I'd like to explode, but can't.
July 16, 2008 11:28 AM Subscribe
I'm a man and I can't orgasm. What can I do to remedy this?
posted by anonymous to health & fitness (18 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
I am a late 20's male who recently began having sex, and I am having a distressing problem. Namely, I can't achieve orgasm.
The first time my partner and I did it, I orgasmed, but since then, nothing.
I masturbated a lot through the years and have the feeling that this lies at the core of my problem. A vagina doesn't grip my penis as tightly as my hand does. I also masturbated without lotion or lube. Like a good boy, I've also been using condoms. As a result, the friction needed to make achieve orgasm isn't there.
Is there anything I can do to remedy this problem? Any techniques or toys that might get my penis more accustomed to the slippery looseness of a vagina? My partner assures me that her vagina is pretty tight.
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