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  	<title>Question: Is this a good idea for a counter-offer?</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer</link>	
  	<description>I interviewed for a job, all went really well, and I was told they would offer me the position, but I wanted too much money. So I tried to work some negotiating magic, and I&apos;d like input on my counter-offer and if other people have done this and if it works like I hope. My counter-offer is basically the max salary they could offer me ($7k less than I asked for), plus a list of concrete items to be reviewed in six months, where my salary will be increased by at least 5%. I haven&apos;t heard back yet if they are going to go for this, but I just wanted to get some input on if this was a good idea, if anyone else had done something like this, anything to watch out for, etc.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 11:42:32 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: kindall</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285747</link>	
  	<description>If they don&apos;t have the money now, what makes you think they&apos;ll have it in six months?</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 11:51:52 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: thomas144</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285748</link>	
  	<description>You could say, &amp;quot;how about this starting salary with a review after 6 months?&amp;quot;  When you say &amp;quot;my salary will be increased by at least 5%&amp;quot; what is the alternative?  You will resign?  Is that really what you want?  You don&apos;t give quite enough information, but in general, I&apos;ve always pretty much said &amp;quot;take it or leave it&amp;quot; to people who balk at a first salary offer, and I never think twice about it.  If there&apos;s a big disconnect between an employer and employee right from the start about the employee&apos;s worth, it&apos;s probably not a good match.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 11:52:19 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: zpousman</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285789</link>	
  	<description>I think getting your first review in 6 months as opposed to the usual year is a pretty good concession (and a big concession at a large company), not to mention whatever other &amp;quot;concrete&amp;quot; things you asked for (assuming hilarious business card title and great parking space, but that&apos;s just me). I think getting your first review in 6 months is you willing to make a bet that you&apos;re going to deliver a lot of value to the company that will become apparent in 6 months. So I think gunning for the 5% raise now is premature.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 12:20:59 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: ferociouskitty</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285823</link>	
  	<description>I don&apos;t think you&apos;re out of line to ask for a review in 6 months, but how familiar are you with the salary structure of the employer? What do you mean by &amp;quot;the max they could offer?&amp;quot;  Is the salary range for the position $X0,000-Y0,000 and you&apos;re asking to start at $Y0,000 and get a raise in 6 months? That may be impossible without a promotion. What is a typical, standard annual increase? For many employers, a 5% pay increase would be reserved for those employees who &amp;quot;exceed expectations&amp;quot; or whatever the performance review lingo is there. Are there other people in the company doing the same thing that you&apos;ll be doing? The employer might be uncomfortable paying a new, unproven performer more than the people currently on staff. If there is a lot of competition for this position, they may decide to go with someone who will be more affordable from the get-go, but if you find yourself to be undervalued from the beginning, that may create some problems anyway.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 12:45:13 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: JohnnyGunn</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285847</link>	
  	<description>I agree with thomas144.  Pick the number you are willing to work for and give them a take it or leave it (in a nicer way).  You will not be happy there if you are getting less than you think you are worth.  A 6 month review will mean nothing.  You still have to trust that they come through.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 13:09:05 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: Craig</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285871</link>	
  	<description>Nthing the take it or leave it scenario.  If that&apos;s really what you and the job are worth you need to pick your number and stand hard.  I&apos;ve actually tried the 6-month review with raise thing before and it falls through.  If they&apos;re not willing to spend it now to get you it&apos;s not very likely you&apos;ll get what you want later on.  Stick to your guns, unless you&apos;re willing to sacrifice for a really awesome job.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 13:29:31 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: misanthropicsarah</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285885</link>	
  	<description>honey, 5% is a huge freaking increase, and usually comes when someone gets a promotion. &lt;br&gt;
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generally when i hear that people can&apos;t get the salary they want, they say they&apos;ll accept the salary being offered (if reasonable) but they want X additional vacation days, or whatever. &lt;br&gt;
