Should I have a heavy conscience?
April 27, 2008 1:27 AM Subscribe
Should I have a heavy conscience or is it none of his business?
posted by osloheart to Human Relations (23 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years. A year ago, we broke up for two months, and I was a mess. I had a one night stand during the breakup with someone he knows and doesnt like. It was a drunk and vulnerable situation and a stupid decision, and nobody knows about it. But it totally haunts me. A month after 'that night' he wanted me back and I was so happy I never told him. At the time, I went with the "he broke your heart and you werent together at the time so its none of his business" ...
So, I love my boyfriend, but I dont know if he loves me. He is very distant and I am not sure if we are going to stay together. I still feel like I need to tell him, but I am afraid that will be it and he will never want to see me again.
Im confused and Im sorry if this confuses you too. But I would really appreciate any advice.