Should i wait until he is ready??
July 10, 2008 8:50 AM Subscribe
He said he loves me and cares for me but is not ready to be in a relationship. He wants me to be a part of his life. Am i supposed to stick around until he is ready??
posted by SummerLove to Human Relations (55 answers total) 7 users marked this as a favorite
This is in continuation to my previous posting about "feeling like a rebound".
i spoke to this guy and bottom line is he loves and cares for me and wants me in his life but doesnt want a relationship at the moment. He does not know when he will be ready. He understands if i stop seeing him, but this is so utterly frustrating because i love this man and i do not want to stop dating him. But am i really supposed to just wait around until he is ready like a loser??
Although he is worth waiting for but i still feel pathetic doing so.
i do not put all my energy and attention towards him only, i have gone on other dates but nothing has ever come out of that, i lose interest or they do not get to me in a way that i would want to continue dating them.
i asked him about his ex and assured me they are done with but this doesnt make me 100% secure about us. He may be dating around, actually im sure he's dating around. I just dont understand men!!!! Should i just continue the way we are and keep my fingers crossed that he doesnt fall for some other random girl he may go on a date with?? or walk away b/c this may never go anywhere?? has anyone been in this situation or know of someone that has? Help!!