Guy sees girl in a bar... Then what?
June 6, 2008 11:38 AM Subscribe
How do guys meet girls in bars/lounges/clubs, etc?
posted by eas98 to human relations (39 answers total) 15 users marked this as a favorite
I know that's what's supposed to happen in these places, but, really, just how does it work?
Guy sees girl. Girl sees guy. Eye contact is made. Then...? Is the guy supposed to just walk up to her and say something? What?
I realize that I am shy by nature, but I can't imagine what the guy's supposed to say in a situation like this.. Yeah, I know, just say 'Hi'. Is it really that simple? And then what? Of note here is that I am very lacking in small-talk skill, but I am otherwise very comfortable in places like this and would like to develop some, for want of a better term, pick-up skills..
I'll be happy to hear input from guys on this, but what I'm really interested in is the female perspective. Mefi-females, what do you expect to have happen when you're in a bar/club and you see a guy you're interested in?