-message reminders to your cell phone. I put every appointment in it and I have almost never forgotten another appointment.

Big expensive item: countertop dishwasher. I had to get one of these because I live in an apartment, and even though it looks terrible in my kitchen, I don't care. It was completely worth it.

Nthing maid service, seriously great!

By: ozinn

ozinn — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 14:34:33 -0800

A really nice mattress, picked specifically for yourself. I had a pretty good one I shared w/ my ex, but after we split up, I went and bought a high-end, super thick pillowtop w/ some kind of memory foam hybrid filling that is just perfect for me. It's heaven, I love it.

The other thing...my macbook pro and very fast wifi. The ability to use my laptop from anywhere in the house including the deck out back = priceless. Never going back to a slow/glitchy/bulky Dell. No way.

By: not sure this is a good idea

not sure this is a good idea — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 15:31:55 -0800

it's too many moving parts for me--and too hard to clean

don't clean it, just rinse it out with hot water. it develops a dark lining of what i assume are oils and the taste improves.

By: mccarty.tim

mccarty.tim — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 09:59:33 -0800

My Aeropress has been very good to me. I didn't think I'd really be that enthused about a coffee maker, and sort of asked for it as a christmas gift so my grandmother would have something to buy and wrap instead of cutting me a check, but it was actually very nice and beat the stuff my mom's automatic drip maker, uh, makes. It's fast, tastes good, and is much cheaper than a coffee shop, and I find it makes having small cups of coffee over the day, as I like to drink it, much easier than using a machine and it lets one make mock-espresso.

By: gofargogo

gofargogo — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 12:36:20 -0800

I'm a nut for these kinds of threads! Ok, I'm going to interpret "can't live without" to mean "gives way more utility/pleasure than I thought it could"

1. Decent home espresso machine (Rancilio Silvia in my case) & cheap burr grinder.
2. Pocket knife
3. Ipod Touch/Iphone: OMG almost the perfect device for the digital side of my life. (bonus ++ with audiobooks and podcasts)
4. Good, well-fitted and tuned bicycle (lugged steel, and setup right).
5. Decent/good Chefs knife. Splurge on one good one, keep it sharp and throw the crappy knives away. (bonus points for a sturdy, heavy cutting board/block)
6. DSL.
7. multifunction bicycle tool. With that in my bag, and my pocket knife I've got more functionality than leatherman, or swiss army knife.
8. LED headlight, bought on a whim but use it many times a week (drop something under a desk? Need to find that box in the attic? Cats yeowling in the backyard at midnight and need to investigate?)
9. Learning how to make tea properly. This may in fact be the most important thing on the list.

By: radiocam

radiocam — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 13:08:34 -0800

surprisingly enough, my LCD screen.
always was a CRT type - but I didn't realize just how much the extra real estate would boost my productivity.
'swunnerful.

By: bend2squares

bend2squares — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 14:38:18 -0800

I'm going to second the Xbox 360, but I didn't feel that way until i figured out how to stream mp3's and xvid from my computer to my TV, or until I got some good friends on there and figured out how to do private chat outside chatting with the knuckleheads on xbox live.

Also Griffin makes an itrip that fits the ipod 4gb like a sleeve and has no wires. Don't know if it's still around, but it's perfect.

By: starman

starman — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 17:12:43 -0800

Bread machine, greasemonkey scripts.

By: ThirstyEar2

ThirstyEar2 — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 19:29:27 -0800

My Utili-Key.

By: ThirstyEar2

ThirstyEar2 — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 19:59:32 -0800

Also, in the way of PC software, Launchy. If you're on a Mac, Quicksilver.

By: nickyskye

nickyskye — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 21:00:02 -0800

Listed in order of best first, life is so much more comfortable and happy with it. All are quite affordable:

Crocs: ugly and spectacularly comfortable. The knock offs from Chinatown. $5.

Parodontax: A Dutch/German toothpaste, salty with herbs: incredible for reversing peridentitis. My mouth would be miserable without it.

Calcium citrate/magnesium citrate, never had such happy digestion.

Chromalux lightbulbs, "the closest thing to natural daylight".

Pantene Pro-V Deep Fortifying Conditioner

Telephone earphone for walking around/doing chores and talking for home land line.

Pilot retractable ballpoint black fine tip pens. Superb for writing and cheap.

Japanese back scrubbing cloth.

Zipper slide bags for food storage and traveling.

Rubber garlic peeler.

This vegetable chopper.

Swiffer duster.

Spray n Wash Laundry detergent.

Badedas: a shower never smelled so good.

Muscle Soak Sugar Salt Glow Body Scrub, washing in the shower never felt so good afterwards.

By: valannc

valannc — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 21:31:04 -0800

1. Simple Human trash can for the kitchen.
I thought it was ridiculous to pay so much. But it makes the kitchen trash chore SO much easier. And no smell when the lid is shut.

2. Aleppo pepper

3. Expert, carefully-chosen body-workers -- my chiropractor and foot reflexologist.

4. Really good insect repellent purchased from these people. The bug repellent is not on the web site -- you have to call. It's made of essential oils -- no DEET. It works great. They make it themselves.

By: WCityMike

WCityMike — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 10:04:11 -0800

The answer is very particular to you: think of something that's a perennial thread in your mind, and then think of something that will resolve that thread once and for all, so you can clear it out of your mind. This can be either big or small. A small example, this one from my own life: it's not unusual for my job to have me at a different computer every few days. I would constantly be leaving my thumb drive at a computer when I went home for the day. This wasn't a big thing, but it was something that was taking up brainpan space. I bought a new model of thumb drive that attached to my keychain. Since my keys always go with me everywhere, so does my thumb drive. No longer any need to have my brain remember that one little fact.

Or you could get a SwissCard -- Swiss Army pocket knife in card form. Has proven very useful.

By: dg

dg — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 02:55:48 -0800

My iPhone. Seriously, I've only had this thing for a few weeks, but I'm constantly amazed at how many things it helps me with (and up there ^ are a few more I didn't know about. I hate carrying stuff around in my pockets or carrying things and it lets me carry one thing that does so much in a small, surprisingly light package. Seriously.

By: Whaledriver

Whaledriver — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 01:36:31 -0800

I'm hopelessly addicted to my --

Wife
Sonicare toothbrush
GUM Eez-Thru super-slick flossers
Acoustic guitar
Propel "Mind" bottled water
Tempur-pedic mattress and pillows (replete with high thread-count bed linens)
Aircraft Inertial Reference Units utilizing GPS (now I don't need the sun or stars to steer by)
cell phone (far more sophisticated than Captain Kirk's communicator!)

Worse yet: my wife and I own two 19-year old Hondas that still look and run like they came from the showroom floor (we haven't spent more than a sum total of $500 for both cars' maintenance expenses over and above normal wear and tear): they will probably run the next two decades just as inexpensively. So in January we found ourselves in a position to purchase a new (2008) Acura RL in Alberta White Pearl with the Tech package -- and find that a 12-minute drive to the grocery store is a "quickie."