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except for the 5% raise at 6 months, i don&apos;t think what you asked for is unreasonable. but, their hands may be tied in regards to being able to review at a certain time. plus, 6 months isn&apos;t really long enough for a company to evaluate if you&apos;re worth an extra 5%.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 13:41:01 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: high0nfire</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285938</link>	
  	<description>Thanks for the input everyone. To me, 5% isn&apos;t a lot. My last performance raise was 10% and involved no promotion (not possible in my current working situation, part of the reason I&apos;m looking for a new job). I tend to kick-ass at my jobs to earn that kind of a raise. Right now my thoughts are that I&apos;m okay with the base salary without anything else. I really like the job/people/company enough for that. I&apos;m just waiting to hear what they come back with now. I&apos;m probably handling this all wrong as I&apos;ve never had to negotiate a job salary ever before.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 14:16:37 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: kristi</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285969</link>	
  	<description>I&apos;ve worked at places where they wouldn&apos;t give you a 10% raise no matter what you did - they had hard and fast rules about raise percentages, and there was no getting around them, even for superstars. I mention this only as a data point - some places have the flexibility to give more money to amazing employees, and some places don&apos;t ... and I&apos;ve seen some places that considered 3% generous, the best they offered to the best employees.&lt;br&gt;
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When budgets are an issue and I&apos;m offered less than I want for a gig I&apos;d really like anyway, I often look for other things to negotiate on - working from home, more/less travel, or more vacation time like &lt;a href=&quot;http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285885&quot;&gt;misanthropicsarah&lt;/a&gt; said above.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 14:44:48 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: winston</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1285983</link>	
  	<description>&lt;em&gt;I just wanted to get some input on if this was a good idea&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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Sure it is. If that what you&apos;re requesting is you need to get. If you&apos;re really willing to work for less than what you propose in your counter-offer, then you&apos;re bluffing, and the normal risks involved with bluffing are present.&lt;br&gt;
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If they read your counter-offer and decide not to hire you, how will you feel? If you&apos;ll be kicking yourself and feeling stupid, then maybe you need to rethink the counter-offer. If you&apos;ll be fine because you couldn&apos;t possibly work for less, then you&apos;re okay as you are. If it&apos;s somewhere in  between those two, then it depends on your tolerance for risk.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 14:52:30 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: mooza</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1286031</link>	
  	<description>When they said you were asking too much, why did they not put in a counter offer themselves - isn&apos;t that how negotiations work?&lt;br&gt;
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I realise this comes too little too late for you, but good luck!</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 15:28:22 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: ranglin</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1286043</link>	
  	<description>mooza: I think they did, and this is how he came up with the &amp;quot;maximum they&apos;ll offer&amp;quot; figure...&lt;br&gt;
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I agree with everyone else, that you could ask for the 6 month review, but you might have trouble with the 5% guaranteed pay raise (again, it depends on their policies with regards to performance reviews and salary increases... Why not ask what the standard policy/raise if at performance reviews?).&lt;br&gt;
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Also, why not ask for the short review period, but also some other stuff now that balances out your 7k shortfall a little (as suggested, longer vacation time, or a parking spot, or a company car (if possible) or something else)? That way you get something up front, rather than a promise that could ultimately fall through.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 15:51:12 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: gjc</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1286063</link>	
  	<description>Have you considered that they are just strong-arming you?  To see if you will fold and take their offer?&lt;br&gt;
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But I see no problem with the 5% guarantee, provided there are specific, measurable goals that go along with it.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 16:16:08 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: somanyamys</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/87216/Is-this-a-good-idea-for-a-counteroffer#1286661</link>	
  	<description>I&apos;m probably too late to be useful, but just for the record, it has been my experience that the whole &amp;quot;review after 6 months&amp;quot; thing is completely useless.  Evaluate the offer based on what they&apos;re willing to give you up front, and don&apos;t be swayed by promises of future reviewy goodness that will never happen.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 07:02:45 -0800</pubDate>
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