Can someone's standing be vitiated by honesty?
August 29, 2004 12:42 PM Subscribe
Can someone's standing be vitiated by honesty? For example, telling someone they are fat and need to lose weight?
posted by the fire you left me to human relations (33 answers total)
For a brief time I gained weight. One day I realized what had happened and through excercise and dietary changes lost it all, and now look normal again. Yet, through the entire one year period, no one came up to me and said, "you've gained a lot of weight." Is it so hurtful to present an honest view to another person?