Feeling like a rebound..
June 25, 2008 1:00 PM Subscribe
In love with an ex boyfriend that i am currently dating, but i think he's still in love with his other ex gf, i feel like a rebound, should i stay or should i go? Help!!
posted by SummerLove to Human Relations (22 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
Basically we were together a few yrs back for about 2yrs broke up went our own ways and didnt speak for about 2 yrs, i had other bf's but never loved them like i loved him, he fell in love with another girl he dated for about a yr, they broke up and now hes back in my life.
But i know for a fact he still misses her and probabaly does want her back but doesnt go after her. i been hurt by him before i dont think i would be able to take that again. everything is great between us now, but im always paranoid that any minute now he will say "we need to talk, we cant be together anymore im getting back with my ex gf". i know he cares about me, but other than that i dont know what he really feels for me at the moment. Should i ask him? i dont want him to feel pressured that i want us to be more committed or scare him off, because i definitely want to take things slowly. But i also feel he is with me because he is trying to get over her somehow and that bothers me. should i wait a while and see where this keeps going and risk the chance of getting hurt, again!! or leave now?? i love him deeply, always have but i just dont know what to do anymore, i need to here other opinions besides friends.
Thanks in advance.