Comments on: Poems/songs about a geographically distant beloved?

Question: Poems/songs about a geographically distant beloved?

bubukaba — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:34:26 -0800

What are some good poems (or songs) about a beloved person traveling very far away (from the speaker of the poem/song)?

I'm trying to find appropriate things to read or listen to when I'm feeling all soppy about my boyfriend being in Syria for the next few months.

The only ones I've been able to think of are the words to Alasdair Roberts's rendition of the traditional song Lord Gregory and a song my mom used to sing, which is apparently taken from Tennyson. But it would be nice to find some others (and I'm sure there are many better ones out there!)

By: PFL

PFL — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:37:54 -0800

I'm a big fan of Brad Paisley's "I Wish You'd Stay."

By: Liosliath

Liosliath — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:38:09 -0800

Missing - Everything But the Girl.

By: Liosliath

Liosliath — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:40:03 -0800

And, thought it's not part of your original question - start researching phone cards. I have quite a bit of experience with long-distance relationships, and nothing replaces hearing the sound of their voice. (not email, not text msgs, not letters, nada.)

By: inconsequentialist

inconsequentialist — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:40:25 -0800

Transatlanticism- Death Cab for Cutie

By: Dee Xtrovert

Dee Xtrovert — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:41:33 -0800

Well, it's probably got the opposite message from what you want, but Bob Dylan's "Boots Of Spanish Leather" must be among the best songs about a distant love ever written.

By: cjorgensen

cjorgensen — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:49:37 -0800

"Fear of Ghosts" by the Cure.

"The further I get from the things I care about the less I care about how much further away I get."

http://www.amazon.com/Pictures-You-Fear-Ghosts-Cure/dp/B0001AVZZ8/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&s=music&qid=1215553693&sr=8-5

Probably not the sentiment you were going for, but still one of my 80's guilty pleasures and one of their best songs. Googling it tells me it's from a book by the same title, but no author is listed, so off to figure that one out!

By: fogster

fogster — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:53:38 -0800

It's got some profanity and is borderline rap, not sure if that's okay by you or not, but Fort Minor's "Where'd You Go" is an old favorite of mine. Here it is on Youtube.

By: peachfuzz

peachfuzz — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:56:56 -0800

Oh Danny Boy? Leaving on a jet plane?

Seems like this is a really common question. A lot of suggestions are pretty crummy - Nickelback, anyone? - but there's a lot to look through.

By: drjimmy11

drjimmy11 — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:57:33 -0800

Simon and Garfunkel, "Kathy's Song"
Bob Dylan, "Boots of Spanish Leather"
John Denver, "Leaving on a Jet Plane"
Wyclef Jean, "Gone til November"

By: sondrialiac

sondrialiac — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:58:03 -0800

Honey Pie by the Beatles is a little more cheerful riff on the same theme.

By: drjimmy11

drjimmy11 — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 14:59:35 -0800

this one is a bit obscure but great:

Queen, "Teo Torriate"

By: bubukaba

bubukaba — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 15:01:46 -0800

To clarify, I know that questions about songs are common - but I'm most interested in poems (though I included songs since those were the only ones I could think of myself!)

By: rmd1023

rmd1023 — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 15:09:11 -0800

great big sea's song "Boston and St. John's"

By: Bromius

Bromius — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 15:09:13 -0800

Donne's "A Valediction Forbidding Mourning"

By: Planet F

Planet F — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 15:20:00 -0800

"The Sky Road" by the Beggarmen

Celtic and very pretty

By: macadamiaranch

macadamiaranch — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 15:22:28 -0800

Penelope

In the pathway of the sun,
In the footsteps of the breeze,
Where the world and sky are one,
He shall ride the silver seas,
He shall cut the glittering wave.
I shall sit at home, and rock;
Rise, to heed a neighbor's knock;
Brew my tea, and snip my thread;
Bleach the linen for my bed.
They will call him brave.

Dorothy Parker

By: Fuzzy Skinner

Fuzzy Skinner — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 15:25:16 -0800

Here's several songs by The Innocence Mission. They may not be specifically and literally about your situation, but they embody the familiar spirit of longing. They are very poetic and beautifully sung if you can track them down.

Tomorrow on the Runway
Our Harry
I Never Knew You From the Sun
Umbrella
and, a little different take:
Black Sheep Wall

By: twistedonion

twistedonion — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 15:28:28 -0800

It's another song I'm afraid, but the lyrics are appropriate:

Swim to me through the deep blue sea
upon the scattered stars set sail
Fly to me through this love-lit night
from one thousand miles away
And come into my sleep
Come into my sleep oh yeah
As midnight nears and shadows creep
Come into my sleep

Come Into My Sleep, Nick Cave

By: NoRelationToLea

NoRelationToLea — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 15:39:49 -0800

I fully expected someone beat me to it, as Bromius did - but Donne's "A Valediction Forbidding Mourning" is my answer, as well.

By: rhizome

rhizome — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 16:11:11 -0800

Best ever: Colin Blunstone - Though You Are Far Away.

Though you are far away
I'm with you in every way
Close your eyes
You will see

Sleepy head so close to mine
And I'll whisper quietly in your ear
Close your eyes
You will see

If you're ever feeling sad, down and lonely
Think of me thinking of you
If you ever feel you need somebody close to you
Think of me thinking of you

So between you and I
Time and miles are not to cry
Close your eyes
And you will see

Though you are far away
I'm with you in every way
Oh, close your eyes
You will see

By: andraste

andraste — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 16:27:04 -0800

Seventeenth-century longing: Anne Bradstreet, A Letter to Her Husband, Absent Upon Public Employment.

By: doppleradar

doppleradar — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 16:34:17 -0800

nthing Boots of Spanish Leather by Bob Dylan. The lyrics alone may not properly convey how completely he can build a narrative over the course of a song.

By: bluenausea

bluenausea — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 16:42:44 -0800

John Donne, A Valediction Forbidding Mourning

By: hexatron

hexatron — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 16:58:23 -0800

Lots of folk songs, Celtic songs:

"Shenandoah," "Fair Thee Well My Own True Love," "Johnny's Gone For a Soldier"
Most of these have several versions.

Carrickfergus
"the sea is wide/I can't cross over
neither have I wings to fly..."

I'll try to think of some more, also poems.

Hexatron's Wife

By: platinum

platinum — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 17:01:12 -0800

One of my favorites:

Western wind, when will thou blow
The small rain down can rain?
Christ, if my love were in my arms
And I in my bed again!
~Anonymous, 16th century

When I was in college, my future husband lived 700 miles away. As a gift he gave me a beautiful book of love poems illustrated with classic artwork. (This one - thank you Google!) As a gift back to him, I kept a journal of our relationship while we were so far away, each entry starting with one of the poems chosen from the book. It was the only journal I've ever really stuck to. Aww, now I'm feeling all warm and fuzzy, I need to go pull that out of storage again and flip through it with my hubby.

By: klanawa

klanawa — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 18:00:27 -0800

darlin' be home soon, originally by john sebastian (youtube dropped the version of him singing it at woodstock). covered here by the barra mcneils.

tomorrow is a long time, bob dylan.

water is wide, old.

By: Mender

Mender — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 20:00:53 -0800

LETTER FROM SLOUGH POND
—Isabella Gardner

Here where you left me alone
the soft wind sighs through my wishbone
the sun is lapping at my flesh
I couple with the ripples of the fresh
pond water I am rolled by the roiling sea.
Love, in our wide bed, do you lie lonely?
The spoon of longing stirs my marrow
and I thank God this bed is narrow.

By: kirkaracha

kirkaracha — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 23:03:22 -0800

Dire Straits, "So Far Away"

By: tallus

tallus — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 05:15:24 -0800

Separation

Your absence has gone through me
Like thread through a needle.
Everything I do is stitched with its color.

-- W.S. Merwin

By: CiaoMela

CiaoMela — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 06:52:39 -0800

Ooh, one of my favorite poems, by Marilyn Hacker:

Rondeau After a Transatlantic Phone Call

Love, it was good to talk to you tonight.
You lather me like summer though. I light
up, sip smoke. Insistent through walls comes
the downstairs neighbor's double-bass. It thrums
like toothache. I will shower away the sweat,

smoke, summer, sound. Slick, soapy, dripping wet,
I scrub the sharp edge off my appetite.
I want: crisp toast, cold wine prickling my gums,
love. It was good

imagining around your voice, you, late-
awake there. (It isn't midnight yet
here.) This last glass washes down the crumbs.
I wish that I could lie down in your arms
and, turned toward sleep there (later), say, "Goodnight,
love. It was good."

By: CiaoMela

CiaoMela — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 07:08:00 -0800

Oh, and I know you're less interested in songs, but Joan Baez's Jesse helped me through a long-distance relationship, once (link to lyrics as I can't access YouTube at work).

By: perpetualstroll

perpetualstroll — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 07:46:31 -0800

My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean

By: Evangeline

Evangeline — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 09:05:01 -0800

Shakespeare's sonnet XLIV:

If the dull substance of my flesh were thought,
Injurious distance should not stop my way;
For then despite of space I would be brought,
From limits far remote, where thou dost stay.
No matter then although my foot did stand
Upon the farthest earth remov'd from thee;
For nimble thought can jump both sea and land,
As soon as think the place where he would be.
But, ah! thought kills me that I am not thought,
To leap large lengths of miles when thou art gone,
But that so much of earth and water wrought,
I must attend time's leisure with my moan;
Receiving nought by elements so slow
But heavy tears, badges of either's woe.